Good point, but it's not only politicians who don't understand but also privileged youtube content creators, who seem not to understand this concept. With some of them having a mantra and saying: Have more children (regardless of circumstance), to have an adequate replacement rate.
Politicians are all the same. They do understand the problem. They will have to accept that if they want servants and people to continue to exploit....they need to have large immigration policies to encourage people to come to the country or allow illegals to come in. The US has gone this route...allowing illegals to come in. Someone has to be servants to the privileged and the poor here in the US also is slowing their birth rate.
@@botmoderator3405 Except those people don't contribute to taxes and neither do the rich. Eventually there's not going to be money to pay the politicians and they are going to fall back into the servant class.
@@furubayashisea5396 No, this is only people who don’t care about their own autonomy and only buy a house out of a perceived necessity if they start a family. I have owned property since I was 25 years old, and I was single for many years after that. Do you really want to be 45 with no savings and renting a house, so that if you lose your job you immediately end up on the street corner? No thanks.
Chinese didn’t marry for love but because of family pressures. Money is the oil that makes a marriage work. When the money dries up the marriage dries up.
As you say “when the money dries up the marriage dries up” This is ever more likely if there was no love involved or even if there is no love, that the woman or man can’t be respectful to each other.
More like Chinese men have option to get laid without marriage now so don't see a point in gifting apartments or cars anymore also most understand if a girl is really interested she wouldn't make high demands men like women talk with each other and have a rough understanding of dating market, Old days bride money was seen as a gift to the girl's parents for keeping her chaste/pure and educating her on Confucian familial duties these factors don't apply in modern China, Unless Government rolls out attractive incentives for having children the trend would continue
Lol nope is not like that, Im married 2 my wife for the past 12 years and we used to sleep on a mattres on the floor until i got a bed base. We have 2 kids and we are very united and sometimes we behave like 1 because we love more each other that anything around us. So stop talking Depopulation Agenda BS
I live in Vietnam. People still want to have families. However, the suffering is high for folks without wealth since kids cost money. In Vietnam, a son born into a poor family is screwed because he will not have the money to be highly educated. The parents have to pay for schooling. Big difference for girls. They could be dirt poor and still marry up.
@@michaelbizon444 I have been to Vietnam many times, I have met many elders and learned many things, in wartime and peacetime generations still want to have children no matter how many, even when families cannot provide a good life for their children, they still maintain those things and encourage young people to get married and have children early in their 20s and 30s, that is linked to their history of fighting against China, with being close to a country like China that almost never gives up the idea of annexing them, if their population was like Laos or Cambodia, those countries are now like an autonomous region of China. Of course young people will also reduce the number of children because of the pressure of life and work, I am one of them, that happens everywhere in the world.
This does not just apply to Vietnam, but why is higher education still costing so much? 🤔 Really most things worth learning are already available on the internet, it's just the piece of paper known as a "diploma," that "proves" you have studied, is the only means of validation of study that costs dearly.
Having children is a sign of respect to the country.. but when a country doesn't even see their residents as humans.. but as a tool for generating money for them or as Mules .. No children or marriage even come to these machine's minds ..
Bingo!!! The governments need more people to make more babies so they can continue to exploit them. They allow corporates to work their citizens to the bone to the extent that the young men and women see having marriages and relationships as a extra work.
yeah iam only 15.5 years old when iam 22 after i graduate college its gonna be worse trust me i will have to probably work more hours because of the career i chose no time to raise children
It’s unfortunate that the married director feels ashamed to wear her wedding ring. There was a reason why she decided to marry and now that majority of the people her age are single, she feels ashamed. This is what bothers me about Chinese society. They follow trends instead of living the life they want.
Then let it bother you. I don’t know what it is you want to hear. The women y’all need validation from, were made in a very specific way, to be a community. To be a community, you ACTUALLY need people’s opinions. What part of that are you struggling with ?
@@nothereyetlost I guess my comment bothered you so much 🤣 and for your information, I'm also a Chinese woman. Community opinion doesn't pay for my bills. Community's opinion doesn't matter. Sit down. I don't need other people's opinion to live a happy life. But clearly, you do. 🤣🤣
@@shouayang8632 really 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭 really? Bc women are getting abused left and right without knowing what’s right or wrong until they talk to other women. But I’m sure you’ve gotten it figured out.
@@nothereyetlost Yeah because ALL women are in an abusive situation. Right. Abuse is an equal trade in any type of relationship. Women are also very abusive to their husbands/partners. So for you to claim abuse as an excuse is lame. Women cheat. Women lie. Women are ambitious. All I said applies to men too. I work in mental health and yeah, I have seen it all. What you claim does not apply in all situation of divorce. If you didn't hear what she said, she said she was ASHAMED. Nothing to do with being abused. Nothing wrong with wanting a single life. But hiding it and feeling shame from it just because majority of your acquaintances choose to be single is not a good enough reason. You're just trying to justify and generalize that all women are abused and want to leave their relationship. There are women who treat their partner badly. But then again, I can see that you don't see things objectively. Men don't express the same way as women do. I don't blame you for not understanding the video.
@@shouayang8632 abuse is an equal trade in any type of relationship. Women are also very abusive to their husbands/partners? I stopped reading after that nonsense. There’s only ONE solution to the male problem. And you know what that is.
If you don't feel good about your life, & optimistic about the future, you don't want to bring innocent children into the world, to suffer a miserable existence!
This is a societal problem, current young chinese generation is taught by their parents that money is everything, you dont simply marry someone because you're attracted to someone, you only marry a person if there is a major financial benefit to you. There is no love among China's young generation. Both my wife and I are originally from Shanghai, but we both grew up in the US and we met in college in the U.S. and fell in love, never once thought about marrying each other for financial reasons. Heck we're pretty well off now financially, but went through a period of financial struggles in our 20s after college as we both graduated college right before the 2008 Financial Crisis in the U.S.. never once did that bring us close to divorce. We got through the financial struggles together. When we went to visit our family in Shanghai and found out people's thought process there about marriage. We were absolutely shocked!!!
@@Jzx1103 stop. Men have no love to give. I bet your wife is suffering and not in love with you at all from what you have out ther through like all men put women through. Besides this sounds very evil of you. When men were the one making marriage decisions for their daughters men didn’t care about love. But when it’s now women winger to decide their own fate now you want to trick them into believing men can love when you cannot.
Women should get a dowry you know how hard it is to raise a family as a woman especially when you're expected to still work have kids and take care of the grandparents that are not your parents you should be paid greatly for that as a woman you can't afford it date men
To the Chinese, money is GOD! My Chinese wife is divorcing me, because I don't make enough money. She doesn't work, going for her 2nd Batchelor degree. Man make the money, woman spend the money! The Chinese woman's moto!
@@codygames5415 which one better? In the USA, Nancy Pelosi and Trump bought shares of Pfizer before the US government appointed Pfizer to prepare COVID vaccines to all USA allies with total population of 1.3 billion including Americans. Under special law especially long term investments, American business people pay almost 0% tax. While normal Americans have to find 2 or more jobs to pay mortgages or loans due to the Fed interest rates hike 5.5x from 0% when Biden was inaugurated into 5.5% today. This Fed rates will increase 1.5x - 5x when those reach consumers like you. That's why as Bloomberg said, every time the US democrat party wins election in the US presidential election, ExxonMobil will reach the highest net profit in human history. This means 407 billion gram CO2 will pumped to the air for each passenger in ICE car a year. For non-USA allies, this also mean... Lets say you are working for Chevron and it pays you monthly wage of 31 million Bolivars. Thus 1. In 2023, 1 USD = 2.722 Bolivars. Thus Chevron has to prepare 31 million Bolivars/2722 Bolivars = USD 11,388/month for your wage of 31 million Bolivar/month 2. Now 1 USD = 31 million Bolivar. Thus Chevron has to prepare 31 million Bolivars / 31 million Bolivars = USD 1/month for your 31 million/month wage. This mean your wage has been discounted for massive USD 11,388/USD1 = 1138,800% While the oil price has increase from USD 80/barrel last year into USD 90/barrel this year. Can you see who is the most corrupt and greedy country on earth?
Have you had to share your wealth when you divorce with your wife? How much? 50%? One of my western friends does that. Married with rich guy, divorce and has 1/2 of his ex husband wealth. To get that wealth, she only needs to stay 3 months with her rich boy friend. Imagine if an American lady married Elon Musk with USD 210 Billion wealth. She will get USD 105 billion after 3 months. Imagine if she does that 10x, she will get USD 1 Trillion easily.
@@dmt000 get a dog. You will make friends just by going for a walk with your dog. When I feel lonely I remember all the crap I went thru when I was dating... I also remember all the sh*t some friends and relatives had to bear in their marriage. Then I don´t feel lonely anymore. I feel RELIEVED.
They were getting married mainly for money not for love. So now when the economy hits a downturn and people get poor there is no incentive to keep this kind of marriage.
@FernandoRamirez-kh7ot lol what? You know how 50% of marriages end in divorces for this reason. It's better to be alone and happy than stay in a relationship where you're miserable. Maybe when you grow up one day you'll understand little bro
Childfree is such a cope of a phrase. It makes it sound like such a positive thing instead of "I'm going to die bitter and unfulfilled", which is what it actually means.
@@1stCallipostle Who is going to look after you when you get old?” Seriously what fun is there to be had at an old age??? When I get to the point of not being able to take care of myself then just let me die 😂 I dont want kids because I dont want them to be a burden to me just like I also dont want to be a burden to anyone if I get to an old age. Just euthanize me, I know plenty stories where parents are put in senior homes because their children have significant others and children of their own of whom they have to take care as well. Some parents are going to cry regretful tears in senior homes, but I wish them all the best tho
the stark difference between the boomers dancing happily with their retirement money and the young being lifeless, with smile-less, jaded look on their face is such a telling sign. the youth is what holds the economy and society together.
I have a long experience in China, and I speak Chinese as well. the woman says that she is a businesswoman, I think that you don't understand the Chinese society, usually Chinese people like to brag and behave like businessmen, they don't get married because they have many requirements, their mentality is complicated, I think they are having children, I see many pregnant women outside as it is the year of the dragon, the salary is very low here, not more than 8000 Yuan.
Many jobs in China are repetitive tasks. If I lived there I wouldn’t want to have a kid either to potentially end up just doing a repetitive job and have no joy.
This is the same sentiment in many countries around the world, not just China. Even South Korea and Japan have declining birth rates. Marriage and childbirth isn't the priority these days, and it is the person's choice. Never get married and have kids just because you are pressured by society/other people.
But there must be some countries which have higher birthrates too, because the world population is growing constantly and just reached 8 bln people... Which are these countries?
@1stCallipostle the united states is just as bad. I don't want to get married or have any children. And just because you're with someone don't mean you still can't die alone. Like in a car accident or random heart attack in grocery store, you don't have to be in a relationship.
I am in another country,had 3 kids but my husband played with other younger women so we devorced,I brought up my kids worked hard ruined my health to give them love and a home with goòd education,2 of my kids turned their backs on me ,one thinks Of me as a uneducated not worth knowing,the other robbed me of my savings and ran leaving me broke looking after 3 grandchildren ,2 are unwell ,but I still have my eldest child but living the other side of the country though.With all this going on ...I UNDERSTAND HAVING KIDS IS HARD WITH PROBLEMS ,and if it's in a country going down the gutter it is impossible to have kids...and sometimes not worth it to many as their is no future for many.
They need population to continue mining them for money, CCP fluffers are not different of the other population, just different level of wealth and profit ways.
I've heard of children being referred to as "hostages of fortune", in China, threatening ons's spouse and children is standard-operating-procedure to demand obedience.
@@LittleMew133 ......Dishonesty and coercion are part and parcel to Chinese culture. When Chinese students attend Universities in the U.S., half get booted for cheating. (Probably only the half that get caught.)
Marriage is now a swanky and expensive festivity for Chinese couples. Traditionally, Chinese men are bulldozed into forking out outrageously expensive wedding presents. This social norm intertwined with exorbitant cost of bringing up a kid really prompted many Chinese youngsters to dismiss marriages or relationships.
Here's the big issue. On the female side we encouraged them to get high paying jobs and degrees while also telling them to give it all up to have a family. On the guys side you have the potential of the wife leaving and taking 50% or more of all he has. It's a very complicated situation we've created.
Not even a matter of only children not knowing how to socialize. Divorce rates in the west are through the roof as well, and there haven't been any one child policies in those countries. I hate China too but lets at least be honest in our critique.
raising oneself is better than raising a family. Once you have a family with children you are automatically poor, unless the family is high income earner
nah this channel is doing propaganda and lies. if you are living in western country, your partner may entitle to get 50% of your wealth. Lets say you are Elon Musk with USD 220 billion wealth. Within 3 months, she can divorce you and get 50% of your wealth or equals to USD 105 billion. If she does to other 5 Elon Musk, she can get USD 500 billion easily.
Forget all about social pressure from your parents, friends, and strangers. Do what makes YOU happy. They don't live your life. You get rewarded and suffer the consequences of your actions. If you want to get married, do it. If you want to remain single, good for you. Same thing for deciding to have children or not. Just make sure you have the money and the time to provide them the attention they need.
@@nikkoBcool We have no children, because we were not financially stable at the time. We knew that having children would have added to our stress, and we couldn't provide them the quality of life they deserve. By that I don't mean buying them cool toys and designer clothes. I mean providing them necessities like quality healthcare, nutritious foods, and living in a safe neighborhood. Most importantly, spending quality time with them, not just to see them for 15 minutes a day because you are too busy working to survive. Each couple has to decide for themselves whether having children is important to them or not. We couldn't care less about having children in order to pass on the family name. We weren't going to have children simply to make our parents happy. It's not like the old days in which you want to have sons to help you work on a farm. Children shouldn't be created with the goal of making the adults happy. That's not the children's job. If your relationship is miserable, having children is not going to fix it. Just because having children is not right for us doesn't mean it's not right for someone else.
The lack of religion and the government's schizophrenic attitude towards childbirth and marriage is to blame. If the government can punish you for having too many kids, or not enough kids, the best move becomes not to play. And without the desire to spread the faith through propagation of children, there's even less reason to do it.
Lack of religion has NOTHING to do with it. Are you not paying attention to America and its single epidemic?!? Women who are Christians and attend churches are some of the most SINGLE women and DIVORCE the most. Look it up.
That's where the USA is headed thanks to libs/dems. No God, every person is their own god, do as you please, as long as you say, do and think the "proper" way and everyone else be damned. This is not and will not be sustainable.
@@davidburnett5049 It's both similar and different in a way. They're not that religious, and the governments have done nothing to curtail birth control. It's the same case as Japan.
This is not only in China, the situation here in Brazil is very similar. It is just prohibitively expensive to raise children, especially in big cities. Entering a relationship is also not worth it, women can say they have been abused and the court will accept that as a valid accusation, basically driving men to bankruptcy.
Plenty of people got married before that did not own a house and/or have any money. The problem is that women demand a bridal price, house, and nice car nowadays, while providing little in return, especially building a life with a man. They want the man to be ready-made. So ladies and their parents: lower your expectations, demands, and putting your prospective son-in-laws in horrific and pressure-packed situations. That is no way to treat another human being.
Marriage is mandatory in Chinese culture and only straight marriage between two Chinese people and the man must be over 30 years old and have a house and a car be a doctor or a lawyer not an engineer and have American citizenship and be a graduate from Harvard University with at least a Master's degree if not a Doctorate or Professional degree and the woman must be under 27 years old and full blooded Chinese, must not be promiscuous or too educated and must be a virgin, never married, no kids and no previous boyfriends.
It doesnt. But women naturally default to blaming the husband for any financial difficulty & would rather try their luck getting another man even if the probability is low. Cus women dont think in probabilities. Their thoughts operate in deeply naiive emotions.
Korea, Japan, China, some parts of SEA and SA, something in common with these regions is this issue: falling birth rates and reduced interest in marriage. Lots of things go into play: cost of living, government attitude, work culture, it's not just one single factor that can be singled out. It's also funny that here in my country the previous generation is obsessed with marriage and children and are totally taken aback when i tell them i am not interested in such things.
You churn out content as fast as an automated channel, yet your voice sounds authentic, if I'm not mistaken, I hear an Australian Chinese accent, and your content upto date by the day. Really mighty stuff, and really great production quality
It's all a product of decades of zero interest rates leading to distortion of housing market worldwide. Unaffordable housing market leads to insecurities in young populace towards one of the basic human requirement... food, clothes, housing.
All her talk about her coworkers not wanting to marry just means sexual affairs are going on. If a person says they are not hungry, it is because they have been eating.
I don’t think that’s accurate. People can go without sex intentionally for long periods of time and even intend on not dating or marrying ever. It’s common in Asian countries where school, money and work is #1. It also happens often if you’re depressed. I think it’s more realistic that most of them don’t have time to be having affairs because they’re too busy working and doing side gigs to make enough money to survive. China’s economy is in the buckets rn and there are barely any jobs around, let alone jobs that pay well. Not to mention it’s a standard to work from 9am-9pm 6 days a week in China. Overworking is the norm there and everyone is so burnt out they don’t even have time for leisure activities, dating, their families or kids. Having an affair is probably the last thing on their mind when they’re that stressed out, tired, sad and broke. These people have given up of a life they dreamed of because it’s impossible to attain due to the terrible economy and the impossible standards of capitalist culture. Even working hard, getting good grades, getting educated at a good university and being employed isn’t enough. Even beating most of the competition isn’t good enough. It will only get more difficult from here globally as everyone goes further into debt, people spend less money, and inflation keeps rising.
Not really, i'm not really hungry n i ain't eatin all day. N i ain't had s e x in 10yrs since becoming a single father as his mum left us when my son was born n so i ain't had a partner since n don't intend to ever again as i only wan't 2b with n raise my son.
I mean, it's been this way all around the world. Women are prioritising gaining financial goals and stability, striving to be respected like men. Women are gaining higher education, and university gender ratios reflect that. Self-indulgence has become the norm; who wants to sacrifice time and their career to look after children? No one can afford to buy a house. Usually, you need dual income to raise a child now. It's also difficult to stop schools and social media from indoctrinating your children. I myself don't really want children, but we will see in the future.
Don't please people who never will be satisfied. This is narcissism and ends in nothing. Family and serving others at a personal level, makes life meaningful. Living for yourself means nothing remains when you start to fall apart.
"...striving to be respected like men." Are men respected? Men who work hard to earn a lot of money do so mostly to have a family. When women do the same, it's for their own self gratification.
If you are not sure now, your answer is no. It's not that you haven't decided yet. You just haven't made peace with your decision yet. And also I agree with pretty much everything you also commented.
@tuvoca825 My brother is really struggling financially and psychologically raising his daughter with his wife. Meanwhile, I'm currently living my dreams, traveling the world, making art and making love to my beautiful girlfriend who is 10 years younger than me. Should my girlfriend and I sacrifice everything to have a baby? My brother might have an advantage when he's old. His grown up daughter might visit him and he will feel a sense of accomplishment for having a child. But that's a lot of sacrifice just so you maybe feel good when you're old. I'd like to have kids. I just don't want to take care of them. Maybe there's a better way to do it. Perhaps I'll get bored enough and have a kid just for the challenge or the new experience.
I feel sad for the woman whom they mentioned at the beginning that was born in the 90’s and was the only one married in the company but she felt ashamed to wear her wedding ring around others in the city she lived in. No one should ever feel that way especially if she married out of love, honestly who cares what others opinions are about u, if you are married that’s ur decision and ur decision should not have that big of an impact on others to be bullied, to each there own I always say. 😢❤
What is wrong with people. Living single is a retail company’s dream because you buy twice as much stuff for two households. Two people making money save twice as much money which accelerates return on investments much faster than a single person ever will. A married couple has: One rent payment or mortgage. Cheaper, family oriented healthcare. A person to call for help when you bang your head on a table and go on conscious. A diverse set of skills to help a couple succeed, instead of a single person relying on only their wits alone for every situation in life ,forever… Shared expenses for all utilities; electricity, water, sewage, gas, and so on. On the weekends, typically only one car is used even if you have two cars. Insurance is cheaper in a family because insurance company liabilities are lower If a single person loses their job, they have nothing to fall back on. If one person in a marriage loses their job the other person can still feed the family for a while at least. I could go on and on. Single people are selfishly creating a situation for their own demise.
@@ericneo2 unfortunately most are not building anything. They are living paycheck to paycheck, especially as first generation people on their own. they are one layoff away from begging their family to take them in.
In a perfect world, yes, absolutely. But in a real world, instead of an economic advantage you can get yourself a universal disadvantage if the other person turns out to be less than willing to act like a responsible adult. There are millions of ways to ruin your life by getting together with a wrong person. Then you will realize what makes life worth living. But it’ll be too late. 😁😅💀
Love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. When these people are old and alone, they will regret loving money over family, but there will be no remedy.
@@stischer47just breeding more slaves to produce low quality products. What's the point? No more children means no more slaves for the planetary parasitic rulers to rape and pillage.
Doesn't matter what your finances look like, you are given a very small window in your life to have kids and once it's gone, it's gone. You don't choose what time you are living in and all your children will need is to be loved by you, regardless if you are living dirt poor
We are in an age of work slavery. Longer hours at lower real pay adjusted after real inflation. Few can have kids and survive. In a dystopian culture having kids is insane.
When I was in my 20's, 30's and 40's being single and childless was fun and free. I enjoyed my freedom and financial stability. I lived a carefree life for many years. I traveled to many places and went to many dates and nightclubs. Now I am in my 50's, I no longer go out on the weekends and I don''t travels as much. For the first time in my life, I am starting to feel lonely. I am at home more often and I don't meet many people. I spend my weekends alone and I don't have many people to talk to. I am worry when I am retired from work, I will feel more lonely.
So, I just watched a video earlier basically saying that it's difficult for younger generations (with college degrees) to find jobs, families in bankruptcies because of (tuition) debts ... families can't even survive, but yet you expect them to get marry and have babies? Which logical individual will do that to themselves / put such burden on the their family.
@@stischer47 Yeah actually they are honest. And in the west, statistically they work through it like functional human beings instead of throwing in the towel. You'll find that about 80% of people that have considered divorce didn't go through with it. People who have been married multiple times make the divorce rate look roughly 4x higher than it really is.
If you unsure about marriage don’t get married . Just live together. Then when you break up you don’t have to undergo the bureaucratic red tape to divorce.
to be fair, the debate about "getting married and having children" is true for every country. i am 37, from germany, i do not have kids (but my older brother does) and i get so, sooo many question like "and when will YOU have kids, too?", "your brother owns a house, what about you?", "you use the train rather then owning a car? whats up with that?". i am sick of it, but i can deal with it tbh. but i wish it would be not THAT big of a deal.
most people need at least 1 Million dollars to marry, buy a house and have a kid at least 50% of that money will have to buy a house and car, surviving is more important than starting a family.
Bs. I built a 3x beachfront house in ha long Vietnam in 2020. Granted wife family had land, but I built house from scratch for 85k, and that's furnished. Cars are 5k. No usa tax, and earth standards. And my wife is 12 years younger. She wants kids.
@@sagepirotess6312 You abused the fact that your countries money goes farther in a poor country this isn't some great feat and everyone can't afford to do it the value of the dollar would deplete
If I don't even have job security or a reasonably priced house why would I think about marriage and kids? The ruling elites worldwide are getting too greedy for their own good
The entire world has apparently collectively decided to stop having children. Fine. Whatever. But if that's the case, I advocate to suspend ALL taxpayer funded social services to the elderly and allow people to just keep their money; it's criminally unfair to essentially enslave other people's children and force them pay for you in your old age.
If you saw a weak, distressed, poor, struggling eldler people on streets suffering your human instinct think differently lolz BUT you then think these are the people living it up.in their journey to old age, those thought might change again be a horrid evil calculated person from your self suffering cause by time money to rasise kids lolzz@stischer47
being childless is not a really a choice... just mean you past the age of having a child. Not having a pet is a choice as you can have one any time you want one. You need another person to have a child... if you both don't want a child then there's really no need to be together... all that money is meaningless in the end.
This is the same for most marriages in the world, things can easily fall apart without money. Money can't buy you happiness but the lack of money can buy you misery. Of course the situation in China is 100x worse, despite the exorbitant dowry paid these men will still sit in queue for a month to cut their losses.
Once evolution's biological clock begins ticking harder as the years go by, that woman will be changing her mind quicker than a 1950s sitcom about where to place a heavy piece of furniture.
I find this incredibly amazing. My guess has been that nothing can dissuade people from having children. Yet another seemingly obvious theory shot down. There is always something new to learn.
I mean, it's been this way all around the world. Women are prioritising gaining financial goals and stability, striving to be respected like men. Women are gaining higher education, and university gender ratios reflect that. Self-indulgence has become the norm; who wants to sacrifice time and their career to look after children? No one can afford to buy a house. Usually, you need dual income to raise a child now. I myself don't really want children, but we will see in the future.
I traveled to china 8 years ago and tried to bring a chinese girl out of the country. But, the US embassy wanted 80,000 US dollars as deposit. Yes, you heard me correctly, $80,000 deposit or else the US embassy won't give her a visa.
I hope this channel stays strong and perseveres. Seems like it's the only channel without propaganda or an agenda? I hope the power returns to the real Chinese people and NOT the CCP.
