men only think about the value a woman has in relation to the men in her life "Yo, that's somebody's daughter, man" she's also a person. An individual. Fathers may hurt you over their daughters, but the daughters will also hurt you over themselves
men only think about the value a woman has in relation to the men in her life "Yo, that's somebody's daughter, man" she's also a person. An individual. Fathers may hurt you over their daughters, but the daughters will also hurt you over themselves
Not to mention, he looked fairly young himself, if he's older than her dad... How old is she? She can drive so I'm guessing at least 16 but either way, what the actual fuck?! I'm so glad he got put away ! (Saw in another comment his videos got him investigated and arrested, so good riddance!)
I like that not a single person even mentioned the concept of rape, and this dude willingly brought it up on his own. "HEY BUT WHAT ABOUT RAPE FANTASIES?!" Way to tell on yourself.
Beginning of high school I said literally only one word, "Hi", to a random dude while waiting for the bus. Never ever had a conversation with him. He went on to chasing me to the bus and between classes, snapping photos of me, telling everyone i was his girlfriend, pressuring students so they gave him my number, harassing me through txt, punching a table in front of me because i rejected him (multiple times) on valentines day, waiting afterschool hours for me (even past 10pm), and much more. He would go through my bag, place gifts in there because I wouldn't take them. He would write weird fantasy stories about me and try to give them to me. He would say "take the gift or die, is what I always say.", and threaten to harm and or kill me many times. I told the counselors once when he took photos of me but they said "he only wants to talk to you, please just talk to him", they felt sorry for HIM. I missed so much school, I would skip school on many events, valentines day and my birthday- I would hide in the bathroom on pep rallies. I almost failed high school and had to pay a lot of money for summer school. I graduated high school and years later, right after having a random nightmare about him I got a text from him somehow (I had changed numbers many times by this point). He threatened to kill himself if I did not talk to him and he threatened me. I called the cops, told them he was suicidal, I told them about the threats and they said they wouldn't do anything unless something was "physically done to me". I guess you have to be raped or murdered to get help. I unfriended almost everyone I knew in HS because he kept getting my number and info. All because I said "Hi" to the wrong person. It's been 6 years and I have luckily not heard from him.
this guy is so delusional though i bet if u told him what consent is he would deflect that like “women don’t really have that choice, only men have that” or he’d be down right unhinged he wouldn’t know what consent even means
Honestly, yeah, the way that the cops were basically like as gently and professionally as possible being like fuck you bro was amazing and the fact that that cop actually said “fathers will hurt you over their daughters” you know he was thinking if this was my daughter Id fuck you up too!!! Like he fully, was not blaming that dad at all for contacting him to try and protect his own daughter. 😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that he has the nerves to say this deplorable stuff in front of COPS is chilling. Shows he genuinely believes he’s right and justified and the cops would understand.
the way he ranted on from stalking to rape fantasises and women not having free will really showed this guys true intentions. i was genuinely chilled to the bone on how progressively worse this guy got
@@JasmineCFC i wouldn't ban porn. like many things they can be consumed safely and under moderation. i would argue that instead of banning tiktok, mental health services and addiction services should be accessable and safe should be funded tenfold to avoid creepos like this
I hate how people try to force others into doing things like that. We don’t want to be stalked, we don’t want to be raped, we do not want to do porn in most cases. Saving yourself for marriage exists, and saving yourself for your husband and your husband only also exists. To clear things up, I’m not some serious Christian, it just says in the Bible that you should wait til marriage, so that’s what I’ll do. Lust is literally one of the seven deadly sins. And yes, sex is allowed according to it, but it’s meant to be an intimate act between husband and wife, not some rando you met on the internet looking for a dopamine rush.
Porn isn't the issue, just like any media being consumed isn't. The dude has a warped mind, likely before he ever watched porn, before becoming an adult even. He has a cognitive issue. Same issue that any mass murder in history had, even before porn. He'd likely stalk, rape, and kill his obsessions, as others before him had. Dudes got Dahmer vibes coming from him, sans the cannibalism.
I'm no psychologist but it really seems like this guy's psyche has been poisoned by the internet; immediately discussing porn and rape fantasies, unable to see empathize with the girl and recognize that literally chasing her for blocks is threatening, then that closing rant on LGBT....I feel like this guy lives his life online and has forgotten how the real world works. It's so sad and scary to see that level of delusion.
Unfortunately, there are many more guys like this one out there right now, totally convinced that women only serve one purpose. They find communities online of like-minded people, and they feed this shit to each other non-stop, brainwashing themselves to the point that they are extremely dangerous. Only a matter of time until we read about this dude and another of his victims, and next time, the victim may not survive. Damn scary stuff.
Charlie saying his music sounds like “five trash cans being violently thrown together while a guy is getting murdered in an alleyway” and then cutting to it sounding EXACTLY like that took me out. I was not expecting that scarily accurate analogy.
tbh even that sounds more badass then whatever the hell my ears were just subjected to. should file a complaint on charlie for even putting that in there.
People with rape fantasies are just a no for me, either gender. Fucking weird. How can something so terrible possibly be a fetish for anyone with a healthy mindset?
@@firemonkey1015 It's common but it's kind of annoying it's pushed as a fantasy of women because guys like this will latch onto it and feel that women want to be forced to submit, but it's just a common fantasy for both genders. A high percentage of men also fantasies about getting raped but guys like him will conveniently ignore that because it doesn't fit the view they like. Some studies as much as 40 or 50% of men fantasize about getting raped. But yeah it is just a fantasy it's so creepy people assume that it means its real.
As much as I despise most of social media, it's great how many bad apples decide to publicly expose themselves. The funny part is that they do it thinking to receive support from their audience, which often backfire spectacularly. Better yet, it also helps identify their supporters. That being said, I like thinking that this guy (as anybody) can get help and eventually become a contributing member of our society. The fact that his appearance (and I read in other comments his name as well) are public domain for ever and ever it's not great for the purpose of giving him a second chance (granted, once he deserves it and he's not a threat for anybody anymore).
When he said to the camera "bad shit happens" all I could think is _run, girl, run!_ Because he's not going to stop until you're his or you're punished. Edit: corrected spelling error
This man will probably be on the news because the police shot him outside of HER house in a few weeks time. People with these issues should be locked up in some sort of facility from the moment they start talking like this.
Been a woman all my life and have many female friends. Never once had a rape fantasy or heard anyone of my friends say that was one of their fantasies.
when he said her dad's controlling her, the scare factor about it skyrocketed for me, he sounds like the kinda dude that'd "save you" and do things "for your own good" by locking you up in his basement for 27 years
Oh officers no need to worry, I'll give her water when she is good and I'll even add food as an added bonus! And sometimes, I'll even let in some light! No need to worry at all.
@@twinzzlers Dude's head cannon be like: "that's a fine young Gentleman right there Gregory" said the officer to his partner as he warns the dad to not waste the cops' time and puts his name "on a list"
Well the irony being it's always guys who go on about "protecting vvomen" that always turn out to be the biggest abusers of them. Saying that, there is also the very creepy reality of parents who try to control their adult "kids" behaviour and life. Something else that's disturbing too, is how we always hear about the "controlling boyfriend" allegedly trying to stop the girlfriend from going out er friends etc but you never hear as much about the controlling friends, who try to wreck her relationship etc.
He told the cop she was 27 and he’s 25 but that obviously could be a lie. This dude needs to be locked up either way, he CANNOT be allowed to interact with people in society with his view on reality
@@GameTimeNLL Honestly, calling the dad over 911 is probably the best option in a situation like this. Well the BEST option, if someone is falling you by car, is to go to the police station right then. But sometimes the cops aren’t very helpful in situations of stalking when in comes to the victims. That older cop seems chill though.
@@rose-yeah Isn't it weird though? So many of us feel nervous talking to an attractive stranger.. let alone asking them out.. but this guy already has her life planned out. She's going to become straight, somehow, fall in love with him due to his music and future DJ prospects.. and..uhm.. I'm guessing he'll feed her and clean her cage every once in a while?
The stuff this dude believes about women is all terrifyingly self-serving. It doesn't even make sense according to his own logic. Even if that *was* true, it's still purely a _fantasy!_ A lot of fantasies would be no bueno IRL, but this guy clearly doesnt get that. And in a general sense, just because someone has a fantasy or desire doesn't mean it's ok for someone to force that upon them, that would be madness! Like.. I fantasize about swimming in a pool full of blue jello all the time but I'd still be really pissed if somebody pushed me into one right now
@@MegaIIII Shitty news sites remove context from surveys(that are dubious themselves) to generate clicks, Women like men who they already consented to sweeping them off their feet and performing sex even then there are day to day complications that survey doesn't account for.
Update: He was arrested last night for stalking and harassment. There's no details beyond that, but it can be safely assumed he went after the girl again.
@@bagamnan9170 I keep trying to send you something, but apparently RU-vid doesn't want me to. It seems to be censoring his name. If it helps, his initials are JTY.
he's older than her father, he stalks her, probably wants to r word her given his rant abt whatever it was. All added on to the fact that she's gay so he really never has a chance. This guy is insane and a perfect example on why waiting until something actually happens for someone to be arrested is not always thing to do.
Nah this guy's not creepy, something has to be ambiguously threatening to be creepy. There is nothing ambiguous about this guy, he is just straight up scary.
I knew someone that tried this with me. When a psychopath is trying to manipulate you, they will always say that you're being manipulated by someone else. It makes them look like the good guy that sees the issues in your life for what they are. Fortunately I didn't believe him, and that was that.
It gives off the same vibes as when my alcoholic dad used to say I was being brainwashed by my mom whenever I called him out for his shitty behaviour lol.
This dude actually described to the officers all the crimes he did and wants to do with complete confidence tf. The officer's face reflected his sheer bewilderment at what he was hearing lol
@@meowiebby if he says most women have a sexual fantasy of forced sex, I say we help him by sending him to prison. He's bound to drop the soap eventually
He feels so justified in his actions that HE called the cops. His thought process is so normal to him that not only is he saying these things TO cops but also expects them to completely see where he’s coming from and no doubt believes that this is how all men think of women. The only thing ‘safe’ here is that it’s safe to say he’s a serial stalker, a danger to women and this is extremely worrying. This will, unfortunately, happen again in some way shape or form with this guy.
As a man in the dating scene, I sometimes get frustrated with women's selection process. Then when I watch something like this, I start to understand why they have such a process. The fact that dudes like this exist puts it into perspective. Honestly, if I was a woman, I'd be strapped. Even if you don't believe in guns, get some bear mace or a powerful taser, because this is terrifying.
Found these videos recently and I’m thinking the same thing. Safety + needing to filter out the guy who’s pretending and the guy who’s gonna tune out after having kids. I think if more men accepted that it would help build empathy and reduce resentment, which would help women and also help men by making them more connected
"Bad sh*t happens" immediately made me believe this man would become a headline if someone doesn't step in and stop him. I cannot imagine how terrified that girl and father are
Yep, like literally hes gonna commit crime, they need to put him on some kind of watchlist, how long will it take before he actually rapes some girls lmao america is fucked up
He’s definitely gonna try some shit and i sincerely hope the girl gets armed or the dad does cause that man looks like a serial killer waiting to happen
The fact that he brings up porn multiple times, unprompted, to the police says a lot. Also, I pictured the girl he was stalking as being a teenager, based solely on the fact that she called her dad for help, but his little "I'm older than her dad" comment and his silence on her age when asked by the police did not change my mind.
“Oh you’re gonna call me crazy for chasing her? Well what about rape, hmm??”💀💀 idk why but this line just caught me off guard and I feel like it explained it so well
@@aerynstormcrow They do, but IMO whatever fetish is only valid if, like, someone asks you to indulge them. You can't just say "some women have rape fetishes" and just randomly decide to harass a god damned teenager on that basis.
@@aerynstormcrow It is only scary if they want to act on those fetishes. I have some weird fetishes (admittedly not rape), but I would never act on them either because they are impossible or illegal. Or because I don't actually want to do or experience them in reality.
I unfortunately lived next to soemone like this. I as harassed for two years and I called the cops twice, other neighbors called about 6 times themselves.
He was arrested :). If only all stalkers called the cops and described a situation / portrayed in the moment exactly how unhinged they are. He's saved women everywhere from himself.
That's how delusional they are. They really think if someone just listens to what he's saying, it all makes sense. Jeezus, these freaks never been told no.
Oh thank fuck, that lunatic would’ve definitely killed her, you could just see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice, guy sounded so entitled like he thought she belonged to him and “well if i cant have her nobody can” fuck that shit
@@someguythatlookslikeme8306 oh, they've been told "no" plenty of times. there's just not a single time where they listen. the word is meaningless to them.
The flag is practically dripping at this point Made of red fabric, backed by the sunset, on a red flagpole, that's just recieved its daily recoat of dark red paint that possibly has some blood in there too
I LOVE hearing men calling out these predatory men. Ty to the police officers for calling him out and ty to this creator for showing this and for standing up for women. I love this ❤
everytime i come back to this video i always manage to forget how accurate charlies description of this pyschos music is, it takes me out every time 💀💀
You have a real talent of finding comments made by others and applying them under the context of videos you watch. A real hidden talent of avoiding creativity.
I love looking at the "most replayed" moments on your videos shows just how cringe these people are and how many people can't even bare to listen to them xxDDD
as a girl, i couldnt be anymore scared for the girl just by imagining what happened to her. just how scary is a guy following you whilst playing that abomination of a "song". (the song alone creeps me out lol). if the girl watched that video of his she mustve been terrified of the things he's saying-and what could have happened to her if it escalated.
I’m a psych nurse, and the way he talks about harassing this woman while turning it on her like she’s the problem literally sounds like things my sexually preoccupied, psychotic, and manic patients would say to us female workers. I really hope he doesn’t end up hurting someone later down the road.
I was in a psych room with a guy who talked like this. Nothing was his fault, it was just everyone else attacking him for "no reason". I couldn't sleep the entire time I was there, I thought for sure he was gonna kill me in my sleep.
I'm a casino janitor and this guy's crazy is so loud that I can hear it over the new winner announcement coming through the speakers. I literally feel like I've just watched someone's manifesto video that'll be posted on some youtube video with a "timeline of events" leading up to either a murder or an attempted one. It's terrifying.
Being a schizophrenic myself I'm glad I didn't got weird sexually when psychotic, I was just terrified of having my thoughts controlled or harvested. Could have either way, antipsychotics should be a human right. Best for everyone.
I'm actually glad he filed this report because he just created a paper trail for this poor girl to at least get a restraining order. since I'm somehow still getting comments 3 weeks later from people who don't seem to get how the legal process works, no, I'm not saying that will stop him. it's the first step in taking real legal action and the best that can realistically be done, because these things are rarely taken seriously. I am not responsible for that, but I am speaking from experience and don't appreciate the major negative and discouraging response on a realistic silver lining.
brio i have headphones in and i usually have the volume up cause charlie talks so softly and kindly that im comfortable with keeping the volume up and after that trash can metal came on i nearly had a heart attack my ear drums are ringing😭😭😭
To see this type of crap out loud is appalling and disgusting enough on its own; to see this stuff with law enforcement right there in front of you is actual insanity. Thank god he’s been detained
I feel like the cops should just not intervene if there's an incident with the dad, because maybe he's the kind of guy who maybe WANTS her dad to beat him up, you know
@@ScagAteHer Fr, like how can somebody be arrested for peeing on the street and this dude is threatening people and stalking women and is still walking around
yep. so many people in this comment section lowkey defending him in some of the replies and its so concerning edit: stop asking me to show you the comments I've already replied to the first person that said that with a comment example so you can find it there. take the time you'd be taking to write me a reply to scroll thru these replies a little
1. His music definitely sounds like a jumpscare or a death you'd hear in some indie horror game. 2. DAMN it took literally 5 minutes of talking to the cops to prove that he is the biggest fucking lunatic in the world
The cop is a straight-up saint in how he's listening and just getting increasingly concerned, and calmly saying "no" to every single insane statement coming out of this guy's mouth.
The cop needs to do more imo this guy stalking that girl is probably not going to stop. Guys like this kill women and worse. Like she needs to find another job and not continue to work around this guy, file her own police report, carry a weapon, etc. The cops should also send someone out to hang around her house since this psycho knows where she lives.
@@alexus1136 agreed. He handled the current situation properly (basically telling the guy he’s nuts calmly lol) but The police often don’t take stalker cases seriously until its too late and the person being stalked is either physically assaulted, sexually assaulted or killed. This guy needs to be put into the system and tabs need to be kept on him. He is a threat to ANYONE he decides to look too, but especially the girl he’s after.
You immediately know his intentions when he starts talking about how he believes most women have a fantasy of forced intercourse after he talked about having followed her around. He wasn't just trying to get her to listen to his music.
I've also read that statistically most who do have been victims before, and it's a coping/taking power back thing. Very sad. Also if your past 18 and don't realize porn is catered to the viewer, and not the actors...well, hopefully they get knocked around accordingly
No woman likes forced Intercourse, I prefer having sex with a man or woman who actually deserves that treats me right and DOESNT CHASE ME LIKE A PSYCHOPATH but oh it’s okay bc his music was playing 😐
@@emma6648 Some people have forced intercourse fantasies (it's actually more common than you'd think), but those people want to live out those fantasies in controlled BDSM environments with someone they trust, not an actual forced intercourse scenario with a stranger. I completely agree that I don't think anyone *actually* wants that to happen (and if they do, they probably have some serious psychological issues).
@@dabordietrying you're not wrong. Probably because their actions are so absurd you'd think they came right out of the edgier side of a sitcom like Seinfeld. "Homophobic coomer that stalks girls and tries to get them to listen to music of him screaming" sounds like it's right out of a TV show and sounds objectively funny out of context imo
He thinks everyone agrees with it is why, he has some echo chamber somewhere or just literally no one near him to tell him otherwise. Good on the cop for trying to argue it, it's what everyone needs to do tbh
I really wish they would’ve told him more directly how unhinged his thought process is and that he needs to back off. They just pretty much said what they had to to get him out of their office but not enough to warn against his creepy behavior
um there are a lot of people like this sammy. I mean a LOT. its kind of how the world works. not saying everyone thinks like this guy about women but that a lot of people have this way about them where they have a delusional belief in something that is nonsense and they talk about it with such confidence and conviction and this sort of personality actually gets ahead of others in this world somehow. there are people you simply can not argue with. they have a belief in how something is and thats how they will always see it. this guy will always see women as this generalized idea. hes an incel. there are a lot of them in todays society. both male and female.
I am blown away by how this guy somehow manages to say the worst possible thing at every opportunity. It's like he's doctor strange looking through every universe to find out which combination of words would be the worst.
@MSMEG ll i really need to know if there's just been some collective nervous breakdown amongst youtube comment botters as of late because this is getting ridiculous
"You know what happens when women don't ever come to term with themselves? Bad shit happens." THIS IS FUCKING TERRIFYING. I am legitimately scared for this girl and I really hope that she stays safe.
Couple months ago some creep followed me in his car for several blocks, circling each block I was walking on like a vulture. I was so freaked out, I don't walk alone anymore. This was 12pm on a Wednesday, too so it's not even 'don't walk alone at night!~' So terrifying that this guy exists at all.
Charlie please do a follow up of this video. There’s been an update: After he went to the police, the police started an investigation on him. He’s been arrested for aggravated stalking and harassment. They’re currently looking for other victims of this nguy. Please spread the word so victims can report his bs behavior to the local authorities.
I had a stalker once and had to switch which bus I rode, but shout out to the guy on the bus who yelled at him to get lost when the stalker decided to sit so close he could lean over me and /drool/ on me. Help out your fellow man when you can, I'll forever be grateful to that guy for getting the stalker to scram at least that day
I've seen the videos of this creep before but never heard his "music" and I'm now somehow even more scared of him. Didn't even think that was possible.
that guy is so insecure he created an alternative reality where 'no' means 'she doesn't have free will' or 'she didn't have a reasonable opportunity to make a right choice'.
Psychos like this are the reason we have to be skeptical of any unknown man that speaks to us, or even looks at us. If we smile, or just say hi, it can trigger them into commiting a fatal crime or stalking situation.
In his mind, she cannot think for herself. Therefore, she can't feel threatened. He needs to be locked up immediately. Why do we wait until something actually happens to lock people up? He needs a psych evaluation pronto.
