Woman with crying baby attacks and insults customer because she mentioned the child crying. Mother claims she has "right" to her "space" and that her "child is entitled to cry." . . Is she correct?
The mom has every right to be angry, it's disrespectful to be sitting at someone else's table and decide to ask her the "nicer" way to stop her baby from crying
Yes, it's a public place. Every customer has their own designated tables. It would be very rude to sit at some one else's table. She didn't have any supporters at all. We live in a evil and wicked society.
@@sophiasoosweet2 what? For acting like a lunatic in front of her kid? The mom needs to take care of the child first. She admitted she was letting her child just have a tantrum in a public space. As a parent, you do what you can to avoid that. You don't make the situation worse by freaking out in front of the kid. Was the lady that sat at the table in the right? No. But the mom was worse.
@@trafalgard.waterlaw7330 Your parents never taught you stranger danger. Your kids will be the ones to get kidnapped because you don't have enough sense to be aware of dangerous situations. You're too busy worried about a 2 year old having an unavoidable "terrible 2s" tantrum instead of being aware of your surroundings.
The mother was obviously right, like seriously? If some random lady comes sitting down at my table while I’m eating with a cHild then obviously I’d flip out
Anyone would feel uncomfortable in that situation. Especially after telling them to leave and they refuse. That disrespect should not be tolerated. I woulda swung on her crazy ass too
The thing is, they were both in the wrong. The woman sitting down violating her space and trying to parent someone else’s child wasn’t necessary, but spitting, cussing, and throwing punches around a child isn’t necessary either. It’s traumatizing for them. People just need to mind their own business and worry about themselves.
Right??like wtf is wrong with that blonde woman?It's already stressful enough that your toddler is throwing tantrum and some stranger does that to you. the people around her shoud have tild that blonde woman to get the fuck out of her table.
Do you have any proof the blonde one started it because beginning to end all I see is someone stupid bitch taking her over a table with her kid and race card doesn't work here sorry
I'm white n I hate ppl like this white lady. Looking like she works for the government or CPS or something where she's comfortable and thinks she has the right. Big ole giant beeeeeep
The guy filming really needs to shut up. The big lady that sat down was completely in the wrong. She was very rude. The big lady grabbed the other lady first. Unless she was hurting her child, butt out. Not your business. I'M ON THE MOMS SIDE!!!
I swear old lady's who is fat. (Not to be rude or anything) just wants to kidnap kids now and days. Bc they know that they can't have kids of their own.
Exactly, I’ve never in my life just walked up to a random kid and started talking to them like wtf I don’t care if they’re having a tantrum or not the parent was right there she had no business speaking to them in the first place then to keep sittin there after you’re already unwanted company is weird.
Fee B when a stranger comes to help as social worker, when there isn’t one, in a time of need. Who is gonna intervene. The kid is gonna grow up having serious issues with a mother like that. It’s like you didn’t analyze the situation, the kid was left alone with the mother ignoring his/her emotions. Causing a public disturbance. Only logical to come help, which is exactly the motive this lady had and succeeded. The authority came to let a person, who calls herself a mother, know of what effects she is causing to the public, and the child.
@@DrewMorpheus After investigation, they found out she wasn't a real social worker. She was just a random psycho lady who sat at her table because the baby was crying. Who the hell does that?! Even if she was a social worker, the mother was not asking for help. The baby was having a tantrum just like any other baby.
Not really if you think about she should be asking because sometime kids get abused so I strongly disagree with you. She also spit on the blond girl and that made me very mad so the women with the child is the one who is wrong
@@londyns.9905 Okay. All babies who have crying tantrums are being abused as you say. And it is perfectly fine for a stranger to come sit at your table to "help you" because your child is crying which again automatically means the child is getting abused. In that case, every single mother going forward will need to be investigated when their baby is having a tantrum. Now, I do agree the mother was wrong to spit on the weirdo woman. If the psycho woman was not intruding and being non compliant when mom asked to leave her alone, would she have gotten spit on?
Allen Lolly were u listening to it?? That random women sat in there seat giving advice when the mother didn’t need help cause she was ignoring the baby crying and when she told the lady to leave she didn’t and she was paying for the table
Itai Brown That was A self-defense move. The mom was starting to get close with her arms in that lady‘s face so her reaction was to grab and push her arm out of the way anyone can see that from the video.
Drizzy sicker The mother is such an idiot. All she had to do was go to management and let them handle it then the lady who sat with her would look like the dumb ass but because the mom decided to get loud and throw out profanity like crazy and spit on the other woman unfortunately she looks stupid and uncivilized. I feel sad for the child who has a mother who is out of control over what a table?
sksksk skskssk right? And he’s cracking jokes and acting like the blonde woman wasn’t the one who put her hands on someone first. Fat old white man for sure.
Just Be Moore, LLC ohh she bought that table? It’s a public area nothing like my space you gonna get on the subway in Japan and ask everyone to leave cause they to close to you? Yeah it’s weird af if other tables are available but sure as hell nothing illegal
Pretty Virgin Flaka it don’t matter if she bought the table or not the bitch had no business sitting at that moms table trying to tell her about her child period ... it wouldn’t be the same response if the lady just came to sit cause there were not any chairs but she literally only went over there so she could say something to or about the child she was wrong that’s it that’s all
@@prettyvirginflaka2345that sounds mad dumb cause if I am sitting there with my child and some random person come sits with me the gonna get called out. PERIOD.
"hAvE hEr aRreStTeD fOr aSsUaLt" stfu dumbass. that just some dumb shit just like wtf she did. you dont sit at no one else table public or not. smfh sounds about white
why the fuck does her race matter? Mental cases of all RACES exist or you think only white people have mental problems? what race is the other lady since you know so much?
@nique123 she wasn't fucking kidnapped. she chose to go in and eat there. Nobody has a gun to her head. SHE CHOSE CAN YOU UNDERSTAND??? Pull the victim card elsewhere
Nathan Gerrard when did this become mental? The lady literally sat down with her kid because he was throwing a tantrum if someone sat with my kid if I have any in the future I would have done the same thing
Honestly, after at least five minutes of arguing mom should just pack up baby and move to a different table if not leave all together. Personally I would have informed a manager or something to ask her to leave. She got mad and was more interested in fighting her point. Sometimes it's just not worth it. With that said, it lady followed me outside it's on. Buckle the baby in the car seat, leave the door open and whoop up on it.
True she sounds like a child abductor or some shit like that if she was sitting in my seat messing with my kid I would pull sum out immediately cuz I’m not losing my child
Aysha Monias really? That’s all you saw? I bet you are something really special. What I saw was a belligerent woman who cannot control her emotions in front of her child. That type of woman does not give a damn what she does or says around her child. But if all you saw was her being protective, then OK. I’m sure you’ve got your own bag of nuts to deal with.
GlobalMagicNation well I wouldn’t want some lady come sitting next to us randomly. She just wants privacy with her son but she just kept sitting there. Everyone may not be so polite but I see her view also not just the random lady.
@April Espinoza Fit or not common sense fact she should've got her big nasty ass up out that damn seat what purposes did she have on being there go ahead and answer I'll wait?
just because the lady couldn't mind her business doesn't give the mom the right to spit in her face and then attack her. How difficult is it to call a staff member over and tell them the lady is harassing her?
If that’s what you would like to do while you have a stranger sitting there at your table with your child and that person is trying to talk to your child that’s a problem. You go ahead and do that if anyone ever does it to you
Shana Lee lol really like she's just going to abscond with the baby while the mother is sitting right there in the middle of a crowded, busy restaurant. Yep you're so right, that would really happen 😂😂😂😂
The lady didn't just sit at the mom's table. The mom went to the salad bar. The lady sat at what she thought it was empty table. The mom came back and well you know the rest
"like she said it was a public place" okay but she was sitting at HER table with HER child eating the food SHE payed for , and a lady walks up and sits down and starts talking to HER kid and when ask to stop she countined like , i would get upset to tf .
Jolie Aranda That's not the point it's pretty disrespectful. If the restaurant was completely full and that was the only option them yeah that's fine, but you don't sit somewhere without being welcomed first
Shelia Hoyett EXACTLY omggg and the way she put her hands on her first like that fucking omg idk it makes me mad dude but how does she just ducking sit down and start eating and talking to her child like wtf is wrong with that lady??🙄🤦♀️
All these public hero's that are saying that the mother is in the wrong,I hope this happens to you one day and I sure hope Karma is ready and had someone Video it,and posts it on RU-vid will be the mothers best way to see those who didn't defend her,wish they would have.
3xx Xx. If she was being harrassed, she should have called the manager. You don't get arrested for bothering somebody in a restaurant. But you *will* get arrested for assault which is what that mother did.
Imagine this being a bus bench. A public place. She doesn't own the building or table she is sitting. There is no privacy in public. You don't want your child to interact with strangers don't take them on public areas.
Reading the comments makes really thinks something wrong with the world. We don't how it started but no matter what it was she has no right to spit and hit the other women, there is procedure to follow wtf
The moment in the cafeteria was recorded in what’s called the Albany Medical Center in upstate New York. I have ironically, actually sat in those same seats, and there is a plug so you can charge your cell phone right next to the lady on the right. Lol.
Gk nah ever heard of child predators 😖 ! She was protecting her child because that women could have tried to take her child when she wasn’t looking ! So back off that mom she was doing right
@@myab6667 No she acted like a fool. She spit on thay lady for sitting at her table (which was weird) but she exploded and the way she speaks is trashy and classless. End of story.
she is trash! uses color and a baby to take from others! The taller woman had food in front of her ! that's not defending the child That is using the child!
SHE AINT DEFENDING THAT POOR CHILD!!!! THAT CRAZY NUT CASE DONT NEED TO HAVE A CHILD, SOMEONE SHOULD HAVE CALLED C.P.S. ANOTHER WAYWARD CHILD!!!! CRAZY NUT CASE SO CALLED MOTHER PROBABLY AN ILLEAGAL ANYWAY!!!!!
Carolina Sanchez when a stranger comes to help as social worker, when there isn’t one, in a time of need. Who is gonna intervene. The kid is gonna grow up having serious issues with a mother like that. It’s like you didn’t analyze the situation, the kid was left alone with the mother ignoring his/her emotions. Causing a public disturbance. Only logical to come help, which is exactly the motive this lady had and succeeded. The authority came to let a person, who calls herself a mother, know of what effects she is causing to the public, and the child.
She doesn’t have the right to bud in someone else’s business 🤷🏾♀️ It’s the MOM’S responsibility to shush her child not some random ass lady’s , and the mom wouldn’t have reacted that way if she hadn’t cared for her child, she was clearly protective of her child and I respect her for that. Also notice how her tone softens when addressing her kid, that doesn’t seem like what a horrible mother would do.
AHmANI TILLmAN still she is not right for her child, I know how it is my friend had a fucked up mom like her. She dosnt go to school and she smokes in grade 8.
Yellow Jumper! no but you do realize that she’s not a messed up mom.. she ignored a temper tantrum and if u were a parent or have taken care of a toddler at any point... you would realize u never feed in to a temper tantrum bc then they think that they can get anything they want j by crying... as to ur friend I’m not 100 % sure her smoking has to do with her raising... I know kids who come from The suburbs w both parents and a good home life that smoke weed and drink and do all sorts of things... so that’s by choice not by chance
jade ac no you don’t bc it’s not ur business and u don’t know the child, bc it’s funny how you can tell ppl how to handle their kids when you don’t know them or the situation... if you don’t know the story stay out of it... cus u telling them to do something could make the child behave worse
Absolutely nothing justify violence and bad behavior , so I think she is kinda wrong hitting and spitting and even cursing just because she doesn't have the education enough to handle the situation politely
Spitting and hitting are assaults; these crimes should have been enforced! The woman should have been arrested, and her actions would’ve put her child in protective custody by the mother’s actions and poor parenting skills. You should not teach your children to spit and hit people who do not agree with you or sit in the wrong seat.
She could have been scoping that kid out you don't sit down at someone's table and start talking to their kid I was told as a kid you don't talk to strangers and it seems as though security are on the lady's side that set down the women wouldn't leave the table
i mean y’all can’t talk about someone’s behavior nor control it bc i bet she said it calmly like “hey this was my seat and ur sitting in it” and she probably ignored it so now she probably had to get gangsta on her.
This mom doesn't have any anger issues, seems like most people in the comments didn't understand very well. Lets get stuff straight. After what happened and the security arrived the mom said that she told the women to move out of her own space *SEVERAL* times so she *WAS* handling the situation gently until the lady decided to not move which got on the moms nerve. And when someone's child is crying, you don't just go and sit their like that's gonna do something. Like children cry almost everyday for the simplest/smallest things. The mom should've told the security about the lady. And the lady should've just mind her own business. The mom is wrong for throwing hands on the lady but, the lady is also wrong for not moving out of her space. You could see that both of them was uninterested in "fighting" but the mom had no other choice, she could've thought twice about it. The mom escalated the situation, but the lady started the problem, right, violence isn't the solution. They're both wrong, but the random lady should feel guilty for not minding her own business.
@@triss.2540 that sounds like a bunch of nonsense,.. there are children growing up in war torn villages who can grow up to be well adjusted individuals in society,.. One argument doesn't harm a child.. a stranger could harm your child
@@CarryTheThree that comparison is not even applicable in this case. What I stated came from studies about the detrimental effects of putting children under stress*. Don't bring the children of war into this. That's disrespectful and an insult to every children who are suffering.
NeckAffairs Accessories actually the guy recording isn’t breaking any law, as long as there isn’t a sign in the restaurant that states no recoding he’s fine
The mom should be arrested for assault and battery for swinging and spitting, i don't care about the seating or situation what she did was wrong. If you are worried about your "space" stay home.
When will people learn, you never poke mama bear when mama bear is with her cub? The mother, in my opinion, is absolutely correct in doing whatever she had to do to protect her child. A complete stranger comes and sits at her table where she is sitting with her child, and the stranger just starts talking to her child and continues to do so after the mother asked her to leave....yeah, I'm definitely on mama bears side.
@@DeygudBoyes it's not legal when you're interacting with a minor you have no involvement/or relation with you idiot😂💀 that's like asking a stranger to baby sit your kids, I pray you don't reproduce
@zim babwe You’re obviously under the influence if you believe this is anyway correct. Joining a table with a minor and a mother you have no involvement with is ABSOLUTELY WORNG, POINT BLANK PERIOD. My mother would’ve acted worse than the woman in the video
I mean you can voice your concerns or complaints about a child throwing a tantrum, but sitting at their table and refusing to leave is a weird way to go about the situation.
Tom Joad More than one person tried to get the lady to leave the table & the woman in the white sweater told her to stop instigating the problem and she refused to leave until the authorities showed up so Im having a hard time understanding why security or police didn’t pay more attention to her.
@@tomjoad4551 and I don't think the baby likes being without the mother. Because when the mom was stepping up to the fat lady and the other fat lady in the white shirt came over and touched his head he was like know who is this?? I want my mom like where's my? And that's why he started crying again and she was not even anywhere in eyesight. But okay
Exactly! So tired of over bearing people that think they have an input in your life and they dint even know you. Instead of hounding and staring when a parent is having a hard time with the child, be sensitive and try to help by making the child laugh or whatever but only if tje parent seems open to it..don't keep forcing your unsolicited help..dumb ass!!
It's America.. you can't tell somebody how to raise their kids...no matter how badly they're doing it. Then you just have to live with their kid shooting up your kids school or burglarizing your neighborhood. Greatest country on Earth!!!
Jason Paul umm it’s the other way around... your allowed to tell somebody how to raise their kid it’s the land of the free we’re are allowed an have rights to free speech as long as it’s not a hate crime or threatens life .. so any person in America can legally go up to anybody in America and practically say whatever the fuck they want with no punishment whatsoever cause it’s complexly legal. Called free speech
Absolutely! Absolutely! Absolutely! She lost control which was unfortunate but I totally understand it! The men filming must have been with that portly woman or ,well, I have no idea what's wrong with them! If that woman thought that that child was being mistreated or abused then she should have called the authorities rather than sit down and decide to start her own counseling session. What a joke of a woman.
The woman what sat uninvited down at a strangers table is not quite socially correct. The mother should have asked management to have the woman leave her table. Because spitting, slapping and punching someone is assault.
I cannot believe the people in this restaurant are blaming the mother for this altercation!!!! This infuriates me. What kind of person gets up from their table and sits at another's because their child is crying? And, then, refuses to get up when asked to leave? This is the very definition of the word ENTITLEMENT. You, ma'am are not entitled to insert yourself into someone else's life because their child is crying at a restaurant table and you have no idea why. That makes you a disgusting human being.
True NYC no it's not ok to spit on someone but she basically did it out of self-defense and her kid self defense to so if the lady did not go over there and mind her own bussines then she would be in that spot that she put herself in
amaara smith right and all these people in the comments faulting the mom is stupid. She didn’t have to spit on the lady but she asked the lady to leave and she didn’t. Idk why people attacking her. Just stupid.
Sujin • why is it stupid? What if she’s lonely, and just wanted someone to talk to? Many americans are so arrogant and scared of strangers, and THAT is stupid. The mom is handling the situation so wrong, and I feel bad for her son seeing his mommy like that. Absolutely disrespectful for her son, the woman, and all the other people in the restaurant trying to enjoy their meal.
Brittany Norman And you know she’s not a social worker, how?? She saw a child upset and crying and tried to offer some smiles and that means she deserves to be spit on and attacked???! If someone did that to me and my child I would say thank you for trying to cheer them up. Again only the Ignorant would side with the mom here. The mom also could have politely gotten up, taken her kid and her stuff and went to customer service if she REALLY felt threatened or that her child was in danger. If anything her child is in danger with her modeling that kind of behavior.
@@metalmommy7685 you obviously didn't listen. Clearly the lady said she was visiting someone there. It doesn't matter. If the MOTHER of a child asked you to not speak, touch, and to give her child space. You have to do it. The mother was obviously handling the child's tantrum by ignoring it. She proceeded to intrude and interrupt how the mother chose to deal with the tantrum and bad mouth the mom in the process which is a no no. If I ask stranger to move and not touch or talk to my child and they proceed I will take which ever action is neccessary. That is a STRANGER. You don't go up to people's kids without asking and receiving permission. To many people out here snatching and hurting kids. That's exactly why the authorities sided with the mother.
You gotta admit she cares for her kid, she picks him up and put him down gently even if she's hella mad. That lady had no business going up to that women and her kid. Totally agree with the mom, that lady was basically harassing her.
Doesn’t give the mom the right to act like a trashy bitch, spitting in people’s faces and screaming at the top of her lungs when people are trying to eat a fucking meal.
That big woman is mentally disturbed. You don't violate someone's personal space like that, PERIOD. Especially when they have their kid with them, and especially when kidnapping and human traffiking is a huge danger in this world. And for those ragging on the mom, give me a break. Her defenses to protect her kid kicked in, and she was fully justified in her actions. You don't want unpleasant behavior? Don't fuck around like that.
The Mother was wrong to assault her when she could have gotten a manager. If I was a judge I would assign DCFS to her case for poor judgment and endangering her child. I would remind her of the proper way to conduct herself as a mother with a small child in close proximity to a LARGE stranger is to get her child away from the danger, NOT escalate it. Clearly she needs to be charged with assault.
What got me was they all tried to jump on the mom.. “ R u kidding me.. in front of your baby,” yelled one lady.. meanwhile the lady who kicked this off is still sitting there as if nothing was weirdly wrong with what she did! Geez👽
What's so messed up is the idiot filming DIDN'T get the whole occurrence, that poor Mom was startled at that woman sitting at her table. Why didn't they question that woman?!?! Was she trying to take the child? What was her motive?!?! That Mama sat between her and her baby though! She may have been loud but she's a good Mom!!! And that Jenelle is why they went after the Mom, because that blonde woman sat there and never raised her voice.....crappy isn't it!!!
She couldn’t help but over hear the kid having a temper tantrum while the mother was making a phone call...am I the only one who caught that?? If your child is making a public scene maybe take it somewhere that people aren’t having lunch...or maybe just spit in someone’s face that’s cool too
Montae Hopkins good parents also Don’t let their children have tantrums in public and just act like it isn’t happening, Privileges taken away and time outs usually put a stop to nonsense tantrums. But again good parents wouldn’t be violent and aggressive around their child unlike the mother Is here, but just to say her sitting at the table is so over the top, this is what happens when two crazy people meet lmao
See I didn’t hear in the video where the kid had a tantrum and that’s why that lady came and sat there. Yeah not all moms are all pro timing out your kids or taking their things away or being their kid’s friend. I feel like that this mom is an old school “Ima woop your ass for being stupid.” Type of mom. Plus you hear her accent when she speaks, usually anyone with that accent has a background of some sort of violence. Did you notice how she squared up to fight that lady by spitting in her face. That’s a sign that, that mom was not raised like how you guys say a good parent should be. I’m not gonna lie, the violent type of moms are not healthy for a kid to grow up with but most of them with that kind of parent grows up to be a strong person. Some of those kids comes out as compassionate, strong leaders. But yeah that white lady had the self-audacity to intrude on the mom’s privacy or “bubble” like that of course the mom is gonna get defensive. Even if her kid is having a kid tantrum, you don’t ever cause more trouble by putting yourself in her bubble. It would makes sense if the lady tapped the mom on the shoulder and said “hey, can you keep your kid’s voice down, I can’t enjoy my meal hearing him scream like that, and I bet all the other customers here feel the same, would you consider letting me buy him a treat so he can calm down?” Something like that would make more sense than to sit yourself at someone else’s table and invade her ‘privacy’.
Mom was in the wrong when she spit at the woman. That's an assault in EVERY JURISDICTION. She was completely out of control throwing her hands around. However, the woman sits at mom's table??? WHY??? That's BIZARRE!!!! But you call for a server to have her MOVE. You don't go kung fu on her.
Unless the child is being harmed...people should mind their business. Don't mess with any parent(s) with their children unless the child is being harmed. You just don't do it. The actual shame is...we men should always step in to de-escalate any situation when women and children are in confrontations. To hear the guy recording and his friend call the woman a "B" and talk bad about the woman is cowardly. Where are the real men who de-escalate issues? Same type of men are police officers that kill people that look like that lady.
The mother is right the child 👏🏻IS 👏🏻GOING 👏🏻TO 👏🏻ACT 👏🏻LIKE 👏🏻A 👏🏻CHILD 👏🏻 baby’s are going to be entitled about their feelings because that’s what babies do
The child was crying and having a temper tantrum but there was someone else there with the mom. I’m guessing the child just wanted to be held but the mother needed to eat. White lady decided to make it her business to see why the child was crying and would not leave the mom’s table which aggravated the child even more.Mom went off and I don’t blame her.
@@madisonknight10 She did let them know. I seen the whole video. The Karen didn’t leave and the mom actually had to slap her because Karen got up in her face. Kudos to the mom. The public is for everyone!
