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Narcissists love to PLAY GAMES in relationships 

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Narcissists play games in the relationship. They love to mess with you and keep you on your toes. In This video i go over the games and break them down.
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@DynamicVlogs69
@DynamicVlogs69 2 месяца назад
I wish courts were educated on this stuff.
@natlovesfashion27
@natlovesfashion27 2 месяца назад
Lawyers are.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏🏽
@DynamicVlogs69
@DynamicVlogs69 2 месяца назад
@natlovesfashion27 most lawyers are narcissistic themselves. LoL
@jennycasey6514
@jennycasey6514 2 месяца назад
Yes definitely agree, I had my fair share in & out of court. Glad I'm free 👍
@sharongomes7219
@sharongomes7219 2 месяца назад
Judge's should know! They been there with THOUSANDS of cases. Why do they need to keep being reminded?
@karynegough7564
@karynegough7564 2 месяца назад
I don’t know how the narc doesn’t get totally bored by their own games. It shows how shallow and juvenile they are. Pathetic.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
more games
@jackieblue2341
@jackieblue2341 2 месяца назад
They really are very boring people along with being evil. they’re dumb as a bag of rocks
@ScrapAlong76
@ScrapAlong76 2 месяца назад
@@karynegough7564 they definitely don’t get bored of it. What they are trying to do is exhaust you.
@palapalak.8907
@palapalak.8907 2 месяца назад
Very immature.
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
@@ScrapAlong76 Well he's definitely achieving that
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад
They are like little children, if you know these things they can’t hurt you
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
💯
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
@@motowngirl5891 Oh they still hurt
@ItsSoarTime
@ItsSoarTime 2 месяца назад
not "like" ... ARE LITTLE CHILDREN! STUCK ... PEACE!!!
@tanyadepoalo4312
@tanyadepoalo4312 Месяц назад
This is so spot on. My recent ex blocked snd unblocked me sooooo many times in the 2.5 years we were “together” I can’t even count how many time he did that, it was off the charts, AND he would fake break up with me sooooo many times I can’t even count, his last discard he got so angry and sent me like 20 wicked mean emails because I finally blocked him, then he sent me one last email saying he “unblocked me incase I ever need help with my bikes or my truck” I didn’t respond and he is still blocked. I swear he would unblock me just so he could block me again. He must’ve done that Atleast 800 times in 2.5 years. Such a mean little Child!
@app13s33d
@app13s33d 2 месяца назад
This episode made me cry. Triggered a lot of memories and I still can't believe there's people that is THAT evil out there. I feel so bad for the narcs because that's their life - they're in constant deception and as a coping mechanism, they have to live a life of lies. 😭 ty Lee for bringing this to light ❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
You’re welcome. Stay strong on your healing journey
@DulcesSweets
@DulcesSweets 2 месяца назад
I'm so sorry you had to go through so much. You're right though, it must be difficult for a narc to live that kind of life, but we can't keep getting caught up in their world. That's something they have to work through and with professional help if needed. Best to you!
@blusunflower8jones438
@blusunflower8jones438 2 месяца назад
Also withholding phone conversations when you want to talk about things with them. But they suddenly become a pro texter!! rather text you back to back , and not discuss it over the phone effectively like an adult.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🎯
@nickus51
@nickus51 2 месяца назад
So true. Mine used to say "Why do you want to talk over phone? Why even talk about it at all?" While gaslighting and blameshifting over texts. It was crazy
@LundonHussey-20_20X
@LundonHussey-20_20X 2 месяца назад
Yes can talk so much crap over text but its never like that in person
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
@@blusunflower8jones438 Oh, my gosh? So true he hangs up like a d*** teenager all the time, but wants to text me books. He just wants to talk at me. Not have a conversation that's okay. Cause I just screenshot them and email them to myself for the attorneys, but he's very careful.What he puts in writing he just wants in writing what looks bad on me
@sagenosnibor9173
@sagenosnibor9173 2 месяца назад
Yuuuuuuuup!
@Shut-up-Shelly
@Shut-up-Shelly 2 месяца назад
I wish this was able to be charged and prosecuted for being criminal. The mental crap they do to other people, we should be able to lock them up for their mistreatment.
@tempestous-i3k
@tempestous-i3k 2 месяца назад
I've maintained that narcs should be registered and tracked similarly to sex offenders so you know. Who where and most importantly what they are. I truly believe this. What they do to people who simply didn't know they were being led into the middle of a minefield and left there while the narc stands to one side and smirks then goes and cheats when they get bored.
@ItsSoarTime
@ItsSoarTime 2 месяца назад
they're doing what was done to them and/or what they learned as children ... it's a mental disability. HORRIBLE! PEACE!!!
@tempestous-i3k
@tempestous-i3k 2 месяца назад
@@ItsSoarTime I've lived w PTSD standing for 50 years as a result of abuse I suffered as a young child, yet I do not similarly abuse others and never would. By your logic I should be coddled were I to sexually abuse children. It is after all what I learned as a child. No, NPD is not a mental disability. I have bipolar disorder, and am neurodivergent; THOSE are mental disabilities, I work with them, I'm self aware, I know what triggers things, I see my doctors regularly, I take medications. Narcassists KNOW what they are doing. They KNOW they are hurting you. It brings them satisfaction and temporarily they feel less crappy about themselves, not by doing the things I and millions of people w actual disabilities do to make ourselves better and the lives of those around us. They can control their behavior, just like they do around everyone else. Usually only one person gets a look at the beast behind the mask. Everyone sees someone totally different. They twist, manipulate, insult, gaslight, control, and damage the one who loves them most. The one they've convinced that they love in return. They intentionally make you doubt what you know, your experiences, memories, perceptions, and ultimately sanity...and they KNOW it. All with the sole intent of controlling and breaking and hurting you. And they know going into they will use you and damage you until they resent and ultimately hate and discard you, usually in the cruelest manner and make a point of doing so when you are not expecting it, for, y'know extra pain, a twist of the knife. And they KNOW it. They may not know what they are and so few as to be anolomolies would care because others are not people, they are things, things they own and will treat the way they wish. They know going into it they are playing a game with you. They KNOW it. They insult you to your face, they do it in oblique ways, overt ways, obtuse ways, and always humorless ways because they get off on hurting you. They turn people against you, knowingly, they isolate you ftom everyone and everything. They leave you a heap of flaming wreckage and if they get to see the pain they caused it makes them happy. They confuse, damage hurt, destroy, lie, cheat, and accuse you of doing exactly what they are doing...it goes on long enough they'll kill you. Maybe with their own hands, maybe you will take your own life, they certainly cause a host of serious and chronic issues. What they do causes brain damage. Literal brain damage. I suffer it myself. If they don't literally kill you they figuratively do. The person I was, that I loved is dead. Gone, will not be back. And let's not forget that psychological torture and emotional abuse ends there. They can and do lay hands on you, sexually abuse you. And they KNOW it, and they don't care. They have no sympathy, no mercy, no kindness, no pity, nothing redeeming at all. And they don't give a shit. Make no mistake, they are not non compis mentis. This is not a thing that should be coddled, treated with understanding, with peace. Offer your other cheek and they will take it as consent to go further. No, this is no mental disability. Understand this; I've seen that sobbing inner child that is my ex sitting on the floor because the room is bare, frightened and hurt, lonely, waiting for someone to open the door, turn on the light and hug him tightly, show him the room is furnished and beautiful and the door was never locked. I've seen that, I can still see that poor child. So...I understand. I know what made him, I know him better than he knows himself. I gave him my heart and he destroyed it. I understand, and I understand this is no mental disability to be made excuses for, to be treated gently and w forgiveness. The kind, smiling, gentle, loving, happy, empathic, woman I was...is in a very real way dead. I will show no mercy and my understanding will not extend to treating him or any like him with pity or peace...not ever. This is no mental disability to merely be understood and excused. If you find that "horrible" I invite you to take your own advice...whatever that actually was. Peace
@GUILTY-Pleasures777
@GUILTY-Pleasures777 2 месяца назад
It's funny cause when an empath is fed up will block the narcissist forever ♾️♾️ 😅😅
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😅
@meeks1201
@meeks1201 2 месяца назад
They lose their shit too 😂😂😂
@ItsSoarTime
@ItsSoarTime 2 месяца назад
i'm a hyper empath. he's not blocked BECAUSE i WANT to PROVE to MYSELF that i'm strong enough to ignore him IF he decides to contact me. but, then, we live in the same building. PEACE!
@GUILTY-Pleasures777
@GUILTY-Pleasures777 2 месяца назад
@@ItsSoarTime it's called super empath and your mentality is terribly wrong No contact means no access to you !
@Denzella2154
@Denzella2154 2 месяца назад
@@ItsSoarTimeI do the same plus we have kids but I’m fully aware of his moves he hates that I’m fully knowledgeable to it all / protecting me
@briizyfbaby16
@briizyfbaby16 2 месяца назад
What’s crazy is it never occurred to me that he may be hiding my stuff. I thought I had pregnancy brain or something. Then on the flip side he would accuse me of hiding or stealing his stuff. I couldn’t for the life of me understand why he thought I would play games like that. Then he would use weaponized incompetence to make me look for them or would accuse me so bad that I scurried around looking just to prove I didn’t touch whatever I was.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Oh my goodness
@CNeal73
@CNeal73 2 месяца назад
They'll steal from you too. My keys never turned up. Watched me pay for another key fob.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Wow
@alicehawkins8685
@alicehawkins8685 2 месяца назад
That's just weird!! Wow
@CNeal73
@CNeal73 2 месяца назад
@@alicehawkins8685 Exactly!
@trj555
@trj555 Месяц назад
I think it's time for "Narc Busters" Part 2. When anyone has experienced and survived these kinds of behaviors and patterns, almost right away you spot the red flags. Amazing
@kimc5379
@kimc5379 2 месяца назад
Omg! The narc blocked me when he got married. We were in a long distance relationship. He is kind distance with his wife.Then unblocks to tell me about his problems and he needs help with bills. He says he cares about me, his wife is secured and can take care of herself, he needs someone to help him. Then tells me his marriage is a partnership. Sir you have a wife, tell her your problems. How about keep me blocked ✌🏾😂
@PS-qn4oz
@PS-qn4oz 2 месяца назад
This video makes me soooooo happy. THANK GOD I finally understood that he is a narcissist, he was never going to change, and I am free. Lee, you are doing God's work.
@williamehrman7246
@williamehrman7246 2 месяца назад
You're the man my brother keep up the great work I was married to one. She never took accountability she ghosted me for 3 days because we got in an argument. She recently reached out to my brother to find out how my mother was doing. I've known her for 35 years....she love bombed me, rushed marriage and wanted to get pregnant all within 6 months. We got married she threatened me with divorce 19 times yet never filed, Discarded me, accuse me of stalking her which I wasn't, she blocked me Unblock Me block me unblock me and now block me it's been a year and a half..... it's a shame cuz I love that I never knew anything about this.... she even told me to go up and get my storage when I went up there there was a folded shirt in the middle of the floor and she stole my stuff. And she still has some of my stuff she brought back a box every week but still won't return everything
@Blazewoman84
@Blazewoman84 2 месяца назад
I can hear dog whistles. Hurts so much. I've only dated abusive Narcissists. I was married to one for 21 years. My Mom was one. I've been abused by them my entire life. I stopped dating for over 16 years to try to break the cycle but my first time out I got another and another. It's because I'm an Empath so I'm like a magnet for them. I try to believe them when they say they'll change but they never do. I've gotten good at identifying them and they do NOT like being called out for it but someone has to do it or they'll never get help for it. If numerous people identify them to their face then eventually they'll either get help or just keep doing it but they need to be identified just like sex offenders. The abuse they inflict causes so much damage. I still have scars that will never heal. I've given up trying to find love because they keep finding me. I'm 58 yrs old and I've never been loved. I've loved them but never received their love. I think they're misogynistic as well but that's my opinion.
@GUILTY-Pleasures777
@GUILTY-Pleasures777 2 месяца назад
1 out of 6 people is a narcissist it's not that you personally attract them... Sending you love 🤗🤗
@jodythi1
@jodythi1 2 месяца назад
@@Blazewoman84 I’m sorry that you’ve been through that, I’m praying for you! Jesus can give you the love and peace that you deserve. These narcs are horrible!
@ivy.jepson
@ivy.jepson 2 месяца назад
This brought a whole flashback that I must’ve erased to when he watched me search for my debit card for 3 days straight … turned out he had it the whole time..
@inijones3358
@inijones3358 2 месяца назад
He was bout to say " don't let them ply games with yo ass " 😂😂😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😂
@sherylann7853
@sherylann7853 2 месяца назад
All of this is perfectly said, it’s all so damaging!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Stay strong
@VanessaLance
@VanessaLance 2 месяца назад
I had not heard of narcissist before until my sister called my ex one in 2021 then he called me one. I've been in psychiatric hospitals since the age of 12 I believe I was raised by them so it's possible that I could be. I've been in therapy for 9 years and recovering from alcohol and drugs for 21 months. I did not know these were games
@jodythi1
@jodythi1 2 месяца назад
Wow congratulations for how far you come! I’m praying for you to be healed from everything. Jesus has a plan for your life..
@shawny979
@shawny979 2 месяца назад
Yes, Yes, Yes. He did all of that, but I stood my ground, and didn’t back down to the games. You described it perfectly Lee.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏
@kimmae9283
@kimmae9283 2 месяца назад
My ex would block me via text then he'd start emailing me 😂 like what?! Then he'd block me when we were in the same house together lol he also ghosts me, but he's always the one who breaks no contact 🙃 whack!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Super whack
@wave8867
@wave8867 2 месяца назад
Right? That's silly behavior. Some narcissistic person I knew, ghosted me, then was hanging around my workplace. Then a few months later, asked someone else to say 'Hi' to me 🤯
@kimmae9283
@kimmae9283 2 месяца назад
@@wave8867 you're absolutely right, their behaviors make zero sense.
@Alaofoz
@Alaofoz 2 месяца назад
Yes. Blocking and unblocking. I would ask to text not instagram or call than snapchat and he gets so mad "not in the schedule of being told how to contact someone" then new girl pops up and I'm not allowed on his socials only texts me, so I cant see who he talks too. Then unblock then block and unblock. Then lurk my socials and then send a sorry messages or wishing me happy days or something Honestly how they dont get exhausted over their lies and actions and keeping up with who they are to this person today...
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад
You can block them after they block you most people don’t know that They block, go to your block page put their name in and block, then if they UNBLOCK they are still BLOCKED
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад
You have to remember your dealing with a little child in a grown body
@Alaofoz
@Alaofoz 2 месяца назад
@@motowngirl5891 so true lol
@michellerice5905
@michellerice5905 2 месяца назад
Lee please do more videos on long distance relationships and narcissists. All of this hits home and currently experiencing all the mind games right now
@kimc5379
@kimc5379 2 месяца назад
Yes! I agree!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
I have some up
@weronikaasomsson2404
@weronikaasomsson2404 2 месяца назад
❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons He is stepping in right now!🔥💪♥ He is coming to avenge! 👉Innocent go first- all the children of the world will disappear first then the adult believers.🥰 Jesus is coming back to pick up all those who accepted free gift of His death for their sins. Yes, after 2 000 years He is coming back with promised salvation!🙌♥🥳 As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, abuse amd manipulations. Before He comes we will see Alaska's back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3, we will also see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊 Jesus removes His believers and then Apocalypse starts, do not be left for that! 🥹❤You can still call out to Him when kids are gone! Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you, ♥ 😍 Trust in what He did on the cross for you! He died for our sins and defeated the death by rising 3 days later! 🙌❤🥹 👉We are about to see Russia attacking Germany, Alaska experiencing two devastating earthquakes (magnitude 7.6 and 7.3) and the fall of Freemason Temple in Philadelphia.🙌 👉Only God knows the future. Jesus has now revealed all those details to his prophets right now! 👉CHILDREN will disappear around the world, then His true believers! Jesus promised 2 000y ago that He will come back for everybody who accepted His payment ( His death) for all sins. He will literally pull us out of this world so that we don't have to stay for the Judgment ( the Apocalypse). You can still call out to Him to save you after kids are gone, He will rescue you too❤ Make sure to make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you❤🥹 What saves us is trust in what He did on the cross: He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! He made it very simple, He has done it all for us so don't add anything to it! 🙌❤🥹
@kassidyonelove
@kassidyonelove 2 месяца назад
I am by no means a narcissist but I will ghost people but i never return to the people I left behind. There is also a reason behind me doing it. I refuse to let people play me especially my emotions or my husband and kids
@ItsSoarTime
@ItsSoarTime 2 месяца назад
um-huh!!!! ME TOO!!!! i tell folk with the quickness that my name AIN'T Monopoly! and i'm NOT a Guitar. DON'TPLAYWITHMYEMOTIONS!!! they don't listen, i'm QUICK to dip out, PERMANENTLY!!!!! PEACE!!!!
@kathyweekes1937
@kathyweekes1937 2 месяца назад
A couple years ago my ex husband hid my work keys ( access to the break room and authorized places) and instead of confessing it he helped me look for it and didn’t admit it until I got a whole new set a month later!! 🤦‍♀️
@cynthia5172
@cynthia5172 2 месяца назад
Thank you So much I have notice this behavior some time ago I didn't no what it was called I have learned over the years and still learning not to play into his games .
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад
If they block you YOU CAN OVERBLOCK If they UNBLOCK they are blocked forever
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😅
@usereEyez8890
@usereEyez8890 2 месяца назад
I never could define what a narcissist was in my own head,until I met one and at that moment It was all so clear what a narcissist was. Now he's blocked forever
@dulcequirarte9220
@dulcequirarte9220 2 месяца назад
This one made me sad..he did all of this…the nicer I was and patient, the meaner he was. He always blocked me and I felt so worthless..a prayed he would communicate as a team. I still feel sad and bitter about it because I gave it my all… and he just broke me and finally ghosted me after future faking me.
@malissalarson809
@malissalarson809 2 месяца назад
I wrote down the games you’d mentioned and checked off the ones my ex would play with me. It wasn’t all of them (with the exception of two) and I thought to myself “he’s not so bad. It’s not all of them.” Oy 🥴 I don’t play ANY of these games, I’m not perfect, but if I treated someone this way and I was unaware, if they brought it up to me, I would immediately genuinely apologize and work on myself. I am scared to ever date again because Ive always tolerated such poor behavior from romantic partners.
@meeks1201
@meeks1201 2 месяца назад
They’re all about winning and losing, doing and saying anything to always be in the ‘winning’ position even when the other person doesn’t give AF
@DulcesSweets
@DulcesSweets 2 месяца назад
Some narcs like to play games without telling you the rules. You just suppose to know how to play along and read their minds. You should know better because the way they see things, is how you're supposed to see them. And they get to change the rules anytime they want. You'll never win!
@SweetAzSugar111
@SweetAzSugar111 2 месяца назад
Hello new here! 👍👍Hope to catch you on the next one I would like to ask you some questions in regards to smear campaigns done by a narcissists? You bring up some excellent points here! Thank you 🙏 for sharing your thoughts and knowledge on this topic!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
welcome to the channel. Happy to have you here
@freegame1k
@freegame1k 2 месяца назад
Your videos help me get over someone recently within a couple weeks so thank you.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Glad to hear it
@mylifehisway555
@mylifehisway555 2 месяца назад
I texted my daughters father yesterday & yep I was blocked. I was like so we’re back to blocking. Ooookkkaaayyyy. Yes and he will trianglate me with his mother 😂 but I’m hip to this all. And I’ll just ghost on both of them. They don’t do anything for my kid anyway. I play this game when I’m bored honestly & Lee you have helped me always have the one up 😂😂😂 so thank you
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😆 you’re welcome
@mylifehisway555
@mylifehisway555 2 месяца назад
@@MentalHealness Lee can you do a video on people with BPD & NPD relationship. I have BPD & my kids father is the NARC. Sometimes I think I act like him I have empathy tho lol. Maybe that’s why I play these games with him except I go to therapy & he isn’t constant😩
@user-kp3rc4eq8x
@user-kp3rc4eq8x 2 месяца назад
​@@mylifehisway555 That's interesting. I hope Lee makes a video on it🙌 Is it easier for you to read npd people than the avarage non bpd person?
@mylifehisway555
@mylifehisway555 2 месяца назад
@@user-kp3rc4eq8x sometimes. It depends on the Narc honestly because there are different types. I believe I’m surrounded by a few. My ex fiancé was one but it’s weird he has empathy for certain people and others he is vicious. So I believe you really have to observe them detailedly. I hope this helps
@user-kp3rc4eq8x
@user-kp3rc4eq8x 2 месяца назад
@@mylifehisway555 Yes, thank you. I hope you can make videos on it, because your perspective is different and needed
@nybartekny
@nybartekny 2 месяца назад
My ex would always do something like this: We ware long distance relationship so when we fight she would say something like this: "ok you dont love me anymore/im not important to you anymore i will go to my friend house now" and when i ask her what friend she would always say you dont know them or not your business just to make me think to make me confused. When i asked her to tell me who is this friend she would say its my friend you don't need to know
@alexandriaherrera1295
@alexandriaherrera1295 2 месяца назад
Yeah he continues to send crap to my phone by unblocking send crap and block 🙄And they do it person after person after person it’s ALWAYS THE SAME 🐂💩PATTERNS 🤦🏽‍♀️
@liverfish8
@liverfish8 2 месяца назад
Let's not forget you can refuse to accept the blame, leave it with them.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🎯
@bettycarmella1127
@bettycarmella1127 2 месяца назад
No truer words Lee🙏🏽
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏🏽🙏🏽
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
Oh my gosh, the dog whistle.That's perfect explanation
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏
@Angieandfriendspodcasts
@Angieandfriendspodcasts 2 месяца назад
They play more games than the Olympics! Mine actually use to say to me the reason why he would DM with Only Fan Girls was because it was just a game he liked to play. I was so done.
@cyndrellawhitley7062
@cyndrellawhitley7062 2 месяца назад
I think you're going through a period of growth and telling us about this bullshit is helping you in the long term. ❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏
@ScrapAlong76
@ScrapAlong76 2 месяца назад
Literally SHE does that!! SHE does in the house and I have the kids relate a message from HER to me. It’s so immature and childish!! It’s just silly as heck. SHE will have a full temper tantrum and lick HERSELF in the room and leaving me attending to the kids. SHE shuts down completely!!! I’m looking forward to leaving this stressful environment!! It’s mentally killing me.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
It care really mess you up
@ItsSoarTime
@ItsSoarTime 2 месяца назад
he or SHE? lol! sorry! no offense! PEACE!!!!
@ScrapAlong76
@ScrapAlong76 2 месяца назад
@@ItsSoarTime no offend. It’s my soon to be ex wife. I just capitalize to emphasize how much I can’t stand HER!! It’s like I’m yelling lol!!!!!
@KyraShalise
@KyraShalise 17 дней назад
I have a long disengage relationship with a narc. I feel so seen. He would block me unblock me then show up at my house whenever he wanted
@juliezuvela8865
@juliezuvela8865 2 месяца назад
This is 100% spot on
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Appreciate it
@nataliehilton1
@nataliehilton1 2 месяца назад
So true. Thank God I'm divorced now. It will try and drive you crazy. THE GAMES
@ashleygarza2028
@ashleygarza2028 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂 the recoding is crazy ! The key thing is real I went through that before with an Ex I thought I was going crazy and then I caught him doing it and he tried to deny to my face
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😂
@cp4336
@cp4336 2 месяца назад
Ask them to bring something home. Get home tell me they forgot, wait for me to react and then pull out said item. Just to get a reaction. Does this to me and the kids….
@darlenescott1969
@darlenescott1969 2 месяца назад
My evil Narcisse locked me out his house when it really hot outside Lee I hate him my health is not good I have a stint in my heart and brest cancer why do God let these evil people Rule 😢😢😢😢😢
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😫
@babydii3487
@babydii3487 Месяц назад
Me and my ex years ago ( who was a narc ) went on a bike ride. He says he going home to start dinner. I continued to ride... He called the police and said I stole his bike
@mcostilla7603
@mcostilla7603 2 месяца назад
Omg this video explained so much and very very true.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
💯
@Isika123
@Isika123 2 месяца назад
I believe if you make something (I.e: friendships/romantic relationships etc..) your idol (desire or long for it so bad, you do what you can to get it) you end up attracting and being with a narcissist. You also have the truma bonding situations and that’s why it’s important to have therapy before going into a relationship. But above all, trust in God and lean not on your own understanding!!.. that’s what I say.. as a solid foundation to begin with ✌🏾
@jamessimpson6487
@jamessimpson6487 2 месяца назад
I appreciate your work, peace
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Thank you
@melanielilly1204
@melanielilly1204 2 месяца назад
Omg Lee that's so true he took my kids after DV so I couldn't leave so me and my babies was stick then he wait till morning to throw them in the closet 😅 so dam shame they go threw so much trouble hating you, mentally and physically beating you but dont want you to leave lol😂😅 crazy
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😅
@GreeneChakra
@GreeneChakra 2 месяца назад
Wait a Minute I played the Block and unblock game… I Ghost too.. Help Me!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😩
@danavaught396
@danavaught396 2 месяца назад
My ex-bf, whom i was in a long distance relationship with off and on for 10 years used his fathers suicide back in april to gain my sympathy and get back into my head. After a couple of months being there for him, he once again ghosted me. Its all just games. That just showed me how deeply disturbed he really must be.
@ani2756
@ani2756 2 месяца назад
Well welcome to Ghostbusters!😂😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😂
@cindylong624
@cindylong624 2 месяца назад
One of my relatives is getting a divorce due to controlling issues of his spouse. She complained about the pizza he eats, complained about which doctor he goes to, was walking on eggshells 24/7/-no way to live. His spouse has moved out and he feels better..
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
So true ... It's constant. I weigh 107 point five now.Can't even eat
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
Oh my gosh, she asked the covert trigger
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😩
@dianemallon7207
@dianemallon7207 2 месяца назад
I found my car keys under his pillow. I still have the key scar on my chin. He split it right open
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Wow
@maeveduffy6362
@maeveduffy6362 2 месяца назад
"Let them be casper" 😂😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
👻
@AnastasiaLimanto-io2kw
@AnastasiaLimanto-io2kw 2 месяца назад
My narcissist ex tried to triangulate me with his mistress. He told me that this woman at his work liked him & pursued him. He thought I would confront her. I believe he wanted us to fight over him. In his wildest dream! Of course it wasn’t true to begin with. He was the one who pursued her. It actually backfired to him. Both of us dumped him.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙌🏾
@susanjones8489
@susanjones8489 2 месяца назад
Empaths block and ghost abusers manipulators narcs....
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
intent matters
@alicehonestymanson1798
@alicehonestymanson1798 2 месяца назад
Wow, like a meth smoker or a crackhead! I've got one of those Easter egg hiders! Just insane.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😥
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
He has definitely reached triangulation with my children😢 So now i'm the crazy one
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😫
@babydii3487
@babydii3487 Месяц назад
Another time my car was in the shop. He got me a rental ( a fuckin fiat! ) I went across town and he told me if I didn't come back immediately he was going to report the rental that he got for me as stolen. Back then i was young and he was older than me. I didn't know anything about a narc but he definitely was one looking back
@hardworkingblue-im4qq
@hardworkingblue-im4qq 2 месяца назад
I be at court house in morning when you press charges they always give you time to turn yourself in and when you don't they will come and pick you up the court system you can't play games with them 😆😆😬🙋🏾😬😬🤣👏🏾❕❕his baby mother going loss her mind im a bm he going to wish you never met me
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😮‍💨😫😅
@linlin87
@linlin87 2 месяца назад
Yes they do and its crazy making
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
It can be
@nicci6139-d1m
@nicci6139-d1m 2 месяца назад
In my situation my narcissist lost her lighter's while we were in the hotel room and the way she was talking was like someone took them. I said we're the only two people in this room and I don't smoke so are you implying that I took them? Then she stopped talking about the lighter's and I was like did you ever find your lighter's and she was like yeah because you put them back😮 I was like I never had them.
@Melvina1975
@Melvina1975 2 месяца назад
My ex would steal my Carmex every time I would visit and make it seem like it was his cat moving it, help me look for it, say the cat moved it, but when I would come to visit him again (we live 3 hrs apart) he would pull out my Carmex🤔and it was not a new one because he never buys Carmex, he would then proceed to put it on his dusty lips!!😂 so damn childish.
@cjbrown8245
@cjbrown8245 2 месяца назад
Thanks for explaining
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
You're welcome
@phyllissanders6997
@phyllissanders6997 2 месяца назад
The last thing of mine he hid, cost my husband a 37 year marriage. that was the straw that broke the camels back. Now he is looking stupid, that was a w😢hole roller coaster ride,and it finally stopped. They are sick and need help.🎉
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😩
@briizyfbaby16
@briizyfbaby16 2 месяца назад
Well I would block my narc but for a reason. He would go on my social media, would literally find guys im friends with on Fb n start accusing me of them randomly. When he got mad he’d go on my page a comment rude and disrespectful comments. He’d take things I shared and create silly arguments outta them because he didn’t understand the context or concept of the video or post and read something negative out of it. He used social media to add to the hell I was already dealing with in the house. Sorry, I had to block him, the breakup was a long time coming.
@knowledge.is.power333
@knowledge.is.power333 2 месяца назад
My ex hid my phn one time and hours later pretended to find it an exact spot i had already looked. They duck shut up n then try to play hero. Thank god he only pulled that bs once ,he didnt do it again when i confronted him n threatened to hide his shit. Yes my narc loved to trigger me infront of people and on holidays or my birthday. Everytime i miss him i remember this shitvand then i block him again. His friends started noticing he did this shit and started telling me i deserved better.
@jessicakerber856
@jessicakerber856 2 месяца назад
Narc Busters! 😂
@monafinney7527
@monafinney7527 2 месяца назад
Thank you
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
You're welcome
@pinkheartfairy
@pinkheartfairy 2 месяца назад
Yes so true. Mine hide the key and call me crazy.His mother was malignant narc she supported my narc husband and attacked me the abuse was mutually done to me after my second baby was born my husband droped me to his mother to take care of me and was doing his job from the city. His mother lived in another city. My motherinlaw she locked me in with little kids and told me i lost the key and she slide it under door while she didnt i was locked for an hour there till my brither inlaw heared my kids crying and he scream at his mother and give her dulpicate key and he opened door himself. When i told my husband abiut everything he attacked and denied and told me that im.a liar and i want him to fight his mother. Another time was he would control tv from remote and control it from inside room on and off and made me believe our home was haunted years later i figured out it was him controlling tv and told me i was craz.Many things he would hide and break and tell me i did it while i was innocent my family never believed me as they live in another country. He told everyone i have mental issue and i hear voices and noises and im unestable. The sad truth is you are alone its easier to abuse and usually there friends and there mother will support them. ....😞💔
@knowledge.is.power333
@knowledge.is.power333 2 месяца назад
I block and unlock but it's not to play games its due to me getting fed up with the bs then I start remembering all the shit he's put me thru and I realize it ain't worth it but then I start missing him so then I unblock again 😂n then after being in his presence for a bit I start remembering why he irritates me.its a vicious cycle 😤my ex is notorious for triangulation.its likes bored unless he's triangulating with men and woman 😑🙄😒but I stopped feeding into his games then in my presence he seems so bored. That's how I know he ain't genuine
@unomeecj
@unomeecj 2 месяца назад
🤯 Oh my gosh?He has the ghost trigger the covert
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😢
@Jemmapx
@Jemmapx 2 месяца назад
I am blocking and unblocking at the minute because im trying to go no contact but we have a child so im unblocking to say what i need to say in regards to him seeing our child.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Is there not a schedule in place?
@hardworkingblue-im4qq
@hardworkingblue-im4qq 2 месяца назад
We know this got dam got dam SMH SMH 🤡🤡✌🏾✌🏾✂️👂🏾📦🙋🏾😬😬😬😬😬✍🏾✍🏾
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
💯🙏🏽
@cynthia5172
@cynthia5172 2 месяца назад
Yes, I no he did it to me cus he was lying about something I know he was up to something. Just some sadd sh** ]
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
💯‼️
@leamcnair4407
@leamcnair4407 2 месяца назад
or they will break your stuff
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😰
@gavriellakirkpatrick6265
@gavriellakirkpatrick6265 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂😂 narc buster's I'd definitely watch that lol
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😅😂
@coriadams2195
@coriadams2195 2 месяца назад
*67. If you really need to contact them, you can call private put in the star 67 then call them.
@Denzella2154
@Denzella2154 2 месяца назад
This is true
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
‼️
@DanTaurusAtheist56
@DanTaurusAtheist56 2 месяца назад
I can tell playing mind games with me it's annoying
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😥
@julesv5670
@julesv5670 2 месяца назад
Can I ask where your NPD stemmed from if you know? I have diagnosed ailments, and working on getting a possible NPD dx. I was neglected and abused as a kiddo, and my mom definitely played these games with me my whole life.
@DHarma1923
@DHarma1923 2 месяца назад
I was in a 2 year relationship with someone who I suspect was a narcissist (lacked empathy for others, belittled people, serial cheater, grandiose, gym rat, social media addict, perfectionist) and in order to escape the revolving door I told his mother, whom he had convinced he was a perfect angel, of his behaviors. She cried and acted shocked then basically told me I seduced him and deserved it because he’s just a boy (he is 25). She then made him cut contact with his siblings and not sure how long this lasted. Can you elaborate on what may have happened after this encounter behind the scenes? I sense that the “discipline” was all for show because it’s my understanding that she would lie for him and testify for him often when he was a juvenile delinquent
@reneegardner2286
@reneegardner2286 2 месяца назад
The mother and ex are narcissists definitely. They're probably saying you're the narcissist!
@tonyajones6905
@tonyajones6905 2 месяца назад
I have a question/ topic that you don’t hear spoken on often. Why do some narcissists seem to be on the autism spectrum?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🤔
@ms.stinered9640
@ms.stinered9640 2 месяца назад
Yes indeed Lee😅
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙌🏾
@lenaleong4894
@lenaleong4894 2 месяца назад
Backfire to narcissist, I love God thank God Amen
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏
@jaujar8581
@jaujar8581 2 месяца назад
I will not go through no more games ghost of meats on turn the lights on everything in the world that he can do to me 32 *I will not take no more
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
stay strong
@irenehamilton2981
@irenehamilton2981 2 месяца назад
Tells me if i keep asking for my stuff hes going to blick my number ok because you're really not interested in giving me back my stuff anyway
@sukijenkins1665
@sukijenkins1665 2 месяца назад
What do you do if they continue to ghost you
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
stop letting them come back
@crazy-maxedout8512
@crazy-maxedout8512 2 месяца назад
Super triggering
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😞
@Tonesdump
@Tonesdump 2 месяца назад
💯💯💯
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
💯💯
@BadBoy-hy9do
@BadBoy-hy9do 2 месяца назад
Do narcissist play breadcrumbing?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Yes
@BadBoy-hy9do
@BadBoy-hy9do 2 месяца назад
@@MentalHealness Do all narcissist play breadcrumbing?
@ittybitty2362
@ittybitty2362 2 месяца назад
I wish I would have seen this video 3 yesterday ago. He was playing me until he found someone else. Treats her way better than me. I totally blocked him on everything because of the games he played and the lies he told me just to get me to keep coming over to use me.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Keep him blocked
@ittybitty2362
@ittybitty2362 2 месяца назад
@MentalHealness Thank you! I called him out on everything, and his reply was whatever. And I didn't reply. The only reason I had him unblock was I had told him never to text me again. If he did I was going to get him for harassment. I did see him with his new girl at fair last night at demo derby. I was with a guy friend of mine.
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