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Orthodox Jewish Couple Responds to Questions on Love and Intimacy 

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What's the one question you've always wanted to ask an Orthodox Jewish couple?
Why keep your love life so private?
Why such a divide between men and women?
Why so many kids?!
Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler of ‪@JewishGardens‬, Florida have a candid conversation about love, sexuality, and relationships. There are stats, advice, and most of all beauty to be learned from a Jewish marriage.
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Комментарии : 226   
@sanyogitachavan9825
@sanyogitachavan9825 Год назад
Although very familiar with Jewish culture, I didn’t know that observant Jewish folks didn’t shake hands. Few years ago I met an observant Jewish person and extended my hand to shake his. When told that he wouldn’t touch my hand and to not get offended, I smiled and said that I understood because in my culture we greet each other with a “namaste” 🙏🏼. I saw him again a few months later and he called out to me saying “Namaste 🙏🏼.” I thought it was so wonderful, thoughtful and respectful!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Wow, that's a really special story. Thanks for sharing!
@sistersistera
@sistersistera Год назад
I am not Jewish however what this couple says is so true. I enjoyed their talk so much. Thank you.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
You are so welcome! These kind of insights are universal!
@GillyFromPhilly
@GillyFromPhilly Год назад
I love how they look at each other. Not all googly-eyed, but full of respect.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
😊😊😊
@lilianacm
@lilianacm Год назад
I am Christian .I also have values ,but I have found your message very,very special! The way you talk,the way you LOVE each other is an example for all the world👍🌏! Thank you very much for sharing! May God bless you very much🙏🙏!!!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
🙏🙏
@MelissaKnoxwriter
@MelissaKnoxwriter Год назад
Love the way they look at each other. The trust.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Trust is so important!
@deanedubansky6923
@deanedubansky6923 Год назад
Now the whole world will see the beauty, the holiness, and intelligence of our incredible Rabbi and Rebbetzin. Through their examples, their teamwork, and their leadership, our Shul overflows with love, guidance, caring, learning, worship, compassion, holiness, kindness, and acceptance. Fantastic video. My sincere thanks and appreciation to you both.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
😊
@toddvoss52
@toddvoss52 Год назад
You are very lucky to have such a Rabbi and Rebbetzin
@superm70
@superm70 Год назад
Stunning I'm Christian and this is such stunning advice and a wonderful couple
@sistersistera
@sistersistera Год назад
This couple gave me so much to meditate on.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
That's great to hear!
@sandypeters5790
@sandypeters5790 Год назад
I’m so happy to have heard both of you!! You are a beautiful couple, with a beautiful family and synagogue. I’m so grateful to be a part of your congregation! Arlene Parkin
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
They really are! Glad you enjoyed
@rosemary4117
@rosemary4117 Год назад
As an Azerbaijani Muslim, I would like to say that you guys are today the subject of my prayers, may God bless you both! 👍
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thanks!
@DirMaverick
@DirMaverick Год назад
Okay...let's talk about how he looks at her when she's speaking 😅😅 That's amazing.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
😊😊
@marilynryan7822
@marilynryan7822 Год назад
@Michael Acquah…and the way she looks at him too.
@margybernard
@margybernard Год назад
And she likewise. 😊
@margiematson781
@margiematson781 Год назад
And vise versa ❤
@MitchM240
@MitchM240 Год назад
This dude has a serious way with words. well done.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thank you!
@beeos_an
@beeos_an 8 месяцев назад
I'm not a Jew, but this perspective on marriage, 10 on 10.
@mslady1521
@mslady1521 Год назад
I like when she said that if you found love once you can find it again in that same person.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Powerful point indeed.
@elizabethwilk9615
@elizabethwilk9615 Год назад
As a Catholic I share the same views. Bless you both
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thank you so much!
@miracleswillhappen3401
@miracleswillhappen3401 Год назад
I love this so much. You both speak so well. I am a cradle Catholic and though I have never question faith I have struggled with Catholicism. I love to hear your passion and a commitment
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
So happy to hear! Glad you enjoyed, and thanks for watching!
@katipohl2431
@katipohl2431 Год назад
Feeling great sympathy for this couple. Wise rules and life advice.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
💯💯
@marinamayo7994
@marinamayo7994 Год назад
I agree with everything you said regarding marriage! Thank you for this wonderfully informative discussion!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
You are welcome :)
@Rosee3333
@Rosee3333 Год назад
Thank you for sharing. 😊 I have been struggling recently and you made some beautiful points that have helped me. From my heart, thank you. 💜💜
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
You are so very welcome
@ruslanadovhal
@ruslanadovhal Год назад
I love it! Thank you for sharing this beautiful video!
@truecynic1270
@truecynic1270 Год назад
Beautiful couple with excellent values and great understanding of humanity and the guidance humanity needs
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Well said
@JewGotit
@JewGotit Год назад
that was incredible, thank you Rabbi & Rebbetzin for your Gd given wisdom, and open hearts with sharing golden nuggets with the world. May Hashem bless you and your family ad 120 and see you soon BH in Israel.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Amen! Thank you!
@transformation2479
@transformation2479 Год назад
Yes! Great conversation! More people need to be addressing these issues.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
💪💪
@StopDropAndLetGo
@StopDropAndLetGo Год назад
I love you guys, thank you for the purity, honesty, beautiful and Godly advice and words. God bless you both 🤗🙏🏻
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Same to you!
@blumberg1982
@blumberg1982 Год назад
Shana Tovah! May we all be inscribed for good, for blessing, for health and for maasim tovim in the book of life.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Amen! Thank you!
@rivkahrayzltsap9316
@rivkahrayzltsap9316 Год назад
I love this🙌🏻 And the way the answers are expressed!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Agreed!
@mosesandzippora
@mosesandzippora Год назад
What a great example! Love love !
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Agreed!
@empowerme8029
@empowerme8029 Год назад
Thank you so much for this! It has helped me understand our marriage better without even realizing what we were doing.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Glad it was helpful!
@ks2994
@ks2994 Год назад
I love this so much.
@angelaspina8466
@angelaspina8466 10 месяцев назад
Enjoyed this video immensely!
@heatherkulak8633
@heatherkulak8633 Год назад
I loved hearing this lovely couples perspective Well communicated
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
So glad you appreciated!
@michaelbass9321
@michaelbass9321 Год назад
Excellent as always from Rabbi and Rebbetzin Vigler . Very insightful as we have come to expect and have experienced as relatively new congregants. Shana Tova... Michael and Brigitte B.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Shana Tova to you too!
@mattfreelie55
@mattfreelie55 Год назад
Interesting, we share a last name!
@gloriabatel9981
@gloriabatel9981 Год назад
Toda. Love your sharing and honesty.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
So nice of you
@ThatJewishFamily
@ThatJewishFamily Год назад
Very nice! Thank you Viglers
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
🙌🙌🙌
@1951kvk
@1951kvk Год назад
I'm a traditional Roman Catholic and your way of explaining the whys is wonderful and agree.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thanks!
@community1854
@community1854 Год назад
I love what they have to say! And the end is the best part. Rabbi, leave ur wife alone 😂!! And she said what she has to say in a subtle loving way!! Anyone can imagine that! Very sweet and very spiritual and very deep!
@seekpeaceinyalife
@seekpeaceinyalife Год назад
This is the best way !
@Missmewithdat
@Missmewithdat Год назад
I would have loved to have grown up like this ☝🏼 God bless you
@maisobh9390
@maisobh9390 Год назад
The thing that we tend to forget that there's so much in common when it comes to religions....as a Muslim we commanded to believe in all religions and all prophets without distinguishing them from each other " as long as it's practiced peacefully and respectfully".....and I found so much sense in what they spoke about in terms of the scarcity of the marriage and the sexual boundaries....all the respect 🙏
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Glad you think so!
@marcelofrmo
@marcelofrmo Год назад
Beautiful. It made me thoughtful.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
That's great to hear, thank you for sharing!
@jeana-geniawest1187
@jeana-geniawest1187 Год назад
I love this. Very insightful.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Indeed :)
@paulalepadatu930
@paulalepadatu930 Год назад
First time i hear Marriage word in Hebrew is the same as Holly, wow! I am born again Christian and I agree to what you are saying about marriage, that is what I believe. God Bless You 🙏
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
G-d bless you too!
@superm70
@superm70 Год назад
Agreed !!
@eatandchat7887
@eatandchat7887 Год назад
I loved this video. Thank you.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
You are so welcome!
@Zaxnafein
@Zaxnafein Год назад
Absolute gems of Torah wisdom 🙌🏻
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Yes indeed!
@sensationallyyours6520
@sensationallyyours6520 Год назад
Beautiful couple with the right insights, living life, marriage and family the way it is supposed to be!
@KeeHart
@KeeHart Год назад
The way it's supposed to be in your opinion, couldn't be further from what I think marriage is about, we're very equal in mine,I'm not treated just a baby carrier or just as mother,I'm treated as a woman where my opinions and wants are respected.
@toddvoss52
@toddvoss52 Год назад
Wonderful
@KristaLinford
@KristaLinford Год назад
Beautiful ideas. Thank you for sharing these healing values. I am not Jewish, but agree completely with you.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
😊😊🙏
@kimberley8686
@kimberley8686 Год назад
Beautiful words 😊
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thank you! 🙂
@theresefournier3269
@theresefournier3269 Год назад
Holy, sacred, set apart!💐♥️ 🔥
@jamescairns4051
@jamescairns4051 Год назад
Hello! Lovely video thank you! Beautiful couple. ❤ שָׁלוֹם
@tomsik11style
@tomsik11style Год назад
Love your view on observance differences vs orthodoxy. We are all different and go through a growing process. But every category always tries to separate us. We are such a small group. Don’t need more division.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Well said!
@elevateyoursoul1020
@elevateyoursoul1020 Год назад
I love you both! ❤
@glenanleitner2606
@glenanleitner2606 Год назад
Great bring more
@joanblack626
@joanblack626 Год назад
a beautiful dialogue between the two of you....so proud of the two of you and feeling so fortunate and happy to be one of your congregants!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Will do!
@JYO2023
@JYO2023 Год назад
Agree thank,you
@a.m204
@a.m204 Год назад
So beautifully explained
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Glad you think so!
@albertlugassy3610
@albertlugassy3610 Год назад
Thanks for sharing great
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Pleasure!
@c.m.b.7567
@c.m.b.7567 Год назад
intimacy and sex is not seen as impure and is not taught as bad like in other religions. it is sacred and holy
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Exactly!
@CalmPotato
@CalmPotato Год назад
Curious to know which other religion you are referring to. As most I know speak of the same thing.
@KittyM-
@KittyM- Год назад
What a loving couple.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Indeed 😊
@syedabdulwahidsohaily493
@syedabdulwahidsohaily493 Год назад
Salam, 🙏🏻 Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler, you are absolutely Right in your interpretation of Relationship, Marriage, Orthodoxy & Observance 👍🏻👍🏻🌹and I am so Happy that it is so close to the teachings of Holy Quran/Holy Bible/Holy Torah 👍🏻which binds us so tightly close,& rightly close by the Prophet Abraham's Religions 🙏🏻God Bless Humanity across the Globe 🌎 Amen 🌹 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Hello 👋👋 Thank you for sharing these words!
@migdaliavasquez1874
@migdaliavasquez1874 Год назад
That’s powerful 😊😊😊😊😊
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Glad you think so!
@jacquiwhitehouse2924
@jacquiwhitehouse2924 Год назад
Hello love this video, I’m Christian & I feel really uncomfortable hugging & kissing friends I’ve never really liked it when people invaded my space. I totally understand your commitment just to your family. Since coming out of covid for me it has now put a stop to this, I missed hugging our grandsons & our daughter so to keep them safe I no longer allow people into my space. God bless you both & keep you safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thanks!
@golda_devarim31.6
@golda_devarim31.6 Год назад
really enjoyed this one. thank you for your efforts!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Happy to hear that!
@deborahgolob6275
@deborahgolob6275 Год назад
So very well sad
@rickv2629
@rickv2629 Год назад
Thanks for this! Please gibe more Jewish relationship advice!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Will do! Stay tuned!
@pamdewall4588
@pamdewall4588 Год назад
This is so wonderful. I want to b in a relationship like this so much😅
@StopDropAndLetGo
@StopDropAndLetGo Год назад
I want the same Pam 🤗
@shirleydoncel5512
@shirleydoncel5512 Год назад
Me too
@theresefournier3269
@theresefournier3269 Год назад
In-DEED ♥️🔥🎶
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
🙌🙌
@54leonilda
@54leonilda Год назад
Observant…great!
@lightwings7957
@lightwings7957 Год назад
Ty shalom toda
@monikabaranska6673
@monikabaranska6673 Год назад
What a beautiful couple ❤, well done
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
You are so kind
@hildaovalle1455
@hildaovalle1455 Год назад
All men should have a mind and sense of humanity that this rabbi has. Is no wonder that she is in love with him. I fell in love with him as well. God bless them both. Yes, the world would be different and for the better.
@Mindy56743
@Mindy56743 Год назад
I love this. My husband and I made the commitment many years ago and we had many problems during our marriage and had to rebuild the marriage many times. We had to fall in love many times. People don’t stay the same and find new parts of each other that we loved. Love is something that happens and you have to grow life a life plant.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Powerful. Thanks for sharing!
@angelaspina8466
@angelaspina8466 10 месяцев назад
Beautiful couple! God bless you,,,God keep you!
@nllee7051
@nllee7051 Год назад
Her hair is amazing! Ouu loving it 😍
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Yes!
@pvabotelho
@pvabotelho Год назад
I’m Jewish and this was so wonderful and made me think and meditate about some of the subjects
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
That's awesome! Thanks for watching
@marthaellenconner98
@marthaellenconner98 Год назад
Beautiful and Godly perspective on intimacy and marriage. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻💜✝️✡️
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Our pleasure!
@lisca2866
@lisca2866 Год назад
What a beautiful couple!!
@StephenGrew
@StephenGrew Год назад
I definitely agree. I've always felt that, too much touching, feely, feely thing going on between relative strangers.
@naomie793
@naomie793 Год назад
Wow this video is just beautiful
@ec7568
@ec7568 9 месяцев назад
I'm not Jewish but I can get behind a lot of these ideas. I think a lot of people don't like the idea of living within any guidelines.
@cathy1944
@cathy1944 Год назад
I think all your answers are perfect answers and really should apply to all people and all religions not just being Jewish.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
These ideas have universal relevance, and can apply to people of all backgrounds.
@mdmommy
@mdmommy Год назад
I love you guys thank you so much my neighbor has been trying to get me to go to your Shull for a few years now I moved from Jupiter to Stuart but I have to tell you I'm going to show up probably on sukkot. I need to meet you. very inspirationl and many things you said were things that I needed to hear it is as if God just answered my prayers this week
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
That's awesome, thanks for sharing!
@bidinosaur
@bidinosaur Год назад
When making more of these videos, can you have a voice over for the questions please? It makes them more accessible for people who are blind or visually impaired. I was unable to read the questions.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Thanks so much for the feedback!
@dafnapns
@dafnapns Год назад
I'm beyond happy I've stumble upon this! Like founding a treasure. Thank you and to this beautiful couple. In G-g's will, I'll be married soon.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Please G-d! So happy you found this. Welcome to our channel!
@brigitte1221
@brigitte1221 Год назад
Thank you Rabbi and Rebetzin for your wisdom. A question I would pose is, doesn't a hug or peck on the cheek of a friend show that you value them and their friendship above just another person you may know? Isn't it just a sign of affection for a dear friend without it becoming sexualized?
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
That's a great question! Perhaps this will shed some more light on the topic ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VinuyZb-ES8.html
@helenclarke3517
@helenclarke3517 Год назад
Thank you for sharing! As a non Jew formerly married to a Jewish man. I enjoyed your insight. Although not together we have an amazing grown son!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
👋👋👋
@amyaias.alagoa
@amyaias.alagoa Год назад
G-d's involvement is vital
@ashirahelat4749
@ashirahelat4749 Год назад
We change so much in the modern world that we want a spouse who can change in a similar way.
@adriennefranco6227
@adriennefranco6227 Год назад
I love when he says he was looking for a kind person - not a professor. Look for character not externals. Externals change, character does not.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
So true! 🙌
@ardentabacist
@ardentabacist Год назад
Yo Rabbi and Rabbi's wife, that was truly expiring and insightful and all that! I believe that what y'all was saying is the secret to happy marriage! Once when a young lady was axed if she "liked" a young man that she was dating and answered that she had the same love for him as any other jewish person the Menachem Mendel Rebbe said . . . “For a husband, you have to have more than basic love of a fellow Jew.” well this rabbi wife seems to have that, if you axed me.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
That's such a great story and message! Thanks for sharing!
@tudormiller887
@tudormiller887 Год назад
Chanukah Sameach. Watching from London UK.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
👋👋
@westberlin4911
@westberlin4911 Год назад
@aviaronowitz4622
@aviaronowitz4622 11 месяцев назад
I don’t know if I can handle a perfect person with no flaws and never anything to have to figure out together as a team!
@beorngolden7923
@beorngolden7923 Год назад
It's time to cherish as well, our private life.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Absolutely.
@maryrosed8475
@maryrosed8475 Год назад
I must say I missed hugging my close family and friends during Covid. However, people I hardly know hugging me drives me mad!
@pamelagonzalez46
@pamelagonzalez46 Год назад
Amazing even if your not orthodox ! Thank you, Shalom
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Shalom 👋
@mimmiblu6138
@mimmiblu6138 Год назад
It's fascinating listening to them, because they really believe in what they say and they look very happy. But I also know that my life was very different and there are many different ways to be happy in marriage: I 've been happily married for 21 years and neither of us believe in God or verginity before marriage. And taking away physical contact with other human beings from me would be like killing me, even though I have never thought for one second that I could betray my husband. But hugging my friends of both genders in times of distress isn't certainly a sexual act, but simply an act of kindness.
@sharonlampert7452
@sharonlampert7452 Год назад
Beautiful Jewish Couple. Mazal Tov!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
🙏🙏
@hilarykay1777
@hilarykay1777 Год назад
I met this couple many years ago at their Yom Kippur service in a hotel. It was my husband’s first time making it through the service without leaving. They are something special. Truly wonderful neshamas. We’ve now become Baal tshuva, but they gave us our first good taste of true chassidus.
@rosequartz4102
@rosequartz4102 Год назад
Thank you for this video. After 28 years years (I'm 38) I decided to convert. I've wanted to since I was 10. I'm worried that I chose the wrong "type", if you will (reform). I'm very conservative and I like following the rules for G-d, but no one really even shows up to Shabbat! Am I being stupid? Or did I not do enough research first? Every time I research a question it's like taking one step forward and twit steps back; I wind up with more things I want to know than I began with!
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Sounds like a real journey! Judaism strongly believes in asking questions and Jewish texts are full of debate. We hope our videos will help you find more answers.
@purpleandred7
@purpleandred7 Год назад
I don't entirely share the same opinion as you, that marriage comes first and then love; but what I do agree with is that love most certainly grows daily in marriage .. and that intimacy is more special - deeper, and overall incredible - in marriage. I believe intimacy outside of marriage cannot compare to intimacy within marriage. Another thing .. non-Jewish people just don't go around kissing and hugging every woman or man that we see, as your absolutely beautiful wife suggested. We do hug and/or kiss those we love and care about, of course .. but there are certainly lines drawn, for most people, as to whom gets shown our affection in that way. In marriage, loyalty is paramount, and our affection toward our spouse should be held in the most high regard than toward any other relationship or person. There is absolutely no wiggle-room whatsoever where that is concerned.
@philipluxembourg9013
@philipluxembourg9013 Год назад
I love these two beautiful people
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
🙌🙌
@nancylee1625
@nancylee1625 Год назад
I am a Christian woman and I completely agree with this lovely couple. It would benefit all couples to sit down with them to discuss the realities of marriage. It is all about commitment and loyalty.
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
Indeed!
@iloveyouyoulovemeify
@iloveyouyoulovemeify Год назад
im not jewish or religious but i can tell kind ppl when i see it
@myJLI
@myJLI Год назад
😊😊😊
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