Never Let Criticism Hurt You

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Take back control of your emotions.
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20 июн 2020

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Комментарии : 47

@HeritageFreshmanGirls 4 года назад

Dr. Livingston is my dad and he is super excited about this, and he is very grateful. He has been very stressed and you have made his day. Thank you !!

@jeffliving 4 года назад

HA! Thank you daughter LOL. Now go to bed!

@nii_yuhh 4 года назад

Taking offense to Criticism can be a result of extreme attachment or expectations to something or in some cases, from someone. There are obviously exceptions to this. When you detach and listen from a beginner's perspective rather than "Ugh what an asshole, I know this already" perspective, it changes the dynamic. In this case, if the criticism (input) is constructive, well and good. You learn. If not, you can very well disregard it and never ever think of it again. Easier said than done, I know but it really helps in the long run. Great video concept! Helpful insights♥️

@TheArtofImprovement 4 года назад

Wise words indeed!

@d00nutb00y 4 года назад

The hardest part is to not label all the criticism as false or useless. It may help to let the criticism sink in and get over your emotions before deciding whether the criticism is true and useful or not.

@moneytri2525 4 года назад

Look at criticism as an opportunity to grow. Even if it's hurtful try to look at it objectively to see if it has any validity if not disregard and carry on.

@bluebotlivingston6016 4 года назад

Non-constructive criticism is always inaccurate anyway, so yeah

@jordynwhite3986 4 года назад

FACTS! That is just a hater hating.

@joefogg4778 4 года назад

Focus on your strengths. Use them to compensate weaknesses. Be aware of blind spot weaknesses. You cannot be great at everything. Accept that truth. Adapt plans where necessary. Remember you have vision, a dream. This is what will help you build resilience and determination. A clear life meaning and purpose.

@natalie8160 2 года назад

great comment

@nathanwill1 4 года назад

I know someone who criticises everything. Everything! Sometimes true and useful gets suggested, but gets buried under all the false or useless. It would take so much time to sort through it that mistaking sorting through it as my life's purpose would be understandable.

@thesparks00 3 года назад

I took this video like criticism. I tried to ingest it by swallowing the hurt and clearing my mind. And I took notes. It worked!

@thelightwecarry 4 года назад

Thanks for the video. I really needed it

@noreenjenny7039 4 года назад

Love this video, thank you for the great pointers! Finally, the much needed clarity and understanding. ❤🌹🙏

@peterodriguez4597 4 года назад

Thank you for the truth

@jacquelinevelez1982 4 года назад

Thank you!

@duhaniyocogan2657 4 года назад

Thank you for this ☺️

@barblis 4 года назад

Thank you!! 👏

@banksofbarcelona3893 4 года назад

One of the most important videos from you

@saranyapandey 3 года назад

This channel is just made for me,too glad to find this chann😂

@musepursuit-videos7162 4 года назад

Great video! Really inspiring.

@jubben331 4 года назад

I love your videos - who do you use for voice over? great voice!

@joaovithorborges 4 года назад

Perfect

@thefilemaker94 4 года назад

Don’t listen to useless criticisms even if they are true, only focus on what criticisms that are useful to you

@RajuArunPatel 4 года назад

Reply with a thank you 🙏

@modernadulting6857 4 года назад

Stop Your First Reaction If your first reaction is to lash back at the person giving the criticism, or to become defensive, take a minute before reacting at all. Take a deep breath, and give it a little thought.

@thefilemaker94 4 года назад

Don’t listen to useless criticisms even if they are true, only focus on criticisms that are useful to you

@hime_ohime2874 4 года назад

How do we identify what is true from false?

@kareemmohammed5270 4 года назад

resonate

@Jaybird196 4 года назад

What if you just wish to be appreciated, for who you are, and what you, currently, do? I like pleasing people, but I don't wish to be a "people-pleaser".