My TERRIBLE Thai/British MARRIAGE 

So streetwise aren't you ..

But sometimes people do get their lifeline their... He was unlucky that's the issue.!

@@rozakhan2811 i doubt it - im sure they're all unlucky

​@@philm7213 Not even .... "book-wise" yields sufficient credulity to see through such a scenario.

He’s a pure dweeb 😂🤦🏻

😂 it's true

Or, if you are unattractive, don't expect getting someone out of your league doesn't come with strings attached

lol..."maybe"?

@@fs5775 That also goes for fat, unattractive women who aim for attractive men, wealthy men?

Yes. Especially the ones in France, England, Germany, Russia New Zealand etc etc etc. You see where I'm going with this? Or are you so racist to think only Thai women are like this?

Yea, met so many over the years married to western women, who destroyed them a the end !!

Same here after 30 years of Philippines li(f)estyle. Always amazed by the creative solutions the girls come up with to get their goal.

I agree, Nobody would listen anyway, I know I would not have listened 21 years ago, I knew I was making a mistake, and I did it anyway

🤣😅🤣This guy is an Idiot..some people will never learn,they do the same thing over and over,i think we all have done it but the result is always the same.Ive been that stupid more than twice like alot of people.that little patch drives men crazy

i know right... i was worried about this myself when Pete did the interview 😅

@@cyberfox843 hey , you know humor - that was a great reply

Guy is a full on muppet 🤦🏻🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@cyberfox843 do you have any other interviews/updates on how this has panned out for you? If I am honest, it doesn't seem like a good mix, would be surprised/delighted if it worked out for you, one year later.

omg how dumb is this guy

YES , indeed. Those run in a cirle and never learn from the past ....

$imps never learn ...

@@silverfox6883 ... The most important things in life,are not those, you get for money ...

don't forget the massage parlor

He would never be able to get her a spouse visa

exactly!

He could teach English like any unskilled "expat" in Asia, but it's probably easy to keep the digital nomad/entrepreneurship dream alive. /s Edit: I feel sad for what happened to him, although I don't think being in Thailand he will have the same amount of opportunities to get skills, a good career and economic stability. Which is pretty much the same situation every young westerner in Asia is in, no matter if we are taking about Japan, the Philippines, Indonesia or Thailand. I'm my opinion being happy making less money is perfectly fine when you are young and single. With kids I'd try to to earn as much as possible and plan for the long term.

@@timg5581womder why u say that since he got his first wife a visa ? 😮

😂 Bumbaclaat Award for these guys ffs

Proper LOL moment

OMG i wish he did that would been so funny and epic 😆

It would be impossible to slap him Stupid. The doctor did that at birth.

Being premature is a dead giveaway 🤔

Well came up to my mind as well. Right in the beginning of the story. Good boys pay the bills, bad boys give her thrills

test was done as when things got uncovered i myself questioned it... and i couldn't shake the thoughts.. it was super scary because at this point i already been a father to our baby but thankfully the test came back 99.8

I agree, they should do a dna test at birth in my opinion. Definitely before any child support is paid! Can you imagine - if this guy isn't the dad... he could be raising some other man's daughter. And wouldn't the other man have the right to know? There are too many women like this out there.

It is likely someone else's daughter-he needs to do a DNA test asap as women defraud men all the time..

True.. so does diving into a same-cultural relationship with a fifth girl you meet.. Western world divorce rate is over 50% if I'm not mistaken.. 🤔

Thankfully it worked for me but you’re 100% right. He’s gonna learn the hard way over and over again.

It will work out in the short term. It always has for me. Hahahaha.

I wish Pete had asked him a little of Fa's background, ie. Issan, bargirl, poor, etc. Sounds like this guy's suffering from 'Thai fever!'

@@followyourbliss973 he said he met her in a soappy massage parlor..

The guys sounds like a simpleton. He fell in love with a girl that works in a 'soapy massage' shop. Says it all really.

@@TheJay37 you might as well fall in love with a bird from nana plaza....what a mug!

Towards the end? It was obvious in the first 30 seconds ...

He could find it hard for a new wife to accept his baby from his 1st marriage as her own - cultural thing with Thai women- its not like is child is from an English girl that he married previously - but good luck to him from his story he obviously deserves better.

A Thai girl that's who... All you have to do is look at the guy most are not that good looking it's clear as daylight. They just don't look right together.

True that.

Unlikely to have sufficient funds to support his own daughter and a new extended Thai family. It takes time, but sooner or later the buffalo dies, her dad gets sick or her mum's roof needs repair Sorry to sound cynical James but you are carrying too much baggage.

@@gregoryfrancisjames5071 ...like that part how the buffalo died...hard to believe unless she got many buffaloes.

Worse thing you can do is bring a Thai or Philippine girl back to the west. Best to leave them them in their home country.

What you on about do you know their relationship?

Agreed… 👍

I was thinking the same. He might have been an easy target especially if he had limited relationship experience in the UK. Fair play to him for been so honest and I hope it all works out for him.

Aspergers isn't an excuse for being a porn soaked weirdo.

Bollocks was he looking for love. He thought his sick fantasy could be real.

@@merg-vh5sx sick fantasy??

@@chendaforestMaybe you don't know what kind of men get "addicted" to Thailand? They have a sickness of the heart, mind, and soul. I'll leave it at that.

@@merg-vh5sx the jealousy and seething resentment is dripping from every word. Feminism is dead, deal with it.

@@fixedoddsman7452 It's really not cool when men hate women with normal traditional values. Like, how degen do you have to be to blame feminism for morals in 2022 aaaaaaargh

and dont forget the massage parlor

Dude Toys or Action figures? Big difference. AND I got comic books to with many number 1 issues worth thousands.. My point is ain't nothing wrong with collecting toys .. 😂❤😂❤😂

Couldn't agree more especially looking for it in Thailand.

At least the man isn’t afraid to take risks

@@Philippinesadventures he doesnt know what risks are - thats why he's doing the same thing again

@@KippaxInThailand LOL. Most Thai women dont work in the sex trade, and make great wives.

I live in Thailand , and not every Thai woman is like that but there are many who are .There are not always two sides to every story .

This happens in the States, Europe, Australia etc etc all the time.. Should the airlines play a video for these fools flying into Las Vegas, Amsterdam, Greece? He picked up a girl from a massage parlor. Did he think this was going to be Disney fairy tale ending...he better look in the mirror

The idea of hope for: 1. men to find a woman that's the ultimate source of pleasure and happiness 2. women to find a man that's the ultimate source of money and security can't be beaten with a video played on a plane to Thailand buddy

@@no_clot_shot1128 You're the ultimate source of speaking utter nonsense

@@KippaxInThailand you be the judge.. better-than-though type right? ..and smarter than all too?

Australia 99% gone to the Mother and you would also have to provide house and bills. The Thai women here (and I am sure it’s the same for Philippine ladies etc) they have Facebook groups to work their way up the ladder from sponsor to BF/fiancé no.2. The Immigration department has cottoned on so it has become harder to stay and get PR when the pattern is revealed. Be aware, be real otherwise that Fun Thai holiday can cost you more than a lot of money, it can cost you years too.

@@JopacobUSA also. Women have way more rights than men with regard to marriage and kids and court. I’ve paid child support for 13 years to a daughter I’ve never been able to meet cause the mom just disappeared and besides hiring a Private Investigator which I did twice the courts won’t help at all with letting me know where they are. Last I heard in the southwest states. I’m in the north west. Sucks. Can’t even petition for custody rights because she doesn’t have an address in the state I live. Long story. But at least they get the check every month. White girl not Thai

Didn’t mean to waffle on so much there lol waiting for a plane back to America at the moment at BKK airport

i can tell you now.. i would be willing to... if i continue to mess up then im happy to be the spectacle for others to learn from 🙃 but Fah is a good lady if it goes wrong this time it be my fault 🙏

@@cyberfox843just hope you're not making the same mistake twice. Maybe I'm reading more into it, but felt some of Pete's questions were also a note of caution.

He said the first Thai girl he met was a soapy massage girl which ended after 3 months

And No happy ending.

brain is not falling from the sky ....

Well said. Values, goals, and integrity are universal regardless of culture.

Good advice.

Yep... same advice I have provided for all too many men that are *love struck* with Thai Women.

Same can be said anywhere in this world !!

they are all in it for the money to show off to their villages I've found one

They all in it for the money

Same age as me, just finishing a month here for my first trip outside the USA. I envy the fact you came here so young. I wished I had done this 20 years ago. 1982 for me. First international trip to Thailand January 10th 2024. Plane home leaves in about 6 hours. Man I wish so much that I had found this out at 18. But, at least I’m not 65 for my first trip and can still date attractive young girls here genuinely. Met one and had to leave after a week cause I was starting to get feelings. Learned on my first trip and not living here that emotions are dangerous. Man, legit 10/10 woman and all green flags. Not a bar girl or freelancer. But, I cut it after a week. Best week of the last 10 years with her in Phuket

you're = you are ...

@@silverfox6883ellipsis goes next to the pause… like that

He’s in love with the idea of a girl being in love with him and he saw Thailand as his best chance of finding a woman to fit that role

There isn't even a loaf of bread to make the Sandwiches.

Great job recognizing what you could have done better and apologizing. A rare trait indeed

😂

Kinda harsh man..

@@Lovsnow Every word is true.

Nothing learned really. He's doing the same again with Fah

FIRST THAI WIFE !!?? - hows the 2nd one doing ?

LOL!

i like to think i leant something but as it was over decade ago.. obviously i learnt enough to know that my story might have value to others to think twice, but if you referring to my current relationship with my fiance we have been living together after this interviewed was filmed and the wedding is not anytime soon 🙏

Drawer John.. drawer

⁠@@Lovsnowlove snow, love

The vast majority of Thai ladies and Pinays are NOT sex workers. Quite a lot of gullible naive falangs never get past the bars and massage parlours. I am lucky that I have worked in both countries.

You can also put the house in your thai child's name.

cashier mate.chinese family too.

I’d have kept the soapy on a down low , didn’t put her in good light 🛁, soon has he said that , alarm 🚨 bells , definitely a sinking ship , or a bust lilo 😉

It's like jumping out of a third floor window and being surprised you got hurt.

Definitely got a messy ending, but big props for telling his story , 😬

Except that wasn't his ex-wife. His ex he met online 5 yrs later and met her in the UK

Inspiring? Hahahaha. Or as we say in Thailand 555555.

Inspiring??????

i think you nailed it. this guy seems alright he was just too naive to know better. he'll do better this time.

i might be wrong but i believe didn't that remove legal aid to low income some time back in the UK? it might be in family courts i think still provide it for legal courts but honestly i don't know just thought i vaguely heard something on those lines while back

@@cyberfox843 www.gov.uk/legal-aid/eligibility#:~:text=You%20have%20the%20right%20to,education)%20or%20on%20certain%20benefits.

I was thinking the same 🤣🤣

me too, i cant even watch myself without wanting to slap myself 😅

😂 he had it coming

Cool thanks Nok, i’ll see if I can get an update video

I bet you would you sick guy! 😀

They are thinking with their (ocks and not their heads...

i read your comment and im trying to look inwards but struggling to pin point my denial, could you please assist? if you could say what i appear to be in denial of because im genuinely interested in discovering that sincerely thanks

@@cyberfox843 hey mate, first I'd just like to say please stop reading the comments, but I think it's probably too late for that. I'd also like to say, I understand your diagnosis and I have a very hard time in social situations also. Although I've never been diagnosed with Asperger's, I'm sympathetic to your personality traits and understand how you get into these situations. The denial I am talking about is a lot of things/behaviours from other people you talk about in the video that you are trying to justify on their behalf, instead of seeing them for what they are. I think internally you know what those behaviours really mean, but you want to justify them as something else and you want to put faith in what people tell you rather than seeing it for what it is. Sometimes you need to rip the band-aid off or suffer the hurt later on, which is usually worse. I hope you find happiness with Faa and that it all works out. You deserve it. Don't dwell on the past, but also make sure you take lessons from the past to try to avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future.

@@steven_bkk ok i understand you and thanks and maybe your right and i think you are... i read most the comments and im cool with it.. i find it interesting and maybe educational even some the negative ones but just decided to take some time for reading now.. new comments will come at later date but i be gone by then with whatever im upto i would imagine

@@cyberfox843 Just keep in mind that all comments are based on a 45 min video. There is no way in a 45 minute video people can know who you are, so take all comments with a grain of salt.

I agree, guys like him are blue pill simps who cant handle being alone. He needs to hit the gym and focus on improving himself instead of trying to find love in Thailand. Also anyone looking to date in Bangkok should reside in the city full time and hold down a stable full time job. This is the only way to meet and develop a relationship slowly.

That first sentence really made me laugh 😂

yes i did has it was playing on my mind a lot at the time and i needed to know but it was one scariest things ever has i already spend year taking care of her as a father, thankfully results came back at 99.8 🙏

U got lucky mate. My advice for u now is dont get married. whats the rush.if in 2/3 yrs of being with this new girl goes well and u have checked her past out then by all means go for marraige again. If u find out shes ever been in the bar scene then run to the hills and be thankful u got lucky.

@@pq3586 no answer from our man ??

Will do thanks ☺️☺️☺️☺️

@@irishheritage893 read the book ‘the rational male’ by Rollo Tomassi