She definitely is which is sad cuz she's always been about love We need to give this Queen her roses now. She's not just talking sisterhood, she's walking it.
Monique is appreciated now. She is the only one bold enough to call it like it is and Hollywood and Lee Daniels dont want to be exposed. There is no REAL defense coming from Lee Daniels only what Monique did or did not do. She is speaking truth.
I have always appreciated her so I never thought about it this way until you said it, but you are so right. I just pray that she knows there are people out here who see how hard she is fighting and who understand how much it costs her to NOT bow down to the golden calf.
Some women.....need to take Monique's advice and be grown and adults about call your sister up, they didn't need to go the social media route like others have in the past....☕🐸
I agreed now if only these black women on these bullshit reality shows can take note and stop down grading each other callin one onther bitches n hos and why is it every so called reality star has a record contract or want to be a singer a rapper but has no cds out for sale.anything for 15nin of fame.
I love my boxers....Let me try to give you some perspective....We people of color feel the need to openly express pride about our "blackness" because the majority..... does the EXACT OPPOSITE. People of color are portrayed as less than, in every way. We are portrayed as lacking education, lazy, lacking ambition, incompetent, nasty, ugly.....the list goes on. We aren't acknowledged by the majority for accomplishments, often not even acknowledged as human, deserving of the same respect and dignity of the rest. When mass media covers "US" they usually show us being handcuffed, the ones who don't have a good grasp of the English language and so forth. It's therefore up to us to openly acknowledge that we are indeed capable and do in fact achieve in the same way every one else does. We are mature, ambitious, hard working, civil people. All we want is for the majority to accept that there's good bad and ugly in every race. What's tantamount however, is that we want the majority to acknowledge that WE BLACK people are just people, the same as the rest. Much respect!!
@@kellyannr4171 That was an excellent way of explaining it but the most important thing black people have to realize is that white people and those who are racist will NEVER accept you ,but they do need to respect you. The good traits about black people you mentioned , being hard working, mature, and all the other things are traits that should be "respected" however the reason they will never truly accept you are for reasons you have no control over. The color of your skin, your bilogical genes, are things the other reasons that spark racism. They will never accept you but they can and should respect you.
Monique got black balled but refuses to quit. I like her drive and I hope she makes a comeback and gives the middle finger to Fox, BET, and Lee Daniels while in the process.
Jamal, you were not there. People, especially black people, need stop blaming the white man unless they can personally speak on a direct encounter. And even then "name" the individual or group, i.e. that person who did the actual behavior or that business entity, instead of generalizing all whites or all white men. To generalize is bias and racists in itself. Racism can ONLY END if we ALL make change in 2017 (and going forth).
Again, were you there? All he said, she said. Celebs make deals with the devil and cry foul when it doesn't go their way. Since the beginning, Hollyweird has been one seedy business. Again, people have names. Like blacks don't like being grouped and blamed as one, neither do whites. Until this double standard changes, racism will continue being alive and well and victim mentalities being born and fed. God gave ALL OF US freewill. We choose.
And thats why Hollywood tried to Blackball Monique because she is real, uncut and understood that black actors and actresses need to keep eachother other close because the industry is not so kind
I agree. And also because she has a mind of her own. Lee Daniels and Steve Harvey said Monique wouldn't play the 'money game'. The game isnt for all celebs its for black celebs. They tried to keep her in a little box and she wanted to go her own way so she got blackballed despite her winning various amount of awards for her performance in the film 'Precious' its ridiculous. Hope she continues to remain humble and real.
YOU ARE SOOO RIGHT...MO'NIQUE IS ALL REAL..THE REST OF THE BLACK ACTORESS AND ACTORS ARE FAKE AS THEY COME...AND FOR GOT WERE THEY CAME FROM....I COULD NAME THEM....BUT THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE..TALKING ABOUT...(YOU NOT SUPPOSE TO SAY THAT)..WHY NOT WHEN IT'S THE TRUTH..... I LOVE MO'NIque. SHE'S AS REAL AS THEY COME...I KNOW CAUSE IAM REAL...LOVE YOU MO..HAPPY HAPPY HOLIDAYS ENJOY..
when she was talking about her husband and how she changes from mother to wife 'you upset my wife', that's exactly how my husband is and i love him for it so I know how much she appreciates her husband too
Kristin Wade ** The illuminati, gov, media promotes this for end time mind control and to make slaves out of non believers" of the Lords word - riches profit not in the day of wrath but righteousness will delivereth from death. proverbs ..... the Bible , describes how many will do corrupt things for P.o.w.e.r. all through the word of God, people quest for....... Power. to reign. Kings .... etc. ( wisdom ) thats unique is written in proverbs. Solomon was the wisest man the Lord had given knowledge too. ** the more you read the Bible. the more truth will be exposed to you. ** proverbs 11:22 As a jewel of gold is in a swine's snout so is a fair woman which is without discretion. , proverbs 15:17 Better is little with the fear of the Lord than treasure and trouble therewith. "" pvb. 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. proverbs 28:6 Better is the poor that walketh in his uprightness, than he that is perverse in his ways though he be rich. ....... amen ,, the word gives a clear example of what the end x's would come to. ( Bible ) that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, -- Philippians 2:15 ,, $ cannot be worshiped as the Lord Jesus Christ. when that happens lawless-ness and corruption. "" run wild .. Christ will return .
That's how GROWN WOMEN- GROWN PEOPLE have a conversation of disagreement of you hurt me blah blah. There's no need to "tear you down, I will read you like the best seller"... A nice tone of what the reasons of your hurt or anger. If you are mad that's fine really, but to go gorilla, I'm not cool with that... It's okay to argue but not to the point you are being abusive in speech.. I love me some Mo' baby.. That's real.. Whoever dislike this video clip doesn't understand, everything does not have to be petty. Stop watching reality tv and get in with the real life..
I know the conversation between Mo'Noque and Loni really hit home with the other co-hosts too. That sounded all too familiar, let's keep it REAL with our Sistas!! So Lovely!
Now.. This how sisters should hold each other down...Too much competition in the entertainment business today..I love seeing these sisterhood relationships especially in the black community. This was very inspiring.
This is a TRUE heart of love and forgiveness. Building one another up, not tearing each other down. Love her spirit. Go Girl. Amazing hair, make up and black dress. Mo'Nique you rocked it.
This was an absolutely beautiful exchange between Mo'Nique and Loni. Real women, dealing with real issues, displaying real sisterhood. We need a lot more of this in our world.
I love this. The media often portraits us Black women like violent, loud and crazy people. But this is how we really are. Honest, humble and full of love.
Awwww that was beautiful! I love to see black woman, come together and sort things out... without the drama! Beautiful!!! So happy your back Monique😘😘😘👏🙌
B Hutch She is blackballed. The industry gave her a bad reputation. Executives have problems with her because she’s demanding and outspoken in a profession where you can’t act that way as a minority.
I passed by monique in a park outside atlanta one day last year, it was me and my sister walking. We passed by each other that morning and she was walking and talking with her friend but she stopped her conversation to tell us "good morning sisters." I'll never forget how good and loved she made us feel inside. The whole rest of our day we were talking about how nice and beautiful and how great of an actress she is.
What an inspiring clip. Goes to show that the world needs more love and that conflict resolution should be a skill that is practiced in ALL relationships.
Monique's heart and spirit is just so welcoming. I love her so much. It is so good to see her in something again after that "blackballed Oscar" scandal.
It’s just something about Mo’Nique that I admire! She’s an alpha woman & it makes her so beautiful to me! I don’t care what the world says about her, she deserves her flowers NOW! Love you Mo!
Dang it, Loni! 😭 Dang it, Monique! 😭 Sisterhood is a beautiful thing. No matter what Hollywood brings, that Real, Respectful & Unconditional Sisterhood will forever remain. ❤ Beautiful.
Kudos to Mo"Nique for being mature and talking things out with Loni, like Loni said she could have easily been nasty to her but instead she showed maturity. Side note, how gorgeous does Tamera look with her curls?? Stunning!!
This is how black women should be. Before y'all go off on your RU-vid thuggish rant at me understand this...I've seen enough black women dogging each other and stabbing each other in the backs. I try and bring love to the situation, and SOME of those black women still react negatively. In a day and age where there are people debating about the non importance of us...our hair is too this, our body shape is too this...our attitudes are too that...we don't do this/that or the third....that's why black men don't date you... blah blah blah. In this day and time, we need to pull together and lift each other up. We don't need to continue with the crabs in a barrel mentality. Yeah, all women need to do this, but I'm not worried about all of them. All of them don't represent women that look like me or women from my community. With that said, sistas, please love each other. Help each other. Kindly but honestly correct each other. We've got enough going on that we don't need to be a part of the problem. We need to be each other's solution.
L MG I agree!!!! Thank you!! I'm the same way. Let's be WOMEN. And by that I mean be YOU! Nothing else, stay true to who you are and the best version of who you are even in the worst moments
why can't we just say wr liked the show and the moment? do we have to air our dirty laundry EVERY CHANCE we get? I see sisterhood among black women every place I look and it's beautiful.
I never gotten along with other Black women. And somehow, I still love my Sisters. Maybe because I understand. I know their pain all too well. And when I reach out to them in love, or even concern, they lash out. Why? 1) The air of mistrust in the Black community (in general) 2) The only time a lot of us hear a compliment is when somebody is trying to smash. 3) A lot of us were taught that if someone approach you in a "nice" way, they want something. 4) Also in the Black community, we tend to place more value on the external(materialism) than the internal (substance). That's where the competiveness come in. 5) A lot of us weren't taught HOW to love. 6) No one likes to be taken out of their comfort zone. There's no accountability among Black women. Bottom line, we have to trust each other. Not everyone has an angle. If they do, handle it accordingly. But in the end all we have is each other. We're all we've got.
Good day, Rae Carr. I'm confused, who was airing dirty laundry? For my personal comment, I did the same thing that was done in the video. They hinted at an issue that they worked out through communication. I commented that there are issues that need to be fixed and our community needs to fix them. To clarify my comment: I didn't say ALL black women, I said SOME. I also never said that this was all I came across either. I was raised amongst brilliant black men and women, I was born in the 70's and grew up in the 80's and 90's where every physician I went to was black. I had a family and many friends who communicated their problems with each other. That doesn't mean that everybody has the same experience. My experiences outside of how I grew up were slightly different. As another commenter in this thread said, many in our community were not raised to trust. It leaks out into not trusting each other or those that look like us. This is not airing dirty laundry, this is making it known that we must lift each other up. I refuse to smile in someone's face and backtalk them as soon as they turn around. Im here to be open, honest, and straight forward. The people that should be the solution for black women are BLACK WOMEN. Yes, I said it, black women. We must hold each other accountable and accept nothing less than the best we can give. I hang around like minded women, but my knowledge isn't just for them. I believe in being my sister's keeper because there are many little sisters out there watching us; reading these threads. I'm not airing dirty laundry, I think some in our community are doing a good job of walking outside with dirty clothes on themselves.
This is how grown, MATURE, women handle situations. You don't have to go to social media and resolve your problems... a simple phone call, private inbox, or visit will suffice. 💯
Couldn't have said it better myself! People don't realize when someone says something to you on social media and you say something back on social media, you just as bad as they are!
Monique has that ancestor love. ITS TOUGH and it may come off harsh but if you’re listening with your heart you can hear the love and correction. My great grandmother who is still living today has the same kind of energy as well. I grew up feeling like my grandma hated me or just didn’t like me and now that I’m older and seen how she deals With us in the family I just come to realize she was giving me tough love like when someone hugs you reeeaalll tight to where it’s almost uncomfortable until you hug back and the grip gets a little more loose and you realize they were never squeezing at all you just didn’t receive it.
loni has had so much pain in her life that her heart is softer than those white clouds on the sky! she is a true human-being with the soul! this show means so much to me, bcoz of the women like her. I love u Loni! your fans love u!
Please" Real Sisters "call your sister Tamar , Yall know she petty . But she needs what Monique just a sister to sister moment. man life is too short 💕
Oooh baby i know that at least tamera and loni have tried.. I don't know bout the other two... But they tried and she just didn't care to answer the calls and text messages... And i don't think they should kiss her ask and message her everyday until she feels like responding... So i would stop calling and texting her too...
Patience Mtembo but ALL of them have tried... Tamar should be calling them if she was so hurt about the situation instead of airing it out on social media , you don't think they tried , she doesn't want anything to do with them or the show anymore... That's Tamar's decision and they went with her wishes ! So Tamar is distant and not planning on talking about them or to them anytime soon unfortunately
"Y'all know she petty" lmao that actually does sound like something REAL friends/family say in a conversation though! It is sad to see that Tamar is no longer speaking to them, such a shame.
Tamar I hope you sit down and listen to this segment with open ears, your co-hosts did nothing to you... the producers fired you, it didnt mean you had to take your anger out on your sisters... they had no power to fire you and if they did they loved you and would have never done that to you. I know your angry tamar and when your angry you tend to ignore many things...
She will and Sooo all black women not to get caught in We cannot get along because we can..... That's what Satan and His demonic spirits true vile imps FEMALES and Males dooo..... We must Be careful what Others can destroy our Journey with Spiritual Growing Stronger With God in Heaven and EARTH. .... 1 Corinthians 10 :11-13. ....God will Never Blessings Evil INTENTIONS NEVER GOOONE MO WITH YOUR LOUD SELF INTELLIGENCE SPIRITS!!!!♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ WE PULLED PULLS AWAY BUT LET KEEP PULLING BACK TO THE ONLY ONE WHO IS HIGH STANDARD THE CREATOR WHO CREATED HEAVEN AND EARTH AND EVERYTHING IN IT BELONGS TO HIM
Monique is still one of best comedians/ actress to this day. Sometimes i dont feel she gets her recognition that she deserves. But I know her worth and she a beautiful strong sexy black woman. I always admire her. Dont forget the beautiful Loni too. She very very talented as well....and very very SEXY!! And love everyone on the show. Continue success.
this is why monique is great the industry can be cold especially when your black .monique is so understanding and respectful .she treats others the way she wants to be treated .
Monique is such a powerful and beautiful woman.. and when she speaks aaah! I miss "The Monique Show" *We love you with two sugars baby* haha #ifyouknowyouknow !
Such a lovely moment. Ya know, we see these ladies and my assumptions about them, but we really don’t know em. If was a beautiful thing to hear that conversation, it says so much more about them both! Thank you
That was so kind of Monique to give that good advice to Loni way back then....after listening to that!... I'm inspired to do better at wateva it is that I do doing forward
Classy and elegant and real asf is what Monique is. God bless her👏🏽🙏🏽 a lot of these rappers and celebrities especially the young ones can learn from her principles
