Virgin Bride SHOCKS EVERYONE By Suddenly Being Unsure About Marriage? | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

she doesn't want the gown & she doesn't want the guy That's how it feels to me, but I'm probably biased due to my own upbringing stifling me when I was that age

@@meinhartfrancois she's probably been with him so long she probably has this pressure to get married imo.

@@tianamarius2229 that makes a lot of sense imo - putting on the dress suddenly illustrates how final her decision feels. You know, no gap year to travel the world, no spending the money to get more schooling, etc. on top of the usual questions like "do I really want to renounce dating a-n-y-o-n-e else" the mom and grandmom seem so bossy!

They were married in 2013 and she wore a "cupcake" dress with a sweetheart neckline and halter straps. She's a teacher and they have two kids.

Really? This video is that old?

I'm guessing some level of purity culture shaming 😬

There should be no embarrassment about being a virgin no matter how old you are. It’s your life choice, and people should respect that

CLEARLY staged/scripted. Why else were separate cameras on each of their faces (edited together)?

Why would she get married so YOUNG?

@@orla99913 why do you CARE It's her God damn life

She is probably just embarrassed to be asked such a personal and private question on national television

I think she's embarrassed because of how they made it such a focal point of the appointment. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

you should be proud of it

Good for you, that is something to be proud of!!!

@@janicesellers3618 . Is it? That is a rather odd thing to be proud about

I interpreted it as, "Why are you fixated on such bright white so badly when there are so many shades of white, along with other colors?" Most brides prefer white but not obsessively.

For TV

@@MsAngelique There is one and only one reason that a Southern bride insists on a pure-white wedding gown. The consultant was playing to the cameras.

@@rballenny Exactly right. The consultant surely knows the unstated reason. No wonder poor Danielle looked like a terrified rabbit the entire time.

The shop sells all kinds of blush, pink, cream, ivory and white. Considering that she asked specifically for white and said that it was a big deal, it is reasonable to ask why. Some people fixate on having pure white dresses because of traditional marriage colours but then it doesn't suit them. There was a darker skinned lady who came in really wanting a white dress because she thought that pure white was the only proper colour for a bridal gown but then the pure white didn't look good on her because it washed her out. To know why someone wants a specific colour could be really important to the appointment.

I still think she would force her to marry and get stuck in a bad marriage and awful looking dress.

Gravy and biscuits......that's what you feed your dog! 🤨

@@kachi9293 that's not something to be proud of, when you feed a dog luxurious foods instead of giving to people who need it...

Yeah, grandma and/or mom need to do something to make up for scaring the life out of her in the beginning. What a shame?!?!😢 They need to realize that they "have been their and done that"!!! And now it's DAUGHTER/GRANDDAUGHTER's TURN AND THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY!! 😊

​@@catherinesmalley8587 😂😂😂

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did she get married to someone else or the fiance from the show?

From the show.

Thanks for your research! So fun to have a follow up!

How and where do you all find this info? I googled, but I guess I didn't research far enough. Anyway, I think she is beautiful bride - in the dress she couldn't decide on. Seems to be such a sweet and caring lady.

Its true in many cultures and religions but for me personally I saw the same standards of purity expected from all girls and boys. Boys usually broke more rules but were never pardoned just for being boys. That’s just in my experience though which I understand is rare.

It's not that it is weird, it's just that it is surprising and pretty rare in today's society. I think people's reactions come more from shock than they do from anything else.

@James Bond Ok. Probably her the most

People definitely judge a man for being a virgin. Remember that guy who was 26 and did the Bachelor? He got judged and made fun of constantly. I do agree with you on the sleeping around bit, though. People definitely give men a pass for that.

Men who are virgins with over 20 do get judged. And women often still get judged if they have slept with more than a few guys in her mid/late 20s. A female friend of me is 30 and has had 7 relationships and two or three short flings. If she were a man that wouldn't be considered much, but because she is a woman she sometimes gets crude remarks about it. Her mother, who lives in the same neighborhood, actually told her not to let her boyfriend or male platonic friends visit her at home because she doesn't want the neighbors to talk. I don't understand our world. It is fine to make experiences before marriage and it is fine to wait for the wedding night and both should apply to both genders.

Well she was extremely fixated on it

@@Angel-ts8rcNo, she wasn’t.

All of these reality shows are scripted.

Clearly, you don’t watch this show much.

According to another post it was most likely the reason they were pick cause it was part of her application so they had to make it a thing.

Well she was extremely fixated on it.

I don't think the consultant expected that response. She could have just said tradition is important to me. Everyone does their own thing, but it's not common to discuss your sex life with a shop attendant. Sometimes people who are virgins feel the need to shout it from the rooftops.

Yes so Crrrrrruuuuuuuel. How dare they ?!?!? lol gosh.

How uncouth

Honestly I think that that's a way of gauging whether having the pure white dress is something that she's doing because of that reason or if it's because of tradition or how staunch she has to be about the pure white dress situation. I don't think it was trying to put her on the spot. Also even if they were digging for that information the only reason that they would think that way or want to dig for that information is because in the pre-interview for the reality show she felt comfortable telling them she was a virgin. Like, otherwise they would have had no reason to probe that. And she didn't have to say anything if she didn't want people to know that information about her. She easily could have just said "it's just something that's very important to me" she chose to say why it was important to her more specifically.

CLEARLY staged/scripted. Why else were separate cameras on each of their faces (edited together)?

I was also like: God forbid she will have more fun at HER wedding than you...

Ohhh yes, so controlling

they dont not at all

I think manipulative, more so than controlling.

Not at all. She's only 20. She needs to be assisted in many ways.

@Elcée and?

That’s so awesome omg

my parents were each others 1st. I had only 1 person before my wedding. to my husband you just didnt

The whole waiting thing can really backfire because they also don't usually live together so not only could they be sexually incompatible (even just size wise) but you also don't know how they're going to be as a housemate

Actually statistically, people who live together first are more likely to end in divorce. My husband and I didn’t live together first and we’ve been married 11 years.

@@angelhoward9957 that is an excuse..... coupes who lived together often separate after marriage.

Preach

Now days woman don’t go virgen to the altar I went to the altar virgen and I was 19

Well 19 and 26 are pretty old to still be a virgin. However it is nobodies business but your own. Doubt she is embarrassed about it.....more likely feels uncomfortable explaining herself

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat agreed. Your choice is your choice

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 19 and 26 is not old let them be ..

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 19 is old??!?!?!?!

Same sis

All good, married 17yrs still watching 🤣

Good things can come out of it haha, I binge this show constantly and I think that's one of the reasons I ended up getting a job at a bridal shop (and it's my favorite job I've had so far)!! You never know 🤣🤣

Same here 🤣🤣🤣

Don't be silly! I'm 64yr. and Love watching these shows! Enjoy!

Yeah, the title was a bit of a clickbait. I wanted scandal and virgin babies, not nervous brides and no purchases and the same ole judgy family members saying ew about the dresses.

I know she is too cute

I know she is too cute

Marriage is not an exception to sti’s, in fact a large amount of people that have them are married and another large group that has them are pregnant women usually married. I get what your saying as you are exclusive but being a virgin til marriage or married does not inherently exclude one from sti’s. People mostly find it weird because of its strong presence in purity culture and the fixation it has on the concept of virginity particularly that of young girls which is weird. It is lovely to hear about your happy marriage and close bond but most couples who marry for live regardless of sexual experience will have that (sexual experience, particularly understanding one’s body can actually make sexually relationships better)

I was bought up “you have to try on lots of shoes before you choose a pair” as long as you’re safe it doesn’t matter how many parters you have…also sex is meant to be fun…no one should be shamed for how many partners they have had/not had

I think both options are fine. Waiting for marriage is fine. And sex before marriage is also fine.

😂

This is a really old show.

Yeah I’m sure this bride will break tradition 😂

You are funny, lol!

@@richardbowness1595 Haha. Thanks ☺

I'm sure they knew ahead of time that she was a virgin and this would be the theme for the episode.

When I tell you this comment made me SHRIEK with laughter.

Right?! And almost everyone wants white. Don’t have to give a reason.

Scripted. Totally.

That’s wonderful!!! Congratulations 🎉🍾🎊💞

I'm glad you had the strength to follow your convictions! God Bless you and your future hubby!

Very cool!!!!! Congrats on your upcoming marriage!!! ❤

Wow beautiful! Have an amzing wedding

I whished to marry on day... On the right time its just amazing thats what is is

Agreed

We dont know everything from a 5 min. clip. Cmon

No 20 year old is ready. Especially these days

What gave you that impression? She's not ready to pick a DRESS. Big difference!

She got married in 2013 and wore a "cupcake" dress with a sweetheart neckline and halter straps. She's a teacher and they have two kids.

Because casual/premarital sex has become so normalized that those of us that choose to wait have basically been branded as stupid, boring, outdated, losers, etc.

@@thePhoenixQueen Unfortunately, that is the truth. Few people understand that "having and taking control of one's sexual lust" is a wisdom. It is about being in control of our primal instinct rather than being controlled by it.

Because most people aren't into that.

@@thePhoenixQueen those who choose to wait until marriage should be praised, not ridiculed. It is a wise and mature choice. Young people don't realize all the dangers of having casual sex. They are more than just unwanted pregnancies and STDs.

@@MsAngelique Well. It is true that many people use their "freedom" to enjoy pre-marital sex. Some (few) people use their "wisdom" to have control of their sexual desire. Should we alienate them?

There IS something wrong with not being a virgin unless u are a widow. Soiled goods.

I disagree, there are pre-interviews for this and there have been other times where the bride has wanted to wear pure white and they haven't been asked because they didn't bring up in their pre-interview that they were a virgin. I think it has to do with the girl or her family having said something to begin with because they don't have any information about you that you don't give. And if she hadn't wanted to answer she could have done what other bride have done and said "i don't want to answer that" or she could have said "it's just important to me" but she chose to tell them the reason and get into it. Usually they ask do you want to wear pure white for a reason as a way to gauge of they absolutely have to stay within that or if there's any wiggle room at all to work with.

Sometimes brides want pure white thinking its the "right" color or to fit a theme but maybe ivory or champagne might compliment the bride better. Anyway, the consultant could ask to see how much room the have to pick other gowns

Its because she quite fixated on it

I also waited, totally worth it.

im also waiting for the right one

🤣🤣 I was thinking that Nana's dress was conservative for those times (whenever this was) but probably would of been a bit too out there for her time.

Grandmas that want her to wear that hideous dress?

All of them are. They have so many applicants, you'll know why they were chosen based on the issues they emphasize during video. Not necessarily scripted, but definitely pre-decided topics and lots of video editing to tell the story they want, the way they want.

Me thinking back to my first time... It happened so fast, I'm not sure I even lost my virginity. It was quite romantic.

Exactly

Getting married before 26 is statistically a bad idea (high rate of divorce)

Why not? But there is no need to advertise oneself, is it? Or Is it public news?

What's wrong with that? U still in highschool or something?

There are quite a few women that do NOT participate in pre-marital sex! And there is nothing weird about it! Get over it!

@@lisamarieashby2523 no that's not the point but what's the need of mentioning it?

No, it was planned so it would be the theme of the episode. There always has to be something interesting going on...otherwise it wouldn't be on the show.

+ on me white white looks much much better than broken white for some reason. All my white clothing i buy white white

No judges by a hymen. Good God.

There are virgins with torn hymens and mothers with complete hymens.

Um, the hymen thing is a myth. If your hymen had no openings you would not be able to have a menstrual cycle and it would be extremely dangerous. Surgery is performed typically.

Who was judging anyone's value here ? She wouldn't be less valuable to her family if she wasn't a virgin..sheesh

Exactly

So what? Even if it is this century... Or past few centuries? Do dresses get skin showing as the clock ticks further? By that logic people will soon be without dresses as it ticks along.... Tick-tock

@@Chrysolyte.Sparkles the bride obviously doesn’t like it either, which is ultimately the only opinion that matters

@@Awakening_Sunshine yeah, that's what is important... What the Bride likes is what matters... NOT the centuries

@@Chrysolyte.Sparkles my point was that the grandmother’s idea is extremely old-fashioned, which is simply a fact

@@Awakening_Sunshine old fashion was equally skin showing for those following fashion trends. It is still modesty for those who want to stay modest. Passing of time into centuries has nothing to do with it

yup

Agreed.

They don't know about anything that you don't tell them about though so they would have had that information to press for unless someone said something. She didn't have to answer of she were uncomfortable.

According to another post, she actually wound up wearing a ball gown with a sweetheart neckline. The question was asked because it was most likely on her application for the show and one of the reasons she was picked. They had to say it although it was done really awkwardly.

How do people find out about these bitter pieces?

🤣and now the narrator called her "wholesome!" 🤣 I think the narrator should follow this logic all the way through and call brides who've had sex impure and immoral and slutty! 🤣 I feel like I'm watching a show from the time before women could vote! 🤣

Yes! Well said!

No kidding. If she did marry the dude, this was so long ago, she's close to having grandkids now. :P

Lol ikr 😂

She got married.