My girlfriend shoved a finger up my forbidden zone when we were getting intimate and I socked her... 

That's literally sexual assault. It wasn't an enthusiastic yes, so she knows he wasn't okay with it 😭😭 I hate that he blamed himself in the beginning

-SA's OP, who reacts instinctively to defend himself -Plays the victim and demands an apology -Blows up when OP says no -Back pedals when OP nopes out of there - Resorts to abusive and destructive behaviour when he stands his ground Something tells me this girl isn't nearly as great as OP thought she was.

Op should go to the cops and file a report just in case she gets the idea to say he assaulted her.

Well damn guess she thought his boundaries are just a ilusiory wall she can poke through

Doesn't matter the gender, no means no.

Men, don’t let anyone take advantage of y’all. No means no isn’t just for women, y’all can put your foot down too when it comes to sex. Stop treating women hopping over your boundaries as a joke. And also stay away from people who treat it the same way

I'm so glad he got support and broke up with her!

If a guy behaved the way she did and pressured things and kept going on and on about things when he said no.. doing it randomly without his consent as well is disgusting.. if the genders were reversed then 100% everyone would be on the woman’s side and be angry. I’m glad to see multiple people agreeing it’s wrong what she did, too many times women do stuff like this then it gets brushed off and ignored.

Nta. That's sa if there is no consent. That kind of things are a 2 yes or 1 no situation

Yeah no, why is it that everytime i hear someone is ''Quirky'' i get that nose cringe thingy like, i get that its not something that is 100% a bad trait, but 75% of times it doesnt end well

NTA it is an act of self defense.

what did she expect when OP already told her no and does she really think any straight man would let her do that to them

Disgusting double standard here

She cray...

What the f?! That's assault

First pin pls ❤

I agree. Both parties were in the wrong, but I also agree. Yes he should apologize. When I was in middle school, I got jumped by a couple of guys. I didn’t tell my best friend about it and me and my best friend flirt a little bit and she’s a very affectionate person. She came up from behind and gave me a surprise hug because that was just her thing and that’s just something she liked it because she knew I enjoyed it. And I went to score 2 days. After I was drunk, and I almost hit her, and I knew that I was in the room. I explain to her and she apologized, and I apologized to her and yes, he shouldn’t be trying to think in the bedroom without your partner is concerned because in the partner did, but then it would be a different story, and there would be accusations made possible. But yeah, I agree he should at least apologized a little bit for punching his girlfriend. OK I am concerned for some of the people that commented on the original post that were being read on the video saying that if someone does something to you that you don’t like it’s OK to punch him. No it is not. My younger sister I know this is a story about something that happened in the bedroom but there’s things my younger sister says and doesn’t like and I don’t have a right to punch her in some of these people were saying just because she does something you don’t like whether it’s in the bedroom or not. Just an every day life. If the girlfriend said hey, I don’t like that outfit on you. That doesn’t give me the right the puncture. That’s just a example I’m coming up with. Last part or last edit I should say. The girlfriend tackle it technically was in the right in saying that she could’ve press charges on him.