Old Foreigner Discusses Western Men Who Marry Thai Bar Girls & Take Them Home 

I've got a bunch of stories of these fools building houses for these women here in Thailand and they get throwin out. They're not even bar girls. It's the older generation. The guys younger than me would never get married or bring them back to their home countries. You bring the Phillipinas back too and half of them run off. They were not even bar girls either. There's an old saying, "If it flies, floats or F'ks you're better off renting" . Don't marry western waaahmen either. They're toxic and end up divorce raping you.

Do you know of any books similar to this about the Philippines?

2 things that make a person the most vulnerable:greed and lonliness.

Hookers make the best wives

Often the men that do this are kind of lonely types who don’t have much luck with the ladies in their home country, or they’re older pensioners. Dare I say, some are flawed loser types (not at all saying this is always the case). But they’re not necessarily great guys all the time, as he describes in this video.

@@jeb419 If they have loads of money it helps a little. When you marry a bar girl, you are also marrying her penniless family. If the money runs out, so does the woman.

because he can't believe his luck that a man of his social standing and or looks or personality has access to such a variety of females.

Is that unusual? Do most women want to come to the US? I would think they would miss their family so much.

@@bunjijumper5345 Yes you are correct and no it isn’t unusual. There is a cohort of people out there that think everyone is desperate to go to the US and that the only reason a Thai woman would be with an American would be to get a green card. Not everyone wants to live in the US. I’m am American and even I don’t want to live in the US.

Thanks for your response. I thought the funniest part of the video was where he said men should have women sit in a freezer for an hour just so they can see what our weather is like. It just seems crazy to me that people would want to come from Thailand to where I live in upstate NY! I am so glad you found happiness there in such a great climate.@@martypoll

My Thai ex fiancee was the same, she didn't want to come to Australia. Family is so important to her. I couldn't see myself living in Thailand at the time, I worked in IT Infrastructure and nobody would be able to employ me, I didn't have lots of money to start a business. In the end she got a job in an English school in Bangkok and was cheating on me so there it ended.

Same with Canada. Canadian corrupted.

Nice to hear a story like that.

That's because he's wealthy.....

With a Latina you MIGHT pull it off if you live somewhere trendy - US examples = Los Angeles, Las Vegas, New York City or Miami (especially Miami). European examples = London, Rome, Madrid or Barcelona (especially Madrid and Barcelona). Forget it if you're from a cold, wet, second tier European city or some hick town.

@@timothyoreilly6675 Hick towns are full of Latinas

Not even Latina . I am Spanish 🇪🇸 and I miss my culture a lot. Same happens to Italians and Greeks

@@fatimateresa19 Thanks

@@fatimateresa19 Should I tell you?

Agreed. One of the best hidden story tellers out there.

It's all common sense he is reiterating! He's no genius--he has thought it out and he has had first hand experiences!

agreed.. and he has the right voice to go with... very pleasent listening to him !

I agree about his voice. He should be a book reader for books on tape. Some people just don’t sound pleasant.

Cigarettes included … 😂

Snuggle tooth. I keep staring at it.

Where can we listen to his music?

Don't you mean Keith Richard's dad?

it is the tooth and nothing but the tooth 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

you're very welcome

Thanks buddy

here's a playlist of every interview I've done with him ru-vid.com/group/PL8lk4tQnDinC4IXR48j7dUSUojDzkCzU9&si=QzMldk8omUVuFCAU

You right when honeymoon is over , all you got left is personality , if the woman doesn’t make you happy whenever you need to talk to someone, is not worth it no matter how pretty she is , she’s the devil in disguise

So they're marrying women 40 or 50 years younger than them, out of the goodness of their hearts? Yeah right.

Hi Pete, I’ll be in Bangkok with my partner from Dec 29-Jan 2 and was wondering if you know someone (who we would pay) to give us a half or full day orientation tour of the city on December 30? We’re staying at the Four Seasons by the river. I don’t know if Chris’ nephew would be available or if you know someone else. Thanks Pete and keep up the great work.

However, no money no honey, han$um man … 🎉

Thanks so much

I came to Thailand in the early 80's...Military.....many of my friends married Thai's back then and are still happily married......maybe 95%.....Yep, they were around the same age. Well said Thailand Thomas....cheers from an Aussie in Chiang Mai :)

Not a fan of the instant rushing to judgement of 'bar girls'. Far too many people that don't pause for just a moment to consider that they're all people first and foremost. Yes, there are some who are totally money focused, but the same can be said in many areas and sub cultures. More power to you that you went for it and it has worked out.

@@SeanHendyas with anything else. If you heard someone was a hitman would you have preconceived notions about that person? What about a bank robber? What about an alcoholic? What about a monk? If it has 99% of a change to happen because 99% of the time it happens with said person with said background… it’s safe to assume you won’t be the 1% that lives happily ever after with a fully tatted, drinks every night, 35 year old with 3 kids in buriram living with auntie, and has had 27 guys in her this week alone… we all judge. That’s what makes us human and intelligent is being able to spot danger ahead. You ever met a bar girl in Pattaya? How about a 35+ year old bar girl been doing it since she was 16? They develop a brain and system of life that is immune to things a girl that’s 25 and had one bf and grew up in the you try that just graduated from college. It is what it is. No hate, no disrespect, just a point of view from my eyes and thoughts

@@portlandGTR Interesting comparison, but with respect, not really comparable or relevant. Let me explain. Of course there are seasoned pros that have been in the game a long time, and it is far too easy to throw all in the same stereotype. They're also quite easy to spot. What is interesting is that if you (not you personally of course), the proverbial you, walk around with your eyes open and are observant, as well as being able to judge people well, you will know that there are a lot of such women, who are not there for a career as a bar girl. The turnover is very high. Many don't last long. One of the biggest take aways is a comparison of the industry with that which exists in the west. You would almost never hear of someone in the industry dating someone they 'met at work', let alone marrying them and starting a family, yet in Thailand, for many, that is their end goal, and it is a path that is well established. I think that is my main point, is that people from the west, often bring their own preconceived ideas with them, based on what they know from home, without understanding that the culture in Thailand is very different indeed. I've heard many a sob story of men that have been completely taken in, and taken advantage of, even saw a fellow tourist, now a friend of more than 14 years, absolutely fall for the girl he met, but, and maybe it is just me, I've had a very interesting life, and a very interesting career path, dealing with people from all walks of life in a myriad of circumstances, but people open up to me. I've had detailed conversations with many, telling me that they've been married before, some that have a kid back home, others, for whom this is (at that time) genuinely their first season. I know what you're thinking, but seeing how the bar manager was coaching the newbies, confirmed who was new, who was experienced etc. I did actually, on my last stay, take the manager out a few times, and stay at her place, I genuinely got the inside scoop of a lot of things. To close, you are right, in your example, the fully tatted, drinks every night, is seasoned. Being able to afford loads of tattoos, the money has to come from somewhere, and we know where. Drinks every night, 35 yrs old, loads of tattoos, those are 3 red flags straight away. Avoid at all costs.

@@SeanHendyeveryone is different, and can never paint everything with the same brush. It’s possible to get lucky and find a good girl, but I don’t go to a tire shop to buy milk. I’ve definitely taken a few back with me to my condo and enjoyed every single one of those encounters. I have respect for them all even if I wouldn’t get into a relationship with one.

absolutely mate, definitely more to come

I agree man. I was stationed in baumholder, for out 4 years ago and planned on staying in country because I didn't care for america. But I knew 💯 that it wouldn't work for me bringing a girl back to the states into a culture where she has no social, cultural support. I can adapt anywhere, i don't expect the same of the women I deal with

Thank you!

Please elaborate

Rapidity of finding, and using, a variety of good vocabulary. And he uses lilting tones, even in English. But 'being fluent' to many people is not often really being fluent.

@@andyharpist2938 I'm fluent in Thai sir

@@PaulWalliswriter Then you are special Paul. And have a unique gift that is the envy of many others. To achieve complete mastery of a language is a rare thing. I wonder what you might say is the key to learning? Marrying it might be a great help. Congratulations.

Cheers mate

Not full time bud, someday though

Cheers Liam, back in Ireland now looking forward to Christmas. Wedding was great craic here’s a video we made ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9bbkRs5E1og.htmlsi=_CRBqiOGgqGUtAem in true Thairish Times fashion the day was a mix of Thai and Irish culture

you’re American 100% only yanks mention lucky charms and think the world knows what they are😂

Haha that would be a sell out

@@ThairishTimes Yes , but think of the billboards.

lucky

Things have changed a lot from the 70s. Those days are gone!

I hope he treated her like a queen back

Complain about the bar and club girls in your own country, yet go to other countries and hit the bar and clubs, this is hilarious! Engaging in sex tourism still makes you a garbage person.....

38 years in Thailand and not even 1 visit to the dentist 😂

He likes soup only

What are you on about mate? His tooth looks fine to me.

@@shadmo8629 55555

@@shadmo8629-Excellent. Think positive.

cheers mate

And a drug test would account for the beady bloodshot eyes.

Quiet desperation is the English way ..

Give it a rest putz...if he doesn't care about his "denatl health" why do you?

And stop smoking. So many farang men in Thailand smoke … ☠️

I do enjoy listening to Paul, but having a pop at us baldies, there is nothing you can do about losing your hair (apart from wearing a wig or a comb over) but you can do something with your teeth, I'm sure a lot of women would prefer a guy with teeth than no hair ......😁

​@@theflatulentfreddy1🙄