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THE AUDACITY FROM HIM AND THE FACT HE DOESNT EVEN UNDERSTAND WHAT HE DID WRONG

"She sounds pretty traumatized" after they wouldn't leave her alone. Smdh.

Unbelievably irresponsible of the organiser of Tinderella to give out that’s girl’s email

So…he’s acting like he didn’t know that the comedy would be offensive to her but he specifically went out of his way to hide it from her? How does that make sense?

Why'd they even ask if she would ghost him again... she was in a relationship lmao

How can he say she’s in “another relationship already” after 9 months... + NINE MONTHS OF JUST STALKING HER??? That’s so scary

"Yeah, she's openly bisexual, she calls people daddy." I... I think this guy is mixing up bisexual with something else

the way he immediately invalidates her once he finds out that his shitty stand up is why she left is very telling.

Ghosted sounds really Invasive. Imagine just leaving someone creepy and then they track u dowm using some randos find u and force u to talk to them. Like, WHAT THE FUCK. who thought this was a good idea!?!?!

"she's openly bisexual and i'm still half a virgin" does he think all bisexuals sleep around

I love how they just gloss over the fact that in his stand-up, he basically implies that she's like, a practice girlfriend to learn sex stuff from. Talking about how now he's going to go to PTA meetings to pick up the women he -really- wants. That's the MOST disrespectful part of the routine and they don't even touch it.

Remember, kids: if you play the victim hard enough, eventually the girl you emotionally abused will admit she was the one who messed up!

the girl deserves an award for not immediately just decking him in the face

that man literally tried to make himself a victim yet HE treated her like shit i’m so annoyed

Being bisexual has nothing to do with how much sexual experience you’ve had

He literally said that he was grateful for her naïveté in teaching him all these new things so that he could use them to get ‘better’ girls that he actually wanted wtffffff

Her saying, "i mean, I still love him." made me think the whole thing is fake af.

This girl is fucking traumatized and just got manipulated and we watched it happen

I want to give that first girl a hug :( No one should ever have to go through their significant other telling everyone your sexual business. Its messed up. I hope she’s doing alright now.

The comedian doesn’t understand that he literally said that he used her to learn sexual stuff that he could then use those ‘techniques’ on other women, that’s very hurtful in so many ways, it’s not a joke at all.

"I made disrespectful jokes about her and now I gaslight her for being mad about it but idk why she doesn't like me anymore"

this guy is who i’m gonna imagine now everytime i see a comment that says “wow, nobody can take a joke anymore. the world is so sensitive”

It might be a year later, but the amount of red flags given off is scary. Especially stating that he's spent 9 months trying to wrap his head around why the relationship ended, when they only dated for 6... truly terrifying. And taking it to a whole other level by getting an MTV show to track her down. There's something seriously wrong. Definitely obsessive and possessive personality traits showing. I would get a restraining order.

That poor, poor girl. She was stalked, belittled, and harassed, and he has the audacity to try and play the victim?? God, I'd be scarred forever, I just hope she's able to live some semblance of a normal life now with real, genuine people who actually treat her like she has feelings

If you are ever doubting yourself, remember a fully grown man said he was “like, half a virgin” on MTV

This dude is literally a red flag. He couldn't accept that she picked another dude, he managed to get her email without her knowledge and he's basically stalking her.

He's literally emotionally abusive, that poor girl

Re-watching this video, you can SEE in Ross’s eyes that he thought Holly was going to choose to stay in contact. He only chose “ghost” to try and get her to beg him to come back. But she said “ghost” and you can see in his eyes “oh fuck”

Why are they making her out to be the bad guy? “What did you learn?” Tf? He’s the one making jokes about her personal life

can we talk about the fact that the guy said “she’s openly bisexual, and i’m half a virgin” as if those two things have ANYTHING to do with each other

I refuse to believe that she still loved him. It HAS to be staged! Or maybe she just said that so she can kinda get him to ghost her so then he can feel like he was the rejecter and finally stop stalking her! I really hope it's staged

very weird how the cult girl called her girlfriend "a sister to share this with"

The fact that they made the moral of this show “ghosting is bad” as opposed to “stalking is bad” is so telling. I don’t care that these shows are super poorly staged, why send this kind of message to viewers??

Honestly, the fact that they put this on TV is disgusting.

11:55 "hey let's move away from these cameras and move over here by some other cameras" 🤣

dude seeing her cry just ripped my heart apart because i've been in a similar situation (with family) and i know that feeling of just betrayal and shame

White Guy Complains is a cinematic masterpiece

So the guy who runs "Tinderella" gives out client info freely and therefore absolutely can not be trusted even beyond the lack of trust he should already have as a guy that runs something called "Tinderella". Thats the point of that first bit yeah?

I knew this dude was creepy from the beginning like they met because he stalked her. They made eye contact and suddenly he felt entitled to find her personal information so he can talk with her even though she clearly pick someone else. He then gets upset when he found out that she slept with some other guy before they even dated, he gives off major creepy stalker vibes. When he couldn’t stalk her anymore he then found a camera crew who would. This poor girl dodged a bullet by ghosting him, hope she doing well cause this whole thing is traumatizing

I love how upset the producers looks like "OMG the girl doesn't want to be in a toxic relationship????" and the guy just looks like doesn't understand what a toxic relationship is.

even if the show is fake the message they’re sending is soooo bad wtf.

I just can’t believe he’s a comedian. He’s like the most boring looking and sounding person I’ve ever seen.

The "Its okay.. i want to give her a hug now" sent me into fight or flight mode Edit: plus imagine getting over a toxic ex and learning that you're stronger than that, just for two hosts to tell you "hey! No no no. You bad person for that." Circus behaviour

8:30 he makes it sound like the dog told him about the job LMAO

“Half a virgin? ............... which half?” I lost my MIND.

This seems very much like repeat trauma against her. Yikes. She had issues with her father, got her boundaries and autonomy disrespected by this dude, and then was forced to sit down and talk about it all with random people for a show in a way that didn't respect her again. I know she had to agree to be on there, ultimately, but this is messed up.

as someone who had a stalker and finally broke free, if a random number claiming started calling me and all of my friends asking about me i’d be terrified.

His telling the show crew that he was "half a virgin" while she's an "open bisexual" is like... ew. Firstly being bisexual doesn't mean you're experienced. Secondly being sexually experiences doesn't mean you're a bad person as he repeatedly implies. Thirdly he should not have shared this information about her on tv.

“I mean I still love him” was the moment I knew this entire show was fake

Just saying "It's a joke" doesn't justify stalking or toxic behaviour.

his bio said "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade :)" like i wonder WHY she didn't pick you. what a catch he is

When he said “hey Jordan, I love you…” I was truly terrified. Shit sounds like the last thing a person hears before they disappear forever

Dude's stand up was horrible, didn't make a single joke. Just said stuff.

I feel like they don’t understand that “Catfished” works because catfishing is always a dick move, whereas ghosting is sometimes a dick move, but sometimes incredibly justified - and if it’s the second you aren’t going to find out until after you’ve already exposed somebody’s personal life and humiliated them on national television 😬😬😬

12:08 I wanna know how many takes these reactions from Drew took. The perfect amount of incredulity, the right volume, the precise tonal cracking. It's beautiful, really.

I made some homemade salsa for the first time tonight... 0/10. I ate all of it.

This is SO abusive and disgusting. Can’t believe this gets aired 😬

this show is so annoying because people will actually go on a HUNT for someone who obviously doesn’t wanna talk to them. i would be creeped out.

dude looked like the exact kind of person that would want to go on a show called "ghosted"

he was blocked for a reason- jesus this is actual stalking at this point

Who’s here after Drew got nominated for the “Best White Guy Complaining” Award

Geez that dude is a classic incel. Its honestly gross that the showrunners basically bullied Jordan into coming on and meeting him again. She deserved way more respect tgen what she got

I feel like there's been a big "anti-ghosting" movement the past couple of years, and it's always really bothered me. For the most part, I agree that ghosting can be hurtful & ideally, it's better to try communication first. And at the same time, it seems like far too many people (like Ross) have twisted this into more toxic/dangerous mindsets like "I am *always* entitled to an explanation for why someone doesn't want to have contact with me anymore, and I don't have to accept the end of this relationship until I get one I understand & agree with." As I was watching this, I was hopeful that this show might help people see these pitfalls of "anti-ghosting culture." Ross could've spent that 9 months accepting & processing the end of the relationship, self-reflecting, maybe even attending therapy. He didn't need an explanation from Jordan to do any of that. But instead, he spent it obsessing over someone who didn't want any contact with him. Even when he got the explanation he *claimed* he wanted so badly, he didn't even accept it, he continued to refuse to take any accountability & used it as an opportunity to gaslight her. It's no wonder she didn't feel safe telling him why she didn't want to be with him anymore! And yet they still ended the episode with the message that "Jordan shouldn't have ghosted him." What??

I absolutely abhor how this all went down. Not only was it insanely disgusting & enabling to let him interrogate her after what he did, but to give him the final blow in all of this? To let him be the one to reject her likely gave him a feeling of power, a feeling of victory after HE messed up. He shouldn't have had any of these interactions with her. All he should've done (if ANYTHING) was apologise, but they let him feel like the big dog and "win" over her. He's a nut and so are the producers of the show

As somebody who had to move to get away from a stalker, the whole concept of Ghosted is SO HORRIFYING

It’s really gross how he makes a big deal that Jordan is “openly bisexual,” like he’s implying that she’s had a lot of partners because of her sexuality or something

he’s like “what am i missing? am i an idiot?” and the answer to the second question was indeed yes

CAN YOU IMAGINE YOU TAKING A BREAK FROM LIKE YOUR SOCIALS AND STUFF AND THEN THESE MTV HOSTS SHOW UP AT YOUR DOOR AND TAKE YOU TO A WAREHOUSE FOR INTERROGATION??

for real though, besides being a dumb show, Ghosted is a way for entitled and possibly harmful people to track down exes who had a right to leave them. Like imagine if someone ghosted a person because they started to not feel safe in the relationship, so they blocked them and ran in order to protect themselves. Then imagine that the person who was ghosted used this show to find them. Who knows what could happen after filming wraps.

I know this video is ostensibly comedy, but I am genuinely so pissed at Ross. This dude comes in acting like a meek victim of unfair heartbreak, blatantly misrepresents the context of the relationship, is _visibly ashamed_ when his disgusting "comedy" is exposed, and then _gets upset with Jordan for overreacting‽_ At least Jordan seemed happy in that last clip of her. Now I just hope the world joins me in never giving Ross another moment's thought ever.

I had a boyfriend (only lasted for two months out of the 2 years we talked) who always made himself seem like the victim. the last straw I had was when he was acting like the victim after basically harassing multiple people (my friends and including me) and being so weird. there is a lot more detail which I won’t get into, but the most important part is he still does not know what he did wrong in this scenario. I can’t imagine how many times I turned on my friends just believing his word saying he was the victim without going further into detail. I’m so glad I haven’t talked to him since last year.

this is all just creepy as fuck.

Ok but that’s so rude. She’s just trying to live her life and they’re making a whole episode exposing who she slept with, a bunch of personal things, etc.

“she’s bisexual, and i’m half a virgin” damn well i’m bisexual,, and a full virgin 😖💔

I can't believe Rachel hosted this show then almost immediately after Cassie filed a restraining order against Colton for stalking her. No wonder she never hyped this yikes

not sure why but this is the best video you have ever made

The way he said that shes "fully bisexual" whiles hes half a virgin. As if being LGBT is like a high level sex act or something. Bruh I was bi when I was a virgin, smh.

scripted or not, this show is gross. the message it sends out is disgusting. if someone leaves you, you have to STALK them and find out why, even if it’s been wayyy too long since you’ve dated. poor girl

I didnt need to watch the confrontation, I just knew there would be a perfectly valid reason to ghost him 😂

“My ex won’t respond to me, I figured I should MTV in on this and get them to respond.”

"She's openly bisexual and I'm half a virgin still" Those things aren't like .... opposites tho

So to recap: This man got a girlfriend, just to make fun of her sexuality behind her back, and then they broke up, and then like half a year later he sends gangstalkers to force her to sit in a void with him and embarrass herself, and then says things wont work because she didnt tell *him* stuff.

"Travis and Rachel for the win! >:) ... ˢʰᵉ ˢᵒᵘⁿᵈˢ ᵗʳᵃᵘᵐᵃᵗᶦᶻᵉᵈ"

Drew I know you will never see this but I have to say this anyway. I really appreciate your writing style and video structure. I put it up there with the best of the best like Scott The Woz for how easily binge able your videos are. I cycle back through your catalog like every 3-4 months. That is a testament to the rewatchability you provide. Truly one of the goats.

“It’s a joke” that is the ultimate death sentence

when he said "she's openly bisexual" i fully expected him to say "and im homophobic"

I know so many people, myself included, who've been involved in break-ups where they didn't know why the relationship ended. It hurts. It's so unfair that THIS guy gets to find out 'why', when he clearly didn't care about the girl and clearly knew what he'd done. Ugh.

"It was just a joke though" I bet that guy would lose his shit if someone made a joke about his squeaky voice though

“she’s openly bisexual I’m half a virgin” bro being bisexual isn’t synonymous with sleeping around or being experienced c’mon now you coulda just said that instead

I'm so glad these people are actors reading scripts - otherwise this guy's behavior would be criminally disturbing

The thing is, if this was fiction, it would actually be a relatively interesting plot, having the guy be slowly revealed to be an obsessive stalker and consistently hurting the person he only cares about for the sake of his ego. Unfortunately, it's real

as someone who has dealt with a stalker (we weren't even dating, we were just friends for 3 weeks) has every social media on private, has to block new accounts he has made for the past year, this show is disgusting and is justifying being a creepy asshole. he needs to move on. i hate that they tried to get them back together, it's showing creeps that if they keep up with harassment that the victim will forgive them, which isn't ok. ghosting is 100% ok. not wanting to talk to someone like that is ok.

Him being upset bc "it's just a joke" pisses me off. Like, dude, there's a reason you hid your stand up from her. You knew she'd be upset about you making jokes about her trauma and personal life. She was so out of his league too. Like, my guy, get your priorities straight.

i know this is an older video, but i can't stand the way people like him go "seriously, _that's_ why you're upset?" or "it's not that serious" like, no! you don't get to choose whether or not you hurt someone, that's not your thing to decide! like it can be the dumbest thing to you but it doesn't matter, you can't just un-upset someone

When he said “it’s just a joke” I had to pause the video and scream

This guy seems to want everyone to believe the comedy was no big deal and that he didn't know it was gonna be offensive to her... but he went out of his way to hide it specifically from her? He knew what he was doing lmao

This guy is so disgusting I can’t even enjoy the cringe. And the way the show made it seem like it was her fault for her life being intruded upon because she ghosted an abuser is awful.

The ending shouldn't have been a confrontation between him and her but with him and a psychologist who would explain to him and the audience how his behaviour was not ok.

i was watching and i got an ad for wedding rings right before the confrontation happens. is this a sign from the universe-

The reason she ghosted him is because he’s certifiably crazy.