My Best Friend Kissed My Husband And It’s Destroying Me. How Do I Proceed? 

Half the people giving advice have never even kissed a girl. Its all neck beards giving their misinformed opinions from their mother's basement.

At this point, the husband is a victim, but he gets where his wife's mental state is. I would not tell him outright, but show him the posts. Then, when he is done reading, appologize for doubting him. I have a feeling the husband will forgive her.

@@Maninawig What mental do you have to be to share your your story to total strangers and then act on their paranoid advice? She literally doubted all actions of her husband based on some internet strangers.

@@Garoslol Distress. From development to estrogen production, the female body is designed to be much more susceptible to empathy than a man. It serves as a positive in the humanities (including being a lawyer), in caring for babies, and in building strong communities. However, the drawback is that you become more susceptible to things like betrayal and peer pressure. It is said that a conservative comparison estimate of emotional pain is 10:1 compared to men, meaning that what she witnessed was comparable to 10 of your trench brothers trying to SA your wife all at once. Oooor 50 buddies, depending on where she is in her cycle. That betrayal creates mental distraught, which in turn creates susceptibility to suggestions... I.e. it makes each Reddit reply seem 50x more credible. But that also means she feels the guilt 50 times harder for not trusting her husband.

@@Maninawig i disagree. In the husband's shoes idk if I could ever forgive her. To me that's a deal breaker.

Also, notice how reddit called love bombing him doting her. The double standards are insane.

Fr its just sad at this point @@legiontepes3474

Honestly, in this case, Reddit is TA. The wife felt betrayed by the friend and defended the husband. Then Reddit took this woman's vulnerability and weaponised it with mısandy. Even roles reversed, I would see it as a victim being gaslıt.

Many Thanks, My Dude

Her marriage is over. If the genders were reversed, everyone would tell the husband to divorce op for not trusting him after he got sa. She's disgusting and he deserves better.

WHAT?!

😅 No New Update(s) were made yet... but it will be crazy as hell if what you said foreshadow anything...

Because that would be a lie. She went there to confirm he wasn't cheating. Op is scum.

I hope we get an update and he divorces her.

you're mother is a monster too then okay

​@@legiontepes3474imagine if hé was cheating in the update and Reddit was right