Mom of 3 Quits Her Job To Be An Influencer... Becomes Homeless 

With this mindset, I really pray that you don't have children.

Pin Of SHAAAAAMMMMEEEE

Pin of ignorance

"So all of our parents never made mistakes, and some that left us scarred for life?" Quitting your job to go to a whole nother state in hopes of figuring it out and becoming an influencer... Thats not a mistake, thats a series of dumbass decisions with very forseeable consequences for not just herself but also her kids. Yes people (including parents) make mistakes. Not all mistakes are equal, but what she did sounds more in line with.. "engaging in conduct, through negligence or by malice, that creates conditions that place a child in danger of physical or psychological injury" aka child endangerment.

You should call for help too for being this goofy.

Well said. 100% agree!

That phrase came from abortions.

Preach 👏🏿

Why the quotation marks on adult?

@@garrynewman6211come on man use your context clues.

Yep I heard about that. Absolutely disgusting!

That story infuriated the hell out of me. At first, I thought to myself, this can't be real, but as the story grew I just got more and more sick to my stomach and, sorry to say, wished the absolute worse for her.

Its like they don't have brains

I saw that RIP to the baby😢

Yeah shit had me sobbing as a mother myself

It isn't just luck, though that is a huge part of it. You need discipline and reasonable goals. It's a business and you need to treat it as such.

@@carlycrays2831 AND you also need a "business plan" - and if that should not work, a Plan B!

Delulu

being a social media influencer is a 24/7 job. Its not luck. It takes effort, work, creativity, consistency, ability to learn to pivot and improve and it requires managing teams. Its a flat out business. People that make it have put countless hours in BEFORE quitting their day job. They quit their day job when they were consistently making 30-100k per month from social media.

Luck, persistence, a bit of skill - you need all three. You can compensate for luck, partially, if you have enough money to keep trying such as rich parents bankrolling you or saving up before doing something like moving to a different state/quitting your job. As your persistence and skill increases, the amount of luck needed to succeed reduces - but it never really goes away, and bad runs of luck can screw you over no matter what (planning and renovating a restaurant only to open with Covid slamming the door, for instance). One reason why people want to be rich quick is rather understandable, and it is because they see no path to becoming rich slow, only barely managing their current lifestyle until a bad enough event strikes them down.

Hmmm. Look at all the title 1 schools around the US. Most if not 95% shouldn’t have kids. Sad , not saying if you’re poor you can raise a child because my parents were beyond poor. Just observed

@@peacelove7437 I’m not saying poor people can’t raise children. I’m saying take the kids because she’s being irresponsible and is now HOMELESS because of her irresponsible actions. There’s a difference in being poor and being homeless. Children shouldn’t be raised on the streets, and if their caregivers can’t be more responsible than that, then they aren’t prepared to be caregivers. It’s that’s simple. You don’t get to take risks like that when you’re a parent.

​@@SharonL92 yup! I agree and it's nothing about "poor" we weren't well off at all, but 1 thing that was constant is we ALWAYS had a roof over our head nor were we always on the move. My mother when she got pregnant with my older brother she was living at granny house she was 18, and didn't have to leave but just had it in her mind she should get her own place and she did and never since had she had to move back, with any of her sisters, friends, or any of that we always had our roof, and never forced pops to do anything meaning never was he on child support or alimony or anything I even asked once why she never did she said you shouldn't have to force a parent(mom or dad) to do anything what they do for their kid be it spend time or money shouldn't be because a court "ordered" them to and I was always going to take care of y'all. So even if pops wasn't giving financially constantly(though he did later on start on his own) we couldn't tell we were poor. We could never even pretend to say we starving, we got clothes/shoes at the the start of every school hear and Christmas, always had a car to get us from A to B. never an expensive 1 a Mitsubishi, and later Nissan both used. I couldn't imagine now she would ever make a decision like leaving with 2 of us let alone a 3rd far away to a new state with a plan of "hopefully I'm going to be really famous and riches will roll in in a few days from now."! I was born in 91 by the time I was 18 we moved 3x and each place was better than the last even if slightly. This decision making of hers I'm not big on using this term because it's overused as an excuse nowadays and hardly actually applies but I think she's mentally skewered. I mean Social Media has obviously messed with her brain a lot and to even have the thought process she did says she wasn't all there in the head to begin with. I've seen negative influences of social media, but I've never actually seen it this bad where a wannabe thought success would come so quick. Metaphorically overnight yes like within a year maybe months hell maybe even 1 month..... but she thought success would quite literally happen overnight w/o any kind of game plan at all. Even people who did fo viral overnight actually were trying before and had worked and produced products of some kind for a while. No one said "I'm going to do this." then just absolutely immediately the very first thing they did was instant success and fame.

Dont take kids from parents unless ABUSE is involved. You dont know where those kids will end up....they love their mother taking them away is trauma.....I realize kids belong with their families unles there is abuse. IF Mom and dad are trying to get it together let it be., ​@SharonL92

@@user-yc2ic4rp6z Abuse is more than just beating your kids or physically harming them. Putting them in harms way or making irresponsible choices like that that prevent you from providing their BASIC needs (I.e. food and SHELTER) also constitutes abuse. Neglect IS abuse. Being so irresponsible that you quit your job on a whim and end up HOMELESS is a level of neglect (aka ABUSE) that warrants removing the kids at least until she can get her shit together. If you can’t even keep a roof over their heads, then they need to be given to someone who can. CPS always tries to place kids with other family members first, which would be the ideal situation if another relative who is actually responsible could take care of them. Leaving kids with a neglectful parent because the system is broken isn’t better than removing them. If she’s homeless, she doesn’t know where her next meal is coming from and where is she staying? Homeless shelters are not safe for kids! You really think that’s an ok environment for children??? Come on now… This situation absolutely warrants having them removed. I’m not saying she can never get them back, but this situation is FAR from suitable for children.

Yup and also there's another saying "have a backup plan Job "when the thing Influencing thing doesn't work so you don't end like this mother of 3

@@Superbatmanbro There is also the saying made famous by 50 Cent "Get rich or die trying" I think that is more prevelant and romantic that what you guys are spouting

@@TantricBioHacker yea cuz its romantic n prevalent to prioritize greed n material things over safety, health n well being... not only of urself, but of other ppl ur responsible for

@@TantricBioHacker Me personally I find it much more romantic to NOT be a complete idiot

​@@TantricBioHacker There's nothing romantic about starving kids on the street because they're bum ass mom made a bad choice. Can get rich or die trying while still making some scratch and handling your business.

I mean, but now you don’t NEED to move to a specific place. So, I don’t understand “moving to become an influencer”…. I mean influencers live everywhere.

“….. to become a STAAARRR”

Naw if she lived here and pulled that, CPS giving her 30 days before they come take her kids. 🤦🏾‍♀️ She’s highly irresponsible and delusional.

Its almost the new version id say. At least before we had all these people contained in a area. You only had to interact with them when you wanted to go to the circus. Now they are all over, and a dime a dozen.

Your absolutely right

Yeah, nothing wrong with following your dreams and throwing caution to the wind when you don't have kids and it's just you.

Is he a actor now

@@ashleyneco thanks for asking🙂 He’s gotten some roles but stepped back from it. Overall he did what I thought was foolish. We supported his decision; yet anticipated him asking for a flight back home lol. But he pursuit his dreams, lived it, never came back home, and lived his best life/20s in LA. You can do these kinds of things when you don’t have kids in the mix. When you don’t have to live for anyone but yourself. I hope her kids get taken.

@@evanalmighty5554 good for him, and yeah what she did was very stupid.

@@evanalmighty5554what’s his IMDb

Exactly!!! And the worst part is that she’s going to have a lot more competition now.

I dunno! That’s why I’m confused about this story!😂😂😂

There are so many people who become famous from streaming and making skits in their own home. "Moving to make it," and expecting toget rich quick is a childs mentality.

😂

Does she sound and look like she would be smart enough for THIS?

Loves her kids she says. What an absolute failure

It depends, if she was actually not capable of judging that this was not going to work then she can still love her kids and have done this.

ALSO ALSO .......... NO MENTION OF THE FATHER. 💀

@@tijgertjekonijnwordopgegetenwhen you love your kids, you don’t jeopardize their wellbeing like this. come on, now.

Fish love...

Facts 😑

I don’t understand why people don’t understand you use your job as much as it uses you. You use your day job to fund what you really want to do. You’re not supposed to have loyalty to your job as much as it has no loyalty to you. Everything corporate or even working at a gas station is all just a means to an end. You’re not supposed to take a leap of faith with no safety net beneath you. That’s how you can fall to rock bottom!

Exactly and number second rule is have brain

@@Superbatmanbro You need the brain first to remember the rule ;)

I am very lucky. I quit my job, but succeeded in art.

@@marlom7882You sound extremely naive and immature. Do better

She might not be all there...and may not have the capacity to care and provide for 3 toddlers. Cos yeah she sounded FORCED saying that

It was super creepy.

Agreed. She was lying and thise boys know they arent really loved

Yea my immediate response was, you don’t love them.

@@TheRealSyrett hopefully when these boys get older they "take care of her"....for good.

How would they know they cut out to be parent without having a kid first, a pet and a kid is in a different leauge

@@khanhnguyen-tt3ffjust basic self awareness, some people have kids for the sake of it or in more extreme cases to attempt to fix an already broken marriage or even just for the child benefits it’s just selfish people being selfish and likely isnt a problem that’s going away

​​​​@@khanhnguyen-tt3ff​ I heavily disagree as some people just know. I vividly remember at 12 years old, I knew for a fact that I never wanted children. I knew for a fact that I would never be a good mother. I was heavily parentified and forced to play second mother to my two younger sisters, while our actual mom either worked or did whatever the hell she wanted. This amplified even further when she went through her mid life crisis and started going on dates with strange men, acting younger and partying. This lasted until the day I was finally emancipated and moved out of her house into my own apartment with my current boyfriend (seriously God bless him!).This kept me trapped in the house, and HEAVILY stifled my social skills with people my own age. And while I never blamed my sisters for any of this as they had no say on being adopted by mom, I do heavily resent her for destroying my chance of having friends or a normal childhood because of it. When she adopted seven of my younger cousins because of their neglectful father a few years ago, she would immediately try turning to me for free child care again and try shoving them onto me when I had no part in contributing to their existence. She would do this in hopes of it "fixing me" and "changing my mind about kids" which caused me to only push back and be child free harder. Some people don't even need a story such as mine to know that they're unfit to be a parent. Sometimes a simple "because they just don't want to" is reason enough to know they're not cut out for it.

Pleasssseeee don't come for my cousin you definitely don't know her situation or circumstances this a video don't let social media get you caught up

Exactly

Sadly she prob sees them as accessories

This is what alot of Gen Alpha kids have as parents.

This is what happens when social media makes it look so easy to be one something and that's the crazy part. She should have realized that not everyone is gonna make it like that.

Yea.. it does seem like she doesn't see them as people. But I've noticed a lot of ppl do this. They don't realize that children grow up and affect the world with the terrible traits we raise/ didn't raise them with,

their welfare

Only that often times children who are put into CPS end up with worse conditions

​@@lilylokaria7323 Thats wild to say. You ever seen the streets bud? Having 3 small children when you're homeless you can't even rely on the most basic safe space for them to be while you work.....But even if you trusted the person watching them, their health risks are so high on the street. Even a small bit of hard drugs can kill if ingested and can also kill children from touching and sweating as you leak it through youre pores (like acid). All of those drugs most homeless people use. The risk in so many areas is so much higher. Both are dangerous yes but someone whos already made horrible choices and is on the streets already is faaaar more likely to be dangerous and potentially do something then a person who regularly has the government check on their foster homes... You gonna trust the 12 dudes in the alleyway with fentnyl, acid and cocaine on their hands and bodies to chill by ur kids or you gonna be more suspicious of the old couple who had to interact and pass tests from the government......

​@lilylokaria7323 I've been in foster care, only for a short time, but homeless is generally worse. At least foster care provides basic life necessities.

@@lilylokaria7323Worse condition than living in the street ? Stop saying that CPS is always worse than staying with terrible parents

​@seanwoolsey6787 I get that but breaking up families could have long term effects. I just think there should be steps taken to allow her and the kids to rebound. Work with family members, get in.a job recruitment program and get under some living arrangements. Try that before just taking the kids away.

Respect for being a real parent and a teacher.

Nothing but RESPECT!

So sad😢

@@Guyintheworld-bw3wg 33

@@Guyintheworld-bw3wg 33

OMG, I pray your Soul find the contentment that it was deprived of when you were a child. 🤍

Thanks for your honesty, this was well written.

❤❤❤

​@@juggle_g7579 Very. I second this

​@@evelynsoriano45 I appreciate your kindness and I dont want it to seem like Im throwing a pity party, but I dont think its possible. Having to grow up so fast and seeing how ugly the world can be has made me immensely distrustful of people. During our time of crisis, we were turned away by friends, family and even the church. People looked at us with disgust and it gave me the realization that people don't stand firmly on their own beliefs, that when the time comes to practice what they preach, they turn away. The world feels hollow to me and I feel like I was robbed of my innocence. Like the venom still surges through my veins, making me hyper-aware of how people can really be and I can't close my eyes. That's why I feel for those kids, because I see the pain in their future if things don't change. I hope they find kind souls like yours and others

Yeah I was actually thinking the same thing... Its not a problem if you take the risk all by yourself... But its just dumb to take that kinda risk with Kids involved...

I agree. She needs to think about her children and make sure their needs are met. I know people who hate their job but would not quit because they have little mouths to feed.

That's why I say let others be your Personal Crash Test Dummy. It sounds harsh at first but we all do it at one time or another and we don't stop doing it. You think it's ok to be having reckless sex until you meet someone who got a Life Permanent STD or 11teen kids at a young age. Now you don't want to do it anymore. You thought it was going to be a breeze selling Drugs until you see someone get robbed or worse killed for their product. Now you don't want to do it anymore. You thought Toxic Relationships is how you know the other person loves you until you someone who ended up with Stab wounds,destroyed property and Trauma/PTSD. Now you don't want to have that anymore. Let others be your Personal Crash Test Dummy bcus unfortunately there's always someone willing. Don't pay attention to the "success" stories as those are too far in between and even then it still comes around to bite them in the Ass.

​@@RoyalCryptlet others be your personal crash test dummy

when did they start being called "influencers"? sounds so stupid. when did they stop being called what they actually are; CONTENT CREATORS!?

oh don't worry, plenty of ♀ will follow her path, if they're not already.

Bet😂

You mean baby daddy right?

Be right there with that blue hoodie on hiding his face from the camera down there with them kids. U ain’t see him?

The likelihood of black children having an active father in their lives is embarrassingly low.

Same shit?

Absent father household I think

100% chance she has multiple baby daddies and non of them are in their children's lives.

She is the definition of bad decisions. Why do you think she has 3 small kids?

HARD TRUTH!!!! I only have 1 child & I have a lot of goals, but guess what? My child comes 1st. I chose to become a mother, so I have to play it safe for now and plan… I really wish ppl had this mind set when having kids, it would save the children so much traumatic experiences smh

@@bambi3106respect👊🏾 ,sadly women dont know how to close their legs now(fk contraception,shit happens) moral of the story behave modestly n if you dont take accountability

I mean she has 3 kids and is single. That doesn’t happen out of nowhere. I’m not surprised.

Tell that to their daddy also

That’s why you make arrangements for her!

WTF? Thats even worse!! She has to have mental instability

I feel sorry for her husband.

Wow.....

@@timborski1210it just stupid. People forget about stupidity these days.

As someone who's trying to build up a RU-vid career, I would never, EVER quit whatever job I was doing just to try to make it big on RU-vid. Even if I did get to the point of being able to make a living off RU-vid, I'm not 100% sure I'd quit my job just to do RU-vid in case something happens to RU-vid.

They're there. You'd be surprised. Not all duh. But some exist. You've just never heard of them.

​​@@varsityreviews707good luck to you homie, I subbed.

@@varsityreviews707 You quit your main job(s) after obtaining success, not quit it to become successful. But yeah, there are some who do manage to make it. Is it worth the risk when you have others to take care of that rely on your income and care? Definitely not.

@@ryanmcclosky3312 Thanks man, hope you enjoy what I make.

Exactly I live in Houston

Exactly! In Houston there are real jobs why would you come to be an influencer? You have oil and gas, medical center, the ship channel and you chose to come to be an influencer! I’m saying this as a native Houstonian!

Bruh I’m a New Yorker but I’ve never heard of Houston being some kind of influencer hub, I’m glad to know I wasn’t the only one confused by that… where is girlie getting her info from? Or who..? Maybe there’s like one big influencer who she’s obsessed with who lives there, so she equates that in her mind to being a whole industry

Bruh I I’ve seen a lot of shootings caught on tape and a good 70% are placed in Houston. That place is a pvp zone in my mind

Was looking for this comment! Never have I ever in the slightest heard of houston being an influencer hub.

Same here. I'm 37 years old now and I still feel the anxiety, the fear, the insecurity, instability, etc. I've been homeless 3 times. I was homeless twice as a kid thanks to my horrible mother. I was homeless once as an adult thanks to my horrible mother. I refuse to be homeless again. The fear never leaves.

God damn, I'm sorry you went through this

Damn that’s awful and I’m truly sorry you’re still dealing with that to this day. That’s the kind of detail people don’t always hear about when talking about shelters.

Most people don't bother to look deeper into those institutions. It's even if you sleep there can be attempted theft, if you shower you need to be quick and not leave your belongings unguarded. You don't know who slept on the bed you get, and what they had. It really is turning all your defensive instincts on and evrn years after its not so easy to lower them again. Especially with high rates of drug use they constantly need money, so they steal what they can to sell and get drugs from.

25, fml...

selfish actually. extremely selfish.

Whats insane is how working a normal job makes you feel like a sucker because all these other people make easy money.

*single mother behavior* 🤦🏼

@@buffgarfield3231 Is that really though? I'd have to say, that would ask to Shine a Brighter Light on ALL of Humanity, if that's the case. Because I CERTAINLY feel like a Sucker, at my Min. Wage job, while others do Fuck All, to be Rich.

Shut up

O let's be fr you don't know

How’s your comment a month old bruh😂 there’s no way they had this in the vault for that long, crazy💀

@@sim8908 oh let's look at the facts, he's so right.

To be fair it does sound a little fake. I dont think a parent cares about their kids would risk this type of move. They would try to find a stable job first. ​@sim8908

Wonderful that you mom was able to pull you guys out of the situation. She seems like a strong woman.

Where was your father,?

​@purplelove3666 Dude that's a pretty fucked up question to ask him. Instead of just congratulating him for overcoming childhood challenges, you make a backhanded insult.

Good job mama 👏🏻 Same here! Single mom happy to put off any dreams I had to make sure my son feels stable and secure at home. Sports costs have a line-item on my monthly budget because that’s what makes him happiest and does so much for him mentally. Too many people seem to forget making sure their kids’ safety and wellbeing is supposed to always be top priority no matter what our wants are.

I remember my mom doing near the same for me and my brother and sisters when I was younger. She went back to school too, turned everything around. Your kids will definitely remember your hard work and effort .

So being homeless is a choice?

For the lady in the video yes @@avenomizedmind5256

@@avenomizedmind5256it quite literally was for this woman the video is about. Did you listen? She wanted to be an INFLUENCER… not a real job. Shes delusional thinking that would work out. She screwed her kids over big time. They don’t have a HOME anymore. wtf are you even asking this question for?

This is like trying to become a professional baseball player at the end of the season in the 7th inning.

Maybe this was the stunt to get famous, would not be surprised if she’s on Dr.Phil next week

Well, she's now homeless and made it to TV, so maybe there's some 4-dimensional chess playing going on in her head. 😅

​@@theharbingerofconflation We already know woah Vicky Got famous that way

@@theharbingerofconflation Is it a smart stunt?. I would have preferred that she didnt get 911 involved.

@@ANUBIS.911But she didn’t have rent to pay or three children to take care of plus she was a teenager not grown woman 😂

I've seen so many kids absolutely thrive in foster care. So many kids do so much better in life, in every way, when they are removed from their parent/s. The majority I've encountered, have thrived within a week of being aware from their parents. My experience is anecdotal, I know... But that's still my experience.

​@@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeefthat's just plain false , I worked with enough foster kids and foster homes to not , no matter where you are , which country you live in, this is psychologically incorrect . It is better than the parent they have but it is not inherently better

Adults sometimes have no family to jump in and have to do stuff where kids can't be around and for those times foster care can be amazing.

@@lamour-md2ph ok, so you think that a kid is better off with their drug-addicted mother who pimps out her older kids... Then that kid be with a safe, secure foster carer? Tell me you've not worked with foster kids without telling you've never worked with foster kids! Fostering isn't 100% perfect but it's a far better situation then just leaving the kids with their destructive families and hoping for the best!!

@Keep300 you only hear of bad cases because that's where all the media focus. No money to be made from happy foster stories.

And you may never get that break. Im not even talking about megastardom. Break a leg!

Blessed

@@purplelove3666 Blessed indeed especially when one considers that not everyone had the same experience that I did unfortunately

Glad you got lucky, and had a kind family to raise you. ,most are not so lucky. Those kids need to be with their mother, unless she abusing them in other ways.

Beautiful am 34 and I was in Foster care age 17 to 18.❤

True but you don’t have to make it about you

Good job Mom! I do the same for my 9 yr old son.

How is this posted 1mo ago? Lol yt is trippin

@@davidcoelho9241 the point is the moment someone have kids it’s about the kids . She quit her job move to another state across the country with no support to pursue a dream with no backup n no plans

​@@marcrose3403I don't think u need to explain the point to a moron. Ur gonna lose braincells

The problem is she thought being an influencer was a achievable goal while offering no talents of her own to an audience. It's not a class thing.... Its a common sense thing and not being a narcissistic person thinking your life is worth viewing.

Goofy is as goofy does, right

U also have to blame the fathers of these children. Where are they? They can at least help the kids.

You dont know if the father is any good. Get off your high horse, you're pathetic.

@@ll2323 that’s a given but I’m addressing her propensity to continue making bad life changing decisions

​@@ll2323deadbeats. They can create them but don't want to take care of them, and they the same ones that complain about child support.

I don’t want her influencing ANYONE. She is a bad influence

Yeah, she also cashed out a disability check ment for her child to make the move SMH

Yep,,when put in a position to choose between those 2,,,foster care is the better option,, being a homeless as a kid is the final and highest level of difficulty

Being a stripper isn't bad but bringing men home is. Is dancing is treated just like any other job then it's fine. You leave to work. You come home 4-8 hours later. You pay the bills, grocery, cook and clean like anyone else... No one even needs to know what to do for work. If there are children then they are left with a caretaker while the parent is working... Anyway stripping is fine. Sorry your mom brought men home and didn't prioritize her kids :/

@@TheRealSyrett being a stripper is fine. Having kids with 4 different men who paid for sex is not fine. Leaving your 3 kids home alone ages 6,4,2 while you go get your holes filled is not ok. She didn't even do it for money. We barely ever had food. She just fucked for the attention and an escape from her kids. Not only that but my mother blamed me and my brother for having to strip. She told us that when I was 15 and he was 13. Stripping is fine but there is no way to be a functional mother when you are selling your body and not giving a shit about anything but yourself. A stripper is not a mother it's an inherently selfish "profession".

⁠being a stripper isn’t bad? God help us all.

@@dddd2319 yeah IDK. I went to a strip club once for my buddies bachelor party and it's honestly pretty sickening. It takes a really depraved mind to stoop that low for money. And an even more depraved mind to actually pay for it.

@@TheRealSyrett moms shouldnt be strippers isnt a hot take

Well said. PERIOD

She thought it was Lululemon, but it was Delululemon

Women that do this are thinking my about themselves and aren’t putting their family first unfortunately. That’s something that you do when you are SINGLE 😂

So sad she can't do what she really wants to do. She has to be miserable at a job she doesn't. Exactly why some people committ suicide 😢

What’s her only fans handle? 😆

@@whathappenedtofreethinking6902 Sadly she became a land whale so Onlyfans is no longer an option. 😆

Classic!! Preach always seems to get it first. Aba tried so hard to defend it but the more he talked the worse it got. 😂😂😂

👀😬👶👶👶🤭😆

@@sebasstuff8847 facts bro it was too funny 😂😂

I mean yeah, but theoretically, any of those 100 could be in the top 10

Everybody thinks they are "special," yet society is only functional from the everyday man. Parents used to teach people how to be productive for the good of society.

@@oogatz1917 Theoretically, yes. But in practice, no, which is the problem. Also, we’ve tried self-improvement, self-help, hustle culture for a while now - and it clearly doesn’t work outside of a small number of anecdotal success stories. People today are lonelier, more financially precarious, and so on than ever before. It’s time for a different mentality.

@@brettstarks1846 Is the mentality "I'm not special and I'm OK with that"?

@@sheerbeauty Yup, exactly. A little Stoicism and Marcus Aurelius would do some good.

100%

Yep

Naw it’s an example of being wealthless. Desperation mixed with being wealthless is what causes this outcome. On top of people being dumb or not mentally there.

@@H3adph0ne Whatever bro. Not everything needs to be "corrected".

Someone needs to get those kids…what the actual fuck is wrong with her?!!!!

An adult responsible for 3 kids should not be worrying about jealousy, why are u caring that much about influencers anyway, 100% selfish, nothing about that decision is understandable

Some folks want the glamour without the minimal amount of work.

No they don't. It's amazing how WOEFULLY dumb "eductaed" people are. All this typing and guessing instead of asking questions and researching on the same device.

​@@DopeDevastation exactly

@@DopeDevastationexactly grown people dont have time to be Jealous

Get a capital one card, you need one to help build credit and its better than other cards lol

I used to think the same way. Didn't get a credit card so I couldn't ruin my credit. Turns out having NO credit is just as bad as having bad credit. I recommend talking to a banker about your options. Even if it's just a 200$ max that you use like a debit card. Start building credit.

No credit is actually terrible to have, and depending on your age is actually worse than having bad credit. I would advise you to get a credit card with a low limit and just use it for gas or groceries and make sure to pay it before interest hits.

you still need a card to develop credit! You cant rent without a good credit score. I waited a long time like an idiot, but you dont need to spend much money a month to build credit. I only put 25-50 dollars on the card every month and paid off the balance after every purchase so I didnt have to pay interest. After a year they gave me a card with points and now my credit card has paid ME nearly $100 in rewards points and Ive never paid them a lick of interest. After doing this for 2 years I had an 810 credit score. I just have the credit card to build credit mostly BUT ALSO a great side benefit of having a credit card is you can dispute fraud far more easier then a debit card. Or any disputes for that matter I also use my credit card for ANY online purchases instead of my debit for that reason. If someone steals your credit card number the worst they can do is destroy your credit for a short period of time compared to draining out your literal bank account leaving you completely empty handed.

You might not appreciate it now but getting a credit card early to build credit is a smart move. Just keep a smart head and know your own income

I always thought if I had kids and couldn’t feed them or have a home for them I would give them up, then I remembered I would never be stupid enough to even have a child when I don’t even have a car.

Very dark sad truth the devil on their back whispering evil things like blaming an innocent child that didn’t ask to be here

Ur friends were talking out of their ass. Anybody who thinks passion is enough in the social media age shouldn’t be giving advice 😂😂😂. Skill, talent, work ethic etc all mean nothing. For the most part social medial is about luck and marketing. Especially art. Considering how much short form video content has taken over the internet it has become incredibly more difficult to gain a following as a visual artist. I agree 100% with ur comment. As an artist myself I’d never think about becoming a full time artist without making sure that my income from art meets or exceeds my 9/5 first. I’m not really in a rush tho I’ve heard too many horror stories about people making it big with their art but then losing the drive and passion due to their hobby becoming a job. When I draw It’s because I like to not because I have to in order to put food on the table.

But If like to add, staying relevant.

Having multiple incomes is Very important nowadays. Plus if you enjoy your job and you don’t gotta solely depend on your passion to feed you. I call that a win in my book. Keep doing you.

This! I am an artist as well and yup, the creativity Flys away once your on the edge of being poor 😒

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They would probably in jail for child abuse/neglect in this situation

Be careful a few women who are defending her are going to get egos broken from this lmao.

You get more of what you tolerate. Communities need to start holding its members accountable. And y’all need to vote in politicians that will change the law to facilitate that.