Party Survival Guide for Introverts

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Are you an introvert? Do large parties overwhelm you and make you anxious? Forget about it! Today's episode of WellCast is tailored for you-we've got a tutorial to help you survive (even enjoy!) your next bash.
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@snowy3339 6 лет назад

Me at a party: *Finds the one person I know* *Clings to them and follows them around for the entire party*

@everythingisawesome2903 6 лет назад

Nightstorm haha same 😂😂😂😂

@ValeriaSalinas-pp7xf 5 лет назад

Same! There was one time when my friend at that party was hanging out with a boy (that I actually hate, so I was quite angry with her because I've told her that that boy is a mess) so I was basically alone taking care of another friend who was crazy drunk and sobbing. It was such a mess.

@CED-ue6ww 4 года назад

This is literally me. I just got back from a party and did the same shit.

@sunisii 4 года назад

I do that, but they just walk to the extroverted people and I get forced to following them singing and dancing like crazy

@fhdowow9wosnwoq325 4 года назад

That was exactly me last night but she got annoyed 😂

@literallylettuce 7 лет назад

I am literally at a party right now, sitting in the corner, and watching this....

@SailorThugCuzSailorWasTaken 7 лет назад

Why go to a party when you can stay in your bedroom reading a novel and drinking tea

@3Durka1 7 лет назад

Why did I only now discovered this videos it shown 100% of my behavior at parties.

@shawn.spencer 7 лет назад

How can you hear the video with all the loud music?

@irgendeinphangirl188 7 лет назад

Lina Laughs headphones

@ImehSmith 6 лет назад

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂😂

@TheSencri 5 лет назад

I like to party, i want to party, i just don't know how to be social.

@deed6141 4 года назад

I only go to parties of there’s a lot of people so that I can hide in the crowd and dance without people noticing me and talking to me

@andreajudithbernalmonsivai4360 3 года назад

Totally relatable

@maghfirat 3 года назад

Omg same! I love parties but I just want to be by myself

@prple9806 3 года назад

I feel u u feel me Sigh😌

@kcw8587 3 года назад

this

@annie49 6 лет назад

I get jealous of the extroverts at the party who are totally enjoying themselves, laughing, chatting, dancing, being free. I'm standing there observing it all and wishing i could be free and enjoy.

@Luke-py8wi 2 года назад

Exactly how i feel sometimes

@theblissedcorner1728 2 года назад

That means you are shy not introvert.... because introvert is kinda nature of human that love isolation from being in noise or interacting with people....😊.....you are jealous for not attending the crowd means you are shy type person.....not introvert ❤️

@martindempers7732 2 года назад

Literally alcohol is the solution

@suja605 2 года назад

@@martindempers7732lol yes😂

@m0zz4re11a1 2 года назад

@@theblissedcorner1728 you can be shy and an introvert

@cenafan216 7 лет назад

Party Survival Guide for Introverts: Don't go.

@SorelyFrigid 7 лет назад

^ wisdom

@tiggs7255 7 лет назад

Truth.

@cenafan216 7 лет назад

Hail CTHVLHV Good one..?

@iiarturii1 7 лет назад

+CarsonFacePalmer i know. Human is an animal that belongs to a group. So if you cant not be awkward and talk to people why the fuck you call yourself a human. Funniest part is that most introverts are proud of being one, which is so plainly stupid

@cenafan216 7 лет назад

Hail CTHVLHV I don't understand all the hate you have towards introverts. They do something to you as a kid or something?

@DEO777 10 лет назад

I don't need to watch this video. Here's all an introvert has to do to survive a party: Step 1) Don't go Step 2) Feel relief

@DEO777 10 лет назад

***** Why can't someone run from social gathering? What would stop them?

@Vulcapyro 10 лет назад

***** The realization that you can't both have friends and also ditch them when they want to hang out with you? Obviously there are more ways to socialize than at parties, but you can't realistically expect to be able to keep declining someone's invitations and still keep your social ties with them. This is precisely one of the significant dilemmas of socialization that introverts have. If you just plain don't want any friends that will end up inviting you to parties then you aren't a demographic this is even concerned about.

@tinkerwithstuff 10 лет назад

Vulcapyro "but you can't realistically expect to be able to keep declining someone's invitations and still keep your social ties with them" Unless they are worth being called friends and understand that not everyone is like them and aren't being a douche about it. The rest, I can live without comfortably. There is a difference between big party and small gathering.

@Kevin15047 10 лет назад

tinkerwithstuff Took the words out of my mouth, eh fingers. A true friend will understand if asking you to go to a party is like asking if you want a colonoscopy.

@Kevin15047 10 лет назад

That works 9 out of 10 times. Some parties you can't avoid without some serious egg on your face. IE a relative's bar mitzvah , wedding etc. It being family would make it easier though, because you know everyone there and remember at least half their names (in my case). This is good advice for when it's unavoidable.

@thysmallestofthecacti4641 6 лет назад

Everyone with social anxiety make some noise! Me and fellow introverts: **nervous mumbling**

@sanjanam520 3 года назад

... you know social anxiety is a fear of social interaction right?

@mysticalmane3931 3 года назад

@@sanjanam520 Yeah and it's definetely not the same as introversion. They may overlap tho

@ttank8082 2 года назад

Laughed way too hard at this 😂

@randolphrosenberg2994 6 лет назад

Intovert: *hides in corner* Extrovert: *parties hard* Ambivert: *RUNS IN CIRCLES*

@Leo-bd7fw 4 года назад

I do those 3 things while (in order) Sober Drunk High

@cheapmoviesnow 4 года назад

Lil uzi vert: starts dancing

@deed6141 4 года назад

I’m all three lmao

@schrunchier2933 3 года назад

Ambrivert Check!

@mysticalmane3931 3 года назад

@@Leo-bd7fw Yeah but don't over do it

@oliviaszyszka251 8 лет назад

i cant tell if i'm an introvert or if i just hate everyone.

@CullenDraws 8 лет назад

+olivia s probs both

@randobrando529 8 лет назад

+olivia s maybe a cynic

@georgielol 8 лет назад

+olivia s Me too!

@amanpanda4497 8 лет назад

agreed !

@hnyx8458 8 лет назад

+olivia s same...

@Sephvf 7 лет назад

don't worry my fellow introverts , we shall take this world and make the extroverts live in an introvert world.

@rust719 7 лет назад

How? by wiping out most extroverts?

@j1a2y3m4y5 7 лет назад

Ahsan That's a plan I can get into, good thinking

@Sephvf 7 лет назад

Ahsan I was thinking about converting them but your way works to.

@ronocttessah9392 7 лет назад

Comander Alpha Doge we must unite

@ratlover523 7 лет назад

How are we supposed to do that? That would involve leaving the house!

@put.gerard.back.3988 7 лет назад

Extroverts: How can you be alone for that long? Me: HOW DO YOU GO EVERYWHERE. AND TALK. TO EVERYONE. AND ENJOY IT.

@lenahdhdhebd1536 4 года назад

I understand this cuz we’re in quarantine now and eveyone is like “I wanna go out and do something” but I’m fine in quarantine. I’m just not the type of person who likes to go out a lot. Yeah it’s sometimes boring and I have nothing to do but I’m not desperate to see friends and that😂

@bloojkl4520 6 лет назад

I’m so terrified of social interaction that it’s affecting essential parts of my everyday life. I’m in college and if you don’t go to parties or don’t hang out with your classmates after class, you get left behind. You never have a project partner, you get bad grades, you finally graduate with zero connections and then this miserable circle follows you into the real world when you have to find work. It’s a never ending cycle of crapiness and I wish I never had become an introvert.

@xpmark1 5 лет назад

I feel very similar to your feelings.High School and college were the worst of times.I usually found a few friends who were not that outgoing and we got drunk to stop feeling like we didn't fit in.Now that I am in the work world, I chose the wrong career for an introvert, wasted many years.We are supposed to be very creative, right now I am wanting to create a better income for myself.Being an introvert in the USA is no fun at all.If I had a ton of money I would move to some remote place in the Arizona desert, buy a large area of land, and only socialize with other introverts.

@XXAcurseshadow3 5 лет назад

bloo jkl45 grades and social interaction don’t correlate stop making excuses for your life. I often find that the classes I don’t speak to people in, I concentrate and do better in. Just introduce yourself to someone, start a friendly conversation- it’s really not that hard.

@HelenavV_ 4 года назад

You have not "become" an introvert, you're born this way like lady gaga sings. Introverts are great leaders! And there are many introverts leading the world. People like Barack Obama, elon musk, Marilyn Monroe and many more people are all introverts. I know it sucks cause I am kinda in the same situation. But I'm sure it's all gonna work out

@georgejennings8743 2 года назад

Fucking same dude, it sucks 😓

@johnnycashlives316 Год назад

All my conversation are uncomfortable.

@TheModernHermeticist 7 лет назад

When in doubt... find the cats

@glenpki 7 лет назад

The Modern Hermeticist lol what

@puppypals3305 7 лет назад

Or dogs

@idk38358 7 лет назад

When in doubt... pinkie out

@randomuser1105 7 лет назад

The Modern Hermeticist I'm an extrovert with cats.

@awesomecat8331 7 лет назад

I are here meow :3

@HunterTracks 7 лет назад

No, a large party is WAY scarier than an overdue trip to the dentist.

@LetsPlayKenny 7 лет назад

Just get drunk m8

@milkisthealmond 7 лет назад

Truest fact EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@kenllacer 7 лет назад

Bad advice. Extroverts tend to take advantage of things without even realizing it. Introverts getting drunk will be exposed and humiliated. Introvert wakes up the next day, and finds out that gossip about them getting smashed has spread like wildfire is hell on earth.

@SuperCandyGamer 7 лет назад

Unknown Error ikr

@MikhaelAhava 7 лет назад

I haved experienced already a few times around a fews days to about a few months overdue trip to a dentist.

@masellirominaa 6 лет назад

#6 find a dog or cat that you can play with

@agentsteve4534 5 лет назад

I was playing with a a cat when a big family party LOL Must of them just dancing, playing basketball(I don't hate basketball), and singing Most of them are EXTROVERTS !, THEY'RE absurd and they love mundane normy stuff

@jerraalmonte8528 3 года назад

... or a gerbil?

@grantrobertson154 3 года назад

HAHA this is so tru😭

@luce6172 2 года назад

I don't like animals. Man I am seriously thinking of suicide.

@brenna5305 3 года назад

i just got invited to my friends graduation party and my first reaction was to decine but instead of feeling shitty for it i decided to go and im nervous but very proud of myself.

@Lizardstookover 2 года назад

how was it? 😭 I’m in the same situation

@brenna5305 2 года назад

@@Lizardstookover it was great! i felt so proud of myself for going and it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be. i know i woud have felt worse if i stayed home it was so worth it. sending you love i know you can do it!

@Lizardstookover 2 года назад

@@brenna5305 thank you so much for responding (: i’m glad it went alright !

@dr.catherineelizabethhalse1820 7 лет назад

Welcome to Finland, here being introvert is the norm. It's a safe haven in an extrovert world.

@charthezombiehound8952 7 лет назад

can I go there? please?

@user-pj5ht5qx3e 7 лет назад

Sweden too!

@RimaNari 7 лет назад

If it wouldn't be cold there I'd honestly consider :D

@EmbersNest 7 лет назад

damn it, well i guess I´ll have to move someday ^^

@VelvetKitsune 7 лет назад

Yep, moving to Finland.

@christiansercan646 9 лет назад

Gosh. My life is fucked up. Its so hard making friends being introvert. I walk weird because i'm focusing walking 'normal'. I got the feeling everyone is looking at me and judging me.

@riqthebest291 9 лет назад

Same.

@legzz187 8 лет назад

+christian sercan Thats not being an introvert, thats social anxiety

@Julesmarquette 8 лет назад

+christian sercan You might be shy. Introversion is more about getting energized with alone time. Being afraid about what others think is more like shyness. Bill Gates is an introvert and he will speak his mind with conviction. It doesn't matter who is listening. Someone who is shy is afraid of judgment and confrontation. With that in mind, you can start taking decisive steps towards improving your self-esteem.

@sethamphetamine9372 8 лет назад

+christian sercan We are, Introverts must die.

@merlokiii 8 лет назад

This is not introvertion. It's shyness

@big_petebear8535 7 лет назад

The number one tip for improving social interaction for me has always been, "don't get caught up in your own head." Number two. "Good posture equals self confidence." You can't feel sorry for yourself while standing like Superman/Wonder Woman.

@hanene1649 4 года назад

going to a party in like one hour... wish me luck 😖✊🏼

@SarahHugzBuddy 4 года назад

Howd itgo?

@ZtormVibin 3 года назад

Same, had to watch this before going 💀

@hanene1649 3 года назад

@@SarahHugzBuddy i actually remember it going really well + met a childhood friend by coincidence! best of luck !!!

@bobbobert4884 7 лет назад

why do I watch this, I dont even get invited to parties :/

@Dalendrion 7 лет назад

Would you want to be?

@elbartos 7 лет назад

I don't even like parties (ok, sometimes) I need a lot recovery time for such things

@angelpinto2919 7 лет назад

Hey!

@silverrain530 7 лет назад

Tim Grabowski Lol same

@Zay-ks8sp 7 лет назад

Tim Grabowski same

@helenGD 8 лет назад

Or #6: Just don't go to the party.

@pastaaaaaaaaoo3796 8 лет назад

+helenGD xD that's me. oh the excuses I come up with

@helenGD 8 лет назад

PASTAAAAAAAA!!!(o^^o) Haha :)

@sconeaon 8 лет назад

+PASTAAAAAAAA!!!(o^^o) Hetalians, Hetalians everywhere

@mimansabhalla3107 8 лет назад

I HAVE FOUND MY HETALIAN PEOPLE

@cormano64 8 лет назад

Exactly. The video was going well until she said some parties cannot be avoided. I won't even go to job parties, so what kind would be fucking obligatory to me? Fuck obligatory parties up the ass with no lube and plenty of thorns.

@franticfrancis9710 3 года назад

Tip: Try talking to a girl who you know is going a few weeks before you go to the party and get to know her and meet her at the party at the same time. This will build an instant bond and the night will probably go your way.

@svartdraken 4 года назад

Step 1: Plan your escape I feel fully understood

@101m4n 7 лет назад

Party survival guide for introverts mk2: 1) Find door 2) Open door 3) Walk through door Tadaaa! Why solve a problem when you can avoid it?

@kirotheavenger60 7 лет назад

depends on which side of the door you start on

@kirotheavenger60 7 лет назад

900bot mind blown

@black7eath 7 лет назад

Im confused, are you talking about sovling a problem or... how do you avoid it while............. not avoiding it? (maby easy for most bot nor for some.. thing like me...)

@101m4n 7 лет назад

Well obviously it's preferable just to not go. This is a just-in-case measure should you suddenly and inexplicably find yourself at a party. Somehow.

@fumomofumosarum5893 7 лет назад

that's genius! pussying out is way better than challenging your inner demons.

@diradosveta 7 лет назад

This is stupid. Don't force yourself to going to a party if you don't want to. Stay home and do whatever you want. But if you actually find yourself on a party, you don't need any escape plans, just say you already want to go home and go home. Don't force yourself to play by their rules, this is exactly why there are so many depressed introverts that think there is something wrong with them. Try to explain to your friends how you feel, if they really are you friends, then they will understand, if not, then they are not worth it. Sigh

@lazycosine7673 7 лет назад

I wish this would work for parents though.

@diradosveta 7 лет назад

Faith Connors is at Aperture Science Enlighten your parrents then

@Dalendrion 7 лет назад

This is why I don't have friends...

@tomraptile804 7 лет назад

if only it were that easy to explain...

@Sammyyaam 7 лет назад

None of my friends seem to understand. Especially since I'm a college student. It's "normal" to go to parties, concerts, be in clubs, and just always know what's going on on or off campus. College is too extrovert centric which is why I've been having such an awful time.

@donaldmcronald3543 2 года назад

Best tip: when talking to someone focus on them. Direct your attention outward instead of internally. Most likely the other person is feeling slightly anxious as well and if you can ease their tension yours will disappear as well.

@ilikeanime4094 3 года назад

Watching a video about my personality makes me feel comfortable

@rayyanali4471 7 лет назад

For introverts stepping into a party is like entering a restricted area in the Assassin's Creed games.

@zach11590 5 лет назад

Rayyan Ali lmao bro im dead

@kiarajay4504 5 лет назад

Lmfao true 😂😂😂

@nna1u39 5 лет назад

lmao i felt this one

@Rohit-rx5rz 5 лет назад

Good one

@NickPooleEPK 2 года назад

Indeed😂

@YoutubeSux4ss 8 лет назад

Best escape plan: Sneak out, allways works for me :D

@Whatsgoingoninmycrib 7 лет назад

Used this one yesterday.

@YoutubeSux4ss 7 лет назад

Whatsgoingoninmycrib Escaped?

@Whatsgoingoninmycrib 7 лет назад

+ESTAndere Yep. Snuck right out the front door an hour into the party.

@YoutubeSux4ss 7 лет назад

Nice! :D

@nitehood108 7 лет назад

Ha ha! Yes! I've actually done this multiple times!

@itsyagirlashleytv 2 года назад

Seeing this title just gave me so much peace. I always psyche myself out when I’m invited to a party and don’t know their other guest 😂😅

@wryn_sigil 7 лет назад

I'm an introvert with RBF and people always ask "Are you okay?" And I'm like.... "...... Peachy ....."

@KnightoftheLord1 9 лет назад

1 step party survival: Don't go.

@gibythecat3813 9 лет назад

Good idea

@KnightoftheLord1 9 лет назад

GibyTheCat The best. :)

@KnightoftheLord1 9 лет назад

MrKitten I know right? Home alone is a real treat. :)

@MrBlack0pz1 9 лет назад

LOL that's right !

@witchbitchgirl 9 лет назад

A NewWorld17 yeah! right?

@j1a2y3m4y5 7 лет назад

"introverts have to go to parties and do small talk" hell no I've never went to a party in my whole life and never will, screw social interactions I'm staying home eating cake and playing games

@cringy3007 7 лет назад

j1a2y3m4y5 same😂

@unapalomacualquiera 7 лет назад

ahahah yeah, fuck normal social interactions

@klein6899 7 лет назад

Quete Importa Fuck cars!!

@unapalomacualquiera 7 лет назад

+Klein Don't know what you mean but yeah fuck cars!

@teeli. 6 лет назад

j1a2y3m4y5 Yahhhhhhhhh

@avni1402 7 лет назад

who are the introverts who didn't find this video useful at all ? me ! and who else ?

@tiffanyoo 3 года назад

This video just made me stop going to parties 😂

@tayashley3539 3 года назад

4 years later, and still haven't attended a single party

@e.a7470 5 лет назад

After seeing this vid my blood rises 1000% idk I felt like im really there

@Hh-mu4ex 2 года назад

Exactly

@tyreekmurillo4524 7 лет назад

here's a survival tip: if ur an introvert don't go to parties lol.

@Colby-1997 7 лет назад

Sometimes that's unavoidable. Like in instances where you pretty much need to go to a party for work, or a wedding reception, etc.

@caitlynv.2934 7 лет назад

+Tyreek Murillo Easier said then done.

@tyreekmurillo4524 7 лет назад

+King Films true i guess. it's kinda awkward sitting there not talking to people when everyone else is

@Colby-1997 7 лет назад

+Tyreek Murillo Yeah, I understand. But some people just can't help it. I would call myself ambivert. It really depends on my mood and how good my day was in regards to how I'll be at a party. Sometimes, I'm super talkative. Other times, parties just have too much going on and I take to smaller groups to chat with. But I would never show up to a party and simply not speak to anyone, personally. In that case, I really would just rather leave as there's no point in being there if you're going to stand in a corner and be silent. If you're going to do that or feel like it, you should do what the video suggests and make up an excuse and just go.

@tyreekmurillo4524 7 лет назад

+King Films that's why i said there's no point. cause an introvert doesn't really benefit from being at a party

@matt9060 7 лет назад

Step 1: Don't go. Phew, even that step got me stressed out.

@Ltforlife22 2 года назад

Theres one big piece of advice that solves the introvert at a party problem: DRINK. and if you don’t drink then.. rip fellow introverts

@mattchew8mealey921 3 года назад

Still one of my favorite channels that really got me through some hard times. Wish it was still active.

@lovedefault1167 2 месяца назад

Thank you for not playing music in the background of this helpful video❤️ much appreciated

@dhaval1090 7 лет назад

Or just stay in your home. Heaven!

@HammerBlow500 7 лет назад

Only 30% are introverts? Wow

@annaschmelz8786 7 лет назад

We are special... Kind of :D

@karenolivo8524 7 лет назад

We are unicorns ~❤

@annaschmelz8786 7 лет назад

+Karen Flores Yeeeessss :DD

@sanyoseflyudvikov437 7 лет назад

This still doesn't seem right, I was the only introvert in the school....

@hermergur 7 лет назад

HammerBlow500 okay....

@Mimi_alm07 3 года назад

Here are more tips :) 1.) if u wanna leave just call your mom and pretend that your mom wants you to come home 2.) if you need a breather go to the bathroom 3.) come early so you know where the bathroom and other places in the house 4.) if you feel anxious or drained leave, it’s not worth it 5.) if your not having fun leave it’s fine

@asleepydude5941 6 лет назад

0:05 The extrovert Complains about the music and how its horrible The introvert walks up to the extrovert and says *"Hold My beer"*

@Ava-mh8xt 7 лет назад

I went to a party yesterday and I was freaking out. I nearly started crying because my anxiety was triggering me.

@Khanemis 7 лет назад

Hey, the most important thing is it is ok now. You survived that and hopefully for a long time you will be spared of such events. Have some good tea (or beverage of your choice) and enjoy a good time of just relaxing:) Parties are an awful way of spending time anyway.

@proggresivepolitics8250 7 лет назад

Ava you better be joking

@pandawan4 7 лет назад

Aww, I know that feeling.. Maybe you can try going with a semi-extroverted friend who'll keep you socialised and safe at the same time, or at least a really sympathetic friend or fellow introvert..

@bmilano1580 7 лет назад

Just don't think about the fear. Loosen up, grab a glass, smile a little and do as if you are very content with yourself. Before you know it people will be flocking around you!

@akfanfortyseven8375 7 лет назад

get a Doc to prescribe you some klonopin. I remember back when I had panic attacks sooo bad and the only way I could make it through parties etc..Was to take 1mg of Klonopin, smoke a bowl, ( weed..some headdies), and have a beer. But that was 10 yrs ago and Im no longer like that. But I still hate parties.

@BenMontes1 7 лет назад

I remember sometimes I would get told at parties why am I so shy or so quiet, and I would have to be nice and say politely 'I don't know'. But in my head my response was 'I DON'T LIKE WASTING WORDS'.

@wedeldylan 7 лет назад

Ben Montes a better response would be 'because I'm a f**king introvert, deal with it'

@BenMontes1 7 лет назад

That's too savage.

@StreetFighterKWT 7 лет назад

+Ben Montes I know your struggle except that I'm in college and those who I speak with always ask me why I don't talk or do the stuff they do and then they go about telling me how I should be and I'm like if there's nothing important to talk about there's no need to speak.and then it goes on every single day.

@BenMontes1 7 лет назад

I'm also in college, and one of the reasons why I stopped going to parties is because I would sometimes feel like I'm trying too hard to blend in the environment or I simply felt I didn't belong so I got more involved with clubs and other things.

@klltsun_2576 6 лет назад

I wouldn't even say anything, just smile and shrug lol

@gregwarno9062 3 года назад

I’m a wannabe extrovert that thrives on that party vibe. I’m in college, but I have no friends or any invites to parties and I sit alone all the time and I’m always unhappy

@mariavergou2418 6 лет назад

This video (especially the start where it explains things about introverts and extroverts) made me feel so much better! I am an introvert and quite shy as well and I always have these troubled thoughts about having to socialize! A tip to other introverts : it is true that we prefer small groups of people, so don't try to socialize by going to partys! You will shine when with the right people. (See! I always knew it is not bad to be an introvert! ahah I'm saying this to my mother who always pushes me to socilaize and go to partys and makes me feel even worse in the end!)

@omotional 9 лет назад

I am an extreme introvert. I cherish my time alone more so than being with others. I'd rather stay home and read a book, watch my favorite show, or listen to music alone in my room than be out with friends at a party. I feel comfortable with a small number of people. Two, three, four at the max. I get nervous meeting new people. I'd rather have no friends than go through the awkwardness of meeting new ones. That's just how we are :)

@ambert1744 9 лет назад

Me too 👌

@shadyguywithshadeswhosells7786 7 лет назад

Morgan Vizzini Same, but I'm an extreme extrovert one line.

@postinc 6 лет назад

Me too

@everythingisawesome2903 6 лет назад

Same

@YashSharma-zp8yu 2 года назад

Same! Here.

@Alice45894 7 лет назад

Last time I went to a party every conversation I had died in 30 seconds flat. I get so nervous I can't think and people must sense it. I feel like I repel people. It makes me kind of hate extroverts.

@gytisdramblewolfskis8521 7 лет назад

or you're just bad in conversations, or you look ugly. you can watch videos about how to start converstation, how to continue it, how to get friends etc. etc.

@TheMedicatedArtist 7 лет назад

gytis dramblewolfskis "...or you look ugly" What does that have to do with anything?

@xesolor 7 лет назад

gytis dramblewolfskis "or you look ugly"? How god damn superficial can thou get？！

@charthezombiehound8952 7 лет назад

... I had that very same problem here's what you do... ask.alot.of.questions... everyone and I mean EVERYONE is narcissistic and love to talk about themselves... questions like so what do you do? have you lived here long? how are you finding the hors d'oeuvres? (depends on type of party don't ask this on a casual setting) this stupid little questions like that are an abomination for both of us... because we don't give a damn... (or at least I don't) but... it will keep them talking for hours... here's a list on topics you can ask about: fashion music art literature video games relation to EVERYONE at the party TV shows EVERYTHING ELSE!!! with the exception of: topics to avoid Politics religion that is it... good luck...

@gytisdramblewolfskis8521 7 лет назад

Radioactive Panda i dont mean you look ugly as in you're born,ungly. I mean you wear light blue baggy jeans,dont watch your head,you smell etc.

@obamaspaghettitoiletsauce9150 3 года назад

Yall think its hard being an introvert at a party? I'm an introvert who had a 1 hour phase of acting extroverted, I planned out the best party ever, told a shit load of people about it, found a friend who could get kegs and a friend who could get weed, and we all spent forever to do the math so we could split the beer/weed cost between the 4 of us and we picked a spot. Now I, an introvert, has to carry through with this "greatest party" ever strategy meaning i have to attend it and host it. Plus its too late to cancel because my friend already bought the weed (spent 300 bucks) and I invited 60+ people and told them to tell everyone they know

@thereisnofinishline5773 3 года назад

Rip

@michellepenney1099 7 лет назад

Thanks! These tips will help me! I am an introvert married to an extrovert. He gets invited to parties and loves for me to come too. He knows it's hard for me and exhausting. He always give me the control to decide when to leave, but maybe with these tips, I will be able to enjoy myself a little longer before making the great escape.

@tetaarijanagomez8242 8 лет назад

I'm introvert,and on my 11 birthday i escaped and sat in car wondering when tf will people leave...they broke EVERYTHING in my room......

@Autoshotjosh 8 лет назад

dicks...

@Lexyvil 7 лет назад

Those people really weren't considerate...

@AngieGandalf6 7 лет назад

Klara Djordjevic Fuck where those your friends?

@mbhp2009 7 лет назад

not any more theyre dead now

@parthiancapitalist2733 6 лет назад

Locks are your friends

@earlgrey2130 10 лет назад

The worst thing about parties is that they make me realize the difference between myself and others, between my anxiety and feeling awkward to them having fun, flirting and enjoying themselves. Really depresses me, because i want to be like them, but just can't. I'd like to add another suggestion for party survival: Don't get high or drunk. A couple of beers.. sure. But don't get wasted. It will lower your self control which will help all those feelings of anxiety and stress come out. And trust me.. people will realize. One way or the other.

@Milesco 10 лет назад

***** Because humans are social animals, and society is organized around that fact. It's the way of the world. And because of that, as Samurailord correctly said, extroverts are better suited to function in the world we live in. It's a lot like early birds vs. night owls. Like it or not, the world seems to revolve around getting up early in the morning. Unfortunately, I'm a night owl. It makes it very hard to get along in the world. Everything seems to operate on the basis of being up and active in the morning. I'm a lawyer, and about 95% of my court appearances are in the morning. It's even worse for those of us on the west coast, which is three hours "behind" the east coast. If I need to call an insurance adjuster on the east coast and it's 2:00 in the afternoon here, it's already 5:00 pm over there and everyone's gone home for the day. If the majority of people are a certain way, the rest of us unfortunately just have to "suck it up" and adapt. It's a struggle, but it's the way things are.

@earlgrey2130 10 лет назад

***** For many reasons. No matter if you wanna be successfull in your job, if you wanna get laid, make money as an enterpreneur or just live a happy and fullfilled life.. you need to be an extrovert for everything. At least as a man you are expected to be a dominant, alpha male bursting with self-confience, endless energy and a "i'll have it my way" attutide.

@Shitnames 10 лет назад

Samurailord sorry man, but thats not true. You can do this things even in a "introverted" way. If you try to change yourself and behave different then you are you will only attract other people who try to hide their "true nature", instead of finding people and relationships with humans, who also went through hardships, but ultimately survived and found a way to "live" in their own way, instead of letting society change them.

@bbpoltergeists 10 лет назад

Ugh your comment is so true it makes me even that much more aware of what sets me apart from other people... The worst part is knowing that there's really nothing to be done in order to change my personality...

@bbpoltergeists 10 лет назад

***** What's that?

@arcadia_758 6 лет назад

Thank you SO MUCH for this list. This is gonna save my life.

@evanpastor7305 2 года назад

I could be at a party just thinking to myself "man I have a big performance tommorrow and I haven't even got the dance moves down", "I need to remember to get more bananas", "wait, when is spring break?" And then someone would think I'm depressed because of the same sad looking stoned face I've been holding for all of the party

@larryf2821 7 лет назад

And don't feel guilty because you're not socializing enough or sitting by yourself.

@Horny_Fruit_Flies 7 лет назад

I have an abridged version of this guide for introverts. Step One) Don't go to parties.

@chakatfirepaw 7 лет назад

The problem is that sometimes the harassment you will get from family/friends/coworkers for trying to avoid going or not going will be worse than suffering through the party. Not to mention that sometimes you are faced with parties where attendance is de facto mandatory, (e.g. not showing up will tick off your boss).

@aGirts2015 7 лет назад

prospectus

@Horny_Fruit_Flies 7 лет назад

Adam Girts Yes?

@Guardevoirgirl 7 лет назад

I´m an introvert not antisocial. A party sometimes is okay but not every damn weekend.

@wadehosking4446 7 лет назад

Lol, I'm a dj. Have to stick with the original guide...

@sarahrenz8943 7 лет назад

One time I was at a party of 20 or so people. I'm a major introvert so me, my friend Carly and my friend Tina hid in a closet and I took pizza from the table and brought it back to the closet. No joke. Our friends forgot we were in there because the music was loud and they went to the park without us. That was probably the best party I've ever been too. I forgot to mention the three of us were majorly introverted.

@thetabo8648 4 года назад

Thank you, even thought this was made so long ago i get scared at bigger parties much, this helps me a lot

@zanferjui6624 7 лет назад

I'm an introvert but I like socializing. IF I CAN do it. I'm so awkward around people.

@AlexLococo 7 лет назад

I already do these on a regular basis. Even a classroom full of students is tiring.

@MikhaelAhava 7 лет назад

Indeed!

@syifanurkhalisa3462 7 лет назад

Diego Sheish truee especially everyone always says "why are you so quiet? talk more"

@kirotheavenger60 7 лет назад

+Syifa Nurkhalisa; thats been every teachers advise for how to improve in the classroom. 'talk more, ask more questions'. i even have a stutter to boot.

@UltimatumC-gameworld 7 лет назад

Really? In my case, since I've seen my classmates for years, I'm used to them, and it doesn't affect me very negatively.

@ashibe2649 6 лет назад

TOTALLY TRUE!

@augustusschrader6693 6 лет назад

I have noticed that it may be hard to want to go out and interact with people when your an introvert, but the more you do it the easier it becomes. It may not seem like it but you really can change who you are (for example an introvert can become an extrovert if they wanted to enough) and frankly the more you practice in social interactions the less awkward you become as well. It is never to late to change.

@FunnyVinesAndVideos1 6 лет назад

Us introverts see the world differently, we cringe at other people’s fake behaviour that really isn’t who they are and it really pushes you away. You yourself could put on a fake personality and look extroverted but in the long run, introverts will never feel heartbroken 🤙🏼❤️

@erickk1992 7 лет назад

Being an introvert is easy, realizing it was hard. When I read Quiet by Susan Cain a bunch of stuff fell into place. I'd advise anybody to read it, even extroverts can learn something from it, like that it isn't just something you can turn off. You can hide it but you can not turn it off. I just wish the business world would stop focusing on extroversion. I swear going to job fairs at my university was one of the most stressful things I have ever done, and interviews were really stressful as well because we're taught that the interviewer wants a conversation , and as an introvert you want to be anywhere but there. Doesn't matter that I had a really high GPA, understood what was needed from me, and willing to work for it because I could not keep the extroverted interviewer's interest.... Sorry went on a rant there. After failing to land a job in my major's vocation, I've been thinking that universities need to work with employers in promoting all personalities.

@erickk1992 7 лет назад

Introverts have a lot to offer!

@gunbustable 7 лет назад

Erick K

@SteppingStonevlogs 7 лет назад

Erick K that book is ace! I am an extrovert who means to wards introversion- I like parties but I will retreat after a while to be by myself and me only ☺

@yuuser 7 лет назад

I'm ordering this book. Thank you. I forgot who I was, dealing with extroverts just to get a damn paycheck. You and this video just reminded me, I am an AWESOME introvert with a lot to contribute to the world in my own quiet way. :-)

@YouMakeMeConfused 7 лет назад

Employers want people who can handle social situations and work well in groups, because skills needed for a job can be taught, working well among people on the other hand cannot be.

@puntoracingteam2579 7 лет назад

Protip from an Introvert: Get Drunk.

@nwshful 7 лет назад

always works

@nepnepnepnepnep 7 лет назад

The CoIRe what if you dont drink

@puntoracingteam2579 7 лет назад

Alcohol is essential for this protip to work

@sojaboon6327 6 лет назад

So what if you're not old enough to legally drink?

@FunnyVinesAndVideos1 6 лет назад

Katrijn Ooms live a little

@demonsroom666 6 лет назад

Dya think you can even INTERACT to people!? Especially when people doesn't see you? Im practically a shadow, which is great as escape tho

@elle093 6 лет назад

When I finally have to go to parties, I have a few friends there already. Either the host themselves or another friend. All my friends know that I try to avoid parties because I'm an introvert so they all get it. I really appreciate that.

@boggybolt6782 7 лет назад

When there's noone home, i really enjoy it. I can do whatever i want, it's quite, peaceful, and just relaxing. I don't get bored as i have plenty of different stuff to do. And yes, i do have (a) friend(s), but i usually only hang out with one.

@Mad_Jax 7 лет назад

Same

@Plasmapause 7 лет назад

Glad I'm not the only one

@ChungMyers 7 лет назад

Boggy Bolt Same. Except i don't have friends to invite lol

@tiffcat3887 6 лет назад

Oh God finally found somebody like me

@klausseyeliner691 6 лет назад

same

@SimonTheDigger 9 лет назад

Or you could follow my one easy step: Never go to parties. Don't feel pushed to do these things if you really don't want to. Don't let extroverts push you around.

@coyoteperson 9 лет назад

yusuke are you and kolabara lovers or how ever you spell it you seem like it

@Altopasto 9 лет назад

As an introvert i could say: I want to go to parties and enjoy. I don't feel push, i just want to get some drink and have a nice night. But if i don't match, or know someone... fuck off, i tried it. Introverts aren't antisocial (generally)

@Altopasto 9 лет назад

Btw: alcohol helps. Weed: .... sometimes, it's complicated.

@brooklynnhood 9 лет назад

***** I used to drink a lot to force myself to be an extrovert and developed a drinking problem. Why? Because I was making friends with alcoholic extroverts and had to drink to keep up and "be fun". Now I don't drink at all and have done some serious housecleaning with those "friends". I like other introverts and a big party to them is a dinner with 8-10 close friends (those don't happen very often). I agree with OP, don't go to parties if they make you unhappy. Using chemicals to force yourself into being something you are not for other people who don't really care to understand you is not worth it. :)

@ytgurlii 9 лет назад

Simon The Digger YES!!!

@normie9787 3 года назад

Hey! I’m an ambivert and I used to be extroverted, talking to people a lot. It’s still fun to talk with my friends and I’d gladly meet other people too. For you to socialize in a party I think its best to find a group of people talking about something you know and casually slip in. People going to parties are there to hang and make friends, good luck!

@gdtacos7082 4 года назад

The sad thing is, all of my friends are extroverts since when I try to become friends with an introvert, I don't. Because I can't make new friends. It's just awkward...

@eliesundesastre9473 7 лет назад

Sometimes people think that the "i need time alone for recharge" is because you don't like them or you are avoiding them or you are too boring. But i just really need to be alone!!!

@alicia.katharina 7 лет назад

I have a great tip: Just sit in front of your computer the whole day and watch some series so you don't have to interact with anyone. Then go grocery shopping at 8pm, so that there are about 5 people in the whole store who all don''t want to talk. Also study from home and always invite just 2 friends or less to your home, where you can be comfortable and tell them to leave at every time, because you need to go grocery shopping, learn or do any other task that seems right in the moment. I mean... It works for me :D

@ludwigcornely6106 7 лет назад

Alicia Katharina awesome mastery of these problems! ;-)

@alicia.katharina 7 лет назад

Ludwig Cornely Thank you, I'm becoming a professional since I live alone :D

@hossrex 7 лет назад

Alicia Katharina Actually good advice. I didn't even realize that I do all of those, without noticing.

@iLikeKittens 7 лет назад

Only go out when it's dark/rainy/snowy when others preffer to stay indoors

@peachyanko 7 лет назад

Are you sure we aren't the same person? Haha

@do_not_rotateyour_phone3957 4 года назад

When apocalypse comes, introverts will rule the world!

@timestate9718 3 года назад

zoe jordan you kinda called it

@nava3548 3 года назад

@@timestate9718 hah 😂

@blackbat121 3 года назад

Let’s wait for this big day ..

@hell_cat 3 года назад

Just like corona came

@laurahamilton6613 7 лет назад

Being introverted I found that when I go to parties with my friends it's fine. Once at the party I take enough shots or drinks and then I'm more open to talking to people. However, once I'm sobering up it's terrifying.

@LangKuoch 7 лет назад

im an extrovert once a few shots have hit the back of my throat lolol

@Human_01 7 лет назад

what kind of shots? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ...the white, sticky kind?

@LangKuoch 7 лет назад

Mr Otaku that's my favourite kind ;)

@Human_01 7 лет назад

Lang Kuoch ewwww lmao xD

@LangKuoch 7 лет назад

Mr Otaku Hahah, you started it bro

@EuphemiaGrubb 7 лет назад

Starts at 2.58. Unless you don't know if you're an introvert.

@ashenlongbow1482 7 лет назад

Also ignore if you're not neurotic. Eysenck's personality theory. Trust me. I'm a non-neurotic introvert.

@cloudy_edits6512 5 лет назад

I don’t even think that the word “introvert” is a good way to describe me anymore

@shalique3591 2 года назад

Me sitting alone on terrace ,at a family wedding watching this to console myself I am not alone

@mali22 8 лет назад

I use all of these to a point, but I've noticed that people talk how I'm always quiet, both behind my back and to my face, and I'm unable to "own" my introversion, to say stuff like: hey, I'm just introverted, so what? and carry on, so I feel like they think I'm weird and less worthy which led me to having anxiety and sometimes even panic attacks. And yeah, it sucks. The best part is that I can talk with all these people individually or in small groups, but put them all together and I just lose my cool. :/

@pollkoll6976 7 лет назад

Same with me. I can talk to one person at a time when no one is around, but in a group I just don't get the situation.

@annaschmelz8786 7 лет назад

I'm so happy that there are more people like me xD

@fr_schmidlin 7 лет назад

Welcome to the club! :)

@elementalrage5065 7 лет назад

Yah when ever I hang out with like 6 friends at once I go mute and they keep asking me if I am ok and I hate it.

@mali22 7 лет назад

How you doin' Anna? :P Seriously though, yeah that's the worst thing you can do, ask an introvert why they're quiet, it only makes things worse :D

@insomnish 10 лет назад

I CONSTANTLY tell my extrovert friend that quote "It's not that i want to be alone, i want to be left alone" and she always gets offended and thinks i hate her and everyone around me .____.

@tmattmat1641 2 года назад

I don't really feel insecure or afraid in any way at a party, just bored. I don't find anything to do (besides eating, which I could be doing alone on my own). I feel more irritated than anything, I hate the loud music, I hate loud places and people, I hate dancing and I hate the feeling of being in a group, thats why when I go out with friends I go with one at a time, never in groups, or even small groups. Just me and other friend. That's my limit

@MoltenMetalGod7 3 года назад

I knew I was an introvert but this video described me almost exactly including reaction to external stimuli. Before even seeing this I found myself initiating some of the 5 steps just to get through the evening.

@JadeJoddle 10 лет назад

Try this step: always leave the party on a high. Get out of there before your energy is drained. Extroverts will try to talk at you and steal your energy - beware!! There's a playlist of INTROVERT SURVIVAL VIDEOS on my channel BTW

@astrangeone 10 лет назад

I'm a well trained introvert, but talking to a ton of people drains my energy to the point of going...yeah, no. I always jet out early...:D

@TheNeoParody 10 лет назад

you're talking about weed right?

@astrangeone 10 лет назад

Theo Bijveld Lol. Mary Jane does the opposite for me. Makes me dead tired. :D

@jollyp8663 10 лет назад

Theo Bijveld That is a pick-me-up for me! Does the trick, and I make the haters hate!

@the1andonlytitch 10 лет назад

So what yours tips for introverts going to their own wedding

@ninalisjak8569 7 лет назад

Huh this is actually quite correct. I always get anxiety when people yell anyone else?

@spntageous5249 7 лет назад

Me too and I look around awkwardly having no idea about what to do

@SymphonySinger 7 лет назад

It's nice to know that I'm not alone in that department! Yeah, this happens to me all the time! Talking gently is my preventative measure to reduce the possibility of anything escalating to yelling, but I have really bad anxiety when people around me are yelling! Do you have any way of reducing that anxiety?

@ninalisjak8569 7 лет назад

+Andrew Wysocki Well you could try avoiding these kind of situations by talking gently like you said. If you are talking to a friend you could ask them to speak more quietly but sometimes that doesn't work so maybe you can try getting out of the room or even put on headphones so you don't have to deal with them anymore lol. But for example if a teacher is yelling well.. you can't do much unfortunately. Try covering your ears I guess? Glad I'm not alone either! Hope this helps 😊

@sleepingprobably2101 6 лет назад

Omg same??? Like when someone yells at me I just cry

@amethyst_cat9532 6 лет назад

Everyone gets anxiety when they're being yelled at; it triggers the body's fight-or-flight response

@ludwingguate 7 лет назад

This is pure GOLD! Thanks a lot!

@KarmaTheCat 6 лет назад

Thank you so much! I really needed this.

@tterressa 9 лет назад

Im introvert and i have problem in socializing with others. That makes others think that im a snobbish person.

@madieatsbees3434 8 лет назад

+Tterressa Abellera Don't worry, you're not alone. That's exactly how I feel :(

@tterressa 8 лет назад

xXDisneyFanAtHeartXx we should hangout together 😀😀😀

@madieatsbees3434 8 лет назад

Yeah :D I think we'd be perfect friends

@tterressa 8 лет назад

xXDisneyFanAtHeartXx i think it would be great

@madieatsbees3434 8 лет назад

me too :)

@boston312 8 лет назад

Im an introvert with an extremely extroverted personality. I can be the life of the party, give speeches in front of thousands of people no problem. However, I only have short spurts of energy to do this before I become "brain dead" where I need my alone time. Once my energy is drained I can be cranky and moody. I always wanted to badly to compete for the center of attention with extroverts for popularity but im now realizing that im in a losing race. MY brain chemistry and energy level always gets depleted whenever i try to participate in large social activities or popularity contests.

@finbees 8 лет назад

Same, honestly.

@mle1872 8 лет назад

+El Gringo Dude same. When I talk to someone in a group of people I don't know, I may have the energy to show off to all of them. But then later on I lose interest and I just don't wanna talk to them anymore. I mean I wanna talk to people and don't wanna be alone, make friends, but then feel like I don't want to move on with it. Is this normal :( ?

@dunkelgeburt9614 8 лет назад

+Triple D seems like you are my clone, im having the exact same problem. Whenever im in groups with 3-5 people i feel comftable and even can laugh a lot. But when im alone with another one or a girl, i have to think of everything twice about what i want to say. The result is that i never have good converstations with people moreover they dont really want to do something with me plus i dont get a a grilfriend easily.

@mle1872 8 лет назад

felix ml Yeah I can handle it if another guy or girl comes in but I just lose my interest after awhile like I wanna go somewhere else

@ri0tgh0ooul89 8 лет назад

+El Gringo Same, I'm usually the sarcastic, punny friend that cracks most of the jokes to get people laughing. Though I love seeing and making people happy, just being in a huge, crowded environment drains me and I've even had anxiety attacks in the past because of it. However, something I've discovered for myself to help me stay calm in huge places has helped. Like reading alone at a cafe or restaurant, people will leave me alone, and sometimes another introvert or book lover in general will come over and talk to me about my book. Or going to a concert that I would love to go to, but there is too many faces there and it's all cramped. I only go to those with a maximum of two close friends, or I go by myself. I also live in PA, so most concerts take place in large fields, people who stand or sit in the fields pay less, this is what me and other introverts do since it's not cramped and you get to see all of the light and stage work. Sorry for the long post that probably doesn't have much to do with your comment. Have a good one, now.

@sofiaroberts8918 5 лет назад

Haven't even watched the video, already liked it.

@labertasche8710 6 лет назад

Always make sure to not go alone - always take a close friend with you that is as shy as you are or likes to include you to his or her conversations with other people. With the help of someone like that, it is a whole lot easier to feel comfortable and to even make new friends!

@robertcummings3935 9 лет назад

You missed the most important step: alcohol

@lars526 9 лет назад

introverts are more into heroin

@lars526 9 лет назад

IntrovertedSkorpyo Unfortunately you are right. A lot of people with the introverted personality are prone to addiction, even to things like marijuana and opium, and rely on it just in order to feel good. In the long run though, it makes these people even more anti-social and depressed. Why go out when you can get doped up in your room? I have a small problem with it myself. And yes, it is too bad that we live in an extroverts world, especially in the U.S. We are forced to adapt and to fit into social norms that don't even seem logical to us.

@tracuks 9 лет назад

Dae Dalus I really don't understand why people need to have these limitations like daily Jobs - from 8am to 6pm to get money, so you can survive. I like the idea that you can be free of limitations and get creative. Like Project jobs and etc. Comments here are very helpful, thank you all!

@lars526 9 лет назад

Raivis Tomsons I'd say the general economy and industry of American business, as well as our pop-culture in whole is quite pitted against those with introverted tendencies, and with little consideration for typical worldviews and personality types of introverts

@lars526 9 лет назад

INTJ-Skorpyo7 Is INTJ your personality type? My university tracked me for about a year and concluded that I am INFP. If I remember, both of those personalities make up about 1% of the population haha.

@OneD26 7 лет назад

about the step three, if you're an introvert with social anxiety, this is really not gonna help you, like, helping with serving the food, oh my god, for me it's even worse than staying in a party for too long

@kirotheavenger60 7 лет назад

because a lot of communication of offering food is non verbal. you bring a platter of food and they know what youre offering- easy.

@OneD26 7 лет назад

***** can't relate. i would rather stand doing nothing than serving food, feeling like i'm bothering people, i would prolly do awkward thing, drop food or smtgh, i cant even imagine.

@kirotheavenger60 7 лет назад

moose the awkward thing is getting their attention when theyre in a closed group :/

@OneD26 7 лет назад

Kirothe Avenger that"s one of the thing i'd fear

@OneD26 7 лет назад

***** good tips but most of the time i'm the one that over-react in my head and i feel ridiculous, i mean yea i can stay calm, thats what i always do at my best

@lamo16 2 года назад

thank you, it's really useful tips that i can use for the next time. a few hours ago i was in a party and didn't know how to act so i spend it on my phone not looking or interact to anyone. it's hard time for me to be in a crowded place with high music.

@DigDig_1999 6 лет назад

Ine thing i love with all these introvert videos is that someone else gets it. They understand

@RiaDadiaPlaysMinecraft 7 лет назад

Okay so, I get really tired after parties and I CANNOT talk to a group of over 6 people without my energy draining away and getting a headache. I also hate it when I'm in class and we're working and the noise level is through the roof. Other than that, I like socializing if it's with a close friend and/or someone with whom the conversation won't get awkward. Anyone else?

@spntageous5249 7 лет назад

omg samee! I hate it when its too loud in class and I can't talk to my classmates because when the topics of talking are over, there will be that awkward silence. Also every time when I have to talk to people like for buying something or asking about the direction if I'm lost, I do dozens of scenarios in my head about what to say and what to do

@RiaDadiaPlaysMinecraft 7 лет назад

I have found my people

@jamyamosely4573 7 лет назад

I have the same problem.I plan a bunch of scenarios in my head of what that person could possibly say then they say something completely different! I'm like "Will you just stick to the plan in my head?!" I also have the same problem in class.People will just talk and talk while the teacher is trying to teach and I think "Why did you come here if you're just going to set yourself up to fail in life?Just stay home if you're going to act like an idiot because i don't want you dragging me down when your disruptions land you working at a dumpster."

@RiaDadiaPlaysMinecraft 7 лет назад

LillyPotter352 RIGHT? And I especially cannot stand when I plan out a scenario and everything goes to plan.... except then I forget the scenario.

@jamyamosely4573 7 лет назад

+Ria D. yup the struggle is real XD