Nineteen Year Old Bride Wants To Look Old Enough To Marry | Say Yes To The Dress UK 

Indeed....

My Mom married at 18 and they stay together 40 something years together until my dad died...

@@tatikto aww that is beautiful❤️ also sorry for your loss

The thing is, some young marriages won't last that long... (not all)

@@mo0onsh0t very true but I guess it depends on if they’re really ready

Congratulations there is no such thing as the right time. Im glad things are working out. Wish you guys many many more years together.

Congrats! :)

Thank you for the update!! And all the best!

I love how everybody is freaking out about you marrying at 20. I will be marrying at 20 as well coming July! :) Happy that you’re doing well and proving people wrong!🧡

I was 21 when we married 55 years ago, in 3 weeks time.

Sorry that happened to you. I hope you are safe and well

Sorry for your loss 💕 wishing you well

So sorry for your loss dear 💐

Aw no💔💔I'm really sorry love 🥺❤️hope you're doing well

I'm sorry, that's really hard I'm sure. Nobody deserves to lose someone they love and care about. But he is in a good place and you will be with him someday. Stay strong beautiful 🙏❤

Coz she pretty ❤️

Because they're wearing black

I thought the same

Its her sister, listen back. She then also says, "and then my other sister..."

What..no

Absolutely ❤

My aunt got married two days before he 18th birthday. Her parents actually had to sign for her to get married. She knew him since she was 12, they have been married over 40 years.

I'm 23, still in a on and off relationship

You do NOT look old enough to have been married for 21 years WOW😍😍😍

@@Amy-oo7pi awe ❤️ Thank you 😊 So sweet of you!

Wow! So happy for you. But that was 31 years back and I believe things have changed now.

@@prajyotbonde663 unfortunately it has. It breaks my heart to see how much things have changed. I'm just very blessed to be married to such a wonderful man. Things aren't always easy but you learn how to get through the hard times.

@@audraprice4142 true 💕 keep smiling, Audra.

@@prajyotbonde663 My grand-mother got married at 17, my mother at 18, I got married 1 month after I turned 20. It still happens. Marrying at 18-20 is not the same as the plethora of 13-16 years old I found back in my genealogy.

@@prajyotbonde663 I’m 19 and got married a month ago. Never once regretted it from the moment we got engaged over a year and a half ago. It does still happen, but definitely not as often ☺️

To quiet the family and give a different perspective. Things we do for family .

A bit of playing 'dress ups' because when else are you going to wear a $1000+ princess ball gown?

For entertainment purposes remember this is a show not 100% real life they have to make it interesting

Sometimes once a mother has seen her little girl in a princess dress then she can tick that off the list and will be quiet. Plus they need to showcase all the dresses because the designers pay for that and the producers need to have a ten minute interesting segment so it adds padding and drama

A lot of people go in wanting one look and end with another look. Nothing wrong with trying on different looks to narrow down what you really want.

You just don’t want to look like a little girl playing dress up. I totally get that. I was 19 when I got married as well.

Consider the dresses are ordered a year in advance too. And for all we know she may be just off 20 so might be 21 by the time she gets hitched.

​@@LauraHostetler1 Unfortunately for those of us in the babyface group, that will always be the case. If I get married part of me would want the big fancy dress but I know I'd look like a kid at a school dance. I left school quite a while ago.

@@MsJubjubbird I also have a baby face and often hear "how old are you" and it never even crossed my mind to pick a wedding dress to make me look older somehow. That being said, I get that she may be more insecure because she is actually young and some might judge her. I guess I just feel like you have to be mature enough to own your age if you feel mature enough to get married, especially since no one at the wedding will mistake you for older since they all know you.

To look older while her fiance looks like a young boy. Why? A couple should be harmonious.

Like he hasn't been showing brides dresses hundreds of pounds over budget this entire time. 😂💀

We dont use dollars over here so £235 over budet orrrr in dollars thats about $300 over

@@adelemariexo313 £235 over budget is 24% over budget. That’s a LOT over, regardless of currency!

@@dancingmeerkat2078 i wasnt saying if it was a lot or not i was telling the person how much over it was than what they thought

@@dancingmeerkat2078 ok.

Wasn't that pretty obvious tho?

@@iberlo85 Sometimes on these shows the sisters suck, I am not surprised that they are surprised.

I thought that was sweet

Great idea.

Sneaky 😁😂

🤣

That's what I always wanted to do... However, I fell in love with a very specific wedding dress though that I saw online (I'm very picky and know what looks good on me and what doesn't and always had been looking for wedding dresses on and off to find one that I actually like and ball gowns and A-line were always my favourite because I'm into Disney and everything but I rarely ever wear dresses) and I got it second hand 4 years after its release and the designer closing his stores on Ebay in my size and in a never worn condition. The retail price was 1350 USD and I paid 300 USD including shipping from the US to Europe and customs... My dream wedding dress suddenly was really affordable... 😅 There's lots of wedding dresses out there getting sold in very good conditions and even brand-new for cheaper than the retail prices, so that's one way to stay within your budget...

I mean if you go to a store like this, your goal usually isn’t to save money in the first place. Look elsewhere if you’re planning on saving.

I’m 19 and engaged, going to my first dress appointment tomorrow afternoon and I’m so excited! I really enjoyed watching your clip because there aren’t many young brides on this show and it helped me feel like I wasn’t the only one!

@@queenviolet3658 awww bless you! Don’t listen to everyone else’s opinion! Some people are young mums and some are young brides and there’s nothing wrong with that! So excited for you!❤️

@@georgiamann4341 did the male assistant annoy you with the constant remarks about your age? i know it’s for the plot but that would really push my buttons.

@@hannahreichelt7131 tbh I was really shy then and I’ve grown in so much confidence now! But he was really lovely and I guess it must had been weird for them as I’m probably one of the youngest brides🙈 obvs people are open to their opinions, as long as they’re not rude about it I don’t mind😊 xxx

U r gorgeous courageous. Loads of love to you

Learn to multitask--you can crush on several at once! :) (I agree, no way at 19 I was ready to make a lifetime commitment.)

To picture your wedding?

You and me both.

I'm 3 years older and I still have crushes on many singers/actors/people I will never meet haha.

😂😄 Ah well. A great option to have. Lovely having crushes....... Personally (I think anyway) that 19 is far too young to get married. You should be enjoying yourself, traveling the world, trying different jobs, having lots of boyfriends, making friends, having different experiences. You have your whole life ahead of you to get married and settle down.

To be fair tho, the mom did say that was fine and 235 over doesn’t seem unreasonable for someone who said they were willing to go a little over imo 🤷‍♀️

i think it’s hard to find dresses that are RIGHT on the dot of the budget.

@@kayla9973 Well, to be honest, it's a lot easier when buying a wedding dress second hand. My dream wedding dress (an actual Disney fairytale wedding dress) had a retail price of 1350 USD. 4 years after the release of it and the designer closing his store I found it in my size, in a never worn condition on Ebay (out of curiosity how much it would cost now) and got it shipped from the US to Europe - for merely 300 USD including shipping and customs! I was so happy that I waited to get the dress. It was out of my budget back then and I wouldn't have been able to easily save up the money for it, so it really paid off... especially because I'm very picky and just fell in love with that dress and knew that it was the one and would look good on me... My dad actually thought it was ridiculous to buy it but once he saw me in it he definitely could see why I loved it so much and changed his mind... 😅

A "little over the budget" is both a dollar/pound amount, but also a percent. Dress #1 was almost 40% above the stated budget. ESPECIALLY because it was a princess dress that David/Zoe didn't expect to be chosen, out of many other within-budget possibilities, why did they select this one? ZERO RESPECT FOR BUDGET.

it's for the TV shot. The plot of the story is her age

yessss we’re over the ageist trope. it’s 2021 find a better plot, directors.

"Our teen bride" piss off, she's an adult, that's so dumb. I'm 19 now and engaged, I'll be getting married next year shortly before I turn 21. I'm in university, I live on my own, pay my own grocery bill, own my own car, etc. 19 is an adult and just because it ends in -teen doesn't equate to being a teenager

I mean I'm 19 and I wasn't offended by it. It was definitely exaggerated because the main focus of the episode was the fact that she's young.

@@Katie-vg3jn wow, good for you! I’m 19 and no where close to this

They usually always put the bride in the mothers pick/style first to get it over with.

@@fidelianerina yep, especially when it's the mother who's paying for the dress.

No.......so 😂

YES

Some gene pool 😂

I was going to type the same😁

You mean how much makeup they need to look passable?

They both are! And everyone in that family has fabulous hair : )

Agree!

I know!!!

How trueeee😍😍

She looks a little bit like Robin from HIMYM

Same as the brown haired doughter

I agree. I think they’re a family of beautiful women.

yes.. the gogeous shade of blue damn i wish i had blue eyes

The L'Manburg flag o7

l'manburg-

but her mom said she's ok with spending a little over the budget if her daughter really wanted the dress... Or they wouldn't have gone over budget in the first place

235£ isn’t that much tho.... if 235£ makes a “big difference” when it comes to a wedding maybe you shouldn’t get married and wait until your financially stable. Just my opinion... weddings are quite expensive nowadays

@@alexandrango2265 True, I see what you mean 😊

235 is a lot but not in the world of wedding dresses

That’s 23.5% over budget!!

I would picture myself in place of the bride lol😓🤣

😂😂😂

Saaaaaaaaame🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It’s fun picking out the right dress for the girl.

😀 Well I enjoy watching it too. Been married 26 years, so I have no reason to be looking at wedding dresses at all.

they had to have a plot line for the appointment.

Honestly it was probably scripted.

Is that his only claim to fame? Whybdompeople think he is great wedding dress person? Nope.

Why can't his opinion have changed? By 1987, I was 20/21 and most of my friends were on their first marriages. Nowadays I see we were all babies. So it's not impossible that David would've been okay with a 19-year-old bride in 1981 but now sees that as awfully young.

Yes, bc Diana made such a good marriage decision and was not taken advantage of for her young age and naivety at all...

She is still teenage

Well technically she's not a minor anymore so she would be classed as an adult.

Yeah this annoyed me so much. As a 19 year old who lives on their own with their own bills and goes to uni, I feel like I ought to be treated like the adult I am lol

@Geapeacan no she is not a teenager maybe hrr number has the word teenager, but technically, scientifically, biologically and according to laws, she is clearly not teenager anymore and even physically she does not look like a 15 years old kid going though physical changes. She is a young woman like a 25 years old one belonging to the 18-25 years old age category 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️dont need to be Einstein to know that ...

@@daisyx0558 nineteen is considered an adult but she's still a teen. NineTEEN. Nothing wrong with that...

Agree, its her that will be wearing it, I wouldn't give a toss what day think, that mother, help

Well, you can marry at ANY age even if you're a minor. You just have to have your parents permission soooo.. Technically any age is "of age" lmao

@@nox_222 🤣..... you feel better?

@@righteousree9837 Ci :3

@@nox_222 I don't know what that means...but wherever you are in the world..I hope you're having a good day! 😊

That's amazing to hear! Congratulations, and cheers for a long and happy marriage!!

What's the secret for a marriage that lasts a lifetime? I long for this

@@ematique4392 communication, honesty and respect. And both should be mutual

@@ematique4392 talking I'd say, and being able to laugh, if we ever have had disagreements we don't let it go on, we deal with things, back to communication again 👍

Awww

Yeah i like the second one more than the third one.

Love this!!!

Im married at 20 now i have 3 kids n life is just amazing

which quote???

She won mom of the year for that one!

@@reginamartinez6146 nobody put baby in the corner is from dirty dancing

@@reginamartinez6146 don't put baby in the corner.

I caught that too.

Their eyes are gorgeous

I understand I can’t type when I’m mad I don’t pay attention to that.

I mean I'm 19 and it really didn't seem like he was dismissing her. He was making a big deal of it for the camera and he was respecting her decisions. It's just about the drama and he wasn't being rude to her.

@@avabethbennett168 she's the one who is insecure about looking sophisticated, so of course he's bringing it up when picking the dress.

Bro he didn’t even pick the dress he just pulled it in the beginning to get a feel for what she likes....he’s not a consultant lmao technically it wasn’t over budget either Bc the mom said she was ok paying more than 1000

Isn't it interesting, I didn't get this impression or feeling at all.

I think it's more about the financial independence, you should at least wait until you're old enough to afford a life together.

@ThatOne no one's telling them they have to wait, but it does make sense to. Marriage usually comes when you're financially stable, which is later nowadays. People can do as they please, but I would rather not be married and still living with my parents etc.

@@serenacelestine or just do a combo. I married my husband while still in Uni, we paid for our wedding from our student jobs. It was just romantic bliss. Now one year later we are financial stabil and debt free.

Well if you don't care about what others think thats fine. They can still share their opinion tho. And realistically I would say 18 years old is very very young. Your brains havent fully developped yet. I personally think I would not make the right decision at 18 because of my youth and I would advise anyone against it.

@ThatOne We are obviously talking about western culture

Yeah of course, that'll make it better., fact is she's only 19. Still a baby

Army?

What's the secret to a long and happy marriage?

👍

Is anyone stopping her then?

Life lesson: happiness isn’t everything. It’s just a bunch of dopamine flowing around in your brain. It shouldn’t define major life decisions

Nobody’s stopping her lmao who are you talking to

Her family are pushy

Hope it went well! I bet it was wonderful :D

Congratulations!

💒How did your Wedding go Kate? I hope it was everything you expected it to be and more.

Exactly

Yeah I know, fifteen isn’t exactly a child

@@violetfantasy2537 Yes, 15 is still very much a child. Just because someone enters teenage years, it doesn't mean they stop qualifying as children.

@@dottedlines well I meant it more as, you know a ten your is like still a little kid, but fifteen is more of an older child and not really like a “kid” exactly, I don’t know I’m not explaining it well. Like I know that’s still technically a child, but they’re more adult than a little kid.

@@violetfantasy2537 Yeah, I don't know about this generation but I was dumb as rocks at 14/15/16. I was still very childish. While many teenagers can be mature, their brains are still not fully developed. The brain fully develops around the age 25. I hate that society likes to rush kids into becoming adults these days.

Me too, when I was 16 my boyfriend was 32 and everyone thought I was his daughter. I did though marry someone just one year older.

Yeah im 21 and look 12 😐

I'm 19 and honestly I don't know what age I look like anymore.

@@jessiesvids10 OMG! I'm 23 and my bf will be 39 soon and I feel sooo upset when someone thinks that I'm his little sister or daughter or when they say that I look too young to be with him. People can be really rude.

@@jessiesvids10 excuse me I'm sorry but what-

I'm older than that and still never had a first kiss or boyfriend lol

I am on the same page...and I am 26😂Bly me!!

I had my fist kiss at 19. Be patient, life's timing is perfect.

Let me introduce you to asian households

My husband was my first date/boyfriend/kiss and I was 27 when we started dating. I always felt like I was behind everyone else, but that's ok. Everyone's different, it's not something to be forced.

True, even I really don't understand why these teen girls are getting married so soon. Not being judgemental but she have her whole career in front of her...

Yes, I agree. Beautiful

@@prajyotbonde663 getting married doesn't mean staying home and cleaning A lot of married women work and balance their life at home and they're successful

@@prajyotbonde663 I married at 19 and had a child at 21. On top of that he proposed after only 3 days after officially getting together and I had the intention to propose to him that same week and already had bought the ring but didnt have the guts to give it to him for fear of being considered crazy. We married after only 4 months. I did it because I love my husband and I wanted a family with him. I loved him since the first moment our eyes met and he swears the same about me. We are still happy. When you meet the right person there is no reason to wait. Love is powerful, my friend 😊

@@irenerandazzo4206 how long you been married for?

Exactly

Your disrespectful

The Mother said from the beginning that she was willing to pay a bit more if she really liked the dress. The daughter was the one who saw it on the rack and wanted to try it so.....

😂😂😂😂😂

If this isn't a mood I-

Yep I felt that way too until I met the love of my life and he stuck a baby in me LOL 😆 Live your life now sweetie!!!

Same, I'll never get married but damn if these dresses aren't beautiful! And it's always lovely when the bride finds the perfect dress.

Look like this, meaning? Also I married at 19 .. even if it's just one year for my marriage I'm still going strong.

@@littlethingsmatter.9226 That's how the honeymoon phase works, dearie.

Same! Congrats xx

@@littlethingsmatter.9226 she probably meant that the bride looks older than her age. if they didn't tell me she was 19, i would've thought that she was in her min-late 20s.

@@ttyl7301 same! I'd say she's look a bit older too.

Same! I got married almost immediately out of college and felt like I couldn't back out even though I knew it was wrong. I wish someone had told me at the time it was okay to walk away. It took me ten years to finally figure out I could leave!

I agree, but it could also be that SHE is sure, but she is afraid that others will judge her for being so young, so she wants to look older to "prove" that she is mature enough

Yes, best comment

It seems that she is ready. Just bc she wants to look like a lady and not a child playing dress up does not mean she isn’t. That’s a reach of a comment.

Yep broke up with my ex at nearly twenty. Was engaged for two years and knew in the end I couldn’t do it. Was with him since I was 15.

They’re still together

@@wintersolstice4793 I'm thrilled for you. That's amazing. But a lot of people just aren't anywhere near mature enough to marry at that age, and many unforeseen problems can arise between like 18 and 25. Idk. I'm not a marriage expert and it's not my choice. Great for you though that's amazing

We’ve been together nearly 7 years this year and are still as happy as ever!😁

I have a friend who got married at 19. It's been like 2ish years and they are still together. She is a very nice girl so I hope it stays that way.

@@georgiamann4341 Wow congrats! Many many joyful and blessed years for your family.

True true 😌. But still, I really hope she’s happy.

I was looking for this comment..it makes me surprised how ppl prefer to get married in such an early age instead of being serious about career!..anyways it's her choice and i respect that😊

@@Lucy24684 what does being married have to do with not having a career? 😐 They're not mutually exclusive

@@rubsymoon839 dear frnd..marriage is not a childhood game..its a big responsibility,the promise of 2 ppl 2 stay together in any situation..and 19 years is an age where we transfor from teen to youth..we met different ppl,get to know abt the world..and early 20s is perhaps the best time to prove your hidden talent instead of getting married in the flow of emotion.. Well it was my point of view and i respect everyones decisions😊

Lol I'm 19 and I remember a couple years ago wanting to feel and look older, now I feel way too old.