My Entitled Mother DEMANDS I get a Loan for $1,000,000 to Build HER a HOUSE - Reddit Finance Podcast 

You too

Ya

Thanks

You as well :) though this was a year ago^ lol

With my friends. Everyone else but her,

I have respect 4 u

I respect you for dealing with your mother with her like that. (I hope you’re doing okay though)

Tank u :)

Story 2: Similar situation myself, however I've seen the other side. My parents treated me as a trophy child because I did decent in school. They placed expectations on me that I didn't want to meet and couldn't. I was the punching bag for my "friends" who actually kicked me out the group because they were bullying me and I told someone after months of suffering. I wouldn't say my advice is the best but if you can cut contact with them. Blood is thicker than water but that doesn't stop it being poisonous. Family is a double edged sword. It can be the your greatest strength or most crippling weakness. Parents that constantly put you down and try to erase your sense of self aren't parents they're slavers

Nothing is ever this simple. You can choose your pride. Or you might choose some financial stability for your children since you quit your job to be a Mom 12 years ago. So you decide to go back to school instead. You choose to build your social circle again. You make your husband who you haven't left regret his life's choices... while he might be continuing to make bad choices. And when you're ready to fly again. Do it. Maybe that's with your husband, maybe it's with yourself. But now it's truly your choice ♡ The idea isn't to make decisions in pride.

@@msbaboolal Ok, I am sorry, but I am confused, what does what you said have to do with the 4th story? Like I honestly have no idea what you are talking about XD

@@andreiscobai4206 Hahahhahahaha I know I don’t understand either

@@andreiscobai4206 It's probably a personal story of how they, or someone close to them dealt with infidelity (when children and marriage were factors, which they weren't in story four). So, no, it doesn't seem to be about story four. It seems to be a response to the absolutist mentality that there's no other healthy options than to immediately dump a cheater in any circumstance. Personally, I don't subscribe to that one size fits all mentality either. But, in the case of story four..... both OP and the girlfriend were well aware that the coworkers were very attractive and capable men. Perhaps moreso than OP. The girlfriend was completely unapologetic about walking out on OP and shooting her shot with a coworker. Then, came crying back to the boyfriend when it didn't work out with the coworker. He should NOT take her back. She's clearly not committed to him nor does she care about how he felt about any of this. She will very likely do this again the next time a better option appears. That's just where she's at in life. He doesn't need to subject himself to that. He can walk away as freely as she did. And should do exactly that in this case because he needs to have more respect for his time, energy, and affection than she does by not wasting it on a person who so callously traded him in. He's a human being. Not a life-raft to save a drowning person from her own stupid choices. That's not the case in every cheating situation. But, it sure is the case for this one.

@@rachelsarmientotack you've hit the nail on the head. My response is to the absolutist methodology applied in the comment I was responding to.

pffft , true.

Omg I am the same way lol 😂

HOW??????

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Yeah, his female friend is on point. He should totally cut ties with her. If she was really unhappy then she could've talked to him or break up, not cheat. If he stays with her then she'll probably just get better in hiding her behavior.

If I listened to this before bed I wouldn’t be able to sleep, this stuff just boils my blood, because ppl can be so rude and stupid

@@AmItheJerk I wish I had stories to submit lol, I'm only a teen right now so I don't have many experiences with people to share.

Honestly my favorite stories are relationship issues

Np bro keep up the great work!

They stated it was a fixed rate. However, taxes and insurance can go up if they use escrow to pay that. Either way….they are idiots!!

nope. Can't stick it out with the office ho. this economy requires two incomes and every day she works is another opportunity to f up. nobody needs that stress in their life.

No. That won't work. All the blame will be put on the dude. Telling him he messed up to "make her cheat". NONE of the responsibility or accountability will be placed on the woman. He needs to boot her a$$.

Next time you're at work or the library, look up local resources for battered/abused spouses. They can probably help you