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@Nicolettaxo 3 года назад

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@NgocTran-hu5vw 3 года назад

Tfiuuii

@AA-dk9zz 3 года назад

That’s one of the worst losses, when you lose a bestfriend. A few years ago my bestfriend ghosted me too and i was so upset about it I even had recurring dreams. I’ve learnt that time heals and you’ll find your people eventually. If someone doesn’t put the exact same effort in to see you then don’t bother with them. I learnt the hard way !

@VivianLee33 Год назад

Ghosting is a form of emotional abuse. Hurt people… hurt people. It’s disappointing this happens and hard not to take it personally. Stay in your power and you’ll attract the people you deserve.

@patlauron Месяц назад

Grow up, lady. You're an adult. No one owes you anything.

@adventuresofkatekat 3 года назад

It’s really sad, but I too found that in the happiness milestones of my life (getting engaged, getting married and buying a house) that some of the closest people to me turned nasty. Big milestones reveal true friends. Stay strong Nicoletta 🙏🏼

@dj912sent9 3 года назад

People may be going through difficulties even during your happy milestones.

@ceooflonelinessinc.267 2 года назад

But what should you do if you do not reach any milestones and the opposites happens and these things you mentioned also go wrong?

@Nepthu Год назад

@@dj912sent9It's jealousy

@alexandrajoy8142 5 месяцев назад

This is what I’m going through… my best friends ghosted me in the process of wedding planning.😔 it’s really hurtful

@snatchinitback4635 5 месяцев назад

@@alexandrajoy8142 Those are NOT your best friends! Even where someone is being an EXTREEEEEME bridezilla, most people will bear it for the sake of their friend's special day. *Definitely NOT saying you are one* Just pointing out that *true* friends stand by you for your special day. Sounds like those people are jealous. My guess is that those are NOT true friends. I'm sorry you are going through this. But you are better off without them.

@hindwidad2723 Год назад

She doesn't deserve you as a friend. You're too good for her. She actually did you a favor ghosting you, now you don't have to deal with a fake friend anymore

@penne4107 Год назад

Going through this right now. It’s the worst feeling and I feel so lonely, even though I have other friends.

@TLR1219 10 месяцев назад

Me too

@NameOfRain 4 месяца назад

Same.

@David-tg8vc Год назад

I’ve been ghosted twice by someone close to me. I can’t deal with it again. Close bonds are for some people, but not me

@yoyito2020 11 месяцев назад

People are so disgusting I swear. One thing is to end things the right way and the other is to do this. It really hurts the person and it’s sick to think that they know this and they rather let you suffer, than talk to you and be honest. 🤮

@heatherbaby17 3 года назад

I had a childhood best friend of 15+ years ghost me 😪 I had so many recurring dreams centered around her and our friendship....it's such an emotional rollercoaster....I've been trying to make peace with it...it's been 5 years so far....I'm doing better now though

@ellekay852 Год назад

Me too. Exact same situation. Childhood best friend totally ghosted me and it’s been 6 years and it still hurts. Hugs to you

@johnT906 Год назад

They are guilty of something they have done to you or have something to hide, trust me people don't ghost someone out of the blue they are always guilty of something be aware!

@DearKyndal 11 месяцев назад

Omg same. 20 years. It's been 3 years and I'm still dreaming of her and hurting. I'm scared to make friends now.

@hasinapatel1233 4 месяца назад

Same.

@mbarbosa661 11 месяцев назад

I think ghosting is a super toxic way of dealing with people…. Grow up and face issues head on, stop running away, be accountable for your part, be honest and own your truth! Sadly when it comes to friendships I think milestones play a big role in weeding out the fake ones from the real ones!

@annberlin5811 Год назад

If she ever contacts you again make sure you tell her she had super bad manners and you dont have time for that

@Nepthu Год назад

My "best friend" and I used to go to the gym and practice martial arts. This year, I've lost almost 50lbs, and now he never wants to hit the gym with me. We're both taking a bjj class, and he never chooses to partner with me either. I've asked him about it, and he says he's worried about "exercise codependency." I've hit the gym 6 days a week alone all year. It's a lame excuse, so I've started fading him out of my life.

@TheShaleco Год назад

I had my friend of 20 years ghost me 2 years ago. It really fucked with me. I tried so hard to figure out what was going on and I hate that things ended the way they did. I wish I had an answer but I am coming to peace with the fact that I have to give myself closure and I can't keep waiting on it for someone else. It's getting less painful and I'm lucky I have other friends in my life.

@TheMinimalistSparrow 2 года назад

People never cut someone off for no reason, there's always one they may not be honest about it but there is one or more.

@hindwidad2723 Год назад

To me it sounds like jealousy. And there might be a reason, but the point is, if you've known someone for so long you should at least tell them the reason why you no longer want to be friends with them.

@Tee94376 Год назад

@@hindwidad2723 sometimes people grow apart and don’t know what to say, so they just try to fade away. It can be confusing. I’ve been on both sides of that same coin. People come and people go.

@johnT906 Год назад

Don't listen to the grow apart BS that people tell you, if a person ghosts you for no reason they either are hiding something or feel guilty for something they did and don't want you to find out be aware!

@mushroommagic1697 Год назад

People who ghost are immature and cowards. The best thing to protect yourself from those people is to check if the relationship is one sided. Usually when a relationship is one sided, ghosting happens as a mean to end the relationship, because no emotional maturity and respect to the other person. It stinks to know that you have been in a one sided relationship, where the ghoster discards of the other person because the person is either too boring, too lame, has changed, or my favorite bullshit excuse "the other person hurts my vibe and I am too evolved".

@kpfern2337 Год назад

I did consider cutting a friend out of my life. And there’s a reason. My “best” friend always calls me when she’s having relationship problems. But when I have problems, she takes days and weeks to answer. Worse off, she’s always complaining about guys ignoring her. Years ago there was one time we were hanging out and we decided to have dinner together. Her crush called her and asked if she’s free, to which she enthusiastically said yes. That memory really sticks. Im still upset and do think guys always come first and I’m always taken for granted.

@maylove5105 3 года назад

Yes girl I've had a couple best best friends just drop me and like you not just once but a pattern! So frustrating!

@fjp9 3 года назад

not trying to be mean, but have you ever considered that maybe you might be part of the problem/pattern? i’m not saying that you are the problem, but is it possible that maybe your actions or attitude have contributed to the problem or loss of friendship? i don’t know you or why your friends dropped you, but since it is a pattern, maybe you should or could evaluate the common denominators to those issues. was it because they or you started a relationship, kids, health issues, work stress, etc?

@See-if_I_care Год назад

Seems that you are the common dominator 🤷

@xpinkdesiire2 3 года назад

This happened to me as well! My best friend of 12+ years decided to ghost me as well and also during an exciting moment in my life. It went as far as me running into her at a baseball game & she blatantly ignored me as if she didn’t even know me, but paraded herself and tried to speak to my now husband. The sad thing is that I’m her daughters God mother & miss her so much. I blame it on jealousy of the rise of my life that was happening at the time.

@tabithal8113 2 года назад

This happened to me also smh

@RD77707 Год назад

Me too

@lc2748 4 месяца назад

You're right. It sounds like she's jealous.

@katieb3172 2 года назад

I feel like there are some situations where removing a person from your life is nessecary depending on the nature of your relationship or if having a conversation means being sucked back into manipulation however in many cases it is always the right thing to have a conversation. Even if it’s just a few shared words. It’s so simple to just say goodbye.

@RNicolasRuvalcaba Год назад

I'm a 55 year old manly man and I've been very hurt by a female friend of 20 years. As a childless couple struggling with infertility issues for well over ten years my wife and I were always invited to my friends place for family functions, BBQ, Superbowl, etc. In fact, all of those invitations were a big distraction from all of the drama that we were going thru in our personal lives. Then we were finally blessed with a little boy and our friend was the first person to come over and see our baby and bring us food, etc. But all of the invites gradually dwindled, and it's very hurtful because we were friends with all of her extended family and I never would have dreamed that my son wouldn't be friends with her daughter and all of the other kids that are part of her family. It's actually quite bizarre how we were so welcomed as a childless couple and now that we actually have a family of our own we've been completely snubbed. If I was still a childless person I don't think it would hurt as bad but it feels like my son (now 5) is being snubbed, which is heart breaking.

@rituparnadebnath5850 3 года назад

Seems like she's jealous of you. And couldn't bear to stay in your life anymore. But that is no excuse for treating you the way that she did. She's not a true friend. You're better off without her.

@br00kex0 3 года назад

I needed this!! I just had a best friend do this to me yesterday! I've been through this a couple of times and it's such a hurtful and confusing moment in life! Makes you question so much.

@Carlinisalive Год назад

My best friend of 12 years abandoned me for her new boyfriend because I’m a guy and this shit honestly has hurt me more than anything even breakups I’ve had haven’t hurt this much she was like my sister now she’s like a ghost to me 💔

@enza3770 2 года назад

I was just ghosted my my bestfriend of 15yr after I told her I had cancer, she screamed at me and said I gave it to myself, I didn't know what to cry about more the cancer or the loss of my who I thought was my bestfriend, I am starting to get over it as it is more important to heal from my surgery and move on realizing that was a really nasty response to my cancer and she is not a nice person or a good friend!

@karenkalasy8251 Год назад

😮 what a weird response from her? Xx

@chrischamberlain7628 10 месяцев назад

Same thing happened to me when the doctors felt I had cancer. My so called friend told me she would be more likely to get cancer. When I told her I didn’t feel she understood how scared I was, she actually hung up on me. I thought she would end up realizing what she did and call me back, but she never did. It did turn out I did have cancer. She told a mutual friend I was actually making up I had cancer. Really??? I don’t think so. This so called friend never ever did contact me & I saw on a people search website she died 20 years later. I don’t know how she died, but at this point I don’t care. It’s scary how I really thought she was my friend before she did this.

@mariann2507 3 года назад

i really needed to see a video like this 😭 my friend of 8+ years stopped talking to me pretty much after she got married & i have felt so alone 💔

@d.l831 3 года назад

That’s kind of scary..I hope your friend is okay. I’m sorry this happened to you, bu I am concerned for your friend also…

@fjp9 3 года назад

have you talked to them about it? is it because of her partner, her, you, or multiple factors?

@ChelsieAnn 3 года назад

Nicolettas storytimes are so relatable. My friendship breakups are always terrible, but it feels so nice knowing that we are never alone. ❤

@zombiiexmassacre Год назад

I have one friend ghosting me right now, and it's killing me. I have been really good friends with her since we were 6 years old ( we are 32 now ) I haven't had ANY responds for A YEAR NOW !!! I'm so worried... she doesn't answer her e-mails or her text messages I tried writing to her with a different e-mail ( in case she blocked my other one ) ... still waiting for an answer. We were really good friends... I'm so confused I can't get this out of my head... I cry a lot... ... ... ... 😢

@nhutran9564 3 месяца назад

I get you, I am experiencing it right now

@justinbunn6714 2 месяца назад

Same with me but it's been over a year and a half now. I texted his family and they confirm he's okay but just blanking all my messages with no reply. A real dick thing to do but probably down to mental sickness

@spittingame4241 2 года назад

The same thing happened to me 4 times by the same person that I've known ever since we were kids in 1993. It makes you not trust people after that.

@rainsies 2 года назад

So cowardly. My best friend of 15 years talked behind my back and acted like we were still cool and when I asked to talk she completely ghosted me. Wtf

@shortcourt24 3 года назад

I had this happen to me about 6 months ago. The wound still feels very fresh. It sucks, and I'm trying to move on but I just want closure. Also Im trying to figure out how to forgive someone who hurt you so badly.

@LoveMusic-dv4sl 6 месяцев назад

It's very sad to me when someone ghosts you & you know that you didn't do anything to them. If there is a problem then the friend should say something. Its very hurtful, but I have learned from my experience (it happened to me also a few times with one friend, and finally I said that's it) that if someone keeps going in & out of your life its not a frienship especially if there's no explanation. You have to move on & have faith that you'll find friends that treat you the way you treat them.

@siphiwedlamini469 3 года назад

I have been Ghosted 3 times with out a reason. Tried to bring everything together and do things by the book. Ended up apologising for wrong I did not know of or commit for peace to rain. Nothing worked. Thank God at this time my Bible and Jesus Christ was my friend so I cried out to his unconditional love. And now I have peace staying with out friends. My husband is my friend although it's not the same but it's okay. I trust and love very fast and loyal.

@imawakemymindisalive13 3 года назад

same except instead of the bible it was food 🤐

@fjp9 3 года назад

you might think there wasn’t a reason, but it is possible that there was a reason that you either didn’t understand or even see.

@sydl3317 2 года назад

YOUR STORY EXPLAINS ME AND MY BEST FRIEND TOO. We were best friends for 3 years up until this most recent Nov. I left college to go home and ever since, I haven’t heard A WORD from her. I reached out the beginning of January, and similar to your story, she was weirdly nice to me but it felt fake and like small talk. And then she eventually left me on read and the convo didn’t last for more than a day. The worst part is we’re roommates and I’m going back college sometime soon 😭 it’s going to be super awkward. It’s evident she has cut me out, and I genuinely have no clue why. I’m always there for my friends and very inclusive/loving :(

@yourhomegirlholly1790 3 года назад

OMG Nicolette, I'm so sorry you had to go through that girl, friendship breakups suck and are so hard.😞💙 I've always been that friend to give my all in a relationship, and they just don't reciprocate it back and it sucks.🥺 So just know you're not alone in this girly, sending hugs your way.🤗💖💕

@tctalia8484 Год назад

Thank you for sharing- I have a very similar story from many years ago I've recently thinking about. Lost a 'best friend' right after my wedding and never fully understood why but the pain is worse than romantic loss by far.. thank you

@colleenstetson4319 2 года назад

This video is very helpful for my own healing and appreciate you posting it. Spot on about some people unexpectedly being really bizarre while you're going through big life milestones. My best friend of more than 20 years ghosted me right before my wedding last summer. She was supposed to be my maid of honor. I still haven't heard from her. It really hurts. Also, birth control pills did the same thing to me. I've never felt so helpless and in despair in my life. Once I stopped taking them to try a different birth control method I realized it was the pills that were making me feel that way. I almost felt robbed of years of my life feeling that way and as a result had a huge emotional breakdown/cathartic experience coming to terms with it. I wish more people would talk about this. Thank you!

@TLR1219 10 месяцев назад

I'm sorry that's disgusting. Shame on her

@bunyipshorrorgallery 3 года назад

This is pretty much exactly what happened to me. Sadly she was my maid of honor and in wedding photos. Don't know why she ghosted me.

@joeolitoquit3877 7 месяцев назад

Do friends still come around after they have ghosted you?

@Tenzin62 2 года назад

I ghosted my best friend of twenty years because she was a narc. She belittled me daily, told her children and relatives that I was an idiot. She used me as an ATM machine, ten dollars, twenty dollars, money for gas, money for cigarettes constantly every day almost. She never, NEVER ever paid me back what she borrowed. Her bullying increased, asked me who I voted for then told me I was an idiot and people like me shouldn’t be allowed to vote. Morning noon and night phone calls, texts, so one day I stopped replying. And it’s been heaven.

@MaaikeGirardin Год назад

Did you ever try to tell her and at least give her the opportunity to grow? She might have been totally oblivious of this

@Tee94376 Год назад

@@MaaikeGirardin that’s way she called her a narc. Narc are oblivious to their behavior, and they don’t grow. The best thing to do is to walk away. Sometimes you gotta save yourself.

@irenenelson6994 Год назад

Ghosting a toxic person to save your emotional well-being and sanity is justified to me. It is just immature, cowardly, and selfish to ghost somebody who has been a supportive and good friend. Tell them you are done and why briefly, and then go no contact. Ghost the abusive and toxic ones, IMO.

@racebannon96 9 месяцев назад

Is her name Candace?

@katyc4047 3 года назад

Just happend to me recently 😭😭😭.... We were friends since 7 y o... I m still crying

@alyssadana5011 3 года назад

Mine did too. We have a lot of similar stories w exes and stuff. So happy you found a great guy. You’re beautiful inside and out and deserve the world. I’m at work so I’ll watch the rest after :) Ps. Clearly they never were our friends …

@Nicolettaxo 3 года назад

ahhh you are the sweetest Alyssa !

@alyssadana5011 3 года назад

@@Nicolettaxo thank you!! I hope I find someone soon like you did. But we have to find the bad ones before we can get to the good ones

@niktour352 3 года назад

Yeah I had a college friend stop talking to me. They were inconsistent already though as a friend.

@zenaiko33 11 месяцев назад

Girl that sound like a one-sided friendship. If she’s not happy for you during your happy, celebratory moments, she’s not genuine. I hope you still aren’t trying to contact her, she doesn’t deserve you as a friend.

@frufrubb45 5 месяцев назад

Story of my life, with one friend. Just cant care more about people like that anymore.

@LoveMusic-dv4sl 6 месяцев назад

Nicolette, I'm so sorry that your friend treated you like that. It sounds like she was jealous of you, and you're better off without her friendship.

@mimianddo Год назад

Thanks for posting this video. Going through this myself right now. Already over a year passed and I still struggle emotionally. I admit that I placed too much of my identity on to my ex best friend and that void after losing that is almost unbearable. Moving on from a best friend is like trying to cross a quick sand - you’ll fall into despair if you don’t keep moving on. But then again how could I have helped my ex friend if I can’t even help my self from the depths of suffering lol. I can only hope for an outcome where both sides are happy.

@jollyshortlegs 7 месяцев назад

Thats really humble of you to say that. I’m going through it as well rn, it’s also almost been a year. I’m trying to find a brainpattern that’s acceptable to me to move on with (e.d. He’s too cowardly to say what is up, I won’t settle for something I wouldn’t do to someone else…). Because I’m so hurt it’s hard to want the best for him as well and let both sides be happy. I hope I get there one day.

@TheGymnast71 Год назад

I knew this girl from childhood I tried multiple times to get back in touch with her she completely stopped all communication I tried many times to get back in touch with her but you can’t change other people..funny she’s a life coach! So doesn’t really make sense but you have to let people go sometimes

@tiffy1723 3 года назад

I think the girl maybe made the friends up…I’ve had a girlfriend I had to remove from my life cuz she was literally a compulsive liar & about the dumbest shit

@imawakemymindisalive13 3 года назад

yeah one of my friends is like that too

@sharonrosesullivan1192 Год назад

Wow. I guess this is a thing. Same thing happened to me. Two of my best friends rejected me right when I got married. One ghosted, the other demonized me & rejected me in a very painful way. Trying to build confidence to connect with new friends, but it’s hard, takes a long time to heal. I also gave more to both women, and the one that demonized me was emotionally unavailable at times, and would demand appreciation when she was giving. Hard lessons learned. A good time to raise standards for friends.

@alexandrajoy8142 5 месяцев назад

This is exactly what I’m going through. One friends been ghosting me and other demonized me and rejected me uninvited me to her birthday.

@mayabythesea 7 месяцев назад

I ghosted my best friend of 10+ years. Not an excuse but I was afraid to bring up any of our problems to her because in the past she'd get really uncomfortable and shut down those discussions. I thought trying to fix it would just lead to a fight or make this more awkward. I regret my choice and wish I could go back and end things the right way for her sake. I love her and I thought we'd always be friends. You dont treat people you love like that. I abandoned my dear Nicole out of cowardice. I apologized to her and she said we could work it out but she's better off without me. I was recently diagnosed with bipolar and I feel like i cant be anyone's friend because of it.

@PebbleBeachLife 2 года назад

Do yourself a favor and look into the 9 traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They go through cycles, they love bomb you, then devalue you then detach and this cycle can continue over and over. It's very confusing. 😕 The relationship is always one sided and it is exhausting. Take care.

@LightProgramming Год назад

Avoidant attachment style

@coconeedham24 8 месяцев назад

I just had the same experience happen to me… A friend I’ve known for 15 yrs that I thought was special.. Thise people aren’t worth it but I had blindly continued the friendship when I should have ended it yrs ago.. She never made the effort as I did for her.. I won’t ever ignore the signs like that again..😂

@ZetaCancri Год назад

Yeah, I was ghosted by a "friend" of 2 years too, it's been like 3 months since she contacted me ... I'm not chasing you

@Synthpoptroubadour Год назад

I had a friend do the same thing, except he doesn’t respond to any emails or texts or whatever… And I’ve been friends with him for 20 years However, like you, he did this to me twice before, it’s not exactly ghosting because he says he’s going to take a break, but then he ignores any of my attempts at contacting him and it’s just really unhealthy

@Beyondthebayou Год назад

Going through the same things here too

@Synthpoptroubadour Год назад

@@Beyondthebayou honestly, it’s their loss. I also spoke with a few of his other ex-friends who said he did the same thing with them.

@charijones9899 Год назад

You are better off without her, the best wishes for you to your new family and home.

@4Dolphinity Год назад

My friend of 11 years dropped me. And I can't accept it, I've been crying for the past 3 hours and shaking

@XtinePhlair Год назад

It totally, totally sucks and is so painful. So sorry to hear. I’m in my mid 50’s and it happened to me last fall. Some people are just extremely immature and cowardly. Time passing helps, I know it’s fresh pain now.

@Kim_Monique Год назад

Hope you ok

@dreamerbookslover9470 3 года назад

Having a hard day so thank you for this video. Tight hugs from Italy.💜

@Nicolettaxo 3 года назад

awwww I am so sorry to hear that beautiful! I hope things turn around for you.. you are never alone

@nybsbfan18 3 года назад

Your hair looks great today. I can't stand people on social media who don't write anything when u type a message. They just press like 👍 or pass along chain mail or ask u to support a cause. Write something back! I had to drop a friend for that reason.

@raex143 3 года назад

I just recently lost a good friend of mine through a fight that was both of our faults. I unintentionally hurt her over a guy and profusely apologized, and she repeatedly treated me like shit and admitted to it. She refused to acknowledge or even respond to my apologies or regular conversations and I finally gave up trying to make her feel better because all she was doing was hurting me on purpose.

@fjp9 3 года назад

sometimes people need time to heal, calm down, and/or to be able to forgive

@kurisuchiinu1206 2 года назад

She ghosted me after I was putting a lot of effort bringing our group together. All they had to do was commit on a date. But no, she and my other friend always had to reason out whenever I plan a reunion. I messaged her, apologizing about my actions and realized I was being persistent and toxic. We stopped talking after that. I realized my self worth. That I was only doing my part as a friend and if they don't see it that way, then, I won't put anymore effort. The other friend that she's close with, still talks to me till this day. She tells me that we'll talk soon or just give her time, but I don't believe that BS. If she really wants to, she will. She ghosted me before and I accepted her when she came back but now, I don't even know. My family considered her as a family too, but now, I'll just move on and never know what she or my group of friends think of me. I'm just done. Now, I don't think I have any best friends lol.

@Chrisia-Queens 3 месяца назад

If you ghost me, Never come back. Because if you do, you will regret it. I won't have mercy on you. I will get my revenge.

@LegendOfKhaos12 Месяц назад

Lmfao “My revenge”. Ok bud.

@TaprootPoem13 3 года назад

only thing i can think of for why she has done this, is that shes jealous. you must have something she wants, whether its money or a career or a lifestyle, your fiance... she must be jealous. no normal person would do that to someone unless their jealous. im so sorry you have to deal with this...but.....the trash took itself out.

@bernitacenteno1326 2 года назад

They that ghost you are those that will tell you, " We are special " . This surprised me when I heard one woman say that to me. I said, " special ". WHAT ? Of course that really meant that she is special. I don't think so.

@H457-o8x 2 месяца назад

I have a friend on 9+ years he just instantly stopped talking and was going around with another friend group.

@emilyhernandez3638 6 месяцев назад

i know how you feel this exact same thing happened to me and idk why !

@averagejane09 4 месяца назад

People can be such buttholes. Honestly. It never ceases to amaze me. If she has an issue with you, she needs to be a grown up and be honest and let you know what her deal is. It is juvenile to ghost. This is lack of values. You need to spend no further energy on this person. She is unhealthy. You are better off. Be glad this happened before your wedding. A stumble prevents a fall. You may have dodged the bullet of her doing something close to your wedding day to upset you.

@tamikawahl7540 2 месяца назад

Girl, I thought I was the only one. The cut off on social media was the same that happened to me; IG, Snapchat, Pinterest. The only social media she didn’t cut me off from was Facebook; Well I did her the favor. I know in the past she has had a tendency to go on people’s fb to see how they are doing or just to be nosy.(including her ex boyfriend she’d used my fb to see how he is doing; I was friends with her ex) If you are going to cut me off on social media, then by all means go all the way. Don’t leave one open just so you can snoop when you feel like it and not reach out. If people can be friends with you for so long, how can they just ghost other people like that without even having the respect to tell them to their faces that they no longer want to be friends?

@Zahra.Siddiqui 3 года назад

Girl you’re almost hitting 1m !!!!

@lauj888 2 года назад

Thank you for this. I have just had this happen to me in a very long friendship. It happened first a few years ago but we made up. She wouldn’t take any accountability for things she did, so I just relented for the sake of saving the friendship. Now its happened again, and all I’ve asked is for closure, but she wont even give me that. It feels as if I never knew her at all, when I thought we were so close. Its so heartbreaking. I have been through a lot of loss in my life so to have this happen is even harder. I feel for you with what you experienced, and it does seem like it may be jealousy for what you have accomplished. I just dont understand though why people can’t just be honest and real about things, especially when they can just send a text if they don’t want some confrontation, so at least you know why. Thats the thing that just confuses me so much. Like I have accepted my friend clearly does not wish to be friends any longer, but our last communication was normal, so how can I make sense of things and get closure. Thanks for making this video, it was much needed to hear❤️

@anastasiamanta6354 3 года назад

It sounds like she was envious of you and your successes. Maybe she did say things in the past and meant them but because she didn't have the same successes in her life as you did she felt envious of you when the time came instead of happiness and excitement and felt the need to remove you from her life to remove the feeling of envy, harming you in the process. It definitely has nothing to do with you but with herself and her self esteem.

@lc2748 4 месяца назад

Well said.

@madhut829 3 года назад

Thanks for opening up. I was confused by the last video by others actions. This helps with the perspective .

@youreincredible1648 Год назад

You seem nice, maybe too nice you shouldnt ignore red flags, ive been through the same thing and going through it now. Its sad but you dont need jealous friends.

@user-wz1fy7xs2l 3 года назад

Sorry to hear that :( Even tho it must’ve been a hard story to share, I’m can’t wait to watch the new video! I sent you an email abt the fan art too! Ly girl! xo

@imawakemymindisalive13 3 года назад

yeah

@jessiefernun4114 7 месяцев назад

My bestfriend of 10 years ghosted me because her fiancé didn’t like me, and he didn’t like me because I was always there for her and told her how toxic he is. As a friend I tried to be there but now it’s all done.

@bi11iejoe 3 года назад

That's a crazy story. Perhaps enviousness and insecurity on her part could be a factor of her distancing. Or maybe she misunderstood something that may have happened in your relationship? I really wonder why though because it doesn't seem like you've done anything to her. Just wondering - have you ever tried to straight up ask her why she is behaving this way? Love your storytimes!

@CruisingWithElena Год назад

Ur ex friend was a user

@ros2480 Год назад

my friend (?) is gosthing me for a week, I know she's busy with other friends and her job and stuff but you know... it's been 7 days... we didn't fight and actually we were talking normally. It's not the first time she does this, but the other times didn't last that much, maybe one day, nothing more. I don't know.

@jenell_151 3 года назад

Omg so excited! Ly girl!!! (I just woke up for this lol)

@Nicolettaxo 3 года назад

ahhh love that I hope you enjoy :) thank you for watching hehe

@turtleislandlac1490 2 года назад

I think some people feel like HS or childhood friends are their past and feel like they want to move on. I didn't realize this until years later when I experiened it, that it's nothing person you just feel stuck in the past for some reason. Someone did this to me and I was hurt for years. But then later when the roles were reversed and I wanted to move on from someone and didn't know how to tell them because it's super awkward. You can't really have a conversation about it.

@InhaleSkyExhaleStars Год назад

omg same! i had a 'best friend' and she just distant herself from me bit by bit.... and like a year ago i cut ties with a friend too and had my reasons, but i didn't say anything to her. i just can't say why, its too awkward i guess

@Dekthagr8 Год назад

@@InhaleSkyExhaleStars although it’s awkward, communication is better than nothing. If you were once friends the least you can say is hey I feel like we are on two different path and this friendships isn’t serving me on my path. Communicate please. People internalize ghosting.

@fluffy9251 3 года назад

Sis is almost at 1 million omg!!!

@amandadelecosse1661 7 месяцев назад

Same. I had an extremely close friend of nearly ten years ghost me. Same progression of a friend group split. His family shut down too. I have zero ideas as to why. I was worried, sad, angry, hopeful, in disbelief, and confused. I still don't know why. Blamed myself for years. Still working on letting it go. It took years to understand that it was something he decided. I don't need to know why.

@sanniidhi Год назад

My best friend ghosted me too and it was so hard for me. I kept texting her and she never responded. I have never felt hurt in my life and everytime I message her and never responded to me. She saw my story on Snapchat and she blocked me. I had to tell my mom. My best friend said that she will always be there for me but the reason why she blocked is because she has a big test on Monday and she also blocked other people. Idk if I trust that and I feel like she will never talk to me again.

@Beyondthebayou Год назад

Same here going through that too it hurts

@sanniidhi Год назад

@@Beyondthebayou it does when me and my best friend never had a fight and then all of a sudden, she started hurting me

@CruisingWithElena Год назад

Move on ur a gem a diamond that people can’t raise up to

@andreamorrow77 4 месяца назад

My heart goes out to you. I am going thru the same thing with my so-called best friend of seven years. She ghosted me twice before this last time. But eventually she would always show up again. Claiming some lame excuse that didn't even make sense. I also ignored the red flags and the looks of jealousy. Until it finally happened to us once again recently. Just disappeared with no excuse. Like you, I just wanted her as my best friend for life. we shared so many happy times. Only to find out she has no problem ghosting me. No explanation nothing. Obviously, she is still on social media. But just doesn't want anything to do with me. I have never done anything to make her angry. This is why I attribute it to flat out jealousy By not even giving me closure.😢 thank you for bringing this very touchy subject up. Although it is sad , it is also good to know that we are not alone in such a senseless state of shock

@asvphios9996 2 года назад

Your friend is a lesbian and she’s madly in love with you.😂

@lc2748 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much for your story. I am much older than you, but my best friend of 45 years has just done this to me. Like you, I don't know what I did wrong and it's very perplexing. I won't contact her either, because I have been consistently kind and generous with her. If this is who she really is, this ghosting shell of a human being, then I'd rather see it end. ( But it hurts).

@Jasin-gu4pi Год назад

I wish my best friend can understand that no one in this world cares for them as I do it’s so frustrating especially when he’s the one who’s been there at my worst of times maybe he’s struggling with something

@laurahillyer Год назад

It sounds like she just wasn’t into you like that and didn’t want to hurt your feelings. I’m not blaming either one of you, but you may have come on too strong for her to handle. You seem like a very nice person. Know your worth. Wait on the person that matches your level of friendship and commitment.

@millennialaviation Год назад

Ok she could’ve communicated that instead of being a coward. Ghosting is never okay

@annberlin5811 Год назад

No she was super jealous. Woman are cra cra

@MariaGonzalez-mt3px Год назад

@@annberlin5811 she decided to come back when nicoletta was doing bad and once she started doing better she dipped again. she was definitely envious and used their friendship to boost her ego. friends who don't get excited for your success are not friends.

@kennettawright5470 Год назад

Lisa might of been jealous of your other best friend if she did all that thats awesome that u have your other friend i hate when u lose your best friend all ways keep your head up God bless 😊 don't let no one put u down God is all ways by ur side and stay positive.

@linaazmiin7479 3 года назад

maybe she had feelings for you and when you got engage she cut you to forget you i heard of these stories of ppl ghosting when theyre catfish

@nhutran9564 3 месяца назад

i always be available for her, we promised to be together for university years, but now she ghosted me for no reason.

@majordisappointment15 3 года назад

Can you do a video about revealing the deepest darkest secrets of subscribers? Ilysm

@rrmarshall3239 2 года назад

Sorry this happened to you. I know how much it hurts because it has happened to me. You friend has Borderline Personality Disorder. Read up on it and it will give you some closure.

@ziggyflame6988 Год назад

Its sad. Worst than a breakup. Im going through it except I don’t want to ghost two of my friends of 11years but it seems like I might have to because they don’t listen to me. They haven’t been around at all, when I need them the most and it doesn’t make sense because I’ve always been there for them. Plus they say we’re friends but they no longer include me in on things. They also believed some rumor that this chick said about me. So talking it out hasn’t worked at all, then unfortunately I may have to ghost them because it feels like they’ve ghosted me in a way

@Brenaenae 9 месяцев назад

I’m here cause my friend ghost me. Her actual name is “Lisa”😭🤦🏽‍♀️

@judy5936 22 дня назад

Lol. Same here…ghosted by Lisa again. I’m done trying.

@joie8465 4 месяца назад

Best friends won't last long people want to move on and don't give a crap about you thats a fact

@hannahshany7818 3 года назад

I love your videos :)

@rubylovesmakeuphalloween Год назад

Sorry to hear that 😞 I had a friend I've known for about 5 yrs I worked with her then before I quit and moved onto a new job she said we can always grab a coffee I said I was always free on the weekends since I'm off, she rarely messages me and she has time to go out with 2 other co workers but not me now she doesn't answer me back at all just reads the messages and doesn't respond its hurtful 😔

@Alemarie2023 3 года назад

I had a similar situation happen to me except it was over a 2 year span in university.

@jessjess024 3 года назад

Haven't finished watching quite yet, but maybe she could be dealing with substance abuse? That's just what first came to mind. Sorry love.. you deserve much better.

@user-zx1ii7vf2z 10 месяцев назад

Im similar to Lisa. Had a friend like Nicoletta, who was such an amazing friend. Included me in everything in her life. I was so grateful for her. Then things changed and we became less and less in contact, till now I can see that we exchange messages on big dates like birthdays. It is what it is.