"Tell them I wasn't cheating" She 100% was cheating, and that's why she's already moved on and doesn't feel as hurt as he does. She's been messing around with someone already. True narcissist.
@@joohra_ I'm not using that word in the same way someone says "idiot." She's completely self-absorbed and doesn't care about his feelings, among other things.
For anyone who's wondering, their last video together had their roles completely reversed. She was crying the whole time about everything they built coming to an official end and he was optimistic and excited to see where life would take him next. Last I checked, Oscar was doing fantastically, and she had been struggling as a single mother. That could be totally different at this point, though
I check in on them every now and then and my dislike for the woman went up astronomically. She's getting married to her best friend/nannies' ex-husband. Pretty sure he was the one she was cheating with. Oscar looks to be doing well he has a new GF and started doing real estate.
@@swagkura Yikes. Not surprising though. She gave off serious "I've met someone else" vibes this entire video. And to do that to not only her husband but her best friend? She truly cares about nobody but herself.
@@swagkuraLol good luck to her with that, considering that 92% of relationships spawned out of infidelity fail. It won’t be long before the taboo wears off and she’ll need another affair to satiate her craving for excitement and “tingles.”
This lady is nuts. He didn't want this to end. She obviously did but tried to push some of it on him. I'm so glad he figured out life was better without her.
@@dylantaaffe4195 I can't imagine how trapped he felt Not only is your financial income probably reliant on your family but having a family in general, so many families force a marriage to work when kids are involved, I can't imagine the pressure of your livelyhood reliant on that too
Just looked into their current situation. I guess they stopped their family channel and started their own things. She's currently dating her former best friend's ex-husband. There's speculation that they were cheating before the divorce. Apparently, she's gotten a lot of hate, and Oscar just wants peace and for her to be okay since she is still the mother of his children. Edit: Looked at a tea video, she states she was dating the new guy in March. But he didn't file for divorce until April and it wasn't finalized until June. So .... yeah, messed up thing to do to someone you called your best friend.
This makes me think about all the amicable breakups ive had. My exes in those cases sat me down, explained their legitimate reasons for not continuing the relationship, and while hurt, i understood, and we agreed to respectfully go our separate ways. I can remember how upset they always were, because they knew how much it hurt me, and they cared deeply about me. It's just so strange watching this girl be so casual and happy as she tears this guys heart out again.
She is a narcissist, possibly a sociopath, and highly manipulative. I am a therapist and have dealt with a LOT of women and men like this. He needs to RUN from this woman quickly. It is so sad they have 4 children.
The way she stayed physically close to him and continued embracing him when she's the one breaking up with him makes it sooo much more manipulative. What the hell
it's the 7 year itch ( & not the movie) iykyk also she's so odd " Tell them I didn't cheat, TELL THEM!" " Tell them we're in a good place, TELL THEM! she's scary
For anyone still interested, their main couple channel is gone now (something she was far more emotional about than this breakup) and they both run their own separate channels… and on her own channel she’s also disabled comments on all of her videos funnily enough.
Update: she WAS cheating. Is now married to her best friend/kids nannys husband! Their baby is due soon. A LOT came out about this terrible woman. Reddit forum best place to read up.
just take a look at her face and mannerisms and the way it all moves, you can see physical manifestations of her toxic personality before seeing it on display in the video. she probably thinks her shit smells like roses when it drops down the toilet but doesn't tell anyone and acts humble and/or self deprecates unless they are a poor victim like this guy. can't imagine the devastating divorce-rape that would occur if you were unfortunate enough to get reeled in by her facade of loving you that far
My summary: She wanted more kids, he didn't. She cheated on him. She emotionally manipulated him to try and get him to break up with her first. Just the general demeanor of her in this vid is revolting.
thats the same conclusion i came to man, its super fucked up, i dont wanna really take sides here cause i think the fact they are sharing this super closeted info is scummy to begin with, but she is super fucked up
I feel this guy so much, as soon as he moves out he's gonna start to realize the amount of emotional trauma she put him through. I once had a girlfriend cheat on me when she litteraly had no reason to lie about it and she just said ''in my eyes, I did nothing wrong''. Still kept being the ''better person'', carrying both our loads until I broke up. She said multiple times she had no intention to ghost me, that she can't imagine going on her life without seeing me again, just to ghost me without explanation. Nothing was explained. Some people just don't care about your feelings, bruh.
Thank you for sharing this, with all the viewers you have it will totally expose this woman for the narcissist she is. She really needs to unplug and reevaluate herself, this is disgusting, so sad there’s a child involved..
Apparently he was actually abusing her and there’s a ton more to the story that people are just now finding out, he like admitted to throwing things and other stuff
@@Peepee4brain a lot can happen in a seven year relationship. I wouldn't call throwing something abuse unless it's at your partner especially when you don't know what the other person did to cause that behavior. Infact throwing or even punching something (not your spouse) is a hell of a lot better way to take out your frustration than hitting your spouse or bottling it up and eventually blowing your brains out. No just from this video the mind games she's playing with him by acting like he's the reason for all her insecurities is not good enough and hates him yet tries to hug up to him every 5 seconds is a far more damaging to someones psyche than your partner getting mad and throwing an inanimate object at a wall.
@@Peepee4brain I know nothing about this guy so maybe he's crazy though given how this chick seems to have zero issue putting on blast publicly, I'd think that if abuse was a factor she would have brought it up in the video. Though again, I don't know them so I could be wrong but judging but this video she certainly seems like the nasty one in that couple.
They were passive aggressive a lot in a recent vlog, and so many people were commenting saying how great they get along and admire their friendship now. lol
They both sound like they're talking with the school principal here. Have the goddamn fight, say what you feel, scream at each other, get it off your chest ffs and maybe you can fix your shit. This new-age stuff of pretending to be amicable and passive doesn't work.
100% she cheated. She just knows he doesn’t know the full story so she got him to say that she didn’t. Thinking of him being happier with someone else is a total cop out. That’s a reason that stuck in her head and allowed her to commit to the fact that they were going to have to break up because she cheated. And being mean to him for that phase was because she had cheated on him and couldn’t cope with her guilt.
The way Oscar says "it is completely done" and she says "woah woah woah, not so fast" even though she's the one breaking up with him is so manipulative. Watching this makes me feel sick.
If I was that guy, I would’ve interrupted her while she was talking and grabbed her nose while saying “Got your nose bitch!” take her phone, run away and post it on RU-vid.
ngl going threw some trauma from similar past a relationship, being made too feel like the most horrible person even for being upset and the one at fault even tho you did nothing but try your hardest for that person. I feel vindicated after this video, seeing an eerily similar dynamic.
It really feels like she cheated on him but he never got solid proof and she knows he can’t back up his suspicions. It really feels like she’s subtly rubbing his face in it.
@@Paul2.4T yes because getting arrested and possibly sent to prison or slapped with a restraining order for assaulting your ex is a great way to abandon your children....
Bro I couldn’t even watch this because I just went through something like this I can guarantee you guys doing this entertains them ESPECIALLY if you stick around after. Your anger your sadness your jealousy of other people they’re now talking to the way they used to talk to you it is all fun for them and makes them feel better it is an ego boost. I promise you those lingering feelings will go away I just got out of a 2 year ordeal I felt like it was the end of the world 🤮. ITS NOT KIDS! Stick to yourself and your friends if they wanna leave do not beg nor ask them to stay because they will leave eventually!
She’s just a narcissist. Refers to Oscar like he’s her little pet. The Q&A was merely gaslighting damage limitation. Doesn’t wanna get cancelled. Truly awful woman. Sad to think 4 children are looking to her for moral advice.
Having had an ex try to pull the "Start being cold, distant and a little dismissive in the hopes of pushing me to be the one to break it off" thing, it's way more hurtful than just being told things aren't working. It's like seeing a part of your life, a person you trust and care for, change and you start to worry there's something you did, or they need some sort of help they don't seem to be able to find in you. The really sad thing is that same ex tried to use me, multiple times, since then when she was herself feeling low, until I had to outright tell her I had completely lost interest in her well being and gained nothing in rekindling any sort of friendship.
When she says, “Are you gonna cry?” with genuine joy into his visibly emotionally broken face I knew this was over a long time ago and he just didn’t know it
I like how directly after he insinuates her cheating or showing unfaithful behaviour she starts talking about "how you weren't there for me.." Remember fellas if you cheat - it's your fault, if she cheats, it's also your fault. ☕
Bruh the way she straight up orders him to clarify things for the audience so she's never painted in a bad light..always makes my soul cringe seeing controlling/manipulative people like her with family vlog channels
I love that you found the Q/A because seeing her say in the first video "Like right person wrong time." then seeing the hope in his eyes just for her to crush it as a joke with "Like were for sure done so don't get your hopes up." Was brutal. Seeing the Q/A end with Oscar having that same energy but actually mean it.
Clearly she cheated on him, she tries so hard to protect her image here everytime he talks and even tells him to go sleep with someone. You don't tell someone you've had four kids with to go sleep with someone else unless you already have or want to. She's so manipulative.
@@Mercurio2435 no man not making a video would be more like avoiding ruining your image, making such video goes straight to the point she gets the whole scene
That brings up a really good point about people with narcissistic personality disorder. Even in situations like this where it seems obvious to a Nuro typical person that not posting the video would have been the wiser choice to protect her image. Because she is so narcissistic that she thinks she really is better than everyone else she thinks that she can pull it off and manipulate the audience and anyone who sees the video. That’s pretty much exactly why Charlie said he felt like he was getting broken up with. Cause she’s using the same manipulation strategies that she has in her abusive relationship with the viewers. I think she really believes that she could make a video like this and still come out on top
I mean there are different ways to have relationships. Having kids doesn't mean you can't have an open relationship. She comes across poorly, but to say that nobody ever does [thing] unless they're a certain kind of person isn't fair. Everyone is different. There are people who genuinely enjoy seeing their partners enjoy being with others. Monogamy doesn't work for everyone.
It just hurts to watch the video. She's literally just smiling and joking about whilst Oscar looks like he's just witnessed his entire world fall apart. Hope that he's doing alright.
This should be used to teach people why you should stay away from toxic and manipulative people. I hope this guy finds someone who actually deserves him. This is why self worth is important
not trying to defend her or something, but do we know that it's an actual break-up? i dont know much about the channel but this could also be one of those "breakup-drama for views" videos, where it is revealed that everything's fine after 2 weeks.
RU-vid couples Breaking up with each other is not a crime, buddy. They all post "break up" videos. Nothing toxic or manipulative about it. It's just mega cringe.
It's literally not the worst by far. Unlike some other videos, here nobody else was hurt or was at risk of being hurt during the production of this video.
She perfectly encapsulates everything I despise about the growing numbers of shameless, manipulative, lack of empathy people finding a voice and supporters on the internet
@@chuusenberg519 no emotional cheating is a thing. if you think romantically of someone while being in a relationship then you are cheating. if you flirt with other people while dating someone thats cheating. i can tell you let you significant other cheat on you considering you think thats the only way someone can cheat lmao
@@chuusenberg519 no you don't. kissing, cuddling etc aren't sex but can still be cheating. Everyone knows that. And that's not even getting into emotional cheating.
It's because she clearly lacks compassion and common sense. All about that RU-vid dough, fuck having a healthy relationship with the father of your children.
Bro as soon as the video started I couldn’t bare but skip through it cause damn that beginning already is so heart wrenching and she does deserve him 😢
2:27 "can you please verify that i wasnt cheating" "you did a lot of things that bothered me. i wouldnt consider them full-blown cheating" he went to bring up something and she immediately shut him down. yeah she definitely went behind his back i feel bad for the guy and hope he finds someone who clearly isnt manipulative like she is
I feel sorry for Oscar. If he finds someone who loves him, is good to him, and kind and loving to his children, I hope that his ex-girlfriend Kyra will not try to manipulate his relationship - especially if he moves forward ahead of her.
Oh yes, that sounded a whole lot like "you didn't engage in intercourse with another person but you did things that broke the boundaries of our relationship" - and the fact that she pressures him to get a lap dance and to hook up with other women makes it seem like she's done things and wants him to do things too so they'll be on a level playing field
She’s pissing me off because she can say all this mean shit to him and about him but the second he opens his mouth and says anything she jumps in and immediately offended. She’s clearly the reason it didn’t work out
She should’ve been super happy, she’s not ugly or anything but he’s super hot and she is one of those faces that nobody would even see in a crowd. She cheated on him pretty clearly. I bet there’s a lot of sabotage in his future relationships from this woman. He needs to get away from the situation and her she seems toxic
I used to watch OKBaby and it made me sad when this happened. I feel so bad for Oscar, I am glad he found someone now who hopefully treats him much better.
Her reason for breaking up, the fact she asked him to let everyone know it wasn't because she cheated and that she was treating him like shit for a few months before the actual split makes me think she was in fact cheating
Totally, the moment she asked him to clarify that she wasn't cheating, I began thinking that she probably was and she just didn't want their audience to know so she could look like an angel. Because fr, who asks someone to say they're not cheating when they truly aren't.
And giving him advice on how to pick up women?? As a fellow woman this is a huge red flag. She wants him with another girl so bad because she's already found another guy to replace him with, I guarantee it.
It's so disgusting how she's trying to look like a good person by looking at him and thinking "he'd be happier with someone else", as if she's doing this for his good.
@@Peepee4brain Where did you find this and who said it? If it was by her or any of her friends it's obviously a lie. Their body languages do not show this as being likely. If she was abused she wouldn't so flagrantly demean him on camera. Don't believe everything told to you, but rather look at what seems to be true.
@@DaReaperZ you clearly don't know the psychology of an abuse victim. They do hold a lot of trauma and resentment that is oftentimes externalized in different ways that are uncomfortable for the person and the people around them. Being annoying is in my opinion least harmful.
Charlies ex saying "are you prepping for our break up" is the craziest foreshadowing I've ever seen. Especially since I just found out they broke up and than I was recommended this video.
Holy crap when she said "It takes two" right after blowing off everything he had to say, belittling his thoughts and emotions in the process, and then blaming it on her mental health and how he wasn't there for her. Sounds like she definitely cheated or got caught trying as well. People who prey on the support of others are the worst, my heart goes out to you brother
Her virtue signaling was beyond human standard that it reeks badly in front of camera. We all know when woomen cheats it's on emotional level and already planned long time ago. Stay alert brothers
@@OOFERZ2233 it's one of the common excuses in movies and TV shows where the woman cheats, she usually says " I cheated because you weren't around and I felt lonely"
They remind me of that scene in Anchorman where Ron and Veronica are smiling and laughing during the rolling credits and no one on TV can hear they're actually insulting the shit out of eachother.
This is seriously the best thing that ever happened to this guy, no need to feel sorry for him. He's soon going to be the happiest guy on the planet when he finds out other women mostly aren't evil and twisted. I am so stoked for him.
Most people like that never let their partner go or at least have a long on-and-off relationship. So her breaking up is the best thing that could happen to him. Let’s pray he sees it like this and doesn’t let himself get lured back in.
OMG YOU DONT KNOW THESE PEOPLE. Dont speak on peoples lives without any context. And i personally feel its the opposite (shocking right) but whyy would anyone care really? stop blowing the situation out of proportion.
She seems like a narcissist. I doubt she’ll ever love anyone, genuinely. She strikes me as the “ I need to rehome my senior dog cus it’s not fluffy anymore” type.
@@JukemDrawles87 thats because she didn't really like him that much from the beginning. Once they blew up and got famous she saw a way out cause if she depended on him financially trust me her ass would've stayed another 7 years.
I like how she openly admitted to being an asshole to him over an extended period of time after a SEVEN YEAR marriage to try and get him to be the one to end it instead of her, despite knowing that she is the initiator.
@@dantederi5062 Utah does not recognize common-law marriage. Rather, the state has something know as Judicial Recognition of a Relationship as a Marriage, where you can ask the court to recognize your relationship as a marriage even though you never had a marriage ceremony. If the court approves, the partners will be considered to have been married since the following requirements have been met. The person asking for the relationship to be recognized as a marriage (the petitioner) should be ready to show the court that the marriage comes from an agreement between partners who: - are of legal age and capable of giving consent - are legally capable of entering a solemnized marriage (You can't marry someone you are closely related to - that would prevent you from legally marrying.) - have lived together - treat each other as though they are married and - present themselves to the public so that other people believe they are married. There are time limits to asking for the relationship to be recognized. Paperwork must be filed: - during the relationship, or - within one year after the relationship ends (one or both partners have died or the partners have separated). Either partner may file the paperwork. A third party, such as next of kin, may also file.
Ive had 'friends' who clearly didnt like talking to me or hanging around me but would try so hard to keep the friend status. This looks like that but 10x worse😑
The literal best thing she did for him was leave him, minus the filming of it. That being said, she is in another league when it comes to being a cruel and remorseless manipulator.
She doesn't realize she's been emotionally manipulating him. "I acted like a bitch so he would break up with me so I wouldn't have to do it". So you cheated, blamed it on him for not being good enough, and admitted to manipulating him to avoid the responsibility of ending the relationship. What a narcissist
@@mydogeatspuke She isn't admitting a fault, necessarily. She's just admitting that she tried pushing him away. To her, she did nothing wrong, so it's not a fault. My mother was a Narcissist and did this shit all the time. The fault she's refusing to admit is how that's textbook manipulation. And also that part where she makes him say she didn't cheat. And by the way, I hope you know there are nuances to mental disorders. Like, not every Narcissist is going to refuse to admit a fault 100% of the time. The admittances are indeed a major rarity, but they DO happen sometimes. They are just usually instantly forgotten and the behavior doesn't change.
Narcissist know what they do and think is wrong, they just don't usually care. It becomes a simple matter of power dynamics: who has the leverage? This dude clearly has been thoroughly emasculated by this devastating news. Very glad to be making choices that will never get me into that scenario (i.e. staying single lol).
My boy is gonna be happy someday. This was hard to watch. It was like watching a man die inside and there's nothing you can do. Protect your happiness, everyone. Don't let people like this girl ruin it for you.
These bots/no-lives are so damn agitating. Also great advice, at the end of the day you only have yourself unconditionally. Don’t let someone break you like she did to that man. I
Dude is way way out of her league physically and seemingly mentally. He was obviously hurt here despite saying he was "good now". Hope dude has realized over the last couple of years that she has indeed helped him dodge a huge .50 cal bullet (her) and he has met someone actually worthwhile.
The gaslighting is strong with this one. She’ll say something absolutely atrocious while laughing, he’ll get upset and she’ll say “whaaaat?!? I didn’t do anythiiiiing 😁😁”
@@tychopanda trust me, it’s atrocious. They say something so ridiculous that you don’t know how to respond, they take your silence as a victory, then when you distance yourself from the situation they go “dONt WaLK aWAY” in that substitute teacher voice
This sounds like every one of my ex's, completely unable to understand when I'm in the wrong and when they're in the wrong... They all start off with the whole "I'm so sorry please don't leave me" then once you show mercy and forgiveness they see it as weakness and start making everything your fault instead of understanding and apologising. Then, by the time you've both said bad things and done bad things, you apologise for your side, and then they expect you to apologise for their side too, and they act as if they did nothing and you did everything, or they act like everything they did is justifiable.
I legitimately could not finish watching this thing. I got to the part where he said "For about a month, you were just... so mean, like bordering cruel." and she tried to explain it away as 'subconsciously I was pushing you away.' In the next sentence she basically admits that she was trying to get him to break up with her, so it wouldn't be "her fault". That's literally all you need to hear. She's done with him, but she doesn't want to be viewed as a callous bitch that just tosses aside someone who cares for them a lot because she got bored. She wanted to be dumped so she could paint herself as a victim and when that didn't work, she took the next best thing. A recorded "mutual break-up" where she basically gaslights him into absolving her of all blame.
This is the happy ending. The bad ending is him hanging himself because this woman absolutely destroyed him. There are several reasons why male suicide is head and shoulders above female suicide... this kind of women is one of them.
