@@4dyamondx745 I feel like that doesn't count as a missing case, by that point we know both of them were probably already dead which is why she couldn't reach her, and they were on their property/house, not somewhere else where they couldn't find her.
@@MJ-gm7km how is that making him sound like a victim. It’s clear he’s not able to love and clearly mentally ill enough to also kill himself. That’s doesn’t mean he’s not psycho
And yet the mom treated it like any other day. Instead of requesting a police escort for her daughter. Or even insisting that her daughter bring a male friend. Or at least stay on the phone with her the whole time...
If it's that important to you I'm sure you could find his identity. I'm not sure why they hide his identity but I'm assuming it's so people don't find and harass his family who has nothing to do with it
@@jarrodwilliams8033his name was provided, so you don’t need to see his face if you intend to harass his family. I just looked him up, saw his face and I didn’t think to harass his family. 🤷🏻♀️
Food for thought: never let a domestic abuse victim go alone to get her personal belongings. *was more talking in general and wasn’t commenting specifically on this case.
But if the Mom didn't know the truth and only knew her daughter was leaving while she watched her granddaughter, she only had her feelings to go by. Not everyone is familiar with the hidden ways of abusers.
This mom sounds like such a good mom. she dealt with the horrible situation the best she could, without yelling or forcing anything. i’ll be praying for her to be ok
@@erinaa9486 She couldn't have done that. If she had pushed too hard, she could have lost her daughter altogether. When your child is doing something that you disagree with, you have to tread carefully or they will distance themselves from you.
Absolutely agree with you. In my opinion this is exactly what happened to Mica Miller, Suzanne Morphew and Anna Knezevich Henao to name a few most recent cases. May this young beautiful mother rest in eternal peace.
So why is his face blurred? The face of a killer should always be revealed. I survived a 20 yr abusive marriage. It’s been 4 years since I was able to get out. The mind control he had over me still lingered for about another year afterwards, but now I understand that I am more.. more than what he said I was.. Domestic Violence also doesn’t always consist of battering; the mind play and controlling of someone is often times worse than most physical confrontations. I am so sorry this precious girl was lost and that the baby and mom have been left behind with just memories. Prayers for all her family and friends.
Also, I finished the video and if they passed away, they will not show the face because some of the family members have not been notified. So they don’t harshly get notified by the news. Even though he is a killer
I understand when you say that the killer doesn’t deserve his face blurred I I think that the mother wanted his face blurred because I would have probably taken the attention off her daughter because the killer gets too much attention because of all the anger so that is my reasoning why the killer face was blocked off.
And never tell them you're leaving, get the police to accompany you, don't give any new contact details to the abuser...never be in the abusers company ever again on your own.
He was in my house hiding. I went to my own house with my Dad waited outside and called police. They showed up and took him to jail. That was 10 yrs ago. Haven't seen him since.
I’m a survivor of 5 years domestic violence marriage. When it’s time to go….LEAVE Everything!!!!! Go with the clothes on your back. Clothes can be replaced. You and your babies not. I’m so sorry this happened 😢
It’s not about her “not saying anything”- it’s about men being possessive controlling and murderous when their egos aren’t fed. It’s about that monster and what he did.
personally I think it's about complex trauma and fear of abandonment and not having control in childhood and being subjected to violence, and that is what causes narcissism. and that being triggered. but from her pov she should have seen the red flags and left her things and just run. things you can replace. a life you can not.
@@Katherine_xs Some people can, especially if there're signs already, that's why they get the hell out of the relationships as quickly and safely as possible. He did not just murder her all of sudden, he already showed that he's a bad person multiple times
It's another way to shame the victim and prove that women mean nothing in the US. Hell, we couldn't even have a checking account until 1974, so why would we be considered an equal to an abusive man.
As a woman, never allow a man to control you and don’t be afraid to break away. And parents PLEASE teach your daughters to see the warning signs. There is evil in this world, we can’t stop it, but we can stop it from happening to us and we need to protect ourselves.
Really, we can TRY to stop it from happening, but sometimes we can not, BUT these stories really can HELP bring awareness. STOP jumping in bed with people so quickly, she got pregnant only after they hooked up a few times and THEN they started dating after she found out she was pregnant, women have a right to say NO!
Unless you’ve been a victim of DV you have absolutely no idea what a woman feels emotionally, mentally and psychologically as she’s going through it. Trust me. It took me 5 years to end it. And when you’re young it’s hard.
@JDfaith2024 Yeah, her response was really annoying to read. I may not be a woman, but I have been in an abusive relationship before, and I know just how hard it is to leave a relationship like that. He isolated me from my family and friends, he made me dependent on him. I couldn't talk to anyone about what was happening, and when I tried to leave and break things off with him he'd get aggressive or threaten to kill himself or me. This all happened during quarantine, too, so I couldn't go anywhere and was stuck with him 24/7. Thankfully I was able to get away from him, but it was not easy. I can tell she has never had to deal with domestic violence because people who have never had a partner try to kill you tend to have the most to say.
That's a huge red flag! A guy or girl who doesn't want to be around your family or friends and especially if they actively try getting you away from them
Its probably something legal related, like the family requesting to blur his face, idk, im not a lawyer but i dont think inside edition would willingly choose to blur the face.
I’m so sorry to hear that I’ve never thought about the physical repercussions of abusive relationships. Like obviously bruising. But you just don’t realize it goes far beyond that.
At 19 I wasn’t allowed to move out with my bf. My parents were NOT having it because I was still a teenager. As a teenager I hated it but when I hear stories like this and my friends horror stories I understand why. My friend told me the best thing I had was my parents being in everything I did until I was out of my teens cause I was stubborn and wanted to do things my way. Looking back now I understand they were just protecting me
I can say from experience that the baby is going to have the sweetest image of her mother in her mind, in her heart, and in her soul. She's going to know without doubt how much her mother loved her. I know because I lost my birth mom to domestic violence when I was a month old. I consider it a bonus that she'll have photos and videos of her mom. I don't have those. That said, she'll still have to work through the resentment she'll feel towards the man that took her mother from her. I'm 55 and still working on it. My heart is with both Grandma and baby. 😢❤🙏
Yes but she got a tattoo so that makes it ok. What is wrong with these people. Tattoos used to mean something and only certain groups had them , now you have all these casuals getting these tacky scrawls to remember their dead family members or children who maybe would not be dead if you were a better role model for them in the first place.
@@jenniferyule8786Wow judgmental much, maybe step down from your high horse and have some compassion. God forbid this happens to anyone close to you or your children because that would be a horrible way to be humbled.
I'll never understand the "if I can't have you no one can" rage that results in murder, infuriating and incredibly sad for the victims and their families
Like someone else said, it's all about control. Abusers want absolute control over you and will go to great lengths to achieve it. Their need for control stems from a desire to exert power and dominance over you. Controlling their victims gives them a sense of superiority. I was in an abusive relationship, he isolated me from my friends and family, so I had no one to support me. He wouldn't let me work, or drive, or hang out with anyone, he would regularly go through my phone to make sure I wasn't reaching out to anyone. If I tried to leave he'd get aggressive and threaten to kill me and himself in a murder-suicide. I was dependent on him financially and emotionally. He held all the control in the relationship and I couldn't go anywhere or talk to anyone. This also happened during quarantine so I was trapped with him 24/7.
@@sharondalynnewton7562 Why is it so hard to hear what her momma said, she said she asked her to pick the baby up b/c she had to get her personal belonging from the home they shared, so the daycare would not have a reason to alert anyone, the momma should have once she did not hear from her daughter
I know exactly what her mom was saying when she said her daughter felt different about her baby father, I felt the same way when I finally broke away from my long time boyfriend of 5 years the relationship was so draining and it had left me angry, sad, shameful! Domestic violence is REAL! Ladies, realize the red flags early on! And be careful who you let into your life.
Mom’s not much better. There’s not a tear in her eye at all during this interview but she fake cries for sympathy for herself. She seems to be trying to use her own daughter’s death for attention for herself.
The fact that she refused a restraining order against him is very disturbing. I feel sorry for her mother for losing her daughter to this sicko creep like this.
His family doesn't have that right. The police likely made the decision out of respect for his family, which clearly had nothing to do with the situation. If he were alive he would definitely be identified, but he's dead. Nothing can come of sharing his identity at this point beyond harassment of an innocent family. You people need to use your brains.
Thank you for speaking out. Australia has had marches all over the country recently because domestic violence and deaths have reached record highs. It's a crime, report it and hope to god these judges don't let these monsters out on bail.
@@BOYBROU It is for we women in a domestic violence situation which is what this video is about. If you're not an abuser then obviously it won't apply to you.
You never tell an abusive man. You're living, you have to go in silence. Every woman should be told this and don't ever think it will happen to you but it happens everyday. I was beat on and I'll tell you. I got out of that and I threatened to put him in jail if they ever came around me. Somehow I was lucky or maybe they just knew I'd call the cops and lock them up.
Yes you have to leave in silence. And also, I had to trick the man I was with. I smiled and tricked him into thinking I was so happy to be with him and that I loved him, and then one day I left and never talked to him again. I am lucky I survived. So many women don’t.
Domestic abuse is not always between boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife. Domestic abuse can be between siblings, parents to children, and bosses to coworkers. .
@@MadeMeSmile1 you're horrible. just because you haven't been in the same situation doesn't mean you can judge their choices, you don't know their life and what they went through, someone died and you feel the need to say this? disgusting, seriously.
Scary 😨 i remember dating this guy. He was clinically depressed. He would cry out of no where. We dated for 6 months one time. I knocked a slurpee with my foot by accident didnt even ask for the drink. He started yelling picked up a chair and threw it taking a piece of wall out. I immediately grabbed my purse shoes ran out the door. I left never looking back. He came around but i was never home. Im happy i never went back to him wasnt worth it. I heard He passed away in 2018. He was good looking just didnt know his behavior kept women away sheesh
Good for you, atleast you didn't try to fix him, we can't be a therapist or nurse to these broken men, they need professional help and that don't always work either.
We have three daughters. If you want to date my daughter you have to come talk to my husband and ask for our permission. Old school. My daughter hates it but we don’t care. My husband has told a boy no when he felt he wasn’t good enough for her too. Which left her mad at us. A week later he got caught with drugs. He was only 14. My husband is also a retired MMA fighter. He has given my daughters tools to defend and protect themselves. I highly recommend at a young age to give them the tools they need to protect themselves.
Whatever your husband taught them is a false sense of security. This is basic biology, no amount of training overcomes the physical differences between men and women.
I’ve always introduced myself to people’s parents, even just my friends. It’s a sign of respect that is mutual. I even give them my number in case they need to get a hold of me.
It's crazy that the police did a welfare check and didn't make the decision to force entry after no contact the first time. The idea that she could have been lying their clinging onto life hoping and waiting for help is so heartbreaking!
I just left an abusive marriage. It took me a long time to make that decision, to the point where friends and family made peace with the fact that I would likely stay with him forever. But I CHOOSE ME NOW!!
Hey I am sure you may know this but I'm case you don't, statistically this is actually the most dangerous time for you so PLEASE PLEASE be safe and always have someone know your location. At all times. I'm sending you so much love. 💚💚💚💚💚💚
@FoodieQueenBee I was done with the verbal, emotional, and psychological abuse. It was taking its toll on me, I was dying inside and was a shell of myself.
Sorry...but the mere fact that her child got pregnant so .young and THEN she allowed her to date the guy instead of protecting her makes her partially responsible for what happened here! I'm 61, and if this had happened to ME, my parents would have never allowed any kind of relationship ...especially one where the boy refused to come anywhere near the family or near the house! Seriously...look at how many GIANT red flags this adult totally ignored!!!
Her abuse sounds A LOT like my current. He has isolated me away from my family. Cities away. And the crazy thing is, my mom has my birth flower tattooed also. And she has a weeping willow tree in her backyard. This video has given me a scary message. Thank you so much for sharing her story 🤍
My personal experience..it takes about 2 years for them to leave you. Let him abandon you and discard you so he doesn't follow you. He's using you somehow so it takes them about 2 years to get themselves together and probably leave you for the next woman. Play along for your safety, but complain about everything and withhold sex as much as you can. So he'll get tired of you. Call out his abusive behavior whenever he does it. Tell him isolation is a sign of abuse and ask him why, tell him it's not normal. MKe yourself unattractive to him and tell your doctors..get a fake health issue. They like to abandon you when they think you need them. Record his arguments and write things down bc they lie and say they never said things. Call out his hypocrisy. I know he gets to do things he says you can't. Don't be sad, dont let him get you down. Complain and call out the signs and withhold sex bc that how they control you. A relationship isn't ownership. Prat and ask him does he believe in God? Usually they don't and have a evasive answer. The root is evil and demonic. Pray out loud and ask him to go to church with you.
@Skruddle I'm so sorry you're struggling. I know this too well. I'm glad you left. Stay strong....you got this!! Some days will be hell n you'll struggle, I still do....but keel going. I agree LEAVE!!
@@jaytaylor2090I'm sorry but that's just bad advice. The longer you wait the more time he has to harm you. Then it'll be too late. The best thing to do is as soon as you see any warning sign you leave. But most people who have been in an abusive relationship for a while, whenever he's at work or is going to be gone for a long time, that's when you pack everything and leave. Don't tell him anything about it and pretend everything's normal. Go to a friend or family's place that you know is far away from him and block him on everything or wait til you're safely far from him to tell him i'm done you're never hearing from me again and give your reasons if you want then block forever. Whichever of those two is the best.
I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful, sweet young woman! The signs of a potential abuser needs to be taught in health education in school so that young women can spot the warning signs, and not get involved with a potential abuser. This happens WAY TOO MUCH!
Don't ever go alone to collect your belongings during a break up like this. This breaks my heart!!! Such a young and loving mom. Prayers to all of her family and loved ones 🙏 ❤🙏❤
The mother who looks like she was also a young mother talking so casually about her daughter “ hooking up “ is disturbing to me. Too many parents trying to be friends & not parents.
Moms, if there is a strange boy getting ur daughter pregnant before she is legal. Do everything in your power to get him away. Your daughter could hate you fro years and it would be worth it.
I was giving my daughter and two friends of hers somewhere and they started talking about another one of their friends and how her boyfriend was hitting her and hurting her. I pretended not to be listening. I called the school counselor and told her what I had heard. It got fixed.
@@evangelineprindiville6296 basically my ex was effecting my parents and their mental health so I left him , I cared too much for family then him . & HELL NO 👎🏼
Even though he took her life, he didn’t take her dignity. She died a survivor… someone who was leaving an abusive situation. She knew she deserved better. And, no one can ever take that away from her.
I am from maine. And I am not far from lewiston and I can tell you right now. This shocked the entire state of Maine. As young as she was. My aunt corrie knew her and she said she was a sweet girl.
Honestly when your daughter or son get in a relationship. Your job as a parent is to get to know the person they're dating as well as their family to know what kind of family he or she comes from. This is important!
DO NOT GO ALONE TO GET YOUR BELONGING'S, AND END THINGS WITH YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER!! I can not stress this enough. This broke my heart hearing her mom speak and took me back to personal events. My love goes out to Heidi, Emali, and the rest of her family.
I'm sorry for your loss. I myself had experience in this . I threatened him back with resources and it worked. You may have lost your daughter but you have a beautiful part of her ,your granddaughter. May God bless you
The fact that he was younger and she was younger and doing things wrong in the beginning should have been a red flag to you to call the police officers
Don't shame the mom I bet she wished she did a million things differently, thank you for sharing her story may she rest in peace 💞🙏🏽, I wish the best life for her daughter and the whole family
Yeah agree, unless we're walking in her shoes we truly don't know what we would do, I'm wishing her and her granddaughter all the best in the world too😳💯🙏
There's not one comment I see shaming mother. Just saying. Young adults make their own choices, unfortunately some not good, it happens. RIP daughter. Poor mom
This made me cry so hard, being the mother of a 20 year old daughter whom is the mother of a 18 month old baby boy. My daughter always calls me right as I fall asleep for a nap as well. The thought of her never calling me again crushed my soul… 😢 I feel for this momma so much… 💔
If he's a minor legally they need permission from his parents. So obviously they didn't get that. With the toddler her guardian is her grandma so obviously the got consent to show her face
I have an 18 years old daughter and I will show her this video. My heart hurts for this mother, that young girl was trying to do the right thing, to leave her abuser and that coward ended her life, the mother of his child, and then his. He didn’t wanted to face the consequences for his evil actions, but God I am sure has already dealt with him. I hope all families find the way to continue living for that precious little girl who now has no parents. This is truly sad. 😢
Of course it broke you. My family lost a brother and son. A parent should never outlive their child. I saw what it did to my father. My condolences to you and your family. The pain never goes away, it just dims and finds a place in your heart.
I left my abusive ex boyfriend in Jan of 2023. He almost strangled me once, pointed a knife at me in front of his mother, and threatened to kill himself countless times. His mom knew he was abusing me. I left because I realized I could end up dead. I knew I couldn’t have a baby with someone who threatened my life.
Absolutely felt this … I have 2 daughters & I can’t imagine the pain this mom is feeling .. I’m sooooo sorry .. sending ALL MY LOVE & HEALING TO YOU & ur family ❤
