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Inka Demko what is his mom wearing

@@aiden4893 there is liking clothes, and there is thinking you know enough to dictate what a bride should wear!

@@lozzylols that's more about controlling and not so much fashion

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HAHAH I LOVE THIS COMMENT

My exact thoughts

Exactly!

I know right? Maybe he does in men's clothing, but his "preferences" did NOT apply to those dresses.

Right! He doesn’t like “lace and straps and too much dress”....well apparently he does not like wedding gowns. I give this marriage a year tops.

So many red flags, he's already instructing her on what to wear, I bet he hates make up, and can't stand most of her friends and family. Dear young lady, please run ...now!

My husband wouldn't dream of it... 15 years ago or now. He married a strong willed woman on purpose.

There's no need to apologize.

If he has to tell her what to do, then it seems like he might not even like her for who she is, wanting to change her completely to make himself "the perfect wife"

Me either

Now he is a winner!!!

Aww

My fiance is the same way I can not wait to be married

notoriousPeanut couldn’t have said it better

Your profile pic makes this comment even better 😂

Amen sister, preach

So absolutely agree

100% Truth

📢YES PREACH 🗣

Love is Not about controlling, manipulation, jealousy, or trying to dominating.

So is the mother in law. Feel sorry for the girl.

EXACTLY

Every time he gets mentioned her face drops x

I understand some people’s desire to elope, but she doesn’t exactly seem excited about it. As a wedding planner you’re telling me she never once had this idea in her head of what HER wedding was going to be like? He’s isolating her. And the control he feels he has to have even though he isn’t there? And getting his mother to enforce those rules in his absence? It’s disgusting.

I know. As annoying as those bossy "fox in the henhouse" guys are - and they really are - I dislike Jordan a lot more than them, because he doesn't even have the balls to show up, and sends his mother instead. The other guys usually end up giving in at the end on at least one or two aspects of what they THOUGHT they wanted or didn't want because they can still admit they don't know everything or control everything. This guy, it's like he going to control by remote, taking no chance on having his edicts publicly called into question.

Every dress I tried on I know my husband would have loved because all he cared about was marrying me.

If I had been his mother, I would have told him to keep his mouth shut. The wedding dress is for the bride. Bride is already giving up her day for mister i don't want a wedding. Maybe she will have a better wedding next time.

The first two dresses were beautiful. The last one not so much but HIS mother liked it. Trouble ahead there girl.

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He should just be appreciative that a nice woman is willing to marry her lol

Exactly!

That’s totally abuse. Get rid of Jordan!

@th1smomentisfate you mean "Monster in law" lol

I swear I read this and instantly thought of Chris Watts. His mother acted the same as well.

oof definitely. dated one for 4 years. 🙄

Kassi Amen

I'm glad my one day mother in law and I are like best friends.

That is true

Madisen Fitzpatrick yup, there is NO wedding if my man was like that

Something she should've probably done...

Same!

I know right. I've been married 28 years. My husband was so happy we were getting married that we talked briefly about the men's tuxedos (he wanted to know if we were doing tuxes or suites. Went and got measured and was happy to let my mom and i plan the rest. My mom didn't want him to see my dress at all until i came down the isle. She had the photographer take a photo of his face at the exact moment. It was WONDERFUL. My man is not critical or manipulating. He's my better half, not my boss.

On god dude

Valid point

Could not roll my eyes more.

That’s a giant difference. He is way too controlling and is too specific about what fabrics.

not even men’s fashion, he worked in a men’s clothing store. *A C L O T H I N G S T O R E* bruhhhhhhhhhh

@@Eliana-ew1ng peppa? What are you doing here??

Who do you think raised him like that?

That’s what I was thinking!! I was blown away that his mom was allowing his behavior and actually encouraging it

Obviously the father is that way and raised him that way. Of course the mother condones it.

She obviously raised an entitled and spoiled son.

Everyone who is watching this knows she's making a huge mistake.

Penina Hoch yep

@@unknownlover6703 Yes, in school, there were these posters warning about red flags for teen dating violence. 1. Controlling what you wear 2. Isolating you from friends and family 3. Making you financially dependent on them. I wouldn't doubt *for a single second* he has put ber in that position already by now. He seems dangerous.

sinlobo84 I feel bad for her if it doesn’t work ☹️🤦‍♀️

Moms reaction when mom in law mentions hes very opinionated about what he likes and doesnt like....🤔 mom knows......

I'm so sorry for what you and your family went through! Are you all okay now? If you don't mind me asking. Sorry if that's too personal!

Please know that there are now many people here sending prayers and hugs to you. The good that came out of your upbringing is that you know what you do NOT want and will NOT accept, so best wishes for a happy life with someone you really love and who loves you unconditionally.

So sorry to hear your story. Did your parents stay married may I ask? Are you okay now?

Oh my dear,that is so tragic!! I was in a family were my dad was mentally ill,and can identify!!!

I’m so sorry that you and your family endured such abuse. I hope you all are on a path to healing. ❤️‍🩹

It must be awful toe both of them, the mum and the daughter.

@@destinyrexya i gave them half year. He must be a control freak. If the girl had a little steght she never say yes to him :(

Everyone hates the guy but remember, she also consented to marrying him after knowing how he is. Can’t just hate on him 😂

electric nachos I agree with the fact that this man seems... not very likable, to say the least. However I‘m not sure that her reactions were actually like that - these types of TV shows tend to edit it in a way to make people’s‘ reactions seem way more dramatic, than they actually were, sometimes switching different clips to make up new situations.

electric nachos I think the mother was just forcing it to much and the groom really just wants her to be happy and the mother was pushing the ideas on her which adds more pressure

I wonder if it's the groom or the mother in law

Omg yes.

Lol

Lmao!

You are so right!

Lol

I'm betting when he saw the dress himself he went "ugh I told her no lace bodice!"

Don't forget, because he worked at a retail store, he now knows EVERYTHING about fashion.

probably that means Target.

literally my thoughts

Lol I haven’t heard anything more ridiculous

Exactly

Amen!

lololol

Run girl. Now. She's still so young the day she finds her voice it's not going to go down well with mr control freak

Amen so true

Sure enough

Maybe dad's the same

This does not bode well for the bride.

I'm sure her mom is panicking enough for all of us

Scary!!!

The manipulation and grooming have already begun. The fact that she is willing to exclude her entire family from the wedding..this has more red flags than China and Russia combined...

Vered Cookie it’s his wedding too though, he probably just thinks that that what looks good on her and what she would feel comfortable in

Vered Cookie brides usually pick the tuxedos and colors and everything, maybe he just would like a say so

Exactly. My husband has no fashion sense but I told him to go pick out what he wanted to wear, I didn't choose for him because it was his wedding too. And it seems so weird to me to pick someone else's clothes myself. Heck I even let the bridesmaids pick their own dresses just the color and length is all I chose.

If its just the two of them. She should just pick what she wants.

Kaylee Calhoun Shiiiiiiiiiit, the min a man tells me what I can or can’t wear, is the day fucking pigs will fly. We’re in America women do what the fuck we want and how we want. I be damned if I will allow any man to control me.

PrEaCh, sISter!!!

You said it for me.

Right!!! Can we say future abuser

I bet he is making her leave her family out.

SunnySide Up 🤣🤣🤣

I know what you mean.....

Unless she doesn't mind being submissive, as she showed from this video. Or maybe just way too naive?

@@jklfds85 No excuse. Emotional abuse is emotional abuse.

@@crow6221 literally. Being submissive only works in bed sometimes for fun and some fantasy stuff. No other excuse.

@@idlkrky Exactly.

meme fabulous You are absolutely correct....I wish this bride had that kind of personality....nobody should allow someone else to dictate their life....That is toxic.

me too i already had a control freak boyfriend

Foreal..the only thing he can say that I'll let slide is BABY DONT HIDE THE CURVES LOL😂🤦🏽‍♀️

I already did it in my life...he used to poke his nose in every matter of my life..so I broke off my wedding

@@suchetabasak9598 good you deserve better i had a controlling boyfriend told me what to wear and do and i dumped him

Monty was a hair stylist before he became a wedding consultant.

I honestly think Jordan is in the closet. Just me?

Right? "He used to be assistant manager at Men's Wearhouse so basically he's Lazaro."

AMEN sister

Amen

He also sounds like the type to cheat when she gains 5 pounds then blame it on her

If shes not allowed to pick out her own wedding dress...yikes indeed.

Lost me at the fact her parents weren't allowed to come. Already distancing her from her family before the wedding even starts. Eek

Not On My Account neither of their parents come

@@pie4176 Yeah he wants them alone and her and her family clearly wanted to be together so it's kinda a red flag for me. just my opinion though :)

Right. His list of demands gave me a queasy feeling

Yep I was thinking this marriage is not gonna last the way he is putting restrictions on her she is gonna break free from him!

They won't last a year

Best comment ever!! Definitely because hubby is gonna come out the controlling closet!!

And the mom can attend the next wedding too

Hello Kitti Hes so funnyyy

Enabling and abetting (edit: like "aiding and abetting" but enabling, aiding definitely, and possibly abetting) - doing his bidding - probably how he was raised by the look of it... seems like she loves this role (of enforcer of "the rules of Jordan") otherwise is afraid of displeasing the son, but I doubt it... Unless he takes after someone else & she has no backbone to stand up to (him) either

No kidding. If my son EVER tried to pull any of this there would be hell to pay.

She looks so uncomfortable every time he’s brought up. Broke my heart.

He got it from somewhere and I bet it’s from her

That was just for drama, I'm convinced - typical "reality" show tactic. She looked very pretty in every dress, but that last one was a winner. I don't usually care for strapless gowns, but the way her long hair fell at the shoulders just seemed to make everything come together beautifully.

Tyler Curtis blinded by “love” and how long they’ve know each other and he’s probably “nice” rn but he’s gonna trap her and slowly get worse and worse..

@@castielbillius1973 yup, just the beginning. The noose will just get tighter from here on.

I agree but she is in love and she doesn't see what he's doing but I hope she will realise soon

Sounds like he could be abusive 😒

Control happens over time and you don't realise it before it's too late. Sadly from experience others realise this before you do. It's horrible and I truly hope she realises sooner rather than later.

Mary Schwarzer about the way her daughter is getting married*

@@aileenpdlla4136 No. Both. This guy is abusive and controlling. If I were the mother I'd be heartbroken for my daughter.

@@maryschwarzer2972 same

True! I feel for her as well

True it feels odd I couldn’t imagine getting married without my mom there... I bet you everything the fiancé didn’t want her family there and he does sound kinda controlling my guy would just love for me to be happy and would love me in whatever I wear. That guy sounds like a dick

Manipulation 101...Girl run!

I agree!

Ikr if that was me I'd leave his ass and that sounds like an abusive relationship

Be careful, girl.

Controlling Husband, controlling mother in-law. Run girl, run. Love is blind until reality hits you in the face. If he really loves her he wouldn't care what she wore, as long as she loves it. The guy is probably a big mamas boy, and mother in-law is probably a grade A Karen.

and she had his representative-his mother

Just because the husband wasn't in the room, doesn't mean it should be guaranty or generalized that the way he speak was true by what the others think he would say when he himself was not there to voice for himself. Julianne said in her Instagram that the producers was manipulating her and her family "to be more dramatic" by changing the way they speak. "Restate sentences" she said. The wedding was 5 years ago and she understood the video/show seems to show audience how they describe her husband like a manipulative or controlling person, but she firmly stays strong to believe her husband is not that kind of person. If you like, you may check more of her Instagram message in one of her wedding pictures.

Xbluestar3 While he may not be as controlling as it appears in the show, people in unhealthy relationships like that are more likely to see nothing wrong with it. He very well could be like this and she’ll probably think it’s normal

@@wiijuu93 True, it may or might seem she was too blind to know what's an unhealthy relationship that we see from this video alone. Even if she may say her relationship with him and his personality was not what people think he was because of whatever reason such as she stated the producers made her and her family speak to "be more dramatic" than how they normally speak. However, I think we can agree that basing off only the video or her Instagram does not generalize or guaranty the whole story of her life journey since we are not able to see her whole storyline in reality. She said in her Insta that her husband response on what dress he like her to wear was a completely different and opposite tone (personal opinion) compare to this video. Believe what you may, I do trust her message in her social media that she do understand what's an unhealthy relationship because she stated she understood and see why the video seems her husband was manipulated or controlling and agree it's not good.

And the moment she was saying, "I can just hear his voice in my ear saying 'No-'"

They just had their 5 year anniversary apparently

I HOPE it doesn't last long, if he was already this controlling BEFORE the marriage, she will have a horrible time with him

Is it cruel of me to say I hope it doesn't?

@@astrangermagi dude, they only get worse after marriage. Men lile this think they suddenly own you after marriage

Steph Tho girl are you okay?

This beautiful bride must get rid of fiance and his mom, please.

She sounds like she may be an abuser as well. He just takes after his mom. I'm worried for her.

@@diamondfranck8666 they’re expecting a baby together soon and have been married for years, doesn’t mean she’s happy

@@lollypop6577 doesn't mean she's not

I don't think she'd knows any better at her age

@@BlueDauntless If you read her blog, she's been diagnosed clinically depressed. Doesn't seem very happy to me.

Prob got that genetic gene from his enabling mother

HUGE RED FLAGS!

Lauren Clark ikr I’m actually worried about her

Lauren Clark ikr I’m actually worried about her

you dont know what hes like yet

Paige Garcia Like it’s ok for ya man to like certain fabrics and dislikes some but here he is forcing rules on her on what HE likes

I feel like it was the Mother in law being more controlling

I've been thru 10 years of domestic violence and serial stalking even after finally being able to leave and even had to deal with his family like this. Thankfully now I'm marrying my literal Best Friend in July and he is the POLAR OPPOSITE and so is his family. It makes me nervous for her. I even did the sign of the cross. Not joking

I was Soo uncomfortable watching this...the control was real...

Dia_Liz Good on you! I hope you have an amazing wedding✨

Yes...that was DEEP..🤔

My exact thought!!

Exactly just because Jordan worked in a men’s clothing store doesn’t mean he’s a professional stylist

Was just gonna say

Lol

To Meme or Not To Meme Lmfaooo

To Meme or Not To Meme 😂

Lilith Ruetz lmao

ikr.... He worked in a MEN'S fashion store. He don't know about women's clothing

To Meme or Not To Meme And his mom acts like the Sun rises and sets on him and his opinion.🤨

I agree , all the red flags are here-however deep down she knows-she just hasn't learnt to be strong, she's being a push-over*it is also no coincidence that her mother doesn't speak up when his bitchy mother offers her unwanted opinions, and it most certainly isn't a coincidence that his mother is as bad as him

Yup

I feel such anxiety for this marriage. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over the place.

They are good friends of Kara and Nate , one of my favourite travel vloggers. Julianne and Jordan joined them for their trips sometime.

Oh she knows shes just hoping he'll change when they get married....

Hell. Yes.

This made me spit out my drink, but you’re absolutely right! With any luck she’ll have a chance to wear a dress that SHE feels beautiful in. Additionally, nobody else will have any say in it!

Next husband will have Her freedom

Just us 2 You have to have Witnesses

And you know they'll be one...

I LOVE this comment 🤣🤣🤣😂😍

In my personal opinion, he can shove his opinionated fashion sense up his ass

@@carlatheron3946 I agree. God if my man did that to be I'd be like fuck you and leave his ass.

Im hollering at this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You could see how she loved all the dresses but when her mother in law dissaproved her face changes

i noticed that too

i thought it was more an annoyed expression

Scared....

Right! The guy sent his mommy there to make sure he gets his way. Creepy af

The look on her mother's face was like she wanted to scream "don't marry this walking red flag"

I am genuinely sad and scared for her. Red flags everywhere!

Super barf!! 🤢

I'm getting Edward/Twilight vibes- But if Edward was an abusive pos

Well the bride is enabling him too tbh, if you don't mind being disrespected then maybe you don't deserve better.

She should run. If I was the mom I would be running someone down with a gun in my hand and the number to the cemetery in the other hand. How much control can one person have?

Yes! This! He is amazing for sure❤️

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You got a good one. ✔️

as he should:)

GOD bless y'all. :)

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"Jordan has a sense of fashion" Yes, a terrible one

Yeah mom looked like she was over him already. Won’t last...

She was trying to say it a non rude way

Red flags of an abusive man. I've been there

and get his voice outta her head now

Exactly I almost married a man who mother was so controlling and manipulative, he was the biggest mamma boys. She already told me once I wasn’t raised properly I shrugged it off, I didn’t realize it until she told me what she said to her son in law., She told him if he ever did anything to her daughter (hurt her in any way) she would ship his body back home to his mother piece by piece. If she said it to him she would say that to me. I got out of the relationship real fast, that was My WAKEUP CALL he just didn’t see it.

@@marwatson7408 Good thing you left while you still could! Man. Why do people gotta be so toxic? 😖

@@dawnstar6727 Yes I’m glad I got out when I did😊😀.

Exactly - I was watching this with my jaw on the floor! My husband would never tell me what he wants me to wear ever, let alone on our wedding day! He thinks I'm beautiful no matter what I wear, in fact when I get all dressed up, he hardly even notices what I am wearing, he just reacts to ME. She is in for a life of criticism, control, and self-esteem bashing at the very least!

I like the way you think there person of the Internet.

Amen

😂 Basically

Yesss

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

And definitely not have kids with someone like that

yess..my husband said that too..hahahahha

Amen, girl! Marry that guy!

My husband said the samething,

Abigail Littrell Me too. Wonder if he’s started isolating her yet

Lmaooo

Agreed! 👌🏻

Same mann saaaaamme! 💀

💀

Ayyyy

Yip emotional abuse......

And the mother just has this "Karen hairstyle". That "let me talk to your manager" hairstyle.

He gets his opinions from his mother. Cast from the same cloth so they say. It's sooo obvious. The mother in law was there to control the bride in the absence of the groom. Sad! Imagine what happens behind closed doors.

Nikki Mathews i agree & the worst part is that she probably does realize it :(

Where do you think he learned it from? Dad and mom. Children learn what they live.

I'm honestly shocked at his mother. if my brother tried to dictate what my sister in law wears like this, my mother would be the first one to tell her to leave him. She certainly would never enable the situation.

@@nkosazanadweba7306 Exactly. It is so troubling that her own mother is standing by and letting her daughter be controlled about what she is allowed to wear on her own Wedding Day.

My friends and family would be like DO NOT MARRY HIM.

I do

Yeah

Aria The Trash Can I’ll go second ABUSIVE

Possessive

I'll go third : manipulative

CONTROLLING

Scary.