Pearl Davis interviews Paul Elam 

You're not bothered by the fact that she said she does the for money and entertainment. That when put on the spot Pearl is unable to defend her positions because all she really knows how to do is memorize some talking points and men are stupid enough to believe she came up with it on her own. Embarrassing.

@@jestcurses9963How is it any different than appearing in the MSM? At least Pearl allows them to actually speak. Everything else you claim to be concerned about is irrelevant. Get your priorities in order and focus this criticism at the people out there actually attacking boys and men.

@@jestcurses9963 138,000+ views. She's helping to get the word out there. That's what matters. The global MSM ignores us at best, and is hostile at worst, so what do you suggest to raise public awareness about men's issues and the toxic creed of feminism?

@@dispositionguise7467 Thanks - great point!

I agree. I wrote a little something in the comment section pertaining to this very notion. In short, Paul would do GREAT on something like Timcast or culturally similar outlets.

Saw this some time ago on pearls channel. Maybe it'll help to draw attention to Paul's channel.

That’s because she is a female and Paul is a male. Simple.

Humbled by your words, sir.

@Ligerpride it's all about Neoteny. Karen Straughan talked about her time going through the same thing.

Right? Pearls channel reaches... But I personally can't stand her. I'm glad that Paul got his incredible voice on her channel.

I second this. Same situation, same lessons & same appreciation for Paul & his messages. Saved my bacon and turned this ship around.

me too. hes a great guy.

I dated a woman for 2-3 weeks and then realized something was seriously wrong w her. I very, *very* gently and carefully disengaged without any collateral damage. Some time later, I watched Paul's video reviewing the DSM's diagnostic criteria for BPD. I was dumbfounded when I realized that woman scored 9 for 9, and what a bullet I had dodged.

What’s the name of his book? Is it in audible?

@@elmersicllacanales1441 "Say goodbye to Crazy..." 2015, its on Amazon BUT I don t know if its on Audible... IT SAVED MY LIFE 🛟... I wish you the Best ❗

Wish Paul was my Dad growing up. I learned the lessons on my own very quickly. Thank God I didn't cave to chix.

@kinnymonster me too..same on those self learned lessons. Don't cave friend...it's not worth it.

Of all the misspellings of the word "definitely" I've ever seen, this one has to be the most creative.

@@giovanniviglietta731 thank

@fermentillc you may also want to try "defiantly". It's another popular one, and my personal favorite before you came up with "deffinently".

The men did show up: in the simp batallion of feminist allies.

​@@goonofhazard2203Those don't count as men.

​@@DaMaster012exactly. I met a guy that pees sitting down. Men have been utterly emasculated

​@@andrewsmith3257Why were you in a cubicle with him?

​@@Nickelodeon81😂

Really? Your wife is "crazy about me" too! What a coincidence

Time for a younger model dude .

Without a wife you practically have 50 percent discount on everything.

@@Slickhubert absolutely I agree 👍 😆

@@Slickhubert 75% 😉

@@totallycv2388 how is it 75 percent????

@@totallycv2388 should it be 99 Percent lol

Paul should go on Timcast. I agree. I loved you on Timcast Pearl, and you will always be a Ten for me! Love ya girl.

And Modern Wisdom!

Wow i guess you are a muslim brother they always push men to be patient and not divorce gynocentrism has destroyed the muslim men today its even worse in the west

I miss Tom.

Agreed, I've also loved old school guys like; Stardusk, Barbarossa, etc

@@danx1216 agreed

@@TheJabawake Leykis has become a left wing idiot bisexual

@@danx1216 Sandman is a SIMP...he says thinga that are true but he cucks to wo-MEN anyway....he beilves Weinstein's accussers! In fact Weinstein was FRAMED.;;.; his 2 main accussers were banging him for 5 years sometimes of their mothers house

Those were the days!

Go read "On Women" by Arthur Schopenhauer for the ultimate red pill essay. 170 years ago.

I promise you, this interview will be the gateway for some men to find other red pill content and a new life.

@@_Brennus Can you summarize the bottom line of the book, tried reading a few pages and it was a little dense ? I may still buy it !

The solution is to not be "average" within as many metrics as are possible for you. I'm not tall. Within every other metric (those which are controllable), I am in the range of "above average" to "truly exceptional". Forget the equality, forget the blame, and forget the self-pity. If you want something, it is your responsibility to reach for it and get it. More importantly, it is within your power to do so. Do you go to the gym? Are you in shape? Do you look after your diet? Have you put in the effort to become a high-earner (e.g. building a business or working your way up in one somebody else has built)? Do you own useful things? Do you have interesting hobbies? Are you an interesting and impressive man, who has the respect of other interesting and impressive men? If you answered "no" to any of the above, you know what to work on, so go and do it. Seriously, man. The bar for "average" these days is so low, that even the bare minimum amount of effort will put you above it. Do 5 chin-ups and you're already better than the vast majority of men. Most can't do any. Run a mile without gassing out. Start a business. You don't even have to make a profit. Just starting is something most haven't bothered to do. Learn to play an instrument. Don't fidget when you talk to people (especially women). It's not as hard as you're making out. And don't give me the bull that it's too late because you're 40. If you're in doubt, check how old Leonardo Da Vinci was when he finally started getting recognition for his exceptional works.

@@DangerRifai I'm beyond familiar with all that you're putting out, & agree with it generally, but the devil is always in the details which ruins the questionnaire of what "I'm doing". The fact of the matter is 40 is too late for men, just like 30 is the wall for women, men who don't reach a certain threshold by 40 also reach a wall, can't just start from scratch, if they even reach that age to begin with bcuz the subconscious is already screaming they're not who they should be when it is apparent nothing is going right in their lives(the mental illness epidemic), personally I dealt with all this stuff last decade, only able to bring myself to where I should've been 20 years earlier, but content with the fact I did the best with what I had, which was basically nothing at every moment of of importance, & that's the biggest issue with most people who hear genuine struggles in a world of manufactured victimization, everyone is so quick to assume those who are suffering deserve to in this society that has instructed them in irrationality, irresponsibility, envy, & a government who purposely kept as much quiet as possible. Only people who are guided correctly(or at all) make something of themselves the rest are discarded, & fair enough, we all have our own set of problems, but it's dramatically understated how most of us were bate n switched at best by liars, or given the shaft by god it seems especially when death is involved.

@@DangerRifai So you have to try 100 time harder for modern hoes that your grandfather did for a virgin? No thanks. MGTOW.

@@DangerRifai Oh please....Not another Jordan Peterson style "Clean your room" speech. Nothing you say is wrong, but for a great many men, it simply isn't realistic. You have no idea how much damage a life of rejection does to a man. You have no idea the effort it takes to try to improve and STILL get rejected. That pain cuts to the core and makes the next attempt even more difficult. The impact of fear of rejection is easily underestimated. It can make real progress of this type next to impossible. For a lot of men, the demands women set are simply too high. For a lot of men, their own fear makes it impossible for them to get out of their own way long enough to matter. And then they are the poor guys who are on the spectrum. This idea that they can make the changes necessary is akin to telling Danny De Vito that with some hard work he too can play in the NBA. Having dealt with these issues myself, I know the only viable solution for many men and self improvement is a very minor component. The whole flaw with the self improvement argument should be pretty obvious. Most men are ALREADY good enough. It is not our fault that women set unrealistic standards. The "Clean your room" argument assumes women are blameless and that their standards are correct. This argument, like everything blue pilled, refuses to hold women accountable for their choices and puts women on a pedestal. Once you understand that you really are good enough and that it is Western women who are lost, it is much easier to feel confident as well. No longer do you need to feel like you are not good enough. Instead, you now can realize that finding women who appreciate a good man without insane demands is the challenge. Doing that is possible, but very difficult. More on that later.... So here is the basic outline of what men who are struggling in the dating market need to do. 1. You need to heal. You need to grieve. This is FAR from easy, but unless you do, you simply won't be in a good enough mental space to have a good experience with dating. That aspect of being broken is more or less impossible to hide and it will drive women away. 2. You need to find women who are interested in what you have to offer. If you happen to be almost a fit with the women in your life, then the "Clean your room" approach might just work. But if you are meeting heavy resistance, you need to realize that you are not the problem. The problem is the insane expectations of so many women. 3. If the women in your life are simply not interested, you need to meet DIFFERENT women. I am assuming you live in the West. If so, your best bet is to simply meet women who are not from the West. You will be amazed at the difference this can make. For me, it was literally like night and day. I went from being ignored to being a guy who could EASILY get dates. I went to the Philippines and just used dating apps. I met a great woman and we have been together for almost 6 years now.

@@ligafftheindifferent3495thanks for saving me the time of responding to that guy. It’s incredible how much men have to give and give and give with less return everyday, but women can just shoe up and be themselves and get pats on the back for it. Truly pathetic. Paul is right though, we have enabled a lot of this behavior and as men we NEED to stop. Although it’s probably already too late

Better Paul than two Team$ Trump, aka Frater Warpspeed.

As socialism progresses (and what is socialism if not the archetype of the devouring mother?) men will increasingly realize the cards they are being dealt by the mommy state. But men are really slow.

solipsistic...Had to look that one up. We used to call that a 50 cent word.

@@gilreamit’s common language in the red pill. Probably since the early 2000s. But it’s good you looked it up.

A few, but their in their 90s likely

It generally dissipates after a woman's reproductive years but they have accumulated more baggage in other areas by then. Depends allot on what type of slop your willing to eat.

The woman I've dated for two years now, has never shown the slightest hint of vindictiveness. And I've been in one twenty year relationship/marriage, and another 8+ year relationship, plus plenty of dating. I'm not new to the game, but I've found a unicorn. They do exist.

@@rhenriksen...she is until she isn't then you are destroyed.

@@lionandlamb9465 I'm not married, not would I without a prenup. And no kids - we're in our 50s. You don't have to project your pessimism over everyone else.

I'm in the same boat with my adult children. Your not alone. It's far more common than most people think. Think about what's best for you and move on as best as possible. Best of luck!

You are on a crowded island my friend

Walk away.

Wish you knew? Ecclesiasticus 16:3 says it all. "....and better it is to die without children, than to have them that are ungodly." The Bible is the biggest red-pill if we'd read it.

I really appreciate Paul's balanced approach, and how he calls out men for their own failures. The need for men to stop thinking with the little head is imperative; but damn difficult to do because of the power of mother nature's programming. Perhaps that's the silver lining of porn: by giving men a way to 'get the poison out' (without having to deal with modern, entitled, delusional women who aren't viable long term partners), those men opting out of dating are dodging the bullets. Ideally, these young men would direct their energy towards self improvement, and setting healthy boundaries with women instead. But a silver lining is a silver lining, nonetheless.

Women are wholesale *incapable* of understanding what men have to suffer through. It's not just that they well and truly do not care (though that is the case for many, most likely the majority of them), it's that it is impossible for them even to fathom having to carry the world on their shoulders and have it be a thankless job, to be expendable, and to be unloved. This is best typified by Norah Vincent's profound book, _Self Made Man,_ where she disguised herself and lived as a man for a year and a half. Only when she role played as a man did she realize how no one cares about men and how lonely they are. Unfortunately, in part due to the trauma and psychological scars she inflicted upon herself in her experiment to better understand men, Norah had herself euthanized in 2022. Really let that sink in; it's impossible for women to fully empathize with men until they experience the life of a man for themselves, and when they do it drives many of them to suicide.

Very good James. That's the way to do it!!!

They say "influencer," especially when it applies to themselves, all I hear is "false prophet."

Naw, you just don't get it. PEARL is THEE MOST CREDIBLE of ALL the fe-MALE MRA'S

But you have peace and tranquility 💪... And more money...

Peace!!! & Quite!!!

@@itadakihokkaido4305 👍

Don't complain when the trash in your life takes itself out.

@@DaMaster012 That's beautiful man!

... after marriage discovery. This happens to many of us. Can't take full responsibility in such a case. You don't know what you don't know.

They had to do something when they all look the same! 😂

Bird? Are you a 100 yrs old?