Narcissist: Negative Introjects, No Superego, Only Bad Object Internalized

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Narcissist has no ego and, therefore, no superego which is a part of the ego.
Primitive superego injunctions=negative introjects within an internalized bad object.
Bad object is internalized and incorporated by the child, it is not the mother (departure from Klein).
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Taming the Negative Introject: Empowering Patients to Take Control of Their Mental Health, by Carol Berman, 2019
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@irinakushnir8338 4 месяца назад

I love Sam's laughter, humour and mind ❤

@johancarlosmedina8604 4 месяца назад

For a long time I thought I had social anxiety and simple anxiety, but in reality after many years I understood that I had; Vulnerable Narcism, I was convinced that everyone is out to get me, the whole world is against me and, although I did nothing wrong, nothing ever went right for me. I felt inferior at almost all times. It's like self-loathing and hatred with bursts of "better than you" attitude. I always feel that people are cruel and will stab me in the back if I let my guard down. As a precaution, I always try to find their weakness in advance to defend myself if they attack me.

@kiwicatnip 4 месяца назад

I have some questions for you because I actually feel this way a lot of the time. You do not have to answer if you aren’t comfortable. Are you diagnosed? If you are, do you actually not do anything wrong? Do you seek out being manipulative or coercive to others or just in defense/retaliation? Do you seek to hurt people? Or just hate being around them? Thank you

@johancarlosmedina8604 4 месяца назад

@@kiwicatnip I managed to heal myself, accepting myself and not lying to myself. -Shame and what it was like to be perceived by others controlled my life. I had to accept that it was an unnatural way to go through life. If others criticize me or make fun of me, I accept it and move on, I no longer lie to myself. - I learned to treat myself like my own father, my biggest responsibility was to take care of myself and tell myself good things, leave the negativity and have hope, even if I lost I would continue to love myself, but in a way of caring not to be better What others.

@kiwicatnip 4 месяца назад

@@johancarlosmedina8604 Thank you for your response. I’m glad you’re doing better.

@marti77k84 4 месяца назад

This whole condition is a total mind .... bcuz I had one hell of a childhood and I'm not trying to destroy ppl .. how does that happen ?

@K-A5 4 месяца назад

This is an amazing, clear explanation of what Ive personally experiened with empathy deficient people. Theyre idea of love was always so morbid and backwards. Good job, Sam. Thank you for the clear explanation. It helps to heal some of the pain. [[Hug from afar]]

@Michelle-uz2ch 4 месяца назад

Profound insight. Thank you Sam Vaknin.🌱

@DilfuzaKHaydarova-e1p 4 месяца назад

Thank you Dear Sam Vaknin

@jodyhing8557 4 месяца назад

Thank you Sam, I listen to you EVERYDAY..Aloha🌺 all the way from Kona, Hawaii🌋

@daisyjenkins485 4 месяца назад

Have you ever dealt with a narcissist who is so afraid of reality that they will sabotage his health to the point where he can no longer walk?

@joanwilkins8795 4 месяца назад

Daisyjenkins485: I am having that experience over the past 9 months. Can no longer count the ambulance call outs, refusing good food for cake, biscuits, crisps, yogurt. Now in hospital for the 4th time in 6 months. The rages now longer bring any need to respond except to just walk away. Knowing that I have nothing whatsoever to blame myself for is no consultation for this living hell. It's all down to not reading the signs of instability and putting irrational rages, with accepting being treated so badly that you feel that you no longer exist. 😮

@divamariaribeiroguimaraes4486 4 месяца назад

Sam love your sense of humor !!

@K-A5 4 месяца назад

It seems like unless the parents definitely give the child good skills and direction and space to explore and develop a self...theres no other way to contain and refine these primitive drives? I suspect this is why its harder to parent sensitive and gifted children. What do you think? Theres more energy there to refine..and if your parents, especially mother, are not aware or particularly intelligent themselves...they wont be able to attune and guide the child?

@NancyDecker-u8g 4 месяца назад

It's a very advanced baby .... love it ! I got a good chuckle from that .

@ayjo4360 14 дней назад

Professor, you won't believe that I remember that I concieved mommy as a bad object. And then myself along the years.

@carmenvindel3602 4 месяца назад

Totally agree, makes sense from a philosophical point of view otherwise it would come to be contradictory theories that collapse in them selves. Thank you Dr. Vaknim, made my mind swirl a little while but I saw the light🎉

@annaze8464 4 месяца назад

Sam, thanks for the video. It explains a lot. Is there a way to get rid of the bad internalized object? Or once you have it, you are doomed to it?

@samvaknin 4 месяца назад

Watch the NA Healing playlist and the therapies playlist.

@annaze8464 4 месяца назад

@@samvaknin Thank you Sam, I've watched many of your videos, but I'm not sure I've watched the ones you've just mentioned. I am a great fan of yours. Have a good day:)

@pyru4208 4 месяца назад

Maybe video about ADHD and borderline differences?

@samvaknin 4 месяца назад

Search the comorbidities playlist.

@juliadixon8465 3 месяца назад

Not confused at all re: the negative introjects, because I have many. Might you do a video on the relationship between autism spectrum conditions and narcissism? I'm getting real tired of being called the N-word (narcissist) by someone who has contempt for psychology.

@samvaknin 3 месяца назад

Search the comorbidities playlist.

@Ichigo-chanx 4 месяца назад

So it’s a lot of mirroring basically.

@Pppppp-d4f 4 месяца назад

אוקיי נרקיסים 😂

@Dystopia2024 4 месяца назад

Hallo shoshanim..😂😂

@Francisqolito 4 месяца назад

The more I listen the more I feel like the Agĩkũyũ knew more about anxiety than all western academia on the matter.

@Francisqolito 4 месяца назад

@@GraceOmweri-g7r😁 wewe wacha hizo.. mi sio mkenya ..na Kĩrĩnyaga sio Kenya!

@JackHiper 4 месяца назад

I the vegetable aspire to be the mammal and one day understand this.

@VF-do7mw 4 месяца назад

Why not aspire to be human?

@hashh2019 4 месяца назад

😂

@safirijorgensen7842 4 месяца назад

I would love to hear your thoughts on social media and its impact on Women. Likes, views, attention and validation. Its seems to be a narcissist magnet and playground.

@samvaknin 4 месяца назад

Search the channel for "attention".