When a man marries, the wife is thought of as family. When a woman marries, the husband is thought of as a disposable utility; just another one of life's accessories.
You are damn right! By God I will not pass away decade's of my life to some ungrateful wrench, who'll probably be living rent free, bill free in my house, while denying me intimacy and lacking basic homemaking skills
I’m very lucky to have a partner in life who don’t take one another for granted,we talk,communicate and share good and bad times and I’m a very blessed man to have found a beautiful woman who has been my rock for almost forty years,hopefully those not in relationships for selfish reasons won’t ever last but some along the way will hopefully be everything your looking for
“All I need is a small bag of weed and a friend. A place we can go, where the beer is ice cold, and the women don’t care where you’ve been.”-Creed Fisher.
Women in the video: "Can we normalize being single and alone?" Guess what? It's already normal. It's not that you want to actually change anything. It's that you're addicted to Tictoc and are craving that validation to feed that ego and enable your narcissistic behavior.
Do women realize That single men go to sleep at night without a single thought about single women. We get up and move through life with or without you.
The difference is we are used to being alone. Women are not, which is why we won’t hear the end of their incessant whining about loneliness once the majority of men walk away or get an ai gf
As a much older single female I see a lot of older men that are lonely and wish they had someone to care about them! There are good men and women in this life and I wish people would not judge all men and all women on a personal experience they had! People are becoming so bitter and callous it is sad!
We have to stay away. It is a matter of safety. This feminism has changed men. We don't like it, but we are on the battlefield, and we KNOW our enemy and we know where they are at.
It's cringe yet at the same time hilarious how they assume that if they keep pressuring, shaming, blaming and guilt tripping, that men will cave in and start simping. No, keep driving us away faster, ladies..
To bad it’s a pipe dream , courts want your money and child support is big money for them , lots of court jobs we pay for , and the courts say yu bread her , yu pay for her , because the courts won’t ..
You realize all of this is a form of paternal surrogacy. Women have elected to make the government their father and husband. There actual partners are taking a lesser role in the hierarchy. This results in a team up against the man. In this set up, the men have to be emasculated or the system doesn't work.
@@jonkas4542 I've never owned a cell phone thank god. Dating is dead smartphones, stupid dating apps all hookups no more LTR has destroyed dating globally no looks or smiles anymore all on their cell phones 24/7 plus now they all stupid tattoos 80% are all low value women. Today women have replaced men with big dogs and to have sex with it, so gross. I'm 55, introverted, never married, no kids, got all my shit together 5.10 170lbs, don't smoke, drink or do drugs. We have turned into robots no one talks face to face anymore. I've given up nothing but trash out there. Our parents had it better.
@pookatim - Yep...we live in a culture that increasingly masculinizes women and feminizes men. Except that these masculinized women aren't emotionally or physically equipped to actually *_be_* men. So they're useless; they've failed at being real, feminine women, and they can't possibly succeed at being real men. Same is true of the feminized men, in reverse. And sure enough, the birth rate is declining. Men and women have forgotten how to be men and women.
Years ago I read in interesting article. A social studies teacher decided to try an experiment with her class. She cleared all the chalkboards and then she said she would like the girls to go up and write down what they wanted in a boy. The girls trooped up and down for a while, and completely filled all the chalkboards. Then the teacher cleared the chalkboards and said it was the boys' turn. The boys sat there for a while until one boy walked up and wrote on the board: "Don't be so demanding". After he sat down, no other boy went up to write anything down.
Really? Nothing about a woman's looks? I find that hard to believe since that's all ya'll care about. Ohhh, you'll say you care about more, but ONLY after you snag a hot one. Ya'll don't give average to below average looking women a chance at all, and then you cry when the hot ones just want to use you.
Guys, never let a woman move in to your house and never talk about marriage or a future together. If you do, you are 'married' and she is collecting evidence like time stamped pics, text messages, pieces of paper. No matter how little you have it can be halved along with your future earnings. Enjoy her company but leave it there. Be like those old sit-coms, the story never moves forward and the characters never evolve
Won't happen unless life gets harder and that means convenience goes away. Might be happening with inflation though. These fools won't grow up until life forces them too. They need hardship, and lots of it. Only way you get a generation of spoiled brats to grow up.
in 1997, I had a woman ask me questions for 45 min. on the phone before we could even have coffee, I gave her one wrong answer, and that was it, she was reading from a prepared list like an interviewer, wonder if she kept doing this, maybe she is still single!
As a man married for 8 years and losing my wife to cancer, taking care of her, I would do it all over again. It was a commitment to her, its called being in it for the long haul. With women like these out there, its damn frightening. Its going to be a while for me.
I supported my wife through nursing school and a pathetic attempt at nurse anesthesia. 3x kids. 4x dogs and 3x cats. Took care of her after a seizure, major surgeries, myocarditis and mental health challenges to be filed for divorce. I loved and adored her. I took care of most of the household chores. She also took my daughters with her and left my son and 2x of the 3x living dogs. She bought the dogs to be happy and then left tbem.
As a man we're built to take traumatic events... True story, I once saved two little kids and their mother from a burning building... just did it ...but when I went home hahaha I was like😮😮😮😮😮😮 oh my God I can't believe what I just did.. my boots were charred... my shirt was burnt and you know what that lady did... she saw me at my town concert and she was pissed off at me because I wouldn't let her go back inside and get her new stereo... She was actually pissed at me forever... It wasn't 60 seconds after I got her out the whole building went to flash over gone instantly... Her little boys were playing with matches on a bunk bed ... Thanks for triggering that old memory makes me feel good I forgot all about that one....🎉
I actually did something similar when I was in high school. There was an explosion in the middle of summer vacation and I looked outside to see our neighbor's house was engulfed in flames, so I tossed on a short, ran down the street and into the house looking to see if there was anyone inside that needed help. Got a bunch of 2nd degree burns for nothing, the house was empty. I did this as an obese teen that had never done anything like that in my life. I think women underappreciate a man's natural instincts to help and protect others in a time of crisis. All they think about is physicality.
Thank you for saving the kids, and the mom. Sometimes people are embarrassed by their kids causing a fire or some other thing, and use anger toward others to cover up their own anxiety. I served in Baghdad City, found myself in civilian clothes walking around town realizing that I had no idea why I would be out in town in cities by myself, felt a very strong spiritual energy. I decided to get back to base and saw 2 female DOD service members in plain clothes, drunk and drinking with a group of Nationals, preparing to get unto a limousine. I saw exactly what was happening and feigned drunkenness, jumped into the limo and made it to the compound in the limo with 5 men inside very unhappy with my presence. We were taken unto the house, 24+ men, me and the 2 women. I did remove the 3 of us, and both women were married so they have denied or remained silent about that night. I also went to Federal Prison for going back into a building during a service member against service member attack in 1995, dude with a gun in a bathroom attacking a man showering. My command was decommissioning and the Captain buried everyone. Shout out to the men that do the work and keep it honorable by not promoting what happened. Special Forces dudes need to stop doing podcasts and go put to work in law enforcement areas where understaffed areas are suffering. And I have my own resume dealing with Spec Ops, government and US Courts, so I'm qualified to talk about these things. My username isn't chosen as a joke, I really am Jason Bourne and I have all my legal documents that prove it. I simply don't need to be public, until now, because nobody wants to deal with stalkers or challengers. I respect garbage men, cops, anyone male or female that rises up to defend the weak or oppressed.
Funny- my ex wife dropped by and we talked about my 2 kids future plans. I told her the truth that both kids do not want to get married. I had to add "there is NO BENEFIT for the man to get married". Strangely she could not even disagree to that.
Im almost 53 yrs old, and happily married to my high school sweetheart. We have two kids and we have a home and land out in the country. My dating years were in the 80s and early 90s. It was a whole different dating landscape back then. A different world altogether. I try to imagine being 25 years old and single, in todays world. I look at how women look, how they think, what they believe, what they expect, how they communicate, and most importantly....what they think about men. There is very little that is attractive about modern women. It is rare that I can even casually get through a conversation with a woman under 45 in a work or social setting. I do everything I can to make that conversation end as soon as humanly possible. I know I probably come off as rude sometimes, but I dont even care anymore. I look at the young men that I know, and their relationships....or lack there of... and feel bad for them. And yes, there are things that are becoming culturally acceptable for men, that are stupid. Men often dont take care of themselves, get addicted to sportsball and porn, live at home with mom and/or dad playing video games etc... So yes men have work to do as well. But even if every man corrected 100% of those things today...women would still be the same, and bring very little to the table, in terms of spending a life together.
If a woman is a 4/10 or above she will never be without male attention. Hell, even the ugly ones can get a rotation of men. Make a tinder profile as a woman, it’s insane
@@sturmherooflance That’s not objectivity, that is very clearly a man who hasn’t been chosen and is bitter over it. It makes sense considering how he thinks. 🤔
You also have to face the facts. Today's women have just become way too expensive to keep around for their worth. Most don't have any sort of life surviving skills. It's just that most of them want a paycheck coming in. More and more men are sh*t full of being the ATM/ provider. All with nothing in return except a bunch of lip, disrespect, resentment, and unfaithfulness. Women have become a very, very poor investment. Way too much risk involved.
Damn, I got lucky. My wife gets great benefits at her job, though I do make more money. She can cook too. Dont get me wrong though, it is not all roses and rainbows.
As older man I have seen things go from traditional women to modern woman who doesn't need a man, nasty attitude, baby Mama's and proud. Unrealistic expectations. Sadly many many people will die alone because of this. Social media is the biggest problem.
uhhhh feminism and woke are to be blamed. women dont understand that they are way easier to brainwash compared to men, we question everything and everyone. women fall for the propaganda and brainwashing , they cant even see they are being led by a ideology.
I was with a girl for 10 years, 7 before I married her, and the 7 were lovely... let me tell you, boys and girls... she completely changed once I married her. She went from my sweet, lovely girlfriend to dominant, tyrant wife real fast. Any time she was upset, best believe divorce was threatened.
Ask women about a marriage license. If she insists on bringing the state into your relationship with her, then there is no place for you in that relationship.
I did dishes, cooked, some laundry, changed the kids diapers and worked full time with overtime. And I'm still divorced! No thank you. Also I was homeless for a year and a half while trying to finalize the divorce. While paying rent and bills so my ex and kids had a place to stay. No programs for White men.
I had a very similar experience, and 4 years ago made the sincere decision to never, ever get into a relationship with a Western woman again. And hand on heart, it's been a great 4 years! I'm relieved, chilled and enjoying my freedom.
Same I worked 3 jobs and still came home and did the dishes,changed the diapers, cooked, and anything else I could. And now I haven’t seen my kids in a year.
I'm 47 years old and never been married. With that being said, I have already given up on finding a spouse because of the gold digging and childish attitudes. I'm done and it's impossible now.
😂 The difference is women are at peace being single but you’ve just admitted to being so thirsty and miserable that you will essentially pay for company from abroad and a sprinkle of female attention. That’s something to be embarrassed about, not to brag about. 😬
This is cruel to bears. Make sure you tell the bears to watch out for… 1. Their cubs getting stolen 2. Their crevices/caves taken from them 3. Infinite extraction of his resources 4. Shamed by the female collective
@@andrewmackenzie325 😂 That’s the choice you make when you decide to start a family be it with just your wife, or kids too, which is why you should probably choose based off compatibility and values, instead of just physical attraction. You’re also partly responsible for what happens in your life.
U'll be disappointed. Women all over the world are fundamentally very similar with some differences here and there due to the cultural differences. Get ready to be "love" scammed in places like Thailand, Philippines, Columbia etc
If women today are lonely, they have only themselves (and feminism) to blame. You reap, what you sow. But the upside is that cat adoptions from the shelter have never been better.
Feminism is irrelevant here, because that essentially amounts to women being treated like human beings so if the only way you could keep a woman is by oppressing her, then I’d say you were the problem and it’s no wonder they prefer animals over you. 😂
I am a long time monk now. The longer a guy is single, the easier it is to remain single. If a guy is suffering being alone, he really needs to be alone until he grows up. Once he is comfortable being alone, in his own world, where he is doing all for himself, will he know the value of who he is, and how to set boundaries with future friends and women. Too many guys were brought up in soft homes and were never really challenged. They can let women run their lives, like their moms use to. Once you set boundaries, and hold your ground, these women only have one path, and if they cannot handle it, they need to be alone in their bitterness. And if some guys want to mess with bad women, they need to be rewarded with misery. Because these nasty women, who are becoming ever popular, will only stop being nasty when there is no reward in being like that.
Very true, after being single for quite some time I completely agree. This is the real cycle that's happening. We'll see how bad this gets in a couple years. This world is full of surprises, good or bad. Unfortunately mostly bad though and sadly due to selfishness.
Erin, you should not worry about us, men. Many of us have already adapted. We simply do not tolerate the craziness of those women, and more and more men are checking out completely. No dating, no relationships, and certainly no marriages. We are choosing our peace, focusing on our goals, working, and developing new skills, hobbies, and friendships. We literally do not care anymore about these crazy modern women. We have accepted it that we won't have our own families. You have a good heart ❤️ Thank you.
Actually married women are the loneliest and the most bitter, that has been statistically proven now. 😂 I think marrying men is the definition of stupid. 😬
I've been MGTOW now for over a decade and you'd think I was a rock star. My businesses have taken off, I finally fulfilled my lifelong dream of getting my pilots license, I bought my own plane( a Cessna 172) I paid off my house, I just finished a ground up full restoration of a 1979 Pontiac Trans Am. I do what I want, when I want, for as long as I want and I have total peace. No nagging, bitching, ungrateful, spiteful witch to make me miserable. Life is great!
The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Why take that risk? It’s become too much to ask. For men, dealing with western women is the same as getting a job paying 8.00 an hour and expecting you to manage the entire store, open to close, no breaks and no appreciation. Why do it?
Exactly. There are other things far too important to give a crap about what women do. Stuff like trying to prevent the current geopolitical crisis we're in escalating into a nuclear war. We won't be able to figure out any of these other problems if we get vaporized by an 800 kiloton bomb.
A perpetual state of emotional immaturity! Indeed! That describes things most accurately. They are insufferable and delusional. I'm a man with options. House paid, truck paid,and a small business owner. I would not waste a single minute pursuing a modern American women.
In a way I’m jealous of Chads, that being said they are just as broken as the females. The best life outcome is if you are happy and content being alone.
The juice ain't worth the squeeze. I know it's an old saying but it's so true. Women have so little to offer and the cost and risk is so high. Being lonesome is far better than being with a bad woman, especially a selfish feminist.
It’s so easy when you’ve been alone for a while to feel lonely and get nostalgic for a woman. These are the moments one should think of the times you were being mistreated for doing absolutely nothing wrong at all.
"rabbi, what will be the sign of the coming of the end of times?" "in the end, because of their iniquity, the hearts of many will grow cold to love" feminism is why.
Feminism has nothing to do with it, imagine hating women so much that you want them to be treated like slaves and not human beings. 🤣 Buddy maybe you’re the problem. 😬
I agree with you about feminism. However I believe there is more to it. I think part of the problem is that it is now acceptable to have the benefits of a marriage or relationship without the responsibilities of a marriage or relationship. "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free". Women say men are pigs and why buy the whole pig when all they want is a little sausage. People live together and don't get married because of getting the benefits of marriage consequently why take on the responsibilities of marriage. Years ago the father walked his daughter down the aisle at church and gave her to the husband. The husband took the good with the bad. Living together was not acceptable. The father said you now stay with my daughter for life, divorce or living together was a disgrace. You want my daughters hand in marriage? Well you can have it however you take on the responsibilities of marriage not just the benefits of marriage.
I graduated from HS in 2000. Even then I saw where women were going in America. I married a Chinese girl I met in college. No piercings, tats, drama, or obscene requirements. Here I am, approaching my 18th wedding anniversary. Our son is at the top of his class. I watch on as so many women that I knew in high school and others in general are screaming and crying about being lonely or single mothers. More than one has actually tried to talk to me even knowing I am married. It is really sad.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Read Rollo Tommassi's book THE RATIONAL MALE. Grow up. You are just suffering loss of kitty. She was never yours. It was just your turn. VVomen do not care about mens' lives. They have no capacity to really love any man. They use us. Don't fall for another.
This started decades ago.... I recall a young woman I knew telling me she broke up with a guy because he wasn't "handy" with repairs around the house. Now, it so happens that I am handy with home improvement. But I can't see absence of this skill being a deal breaker.
In my father's generation, men were handy because they had to be. If they wanted something fixed, they couldn't afford to pay somebody to fix it, so they figured it out for themselves. Handiness is a substitute for inherited wealth. Inherited wealth or earned wealth is a substitute for handiness. Of course, guys who aren't handy end up bringing "handy men" into their homes, and they tempt the wives.
Idk man, I fix cars got a living and I was taught how to fix just about everything around the house by my dad. I really believe that a traditional man should know how to do these things, that’s one of our jobs. I’d be embarrassed if I had to call someone every time the smallest thing went wrong with my house, plus the amount of money you save is massive. Nearly every single woman that I’ve dated found my ability to take care of things extremely important.
Years ago when there were dating classifieds instead of dating apps I read one where the women listed the qualities she was looking for in a man. The last sentence was "Must have backhoe" so clearly just looking to use a guy for a repair or construction project she didn't want to pay for... Like the OP said, this has been going on for decades.😂😂😂
As a Christian I know I shouldn't be happy the "modern" woman is feeling the way they are but because of the way they treat me and most men as a whole, they are getting what they deserve and gives me a certain level of satisfaction seeing it.
Don't know that are the only ones, but that is a sure fire way to set yourself up for wanting to "normalise" your failure to build a committed relationship.
It seems a lot of these women have trouble processing reality, despite seeing it every day. The first question you should ask single women out on the street is, why are you single right now?
There’s zero pressure on dudes to get married from their friends getting married. I’m in that boat. There’s literally ZERO pressure on me. Stop the cap
The only Pressure would be our moms. Though for me and my second brother that went away when our youngest bro got married and has two kids now. Thankfully his wife has stayed as she was but they dated since they were 17-18
Right. No-one ever told me I should get married, not even my parents. On the other hand: no-one ever told my wife she should get married. Married, yes, because it makes it easier to have kids and a house. Parents were angry though when we told them we got married secretly... weeks ago. Not much has changed: she's still my best friend after 38 years.
People will be surprised how far a little reciprocation will take them. It drives me nuts when family tell me to give them a call more when in fact, i have, but they never do. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black, but it just shows lack of authenticity when its all about you.
That was interesting when you said "they always have to be in charge". Over the last year, I've been watching a huge number of police body cam videos. Now, the videos that get uploaded are obviously selected for drama. But what is interesting is that a disproportionate number of these videos feature young women behaving badly. Most of these women act very aggressively, verbally and sometimes physically. They refuse to follow the cop's instructions and act like they are the ones calling the shots and in control. This gets them into trouble. They are arrested, then they break down and cry and throw toddler like tantrums. It is really disturbing to watch and it is amazing how this same pattern happens over and over again in so many bodycams.
The woman at 23:03 said if a man does her wrong, she will leave and write him off. So if a woman is late to a date, or is not ready for a date at the pickup time, then the man can leave/ghost the woman and have no regrets. Goes both ways Ladies!
She wants a man with sisters. Does she realize the nuclear family largely stopped having more than 1 kid about 10 years ago? She'll be lucky if he has a goldfish.
I'm a man with sisters and I've learned way too much from them to ever want to get married or serious with any woman. Believe me, you don't want what they're serving!
@@jkmarshall3553 I agree wholeheartedly with both of you. I grew up with four older sisters and let me tell you I've seen every kind of female behaviour, good or bad, x4 my entire life and it's eye opening just how despicable women can be, not just to us but to each other as well.
I am a fit, healthy, attractive 57 yr old male divorced 3 yrs. had two relationships since divorce both of whom decided i wasn’t right for them. Both have reached out to me several times since they discarded me. They obviously are alone and maybe realize what they lost? idk but i am single and content and confident and haven’t been on a date in 6 months and have no plans to go back searching for someone. I am just fine by myself and have no patience for the games these women play.
For women, contempt is an art form. Who could say a thing like this and not be a true artist?: "Men should be like Kleenex. Soft, strong, and disposable." -Cher
Women over 27 aren't getting picked to marry because they lack the requirements and skills/traits to be considered marriageable. *They don't get that they need to put in effort to become what men want.*
If a man is single but wants a girlfriend he will lift weights, lose weight, get a degree to find a good job and self actualize in general. If a woman is single she won't ever reflect and try to improve, lol. She will act like men are shallow for not accepting her as she is. Because she's a 10 even if she weighs 300 pounds.
The majority of women are initiating divorces because they hate being married to men, and more and more women are choosing to be single and childless because are men are not putting in any effort, so it goes both ways at this point. 🤔
I got a better one. How many women put on their dating profiles this?: "my hobbies include long walks on the beach, and hanging out with friends". Since when are those considered hobbies? Those are things everyone does. I could hang out with my other guy friends and have some beers, does that make it a 'hobby'? Now racing radio-controlled (RC) cars, playing music, cycling. THOSE are actual hobbies, ladies. 🙂
Had three women try and move in with me in my mortgage free house that I had to pay for (because of divorce) twice. I date them have adult fun with them hangout with them, let them stay for a weekend but I will NEVER-NEVER-NEVER allow them to move in with me! I know its been a deal breaker for a few of them but OH WELL!! But on the slim to none chance that a unicorn does come into my life I could loosen up my rules.
Actions and consequences. As much as women make motherhood a big deal, (every other mamal does it) I'm never going to sacrifice decades of my life building character and wealth to hand it to someone who loves making them selves useless to me and border line use me like a disposable utility
Thank you. You are a lovely sister in Christ. I was a missionarry and met a women in her late 20's she was/is most deffently anxious about hitting the wall. Lost my work as a missionarry cause I didn't gave her what she wanted and didn't reacted to her toxic games so much. God is my wittness. Atleast now I know what kind of women I want. A Proverbs 31, soft, feminin, carering women without drama and emotional baggage. Not married ones and no children. Young and Godfearing. A Women to build a life with and stands behind me. A good women, who can find her ? She is more worth then rubies ❤.
Here’s what was the norm: We dated for a year and a half. Got married at 23. Had 2 kids who have graduated college and are employed in their fields of study. We celebrated our 40th anniversary this year. My grandparents were married for 60 years, parents married for 47 years. Same pattern with my wife’s family. This is how a society remains stable. We’re experiencing a slow collapse because of lack of commitment and responsibility to the next generation.
With all the laws, poor attitudes, spoiled entitlement, manipulation, lack of respect, and lack of men's authority over women in a society that still expects men to be accountable for their women's actions (they sure as hell aren't accountable for their own).. there's just absolute zero incentive for men to get married. We love women though, and would love for you to fix these problems to restore men's desire to commit and spend their lives with you. The way things are now though? Ain't happening.
And in 90% of cases, women on their own don't make good parents. In hunter gather life, boys would join the rest of the hunters, and be taught "the rules".
That is so true about so many things in the world. My wife and I went part-time so our daughter never had to go to childcare and from when she could talk we explained the Golden Rule, treat others as you want to be treated. She's 18 now and I couldn't be prouder of her.
I went to an amusement park with two of my grandsons and their two friends. This band of young women kept following us around the park. The young women continued staring at them. I looked at my oldest grandson and said you know those girls are following you guys. He said yeah we know they act to silly for me and all they do is curse and I can't handle that. They make it so easy to get them and so if it's that easy to get them how many guys have already had them. And my grandson bestfriend said yep you're right on that one and all of them are a no for me. So, this is to reinterate what you said. The man establish your worth not you.
I'm 45 and The ball is rolling pretty good. Wasted 18 years trying to find a wife. What a joke that was. Now it's evident that the only position a married man is in is that of being compromised.
You’d probably like this old Jewish joke: A little boy tells his father that he’s got a part in the school play. He’s playing a husband. The father says this is not good and tells his son to ask the teacher for a speaking part.
