The way she stayed physically close to him and continued embracing him when she's the one breaking up with him makes it sooo much more manipulative. What the hell
just take a look at her face and mannerisms and the way it all moves, you can see physical manifestations of her toxic personality before seeing it on display in the video. she probably thinks her shit smells like roses when it drops down the toilet but doesn't tell anyone and acts humble and/or self deprecates unless they are a poor victim like this guy. can't imagine the devastating divorce-rape that would occur if you were unfortunate enough to get reeled in by her facade of loving you that far
When she says, “Are you gonna cry?” with genuine joy into his visibly emotionally broken face I knew this was over a long time ago and he just didn’t know it
For anyone who's wondering, their last video together had their roles completely reversed. She was crying the whole time about everything they built coming to an official end and he was optimistic and excited to see where life would take him next. Last I checked, Oscar was doing fantastically, and she had been struggling as a single mother. That could be totally different at this point, though
I check in on them every now and then and my dislike for the woman went up astronomically. She's getting married to her best friend/nannies' ex-husband. Pretty sure he was the one she was cheating with. Oscar looks to be doing well he has a new GF and started doing real estate.
@@swagkura Yikes. Not surprising though. She gave off serious "I've met someone else" vibes this entire video. And to do that to not only her husband but her best friend? She truly cares about nobody but herself.
@@swagkuraLol good luck to her with that, considering that 92% of relationships spawned out of infidelity fail. It won’t be long before the taboo wears off and she’ll need another affair to satiate her craving for excitement and “tingles.”
It really feels like she cheated on him but he never got solid proof and she knows he can’t back up his suspicions. It really feels like she’s subtly rubbing his face in it.
@@Paul2.4T yes because getting arrested and possibly sent to prison or slapped with a restraining order for assaulting your ex is a great way to abandon your children....
She is a narcissist, possibly a sociopath, and highly manipulative. I am a therapist and have dealt with a LOT of women and men like this. He needs to RUN from this woman quickly. It is so sad they have 4 children.
They were passive aggressive a lot in a recent vlog, and so many people were commenting saying how great they get along and admire their friendship now. lol
They both sound like they're talking with the school principal here. Have the goddamn fight, say what you feel, scream at each other, get it off your chest ffs and maybe you can fix your shit. This new-age stuff of pretending to be amicable and passive doesn't work.
The way Oscar says "it is completely done" and she says "woah woah woah, not so fast" even though she's the one breaking up with him is so manipulative. Watching this makes me feel sick.
If I was that guy, I would’ve interrupted her while she was talking and grabbed her nose while saying “Got your nose bitch!” take her phone, run away and post it on RU-vid.
Charlies ex saying "are you prepping for our break up" is the craziest foreshadowing I've ever seen. Especially since I just found out they broke up and than I was recommended this video.
This makes me think about all the amicable breakups ive had. My exes in those cases sat me down, explained their legitimate reasons for not continuing the relationship, and while hurt, i understood, and we agreed to respectfully go our separate ways. I can remember how upset they always were, because they knew how much it hurt me, and they cared deeply about me. It's just so strange watching this girl be so casual and happy as she tears this guys heart out again.
@@dylantaaffe4195 I can't imagine how trapped he felt Not only is your financial income probably reliant on your family but having a family in general, so many families force a marriage to work when kids are involved, I can't imagine the pressure of your livelyhood reliant on that too
Bruh the way she straight up orders him to clarify things for the audience so she's never painted in a bad light..always makes my soul cringe seeing controlling/manipulative people like her with family vlog channels
"Tell them I wasn't cheating" She 100% was cheating, and that's why she's already moved on and doesn't feel as hurt as he does. She's been messing around with someone already. True narcissist.
@@joohra_ I'm not using that word in the same way someone says "idiot." She's completely self-absorbed and doesn't care about his feelings, among other things.
This should be used to teach people why you should stay away from toxic and manipulative people. I hope this guy finds someone who actually deserves him. This is why self worth is important
not trying to defend her or something, but do we know that it's an actual break-up? i dont know much about the channel but this could also be one of those "breakup-drama for views" videos, where it is revealed that everything's fine after 2 weeks.
RU-vid couples Breaking up with each other is not a crime, buddy. They all post "break up" videos. Nothing toxic or manipulative about it. It's just mega cringe.
She’s just a narcissist. Refers to Oscar like he’s her little pet. The Q&A was merely gaslighting damage limitation. Doesn’t wanna get cancelled. Truly awful woman. Sad to think 4 children are looking to her for moral advice.
Clearly she cheated on him, she tries so hard to protect her image here everytime he talks and even tells him to go sleep with someone. You don't tell someone you've had four kids with to go sleep with someone else unless you already have or want to. She's so manipulative.
@@PlagueRavenRX no man not making a video would be more like avoiding ruining your image, making such video goes straight to the point she gets the whole scene
That brings up a really good point about people with narcissistic personality disorder. Even in situations like this where it seems obvious to a Nuro typical person that not posting the video would have been the wiser choice to protect her image. Because she is so narcissistic that she thinks she really is better than everyone else she thinks that she can pull it off and manipulate the audience and anyone who sees the video. That’s pretty much exactly why Charlie said he felt like he was getting broken up with. Cause she’s using the same manipulation strategies that she has in her abusive relationship with the viewers. I think she really believes that she could make a video like this and still come out on top
I mean there are different ways to have relationships. Having kids doesn't mean you can't have an open relationship. She comes across poorly, but to say that nobody ever does [thing] unless they're a certain kind of person isn't fair. Everyone is different. There are people who genuinely enjoy seeing their partners enjoy being with others. Monogamy doesn't work for everyone.
For anyone still interested, their main couple channel is gone now (something she was far more emotional about than this breakup) and they both run their own separate channels… and on her own channel she’s also disabled comments on all of her videos funnily enough.
Update: she WAS cheating. Is now married to her best friend/kids nannys husband! Their baby is due soon. A LOT came out about this terrible woman. Reddit forum best place to read up.
My summary: She wanted more kids, he didn't. She cheated on him. She emotionally manipulated him to try and get him to break up with her first. Just the general demeanor of her in this vid is revolting.
thats the same conclusion i came to man, its super fucked up, i dont wanna really take sides here cause i think the fact they are sharing this super closeted info is scummy to begin with, but she is super fucked up
Holy crap when she said "It takes two" right after blowing off everything he had to say, belittling his thoughts and emotions in the process, and then blaming it on her mental health and how he wasn't there for her. Sounds like she definitely cheated or got caught trying as well. People who prey on the support of others are the worst, my heart goes out to you brother
Her virtue signaling was beyond human standard that it reeks badly in front of camera. We all know when woomen cheats it's on emotional level and already planned long time ago. Stay alert brothers
It's so disgusting how she's trying to look like a good person by looking at him and thinking "he'd be happier with someone else", as if she's doing this for his good.
@@Peepee4brain Where did you find this and who said it? If it was by her or any of her friends it's obviously a lie. Their body languages do not show this as being likely. If she was abused she wouldn't so flagrantly demean him on camera. Don't believe everything told to you, but rather look at what seems to be true.
@@DaReaperZ you clearly don't know the psychology of an abuse victim. They do hold a lot of trauma and resentment that is oftentimes externalized in different ways that are uncomfortable for the person and the people around them. Being annoying is in my opinion least harmful.
it's the 7 year itch ( & not the movie) iykyk also she's so odd " Tell them I didn't cheat, TELL THEM!" " Tell them we're in a good place, TELL THEM! she's scary
2:27 "can you please verify that i wasnt cheating" "you did a lot of things that bothered me. i wouldnt consider them full-blown cheating" he went to bring up something and she immediately shut him down. yeah she definitely went behind his back i feel bad for the guy and hope he finds someone who clearly isnt manipulative like she is
I feel sorry for Oscar. If he finds someone who loves him, is good to him, and kind and loving to his children, I hope that his ex-girlfriend Kyra will not try to manipulate his relationship - especially if he moves forward ahead of her.
Oh yes, that sounded a whole lot like "you didn't engage in intercourse with another person but you did things that broke the boundaries of our relationship" - and the fact that she pressures him to get a lap dance and to hook up with other women makes it seem like she's done things and wants him to do things too so they'll be on a level playing field
It's literally not the worst by far. Unlike some other videos, here nobody else was hurt or was at risk of being hurt during the production of this video.
She’s pissing me off because she can say all this mean shit to him and about him but the second he opens his mouth and says anything she jumps in and immediately offended. She’s clearly the reason it didn’t work out
She should’ve been super happy, she’s not ugly or anything but he’s super hot and she is one of those faces that nobody would even see in a crowd. She cheated on him pretty clearly. I bet there’s a lot of sabotage in his future relationships from this woman. He needs to get away from the situation and her she seems toxic
Apparently he was actually abusing her and there’s a ton more to the story that people are just now finding out, he like admitted to throwing things and other stuff
@@Peepee4brain a lot can happen in a seven year relationship. I wouldn't call throwing something abuse unless it's at your partner especially when you don't know what the other person did to cause that behavior. Infact throwing or even punching something (not your spouse) is a hell of a lot better way to take out your frustration than hitting your spouse or bottling it up and eventually blowing your brains out. No just from this video the mind games she's playing with him by acting like he's the reason for all her insecurities is not good enough and hates him yet tries to hug up to him every 5 seconds is a far more damaging to someones psyche than your partner getting mad and throwing an inanimate object at a wall.
@@Peepee4brain I know nothing about this guy so maybe he's crazy though given how this chick seems to have zero issue putting on blast publicly, I'd think that if abuse was a factor she would have brought it up in the video. Though again, I don't know them so I could be wrong but judging but this video she certainly seems like the nasty one in that couple.
It's because she clearly lacks compassion and common sense. All about that RU-vid dough, fuck having a healthy relationship with the father of your children.
I feel this guy so much, as soon as he moves out he's gonna start to realize the amount of emotional trauma she put him through. I once had a girlfriend cheat on me when she litteraly had no reason to lie about it and she just said ''in my eyes, I did nothing wrong''. Still kept being the ''better person'', carrying both our loads until I broke up. She said multiple times she had no intention to ghost me, that she can't imagine going on her life without seeing me again, just to ghost me without explanation. Nothing was explained. Some people just don't care about your feelings, bruh.
Thank you for sharing this, with all the viewers you have it will totally expose this woman for the narcissist she is. She really needs to unplug and reevaluate herself, this is disgusting, so sad there’s a child involved..
@@chuusenberg519 no emotional cheating is a thing. if you think romantically of someone while being in a relationship then you are cheating. if you flirt with other people while dating someone thats cheating. i can tell you let you significant other cheat on you considering you think thats the only way someone can cheat lmao
@@chuusenberg519 no you don't. kissing, cuddling etc aren't sex but can still be cheating. Everyone knows that. And that's not even getting into emotional cheating.
I like how she openly admitted to being an asshole to him over an extended period of time after a SEVEN YEAR marriage to try and get him to be the one to end it instead of her, despite knowing that she is the initiator.
@@dantederi5062 Utah does not recognize common-law marriage. Rather, the state has something know as Judicial Recognition of a Relationship as a Marriage, where you can ask the court to recognize your relationship as a marriage even though you never had a marriage ceremony. If the court approves, the partners will be considered to have been married since the following requirements have been met. The person asking for the relationship to be recognized as a marriage (the petitioner) should be ready to show the court that the marriage comes from an agreement between partners who: - are of legal age and capable of giving consent - are legally capable of entering a solemnized marriage (You can't marry someone you are closely related to - that would prevent you from legally marrying.) - have lived together - treat each other as though they are married and - present themselves to the public so that other people believe they are married. There are time limits to asking for the relationship to be recognized. Paperwork must be filed: - during the relationship, or - within one year after the relationship ends (one or both partners have died or the partners have separated). Either partner may file the paperwork. A third party, such as next of kin, may also file.
The literal best thing she did for him was leave him, minus the filming of it. That being said, she is in another league when it comes to being a cruel and remorseless manipulator.
The worst part about it is she basically tells her “audience” what he does wrong the entire time and when he pipes up about how she made him feel terrible, she immediately interrupts him, blaming her “self-consciousness” 😐
My stepdad was a narcissist and a lot of the shit she says in this video are very similar or even sound straight out of his mouth. She keeps trying to admit her faults but then last second comes up with a "but" to justify it and/or flip it on her spouse.
The way he recoils away and pushes her away with his hand while she appears to not care at all about the way he must be feeling and how he probably doesn't want to touch or be touched by her right now speaks a lot about her character to me.
Her reason for breaking up, the fact she asked him to let everyone know it wasn't because she cheated and that she was treating him like shit for a few months before the actual split makes me think she was in fact cheating
Totally, the moment she asked him to clarify that she wasn't cheating, I began thinking that she probably was and she just didn't want their audience to know so she could look like an angel. Because fr, who asks someone to say they're not cheating when they truly aren't.
And giving him advice on how to pick up women?? As a fellow woman this is a huge red flag. She wants him with another girl so bad because she's already found another guy to replace him with, I guarantee it.
This is seriously the best thing that ever happened to this guy, no need to feel sorry for him. He's soon going to be the happiest guy on the planet when he finds out other women mostly aren't evil and twisted. I am so stoked for him.
Most people like that never let their partner go or at least have a long on-and-off relationship. So her breaking up is the best thing that could happen to him. Let’s pray he sees it like this and doesn’t let himself get lured back in.
When he says she was extremely mean towards him in the past month of the relationship, she could have stopped and apologized / acknowledge how it impacted him. But she just very quickly goes "I was self sabotaging" as if she was the only person hurt by acting that way, and just keeps monologuing :s
She seems like a narcissist. I doubt she’ll ever love anyone, genuinely. She strikes me as the “ I need to rehome my senior dog cus it’s not fluffy anymore” type.
@@JukemDrawles87 thats because she didn't really like him that much from the beginning. Once they blew up and got famous she saw a way out cause if she depended on him financially trust me her ass would've stayed another 7 years.
My boy is gonna be happy someday. This was hard to watch. It was like watching a man die inside and there's nothing you can do. Protect your happiness, everyone. Don't let people like this girl ruin it for you.
These bots/no-lives are so damn agitating. Also great advice, at the end of the day you only have yourself unconditionally. Don’t let someone break you like she did to that man. I
People like this infuriate me. She has no outward emotions for anyone but herself. A true narcissist. Not the kind you randomly label people you don't like, either. This woman is showing symptoms left and right.
Truly a textbook narcissist, just the way she was picking at her nails at the start showing no interest in listening to him speak. She is using the whole video to make herself faultless in the breakup. Keeps trying to make out he has anger issues when she would be hell to live with, his blow ups are probably in proportion to her bad behaviour. Hope he actually leaves and gets custody of the kids, but seeing as they’re just RU-vid revenue to her, she likely wouldn’t give them up without a fight.
That dude deserves better man he seems like a pretty solid dude. And I would too be mad if a 7 year relationship got ended because the other person got “bored” I feel for the dude and hope he finds someone truly amazing Damn so many likes😂 thanks yall
That happened to me in April of ‘21. After our 4 year anniversary, my gf dumped me like 2 or so days afterwards for some other guy immediately since she didnt want to be tied down to only one person. Still single
@Demon Slayer what is wrong with you? Did your mother never teach you “if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all”? Man just shared his feelings with us and you shit all over him? Have fun in the future, I’m sure nothing will go wrong due to your terrible personality…
I like how she kinda forces him to say she did nothing wrong and then grills him on why he's not a good partner, meanwhile she basically cheated on him but she has him convinced its not really cheating
She is a narcissist with CLEAR NPD, and possibly a flat out Sociopath. It wouldnt surprise me if she is a Sociopath. It is becoming a lot more common in women. And to be clear, being a Sociopath does not mean they are some psycho murderer, it simply means they lack human empathy for other human beings.
@@motwhom3230 I'm a woman,, and even I agree with you. I would just end up killing myself if I had to be around her for even a month tbh 🥴 that's probably why she doesn't have many friends beside youtube moms and her manager. Even some of the youtube moms don't like her anymore. Her best friend Keren? She doesn't even follow Kyra anymore. This girl is TOXIC AF!
To be fair, he isn’t innocent either. He has ran off to do his own thing a lot. However, people always felt bad for Kyra. This made a lot realize she isn’t who she portrayed herself as. Like how do you start out a breakup video singing and clapping? It was really bizarre. She honestly seemed over the moon. At least act like you feel bad about it.
OMG YOU DONT KNOW THESE PEOPLE. Dont speak on peoples lives without any context. And i personally feel its the opposite (shocking right) but whyy would anyone care really? stop blowing the situation out of proportion.
I legitimately could not finish watching this thing. I got to the part where he said "For about a month, you were just... so mean, like bordering cruel." and she tried to explain it away as 'subconsciously I was pushing you away.' In the next sentence she basically admits that she was trying to get him to break up with her, so it wouldn't be "her fault". That's literally all you need to hear. She's done with him, but she doesn't want to be viewed as a callous bitch that just tosses aside someone who cares for them a lot because she got bored. She wanted to be dumped so she could paint herself as a victim and when that didn't work, she took the next best thing. A recorded "mutual break-up" where she basically gaslights him into absolving her of all blame.
This is the happy ending. The bad ending is him hanging himself because this woman absolutely destroyed him. There are several reasons why male suicide is head and shoulders above female suicide... this kind of women is one of them.
The gaslighting is strong with this one. She’ll say something absolutely atrocious while laughing, he’ll get upset and she’ll say “whaaaat?!? I didn’t do anythiiiiing 😁😁”
@@tychopanda trust me, it’s atrocious. They say something so ridiculous that you don’t know how to respond, they take your silence as a victory, then when you distance yourself from the situation they go “dONt WaLK aWAY” in that substitute teacher voice
This sounds like every one of my ex's, completely unable to understand when I'm in the wrong and when they're in the wrong... They all start off with the whole "I'm so sorry please don't leave me" then once you show mercy and forgiveness they see it as weakness and start making everything your fault instead of understanding and apologising. Then, by the time you've both said bad things and done bad things, you apologise for your side, and then they expect you to apologise for their side too, and they act as if they did nothing and you did everything, or they act like everything they did is justifiable.
@@mossmaneightyeichdee8952 Hi Yes ive seen em on multiple channels today in similar ways. On Russell Brand s Jan 6th political theatre video ..It was literally every 1 2 3 rd reply some porn or weird stuff" here s the response" than a link. IDK probably nefarious . Riff Raff about keep ur 👀 > < open..Peace.
She literally used that term as a veto on Oscar. Anytime he wanted to share shit she did she went “but we don’t wanna get into personal stuff right now anyways I just couldn’t stand you anymore”
100% she cheated. She just knows he doesn’t know the full story so she got him to say that she didn’t. Thinking of him being happier with someone else is a total cop out. That’s a reason that stuck in her head and allowed her to commit to the fact that they were going to have to break up because she cheated. And being mean to him for that phase was because she had cheated on him and couldn’t cope with her guilt.
She seems like the kinda person who got caught cheating and was like "You know what, I'm glad you caught me. We're done." She then makes him clarify multiple times that she didn't cheat, when he kinda hints that she did but isn't allowed to say so.
"It's not cheating because mentally I broke up with you, I just didn't get a chance to tell you." It's interesting she gives a very specific timeline of a year that she'd decided she didn't want to be with him.
@@rockerknight25 yeah people are defending the woman in the comment section of the original video because "she's not perfect" and "she's trying to find herself". just a bunch of brainless white-knight sheep.
@@OOFERZ2233 it's one of the common excuses in movies and TV shows where the woman cheats, she usually says " I cheated because you weren't around and I felt lonely"
red flags: 1. she tells him to tell the camera what she wants him to say and to take her side 2. she tells him just how happy she is to be without him 3. she still wants to touch him though even though he pushes her away 4. when he says they're "DONE done" she gets defensive and backpedals 5. smiling the entire time while he looks very upset and uncomfortable 6. talking about having a 5th child and kind of insinuating she wants one with him or at the very least wants him to be jealous if that 5th child is with someone else (and encourages him not to get one because SHE wants more kids, not because THEY want more kids) 7. "it's official", Her: "i mean you never know (: " 8. the only time she's not smiling is when he says he's completely 100% done poor guy. i feel sorry for whoever the next shmuck is too
Don’t forget she talked him into a vasectomy only months ago, so she took away his ability to have anymore and THEN she dangles it over his head smugly that.. ooh, what if I have another?
I think she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Like go date other guys but he can still be a dad looking after the kids at home and be waiting for her when she realises that dating around isn't very fun and wants him to welcome her back with open arms.
My heart literally hurts for Oscar. This woman is so unbelievably out of touch with reality and how she sounds. You know she can see just how badly she hurt this man and she just does not care. Horrible person.
A part of me hurts for her. I mean, it's incredibly evil what she's done, but you and i know that this story doesn't end well for her. It ends in cats. I like cats fine, but I'd prefer a family.
@@PrionicProteins No, that's not how this ends. It ends with her taking half his money, all his kids, and living lavishly while he rots. No part of me feels for her. She is a toxic, disgusting woman who deserves horrible occurrences to transpire in her life. Also, I'd much rather have my cats and my significant other with NO kids than have a family and ruin my life. There is no such thing as a parent with no regrets.
I feel really bad for the husband because he is basically being broken up with and humiliated in front of everyone . She just keeps berating him too . Hopefully her idea of him being with someone better comes true
It's very clear she's never respected his feelings. He's gunna be great after a couple years though so I'm glad for him even though it feels like his life is over right now. You got this Oscar. You'll pull through
The fact that I could get married and my spouse could wake up one day just not loving me anymore is my greatest relationship fear, no one deserves this
True, this happened in my first relationship and i can't wrap my head around how that can even happen. To love someone and do a 180 overnight. That's impossible. When something like this happens the person didn't love you to begin with. When something like this happens, something else is going on that the other person doesn't want you to know.
@@amw_cats I'm not sure I understand what you want to say. Are you asking if the one who still loves the other did something to trigger the other persons loss of interest? If yes, I think that's ridiculous.
It doesn't happen. Your brain doesn't have an on/off switch for feelings. You don't wake up suddenly hating your friends or hobbies either. There's always some build up, could be lots of little things over a long time that you don't want to notice or even obvious issues that you might be in denial of. Edit: or something like the first dude here said, they didn't love you in the first place.
They don't wake up one day no longer loving you. They lie and hide their true feelings and make you believe everything is fine and just do things behind your back until they know what they want, and then they hope you'll realise they've been lying without holding them responsible for those lies and end it with them so they don't have to be the "bad guy." And there's no way to know they're even like that until it happens, which is the best way to waste 20 years of your life and have nothing to show for it. People suck.
She doesn't realize she's been emotionally manipulating him. "I acted like a bitch so he would break up with me so I wouldn't have to do it". So you cheated, blamed it on him for not being good enough, and admitted to manipulating him to avoid the responsibility of ending the relationship. What a narcissist
@@mydogeatspuke She isn't admitting a fault, necessarily. She's just admitting that she tried pushing him away. To her, she did nothing wrong, so it's not a fault. My mother was a Narcissist and did this shit all the time. The fault she's refusing to admit is how that's textbook manipulation. And also that part where she makes him say she didn't cheat. And by the way, I hope you know there are nuances to mental disorders. Like, not every Narcissist is going to refuse to admit a fault 100% of the time. The admittances are indeed a major rarity, but they DO happen sometimes. They are just usually instantly forgotten and the behavior doesn't change.
Narcissist know what they do and think is wrong, they just don't usually care. It becomes a simple matter of power dynamics: who has the leverage? This dude clearly has been thoroughly emasculated by this devastating news. Very glad to be making choices that will never get me into that scenario (i.e. staying single lol).
Can’t imagine what finding out that your wife doesn’t love you feels like after having a couple of kids with her. This guy seems way cooler about this than I would be.
She seems like those nutters that force their man’s to give them loads of kids when they should have no right over any, he def got played for some street hookers whims, I can see exactly why he got the vasectomy, or else he’d be in 7 kids deeep before she divorced him for some other man’s 7 inher
i watched them since their first born was born, he's always been the coolest sweetest guy, he wanted to get married to her and she didn't want to be engaged. kiera has been cool too i never would have thought she would be like this though damn.
@@mick9561 nah, that's all HE could find out about. But she damn sure physically cheated, and is already seeing someone else. She just broke up with him, so she can do it openly.
@andrew yani doesn't matter who's at fault, it is what it is. This isn't 4th grade. They have kids together. There is the truth, and their future, period.
@@reikun86 That is literally what Narcissism is. I bet she thought this made her look so good and strong and cool. I know for a fact she has NPD, and I would absolutely lean towards her being a Sociopath, at the very least, a pure Narcissist with Sociopathic tendencies.
I used to watch A LOT of OKBaby when I was like 13-14, and I can assure you that Oscar is the absolute sweetest and deserved so, so much better. When Kaylah was pregnant with their second baby he would drop by the florist on the way home from work and pick up flowers for Kaylah and baby toys for his kid. Not for any special occasion, just because he felt like it. He's just that kind of guy. He treated his daughter like a princess before she was even born! From the bottom of my heart, I hope he finds someone better because Kaylah was extremely lucky to have someone like him in her life
He doesn’t stand up to her bullshit and that’s why she’s tired of him. Because she can walk all over him without any repercussion. She has no respect for him as a man and he’s literally become her bitch.
Well you seen them on a screen showing you what they wanted to you know so maybe things weren't that sunshine and rainbow, we'll never know I guess. But what I see here without having ever see a video from them, is she seems happy and he seems defeated. This all should have stayed private anyway. It's very sad
@@LeviSky7 I understand saying that but if a guy said “You’re TOO FUCKING INDEPENDENT! You want to do things on your own all the time and have a job, fuck you!” Then that’d be seen as bad
@@LeviSky7 That's entirely a her problem, she should have known who he was and what he was like before having FOUR kids with him. Too many people get into a relationship with someone that they know they're not completely compatible with and then blame the other person for not changing.
She goes into depth on any minuscule thing he did that upset her, but the one time he tried to explain her “not really cheating,” it gets cut out and she says “I’m not keeping that”…
I will never understand it when people choose to have a child together, but not do everything in their power to stay together for that child and keep the family dynamic together. The way some people just casually toss away the other parent of their child and not even think about the consequences of that choice and how it affects the kid, just blows me away.
So my girlfriend used to watch this channel religiously. Turns out Kyra had an affair, with their best friends husband for a few months, behind Oscars back. Their whole community has fractured so much since the stories came out.
@@karsonalban6599 dude u dont have to be anyone's doormat, like have some self respect, u deserve to receive back the love and respect u give to someone
Hahahaha these people don’t have a “community” they have fans that are 12 years old and excited to have something to watch that their parents didn’t show them. If we think the dating space is bad now wait till the kids who grew up watching these psychos get into the real world
I've actually watched a lot of their videos and I loved Oscar. He's such a genuinely sweet, caring guy who does his best for his children. I remember at one point when he was basically working 12 to 16 hours a day to try to provide for his family and he was doing RU-vid as a side thing to earn more cash... He really put his family first and did everything in his power to make them happy. But at the same time, if you know their backstory, you probably could've guessed that this was going to happen. Kyra got pregnant as a teenager and it seemed like she was only ever half-heartedly interested in Oscar in the first place... So now that they're posting this video, it doesn't surprise me. I just hope that Oscar overcomes this. He was always so emotionally present that it has probably been devastating for him, especially since he was the one doing a lot of the RU-vid work for their channel throughout Kyra's many pregnancies. I especially hope that he still gets to be apart of his childrens' lives. He's done so much for them.
she's in a phase where she thinks she can do better, then will either regret it OR convince herself she never did anything wrong and live in denial. the very fact that she's breaking up with him, forcing him to do this video, and is STILL trying to keep him around with "you never know what the future brings" is actually frustrating
I also don't get her logic. Most guys prefer women who don't have kids...and she has kids and lives with her husband still so good luck finding someone willing to go through all that weird confusion to be with you 😂
Sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it too. She wants him to stay in the house and support the family, while she doesn’t have to deal with any of the complexities of being in a relationship and giving support to each other. He needs to go file for custody like yesterday.
@@livj6817 This is what the entire breakup was for, I'm betting. She was likely already sleeping with this dude, and wanted to be open about it. She wouldn't have disrupted her life and marriage without first knowing that this dude was worth it. Guaranteed she cheated. She just knows no one can prove it because her and the dude won't ever confess. Gross narcissist
@@SkawarsXE exactly what I think too. Because not long after kyra and Oscar split Hannah and Preston did too. I feel so so bad for the kids, Oscar and Hannah
Yes, these situations happen a lot especially when kids are involved. Moreover, he seems to be in deeper waters by cheating. If the girl has evidence then hes fucked in court unless they have a prenup. It'll also be so hard with the kids. The girl is manipulating at a high level. She's touching him which holds him back. She got him to do this stupid video which I can't imagine doing even over a friend breakup.. As a divorce lawyer, the best thing Oscar can do is come clean, man up, and file for separation. It's not technically a divorce, but in the future it'll make it easier since being separated for a number of years or months could offer him more leeway than a full blown divorce. A legal separation is also more socially acceptable than "oh btw I have a wife." You can still get the tax and healthcare benefits. Then he can being protecting his assets during the separation and go from there.
That makes perfect sense. Ugh so gross. Shit like this is why people have trust issues. At one point both of those couples were all close with each other and friends. Only for two of the people from opposite families to end up fucking each other. And now the kids have to deal with all this confusing shit. Smh.
