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Ignoring a narc is like stabbing them with a knife and twisting it. It's the worst thing you can ever do to them! Don't argue and don't get revenge. Just ignore them and live your best life. That is their TORTURE.
I stood up to a narcissist, here is what happened: first a fit of rage like that of a five year old. Then attempts of manipulation by portraying himself as a victim. Then physical intimidation. Then threats to hurt himself. And lastly abandonment with attacks to my character. And it all started because I refused to do something his way, but stood my ground as a sovereign individual with my own ideas and opinions.
It took me almost 50 years to figure out why my mother treated me like she did. Great to her friends, but the verbal abuse for me throughout my life, almost destroyed me.
The best way to handle a narcissist? Be the beautiful, powerful sovereign person that you are. Let them know that you will NOT be bullied or controlled by them. Let them hate on you all they want. Be the hardcharging overachiever that you know you are. You know that you are worthy.
It's so hard to keep your cool when dealing with these evil Narcissist. They have a way of getting you so fired up & pissed off. Before you know it your the one screaming & yelling like a lunatic while they are smiling 😡😡😡 - grrrr
i was with my narc for 36 years....i threw him out 15 months ago....the only reason he never left physically was because i refused to sell my inherited home.....he hated me so much because he could never kill my confidence....couldn't kill my self esteem...couldn't kill me period....he thinks i have give up fighting for what's mine legally,cuz i've gone complete no contact....stupid arrogant fuck....was strong then...and thanks to that thing and what he has done to me....he has created a powerful,educated, prepared and totally fearless little warrior.....stay strong people....pass on your strength and knowledge to those that are in need...spread kindness and light to combat the toxic dark and negative energy
Pretty accurate. My narc ex girlfriend "chose" me as her target 10 years ago... I won't give details; it is enough to say that she destroyed me in every aspect. I spent almost a decade trying to figure out: why me? She could have chosen someone richer than me. Only recently I came to the conclusion that she chose me because I was excessively naive, kind, and I had zero self esteem. This is the profile they seek. These people are like vultures. They are like an opportunistic disease. She knew that she could control me. When I finally woke up, and tried to break free, she did everything to destroy me. She even filed a false report against me. She hurt herself and told the police I did it. I almost went to jail. The worst part of this is that we have a child (despite the fact she told me she was infertile), and you people can't even fathom what I went trough ... My daughter is also a victim. She is basically a hostage...
