as he should. if you're going to have kids with someone you should be able to coparent the way he always has for the kids sake. you can be mad at the person and hate them for a little but you need to be able to be cordial bc after you have kids, it's not about you, it's about them and they need to see their parents being kind to each other.
Kyra don't regret anything. Everything is about her. Nothing ever pleased her after having that 3rd kid then the 4th came and everything went down hill fast. I think that Kyra has had that Boyfriend if hers before she decided to leave Oscar. He deserves someone that is nothing like Kyra.
Okay okay you gotta remember these guys have been together for seven years and they got together as teenagers, both of them were stuck in a relationship that they weren’t happy and they are two completely different people, and Kyra decided to break up with him a year before she did it so that means she been moving on way longer so of course the break up with him wasn’t as hard on her heart because she already morn, Kyra May seem conniving stubborn mean bitch but Oscar has many flaws too he’s just a stubborn arrogant and rude and guess what both of them are human, both of them love their kids, both of them love each other and understand each other more than anyone else can if they didn’t then why are they still friends I know it seems hard but with all the years I’ve watched them Oscar wasn’t an easy person to live with and over the years she accommodated to him so much and I’m glad that they broke up because now that they can move on and they broke up in such a good way but it’s not gonna cause too much damage but it had to be done And also they broke up back in December doesn’t matter she’s got a new boyfriend
Your kids will thank you in the coming years for being so civil and respectful to their mother, even if your relationship with her didn’t work out. Keep on keepin’ on Oscar, nothing but good things in your future!
THIS EXACTLY!! being able to civilly coparent is so important FOR THE KIDS (as long as the other parent isn't/hasn't putting anyone's life in danger obvi). they feel the animosity if it's there and it's not fair to them.
oscar, kyra is giving her kids materialist things. even if you have a smaller home, you give your kids the absolute world. you are the most genuine, amazing & cool father i’ve ever seen on youtube
I love Oscar, but if you think he’s the best dad you’ve seen on RU-vid, you really haven’t watched a lot of RU-vid…. I suggest you check out Beleaf in Fatherhood 🙏🏻
Oscar you have really handled this situation with class and grace. I hope you get a place you love and can make a home for you and the kids. Don’t underestimate a small home. It’s what’s inside that counts , always!
This guy is the real MVP, Kyra got lucky asf with him because not many guys would remain kind after being put through such a crappy and unfortunate situation. You don’t just abuse a guy emotionally and then get praise on your new house afterwards, unless you have a guy like Oscar. So much respect to you bro! ❤
@@inthelifeofabbey7710 idk there’s a video out of them fighting that she “accidentally recorded” but even in that video she sounds crazy. She’s saying that he wants to hurt her and that he is mean to her literally because he didn’t want her to buy a cat cause he’s allergic. To me it was just a normal fight but she was being dramatic. She was emotionally abusive I feel like cause of that and if you really loved someone you wouldn’t get cats when you know it makes your significant other literally feel sick and react to them. She cheated on him with her best friend’s husband. So yeah just a lot with her. Hella red flags.
“Does your new bf like it? Yeah only when he uses it on fridays” 😢Oscar you are a good person, after all you have been through I’d never be able to do what you are. You are the bigger person and deserve so much more.
Oscar is such a nice guy. I am watching his video since Levi was born and I can see in this video how mature and responsible a man he became. So proud of you Oscar you deserve every happiness and success in this world. Stay Blessed Oscar❤❤
I give you credit Oscar, personally I wouldn’t be able to go round my ex fiancés new house for a tour after knowing what they have done so Kudo‘s to you! You’re such a genuine, mature person and your kids are so lucky to have you as their farther because they will grow up knowing what respect, kindness and maturity is 💗 Your big time will come, you deserve it all too and it will all come in time ✨
Well when you have children you become selfless. I am great friends with my ex husband and his partner. You do it for you children and for yourself. No reason to stay upset when you could chose to be happy instead.
@@jgilbert19 and I absolutely agree with you, I would do it for the kids also and i definitely would if I was on good terms with a ex too. I think from my previous comment I said what did because it hasn’t been long since they broke up and if that was me it would still be too fresh and too quick for me to just act the way Oscar is hence why I give him credit because he’s able to do that but don’t get me wrong I would still go above and beyond for the child and putting them first! Hope that makes sense ☺️
@Rachael Nelson don't have kids if you don't think you're capable of coparenting. when you have kids it's no longer about you. it's about their wellbeing. sometimes that means not having one or both of their parents in their lives at all but what ISNT in their best interest is seeing their parents hate each other.
It makes sense that you'd be proud. She's someone you've shared a part of your life with and you only want the best for her, not just because she's the mother of your children. You're a great human! We love to see it and we're all here for it! ♡
You impress me more and more every time I see your videos. to see you and Kyra getting along and how happy you are for her is something special!!!! Your doing a great job, And just remember it’s not the house that makes it at home it’s the people in it your home is and will be just as wonderful and loving as that one is❤
Oscar you are literally so mature it’s unbelievable. The way that you can be so humble and happy for Kyra after all that she’s put you through, props to you Oscar. You deserve the world
He deserves to spend his money doing the hobbies he loves and traveling. Spoiling his kids with expensive big outdoor toys. Kyra is materialistic which is fine if that's what she likes
Oscar has been so gracious throughout this breakup. Oscar’s reaction to the whole house is giving me life 😂 Looking into cabinets is literally me. Thank you for giving us the content we LOVE!!! 🥰 I hope you find a gorgeous house that makes you happy and you feel it’s yours!!❤
but that’s the thing oscar doesn’t know what he like he doesn’t know what he wants to do and kyra is the complete opposite she knows what she wants and she’s a planner and there nothing wrong with that
Once again, brings back memories from when my ex and I split. He was able to get a really nice house in an expensive neighborhood because of his rich parents. I went over there and pretty much did the same thing Oscar did. I was just happy my kids would have a nice place to stay when they were at their dad's house. Oscar, you are strong and a great dad.
Oscar they will love you so much you treat them the absolute best and put them first. You are raising great kids by doing that and don’t ever forget it ❤
I absolutely love that they are both teaching their kids to be humble. It is one of the most important , underrated things that absolutely EVERYONE needs to practice. We live in a world that everything is so easily accessible, so we just tend to 'expect' everything. We all need to be reminded sometimes that we are so lucky, grateful and privileged to live in this world
I thought exactly this! I chuckled when Kyra said she doesn't even let the younger girls wear those Gucci sandals when I'm used to other YT families flaunting the designer stuff. Their children are really blessed and humble! We are really privileged to live in this world ❤
Kyra has the house but you have their hearts. You are a generous, loving human being. May all good things come to you soon Oscar. You deserve the very best! 💖🥰👍😮
I swear some of you are brainless and so ridiculous. The kids love both of them and both „have their heart“. I guess you still don‘t get Oscars humor either.
Oscar don’t compare homes… from what we see (no hate at all) she’s giving them “things” and you’re giving them time and experiences. they’ll cherish the time and experience for a life time ❤❤ you’re such a great dad, they’re so lucky to have you!!
Nothing wrong with being proud of the mother of your kiddos Oscar. Been following you two since shortly after Levi was born and I am so proud of you both. Keep up the great work.
Oscar is such a great human , love his positivity. Can’t believe he directs you to her channel . She wouldn’t do the same for him . Hope you find happiness that you deserve! Always so happy for his friends now even his ex .
Oscar, I’m excited to see your new place. I’m proud of you and Kyra for being able to co-parent! Watching my sister going through it with her ex it doesn’t seem easy. Thanks for sharing!
wow, oscar you are extremely compassionate and genuine. a amazing person and father. and just because the kids have more space here doesn't mean the kids wont love your new home. Same time you are giving the biggest memories with experiences its beautiful.
Oscar you don't have to have a massive house. The kids are happy and having lot of fun with you. They truly love you, even if you would be in a 1 bedroom. They wouldn't mind it. Because you go all out with your kids, when you are with them. So having everything material, doesn't compare to the love that you give them, and spend QUALITY time with them.❤❤😊😊😉your a GREAT dad.
You guys seems to be forming a very positive friendship after your breakup. It’s beautiful to see, and I hope that you guys continue to build a wonderful coparenting friendship so that your kids can learn that even when a relationship doesn’t work you can still work together to build a wonderful life for your children.
I really really hope Oscar gets his dream home eventually, cause godamn he deserves it soo much! 🥺 like I we all know they have very different perspectives on money and spending money vs saving and stuff but he deserves the absolute world dude
I promise you Oscar the kids do not need a big fancy house with a bunch of crap! Kids will love spending time with you more than anything AND thrive so much better without the clutter!
The fact the Oscar said “is your new boyfriend loving my grill” she said “sometimes when we use it on fridays” but still denies having a another partner
Oscar, don't feel bad. Material possessions and the size of a house won't make kids happy. However, the time and effort you put into spending time with your kids has a much greater impact. I speak from experience having had to share a room with my brother and sister for a looong time. I can honestly say my childhood was one of the best times of my life. Keep loving your kids and spending quality time with them and they will cherish it just a much if not more than the big house.
All Kyra has is an unnecessary house and bum boyfriend. You have dignity, integrity and a phenomenal outlook on life. I’d take those traits over a house everyday. Buying new things can’t fix your problems or mask the kind of person you are. Your maturity throughout this whole process is inspirational. Im incredibly excited for you Oscar. You deserve the great new life you are living!!!
You won’t be jealous when you realize how much she will waste in rent over the next year. She will never make the amount of money to continue this lifestyle. Materialism ain’t it.
I'm just so impressed with how you both continue to have a respectful relationship. You got together and had kids so young. Things change as you grow older. It says so much about each of your hearts that you are able to do this for your kids. You both have great talents and personalities and I love watching you navigate this step in your lives with grace. Can't wait to see what you both do in the future.
I think it’s good that Oscar sees where his children will be living 50% if the time. He could possibly spot some areas which may not be safe or could be safer. Also, when the ids are with him, he can picture the house in his mind. It is a beautiful house. I love all the available space and most of the layout, but it’s not a house I would want to live in. Kudos to you Oscar for being a stand up guy by showing how much you care about your children. Great job to your parents raising such a caring, compassionate young man. Keeping you and your kids in my prayers.
You’re comment about ‘downsizing’ made me so sad! It isn’t the size of a house that matters it’s the love and family that live in it! That’s what makes it a home ❤
I love oscar and i am happy he is happy ..i hope they stay friends for the kids..is best for the kids..i hope they dont get back together. But i like how she remember with oscar about the cups .that moment was nice..i love oscar..we love you oscar stay strong and be happy.
