On the Sofa: The saddest news.

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This is a sad video....please don't watch it if you are feeling low or fragile.
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@cynthiafisher9907 Год назад

I remember your sister in a video you did about a holiday you had together, somewhere near the sea, I believe. I remember I thought she was beautiful and you had such fun together eating chips, as you call them. I’m sure you have many lovely memories of her and of spending fun times together. I feel your sadness and grief through the screen and I’m so sorry you lost such a wonderful, dear friend. You seem to have an extremely healthy mental outlook on loss and the process of grief, so I won’t give you any advice. I will just say I’m feeling your pain and I wish I could bring her back for you.

@susanward2085 Год назад

❤As an only/lonely child, now older than dirt, today I learned from you what having a sister is like. How blessed you were and how blessed you will continue to be, with Combined Sister Day now every day in your heart.❤ Live each moment in the moment, just being you. Let Life continue to express itself through you, whether through words, action or silence, as raw and honestly as Life itself is. Those of us who took the time to click on our first video of yours, and took the time today, are all sending you our love…

@wyyeti4004 Год назад

Oh Vivi, I am so sorry to hear about your sister’s passing. Please accept my deepest condolences. It had to be extremely difficult for you to make this video. I realize RU-vid is an income stream for you…but take the time you need. I know I’ll be here when you return. Many blessings to you & prayers for your heartache. Kind regards.

@willowgrove631 Год назад

Oh Vivi, I’m so very sorry to hear you lost your precious sister. Please be extra kind to yourself over the coming days, weeks & onwards. Sending much love to you ❤️

@portiabrown2913 Год назад

So sorry Vivi. Please look after yourself now. Prioritise you and your family, we will wait and wish you love and strength. xxx

@nataliecolbert5790 Год назад

Dear Vivi, There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss.😢

@deannaczernon3826 Год назад

My deepest condolences VIvi. Take all the time you need. We can be entertained by your older videos until you're ready. Take care ❤

@RN-mn3jn Год назад

God bless you as you grieve the loss of your beloved sister. 🙏 She is no longer in pain & that is a blessing. Loss of a loved one is a difficult journey. Your sister, I'm sure I was so thankful for all the support & love you gave her. You take the time you need... talk about her...mention her in the garden....we got you! We will be here supporting you in any way we can.

@traceyelliott2902 Год назад

Beautiful Vivi, I'm so deeply sorry for the loss of your sweet sister. Take good care of yourself, physically and emotionally and know that we, your fan base, will be here when you're ready to continue. Many hugs, prayers and good thoughts to you!

@tonisaylor1507 Год назад

Oh, Vivi, I’m so sorry for your loss. Hoping you find comfort in all those sweet memories of your sister. Sending you hugs and lots of grace as you learn your new normal. 💔💞🩷

@primrozie Год назад

Oh Vivi 😞 I'm so sorry you are going through this. It sounds like you were a huge support for her. Sharing someone's suffering is a very precious intimate experience but one that demands all your strength. Please take extra special care of yourself now and take the time you need. Prayers for comfort and God's peace.

@fionasmith4368 Год назад

Dear Viv I am sorry for your dear Sister. How brave you are for sharing. Give yourself all the time you need and will see you again when you're ready ❤

@helengraham6896 Год назад

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Glad you had that time with your sister before she passed away. My younger sister died very suddenly last September, I hadn't seen her for a while and it was so sudden I didn't even get to see her in hospital before she passed. Memories can make us sad but are wonderful for keeping the love alive. Thinking of you during this very difficult time ❤

@donnalafleur574 Год назад

So sorry for your loss, Vivi. Big hugs

@samanthal562 Год назад

Oh dear Vivi. I’m so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful friendship you two had and lots of memories that no one can take away. Sending you all my love xx

@acolourist1798 Год назад

Sending you lots of Love and a hug Vivi.🙏 may you find peace as much as you are able through the grieving process. ❤

@antoniaparsons7457 Год назад

oh vivi my heart breaks for you! i am sending you so much love.

@debchoate4510 Год назад

Oh Vivi, my deepest condolences. Hearing your grief in your voice is heartbreaking. 48 years ago today my brother was killed an accident, we were both in our teens and “fric and frac” in our shenanigans. A pain that is revisited each year on this date. Sisterly love is a blessed love, only sisters understand. My sister and I are extremely close even in our senior years. Please take care and take the time you need in walking through your grief, I’m sure you feel lost in the “what next” without her to talk to. Love and Peace sent from my heart ❤️

@alisonwheeler8929 Год назад

So sorry to hear about your sister Vivi. You are very brave to talk about this. Your words at the end about finding time to be happy are important . My husband died when I was 48, 8 years ago . Me and my daughters, then 13 , talk endlessly about him with great happiness. You are quite inspirational. X

@Txnative7 11 месяцев назад

So sorry to hear about your loss! I too, lost my only sister, then 3 mths later, lost my brother, 3 mths after that lost my dear mother. If that wasn't enough, 2 mths after all that, was diagnosed with cancer. I'm now 6 yrs cancer free. I wish you and family the best. One day at a time.

@WhatVivididnext 11 месяцев назад

Oh my goodness lovely, what an incredibly hard, horrible time you have been through. I really hope you have been surrounded by the best of friends to support you. 💖 I am sooooooooo glad you are free of it now. XXX

@teresa9613 Год назад

Oh Vivi, you have my deepest condolences. My mom died 1 day before my birthday, so I understand you feelings on that. I had breast cancer and a double mastectomy shortly before, and it was all just too much. July is going to be a very hard month for you now for some time, until the sharpness wears off, and that will take a good number of years before you won't feel like you are gasping for air. One of life's sad ironies is how a time you looked forward to so much as kids (birthdays-yay!) can cause so much pain now. Much love to you from USA.

@sally-anndelf6453 Год назад

So, so sorry Vivi, for your sad news. Much love to you ❤

@sunflowermarcia7277 Год назад

Hugs and prayers.

@alisonaustin7299 Год назад

So very sorry to hear this, Vivi. Don’t read any messages that start out to be unpleasant. Just “Block” “block “block”. You don’t need to read them. Remember to live the life your sister would want for you xx

@kathylester651 Год назад

I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. My father and I shared a birthday (one day apart), and losing him was difficult even more so on our birthdays, so I can relate to your extra sadness at this time. They say great grief is the price of great love. What a blessing to have shared the love. You and your family will be in my prayers in the days ahead. ❤

@khamalianawawi7915 Год назад

My condolences to you and your family, Vivi. May your sister rest in peace.

@ansievicente Год назад

Big big hugs Vivi. Losing a sibling was the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. May you find peace xx

@juliahawthorn3122 Год назад

Viv I'm so sorry for the loss of you cherished sister. All my love julia

@Early100 Год назад

So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️ take care Vivi, don’t forget to “just be” x

@joanrevell5767 Год назад

There are no words to express how sorry I am to hear your sad news. Your life is now going to take a different path. But you will find peace again. Your sister will remain in your ❤️. Nobody can remove love and memories.Big hugs coming your way from me. Xxxxxxxx From someone who has lost husband and son xxxx

@jennyconroy1658 Год назад

So sorry for your loss,sending my sincere condolences to you Vivi. Please take care of yourself xxx

@kathywood1994 Год назад

I am so sorry Vivi. Your in my thoughts lovely xxx

@chorky2 Год назад

Oh Vivi, I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss it’s so brave of you to do this video. I’m sending you my love I lost my beautiful husband to cancer it’s such a cruel disease. Your in my thoughts. Heather

@sarahshuff5537 Год назад

😊😊😊

@mariadaly4673 Год назад

I'm so very sorry to hear about your sister my heartfelt condolences to you and your loved ones ❤❤❤

@paulinehughes8548 Год назад

Tell them it’s none of their bloody business and flock off…xxx

@jennifermartin6917 Год назад

I'm so sorry for your loss, thinking if you and yours at this sad time ❤

@deannastmarie4121 Год назад

So very sorry for your loss Vivi, your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I know you are cherishing the memories. 🙏❣🙏❣🙏

@foggidew Год назад

I'm so sorry,

@lydiabehar4465 Год назад

Vivi, I’m so sorry for the enormous heartache you’re going through. But as you said your sister is no longer suffering. My mother passed in 2004, my husband in 2015 and my father this past January. So I understand what you’re experiencing. Sometimes people feel uncomfortable when you talk about a loved one passing. But we need to be able express what we’re feeling and going through. And definitely talked about the one that’s passed. This is part of the healing process. If you need to do videos talking about your sister, please do so. Those of us that understand will listen and be there for you.

@JAYNEmM1962 Год назад

Im so so sorry for your loss! Hugs

@beckyalberti8823 Год назад

Love to you Vivi. I feel your loss. My Mothers BD was the 3rd, she had cancer & has been gone over 30 years. My brother died in the middle of the night of the 4th and 5th from heart failure a few years ago. My sister passed a few years ago. My family all gathered on the 4th for for most of my life to celebrate the our Independence Day celebration with parades and fireworks and food and cousins etc. Being from America here, it was out time to gather. Hard days ahead for you. I feel you. A roller coaster of emotions. Do you as only you can do you. Allow yourself happy moments as the sad moments will come unexpectedly. We never really move on and get over it. We learn to adjust. Grieve your way of grieving, it will never look like someone else's way. This is a tough one. Hugs across the pond. Tell someone to squeeze you tight for me.

@helenprocessofgrowing8007 Год назад

How heartbreaking for you and how brave to share this very sad news.I can only try to imagine how this must be so hard for you to do. Sending you heartfelt condolences ❤

@DottieandSqueak Год назад

❤ So sorry for your loss. Look after yourself and your family. X

@marionbyrne9765 Год назад

Oh Vivi im so sorry. So brave of you to share this sad news. She’s peaceful and your love and memories will be with you forever. ✌️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@patrycjas.9725 Год назад

I had a feeling the last time you took a break from YT - it was about something serious. I just want to write you that I hug you from the bottom of my heart. I, at the age of 20, lost my mum to cancer. And I know that feeling of relief that she won't suffer anymore. I hope your suffering is at least a little relieved by the fact that good, warm thoughts and words of support are coming to you from all over the world. Vivi, we are your tribe. A little strange, because it is a virtual tribe - but it is true. Remember this and let us know how we can support you. Hugs from Poland. ❤❤❤

@mysticmom616 Год назад

I am so very, very sorry. You are under no obligation to us to explain anything about your life and I’m sorry people have made you feel that way. Take as much time as you need to start to heal emotionally. We will be here. I am praying for you and your family. 💔❤️(((hugs)))

@gillyjaynes8558 Год назад

So very very sorry Vivi. ❤

@shamancarmichael5305 Год назад

I very proudly helped with a fundraiser for McMillan Cancer Care back in March, so I hope some of that went towards comforting you and your family Vivi. Much love, ❤❤🤗🤗

@lindafaywhite776 Год назад

So sorry for your loss vivi my heart is with you ❤❤

@lynnlaw7770 Год назад

Vivi I'm so very sorry to hear such sad news. Although I know I don't actually know you please know that you're in my thoughts. Sending love to you x x

@michelesmart4799 Год назад

The silver lining in all of this is that you and your sister had the blessing of feeling and receiving unconditional love. That is a priceless gift and I’ll be thinking of you, Vivi ❤

@barbaraford8153 Год назад

I'm so sorry to hear Your Sad News Vivi, I feel for You. My Sister also passed away from secondary Cancer back in 2013 & by a strange coincidence it was on the Day before My Birthday! She was My Rock & always there for Me in times of trouble, right from when We were small Children. Take Care of Yourself.

@dogshowlife575 Год назад

You owe no one an apology. Your videos are a gift and when you send them out to the world we are grateful. This is one of the most fundamental human experiences and affects you forever and you are allowed to live this exactly the way you need to live it.

@lindacribbin6119 Год назад

My heart goes out to you Vivi. We lost our youngest sister suddenly afew years ago and her first grandchild was born on the date she died a year later . xx

@DaisyDreamer72 Год назад

Oh Vivi, I'm so incredibly sorry. Unfortunately the incredible pain you feel is the price you pay for the incredible love you had for your sister 😢 Take time out and be gentle to yourself. Sending you love xx

@jacquiemoppett2391 Год назад

I am so sorry for your loss. Cancer is a dreadful thing. I lost my Mother and ny Husband to it. I know it us not much solice to think at least the are out of pain. I was grateful for that. I am sending you all my heartfelt prayers 🙏 🙏 🙏 and as big a hug❤ as i can. I know the loss of losing an only sister. You will be in my thoughts these coming days. Take all the time you need we be there for you.😢

@kerrybyers257 Год назад

That deep love was her final gift to you…..a truly precious gift.

@sandrabryan9106 Год назад

Oh Vivi, my heart goes out to you. I too have been dealing with two unexpected family deaths the last few weeks. It's hard time but hold onto the happy memories. Next week, I will be reunited with my children and grandchildren and we will be taking some much needed time in the mountains for the peace we all need right now. Take care

@carolynbakers2777 Год назад

Vivi, if we could wrap our arms around you and say how very sorry we are for the loss of a special sister we would.Glad that your friends Paul ,Richard and Gary are there for you at this sad time. As for the people who are writing about the moving issue it's nothing to do with them it's your life and they need to grow up and get a life themselves Take care of yourself.💌

@kathyroberts5870 Год назад

I am so sorry for your loss. Glad you took time to spend time with her. I have lost many of my family due to Cancer . My sister just got her daughter ,my nieces headstone today. My niece fought a brave battle and she told her Mom she was tired and wanted to go home, so she went into Hospice and died in October.

@WhatVivididnext Год назад

Oh Kathy, my heart breaks for you and your family. x

@kathrynmaxson6907 Год назад

Peace to you, Vivi and to your family. Siblings are often the longest relationship we have in life so the loss of one hits hard. 💐

@amandaneale5180 Год назад

Sending a big hug so sorry for your big lose xx

@akkedegroot4883 Год назад

Sending you love and the strenght to cope with your huge loss. Loosing someone so close hurts like mad.

@carolineduncan1674 Год назад

Dearest vivi I'm do sorry for your sad news You bring so much companionship for me, just being there,chatting I do hope you know how much your 'followers'are here for you, wish I could do so much more Gentle steps lovlie x

@marcyjrtmom8139 Год назад

Vivi I am so very sorry. So glad you had such love and happy memories with her. Take care.

@vixxcottage Год назад

We all have challenges to deal with and no one knows our personal struggles. For anyone to criticize you for " not moving fast enough" is ridiculous. I have learned we can only do so much. We need time to process and make decisions. Your sister was a priority andthat is normal. Never apologize for living your life. Videos are a bonus never expected. I am sorry you have had to go through this terrible loss.

@bigmama2135 Год назад

Dear Vivi, I am so very sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. I lost my darling Mam 7 months ago and still the grief ebbs and flows and yes, life does go on but never in quite the same way. Death reminds us of the brevity of life and as Charles Dickens wrote in 1843 "we are all fellow passengers to the grave" so carpe diem and enjoy our brief moment in the sunshine. May your peace be in your cherished memories.

@soulexplorer76 Год назад

I'm so sorry for your loss Vivi! 😢Sending you love ❤

@jennil7797 Год назад

Thinking of you, dear Vivi. It IS important to be happy, but any followers that are here for genuine reasons will understand if you have a wobbly moment in the weeks to come. Take care of your emotional needs and do what is right for you.

@TaterFarm Год назад

Oh, Vivi - heartfelt prayers and deepest condolences for your loss! Wrapping you up in virtual hugs and love from Georgia, USA! Take your time and take good care of yourself!

@carolwhite6979 Год назад

dear Vivi, Please accept my most sincere snd deep condolences on the passing of your sister. I am Lifting up you, your family and all those who know and love her and are missing her today. . May she fly free! ❤️🙏🏻🕯🙏🏻❤️🕊 These days are so hard and so precious. grief is such a hard hard journey.... Sending you love snd support and big big hugs from the prairies. 🇨🇦 yes life goes on . Let us be grateful, make this most of our days

@shirefinds6585 Год назад

Vivi, I'm so very sorry. I just want to hug you and tell you - in time all will be well. Your sister was blessed to have a wonderful, caring sister like you. Really, you were blessed to have each other. Take time out Vivi and feed back in when you're ready. Sending you a big hug 🙏💚.

@escapepatch Год назад

Condolences Vivi. Horrible, horrible news. Thank you for letting us know. Thinking about us (viewers) at this time is very considerate, very caring, very you. A trait I'm sure your sister loved about you too. Take care of yourself. ❤

@monicaram2379 Год назад

There are no words of comfort I can offer to you as I don’t believe they can exist when losing a loved one. I do believe that the best way we can be remembered is with a smile and a laugh- because don’t we all want be a beloved memory. Happy to know that your sister is a beloved memory.

@jacquelinesanders2539 Год назад

At the moment your grief will feel huge, to overwhelming to cope with. But each day it will become infinitesimal smaller. It never leaves us but will become part of us. You heart will smile again.❤

@christinekeay8456 Год назад

So very sorry for the loss of your dear sister 💙

@gillianmeehan3206 Год назад

Oh dear, such sad news, I'm so sorry for your loss. You had enormous strength to record this

@LittlePinkPiggy1 Год назад

I clearly remember your videos where you talked about the wonderful relationship you had with your sister and this news is beyond sad. So sorry for you Vivi.

@omfug7148 Год назад

My condolences Vivi, I lost my sister 40 years ago when she was only 25, we were almost twins, I think of her often. Your sister lives on in your love of her, and the time that the 2 of you had together.

@user-lp1uy4tw6p Год назад

Dearest Vivi, so sorry to hear of your sad loss. Please take comfort in the love you shared and memories forged together. Watch your Auntie Teapots trip to Kent video and have a good weep. Sending love xx

@marilyndenler1370 Год назад

Dear Vivi, when my husband died this past Dec 27th a dear friend told me this “ death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal”. Hold fast to your precious memories of your beautiful sister❤. Sending caring hugs to you🌹🌹

@Dwynfal Год назад

Oh Vivi, I am so sorry. I hope you can take some solace knowing you gave her your all and she is not in pain anymore. Losing those we love is so hard. Take all the time you need to regroup, your RU-vid family will be here when you are able to come back. My Irish Wolfhound, who must be your biggest fan (he's glued to the TV whenever I play one of your videos!) will be pacified with a few re-runs 😊 Please know that you don't need to be happy and bubbly for us to appreciate you. You are human, and interesting, just like those who follow you...

@WhatVivididnext Год назад

Thank you lovely. Aww, Wolfies are my favourite dogs.....you've put a smile on my face letting me know he 'watches'. 😊

@MsSherrydarling Год назад

I'm very sorry for your loss😪. You take the time you need to grieve and we will be here.

@jolostinEasbyAbbey Год назад

I'm so sorry Vivi. Love & hugs to you.❤

@jackiehiebert7064 Год назад

My heart breaks for you. Oh Vivi.

@annpearce97 Год назад

So sorry for your loss, I lost a sibling to it a few years ago he was 52😢 there's always an ache but in time the good memories push the sad one's down ❤ give yourself time and be kind to yourself

@sandrinefresne6575 Год назад

So sorry for your loss . Last month My husband has just lost one brother too . Sad times indeed. 😢

@atwoodan Год назад

Oh, Vivi. Sending love and deepest sympathy. Anne

@annecasillas5402 Год назад

Dear Vivi, I am sending you as much love and strength as I can to you and all your family during this tender time. May the healing be gentle and flow continuous to you all.💜💜💜

@Emily-xf8vh Год назад

This really is such sad news. Genuinely heartbroken for you. Sending so, so much love to you and all of your family. Please take care of yourself ❤❤❤

@kerrybyers257 Год назад

I just felt something was happening 😢. I’m so very, very sorry. Your pain is palpable. I wish I could give you a warm hug. A true genuine hug from across the pond. 🙏🙏❤️

@stormyweather2807 Год назад

God rest her, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss Vivi. You were blessed to have one another, and if you feel led to talk about her in the future I think we'd all love to hear your stories.

@kirstenlind-pedersen5184 Год назад

Dear Vivi, I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

@lyndsaywilliams2540 Год назад

So sorry for your loss sending you so much love xxx

@ACanadianBee Год назад

Very difficult times indeed. Losing a loved one who is very dear to us is crushing. My sister has a melanoma which has masticized being the brain is mostly affected. He has just entered hospice care which heartbreaking in itself. God will help you during your grieving and do grieve for as long as needed. Take care of yourself hun. ❤❤

@ireneobrien7149 Год назад

Hi Vivi I am so sorry to hear about your sister. I know what you are going through it’s really tough I lost my brother in September and I still miss him. When you are not feeling good just try and remember all the good times you had together and I know it will help you to get through the dark days ❤❤

@lynnoorman2144 Год назад

So sorry for your loss. I'm sure she is very proud of the way that you are stoicly carrying on. Look after yourself and thank you for being brave enough to share your sad news. Your viewers will wait for you, when you feel you can communicate again.

@mariagillinson8527 Год назад

Just amazing how we can feel the love through all the pain. She’s at rest and would want you to be ok and carry on.

@alexstecher9822 Год назад

Im so very sorry. Grief is the price we pay for abundant love and you and your sister had strong love and connection. Thinking of you

@carlagarrett8584 Год назад

So much to keep in to yourself, such a sadness. I have lost two siblings in the past 6 years, and a nephew, it's so overwhelming. I hope that you will gather friends and family, I know your mom must be devastated too. Sending love and healing.