Parents HATE Ugly Twin but LOVE Beautiful Twin... Now they Come to UGLY FOR HELP - Reddit Podcast 

Unless I'm mistaken, in the previous video the OP of the 2nd story said he did everything he could to try to have a better relationship with his daughter but she didn't want any of it. Can't fault the guy for "not having much of an emotional presence" if the daughter isn't giving him the chance.

The ex-daughter from the 2nd story made it pretty clear that she didn't want OP to be her dad, and she got what she wanted. Yes, the ex-daughter, ex-wife, ex-mother-in-law, ex-sister-in-law, and the ex-wife's boyfriend are sorry. But they aren't sorry they did it. They are sorry they got caught doing it. If they hadn't gotten caught they'd have been fine with what they did. And therefore they deserve their suffering.

For the secret family one, the only one I feel bad for besides OP is the boyfriend’s mother. Imagine your last moments finding out your son did something so horrific you have a heart attack from it ):

I came here specifically for story 2. What a horrible family. I feel so bad for OP and he's not the jerk, that family got exactly what they deserved every single one of them. They made their bed, now they can lie in it. I hope things get better for OP and he's able to one day heal, it's easy to tell he's still in pain.

The ops "family" are so horrible and do NOT deserve a second chance! No matter how poor or sad the "Daughter" is it cannot compare to the ops pain. I hope the op has a good retirement plan with his wife 🙏

i really dont understand the justice system how could she have half the house when she didnt even do anything financially....and spouse support like wtf imagine the roles reversed the boy wouldnt get anything......the girl is well and could work and earn.....why tf ?

The biggest lesson I learn from these videos is that you cannot repair a relationship once you break it. You can try to atone, but you cannot have what you once broke ever again.

Story #1: The dad may have realized they were bad parents, but there is definitely an ulterior motive as to why they want her back. Either the sister wants her back, or the sister is in need of something you can only get from your twin. So, don’t go back. Talk with your sister, it’s not entirely her fault that you loathe her it is definitely the parent’s fault. Try and get some info out of her, or see if she even knows. That’s my advice for that one. Story #2: I followed up from the first part of this story, and I can honestly say I know part of this experience as my mother is a leech, and she did not raise my little sister honest. I would try speaking with the daughter, even if it’s something as small as asking about her day, but do NOT put her in your will or lend her money. Don’t become a victim of leeching again, and don’t let her drag her other family members in as well, they made their choices and they influenced hers throughout her life while you were away. You are not the bad guy, but you also weren’t a very good father as you mostly tried to buy her love and turned her spoiled. I really hope you don’t make the same mistake with your son, and that he is raised honest and loving. But speak with your daughter, and things will go from there.

It's so disrespectful to treat the ugly twin so poorly while they treated the pretty one as their golden child but as soon as someone makes money they start treating her as their golden child

These stories make me realize how lucky I am, and feel grateful. The only issue I’ve had has come from my brother, and his lack of restraint. Both of our parents together were barely able to keep him calm and controlled. He’s finally learned those two abilities thankfully, and I’m actually building a relationship with him. Part of why he had been a problem for me most of my life was due to me I guess being the golden child and not realizing it.

Let’s keep this simple they aren’t sorry, they are just sorry they were caught. It really does make me happy to hear how quickly their lives got flipped the same way it happened to the OP them trying to mend things is them trying to get back to the easy life they don’t know how to work hard and be responsible for their lives they depended on him, look at the daughter only a part time job and brings 20k out of no where just to “amend things with dear old dad” no she thinks it’s way to get back on the will and move in to his new home she was of age to say those nasty things about him and say she wishes the other guy was her dad and understand what she said why does she all of the sudden care when the op wanted nothing with her? She literally got what she wanted the new dad. It makes my blood boil f**king trash people dude

The outcome was absolutely AMAZING 1. Former daughter is messed up and being eaten alive by guilt, couldn’t finish eduction and got cut off but all her friends for being toxic, 2. Ex Wife became so depressed she had to be taken to a mental hospital 3. Ex wife’s sister has a abusive and alcoholic partner and now she’s stuck with him and their 2nd baby 4.Ex wife’s mom/Ex mother in law died in an accident They deserve this every single one of them for letting this happen and let this go on for 4 years. The ex mom and ex daughter were just sad cause they got caught they would h never told him.

Mother's, like any parents, can be great brainwashers. My mom brainwashed my baby brother for years to hate my grandma. She whispered lies in his ears to the point where he did very disrespectful things towards her. My baby bro eventually saw the light and made up with my grandma, disowned my mom and spent the rest of my grandma's life making her very happy. The closure my grandma received from this made her last year's full of happiness and love from all her grandkids.

the whole family betrayal on the second story reminds me of Rising of the Shield Hero, the man was 100% Absolutely betrayed, and good on him for not giving in to Despair and taking the easy way out

The daughter destoyed his heart more than his own wife, she only wanted him when she realized she has no one in her life. What goes around comes around, she deserves what happend to her 100%

So there was an update to the first story and it makes you hate the parents even more Here it is: "Thanks for your comments and suggestions there. They were super helpful and helped me see things a lot more clearly. Love you all. This is a big big update and something quite shocking. I've got to go back to my therapist. Before I get to it, a lot of you asked about my relationship with my sister. Well. There's no relationship really. I spent all of my childhood hating her and never really had a nice relationship with her. She was not like my parents but they had spoiled the hell out of her and she sort of always saw herself as the better one of the two of us. Not surprised there and right now I don't even blame her for that. On the day that I was leaving I gave her a hug and told her that maybe if we had different parents we could have really been sisters but it's not how it turned out in this life but maybe we can make up for it later ourselves. I told her that if she wants to talk to me about this she can call me and we can meet up. She never called me. As it appeared from the last post, I went to talk to my therapist about this and she suggested that I can initiate some conversation and see how it goes. Based on her assessment she was happy if I wanted to go and see them I just need to understand that there's no obligation to go or stay. Good. I replied to my father's message with this: Hi dad For us to ever have a chance of seriously starting over, you owe me an answer. Why? I expect an honest answer. No "why what?", no "come and let's talk in person" or anything of that sort, just give it to me straight, believe me I can handle reading it if you could handle doing it. If you're not willing to give me that then I'm not willing to start over. He came back to me the next day with a long message, explaining "why". Let's get right to it: He told me that him and my mom wanted a child, and only one child as they didn't have the resources and energy of having more than one. They realized that we're twins, that screwed up everything and actually made them sad rather than happy. They decided to give one of us up for adoption. They looked around and even found a couple. In case you wondered, I was the one they decided to give away because I was smaller and my eyes weren't blue (yeah, that's how you decide which one of your kids to keep). They arranged everything, even took me to the them but that couple bailed out before signing the papers, when they saw me and my sister. Their conscience couldn't handle separating twin sisters like this. After this they looked for some couples and nobody seemed willing to adopt one of twin sisters. They entertained the idea of putting me into foster care but they couldn't live with themselves if they did. I think that says a lot. Stranger couples, who so badly wanted to adopt a child, couldn't be heartless enough to separate twin sisters but their fucking parents wanted to do it. It's beyond me. So they had to raise me themselves and they didn't enjoy it at all. In their minds the fact that they didn't put me into foster care was a favor in itself, more than what I apparently deserved and that's why they never cared to do more for me. Their full time and resources belonged to my sister and the small part of it that got to me, they saw it as me taking what's my sister's away. That's how they saw me. No wonder my childhood turned out the way it did. He said that deep inside they always knew what they were doing was wrong but they could never step up and do the right thing during this 18 years. Why not? They thought that changing the dynamic would negatively affect my sister as she's now used to being offered more time and resources and I'm used to not getting it, so making it more equal would be a luxury for me and a pain for her. They thought that's not fair for my sister to be in pain for the sake of my luxury. Again, their logic. I don't even know what to say to that. Ever since I left, mom and dad are having trouble. My sister is off to college and they're alone now with all the time in the world to think about what they did. They've been to marriage counselling and according to him that has helped them see everything clearly now and see how cruel they were to me. He says they want to start over and make up for all of it if I'm prepared to allow them. This is quite shocking for me. This explains a lot about why my childhood turned out the way it did. I'm going to be honest. I wished they had given me away for adoption. I really really do. I could have been with adoptive parents who really wanted me rather than with biological parents who never did. I still don't believe that they have changed though, this can be the result of my sister (their golden child) being away and not spending as much time with them and them trying to replace her with me. I don't want to do that at all but I don't know. I've got to talk to my therapist. Please give me your opinions again. You guys were so useful to me last time. Your help means a lot. tl;dr: Dad opened up about how they wanted to put me for adoption and they couldn't find a couple to agree to separate twin sisters. That turned out to how they decided to treat me during my childhood. They say they're getting counselling and see the wrong in them and want to make up for it now." Every child deserves parents but not all parents deserve children

This narrator is my favourite on the channel. His insight is always very well balanced.

"Ex-Daughter" that is savage

The story of the wife and daughter betraying the guy, I totally understand what he did with regards to his ex and gathering all the evidence for court etc. I totally understand how gut wrenching and heartbreaking it must have been to see his daughter wishing for a different dad. The poor guy will probably be emotionally scarred by this for the rest of his days. Sadly though, his daughter probably will be too. From a very young age she was obviously led astray by her mother and for whatever reason, seemed to accept the whole situation as normal. From the age of 8 she had issues and I think from the timeline of the story, she was dragged into this affair from the age of around 11. She was so young, so naive, so impressionable. Yes, what she did was wrong and will take some healing and fixing but I really think the guy should give her a chance. Her mother and all others don't need to be in any way involved in that, she is an adult and can make her own decisions now. If this was solely about money etc she probably would have given up trying after 2 (maybe 3) attempts. The fact that she is still repeatedly trying to reach out is a good sign that she is remorseful and genuinely wants to make some attempt at fixing the relationship. I know it would be extremely difficult for him, but it will be for her too.

I’m so happy for the guy in the second story. He went through years of not knowing about the other guy and finally got his life back in shape

I simply smiled at the second story it really opened my eyes to how cruel and disgusting and toxic people can get

Tbh the comment about the emotional presence for the daughter made me realize that person didn't read the post properly . He did try to connect with his daughter since day one and they had bond until she started to get disrespectful and the man still did everything for his daughter until he found out about the affair so it's both the mother and the daughters fault because at age 11 or so you should have a sense of better judgement .the father played his part very well providing everything for his daughter and still loved her unconditionally until the affair . So the op has no fault in this at all so I would say is that he went little to far with saying I didn't care if you died to the mother in law but that was a understandable statement and emotion to have .

Everyone: Wow, you doing pretty good! Me: Samauri Jack going hard on that skateboard

2nd story: Imagine if OP actually gave the daughter a second chance. She'd end up thinking that no matter how bad you f*ck up, tImE wIlL hEaL eVeRyThInG, and there's no such thing as lasting consequences. People underestimate how much 11 year olds can think for themselves, and overestimate how much gaslighting affects someone, especially someone who sees the antithesis to it right in front of them.

For the secomd story, that's EXACTLY WHAT YOU CALL NUCLEAR REVENGE.

Yes I've been waiting for part 2 keep up the good content

The second story has broke my heart... Never heard a sadder story honestly. Poor man. I hope his life is better now.

That nuclear revenge was SO MUCH satisfying, I can't believe it. If I was the op, I wouldn't contact the ex-daughter. She knew her mistakes and should be punished for it. The top answer is trying to shift blame to the victim of this horrible situation, it's just sad.

I'm overly sympathetic so take what I say with a heavy grain of salt but considering the daughter is probably 17+ and has a more fully develope mindset and even after most of her friends leaving her. I think that was one mega reality slap for her to realise she was wrong, there is no doubt what she can do now can make up for what she did in the past but I would encourage op to see her, not to forgive her but go hear her what she has to say and then let that be the last contact she'll ever have with him

The 2nd is not a jerk. To love others you have to love yourself first. His new family is his priority.

If the second OP's daughter is really sorry, then she'll understand why she doesn't deserve any contact from her "father".

As a twin it is always deeply upsetting to hear about twins that can hate each other :(

I saw your stream yesterday and it was really good so I just wanted to say I enjoy your content so much you have such a calming voice and I want you to keep up the good work I've also watched almost every single video on your channel and I love them all.

OP is definitely NTA, and has every right to keep ex-daughter out of his life (along with the rest of ex-family). Though if it were me, I'd at least hear the daughter out, it sounds like she understands (or at least is starting to understand) how horrible she was to her father and how messed up her behavior and betrayal were, and that she genuinely wants to do whatever it takes to rebuild their relationship

The 2nd story is just saddening, and it makes me upset because the pain he went through and now after the case his ex-daughter and wife come rushing with a whole bunch of sorrys and act as if they all they did was steal money and they can replace it. But what they did will never fix the pain the op went through, not only that but the daughter missed the OP's mothers funeral and that is way past forgiveness. The OP deserves a better life and I hope him and his new family live a better life and the son never meets his disgusting sister

The daughter only wanted to reconnect for the inheritance probably. This story really hit me in the heart, how could someone ever do this to another human being.

Story 2 was just lit

He suffered and yet people want him to be forgiving, seriously I would love to hear from "their" case if that happened to them instead. I respect the guy that he wants to move on and yes daughter trying to re-enter in your life might be another trap.

When he found out about the whole betrayal, the "ex" girl was only 15...her mother brainwashed her from a young age...and it seems obvious that she realized growing up that she had wronged her father, missed him and willing to do what it takes to gain his love and affection again. As one of the redditors said: even thin, he still has a share of responsibility for the evolution of their daughter. However, on an emotional level, we are not all built the same way and we can only imagine what the father felt, but not feel it ourselves. A certain view on what is good wants for him to find the strength to forgive her and make room for her in his life, but that's something the girl can hope for...but only hope for!

The second one is really hard. On one side it is absolutely clear that the OP was the victim and the ex-wife and the rest of the familiy were jerks. So it is absolutely understandable he wants no contact with any of them anymore. But on the other hand the daughter was eight, when it started and we don‘t know how much she was influenced by the mother to think there was nothing wrong the behaviour. At that age you don‘t think about the future and stuff like an adulte. So in conclusion the daughter was a jerk two, but it could be, that the doughter was just a pawn in the ex-wifes plays, not knowing how wrong the actions were. I can absolutely understand if the OP doesn‘t want contact with the daughter, but if there is a chance that someone in the old familiy is truly sorry and wanting a good relationship with the OP it would be the daughter, becsuse she was most likely manipulated by the ex-wife and didn‘t understand how severe the consequences would be.

In my opinion The op (if I’m correct) is not the jerk. He was very wise in cutting off his ex-daughter and ex-wife. I’m glad his is successful and well. I know what he done I could not in a million year’s. PS love your content

That just sad I can't believe parents would do this to their own child like what's wrong with them!

Second OP should get a restrain order for his ex-family... No contact, nothing. They put this onto themselves and deserve the consequences of their actions and words. I'm happy that he was able to build a new family and of course, a new happiness

In these stories, you often hear about how sorry someone is. Almost every single time i see this line in my head. "I am so so so sorry", with a thick white line behind it. What i see behind that line is, "that you found out." When there's no regret and just shame and disappointment, because they were found out, they are not sorry. They're bummed out, because the truth surfaced.

story 2: im guessing the outback country boyfriend didnt help much or take care of said "ex wife and daughter" when she split from honourable husband who was heart broken and then county boyfriend also disowned them both because he couldnt handle them 24/7 i think here it seems otherwise i dont think daughter would tried hard to get her actual father back after seeing how bad country boyfriend was.

People don't usually change their nature over time, since after he saw their nature which was really toxic he could at leats forgive his daughter since she was kid and probably didn't know any better and may have actually changed overtime or might be looking to continue the revenge cycle, either way if his EX daughter doesn't stop apologizing he won't be able to rest and it'll eat him up from the inside. Forgiveness is not just for saving other but it is also to save yourself. Thanks for the full story.

That was a hell of a story. I can't even imagine, the dude handled it as well as could be expected. Definitely better than I would have.

For the second story, if the ex-daughter is truly sorry for everything she said then give her a condition or something she has do to prove she is sorry

Story #1: Nope. I wouldn't go back. Something tells me the parents need something from her. Maybe financially. Maybe their health is in decline, and they want her to be a caretaker. Something smells fishy and I don't think it's the breeze coming off the ocean.

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for story 2 I'm glad He got a kid that at least liked him and that his new wife was in this situation as well

THE 2ND STORY HONESTLY MADE ME LAUGH, LIKE THE HOMEWRECKER LOSES HIS MOTHER, THE SISTER AND THE MOTHER GOT OWNED AND SO DID THE EX AND EX DAUGHTER Not to mention the fact the mother ends up sick and almost ends up like her dead husband LMAOOOO

1st story probaly money or medical reasons or just guilt

Daughter deserves a chance. She was clearly emotionally abused by her mother at an early age.

If I was the OP of the secret family story, if I would ever allow my traitorous daughter back into my life, there would be the following ground rules; 1. I will start a new relationship with her, but she should not expect to be reinstated into the will. What she has done could take all her life to forgive. 2. I will not provide her with monetary support at her request. If I decide to help her financially, this will come with no strings attached, but also with a firm limit. For example; I would pay for her education, but her living costs will always be on her own shoulders, meaning she would have to work and go to school at the same time, and will need to produce results for her to keep my financial support. Kind of like a sponsor. 2.A) The agreement also comes with a contract that if she finishes her school, the debt is erased, but if she makes me waste money, she'll have to pay it back. 2.B) Yes, I am aware this is not normal in a family, but before being considered as family, she will have to prove that she is not in just for the money. 3. She is not allowed near my new family. There has been way to many instances where an estranged family member tries to strong-arm a legitimate inheritor of the will to try and get what has been refused to her. IF I decide to reinstate her in my will in any shape or form, it will be on my own terms, not on hers. 4. We are not *erasing* the past, and she should never forget that, in no way, am **I** forgetting. I am willing to try, like I would be willing to try to get along with another relative that did me wrong. However, when enough time has passed, I will be willing to start showing more goodwill. She might never be recognized as my daughter in my heart, but I can show some support as a blood relative. Now, I don't know if what I said made sense for a lot of people, but... I definitely would not let bygones be bygones. She was not just a child when that happened. She was a teenager. She knew right or wrong. She knew what the father represented to the family, and how they treated him. She CHOSE her side. No one MADE her that way. So... it's either on extremely harsh conditions that she will begrudgingly be allowed to be part of her father's life, until these get eased with time, or not at all.

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Samurai jack going insane on a skateboard is absurdly funny to me

That ex wife and daughter in the 3rd story don't deserve nor can they ever earn forgiveness, they're beyond redemption, at every turn they disrespected, disregarded and said despicable things to the OP they made this bed, now they have to lie in it for the rest of their lives.

The Judge: A Good Man Also the Judge: Rewards the Wife for ripping a family to shreds and turning the man's own daughter against him

Finally A PART TWO

😂😂😂 That's why I decided to be a bachelor, cuz if this happened to me, losing their job and a loving loyal husband is the least of their problems. I will make sure they will grovel under my feet, and fear not, they will not have the chance to faint or die. I will not stop till they are suffering for all eternity, even if they are in the afterlife

Treachery is the lowest circle of hell. When the OP’s family who betrayed him die, they will be freezing with the Devil

4:14 it seems more like they are having financial problems and want the person to come back and help the family which the person left time ago

The second story, that is the heaviest relationship story I have heard ever, wife cheating for 4 years, your wife and daughter disrespecting and leeching op for his money, and just destroying everything he built for them and hid family, he tried to be there for his daughter and gave her the world, but she never gave him a chance to be her father figure, and the wife, she deserves all the karma in the world. They never apologized until their perfect world fell apart.

Story 1 I’m just gonna say it, the way they favoured the other one may be why the OP turned out so awkward, not to mention the effect emotions have on biology may have affected other things. I’m not blaming OP’s parents, but I defiantly am

"It's kinda like a whole new save file" *wheezes*

I think the OP should try and meet the daughter half way. The mother clearly got her to think this was all ok, and it started when she was 11. Feeling genuinely remorseful about that is totally believable given the timeframe & she seems to be going about it with sincerity. I mean... she's still reaching out and trying to reimburse OP after his "burn it all down" revenge. Not entirely on her terms, obviously don't start by putting her back into the will or anything like that. But the daughter doesn't appear to be beyond redemption. And if OP totally shuts her out that's going to leave the mother as her only influence (or her and this weasel she cheated with assuming he's even still in the picture). And that appears to be what got her to this point in the first place.

For the first story I am positive because her parents initially try to keep her with them they didn’t kick her out so maybe they have understood after she left

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Bro the last story's description was well said,good job bro

If that were me, I would've fell into a depression and offed myself. Poor guy. At least he had a second chance with a newer and better wife. While I'm all for second chances, I'm still in that stage in life where I believe there is good in everyone(even when I know, deep down, there are horrible people) I'm torn

Ugh I hate parents who play favourites

Actually, if you're going to disown someone, a lawyer advised me of a little trick. Don't leave them nothing, as that might give them a means to contest the will. Instead, leave them just 1 dollar. That makes your wishes explicit and cuts them off.

I always try to reconcile family whenever I can, but people are so ridiculously stubborn about this stuff and it’s almost always not as bad as they make it out to be. That woman should talk to her dad alone, then go from there.

I honestly can’t blame the father in the situation I would’ve done exactly the same. But now that the daughter is all by herself with no one to lean on or to ask for help but the father that she rejected and wished to swap out for someone else. looking at it that way it would be obvious to not help her out but what his current wife said is completely accurate. If the OP does choose to be involved again it should only be to make sure she could stand on her own 2 feet so he doesn’t have any regrets later on.

Story 2 the dad did what I would of done if I was him I may take my daughter back and start over because of blood but the rest of the old family can rot

Infidelity is unforgivable, this man is no jerk, he's a chad

I never knew Jack had such good moves

I love these stories 😍

For the second story: I would help my ex daughter just with a good sum of money and that's it, because that betrayal she and her mother did was awful and unforgivable. I would have no contact with that girl again.

That dude really had the best revenge ever, dude is also a menace damm

For the 1st story, I think they want to become a good family

idk, i really don't have any pity or simpathy for the 2nd story's ex wife and daughter. as someone who felt betrayal first hand, i can totally understand how the op felt and what he did is understandable. these people said sorry i think not because they really remorseful, but they just missed the money. they even tried to delete the evidence and stuffs.

The 4 year affair story: Not a jerk totally/obviously I would take the daughter back in my live but only to re-raise her. She would still see no single cent from heritage. And I would have gone not only nuklear not even quantum... no, I would have gone stellar. They wouldn't survive a single day after court, so haevy would I clean such people of theyr belongings.

came for the story, stayed for skateboarding samurai jack.

tbh if i was him i would've got my ex daughter back, but things will be different, for example: the will may not be changed, she will need to work hard so she can get out of the house and start her own life. i will still be a father but she can not call me dad again since i am an "ape" to her. overall the dude could never have handled it in a better way. that dub is so massive.

respect bro. how you are making these vids al days. resperct respect

So in the first video I was all about burning the entire family. But having heard the responder's opinion about emotional support and how the daughter just saw trashing the dad as the "normal" thing to do, I can kinda sympathize with her. Kinda. She was just a child when all this was going on, and in seeing the way her mother was around both men, it is understandable for her to think that the other man was better as a whole. She didn't know any better. One might think that as she got older she would have better understood, but that's the thing about growing up in toxicity, you don't actually see it as toxic. She had no way of knowing better until it all came to a head and she saw the consequences of everything. It's true that if the sleazebag boyfriend had money, the daughter would not have learned the errors of her way, but there are so many instances in life that are "shoulda/coulda/woulda", and the truth of the matter is we have to move forward with what *did* happen. If the daughter went so far as to bring $20,000 as a starting point for making things up with her dad, then it shows that as an adult who is now 100% responsible for her own decisions (unlike as a child and listening to mom), she is at least trying to know the better parent. It is 100% on the OP as to whether or not he wants a relationship with his daughter. And I would not blame him if he didn't want it. And the truth of the matter is the daughter shouldn't blame him either. But if she is willing to spend the rest of her life trying to make it up to him, and whether or not he accepts her, that is exactly what she should do. Regardless of whether or not the father wants contact, work at regaining his trust and respect. Make donations in his name, raise her own child in a manner respecting the actions of her father. Cut off the mother completely, regardless of whether or not she's in a hospital (after all the mother *was* an adult doing all these things, so she deserves 0 forgiveness). Never give up on making it up to her father, all while understanding that if she doesn't ever earn his respect and forgiveness, he can not be blamed.

"The boyfriend had daddy issues" that made me laugh so hard

For the 2nd story personally I would try to mend things with his daughter. It definitely sounds like she was conditioned to hate him, she was also pretty young when all of this went down and it honestly sounds like she really understands how much she messed up.

For the OP of the secret family, I would deeply consider giving the daughter a 2nd chance. There is undoubtably a great deal of hurt between you two but, your daughter was raised with the influences of toxic people. She laid with the snakes because, that's what she was taught to do by them. In the end she was left in the warzone, trying to figure out what to do and following what she was taught. This going to be a marathon and will be something built over years, it shouldn't be a money or about your will thing but, closure for you and her. If you can't see this, then you truly are a jerk without a shadow of a doubt. I truly wish you the best and pray you two can find closure and amend what was broken.

Parent discriminating children on the basis of their beauty is just horrible

Pretty sure that the beautiful twin is sociable because people like her looks more than her personality, and that the OP was awkward is because she was self conscience due to her parents.

Story 1: I may have missed it but nowhere does she state her current age? Just that she left at 18 yo? She could just be along 25 yo and her disappearance was enough for her parents to think about why she left and cut contact with them. People can change - or at least realize their mistakes. It doesn't excuse them per say, but it doesn't mean either that they're looking for a kidney or anything dramatic like that. I cut contact with my father for 4 years for my best, and this time helped him to realize how much I suffered from him all my childhood, and now we are back to, this time, a very healthy relationship. People get overdramatic when they respond to this kind of story because well, it sounds more like a movie per say. But reality is different. Some stories of course are quite borderline, but others like this one could just be very bad parenting and they (the parents) grew up and realized it.

He’s way too humble and calm with what he did, if I would’ve been in his place, I would’ve wrecked them to an extent that they wouldn’t had even had guts of contacting let alone saying a word. OP was tad bit irresponsible at times with her daughter as cleared out in the first video, he didn’t had a dad around to teach him the ways while he believed in his wife to do the right thing to which she didn’t comply. Four years of that betrayal after he helped his wife’s family, took care of the bills and did everything… it’s atrocious. Especially the MIL, she was a witch and probably the reason that her daughter turned out this way. Karma hit all of them pretty hard and I’m happy for the OP and wish him best of luck with his new life.

NO they at least ow her 10,000 dollars an d a sincere apology and letting her slap them like 90 times HARD

Stories like this make me grateful for my parents. They never favored me or my brother orver the other- or if they did, it was never frequent enough for him or me to ever really notice a pattern. We both were given the same support, brought along on every vacation that our parents didn't take on their own (their money, their time and we liked having the house to ourselves for a couple weeks anyways). Also allowed us both to continue living with them long after graduating from university on the condition that we were either working or working towards a long term career. I only moved out when I achieved the latter, and even then they still made it clear that I'll always have a room back home. As for my brother: we fought a lot as kids. We only really started getting along consistently after he'd started going to college (which meant 4 years of us being mostly separated except for holidays and the occasional weekend that he came back for), and pretty much after that I immediately started attending college as well (had the luck of picking a program at a College that literally shared three campuses in the same town with a University, and in return for basically splitting a similar program from each of them I got two qualifications for the price of one course) for four and a half more years. And during all of that time we were cordial with one another. Still acting less like brothers and more like room mates, but it was more consistently peaceful than when we'd been kids and we always stuck by one another when it counted. So, hearing about all these families torn apart by favoritism, cheating and such...it makes me feel very fortunate.

2° story: He needs to hear the daughter out and see if she really changed or if she's still the same backstabbing person, then take a more rational decision, yes, she had a very garbage attitude, but at least, he need some closure.

Advice for the husband: Once you made the decision you cant look back even if your ex daughter tries to beg dont the decision and the outcome of this will be different she could break your heart again or shes gonna earn your trust the decision lies on you but remember this OP “Never look back” the thing were you cut your daughter off from your life is a horrible decision and will haunt you forever but you did the right thing the past is in the past your ex daughter and ex wife made their decision and you made yours you need to move on it might be hard but they chose this path you chose yours but it is not up to strangers to decide for you its your own decision But… if you reconnect forget the past thats the best i could do my friend Hope ya live your life more better and enjoyable