Nightmare First Wedding Leaves Bride Scared To Say Yes! | Say Yes To The Dress 

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Aw the husband thought she looked beautiful in everything! What a great guy she has 🤍

The husband said ‘her wedding’ instead of ‘our wedding’ 😂

Randy is a doll, he wants everyone to be happiest on their wedding day ❤️

The second bride’s dress was drop dead gorgeous

The second bride with the previously purchased dress seemed so sweet. Her dress was beautiful and unique.

I can’t imagine having a second wedding because you thought your first wedding a couple of years ago went terrible. A wedding is not the important thing, it’s all about the marriage.

She is a pretty girl but she seems to have an underlying sadness even when she finds the perfect dress.

The husband’s smile on the 2nd dress so cute aww

I feel the bride is dealing with depression!

I love the way her husband supported her dress choice.

Very risky to buy a dress years ahead like that. Our tastes can change. But I’m glad she still liked hers! Her first dress from the broken engagement was absolutely gorgeous.

That last dress is just stunning, so glad Vera was able to fix it for her!!! 💐

I’m sure many women buy a dress that they think is perfect and beautiful, then look back in it in ten years time and think “What was going through my head when I chose that dress?!” Have you seen some of the brides from the 80s? 🫣. But they loved it and were happy when they chose it and wore it. Relax and enjoy the day - nothing is ever perfect.

Love the second woman's "old" dress - although was surprised that she waited until 4 weeks before her wedding to bring it in when she hadn't taken it out of the closet in 4 years

What happens if things go wrong this wedding too? They going to get married a third time? 🤪 I mean, things go wrong. That's part of life, no?

As a wedding coordinator I can honestly say that a perfect wedding is a fantasy. Something will inevitably go wrong no matter how thoroughly planned out it is. Ultimately, the most important thing on your wedding day is your commitment to one another... not your dress (sorry Randy), hair, makeup, weather, or any other detail. My husband and I have a beautiful marriage and family. Our marriage wasn't ruined because it rained on our wedding day or because my dress alterations were messed up and I looked ridiculous (in my opinion). At the end of the day all that mattered was I was his wife. And now I can look forward to the day when my hubby and I renew our vows so I can get a knock out dress then 😉

I found the groom on Facebook...he married a whole other woman in 2022....but he has other kids....I can't blame him though....this first bride is just walking sadness.... couldn't have been an easy life....

I feel there is something unusual about this first bride wanting to re-do her whole wedding. So the wedding wasn’t perfect? Nothing in life is perfect. Build a bridge & get over it & plan something else to look forward to. The most important thing is her loving husband is by her side & she should be happy to continue planning a good life with him. To go back & have another wedding seems like a waste of money that instead could be used for housing or future children they may have or even a romantic holiday. Something deeper going on here, she seems a bit spoiled. Maybe I’m wrong but she definitely looks & sounds depressed & I hope she finds her peace & happiness in life.

The first bride, unfortunately, the dress didn't do it for me. As long as she liked it, that's what matters. The second bride looked gorgeous!

I'm so jealous he is so kind, and his eyes are filled with so much love.

She just doesn’t show emotion much. Hope she isn’t always like that. Her husband has a heart of gold

She needs to get some confidence in herself, no other dress will fix out. She’s not picky she is insecure. What a waste of money when the wedding should be about the two of you

So sad that after spending 5,700 on a wedding dress, they end up divorced and he’s now married to someone else. Hope Becky is doing well and has found love as well.

It's a beach wedding - needs to be light & flowey......

Wow that 2nd bride dress was stunning

My daughter married a guy in the U.S. Army who was about to be deployed to Iraq so she had 2 months to plan her wedding. She got engaged in February & married in April. She loved the gown she picked out & her wedding was beautiful & she was happy with every aspect of her wedding day. They went on a cruise for their honeymoon then 3 wks after they got back he deployed to Iraq for 15 months. That 1st bride just seemed too hard to please. She seemed emotionless & blamed not having any time to plan for not liking their 1st wedding. Something tells me she's not going to like her 2nd wedding either. I'm surprised the 2nd bride bought a dress 4 yrs before she actually got married & just put the gown in her closet until she met the right guy. It was really pretty though & was still in style. My daughter-in-law bought her gown over a year before her wedding then regretted it because she found so many other dresses she liked better. The thing about that is unless a bride buys off the rack it takes 4-6 months for a gown to come in after being ordered so you have to buy a gown well in advance.

Poor girl seems so sad. It was not his fault that his pants split. $5700.00 in two years is insane! They are divorced and he moved on. Just so sad.

The second bride sister was so lovely with her

Great admiration for the second bride wearing the dress she had previously…classic beautiful lines and gorgeous detailing…I love tucks! She got a real cutie….best wishes!

I really don't think the first wedding was that bad, I think she has bad outlook...she comes across as being absolutely miserable...definitely think she's experiencing some major depression

She says the first wedding was RUINED by bad weather, and this time she goes to ....... A BEACH??????? Giiiirl.... she's a bad planner, but also something else is going on here.....

i'm not sure a dress can help becky fill whatever hole that is

When things don’t go perfectly, it gives you a good story to tell. But you also need a positive attitude and a good sense of humor. It seems other issues are at play here.

Becky is so monotoned lol. She has 2 speeds; slow and slower. Bless her heart.

I think she has underlying issues. It will always be the 1st wedding she will remember. She needs emotional help

I feel like too many women put too much pressure on both themselves AND the wedding itself to have everything be "perfect". Nothing is ever gonna be perfect and the sooner women begin to embrace the imperfections and look at them from a different perspective the happier they'll be. This bride said that everything that could go wrong did. So what? She wasn't there for the wedding, I assume. She was there to marry the man she loved. That should be all that matters. When I married my husband, some things went wrong, but at the end of the day, we laughed it all off because we knew none of it mattered. All that mattered was that we were there to get married. We were there for each other, not the food, the music, the people, the dress, etc. We were there for each other and nothing else. To this day, I can say with absolute honesty that I would not have changed a thing just to have everything be perfect because life is not perfect and neither are we. So all the little things that went wrong just amounted to be "us" and we loved it. I say this only to try and ease some of the suffering too many women put themselves through. Just remember that no matter how perfect or not the wedding is, NOT a single person there is gonna notice or care, so why should the brides? Life is too short to get hung up on the little things that just don't matter in the big picture.

why is this series soooo addictive???? 😂😂❤❤

Ugh, the first bride. What a joyless demeanor she has. That kind of money when from the pics before, they had a perfectly nice wedding with tons of stories to tell. She won't be happy with it this time either.

Can't wait to see Randy's wedding!

She didnt even go out in my favorite. That one with all the tulle really suited her.

3:36 HER wedding? Did I hear that right?

The husband called it "her wedding "! Um to me that says a lot. This girl is giving brat vibes and when he said that I was sure she was! I🤔

Can we ALL just say that Vera is an ANGEL from Heaven!!!! LOVE her!

It's amazing how much of a difference the veil can make. She was unsure of the dress at first, and as soon as she had the veil put on, her face transformed

The second dress was gorgeous and so was the third. I'm just glad I had a low key wedding that was all about having fun with friends and family. No white dress and that was fine with me. My kids did the same low key wedding and they were relaxing and fun.

2nd dress very pretty. Classic and elegant

Yes I really love her beautiful dress w/ her beautiful veil. She looks beautiful

I didn't even care about my dress. I just loved the man I was marrying so much. Unfortunately it didn't last. The wedding and the dress were just a cherry ontop of our future together. Sometimes we put to much effort into things that really don't make a difference. I'd never do it again, even though my dress and wedding was extremely inexpensive compared to today's extravaganzas. Lol.

Did he just say “her” wedding, not “our” wedding?

The story of the groom in the first part, splitting his pants brings back a story to mind. So my Grandma on my mom's side was a seamstress. Fast forward to my parents wedding, the zipper on my dad's pants he was suppose to wear for the wedding broke. My grandma had to literally sew my dad into his pants. His future mother in law had to sew his fly shut. This was back in the 80s. Then in 2016, my baby brother was getting married, and the same grandma had to sew my sister in law into her wedding dress, because the zipper broke. 😆

Buying your wedding dress before even being in a relationship is actually an smart move, because that way you don't have to listen to anybody, you get the dress YOU like and avoid all the drama, and in the end, if you don't like it later you can sell it and get another one.

No wedding is perfect. You just have to be ready to laugh off the glitches. I did plenty of laughing on my wedding day!

That wedding , that dress , her silly wedding will not fix what is really wrong . There is something really really wrong.

Beautiful bride! Beautiful couple! Mazl tov!!!!!!!

The second dress is a big surprise. It is unlike so many dresses that I have seen on SYTDD. I looked great on her.

BLESSINGS 🎊 CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 BEAUTIFUL EACH OF THM!

$3k - $5k budget for a second wedding? Just because the first wasn't good enough? Good grief... you printing up your own money? You might not like it in a YEAR??? Omg really...

My husband and thought about redoing our wedding a few times. The thing is the wedding we had wasn’t actually our wedding. We got married a year before in the courthouse and had a vow renewal for family a year later. We planned and paid for ourselves, and the whole day was not memorable. But we grinned and moved forward with the day. I wouldn’t want to redo that day, because it wasn’t our actual wedding day. Despite everything that went wrong that day it wasn’t for us it was for our family. Instead of a redo I want pictures of us together In front of the courthouse that we got married at, we have no pictures just the memories that are just ours and nobody can take that away from us.

And all of them are strapless….like, no…

She’s had the dress 4 years but doesn’t check if the dress fits till 4 weeks before the wedding!?!?

I didn’t like my wedding either or my dress but the marriage is good

Did you hear the first groom say he’s excited for “Her” wedding? It’s his wedding too but it seems that the bride is making this all about herself and the groom is just going along for the ride.

I switched off at we were married already 😂🤦‍♀️

no no no to the second dress

But it’s a beach wedding. She needs a dress that is more flowy

$5000 for Canadian Army must make more money than US Army people! As a veteran of the US Army, I never got much ahead.

I always wonder when the bride gives a budget of - in this case - $3,000-5,000, what happens if they show her a dress that's only $2,000? Will she refuse to consider it? I mean, it's below her stated bottom dollar! 😉

Thanks

those feather ones make her look big

I hope they live happily ever after!

Its more important what comes after the wedding!

Ok, pause, wait.... The wedding is no longer about the union (hopefully for life) between two people who love each other but about a passing party turning out "perfect"? Wow, the superficiality of some humans never ceases to amaze me.

How many times does it take for this consultant to listen to the bride

In Italy no one never never never will see her wedding dress to her groom

At my wedding (2007)..the baker was taking FOREVER bringing the cake..like 20 minutes before the ceremony. I called the baker personally and said how long until the cake arrives because the ceremony was in 20 minutes. Yep..there was no cake. He had written the date as the NEXT day. Even though we had spoken on four different occasions. You have two choices..flip out OR decide that this will make my wedding day MEMORABLE in a funny way. I chose to laugh while explaining the situation at my reception. There was no need to flip out because it wouldn’t change the situation at all. We have photos of us feeding each other a roll. 😂

Dress number three was ittttt

the dress at 4:23 looked so good on her though..

Think theres more going on than the dress with furst bride. Her pessimism would ruin everything. Second bride looked fabulous theres logic in buying your dress before "the event," no pressure just you knowing its the one

Becky said that she wanted a dress to match her personality. Her and her husband had super meek personalities 😂

Why would you redo your wedding over? That's just strange. I'm worried about this bride, something is off with her. Her Hubby is adorable though, great taste in men, cute and sweet 😊

This girl is a walking red flag! The poor groom.

It's so much about the wedding but about the marriage. She looks so sad and hard to please. She will never be happy until she learns contentment and what's most important in life.

So everything that could go wrong she mentions is so superficial…hair makeup weather? And wants another wedding for those reasons, wow. What about the marriage.

Straps may help. Good to do the Wedding again so she can make it positive.

Alright! It's a sickness I love say yes to the dress!

Becky looks beautiful

If someone is disappointed in the wedding because of some bad weather and other unexpected things, what can one expect in marriage from that person??? Maybe her problem wasn't REALLY the wedding and the dress... My parents had all the bad luck possible at their wedding, but they still tell the story of it as the funniest thing ever and make others laugh too. So I grew up believing a perfect wedding is in fact not memorable enough. My parents are still happily married after 51 years. Luckily my wedding wasn't perfect, either. I know a few people, who believed the wedding was thr big thing and thry seemed to stuck in that moment. In a few.years they were divorced.

Both my weddings were nightmares

The 1st girl that didn't have the wedding she should have had the 1st time look fantastic in that dress.

What a colossal waste of money to have a second weddings. The day doesnt matter, the marriage does.🙄

She choose the right one

My parents and my in laws had their dream wedding on my wedding day, lol. I just wanted to get a court stamp and move on to the business of adulting. Even if you’re religious and want to be “blessed” etc, talking to God is free… We’re still going strong and kids are successful, so we’re investing in dream life, not wedding. Having dream weddings don’t matter folks. Even the court paperwork i feel is unnecessary as long as the commitment is in your heart and actions. I still wanted the court standing of “married” as it offers your kids and each other some legal protections. So, just make sure your paperwork is in order, finances are in order, protect yourself, protect your kids’ inheritance, education etc. Then go ahead and have a nice party for your achievements 🎉. A big dreamy wedding is like counting your chickens before they hatch. I still enjoy this show, btw, but I don’t buy into the pressure some of these women are putting on themselves. Very sad.

Randy knows how to sell a dress

I was my husband's bank teller. Good luck to you both.

I feel really ambivalent and uneasy about Becky's second, do-over wedding. Must be nice to be rich. $5,700 for a second dress. If I heard her say"no dice" one more time I would have had to put duck tape all over her mouth. OK - here come my Debbie Downer remarks: Why all the fluffy, feathery dresses? She's so pretty but "zoftig" and really didn't need that big fairytale look with a sparkly waistband, especially for a beach wedding. Made her look even bigger. Things didn't go 100% right at our wedding either. Just for one, instead of a golden autumn day we got a cold, blustery October wind... and there went the outdoor photo shoot. But we've been married 12 years, are more deeply in love than ever, have weathered storms, have a great house and a good life. I just feel really uneasy about her self image and perfectionism. Life is not perfect, and sometimes you can't get a do over. One of these days Mommy and Daddy won't be there to make everything right.

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She's already married! She still wants to be the bride.

He married someone else in 2022.

That's funny because my second wedding was a nightmare.