Narcissism at Work 

MedCircle When the person apologizes for something they did to you to lure you back in to their life - as a way to fix the issue or prevent you from leaving, BUT they bring up the same issue in another argument later on making you realize that they really didn’t mean their apologies or promises even. Accuses you of being the narcissist after someone else calls them out on being one. The person cares about how they sound or look (not just physically) to people even if what was shared or what people found out about his negative or toxic behavior is true. Always down playing your feelings and thoughts about things that logically matter and that person can’t accept that you see things differently than they do. Calling you crazy and telling you to calm down and they don’t take accountability for their own behavior causing you to feel what you feel. Even after you take responsibility for your own mistakes and shortcomings and you acknowledge how that person feels about the situation and you clearly expressed your sincere apology to that person but they don’t take NO accountability for their own mistakes that obviously contributed to the problem as well and just makes it sound like your to blame for everything. Blaming you that you made him look like a fool and making you aught to be the lunatic and evil person to everyone. Gets sulky when you bring up some concerns and start bringing up the fact that he’s the only provider and he’s doing nothing wrong and that your the one always bringing up negativity in the relationship. Flat out denies your truth because to him there’s only one truth and that’s his. Telling you your crazy and your making up things and your the pathological liar and that what clearly and vividly happened to you didn’t happen or he never did to you. Almost tried to record conversations or show texts messages to prove what the person said and to protect yourself from being accuse of making things up. The person wants you to value what he likes, wants and his family but have yours take the back seat. Threatens you that they won’t work because you upset them by bringing up some topic of concerns and because he’s the sole provider and he knows you worry about financial stability, he targets that part of your insecurity (and among other insecurities that you have) to punish you and to teach you a lesson to keep your mouth shut next time. Denies everything you feel and your truth and reality and says things like your brain is not functioning right. Is this a narcissistic behavior?

I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. i was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, i saw a recommendation about a hacker and decided to contact him. I explained the situation about my wife to him and he said he was going to help me.I gave him all the informations he required and afterwards i received all my wife’s iPhones Text messages, whatsApp messages and calls, I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but i am glad Mr James was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (worldcyberhackers) or whatsApp : +12678773020

Yes, absolutely. She fits this description perfectly. Nothing she enjoys more than bringing down confident, hard-working professionals over unimportant details...and out the door we go!

@@kasianowak3061 Yes!!!!

Thank you for your insights! I would love to hear Dr. Ramani's views on narcissistic behaviour at Universities and in the academic world. We often hear about narcissism in showbiz but academia is another work environment in which narcissism is equally insidious and disruptive.

Many were also tired of the b.s. company "policies" too. I AGREE.

Agreed

also shit pay in a shit economy

Military is extremely toxic full of narcissists, who are power hungry and gaslight people

on top of forced medical 'treatments'

Definitely not!!

I give this tip to everyone: even after you accept a job offer, keep applying for jobs. It doesn't take very long within your first 90 days to determine if a job is worth keeping or not.

I left mine 2 days ago. My boss was going to fire me and I have no write ups or anything. I quit and picked my stuff up. He was so mad because he wanted to have that freedom to humiliate and fire me.

@@jackcarraway4707 yeah.exactly a pro tip.

@@jackcarraway4707 it’s truly the best advice

True

There is nothing truer than this statement. HR literally does not care about you. You are so correct!

I’m suprised that Dr ramani supports hr!

But the EEOC isn’t , you go to HR to create a paper trail

@@thetapenyc191 I did this and hr said that they cant investigate because im still on probation

My life at the moment. I’ve turned into the side hustle queen.

I’m doing this right now, woman went from being a second mother to cruella deville in a year. Told her I’m out by end of march. Crazy nightmare

You just wrote my career philosophy there 👏👏

I understand. I saved every bit of money I could for months and prepared my exit strategy. When I began having chest pains, and chest pains that extended into my left arm, I knew it was time to step it up and leave. Citing parental care needs for my reason for leaving.

@@tijeraslack3must not have a life outside of work. Sad.

its happening to me at the moment

Lol never commit suicide over a stupid job!

Im glad you are here to share your story.

Don't let such evil harm your heart. It's hard but believe in yourself. Narcissists target the beautiful angels of the world. That makes you the angel.

You would be surprised where you will find these. Look at schools, where you would expect better.

Me and you both!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, that was my exact thought, then again you are gonna have to deal with those narcissistic customers , making it unescapable but I would rather that coz at least I have an option to show them the road.

Be your own boss

They are every where. You may have narcissist clients/customers too. The solution is to develop high self-esteem and do not place your value on other people's view of you, no matter who they are, parents, spouse, boss.

Me too!! I've had it! Trying very hard to start my own business. Nothing but chaos at my new job! I had to take off today because of all the stress that I have been receiving from this company.

I thought I was losing my mind.

100%. It’s the chaos for me. These people will drain you of your life force with the constant drama. God is a god of order. Narcs want anything but. Run. Quietly.

Absolutely. DETACH DETACH DETACH. It is not easy, and it takes practice and time. May God help me.

I agree

Spot on👏🏽. Keep your emotions outside of the workplace.

Fact!

I have to agree, but they are afraid of lawsuits. So if you have documented, it can help you keep your job until you find a new one.

My boss is part of HR.

HR is THE WORST!! You can never trust HR EVER...

HR has failed me miserably!

Hahaha same...

Same I’m tired of being accused for things I didn’t do I’m so ready to get out nobody understands I feel like a prisoner

I said the same thing. So glad to get out of cell block D.

Everyone but my narcissistic supervisor praise my work. My supervisor criticizes everything I do, I have to literally send screenshots of my emails before I send them, I can't sleep, I wake up sweaty and every morning, especially Monday, I'm so anxious. My boss' boss is so egoistic and I have a coworker that is so far up their ass. It's so toxic. 3 people have left in the last 3 months, at a job where people used to last 2 plus years. I thought I was going crazy until she gaslighter me for the last time yesterday. I submitted my 2 weeks today. So relieved to leave this high school toxicity. Byeeeeee

Glad your free!!! 💛

Same!

It follows me everywhere I go

You just have to find a company that values respect and integrity, I found one luckily, and I've been there 12 years.

SAME killed my love for working in public relations. Really sucks

Unfortunately we re in a narc culture is very common more than I thought ..

YES!! Same thing happened to me. So glad I left. It has taken me close to a year to recover and heal.

I had a professor who was like that too. It's funny: you'd think university professors are mature and wise, but really they're just ordinary people. Some of them are world experts in their field. Others are just big kids who never grew up and never left school.

@@DaveGIS123 I actually find professors crazier than most. And more narcissists in higher education that I’ve seen.

I learned this the hard way. Thanks for stating this.

Start documenting the abuse and harassing tactics. Do it on you personal computer, not on a phone, tablet or pc owned by the company. Start looking for a new job. You narc boss will do all s/he can to keep you from succeeding or getting any kind of job. Get a new job before you are fired (they will do it), then the place you apply to can't call your current boss as a reference. Believe me, the narc will do everything s/he can to ruin your career

Walking on eggshells is so true

So I should quit instead of getting fired?

Exactly what I'm going through. He's gaslighting right now. It's an emotional Rollercoaster.

@@cautiontothewind277 stand up to them professionally and reasonably, and let them fire you then take them to an employment tribunal.

Oh god, how are you doing now?

I reported to boss that I was being cols shouldered and excluded. She said "What did you do to them to make them treat you that way?" True narc statement.

Because you were unfortunately. I hope you are doing well.

@@l.5832 Wth!? Disgusting people.

Well they didn’t protect you and you were right.

Its amazing how businesses last that long with all the debauchery going on.

The abuse nearly killed me multiple times. It’s no joke.

Life is a Journey yup, same here.

Now you're paranoid and imagine that you're being followed. These dudes mess with your head big time until your brain and body starts to feel like a soggy worn out pair of distressed jeans in a swirling washing machine stuck on spin cycle. If you can step back and watch the antics from a bemused distance and laugh at the crazy-making it might help as you plan your exit from their stage or virtual battle-ground.

LOL! Did we work at the same company???

Same!

I really don't think records work. I've come across others in such places and even with plentiful evidence it is not enough. I would say just leave as soon as you're able to.

That doesn't work trust me they find ways to avoid you even bringing up the records. What you should do is to observe see if you can find strategies to cope or jump ship if it's that bad.

Yes that’s definitely accurate.

Me too, just yesterday. He told me that I abandoned my job because I got a covid test after my co worker tested positive. My room mate had emergency surgery and was vulnerable so I needed to take it for her. He said he would pressure the covid positive guy to come to work anyway bc he didnt believe in it.

@@kr3642 That's sick.

People often don't talk about the physical sickness. It's the mind body connection.

I’m really sorry about this. Did you change?

I hope you get out!

So relatable! So sorry you had to go through this.

This is why my main manager isnt a narcissist. A vo worker made a mistake and she reminded everyone what not to do in a group text message she did not call the co worker out even though I know who it is. Calling someone out in a text or group email is not good

My former supervisor did what your boss did but in a narcissistic way. She first of all made the employees mistake about her. So she took mistakes personally. She would then be demeaning. What I hated was that she wouldn't investigate the problem. Instead she would come to her own conclusions based on assumption, add her own lies. That woman was just a horrible leader. I'm just thankful that I wasn't the only one who could see that she was unstable.

I entered one of my first serious romantic relationships like this😂 I thought ALL women were like "that" and that I had to play the game a certain way to keep the relationship alive. Wasn't until an year into the mess that I found out about the disorder and realised that she scored High one the pathological narcissism scale. Left after about 2 years of hell with the narc .

Bingo

Why would you expect otherwise?

@@josephineananda actually Sarah should expect a lot better and never give up on that :)

HR didnt care because their job is to protect the company, not you.

I'm with you! 5 years in with this narc boss who constantly undermines me and steals my ideas and my work. Sleeps around the office too, to gain loyalty, I'm guessing. No boss is worth our health.

I feel you. Bots are dangerous

Me too! Best decision ever. No money was worth the suffering.

Omg! This is my supervisors. I’ve never experienced this before .

I'm currently going through this. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Exactly the situation I am in. She hires someone new and makes them the Golden Child. Then the devaluation where she screams, hurls false accusations, tell other staff not to talk to the victim, shuns, withholds communication and strips person of meaningful responsibility. Then when you complain she says it's HER company and she'll run it the way she wants. I've seen WAY too many employees reduced to tears at her demeaning outbursts, then they quit. Then she's happy....no wrongful dismissal suit. And the cycle continues..

@@l.5832 I'm working for a small family business, currently off sick on advice by my doctor due to bad back, related to the type of work I do, But I'm beginning to feel that my back problems are related to stress from a narcissistic boss /owner, this has been ongoing for some time and she knows I'm having problems, yet when I told her I've got two weeks to rest, she asked if I was coming in for work! I said no I'm going to find a way to not have to come back to work at all due to the pain I'm suffering, my boss blames me for not giving her time to find someone else to take over some if not all of my jobs, when she has had enough time, at least all summer! The way she talks to me, the way she treats me are demeaning and everything else is always about what she's done for me, never giving me credit for the hard work I've done over the last nearly 4 years, I deserve better than this

@@techjunkie68smusicandtech56 I realized there was a major problem at my workplace when I realized everyone who worked there more than a year started to have migraines, and everyone but me was on antidepressants, or anti=anxiety medications.

Going through it

ME RIGHT NOW

Wishing all happiness...joy to your family

True

Yep. Made that mistake.

It's hard to get over and eats away at you. It's time to not give a crap. It's the only way to move on. Get mad don't be a victim. Take your Power back.

In sorry you went through all that. I hope you’re in a better place now. Blessings.

I understand ....be positive you will attract positive ..for sure will get a workplace which is much better than earlier..pray for tht✨✨✨✨✨✨

I got CFS after working with a toxic boss, and could not work for 7 years because of terrible exhaustion. It caused me such terrible health problems I cant even describe. At that time I did not know about narcicissm...

Im not getting overpay but my boss doesmt let me pay anny coffee for myself and paid a taxi for me without me askeing. Trying to get close on a personal level to get more control over me 🤢

Same here. Now that Im quitting i hear a lot of gossip, i got vocal threats and im indirectly harrased. Still need to endure 2 more weeks..

You cannot fix them. Their brain literally works differently than you.

Yes! They kill your confidence and creativity. Too afraid to try something new because they yell You are wrong!

I really feel for you. When I was in my first job at age 18 they fired me for doing what I was told - I walked out crying. Didn't realise it was illegal at the time. Now I left a job because I got bullied so bad I had to be medicated for anxiety. Then I went to a job where in there end there was a tiny amount of bullying behaviour and I noped out so fast my head spun. Now my new boss is a fucking narcissist, and I feel like I literally can't do anything wrong because she's going to blast me. Getting in the pattern sucks, felling so low that you think you deserve it sucks. And the worst is trying to explain nicely in an interview why you left you last job because you can never say "oh I was bullied out by the head of HR".

@@missybuchanan9631 ugh I feel for you too!!! This is a long read... I ended up being fired a week after I wrote this comment, for performance. 8 lasted exactly 2 weeks in that hell and gave it my all, including my tears and sanity. I did a great job and am proud of who I was there, despite what she tried to pull. The day before I was fired, she finally “trained me”. Two times that day, she sabotaged me. Like, without a doubt, full on sabotage. It was the most gaslighting, crazy making work experience I’ve had. The first time it happened, she told me I wasn’t closing jump rings properly (it’s a jewelry company) and then I saw her manipulate the properly closed jump rings, multiple times on multiple pieces, after I had made absolutely sure they were perfectly closed. She was sitting right beside me as I worked. When I went to weld them, all the jump rings I had done, that she had checked after I reclosed them, were completely misaligned again. When that happened, I thought, ‘well that’s weird’. I was looking at them under a microscope right after she had said they were good... they were not. If the jump rings aren’t properly aligned, the welding machine kind of blows up the jump ring and can damage the piece. So I realigned them and welded them together. No recognition for my good work, only criticism and telling me how I should be faster. She even tried to tell me I was making the chains the wrong size and had the other employee come over and measure them, they were literally EXACTLY the size they were supposed to be. Then she decided I wasn’t doing customer service anymore (despite getting rave reviews from customers and the other employees) and started training the girl who knew how to make jewelry to do the job I was proficient at.... she decided I would learn to polish the sterling silver pieces that had just been cut. This is where the second sabotage came into play. At this point, she physically demonstrated to “polish” the silver on fine grit sand paper, told me to do the few dozen pieces and left to the abyss for one of her many daily breaks. (Gone for lunch for hours, meanwhile I got 15 mins per day) anyways.... I did one piece and was like,’OKAY this REALLY ISN’T RIGHT’ the piece was badly scratched... because you know... silver on sand paper..... and so I stopped, tried to go find her (no success) and then did other work until she came back. When I asked her if I was doing something wrong, she was mad at me and went looking for a polishing cloth that was deep in her messy desk drawer. She definitely demonstrated on the sand paper and never mentioned the cloth. I think she was mad I didn’t mess up more and caught on quickly, to be honest. It was really weird and frankly upsetting that she would mislead me so badly. Like... I really started thinking I should record my convos with her. I was sick to my stomach that night and didn’t sleep, so I took the next day off work and she made this whole ordeal about how my health was SOOOOO important (sickly sweet) but said she needed to talk to me in person about something, so if I wanted to stop by, I should.... it was a 40 min drive to “stop by” and she knew this. Anyone that cares about your health is not going to leave you wondering what this conversation is about for 24 hours, while you’re sick. Anyways, the day after, I went back to work and knew I was getting fired. I was going to quit if I wasn’t. My entire body KNEW it was toxic there. I walked in and there were tax forms on my desk and she fired me. Lol!! I was SO happy, happier then when I got what I thought was this dream job (even fur the terrible pay)!!! Lol honestly, it was a HUGE relief to be fired in this case. No job is worth the stress and anxiety of narcissism. I got to (assertively, not rudely) speak my mind about how she threw me in the deep end without training and set me up for failure. It was VERY empowering. I left my coworker a note on her car, saying it was nice meeting her and to watch out for misdirection and narcissism! Haha Anyways, it’s been several months now and they are still hiring for that one position. Lmfao. Unreal!! So moral of the story, start looking elsewhere if you can! Also, document everything and just please take care of yourself. Your mental wellness is far more important then a pay cheque. I know, easier said then done. You do deserve better though.... you deserve to walk away from narcissism with a smile!!!! Sending love!!

this is happening to me too right now

@@steve_7102 my sincere condolences

@@missybuchanan9631 I'm in that exact situation now. Trying to leave a workplace that is bullying me and the interviewers want to know why I want to leave current employment. One interviewer wanted me to rate my current boss. Then they ask me to explain a scenario at work that fit certain criteria and I want to say "Well in a NORMAL workplace, I would do such-and-such but in MY workplace I have to do this alternative because it is a dysfunctional place.

A lot people get into healthcare thinking it’s going to be filled with caring supportive people. But truthfully, healthcare is a business and most only care about the dollar’s. I learned that lesson the hard way. 😏

healthcare is terrible

Yep!

Oh, God! Veterinary medicine. The patients can't report you, can't substantiate incidents.

Amen!! I'm there right now. The pandemic seems to have made them worse.

Oh no! That must've been tough..

Life is a Journey That also happened to me. It’s good to be retired.

Me too!

Same!

Same here. 🤬

Everyone around them is a supply.

True .

Your story just made my day lol. I’m going to be using this on my boss. I’m 6 weeks from starting my own business and my goal is to break him lol

Yeah I was one of the ‘minions’. At the end of the day, my narc boss destroyed my admiration and friendship with an unsolicited sexual proposition. Ultimately I wake up to his true nature and had to leave the company. Only my quiet friend still remains.

@jotacalvo how did it go?

NJ GeeZ-TheNetherlands it nearly killed me multiple times. Tell him to get outta there and find peace in a different job.

NJGeez that is so unfortunate that he has to go to that extreme. But it is what has to be done. I hope he gets out of that work environment and find a space where others will appreciate him.

Trying to expose a narcissist can be like trying to nail jelly to the wall. They are slippery and you will end up being a mess wrestling with pigs in a mud pit. Best advice is exit and regain your mental health and well being.

It’s almost impossible to believe these people actually exist if you haven’t been through it. In an instant a wonderful, enjoyable, productive workplace can become a house of horrors. Nights become sleepless, previously friendly, compatible co workers can become terrified to be seen associating with you. Narcissist bosses are professional snowers and liars. They delight in throwing around power. You genuinely don’t know who you can trust! Even after a sanity saving exit, even health and lifesaving exit, nights can become filled with nightmares. PTSD. Get out as soon as possible and do your best to forget the hell these mentally deranged power addicts created!

@@bethanystanley4400 in sorry to hear this Bethany. I can only imagine what it's like. My bf has a hard time trusting ppl nowadays because of this boss. He never suffered depression before but its changed something in him. He's depressed a lot. But.. He's very willing to find help for his PTSD. And has a very sweet and understanding psychologist. It's sad that these narcissists pray on empaths. For a while you start thinking that there is something wrong with yourself. The gaslighting is so extreme. And then when you finally figure out what's going on you stand alone and see how the whole company is manipulated by just 1 man. He has followers. Ppl who don't like him but do anything for him. I don't get that. These followers are a huge problem as well. Cause if everyone was well educated and aware of the destruction of narcissism this guy wouldn't stand a chance. But he infiltrated into every nook and cranny. My bf left this diseased company. And luckily.. When he left, so did others. I don't know if they saw his true colours. But they left. This boss still works there. But my bf can finally heal and try and manage his PTSD from now on. Don't underestimate the destruction. It's criminal. The sleekness of how these ppl operate.. Makes me sick to my stomach. 🤮 I'm sorry to hear it made you so miserable as well. I'm glad you got out. And hope you're doing well.

Lexi2mee I believe smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Skype, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both his new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does Yahoo wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. I hope you find peace of mind just like myself after discovering the truth.

agreed. yes naracissim in relationships is important, but not enough tall about it at the workplace and how to work through it

You need to listen to your gut feelings. ALWAYS thinks what you felt to be true, 99% of the time, you're right. They're cold, fake as hell, some uses his voice, his appearence, etc and had a very weak ego.

I agree. We need more validation of our work experiences. The thing is that after a couple of weeks I was asking myself. “is this boss love bombing me?“ I made a mental note of that and don’t you know within just a few days he did 180 and was a totally different person from that day forward. And I went through being overpaid being set up to make mistakes and then being called out in front of the other employee for it, it’s too many things list and I shouldn’t hear anyway. He did end up firing me before my 90 days was up and I have spent considerable money on lodging to go for training for extended periods of time. And now I need to get the money back because this really messed me up financially. I had another job right before that I left that wasn’t paying and he was paying me way more than I’ve ever been paid so this worked on my mind for sure. I’d rather have the other job back right now and looking for a better pay than have gotten myself tangled with this jerk.

Frankly Living I believe smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Skype, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both his new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does Yahoo wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. I hope you find peace of mind just like myself after discovering the truth.

Lol, did you share it with him?

Good tip Frankly Living! Will do just that. I was playing this loudly and my toxic coworker became moody and quiet. Never takes blame for abuse, even when there is evidence. Destroy them with the truth!

Get away, and try something else, that's what i am doing.

I will resign and next months will be my last month

@@anisuafura That's brave, wish you well.

Thank you😃

Narcs always lie about the environment you are about to experience. They have a revolving door of employees (and you won't know THAT until later, either). They've played this game long enough to know how to hide the realities.

I am sorry to hear that..My parent and aunt seem to be narcissistic....I can't stand the trauma..

Me too.

😢

TRUST YOUR GUT

So are you!!

@@kmarie7051theNarcissist I quit working for him when I got sick.

@@kmarie7051theNarcissist I quit without any new job. I really hope you find one soon. Wish you luck!!

Appreciate that Man...

Sadly, if the narc is bringing the company $$ and has a unique talent and he knows it, it only emboldens him and perpetuates the cycle of abuse.

EXACTLY

@@RiaG777 , not only men are narcissist , there are also many women as well .

@@RiaG777 My narc boss OWNS the company!!

Very true, well said.

Me too💯

I work for her too!

You left at the exact time you were supposed to... and it was done exactly the way it was supposed to be done. Remember, you can't apply today's knowledge to yesterday's decisions. You are smarter, wiser and experienced, the perfect self knowledge you need for your next job. All the best! 👍🏻

Several things you said are not feasible for many, like always having a year of savings and never leaving the job market, so that discredits a lot of your other good advice. Also discrediting is your comments about Jewish people, even though you tried to soften it at the end. Ever think it’s just a coincidence that both of them are Jewish? Noticing a pattern from two people, when there’s millions of Jewish people in the US? That’s just not intelligent.

if you don't engage in their drama which energises them, they actually turn around to smear you as 'poor communicator', 'wrong fit', 'wrong vibes', 'autistic' or 'suitable behind the scenes' or 'non team player'. there's simply no way to survive around these people unless you actually bow to them and start kissing their asses.

Yes, sometime it takes time, but eventually people find out. In my situation it was 3 yrs,and many people were bullied by the narc, others in other departments even sued the org, and yet they continued to let the narc be a "trusted person" to whom complaints of harrassment could be made. The narc the bullied the complainers, also sought high paying positions for the narc's unqualified children, triangulated, gaslighted, etc etc etc - typical abuse of power. Also, a stream of unending lies came out of her mouth. Could never tell what was believable. Didn't tell me about information that was critical for me doing my job,and constantly tried to manipulate situations to blame others. Never took reponsibility for anything that was wrong. Always took credit for my good work.. I think she was on the far end of the spectrum. A vindictive, corrupt, retaliatory, unscrupulous, compulsive liar and opportunist who was also competent in her (non-management) work to have her bosses like and believe her. That changed eventually.

So sorry you experienced this 😞. Glad you working g now

My stepdaughter had a masters degree in psychology. It just trained her how to be a better narc.

Plenty of abusive types go into the various health fields of psychotherapy/counseling. Let's not forget the pastoral counselors also. It is sad but true, abusive narcissists look for positions of power over their favorite kinds of targets/victims.

Prisca Moyesa I believe smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Instagram, Skype, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both his new and deleted messages without touching it. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does Yahoo wiping and upgrading of credit card and hacking of account or any other type of hacking. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) or Via Whats-app +1 (724) 330-3252 and you can also text/call him +1 (601) 287-5528. I hope you find peace of mind just like myself after discovering the truth.

I'm a retired Nurse and did alot of homecare.Alot of your patients will be very abusive because they get sucked up to by the homecare agencies. They are given WAY too much power over who is sent to care for them and they can be outright cruel.