Wedding Dress Shopping Is Even Harder When A Baby Is On The Way! | Say Yes to The Dress 

My thoughts exactly 💯

IKR? That totally did not make any sense at all!!

I agree and I don’t get it either.

Amen! 🙌🏻

What he's saying is that in order to get the dress in time, she would have to shop RIGHT after she has the baby, when she's still carrying all the baby weight. But by the time of the wedding, she'll have lost most, of not all of it, and the dress might not look the same on her. If she shops before she gets too big, her body will be closer to how her body will be 5-6 months after the baby. Anyway, the dress has a corset back, so she should be able to make adjustments to the size.

That bridal shower quiz was simply for entertainment, and not based on facts. The bridal bouquet goes back to ancient Greeks and Romans when certain flowers and greenery symbolized fertility, faithfulness, and good luck.

It is definitely a gamble. If she still likes the dress on her new body and has enough wiggle room for the alterations, it would be a great weight off her shoulders. If the dress doesn’t fit properly anymore though, or she has some post Partum insecurities about how her body has changed, it might add even more stress.

I wanted to ask the same thing. It has never been shown since they met. She was sitting somewhere in the corner on a chair among her friends, she was never talked about and she did not comment on anything. It was gone, as it was not there at all

Yes I noticed. I came on to see if anyone else noticed. Wonder what happened?

My late parents would have killed me if I got pregnant before marriage.

Seems like everyone is doing that now. I don't like it, personally.

It means she’s giving birth to the baby. What’s wrong with that?

I think she tried to be light-hearted

It is slang and she was being funny.

She meant more like “pop this kid out”

Sometimes. After my first, my body bounced back. It took twins to fully change it! 😂

It sounds like she doesn’t have enough time after the baby to go through the whole process of getting a dress, so she is ordering one now and then having it altered later. Definitely a gamble.

Women get very fat in the face, crusty lips, swollen nose and lips when they are pregnant. I disagree but to each his own

She’s happy but first pregnancies are very confusing for people. Let it go

Yeah, when she said, "Once I drop this kid, I'll be hot," I was done with her.🙄

@@juanita_rocksteady2761 I agree i thought how she talked about her baby like it was a burden she didn't want.

Exactly

I thought the 2nd dress was very flattering on her.

Lol, not everyone needs to use sentimental, sugary language when it comes to children and pregnancy. Some people just have this kind of sense of humour.

Yes my family is like that but many of my cousins got pregnant and had kids before marriage. One did not marry until after 2 kids. One of them got pregnant and had a shot gun wedding too. I guess my generation broke the taboo about having kids before marriage.

Depressing to see people who can't just let others have their point of view. There are many reasons why it's a good idea to wait till you're married to get pregnant.

@@AS-yz2izI used to think that too but have changed my views as having kids after marriage is not a guarantee for anything either.

@@AS-yz2izWho is not letting you have your point of view? You can say whatever but whether people agree with it or not is a different story.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj If you find the right person it is.

If you’re talking about the first girl she wasn’t getting married before the baby was born, but by the time she had the baby it would be too late to order a dress so she was going in as early as possible to see what a dress would look like on her smaller body

Imagine being so judgy about someone you don’t actually know after seeing several moments of this persons life

No friends or loved ones, huh? Too bad.

@@AS-yz2izNothing wrong with going alone, especially if you are paying and you get to pick exactly what you want without consulting anyone.

I would go by myself or bring 1-2 people at most but that is it.

I brought 3 people to my wedding dress appt 🤷🏻‍♀️. My mom, future mother in law and future sister in law. And it was an AMAZING experience

How about waiting till after they get married to get pregnant?

@@AS-yz2izMost would want that but it is not the olden days anymore.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj What does that have to do with anything? People can still make smart choices. All these babies first, and babies outside the f marriage certainly hasn't strengthened our culture.

@@AS-yz2izDude, when you are in love then you express it physically through sex so things happen. Getting married and then having kids does not guarantee anything. You are old fashioned. The next thing you know, you end up like that and people you know too. Then I wonder what you will do or say.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj You seem to be confusing love and lust. Respecting the other person and saving sex for a committed relationship in marriage is how you express your love for someone. If sex = love, then everyone who had sex would commit to and marry each other, and we know that's not the case. And I "end up" like what?

I agree that women should be cherished for their creative ability. However only in pagan cultures was an unmarried/pledged, or whatever term you want to use woman perhaps looked upon as special. From the earliest days, it was typical to first find a life long partner before bringing life into the world. And although many marry for religious reasons, there i's also a strong cultural reason. Children who are born into a marriage, a strong committed relationship, and brought up in a stable home are kore likely to be successful, co tributing members of society. And quite frankly, not ment men want to take care of someone else's kid.

I'm very liberal, and I firmly believe in reserving sex for a loving and stable marriage. For me, it's not about control over women. It's about self respect. I respected myself enough to save sex for marriage to the righg man.

@@thecatfromoregon Good for you! 😊

@@thecatfromoregonI used to think that too but I have changed my views. Just because you have sex before marriage does not mean you are disrespecting yourself and it is extremely sad that you think that way, especially if you claim to be a liberal. If you found someone you love, then a way to express it physically is sex but you have to make sure they are someone you love and they love you too and are not only using you.

@@AS-yz2izMaking a baby takes the man too so men should be cherished too not just women. But yes, women carry the baby.

That was what my late parents said. Marriage first then kids.

What a novel idea these days! Too bad so many people decide not to follow that bit of wisdom anymore.

Well… we had the baby first, then bought a house a year later… and now our 17 year anniversary is next April and we are finally getting married just after our son turns 15. So… we really mucked up the order. Not everyone needs a wedding or a signed document to have a healthy relationship or a life or a family together. We are only finally doing it now because it’s something all three of us have discussed that it would be awesome to do together as a family, small destination trip, vows ceremony. Nothing extravagant or over the top… just a family vacation with lasting memories.

Ideally everyone would do things in that order. But the good thing is they're getting married. That's what matters most.

@@DeathByBlonde1It is ok to have kids before marriage now as it is not the olden days anymore. However, I would marry right away after I have a kid if it were me. But the good thing about having kids beforehand is they can participate in the wedding with their parents which would make it twice as fun.

Too bad.

Lmao! Not sure what century you are living in.

How many people do you know that actually wait until they are married to have sex??

@@leannecanty8821 God is the same yesterday today and forever. In case you didn't know!!!!

What is the problem if they are getting married and both parents will be in the child's life? You just look for something to complain about when you could just be happy for them. You must be miserable.

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 and maybe you are godless

Your thinking is very old school😂😂

That's super judgmental. Think before you comment

What's wrong with wanting to wear white?

Gee, I always thought that you were supposed to wait to have sex after you were married.??? Will this be a shotgun wedding?

Oh dear, oh dear. Nothing wrong with this lady's situation at all.