Narcissist: Negative Introjects, No Superego, Only Bad Object Internalized

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Narcissist has no ego and, therefore, no superego which is a part of the ego.
Primitive superego injunctions=negative introjects within an internalized bad object.
Bad object is internalized and incorporated by the child, it is not the mother (departure from Klein).
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Taming the Negative Introject: Empowering Patients to Take Control of Their Mental Health, by Carol Berman, 2019
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@CensorshipRunWild Месяц назад

It's amazing that one can acquire education like this for free. Thanks.

@irinakushnir8338 Месяц назад

I love Sam's laughter, humour and mind ❤

@johancarlosmedina8604 Месяц назад

For a long time I thought I had social anxiety and simple anxiety, but in reality after many years I understood that I had; Vulnerable Narcism, I was convinced that everyone is out to get me, the whole world is against me and, although I did nothing wrong, nothing ever went right for me. I felt inferior at almost all times. It's like self-loathing and hatred with bursts of "better than you" attitude. I always feel that people are cruel and will stab me in the back if I let my guard down. As a precaution, I always try to find their weakness in advance to defend myself if they attack me.

@kiwicatnip Месяц назад

I have some questions for you because I actually feel this way a lot of the time. You do not have to answer if you aren’t comfortable. Are you diagnosed? If you are, do you actually not do anything wrong? Do you seek out being manipulative or coercive to others or just in defense/retaliation? Do you seek to hurt people? Or just hate being around them? Thank you

@johancarlosmedina8604 Месяц назад

@@kiwicatnip I managed to heal myself, accepting myself and not lying to myself. -Shame and what it was like to be perceived by others controlled my life. I had to accept that it was an unnatural way to go through life. If others criticize me or make fun of me, I accept it and move on, I no longer lie to myself. - I learned to treat myself like my own father, my biggest responsibility was to take care of myself and tell myself good things, leave the negativity and have hope, even if I lost I would continue to love myself, but in a way of caring not to be better What others.

@kiwicatnip Месяц назад

@@johancarlosmedina8604 Thank you for your response. I’m glad you’re doing better.

@robertjames7859 Месяц назад

Early on this one glad to educate myself instead of being a bummer all morning

@thomasc.champion4066 Месяц назад

All morning ?! You must be full of energy

@marti77k84 Месяц назад

This whole condition is a total mind .... bcuz I had one hell of a childhood and I'm not trying to destroy ppl .. how does that happen ?

@sairoofiga4208 Месяц назад

Synchronicity is incredible.. Keep em coming, Vaknin!

@daisyjenkins485 Месяц назад

Have you ever dealt with a narcissist who is so afraid of reality that they will sabotage his health to the point where he can no longer walk?

@joanwilkins8795 Месяц назад

Daisyjenkins485: I am having that experience over the past 9 months. Can no longer count the ambulance call outs, refusing good food for cake, biscuits, crisps, yogurt. Now in hospital for the 4th time in 6 months. The rages now longer bring any need to respond except to just walk away. Knowing that I have nothing whatsoever to blame myself for is no consultation for this living hell. It's all down to not reading the signs of instability and putting irrational rages, with accepting being treated so badly that you feel that you no longer exist. 😮

@jodyhing8557 Месяц назад

Thank you Sam, I listen to you EVERYDAY..Aloha🌺 all the way from Kona, Hawaii🌋

@divamariaribeiroguimaraes4486 Месяц назад

Sam love your sense of humor !!

@K-A5 Месяц назад

This is an amazing, clear explanation of what Ive personally experiened with empathy deficient people. Theyre idea of love was always so morbid and backwards. Good job, Sam. Thank you for the clear explanation. It helps to heal some of the pain. [[Hug from afar]]

@user-ju8fn8fu9s Месяц назад

Thank you Dear Sam Vaknin

@Michelle-uz2ch Месяц назад

Profound insight. Thank you Sam Vaknin.🌱

@user-vw8ov9nv7z 28 дней назад

It's a very advanced baby .... love it ! I got a good chuckle from that .

@K-A5 Месяц назад

It seems like unless the parents definitely give the child good skills and direction and space to explore and develop a self...theres no other way to contain and refine these primitive drives? I suspect this is why its harder to parent sensitive and gifted children. What do you think? Theres more energy there to refine..and if your parents, especially mother, are not aware or particularly intelligent themselves...they wont be able to attune and guide the child?

@annaze8464 Месяц назад

Sam, thanks for the video. It explains a lot. Is there a way to get rid of the bad internalized object? Or once you have it, you are doomed to it?

@samvaknin Месяц назад

Watch the NA Healing playlist and the therapies playlist.

@annaze8464 Месяц назад

@@samvaknin Thank you Sam, I've watched many of your videos, but I'm not sure I've watched the ones you've just mentioned. I am a great fan of yours. Have a good day:)

@carmenvindel3602 Месяц назад

Totally agree, makes sense from a philosophical point of view otherwise it would come to be contradictory theories that collapse in them selves. Thank you Dr. Vaknim, made my mind swirl a little while but I saw the light🎉

@user-jt3so9kb1l Месяц назад

Splendid information

@miniros3 Месяц назад

So it’s a lot of mirroring basically.

@pyru4208 Месяц назад

Maybe video about ADHD and borderline differences?

@samvaknin Месяц назад

Search the comorbidities playlist.

@juliadixon8465 16 дней назад

Not confused at all re: the negative introjects, because I have many. Might you do a video on the relationship between autism spectrum conditions and narcissism? I'm getting real tired of being called the N-word (narcissist) by someone who has contempt for psychology.

@samvaknin 15 дней назад

Search the comorbidities playlist.

@s.f.519 Месяц назад

I thougt i was borderline at first but i manipulate a lot and see humans boring and stupids and i see opportunity; maybe i m narcisic too, i m in a therapy and my goal is to reject my bad object and have no emotion at all, like a vampire it would be safe for me to stop suffering inside from abandon and impuissance to become autonome like a psycopathe but is it possible ?

@user-kf7sg8st6m Месяц назад

אוקיי נרקיסים 😂

@Dystopia2024 Месяц назад

Hallo shoshanim..😂😂

@JackHiper Месяц назад

I the vegetable aspire to be the mammal and one day understand this.

@VF-do7mw Месяц назад

Why not aspire to be human?

@hashh2019 Месяц назад

😂

@Francisqolito Месяц назад

The more I listen the more I feel like the Agĩkũyũ knew more about anxiety than all western academia on the matter.

@user-uq4lw7wy9u Месяц назад

😂Kenyans everywhere

@Francisqolito Месяц назад

@@user-uq4lw7wy9u😁 wewe wacha hizo.. mi sio mkenya ..na Kĩrĩnyaga sio Kenya!

@safirijorgensen7842 Месяц назад

I would love to hear your thoughts on social media and its impact on Women. Likes, views, attention and validation. Its seems to be a narcissist magnet and playground.

@samvaknin Месяц назад

Search the channel for "attention".