@PeachysMom too bad he hasn't learned his manners. Constantly burping and farting right into the mic. His language is disgusting too. Didn't he buy a giant dildo to laugh at? His humor clearly hasn't matured.
Introspection can save a lot of young, awkward dudes. A lot of them would benefit from simply looking at a situation like that they did and say "Wow, that was bad. Maybe I shouldn't have done that."
I know it was mentioned before but it’s just hilarious how Charlie calls his videos “Obsessed Creep” or “Another Unhinged Weirdo” and a thumbnail is just his face.
@@ashlovestolaugh5149he confirmed that’s what it was in another video, that’s also why all/most of the thumbnails are just stretched out. it’s apparently not for comedic effect, he just doesn’t give a damn
He has caveman brain. "You pretty. Me provide good for you. You leave weakling for me, OK?" He isn't able to process "no" as an answer, and dresses it up like he isn't that as simplistic as he is.
Literally I’ve never known any women where a man took care of them to the exact extent that they wanted/needed. It’s a big friggen gamble and some people think of it so lightly
I think he meant it just as a phrase but given the context easily could be way more creepy than it is Like with the context and the phrase separately it’s creepy but if you use the context to interpret the phrase it could be even more creepy and sinister Sorry if this doesn’t make sense 😂
@@Imbettadenuit makes perfect sense and I was about to say the same thing. I might be dating myself but in the 90s girls would kill to have compliments like that made about them, especially if it came from their crush.
@@-_Somebody_i noticed that too, a lot of modern dating is just about being the most nonchalant possible, i'm not talking about the guy in the video, but it just seems that the possibility to being called a creepy are on all time high to the slightests things, i've seem someone here on the channel calling creepy if someone tell a girl her boyfriend is lucky to have her, it can be creepy depending on how you say it but come on. I have also seem someone say any kind of approach is creepy and you shouldn't approach at all, how are you supposed to meet new people then????
My dad once told me parable of the sour grapes. Long story short, the short king couldn't reach the fruit so he convinced himself that they were probably sour anyway. This is obviously just to make himself feel better about not being able to get the thing. "Your loss" is just that for 2023.
Ya know, I think that's something that has changed new generations. I was an 80s kid yet still even then, things like Aesops Fables were a huge thing. I even bought it for my son when I had one. We were taught morals and life lessons from a young age and they were a big part of life. No more 🤷🏻 The sour grapes story is a good one BTW.
@@Mr_C.Bacteria"morals and life lessons" are still taught to children everywhere, along with more critical examinations of them as social values. The fables are literally in lots of schools’ curriculums.
Yeah, I heard that one on school. Honestly, it's kinda a messed up thing to teach kids, if you really think about it. "If you can't get a thing, then that thing probably sucked anyways" is such horrible logic when it's applied to day to day life. Sometimes, we need to be able to accept that, "hey, we didn't get that thing, but that's OK" without immediately sh***ing on that thing and being a douche about it. We blame kids for being sore losers, but one of the earliest lessons we teach them is to be sore losers. Make it make sense.
@@transsnack The point of the fable is that the fox's logic is bad. The moral is "There are many who pretend to despise and belittle that which is beyond their reach"
People like this have always been around. I understand not being able to read social cues or having bitterness from previous relationships I think most of us can sympathize with that but the way this guy talks and behaves goes against everything that’s common sense
"my intentions are very platonic" followed by "I just want to show you you would be happier with me" is just perfection. For someone who wants to show how much better he is than her current boyfriend he doesn't even know the meaning of basic words apparently and is too lazy to check it. Among a ton of other problems with his personality of course
He needs to be put on a list. His persistence to keep bothering this poor woman after being bluntly rejected, and publicly shamed is scary. It gives me “I will get what I want at whatever cost” vibes.
Fr!! My bf is the biggest nerd and it’s genuinely wonderful! People deserve to feel like they can be passionate about things. It’s part of what makes him so special and interesting :)
You are absolutely right. What is the problem with somebody being a nerd and chasing their own passions? Moreover, the creep exudes such potent bad boy vibes as he would definitely keep her until he impregnates or catches her talking, even to her father, and opt to distance her from the family. And once the creep acknowledged that she is pregnant, he is going to run away like a chicken.
At this point it feels like Charlie is reading these creepy DMs like he's a priest giving a sermon, and I'm showing up every Sunday to hear him preach.
I'm not sure how a priest nicknamed Moist Critical would even do in the catholic church. He could be pope within a year or get outed on some forum. Both options seem feasible.
@@Wilkins325 What do you mean of course it does, because it makes the priest happy enough to tell you that your sins are forgiven since he's about to buy himself a new whore.
This guy isn't in love with Sabrina. This guy is in love with the idea of what he imagines Sabrina is like. He is obsessed with the idea of her, the fantasy version that checks all the boxes. He's lucky she's not impulsive... Imagine if she completely upended her entire life to give him an opportunity and a chance to prove himself. Like the dog that chases the car, he wouldn't know what to do with it once he catches it, and in a month would be looking at his trophy and wondering what the heck it is, because he didn't take the time to learn about her first, and resenting her for not being the delusional illusion he thought she was.
Gotta "love" how every one of the traits the creep talked about liking in his obsession were all appearance traits and not a single one was about her personality, her mind, or even a mention of things she mentioned liking that he may have liked too. Makes you wonder if he even bothered reading the words to things she's posted or just stared at her pictures and decided he wanted that.
The only possible "trait" I think he said was how she was "kind". I love how literally this creep and many others gravitate to that word. Never anything like, "Oh she's intelligent" or, "She's actually really funny and creative!". It always seems to be the words "nice", "kind" or something like it.
Well, I have a confession. Just so happens that I am currently staring at your PFP rn and I just decided something… I want that. So… let me get a crack at that… let me find out 🧐
@@ghostofpolariskind people are easy to take advantage of, maybe he saw it is a good trait bc she’s like easy pickings or whatever (obv she wasn’t but yknow, i’m trying to rationalise his bs lol)
"Why would he think this persistence would be appreciated?" Simple. Because everything from Disney to romcons have beat the idea into mens heads that if they simply keep trying, the pretty girl will eventually say yes. The 90s/2000s were flooded with the message in pop culture and its gonna take ages for young men to unlearn this dangerous lesson.
It’s not disney and romcoms (not many men watch them anyway, for all it’s worth, i think they’re worse for women). It isn’t the 90/00-s. It’s the patriarchy that teaches men to commodify women as property and feel entitled to their attention, bodies and emotions.
Yeah, we can't have media beating the persistence message into guys' heads, then automatically blame them for not understanding that meeting resistance means that they should stop. That being said, this is an adult man. If he were a teenager, I'd get it, but he should have developed critical thinking skills by now.
There's nothing wrong with being persistent if you conduct yourself in a normal manner. When I sent the first few messages to my gf she told me recently that she wanted to see if I'll give up or not. I'm not saying she told me "no" and I persisted, rather I was making an effort and now we are in a relationship. If you're being persistent in a weird way you make it even weirder, downright creepy. Writing this type of comment is not necessary and you'll be sending the wrong message to some insecure males out there reading it. Fellas, just be normal, know how to conduct yourselves and learn to read the mood. Be rational and never thirst over her. If you're attracted to her, make it out of right reasons, not because she has "a body to die for" as that clown mentioned. Be a man!
This is the definition of 'objectification'. He's describing her like a toaster, the best toaster he's ever seen, and he thinks he's entitled to own her because he's got 'a good job'. And then he is shocked when the toaster talks back and says, "Nah, I don't want to toast your bread." Bu... but... you're a toaster!! Toast mah bread goddammit!!
Bro everyone knows they dont wanna be these guys,the dudes who act like this aint gonna listen to reason,they are creeps through and through,its in their DNA 🤣 incels gonna Incel
A guy who acts like that doesn’t actually view her as a person. More of an object. He wants to possess her. Clear signs of a sociopath and narcissist. The way he talks about her shows that he just views her as a sexual object that’s it. And that, “you can crash at my place” line has me laughing so hard, lol. The guy is a smoothy, lol.
To all the guys out there, when a woman says "no" she means "no", not "well maybe idk sure". If you wanna harass people get a job in telemarketing instead.
Here is the thing. I think the reason some of these guys feel like that is because they have a history with women in their life that like their creepiness. Which I know it's crazy to think how anyone would like that, type of guy's personality but unfortunately there are people that exist that are into it . The issue is these people don't realize extreme personalities like them don't mesh well with those who are more normal...
For me, yes, totally agree. I will say though that there are girls out there that believe in the whole "I want him to chase me" thing after saying no. I've talked to those girls. I've tried to explain that this is a big no no but somehow it doesn't connect. Thing is, you're probably better off without a girl who wants you to ignore what she says.
Yeah men are definitely more guilty of this, but I had a similar experience with a girl in my class. We only ever worked on group projects together, she knew I had a girlfriend. Then she randomly insisted I travel to visit her - when I reminded her I was in a relationship, she insisted it was platonic. I told her no, and she flipped out and told me to go F myself and a bunch of other stuff. I don't understand how people create these narratives in their head out no where, pure delusion.
Had a roommate who did this kind of shit with a girl he went on Mike 2 actual dates with. Finally convinced her to hang again and ended up screaming and kicking her out in the middle of the night insulting you. A year of obsessively stalking and hitting up her social media and even contacting her boyfriend followed. Fucking crazy
13:38 "I don't know why that's so common amongst all of these" Probably because people who can't take "no" for an answer don't like losing, and then just "sour grape" the situation to convince themselves the loss was actually a win.
The woman and her boyfriend should be on guard, we've seen this type of unhinged behavior before and it can be legitimately dangerous. The incident with Gavin Free comes to mind.
@@Fuckingusername A crazed fan drove miles to their home in Texas with the intent of killing Gavin because he thought he didn't deserve to be with his girlfriend, Meg (that's what I remember hearing anyway).
EVEN if she wasn't dating a guy and was single ... she's ok to turn him down. These messages were so creepy, no matter the circumstances if a random stranger cold DM-ed me "I want you" I will run away screaming lol
@@CMP-st5whthere are ways to hit on girls without saying creepy phrases like “I want you”. As a woman, the guys I’ve dated haven’t typically been close friends, but they’ve been people who i started talking to organically. Like maybe we met at a party or had mutual friends or a group project together. I’m inclined to turn down any guy who hits on me by going out of his way to approach me in public because it feels less safe and we haven’t shared even a single smile or anything even a little bit meaningful, so why WOULD I be interested? That’s somewhat a personal preference and it definitely can work on some women but you gotta be careful to not weird them out. Social media especially would raise red flags bc we don’t know each other and if we did you could talk to me irl
Stop with BS. Attractive, celebrities, rich = Yes. Ugly, poor, not famous = Creep, no and stranger. 🤣🤣🤣Its not the situations, its the person. What if your celebrity crush cold DM you? Yeah, you wouldn't say no...
There's a very fine line between properly conveying feelings and coming off like a creep/threat. Nowadays though, there's less tolerance for someone being forward with their intentions, but also far more people that don't know how to convey those intentions in a healthy or positive way. This was none of those, it was just someone ignoring all social cues and conventions and even the wishes of the individual they desired.
@@erikmckoul2478 he is! He posted a picture of himself one time he’s a manager at a store short, scrawny, short greasy hair, struggling to grow facial hair, poor posture ect. 😂 dang for the life of me I’m trying to find the screenshot of him in his work uniform. I know I have it! I document EVERYTHING, because their weirdo KEEPS COMING BACK! 😭
Charlie, you're an absolute icon, I must say. Thanks for setting it straight with people like this. I've been preyed on before like this, usually by 30+ year old men, more times than I can count as comfortable; and as of writing this, I'm still 17. You really do help teach younger people not to stick for things like this, and for that, I'm incredibly grateful. Thank you.
I love seeing this called out, even though I still have to fight back against my conditioning to always “be nice” and consider others’ feelings no matter what. I can’t tell you how many times something similar has happened to me-I think many women have had the same experience. The first time, I was 15.
People who don't understand "no", you can hardly hurt with anything. Imagine how dense someone must be in order to sustain that level of being utterly ignorant. Then you can compare, I think, how appropriate or not a seemingly harsh response is for them.
My son introduced me to Charlie several years ago when my son was about 12. We would watch the videos together and laugh and talk about them. As a mom, I am so glad that Charlie is out here to be a role model for young men. I am not being sarcastic, I am serious. It is so easy for people to get swept into following certain misogynistic people I will not name, and Charlie counters that with just good sense (not going to say "common sense" because good sense is not common). It's refreshing.
I mean, as a grownup who watches Charlie, I don't really know if I'd be comfortable with a twelve year old watching him. Yes, he has a mature mindset and can impart wisdom that youngins need, but he also has a lot of other content that's a lot more explicit
@@madeniquevanwykbro 12 year olds are definitely making dick and pussy jokes. Atleast, i and everyone I knew at that age did. It’s not like he’s posting pics of his actual butthole.
@@Ava-nf2qq yeah? I work with kids, and my brother was a 12 year old a few years ago. Believe it or not, a lot of tweens are not socialised to sex to such a degree that they can just watch a man play with dildos and ovipositors and not be affected by it
I do love how she handled herself in the DMs. She was so polite, but also drew hard boundaries and defended both herself and her SO. She called out his idiotic, creepy, and honestly condescending behavior.
Yes, those hard boundaries of responding and thus baiting further messages. She should have blocked at the start like most level-headed female would. What a world this is now, that girls like this farm creeps for content. LOL
I’ve had to deal with this kind of behavior before. I’m honestly really glad to see you talk about this, because it’s a great example of what *not* to do
These creepy guy interaction videos you’ve been making recently have been so enjoyable. Thank you Charlie for enduring the wonderful cringe when we don’t have to.
I've actually had my wife nudge me to show me her getting DMs like this. She once had it from a guy whose wife recently died of cancer and she took pity on him and helped him with a charity gig. He knew she was already married. I understand loneliness but this level of cringe and lack of thought is WIDELY concerning.
I've had nice conversations with men about their depression and hard family lives. Just for them to flash me with their genitals. It happens so often and I simply refuse to talk to people now unless they are from school, work or friendgroups lol!
@@maschaorsomething I start to wonder if it's a design flaw to encourage breeding in males. I've legit seen those I'd class as intelligent just completely ignore all sound reason if it means they can get some company. Baffling.
@@maschaorsomethingyes a good portion of men assume any interest beyond “hello” is sexual in some nature. I’m a man and growing up there’s just like a section of us that are unable to relationally control their sexual emotions. It’s honestly insane. No matter how much you talk to them or try to convince them their behavior comes across as weird they just keep doing it and for some reason some of them get a lot of chicks. This dude in the video for example has total confidence in himself and a lot of women like confidence and it creates a weird cycle where they think their actions are being validated when in actuality they have 1 good trait that after one week women get bored of and leave. Now put this behind a computer screen and the veil of anonymity and this is why there are so many weird guys online.
@@DuneCrescentit is 100% a wired brain thing that men typically grow out of past 25. I remember in high school I was similar to this insane (not near the same level but I recognize the thinking pattern) and yea it feels almost engulfing. Your mind cannot comprehend anything else outside of sexual desire. Any attention that a girl gave me I assumed it was sexual in nature. Now I look back and cringe so bad. I grew out of it as soon as I got to college and had my first relationship and began to mature but some men go their whole lives without maturing in this way due to a number of different reasons. A lot of prisoners or convicts exhibit this behavior because they tend not to be socialized the same way. Women who work in corrections or rehabilitation will tell you it’s just part of the job and they don’t wanna hurt you they just don’t know how else to communicate. Sad really.
It's the highest level of immaturity to think you have a bond with someone you don't know because you like the way they look and mold that in your head into characteristics that you love.
As a woman, thank you Charlie. Honestly I watch for your sense of humor but by going through conversations like these I really feel its going to be educating a whole load of younger viewers in such a positive way
I agree, it's a real breath of fresh air from the misogyny that's so prevalent on RU-vid. We need more people like Charlie: intelligent, respectful, confident, and not afraid to call out creepy behavior!
absolutely. young boys need to understand 2 things. 1. women most of the time will care about what you have and not what you can give IE personality. if a guy believes women only care about what he can give he'll only see his good traits as something he can give, IE a well paying job or a cool house, but people love eachother cause of the people they are. and 2. and Charlie mentioned this, having self awareness and self reflection. being able to seperate yourself from the situation and see how it looks, cause if you can't see how it looks you'll keep looking at it from your own view and not the view from the distance, you may think your in the right but in reality you can't see how wrong what your doing is.
And guys like this are so predictable it's exhausting! I don't even get dms from the amount of guys that frequent tiktok dance trend users get because I don't use tiktok so it's just guys I know in person which is more difficult, then if you're "rude" because you make it very clear you're not interested in them you might get attacked, or if you keep saying that you're busy and try to be nice you're leading them on even if you keep saying that you're busy with your significant other. The hardest part of it is, is that if you actually wanted to be friends with them you can't because they don't see the point.
This is why I wholeheartedly believe Charlie is an overall positive influence on the platform. There are so many weird ideologies/opinions floating around the internet that Charlie acts an antidote to. A lot of children will steer into a positive, healthy direction, away from the destructive lines of thinking.
I will never get tired of Charlie taking deep dives on incels and "sigma males" shooting their shots and bricking spectacularly. Please keep this series going.
yeah, this is some straight 'sigma male' 'school of charm' tateverse type behavior. the whole 'real alpha males just take what they want' mentality. this is what happens when people like andrew tate get popular.
As a woman, Charlie, I think these sorts of videos you make are genuinely very valuable. Its unfortunate that these need to be made but I appreciate that you use your platform and put in the work to help people understand that this type of behavior is both abnormal and frightening.
@@acuilnosThey could also just be really immature. The worst evil is those who do not recognize they're evil. They see themselves as good and it takes seeing someone else be called out for them to get it.
As someone with a brain, these videos are not "genuinely very valuable" because the guy (and anyone like him) is being told this and doesn't change. The videos are purely for entertainment.
I’m so happy. Me and a large group of Twitter users exposed Furlow, a Twitter user who sexually harassed a few girl users, over the summer and now that Charlie is commenting on his other account brings a tear to my face. I’m unbelievably happy
him casually inviting her over to crash at his place is the biggest sign of SA ive ever seen. He's already a creep, but we all know that if she for some reason did say yes to crashing at his place only BAD things would happen
Exactly, I don't think this guy should be around women. He seems like a danger. He doesn't seem to even respect the woman he's trying to "get". It's like he sees her like a prize as if she's supposed to date him just because he has a job or whatever.
Alright we know the guy is a creep, but it is entirely unfair to assume something drastic like that, and even worse to say it as if it is everyone's opinion. I understand where you are coming from, but you are not all knowing, and neither am i. I am not saying that what you say is wrong, I am simply saying that you do not have grounds to throw that assumption out, especially when you state it as a fact. You are free to disagree with me, but it is a great service to refrain from assumptions.
@@user-un7iu4vg7w Obviously he shouldn't be tried for sex crimes on the basis of being a creep on Twitter (like one commenter here seems to believe), but in the woman's shoes, assuming any stranger trying *this* hard to get you to "crash at their place" is somebody with sex crime intentions is pretty reasonable.
I have a confession to make. Once I did a very similar thing but even cringier, cause it was directed at a girl I never even tried to ask out or anything like that. We met at a summer camp and I really liked her, but I asked out and started dating her less attractive friend instead, because I felt like I didn't deserve her but subconsciously just wanted to be around her. Unsurprisingly, relationship I started then didn't go well and eventually we broke up. Years later in my mid 20s I saw my crush from that time posted on social media about how much she loves her current boyfriend with some photos of them together, and I immediately posted that photos, a text that started off with "why most attractive women tend to date most ugly guys", and a poll for my subscribers to judge that dude's attractiveness. And from her perspective that just came absolutely out of nowhere, because we have rarely seen each other since that summer camp, mainly at concerts due to similar musical interests, and talked only about music basically. She blocked me on social media, as you should do, and never spoke to me again untill I accidentally bumped into her at a concert not that long ago and apologised for what I did then. She said "I'm just glad you figured your shit out, I forgive you". The relief I felt after that words was unimaginable. That wasn't the only horrible thing I did for no good reason. I'm 32 now, and I've learned from my mistakes in a really hard way. Turns out I came from disfunctional family with narcissistic parents that abused me, and I have a personality disorder myself, luckily below clinical threshold enough for me to manage without heavy medication. And I can tell you, if I've seen this video back then, prior to feeling an impulse to do that stupid thing - chances are I wouldn't do it. So I insist the value is really there. To anyone who reads this comment: if you feel like you're drowning in the ocean of constant unbearable emotional pain, if you don't feel safe around your family members or anywhere really, if your life feels like a neverending nightmare - GET HELP. It's not normal to feel this way.
I love how this guy calls her bf a dork as if fun dorks who are passionate about what they love aren't objectively much more attractive than guys who try too hard to be masculine
this is what makes me so sad about the victims of alpha manosphere grifters, they convince men that they aren’t good enough to be loved and appreciated for who they are, all framed as ‘self-improvement’.
@@atomdecaySadly most these people don't carry actually big red flags. And sadly some people (women in this case) are sometimes not good at reading people. Also please stfu, you are literally pulling a nice guy move
@@atomdecay Some people choose bad partners, its just the way the world works. Its not just women, toxic relationships exist for every group. It sucks but blaming anyone but the toxic individual isn't going to help fix anything.
It seems it was not the first harassment from the guy, several women have come forward with more DM receipts. They already have his picture ,dude looks like a Dollar Tree McLovin', extremely dorky, he works in a Walgreens and they have contacted their job to denounce this situation.
Big round of applause how she handled this situation. She is being so honest and kind every step of the way until he exhausts all her options for niceties. And even when she gets pushed there, she still shows restraint and level-headedness. Good job!
Idk, i dont think he deserved that level of patience, i think we all should feel comfortable with being aggressive towards people who can't take "no" as an answer in a situation like this. Yes, she was totally a lady, very respectful and even kind.
@@tazonrojo I agree to a certain extent. But I think overall the world (and specifically the internet) is suffering from how little patience and kindness we use communicating with others.
You know women gets killed for being rude right? They need to be very careful when rejecting men like this because they never know what they're capable of
The fact that she didn't just block him three messages into that conversation. Let ALONE restrained herself from posting the DMs up to the point where he decided to begin publicly harassing her bf. Unreal patience some of these ladies have, you don't have to put up with that crap, honestly.
When I was younger, I used to admire guys who weren't self-conscious about appearing creepy, because I _always_ was. Now, as a happily married man looking at the shitshow that is modern relationships, I am grateful for that instinct. And the funny thing is that despite this, there WERE a few occasions where I did act creepy. I just lacked the self-awareness.
I only had one guy friend out of like 5 who complained that a girl called him creepy. Like.. I dont know maybe you DID behave in a creepy way because I know the way you talk about “getting a woman” and how you make it everyone’s problem that no one wants to fuck you? Sometimes it’s just a misunderstanding, but SOMETIMES a dude is genuinely being a creep and predatory. This is the same friend that admitted to talking to a 16 yr old when he was 19… And continued talking to her.
Same here. I could never realise that I was being overly creepy and “quirky” with girls that I liked, thinking if I was quirky enough they would see my “true worth”.. I dont miss that version of me.
There's a very fine line between properly conveying feelings and coming off like a creep/threat. Nowadays though, there's less tolerance for someone being forward with their intentions, but also far more people that don't know how to convey those intentions in a healthy or positive way.
He's offering her everything in the world willing to fight for her but the one thing he can't offer is the ability to listen to her when she says no and take no for an answer therefore he can't even offer her respect
Well, I mean, it seems pretty clear respect for her was never on the table. Worship of her, maybe, but not respect. His gaze clearly didn't penetrate further than skin deep.
He _is_ treating this like a game LMAO. He’s absolutely floored that “I apologize for persisting. You’re just breathtaking and I want you. I’m willing to fight for you at this point,” didn’t cause her to say “omg, take me now.” That’s why he goes CRAZY after that. He wasn’t expecting her response. He was expecting her to give some amount of “I’m interested” after he said something “so passionate and articulate.” That’s also why the following messages are unhinged by comparison. He hadn’t practiced any sort of response to her given answer in the dialogue tree lmao. So he’s used the ever eloquent “crash at me place” when if you look at the massages prior to this one he sounds like a fucking book character. Every line is faked and obviously “rehearsed” in that he’s seen them used before. It’s acting, but then he shows who he truly is when she continues to refuse him. The messages become more and more “him.”
people like this seem to have this entire dialogue scene in their heads of them and the person they're trying to get like they're writing a fanfiction, they curate the perfect lines to say according to this little scenario in their heads, and then when they go try it in real life, and the other person doesn't respond the way they expected, they short circuit and everything they say after that it a disaster.
This is exactly what I thought. He clearly has it very carefully planned out up until right around that point. And maybe her refusal was following one of the versions of the script in his head. I don’t know what he expected her to say to that, but it was not what she said, and he just lost it from there. Either that, or it started to set in that she might actually just say no…
Lol I never realized that. So he’s rehearsing these lines in the mirror over and over again even though he’s not face to face with this woman. And he’s planned more preplanned responses for her. But if she finally put her foot down to say no once and for all, he’ll start malfunctioning like a computer and get upset and incoherent
This is why I quit all social media except RU-vid and Pinterest. The constant barrage of weirdos hitting on me and not accepting a polite “no I’m not interested because I’m in a relationship.”
Heard multiple female friends say they got similar disturbing advances by people when they were just in their teens from people they actually knew. Really hit home how common this stuff is. Scary.
Oh yeah I'm pretty sure almost every girl has had this experience when we were teens from someone we knew..... Family member or someone really close to the family .... Smh
The number of dudes i had to cut contact with because of this has always been depressing. Like nah dude i just wanna be friends or keep our status quo...nope! Well alright then. Some I'd even give another shot at friendship because they promised they wouldn't get weird or possesive. LOL nah. Always ended in them getting creepy again and would have to cut contact for a final time.
@@CozmokitteeI can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me! It makes me wonder if it’s even possible to have purely platonic male friends? I click with men better than most women over nerdy stuff, but I don’t want the creep to rest its ugly head 😅 I only want like bro/sis energy.
Thank you, Charlie! I was actually having cereal and coffee when I decided to relax and click this video. Also it's refreshing to see people like that guy get confronted pragmatically and directly by someone he feels entitled to.
Clearly “No” is code for keep trying and look as desperate as possible It’s like hard to get, but the only thing that’s hard to get for him is the obvious
"Behold. Don't be this guy" is exactly how I fell out of my nice guy phase. So thanks Charlie. The more people that see you, which I bet more than a few young men probably see and a masculine figure the more chance this may be a wakeup call for them too.
As a woman, it brings me joy every time I hear that someone escapes that mindset. I guarantee things will go so much better for you, even outside of relationships in general. The "nice guy" (more or less incel) state of mind is so detrimental in every way, extending far past just the relationship scene. The sad thing is that most of them wont change, but for the ones that do, there's absolutely the opportunity for them to improve even past what they were before, as they learn from past mistakes. Big props to you, someone abandoning the redpill mindset isnt commonly seen unfortunately. Hopefully more people will see Charlie's vids and have the same wakeup call you did.
That guy reminded me of a weird guy I dated. He would constantly talk about himself, and every single time to start his story, he would say, "You see, the thing about me is..." and it drove me insane. Keep in mind that one of the things about him was how emotionally intelligent he was and how he's a really good person. I said I wanted to stop seeing him one night when I snapped out of the stupor and realized he was just a rebound. I was very gentle and sugarcoated everything. "I'm just not able to emotionally handle a long-term relationship." The next day, he told everyone I cheated on him and was a gold digger. He worked at Goodwill for like a week and then got fired. I happened to break up with him a few days later, so he figured that's why I broke it off. He was unemployed when we started going out. That's when I said, "I didn't need to know THE THING ABOUT YOU every 20 minutes, bro. I don't want to know that much about anyone.".
I am so stoked that in a time rife with incel and podcast beta bros, someone like you with a massive following is using their platform to shut down the men who have been influenced by some of the methodologies. This series has been popping off, please keep it going.
That is not what makes ppl dangerous as the podcast have legit nothing to do with it. The problem is the person, their development and the way they interpret things. Also, saying people are incels or betas for having a different opinion on things doesn’t make you any better than them. Do better.
YOU do better, defending incels online cause you feel attacked by people calling them out wont make people stop calling yall out. Do better. @@mortalninja8626
@@mortalninja8626 You realize that what these guys believe isn’t even an opinion, it’s just psycho behavior because of these podcasts they watch. They fully believe what these podcasts say & then go & hate on women for nonsense that doesn’t even affect them & throw in the “well I got rejected before so I know this women will do it too” towards random women without proof. There’s plenty of those crazy men in the comments of Charlie’s recent videos.
This guy is actually dangerous, obsessing about someone to this point is really really dangerous and scary asf. Usually ends with ‘if he/she isnt with me then they wont be with anyone’ and we all know where that goes.
@@marcin8865 anyone that isnt willing to take no for an answer is immediately dangerous. thats not a discussion at all my dude. girl said no, not interested and he ignored that and kept pressing her over it, if thats not dangerous to you, you need to talk to more girls and get their point of view on this matter.
Girls I know and my sister have definitely run into these kinds of guys and they usually cut off contact and never allow for a situation which puts them alone in the same spot. They don't fear them as in dangerous but they're very vigilant as to put the creeps me out at a distance
@@Dev-bn8ps the reason they avoid being alone with them is because they are dangerous my friend. No one should feel afraid and go out of their way not to be alone with someone, if they do is because the other person is dangerous.
honestly not only are these just great for learning how to act and treat others, but the "obsessed weirdo" name followed by a picture of Charlie will never not be gold