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My Years In Conversion Therapy and How I Forgave My Father 

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After enduring years of so-called ex-gay conversion therapy, Mathew realized that no such thing exists and learned how to forgive his father.
(Gay | Conversion Therapy | ex-gay | homophobia) [TV-PG]
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@ronsmith4328
@ronsmith4328 8 лет назад
I was put through electronic shock therapy by the President of the Baptist Church. It didn't work, but it did prove medically I was born gay as the Dr who actually did it confirmed. I saw that psychiatrist for 16 years and paid him a fortune. I was Baptist Pastor and missionary. I am still married to my disabled wife after 45 years and a father and a grandfather. I am now proud of being gay and enjoy being gay very much even though I am not sexually active. The Exclusive Brethren here actually chemically castrate gay teenagers here to try to change them. God creates some people gay and it is absolutely fine. I strongly support gay marriage. The entire medical profession declassified homosexuality as an illness 43 years ago this year. Thanks for sharing.
@pavlina102
@pavlina102 8 лет назад
+Ron Smith You seem a well-balanced person. But with everything you have gone through, this quality must have been extremely difficult to achieve. All the best to you in the years to come.
@marianomg4135
@marianomg4135 6 лет назад
Rol)))))
@jamesrobiscoe1174
@jamesrobiscoe1174 5 лет назад
Bless you, Ron Smith, for recognizing that God's love overrides all differences. This is to really believe in Him, and more than that, to live a little bit more God's love that "surpasseth all understanding."
@littlekiwi9724
@littlekiwi9724 5 лет назад
So sorry for what you had to go through Ron! I'm glad you're happy now and I hope keeping well. Big hug
@jolielaide9942
@jolielaide9942 5 лет назад
I know this is an old post, but have you ever thought about doing one of these videos? You have such an interesting story, and it is so important to shine a light on the abuses perpetrated by your (ex-?)church and other religious communities. In order to overcome oppression, we must first acknowledge who the oppressors are. Thank you for sharing your story; I wish you continued peace.
@vorpal22
@vorpal22 9 лет назад
This is a perfect example as to why minors should NEVER be allowed to be subjected to the evils and torture of ex-gay therapy.
@jeffnorris9278
@jeffnorris9278 10 лет назад
You are an amazing man. To have the moral fiber to not only forgive your Father but to have a relationship with him is inspiring. I wish you and your family all the best.
@tonybennett4159
@tonybennett4159 9 лет назад
Incredible that in this day and age in western countries, the barbaric and ignorant practice of "conversion therapy" should continue. It is revealing that Matthew said that he got mad, when in the middle of this period, people suggested that he might be wasting his time. The amount of physical and psychological pressure involved in this explains, I feel, why there are ex-gays who stick to the story that they are "healed". Sometimes it's not easy to admit that you have completely wasted years of your life in a pointless exercise.
@mariajuana1788
@mariajuana1788 6 лет назад
I know a gay man who has been helped> Just because many have fallen for the agenda doesn't mean others arent been helped.
@aributera4905
@aributera4905 6 лет назад
Maria Juana There's no agenda. The only agenda is to be treated equally and move on with life. The problem is people like you. Like shut up and leave people alone. There's nothing wrong with being gay. You guys are doing harm to gay people by brainwashing them into thinking there's something wrong with them. And don't even start and force your beliefs on people.
@aributera4905
@aributera4905 6 лет назад
Maria Juana I can guarantee you that he wasn't helped. All conversion therapy does is make you have self hatred, lowers your sex drive, and makes you depressed. Many people have commited suicide because of conversion therapy. The so guy that you're talking about is not being honest with himself or he wasn't even gay at the first place. Do you not know how many gay men marry woman and live a miserable life. You people need to stop. Some boys like boys, some boys like woman, some woman like woman , and some like both. End of story. *Love has no gender love has no race*
@MrMusiclover41
@MrMusiclover41 10 лет назад
What a heartwarming story. You are more forgiving than I would be, had my father done what yours did. In my case, my dad said nothing. But my mother was not happy with the knowledge I was gay, so I moved out from home and set up housekeeping in a larger town about 25 miles away from them.
@nzrockboi
@nzrockboi 8 лет назад
Well call me an arsehole but I basically expect to be accepted being a gay man. I expect that people will see me equally. And those that don't, I look down on them because I think they're idiots with no sense. Haters don't hurt me because of this. I EXPECT that you see me as equal
@shiteyanyo1111
@shiteyanyo1111 7 лет назад
PREACH
@lr3521
@lr3521 5 лет назад
HoKe Happy Donkey You look like a hooligan, not a homosexual
@shoulders-of-giants
@shoulders-of-giants 5 лет назад
That is the only way. As long as my (not) parents-in-law don't see me as equal, I will block them out of my life indefinitely. There is no excuse for discrimination.
@gogogogogirl
@gogogogogirl 5 лет назад
Right on bro.
@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax
@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax 5 лет назад
@@lr3521 A sexy hooligan....You look like a generic "green with envy" homosexual.
@SaraYorkAuthor
@SaraYorkAuthor 10 лет назад
I'm glad you're going to be okay. I wish more people knew the dangers of conversion therapy. All too often kids are put through therapy and are too damaged to recover.
@simsim3918
@simsim3918 7 лет назад
This is the most inspirational thing I've ever heard. To go through that story and put up with all of the pressure, and in the end, when listening to your dad giving you that speech you've heard a thousand times and it always caused you to fight ... and then just say "Okay, dad. I'm gonna be okay"... and that just resolves it. You are an awesome and loving guy, Matthew, and your story inspires me!
@DanTowey
@DanTowey 8 лет назад
thank you Matthew for sharing your journey. congratulations on making changes :)
@tthhuuhhaa
@tthhuuhhaa 10 лет назад
Great story. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@nalandatendar4212
@nalandatendar4212 8 лет назад
Matthew, I really admire that you speak about your past so clearly with beauty and dignity, after all you have gone through. I recognize big parts of your story. Personally I like to promote love, compassion and wisdom in the world, and it includes that people have the right of freedom to be able to love the ones they want, that we can learn from having relationships, sex with all it's joy and limitations. I became a Buddhist monk, but would not have liked to miss my free exploration of life of 15 years (only regret if I have contributed to some pain when I made mistakes) as I needed love and compassion from others, I gave my love to my abilities and learned a lot from it. Matthew, I hope you will meet only love and wisdom on your path! My best wishes to everyone who reads this!
@sanciac8842
@sanciac8842 6 лет назад
I am very happy to have discovered this channel, the testimonies are beautiful and strong and give hope and inspiration for everyone
@JiminPalmSprings
@JiminPalmSprings 10 лет назад
Thanks for sharing,,, it's amazing how damaging parents can be,,,but you recoverd!
@aramax1001
@aramax1001 9 лет назад
Good job, my friend!! I'm glad you were able to get through this with a clear head.
@Eltoca21
@Eltoca21 10 лет назад
Thank you for sharing. This is sad but turns out inspiring.
@brucecoleman5379
@brucecoleman5379 6 лет назад
This is a fabulous story. Sorry fir the pain, but happy you have found joy.
@shiteyanyo1111
@shiteyanyo1111 7 лет назад
I don't think I'd have the guts to ever forgive my parents for sending me to conversion therapy, even if they were originally supportive. You're incredibly strong and brave!
@patricmilmine3599
@patricmilmine3599 10 лет назад
Be who you are. Nothing less
@flamingrobin5957
@flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад
what if who you are is a lying, jealous, gossiping, bitter, fornicator, who blames others and doesnt take responsibility for your actions? being who you are if you're a liar is going to have negative consequences. Being who you are if you're a rebel is going to have negative consequences. Being who you are if you addicted to pornography is going to have negative consequences. all sin is selfishness and destroys love. ask any divorced person.
@derwachter445
@derwachter445 5 лет назад
me people have sex with their dogs, should zoophiles be "who they are" aswell? How about pedophiles?
@derwachter445
@derwachter445 5 лет назад
@Luxitos So you mean that a dog cannot "want" his owner in a particular way? Or a human cannot lust for animals ? If you want tolerance than give it to all pervs equally.
@keithwilson6060
@keithwilson6060 5 лет назад
Patric Milmine The worst advice you can give some people is “be yourself.”
@danurbanowicz7959
@danurbanowicz7959 9 лет назад
1:25 "Sex will never fill a void".....hehehe. In all seriousness thank you for sharing!
@mariajuana1788
@mariajuana1788 6 лет назад
There is much not shared about the real journey but hey everyone wants to hear otherwise
@ntsc.386
@ntsc.386 5 лет назад
Actually i agree with the above statement. Sex cannot substitute things u don’t have but that goes for everyone.
@earthworm4255
@earthworm4255 10 лет назад
You are an amazing person. Thank you for sharing this story.
@trisshandy
@trisshandy 10 лет назад
Wow, what a powerful message. Props on your courage to live through that and share it with the world. There has to be a special place in hell for people who make their livings destroying kids' lives like that.
@stephenbullard5321
@stephenbullard5321 6 лет назад
Is it wrong for me to hate his father for putting him through this? It angers me so much.
@dalekdx
@dalekdx 4 года назад
A long time ago someone said to me "Hate on hurts the hater." And I realized them that hating someone or something only has a negative impact on the person doing the hating. It rarely has any affect on the other person. It's not easy to learn to stop hating, but if you can achieve it you will be a happier person for it.
@wishusknight3009
@wishusknight3009 6 лет назад
This is why we fight. To get through the static to give a voice to those who do not have one.
@deandbn
@deandbn 9 лет назад
I think you were a very brave guy in spite of what happened to you. Respect dude !!
@theoriginalskinsey
@theoriginalskinsey Год назад
My mom sent me information from Exodus (christian "ex gay" program) after coming out to her. the relationship i was in ended and the constant homophobic grooming from the church convinced me to sign up to a local exodus chapter. I quit after less than a year in due to devastating depression that I linked to my time and the rhetoric of the group. I wasn't supposed to ever say i was gay, i was supposed to say i was straight "struggling with same sex attraction". I lived a lie all that time. Over twenty years later I am still fighting against the trauma meted out by the evangelical homophobic church. But I am progressing. Just figuring out how to best channel my anger at the injustice and theft of my youth.
@okimlistening2u
@okimlistening2u 6 лет назад
Matt, I'm a little late finding your video but as a counselor, I want to thank you for this empowering video. I think in the current psychological environment, no true counselor would ever attempt to believe in 'conversion therapy'. I am sorry that you had a person who was still so backward in his counseling. Thank you, bro.......love you...........Ray
@ronsmith4328
@ronsmith4328 8 лет назад
Thanks. What has been essential for me what to leave the church permanently and to cease contact with them. People who want to attack me, first need my permission to do that. All the very best. Hope you find the man of your dreams and spend the rest of your life with him. Gay marriage has got to be the most natural thing in the world for those born gay.
@tylerlangley1786
@tylerlangley1786 5 лет назад
Thank you for sharing!
@itbarthur4u
@itbarthur4u 9 лет назад
It's a wonderful sign of strength that you are able to forgive your father and still hold on to the truth of your own experience. Your father was acting on bad information that he had no way of testing. These "Ex-gay therapists" mutilate families for the sake of their own beliefs and profit. I am deeply saddened by the spiritual/emotional damage they do to others. You deserve great credit for being able to give your story without being hateful. We must work together to ensure that future generations are not abused by these charlatans the way you were.
@Lobstrique
@Lobstrique 7 лет назад
this is heartbreaking. good to know Mathew is getting better now.
@mpshields
@mpshields 8 лет назад
I'm a straight instructor, and I had some straight understudies. After 2 years of conversion teaching, the Gays remained Gay, the straights turned Gay and I turned Gay. We all celebrated & went shopping!
@GO-lr5fb
@GO-lr5fb 8 лет назад
I don't know who you are but I love you 😂😂😂😂
@mpshields
@mpshields 8 лет назад
+G O Thanks man. Truth is these conversion sessions on the "Gay Scale" turned everyone from Pink to Rainbow to Super Plaid! Right off the scale into Gay Heaven.
@shiny2401
@shiny2401 7 лет назад
Michael Shields Did you actually turn gay? No offence, I've been curious if it's actually possible for a straight to turn gay for a long time
@mpshields
@mpshields 7 лет назад
+Tharshiny Ravi: What do you mean, for a long time? Like you turn gay-straight-gay-straight at will? The spell wears off.
@shiny2401
@shiny2401 7 лет назад
Michael Shields No. I meant i've been curious for a long time if it's possible for a straight person to turn gay
@davidfenton6014
@davidfenton6014 6 лет назад
Your capacity for forgiveness proves there is no void, there is no hole, other than one filled with doubt and fear constructed by others.
@NancyNiemeyer
@NancyNiemeyer 8 лет назад
Brave boy! Very good you are looking ahead in live!!!! :-)
@robertlight3396
@robertlight3396 9 лет назад
Is there a cure for Christianity?
@antonschlender8688
@antonschlender8688 9 лет назад
M1GarandMan3005 Why are you on this video, if you against gay people? Seriously where do you guys all come from?
@victorbarraza4910
@victorbarraza4910 9 лет назад
M1GarandMan3005 LoL struck a nerve right XD. hahahahha
@skipfires
@skipfires 7 лет назад
Robert Light, there is a cure for Christianity. That cure is Christ Jesus.
@flamingrobin5957
@flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад
yes rebellion and pride is the cure for receiving God's love and forgiveness. "God is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"
@Tenuk868
@Tenuk868 7 лет назад
Yes its a drug called knowledge
@xadam2dudex
@xadam2dudex 4 года назад
So where did his father get all this info ? Was this in 2015 ?
@roberthartley8105
@roberthartley8105 Год назад
Your are very Brave and a Wonderful Spirit, Angel Blessing's....Live Your Life..........
@3506Dodge
@3506Dodge 8 лет назад
This poor man. I hope he can get past this abuse and make a trusting life with another man.
@staytrue2254
@staytrue2254 9 лет назад
Interesting to see that even supportive parents can make the mistake of considering conversion therapy.
@sleazybtd
@sleazybtd 7 лет назад
Ironic that the therapy actually caused more harm to the person than the supposed "sickness" itself.
@marcusnl66
@marcusnl66 8 лет назад
Powerful story, Mathew!!! How screwed up gays end up to be just bc they try to please society iso themselves?! Good for you Mathew for living your own life, meaning being gay and true to yourself.
@sourabhjha7211
@sourabhjha7211 3 года назад
On this channel I have seen many such stories but my opinion on this different. Never forgive a person who doesn't recognise their mistakes and apologize to you. But again everyone has had different experiences in their life and so different viewpoints.
@aramax1001
@aramax1001 9 лет назад
And, you're adorably cute, snuggly, huggable, hunky.
@Fandango541
@Fandango541 5 лет назад
Isn't he? Such a beautiful man in all respects.
@Coldheart19
@Coldheart19 10 лет назад
im glad it all worked out for him! far too many people get trapped in the sad and hollow realm of conversion therapy. on a side note- where does he live and whats his number? hes cute! id date him up in a second lol
@DIBBY40
@DIBBY40 Год назад
What a horrible thing to try to "cure" someone to fit into a theology.❤ Bless you Matt
@suvariboy
@suvariboy 6 лет назад
I'm not crying. 😭
@cooldude6012
@cooldude6012 6 лет назад
Such a handsome guy
@organman0921
@organman0921 6 лет назад
The fact that straight people only understand gay people as sexual deviants is so unfortunate. Sex is only one aspect of a relationship - an important one - but still only one. Along with love comes respect, companionship, care for the other person, support, and a desire for the other person to be happy and reach their full life potential. To say that two gay people cannot understand this type of love and relationship is ignorant and bigoted. Also, to say that a truly loving and wholesome relationship is one in which children are produced by the union is also faulty. Does this mean that hetero couples who choose not to have children or who cannot have children are also labeled as being less than because they are childless? Open your eyes and minds people and quit living in a life-limiting box.
@dalekdx
@dalekdx 4 года назад
Not allowing a teenage to talk to his mother and sister for three years is enough to know whoever gave these instructions was not to be trusted. Of course I don't blame the teenagers, it's terrible the parents didn't know better.
@monica8833
@monica8833 6 лет назад
Amazing guy
@ET-oq7gt
@ET-oq7gt 7 лет назад
Is there a cure for it? I have prayed for like 2 years straight i heard its a sin to 😰
@ivangamboa1860
@ivangamboa1860 6 лет назад
Its interesting to see that its was his mothers words of gay affirmation that struck him abd not his fathers. Althought his situation might have been a strain on the family strong couples dont divorce that easily because of a "problem" with a child. Lastly his father sounds like a distant father, he does not express a relationship or even a relationship with an close engaging, strong loving father his father prior to 16yrs old.
@rothvinbosley1335
@rothvinbosley1335 8 лет назад
I love all these straights that tell us what we can and do feel. We might not have families and more committed relationships if marriage were possible! Before the internet one could only meet in parks and bars! Just very sad.
@shoulders-of-giants
@shoulders-of-giants 5 лет назад
1:35 So that is what the "therapist" experienced. Sad that he imposes his bad mental health onto others.
@GO-lr5fb
@GO-lr5fb 8 лет назад
Sex can't fill a "void" HAHAHAHA get it It's a joke
@Fandango541
@Fandango541 5 лет назад
G O LOL Yup! Been a gay man for many years, and that void has been filled a number of times. I'm kidding, I was always 'too picky' according to my friends. But I got a laugh out of your comment. ;)
@haydenanderson2121
@haydenanderson2121 7 лет назад
At least his dad was ok with it at first
@ttp436
@ttp436 3 года назад
Omg What a beautiful man inside and out. I would Love a boyfriend like him.
@jamesgifford8291
@jamesgifford8291 5 лет назад
shalom
@yarvelling
@yarvelling 10 лет назад
Forgiveness is highly overrated. BUT - you have an opportunity here... Wait a little while until Dad is old and senile and really needs you. Then throw him to the wolves.
@BJN1253
@BJN1253 5 лет назад
Haha
@CelestialCookie
@CelestialCookie 9 лет назад
Driftwood, can you moderate these comments? The homophobes down there kind of defeat the point of the video.
@michaeldavis9190
@michaeldavis9190 6 лет назад
I am gay, but I believe that there should be a form of "conversion" therapy for people who only think they are gay due to traumatic experiences. It is no secret that traumatic experiences can alter one's sexuality, and I believe that there should be therapy to correct anyone who has fallen into a sexuality that isn't really their own.
@FireFoxGaming_
@FireFoxGaming_ 4 года назад
This makes more sense if anything
@KendrixTermina
@KendrixTermina 7 лет назад
Not talking to your mom & sisters for years while living in the same house seems extremly cruel.
@TheFanaticFein
@TheFanaticFein 8 лет назад
Not all Christians are this judgmental. Honestly, I wouldn't even associate these attitudes with Christianity, but I know the Bible, and the Bible does not condemn these actions. Yes it does not agree with homosexuality, but it definitely does not allow this abusive attitude.
@tak-huenchau383
@tak-huenchau383 8 лет назад
+MyNameIsLame Remember it when the Bible says Yahweh brutally killed thousands of people for merely allowing others being gay? - Genesis 19 You obviously don't know the Bible that well...
@TheFanaticFein
@TheFanaticFein 8 лет назад
+T. H. Chau Genesis 19 actually stated that the people were going to destroy the city in Supposedly Gods name. Last time I checked the bible also said that we must love our neighbors as ourselves and that we should not murder or bring harm to anyone else. May I also remind you that we follow a Jesus who despite backlash from his disciplines still forgave a prostitute and treated her just the same as everyone. I'm not a complete expert on the Bible but I am pretty confident that God would not appreciate violence toward any group or people. And even if He did, He would do it himself. We are not God to dish out that kind of punishment onto other people.
@tak-huenchau383
@tak-huenchau383 8 лет назад
+MyNameIsLame Please read Genesis 19:3-4, 19:24. 'Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom-both young and old-surrounded the house. They called to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them ... Then the Lord rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah-from the Lord out of the heavens.' You are absolutely right in stating that 'And even if He did [employ violence against groups or people], He would do it himself'. He did. We can use our common sense, empathy and logic to love our neighbours, not to harm other people and tolerate sex workers, who, by the way, are primarily persecuted by the religious. By simply submitting ourselves to a fictional entity (i.e. God) which endorses violence, misogyny, homophobia and aggression is problematic, we make ourselves more vulnerable to be filled with hatred, discrimination and prejudice.
@ronsmith4328
@ronsmith4328 8 лет назад
+T. H. Chau In original Hebrew and Greek are the inspired words of God. The translations are definitely not. In Gen 19 the word for "men" has been translated as "people" in dozens of places eg "Let the people go" Ex 10:7. It is equally valid to translate Gen 19:4-5f "All the people of Sodom came out....Where are the people who came with you tonight?..." Sodom is mentioned 47 times in the Bible. If you can find one verse that says Sodom was destroyed because of homosexuality or that it even occurred there, would you let me know please? (Retired Baptist Pastor is very proud to be gay and has gone through electronic shock therapy to try to change me. It didn't work, but it did prove medically I was born gay as the Dr confirmed).
@flamingrobin5957
@flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад
RU-vid "AUDACITY MOVIE" a beautiful movie about christianity and homosexuality
@djkevinz
@djkevinz 7 лет назад
Bless you 🤗 and you are cute 😉
@Plathianloner
@Plathianloner 6 лет назад
It doesn't always get better on the other side...trust me. This "it gets better" saying is bs. At this point I wish I'd been born straight.
@BlueGuitars1
@BlueGuitars1 6 лет назад
Well done I WAS WITH MY PARTNER FOR NEARLY 4O YEARS HE WAS MY LOVER FRIEND MY SOUL MATE AND THE BEST THING THAT HAPPERED TO ME HE PAST AWAY 3 YEARS AGO AND I MISS HIM SO VERY MUCH I HAVE SO MANY GREAT MEMORIES SO I HOPE YOU FIND THE ONE, ALL THE BEST ADRIAN XX
@mike1967sam
@mike1967sam 5 лет назад
God defines what love is and what it is not, ... NOT you...and He has defined it for now and for all time.
@codyhodson7321
@codyhodson7321 5 лет назад
Ironically, your comment about love has served the purpose of spreading hate.
@robertsamuel-wd9tj
@robertsamuel-wd9tj Год назад
Conversion
@Chikotka
@Chikotka 9 лет назад
I like you!
@1dude1966
@1dude1966 10 лет назад
Damn hot guy😘
@FactionParadox2090
@FactionParadox2090 9 лет назад
Mmhmm, I like him.
@bubbub3377
@bubbub3377 6 лет назад
We went to school together
@kennethkenneth5149
@kennethkenneth5149 9 лет назад
So handsome
@gooieglopp
@gooieglopp 5 лет назад
Damn he's cute
@ttp436
@ttp436 3 года назад
gooieglopp u too
@Delicious_Oreoz
@Delicious_Oreoz 3 года назад
Moral of the story is that secular western societies are better. THANKS FOUNDING FATHERS even if yall did some bad stuff.
@karlwood7981
@karlwood7981 5 лет назад
Males are predisposed to homosexuality who have weak or absent fathers Otto Fenichel 1946 The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis.
@tedphillips2501
@tedphillips2501 5 лет назад
Unless the 'therapist' specializes in age regression hypnotherapy, there is no way to determine if your lifestyle is from what didn't happen in the womb or is an expression of an hypnotic identity. Even if your lifestyle is an expression of an hypnotic identity, if it started in pre-verbal times, any attempted 'therapy' would be malpractise.
@itsalexsolomon3438
@itsalexsolomon3438 7 лет назад
He's cute
@morisonandoor2023
@morisonandoor2023 7 лет назад
Parents should be born to kids instead of kids born to couples.
@timdimsum4267
@timdimsum4267 5 лет назад
BS.
@MRifleMan
@MRifleMan 9 лет назад
Biggest bullshit story I've ever heard. And I'm an ex-liberal.
@Addisonmoreno
@Addisonmoreno 9 лет назад
***** Some guy on the internet said it's bs, it must be true.
@docstefmd830
@docstefmd830 6 лет назад
can someone please just sue this horrible quack that mistreated this guy - and probably many other young susceptible gay men - to the brink of commiting suicide ... those fanatics have to be stopped!!!
@teampower7666
@teampower7666 6 лет назад
Why are people bothered? As long as gat men aren't running around rainy straight men, let them be. It's their choice and if it's a behaviour that'll cause eternal condemnation, it's still their choice. We have free will.
@vladislavdracula1763
@vladislavdracula1763 6 лет назад
Nice passive-aggressiveness there!
@flamingrobin5957
@flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад
All conversion therapy is is active listening from a male therapist, grieving losses, expressing "Weak" feelings with a man who accepts you as an integrated person. you dont have to hide from manly men and lust after them from afar. you can find some safe one's that understand your defense mechanisms and will invite you into their world. Shame and Pride are the barriers to relationship because they are narcissitic self centered states and prevent male bonding. authenticity is risky...so is admitting your faults with someone else. "The grace of God teaches us to say no to ungodliness" . overcoming passivity , withdrawal, envy, double binds..and such things need assistance from someone who can help you.
@vladislavdracula1763
@vladislavdracula1763 6 лет назад
Are you implying that being gay is "ungodly"?
@aributera4905
@aributera4905 6 лет назад
Ted Myrrh you guys need to stop forcing your shit on people. Leave people alone.
@codyhodson7321
@codyhodson7321 5 лет назад
That sounds pretty gay, bro.
@akbarshoed
@akbarshoed 5 лет назад
You make it sound like antiGay therapy doesn't work. But it obviously does. All the time.
@bofuthereturn
@bofuthereturn 10 лет назад
why didn't the father try gay exorcism? beatings might have worked as well.
@RmountMogle
@RmountMogle 9 лет назад
I seriously hope you are kidding. That is not funny to joke about! Bigot!
@bofuthereturn
@bofuthereturn 9 лет назад
Ryan Mount the father just didn't go the extra mile to save his son from homosexuality. he was too gentle.
@RmountMogle
@RmountMogle 9 лет назад
rich carter Are you serious? What is the extra mile? Torture? You know, I consider this "gay conversion therapy" to be torture already.... I don't understand why you people cannot just accept them for who they are! Why are you bothered by what they do so much, it is none of your business! And if its a choice, then you go have sex with another person of the same gender and see how you like it. If it was a choice, why would they do it if they are just met with ridicule and people telling them they are fucked up. There is no cure for being gay because there is NOTHING WRONG with being gay!
@orangegreenn
@orangegreenn 8 лет назад
+Ryan Mount (probably a troll)
@youngbreezy1669
@youngbreezy1669 6 лет назад
Ryan Mount oh making fun of gays isn’t funny, but I bet if someone made a joke about black people your dumbass would laugh🤬 being gay isn’t right nigga. Do women/men create babies or is it man/man. Explain that shit to me👌🏻
@EPA18
@EPA18 5 лет назад
Of course, this ignores the thousands of men for whom reparative therapy worked.
@codyhodson7321
@codyhodson7321 5 лет назад
Don't you mean the thousands of men living a lie?
@justin_grindley
@justin_grindley 8 лет назад
You should have obeyed your parents and realized the conversion therapy would have helped you if you cooperated.
@aributera4905
@aributera4905 6 лет назад
Justin Grindley he doesn't need to. And conversion therapy isn't going to work on him rather damage his mental health
@codyhodson7321
@codyhodson7321 5 лет назад
You must be a troll, because Mr. Garrison is your profile picture. Lmao! Good one.
@davidaraujo6910
@davidaraujo6910 5 лет назад
Unfortunately you did not receive reparative therapy, you got conversion therapy which does absolutely nothing. Reparative therapy is what can help you.
@BJN1253
@BJN1253 5 лет назад
That's a lie. The only thing that can help gay people is for society to accept for what they are. And how they were born
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