Mom Loses Daughter to Domestic Violence: ‘It Broke Me’ 

Because media and Police and Gov protects criminals

@@illi3s4dits he’s not a minor though

@@illi3s4ditshis name is Tyson Peters and he was 20 years old, not a minor.

@@elfia6272 oh I’dk then maybe because he died too so they don’t have permission

Facts!

Amen 🙏

Absolutely.

Yeah I don’t get it

Criminal protection 😮‍💨

Probably because it was a murder/su*cide. And his family may not have allowed it.

I know cases where who ever went along was killed also!

never go back for your belongings . if it is really important get police escort.

I absolutely agree

And never tell them you're leaving, get the police to accompany you, don't give any new contact details to the abuser...never be in the abusers company ever again on your own.

He was in my house hiding. I went to my own house with my Dad waited outside and called police. They showed up and took him to jail. That was 10 yrs ago. Haven't seen him since.

Yes 😢

Peter was a very seriously mentally ill man who was not able to love ❤️‍🩹 and yes, an abuser only gets worse over time 😢 terribly tragic.

@@sweetesthawaiianprincess8086No, he was just evil. Stop trying to make him sound like a victim.

@@MJ-gm7km Honestly, she should have run when she found out his name was Tyson lmao

@@MJ-gm7km how is that making him sound like a victim. It’s clear he’s not able to love and clearly mentally ill enough to also kill himself. That’s doesn’t mean he’s not psycho

Quit making up statistics. People also say the first 24 hours. Others say first 72 hours

@@franklinburk3314 In a missing person's case... this isn't about that

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@@tamarafranco384 she was missing b/c her momma could not reach her at first.

​@@4dyamondx745 I feel like that doesn't count as a missing case, by that point we know both of them were probably already dead which is why she couldn't reach her, and they were on their property/house, not somewhere else where they couldn't find her.

If it's that important to you I'm sure you could find his identity. I'm not sure why they hide his identity but I'm assuming it's so people don't find and harass his family who has nothing to do with it

America protects criminals better than it's citizens

Because he wasn’t convicted in court I bet . Red tape of our giant government

@@jarrodwilliams8033his name was provided, so you don’t need to see his face if you intend to harass his family. I just looked him up, saw his face and I didn’t think to harass his family. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@@MiniChickpea ok good for you , I was just giving a reason why they might have blurred his picture in the video .

Absolutely agree with you. In my opinion this is exactly what happened to Mica Miller, Suzanne Morphew and Anna Knezevich Henao to name a few most recent cases. May this young beautiful mother rest in eternal peace.

No kidding.

Most dangerous time is not having a Father to step in and check the bf for abusing his daughter 😮

So sad this reminds me of the Gabby Perito story 😥😥😥😥😥🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Petito

Yup they don't want you but they don't want anyone else to have you either

And yet the mom treated it like any other day. Instead of requesting a police escort for her daughter. Or even insisting that her daughter bring a male friend. Or at least stay on the phone with her the whole time...

​@@asun41966it is okay tho

So true

Ever!😢

Mom will have to live with that decision 😢

10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000%

But if the Mom didn't know the truth and only knew her daughter was leaving while she watched her granddaughter, she only had her feelings to go by. Not everyone is familiar with the hidden ways of abusers.

Police don't do a whole lot of anything especially about DV

Exactly, they should look into that!!! So sad and pathetic!

It’s not the police responsibility! Damn y’all want to defund the police and mind there business and also want them to be parents

Welcome to New England cops 🙄🤠

​@@javiruiz8365literally was their responsibility. They were probably already both dead though anyways.

personally I think it's about complex trauma and fear of abandonment and not having control in childhood and being subjected to violence, and that is what causes narcissism. and that being triggered. but from her pov she should have seen the red flags and left her things and just run. things you can replace. a life you can not.

😊😊😊

Yeah who tf can predict being murderer by your lover/parent of your child. Nobody.

@@Katherine_xs Some people can, especially if there're signs already, that's why they get the hell out of the relationships as quickly and safely as possible. He did not just murder her all of sudden, he already showed that he's a bad person multiple times

Oh get out of here. The red flags were obvious and she chose to stay with him

Really, we can TRY to stop it from happening, but sometimes we can not, BUT these stories really can HELP bring awareness. STOP jumping in bed with people so quickly, she got pregnant only after they hooked up a few times and THEN they started dating after she found out she was pregnant, women have a right to say NO!

Yea it’s easier said than done ma’am. As a women , and a survivor of domestic violence . You don’t understand until you’re going through it

⁠So true! I never thought in a million years I could be in that kind of relationship …… and then I was… It took 5 1/2 years to finally break free

Unless you’ve been a victim of DV you have absolutely no idea what a woman feels emotionally, mentally and psychologically as she’s going through it. Trust me. It took me 5 years to end it. And when you’re young it’s hard.

​@JDfaith2024 Yeah, her response was really annoying to read. I may not be a woman, but I have been in an abusive relationship before, and I know just how hard it is to leave a relationship like that. He isolated me from my family and friends, he made me dependent on him. I couldn't talk to anyone about what was happening, and when I tried to leave and break things off with him he'd get aggressive or threaten to kill himself or me. This all happened during quarantine, too, so I couldn't go anywhere and was stuck with him 24/7. Thankfully I was able to get away from him, but it was not easy. I can tell she has never had to deal with domestic violence because people who have never had a partner try to kill you tend to have the most to say.

Agreed

She was his possession. He wanted to control her. All that , If I cant have you, no one else can. 😞😞

EXACTLY IT'S ABOUT CONTROL !@@butterfliesarefreetofly6964

He didn’t love the baby girl either or he wouldn’t have left her parentless 😡

@@ROBINstrawBERRYwineI know ! That’s the most hurtful… ❤

Also, I finished the video and if they passed away, they will not show the face because some of the family members have not been notified. So they don’t harshly get notified by the news. Even though he is a killer

I am just so very proud and happy for you that you got away.

I understand when you say that the killer doesn’t deserve his face blurred I I think that the mother wanted his face blurred because I would have probably taken the attention off her daughter because the killer gets too much attention because of all the anger so that is my reasoning why the killer face was blocked off.

Meant to say it

@@FelidaeMumofClowderofFelidaehis family doesn’t deserve that dignity . If they werent notified yet its a personal problem

Got out of an abusive marriage 26 years ago with only 3 days worth of clothes and have not looked back.

If possible try to get copies of your and your children's important documents before you leave.

It’s because his family doesn’t want to be questions by the authorities and it would be shamed of

Duh this makes news! You think people actually care

It's out of respect for the perpetrator.

It's another way to shame the victim and prove that women mean nothing in the US. Hell, we couldn't even have a checking account until 1974, so why would we be considered an equal to an abusive man.

Riiiight??

Yep!

Mom’s not much better. There’s not a tear in her eye at all during this interview but she fake cries for sympathy for herself. She seems to be trying to use her own daughter’s death for attention for herself.

@@brian5oThe mom’s definitely getting attention but for her daughter to warn other survivors of what happened.

@@brian5oyou’re weird af

From the mom. You can't force people to like you and hang out with you.

:( I’m so sorry. You’re so strong and worth so much

💔

You're not alone

I’m sorry ❤

I’m so sorry to hear that I’ve never thought about the physical repercussions of abusive relationships. Like obviously bruising. But you just don’t realize it goes far beyond that.

Ehhhh

@@saveamerica2896was

​@saveamerica2896 was this comment really necessary?

@@bryn1063 no

@@bryn1063 she shouldn't have stayed

the child was at daycare. Why didn't day care alert someone when they didn't come pick up the child?

​@@sharondalynnewton7562The grandma came and picked her up. The daughter asked her to.

@@roach1395 It makes you wonder if the woman knew that she wasn't going to make it out alive and was trying to protect her daughter

Solace? The child is gonna grow up without a mother, because their father offed her.

@@sharondalynnewton7562 Why is it so hard to hear what her momma said, she said she asked her to pick the baby up b/c she had to get her personal belonging from the home they shared, so the daycare would not have a reason to alert anyone, the momma should have once she did not hear from her daughter

But she's prob regretting that she didn't just force her daughter to dump him. At least she would be alive

It hasn’t even been a month… I couldn’t hold it together as well as this mom did in this video .

Sometimes strict parenting is beneficial.

@@erinaa9486 She couldn't have done that. If she had pushed too hard, she could have lost her daughter altogether. When your child is doing something that you disagree with, you have to tread carefully or they will distance themselves from you.

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His family doesn't have that right. The police likely made the decision out of respect for his family, which clearly had nothing to do with the situation. If he were alive he would definitely be identified, but he's dead. Nothing can come of sharing his identity at this point beyond harassment of an innocent family. You people need to use your brains.

Awesome Mom. ❤🙏

​@@sawittwo No, she's NOT

Yes but she got a tattoo so that makes it ok. What is wrong with these people. Tattoos used to mean something and only certain groups had them , now you have all these casuals getting these tacky scrawls to remember their dead family members or children who maybe would not be dead if you were a better role model for them in the first place.

​@@jenniferyule8786Wow judgmental much, maybe step down from your high horse and have some compassion. God forbid this happens to anyone close to you or your children because that would be a horrible way to be humbled.

​@@jenniferyule8786 Tacky?? It's in memory of HER daughter!! Your comment is heartless and tacky.

@@saveamerica2896 okay troll 🥱

@@saveamerica2896you need help.

​@@saveamerica2896💀

​@@saveamerica2896you're not funny

No words 💔 😢

Yeah I heard that line multiple times. Just to make sure no one have her.

It's about control. The abuser doesn't want to lose power over the mate.

Like someone else said, it's all about control. Abusers want absolute control over you and will go to great lengths to achieve it. Their need for control stems from a desire to exert power and dominance over you. Controlling their victims gives them a sense of superiority. I was in an abusive relationship, he isolated me from my friends and family, so I had no one to support me. He wouldn't let me work, or drive, or hang out with anyone, he would regularly go through my phone to make sure I wasn't reaching out to anyone. If I tried to leave he'd get aggressive and threaten to kill me and himself in a murder-suicide. I was dependent on him financially and emotionally. He held all the control in the relationship and I couldn't go anywhere or talk to anyone. This also happened during quarantine so I was trapped with him 24/7.

Usually selfishness ngl I see it but ik what’s right from wrong 😂

This!

Yes 100%!!! Cuz he knows they can see through him that he is a narcissist

@@FoodieQueenBee yep and he wouldn’t get away with the bad behavior .

Let me guess the drugs we’re weed

And vice versa!

Whatever your husband taught them is a false sense of security. This is basic biology, no amount of training overcomes the physical differences between men and women.

Your daughter is lucky to have watchful parents like you and your husband. Keep it up! Someday, she’ll get her Mr. Right thanks to you!

I’ve always introduced myself to people’s parents, even just my friends. It’s a sign of respect that is mutual. I even give them my number in case they need to get a hold of me.

I'm not sure your first two sentences came out how you wanted them to, but we get the meaning.

Yes you have to leave in silence. And also, I had to trick the man I was with. I smiled and tricked him into thinking I was so happy to be with him and that I loved him, and then one day I left and never talked to him again. I am lucky I survived. So many women don’t.

Yup, I planned my escape in silence for a year… it was the only reason I made it out alive and I barely did.

@@TiffTheTyrantyup. Rejection is what sets them off. Stockholm is actually the Minds way of protecting us, subconsciously.

You had more than one abuser?

Boss to coworker abuse isn't domestic.

Domestic.. cannot be a boss or coworker nope

@@Katherine_xswhatever. The original commenter still makes a good point.

do you know what ‘domestic’ means?

WRONG!!! When my ex said she was breaking up with me. I happily told her to carry her ass somewhere else and anther unfortunate fool.

@@BOYBROU It is for we women in a domestic violence situation which is what this video is about. If you're not an abuser then obviously it won't apply to you.

​@@BOYBROU...

@@BOYBROUdid you watch the video?

​@@V.E.R.O.😅😅

All of you wanted to defund the police!!! All of you democrats where part of it and said to mind there business! Now you want police to care 🙄🙄🙄

Cops tend to be useless most of the time

Yes, a real man would never, always the cowards.

What changed your mind to leave? Can you share?

Hey I am sure you may know this but I'm case you don't, statistically this is actually the most dangerous time for you so PLEASE PLEASE be safe and always have someone know your location. At all times. I'm sending you so much love. 💚💚💚💚💚💚

CONGRATS🎉🎉🎉 HOT GIRL SUMMER😂❤

So glad you guys 6 safe, keep reaching out to others. 🙏🕊️

Damn

I have a friend....he runs the other way when women talk about marriage and having babies. I don't blame him 😂

How do you know you dated this guy? His face is blurred.

Good for you, atleast you didn't try to fix him, we can't be a therapist or nurse to these broken men, they need professional help and that don't always work either.

What if the loser in the relationship is the lady?

@@franklinburk3314 Not relevant at all.

@@123darkpassengerI mean he gots a point. This is a topic of discussion often ignored.

@@Microwavedpuppieshow is it relevant to this topic?

Great advice, but teenagers don’t have the discernment of full developed adults. This girl didn’t have any men to protect her.

Thank you for helping but also talk to your daughter about not accepting that as normal ❤

@@erinaa9486 I’ve talked to her many times and she has witnessed it.

No sympathy. Her own bad choices.

​@@MadeMeSmile1 you're horrible. just because you haven't been in the same situation doesn't mean you can judge their choices, you don't know their life and what they went through, someone died and you feel the need to say this? disgusting, seriously.

this needs to be a top, pinned comment!!! 💯👏💕✨

But she didn’t survive. 😢

🤔🧐 **insert confusing math gif here**

she aint a survivior lmao LOL

@@d-uz9vr that’s funny to you?

OMG that is HORRIBLE! I am SO sorry for your loss! :(

I thought dating came first, then intimacy. I am so old-fashioned.

single mom that what happens when dad is not around.

Stop acting like you're better than everybody else all of you should be ashamed of your comments 🙄 things happen

​@@abcwarrior91and? Your point?

Here you go trying to find fault in anyone but the bf 😔

what does that mean though? she was guiding and advising her daughter out of the situation. she doesn't have legal rights over her once she is 19?

@@kimtaylor7162 She was living in her house. She had every right to put her foot down. The daughter should have listened. Now it’s too late.

My thoughts exactly.

Same here.

True, and we're still emotionally the strongest , so what does that say for men in the rest of the world. Take that!

TAKE THAT?! LMAOOO BYEE​@user-Mike8290

@@Anastasia-qk2pm 😆🤣 as soon as I read "take that" I knew he was one of them😆🤣

​@@cal.712 yes very telling

Facts 😢

Please get out. Run. Listen to yourself. I've been there, and things happened that I'll NEVER recover from. Please get out.

look up narcissist abuse and manipulation. get your things and leave. it doesn't get better.

My personal experience..it takes about 2 years for them to leave you. Let him abandon you and discard you so he doesn't follow you. He's using you somehow so it takes them about 2 years to get themselves together and probably leave you for the next woman. Play along for your safety, but complain about everything and withhold sex as much as you can. So he'll get tired of you. Call out his abusive behavior whenever he does it. Tell him isolation is a sign of abuse and ask him why, tell him it's not normal. MKe yourself unattractive to him and tell your doctors..get a fake health issue. They like to abandon you when they think you need them. Record his arguments and write things down bc they lie and say they never said things. Call out his hypocrisy. I know he gets to do things he says you can't. Don't be sad, dont let him get you down. Complain and call out the signs and withhold sex bc that how they control you. A relationship isn't ownership. Prat and ask him does he believe in God? Usually they don't and have a evasive answer. The root is evil and demonic. Pray out loud and ask him to go to church with you.

Leave. My ex gf isolated me from all family and friends for years. She even forced me to quit working a job. i wasnt allowed to leave the apartment without her. Shed punch me in the face all the time if I disagreed with literally anything. she threatened to kill me a few times and i think she would have. I left and I’ll probably be homeless next month. I now have crippling social anxiety from prolonged isolation and im scared to even go outside. I did it to myself, i should have left years ago. Get out now safely. Dont make the mistake i did.

@Skruddle I'm so sorry you're struggling. I know this too well. I'm glad you left. Stay strong....you got this!! Some days will be hell n you'll struggle, I still do....but keel going. I agree LEAVE!!

This poor mother … she knew

I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful, sweet young woman! The signs of a potential abuser needs to be taught in health education in school so that young women can spot the warning signs, and not get involved with a potential abuser. This happens WAY TOO MUCH!

Why wasn’t your cousin’s father in her life, or was he?

@@TheBOG3 He was

Sorry for your loss

I am so very sorry for you and your family's loss. I will be praying for your family. 🙏🏽

Yeah agree, unless we're walking in her shoes we truly don't know what we would do, I'm wishing her and her granddaughter all the best in the world too😳💯🙏

And she really could not have done anything different

There's not one comment I see shaming mother. Just saying. Young adults make their own choices, unfortunately some not good, it happens. RIP daughter. Poor mom

If he's a minor legally they need permission from his parents. So obviously they didn't get that. With the toddler her guardian is her grandma so obviously the got consent to show her face

@@scottishgirl1100 He was 20 dating a minor. Can I have your next excuse ?!

@@sandlotkrew8778she was 19

bruh its so they don't get sued+the guy wasnt charged with anything. how do you guys not know this after watching these stories?

@@scottishgirl1100she is a minor .

Sorry...but the mere fact that her child got pregnant so .young and THEN she allowed her to date the guy instead of protecting her makes her partially responsible for what happened here! I'm 61, and if this had happened to ME, my parents would have never allowed any kind of relationship ...especially one where the boy refused to come anywhere near the family or near the house! Seriously...look at how many GIANT red flags this adult totally ignored!!!

It was, the daughter didn't want to change things.....so sad

Sure but regardless of what the mom thought the daughter was already stuck in the cycle of domestic abuse

Avoiding is a red flag

It was, Mom said it was, she couldn't make her daughter leave him.

@@PNWGlinda The daughter was young and didn't see it for what it was😓💛

What made you get out? Do you still miss him?

@@evangelineprindiville6296 basically my ex was effecting my parents and their mental health so I left him , I cared too much for family then him . & HELL NO 👎🏼

have they still tried to contact you?

​@@evangelineprindiville6296tf do you mean "do you still miss him?" GTFO

Better yet don't choose bad boy, simple.

Wow, saying that she doesn’t have common sense because she didn’t want company during a break up is quite something. Classic victim blaming

@Anne-ot8gq if needing extra security is victim blaming then blame away 🙄

@@0riginal_panda_child249 you know that’s not what I’m talking about. Saying that somebody who just got murdered doesn’t have common sense for doing something that most people do is horrible, what you said is awful.

This!! Thought the same thing

I mean yea it’s sad she had her life was taken away…but why judge her for being a mom..the baby didn’t ask to be here, God knew what he was doing. His timing and plan for sure🙏🏽it’s just this generation these days is bad. Stay blessed💯

@AhmijaMarie023 19 is an adult and historically is older. It has nothing to do with "current generation" you might want to do some basic math and see how old your grandma was when she had her oldest...and while we're at it do some basic math and see how old your grandpa was when he met your grandma. There's a reason why "grandma you a little victim" is a trend now.

@@Chelaxim thanks I guess. Can’t tell if you were trying to correct me or bully me. I said what I said for a reason maybe you should just mind your business. I really could care less about ppl playing the victim I just thought it was sad because the children involved didn’t ask to be here. So much teen pregnancy in this generation never once said it wasn’t a thing back then because my grandparents were young when they started having kids as well soo I’m lost on what you even said that for especially the math part.?😂why try to make me feel small for an opinion you could have not commented on..

I agree, his name is Tyson Peters. She is out of his league. Probably part of why he was so controlling.

because he's white

@@blank7771so they would show his face if he was black

They want to protect killers.