Pearl reminds me of how i was at 13. disconnected from mom, more comfortable with guys, instead of trying to connect with the women in my life i just stuck to what i knew... shes just so wounded bro and needs actual therapy
As a constant critic of this girl, this interview exposed a lot. She seems to lack the ability to be self aware. She’s created a persona that is soooo consumed with other peoples lives and business that it doesn’t seem she has anything of value to actually say. As soon as you wanted to talk about ANYTHING that wasn’t her talking points she got this distant and bored look on her face. It’s quite sad.
Pearl is obsessed with other women being the perfect woman and she constantly and consistently ignores the fact she doesn't fall into that category at ALL. She is the opposite of what she talks about it and expects a pedal stool for her words.
You're completely wrong about that and your ignorance shows you don't actually listen to what she says. She admits her flaws so I don't know why you said that.
@@manda_musings8459 Genuine question... genuine answer. I'm pretty sure black dudes are in the minority of those that consume her content, we just may be the more visible for some reason. I watch Whatever podcast but I can't stand Brian Atlas so I can't say that black dudes "like" her. There are times that she seems unfairly targeted although she walks herself right into the firing line a lot. Some black dudes may say "she's speaking the truth and saying the things that we always say and feel". It may also be an "enemy of my enemy is my friend" type of situation with black dudes believing we're on the same side. Black dudes may also have an affinity for her because she was fond of Kevin Samuels and many of us would've discovered her from him and followed her journey from that moment. Some of us may respect her grind and the work she's done and how she was able to build her platform the way she has. She also listens to men. She took counsel and even paid for coaching sessions from many of the black male content creators that we know which shows that she's coachable and willing to learn. She also supports those men and their platforms. But, possibly the most understated factor is she's a "Plain Jane" which makes her much more relatable than other women in the space. She's not all "caked up" with makeup and doesn't sexualize herself to get attention and men respect that. Men are very suspicious and skeptical of female content creators that talk about mens issues because they think they're grifters and chameleons. Pearl seems to have past the smell test. There have been many women who've been in the space that have burned men. Many of them went on full campaigns against Pearl so it's possible that black men defended her because of that. Now to be fair... the old Pearl is the most likeable. She saying and doing things now that's not the smartest and going in directions that are obvious landmines. I don't think it's smart for her to do that. It was really her panel show that was her claim to fame but she refuses to bring that back because of the stress I guess.
Looking at her as she was my daugter. I hope her private live is doing well. As a father, I should worry. All her sentences with 'like'. High voice. Acting like a 19 years old. Downgrading herself. Not taking herself seriously. No insight in own psychy. Laughing all her issues away. Not behaving as a adult, serene woman who brings peace in mind of a man. As a father I would feel guilty. About her upbringing. 27 years old. If she's 30 in not in a relationship, then she probably won't have kids. She's also claimed that it takes about three years for a woman to convince a man to marry her. earl is 27 years old. So by our math and her rules, she's got eight years before she fails her own outlandish standards on marriage.
Three years? Men know pretty quickly if they want to marry you or not. It doesn't take years... Me and my husband knew the night we met. Not a Pearl fan, btw. But yeah, if she wants marriage and kids, it's wise to prioritize that now instead of the boss babe venture she's on.
@@SJ-ru4ejTrue. The kind that’d say it takes them 3 years don’t understand marriage, know what they want and how to get it, or are just plainly trying to string women along.
@@karin38539 Agreed. I've seen so many instances of couples dating/living together for 5 years. They break up, and one of them is engaged within a year to someone else. Pearl is simply very immature and just an influencer whose found ways to go viral. She says all the time that women not married by 25 have issues/are used up and not marriage material. She projects a lot.
She comes off as incredibly vapid. She can only regurgitate on 1 topic, albeit not that in depth. She often looks vacant and talks like an 18 year old and looks 45.
Pearl thinks mothers raise the worst kids and abuse the kids. But yet believes in the traditional roles, where the mom is to stay home and raise and be with the kids all day and night.. 🤔
He just does such a fantastic job at mirroring to make her feel more comfortable and then drops absolute BOMBSHELLS of questions to get right into her psyche and she doesn’t even notice.
@@Mayajolie0908 I just hate people when they try to analyze them. Shit, that's going on with their psyche? The guy analyzed pearl from straight up, he analyzed her she's, the type of girl that don't tolerate bullshit that she's the type of woman that demands the truth, I mean you know, exactly what I said stop mirroring. do personality onto someone a pearls nature
Not quite. I would speculate it’s the dynamic between her parents and more so to her dad the way she seeks approval. The blame just goes to her mother or maybe other women and is misdirected, because of the actual feelings about her dad she doesn’t even know are there.
I wonder that too. Both her mother and father played big roles in her dad's business. She always talked about her dad working but never her mom. She also said she used to hate how her mom would fat shame her. She says now she appreciates it but we don't know her heart. She always puts her dad on a pedestal which is cool but she leaves her mom out.
I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother resents her a little. Pearl constantly downplays her mother’s role in her parent’s company. She even claimed on H3H3 that her mother was CEO in name only, to get a tax break or something. That was very disrespectful. Can you imagine your daughter doing that to you?
40 minutes in and it doesn’t feel like an interview about her. She deflects very well. It seems like she is here to defeat her support for red pill thinking.
Anytime David tried to ask about Pearl, how she felt, or what she thought, it reverberated to how other people felt or what they thought or did. Pearl's entire personality is about upsetting people and setting asinine standards for others, surrounded by male issues that don't even represent her or her upbringing.
You can use the same argument for any female interviewed then. Your point proves nothing. Her podcast is great, you should watch it. I get it though, living your whole life acting like men are bad and women are pure is hard to let go. All men want is for women to be held accountable just like men are. We don't want any privileges (unlike women who act like their privileges are "rights").
I'm being genuine. Why do you think that? like why is the assumption that they were inaccurate or dishonest vs they were truthful? I know through the medium of these conversations it always sounds confrontational. I want you to understand that I am really trying not to be.
She also only interviews men who’ve been part of the extreme situations. Doesn’t interview happily married men, doesn’t interview couples who have equal custody and have remained on good terms even after a divorce, doesn’t interview women who’ve been abandoned or cheated on and left in a bad situation.
@@JarodJoseph There are examples of female content creators who criticize female behaviors and choices. Pearl is another level. She has a deep hatred for women and this probably has to be linked to her mother. If you follow her and can't see it, you are most likely also a misogynist.
It feels like she is not much aware of herself. No idea who she is. Nor that she cares much about finding it out. However, without selfawareness there is no growth. She could be hiding her inner Self or is just really unaware. But there are not many signes of Self growth. So even if she was fighting for the best case in the world how far can she get? This is probably why she is not liked by many. People get when someone is not understanding them. And we, humans, don't like that. But it is hard to understand others when you don't know yourself. She is by now present to much to do it just for fun of it. This comes with certain responsibility. One more thing.. Even when a woman has strong opinions and strong stand of what her partner should be like and advocates for what Pearl advocates for, she is also using it as a sort of manipulation over man, choice of her man and his future behaviour within their relationship.
@@Sandy-of6gq exactly. . We can not say anything bad about her in that way, but in sense of awareness she is like a child who has an idea. That idea could even be good. I am also not commenting on the content. But now that child needs few decades of life, learning and development to grow into that idea. And that for me is missing and is also, in my opinion, what makes people look away from here. I doubt she is able to find a strong and healthy developed man. At this point maybe just a fun and nice guy to date. She is preaching something that she is yet not ready for. People see through that. But her audience is already too big and from start to here she did not complete her journey. This is where she is loosing her credits. Loud talking, no walking
Ok... but 97% of the people on this planet couldn't walk a 1/4 mile in her shoes. The poop she has to deal with on a daily basis, the hate, the ridicule, the attacks, the scrutiny, the random youtube commentor judging her.... everything she says and does being used against her. People want to take her down. They want to prove her wrong. She is dealing with far more than damn near any of us could bear. That, in and of itself, requires more personal growth than most of us will ever develop.
Very common for over thinkers and people who constantly try to portray a certain image. Also for people who have experienced a lot of grief, and don’t want to feel it.
@@user-ls4my6ic2h Yes. And I think her being very loud when it doesn’t really fit demonstrates a lot of unresolved anger. (Some people withdraw/very passive but wouldn’t want to see them reach their limit and become very quiet, while others become louder) Both live in a world of should and shouldn’t more than most.
Just a few minutes in and she’s already showing her inconsistencies/grifting statements for attention and her disrespect towards her mother. She’s said on Twitter that deadbeat Dads don’t exist, yet mentions them in the beginning. Why bring them up if they don’t exist…? Who refers to their mother as a “chick”? Her parents’ hard work allowed her to do all of the things that many others don’t get to do. She’s talked about her Dad funding her whole business. Most people have to start with nothing. She’s talked down on women who have nannies, childcare help and who have a career instead of being home full time, time and time again so clearly there’s something she’s harboring against her mother.
Gosh, you made that theory up in your head and are desperate to find "evidence" for it. Quote the second she refers to her mom as "chick". Btw, never be a mom. Clearly your "freedom" and "fun time" would be more important than your kids needs for you.
She clearly would have rather had her mother more present during her childhood, and believes mothers should be with their children. There’s nothing inconsistent here.
she said, _“It‘s not like the dead beat dads that they paint- like fathers that are not in their kids lives…“_ They are not the dead beat dads as they are painted. If English isn’t your first language or you struggle with idioms - she’s saying they’re not the dead beat dads others accuse them of being. That’s consistent.
@@-John-Doe- Do not use reasoning mate. Feminists create their made up theories in their minds and expect everyone to go around "supporting" them. It got to a point their delusions are backed not only by all of the simp society, but also by whole governments. There is no turning back. Let them enjoy their cats.
I’m so incredibly bored listening to Pearl’s responses. She doesn’t come off as incredibly intelligent and she apparently cannot conjure up a coherent argument. I want to be open to her opinions but unless this was edited badly, she gives almost nothing when her ideas are pushed back on.
Watch when the topic of her and her mother comes up how he adjusts. She mentions that she lives far from her parents and that's why they aren't close and his way of getting her to talk is a pause, then pretends he is thinking about it and sort of pulls up his shoulders to almost show a vulnerability or awkwardness (all body language) and then tells her ' I just want to understand you' Now isn't that music to anyone's ears. He acts more sincere in that moment, uses flattery, disrupts eye contact so as to not make her feel too bombarded with the question so that she will be okay with it . WOW, learnt a lot here.
Her view of the world and relationships is so simplified, it's like she is mentally 12 years old boy who hates his mom and therefore all famales, it's obvious she has a huge problem with THE MOTHER, but she's so unaware of anything, she doesn't want to see.
If she doesn't understand why people care so much about something that are "just words" why doesn't she like to watch when someone talks about her with different opinion? Why does that upset her? It's just words. She can then just be an adult about it and not get upset
She speaks in general & her detractors attack her personally. I guess you can't tell the difference. If I speak in general & you attack me; expect me to flame you the same or worse to the treatment you've given me. It's not difficult to understand.
@@vincentallen1318 I understand what you are saying. But what she says generaly also attacks people personaly. If you generaly say women should not vote, you are also adressing each women personaly. And if she had better understanding of people she would know that. But to have that she would need to have better understanding of her inner world as well.
@@felixiana saying women shouldn't vote is not a personal attack on 1 person. It's a general statement. There are women on the internet that say way worse about all men. I don't take it personally.
@@vincentallen1318 I agree with what you are saying. When people are aware of themselves it is not Important to them what anyone says. But people who gained space and power to pass their words to many should be more aware of the power of those words. Especialy if there are good things they have to say and are not doing it just for fun.
@@felixiana I hear you, but Pearl is 1 woman with that view that is “internet” famous. The View, Oprah, & numerous legacy liberal & conservative outlets have been throwing men under the bus for decades.
wild how opinionated she is on any subject that isn't herself. For someone to be curious and so driven to seek the truth. It's shocking how little she knows about her self. My hope is that she gets curious about "little pearl" and everything that makes her who she is and learns how to connect and stay connected with herself. She bright so I know she'll be able to articulate herself very well when she learn how to connect.
“Everyone just wanted to be good at stuff.” Her parents made the kids compete with each other. She’s angry at her mom for letting it happen. All this misogyny is just mommy issues. So sad!
I think she has daddy issues because shes desperate for male attention. Like daughters of single mothers. People with mommu issues are desperate for women, just the opposite
I don’t understand why men don’t date her. I mean, if she is saying the stuff you want to hear, why go after women who don’t share those values. There will also be traditional women, why go for the ones who aren’t. No need to be angry or upset, just say we don’t want the same things. I wish you all the best.
I don't doubt she needs therapy but I do doubt she'll let her mask down long enough to reveal wtf is going on inside. Have saved this on my 'watch later' list for when my curiosity gets bigger than my care energy, because I really could not care less for her as a human being, her work attempts to undermine women's rights and she seems to dislike herself and hate her mother. But my curiosity as to what makes a person be that way is definitely present.
It’s very ironic that Pearl preaches the kind of beauty that men want, but doesn’t partake in those feminine things herself. I wonder if there’s some jealousy there that influences her attitude towards women
This is the most vulnerable I've seen Pearl. She hides behind humor & deflects a lot. She lacks wisdom & life experience on many of these topics so she's not as clever as she thinks
I kind of feel like she surrounds herself with people who agree with her in her personal life and that gives her the feeling she knows everything. Then she puts on the "show" but doesn't understand why others don't agree with her because she is "right" I very much get the vibe that I get when my 19 year old explains things... she seems sweet but misguided
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
I’m not sure if anybody peeped that this guy is just agreeing with her at the beginning to gain her trust. I feel like majority of the things “he’s agreeing with” is just to make her feel safe to talk so he can analyze her true self…..
I think this is some wishful thinking, that he doesn’t really agree with her crazy views. But he outright says he agrees that women shouldn’t vote. Ohhh and now I just got to “why is coloniser bad? I want to reclaim that.” Immediately followed by how Nick Fuentes is an “interesting guy.” YIKES. He so sycophantic as well.
he's pandering to her a bit. I think the idea is that, at any age, it doesn't mean anyone is less attractive, and to what audience? to say it objective that we are less attractive as we get older just doesn't make any sense. Him "admitting" this is true to Pearl is disingenuous because he doesn't even believe that. He's pandering to her opinion to "meet her where she is", which I understand in a sense. But it's factually untrue.
Yes I agree. To call her this sweet girl who just wants to love and share her curiosity about the world is strange. Unless the point was just to get her to put her guard down because she wants people to think that. If so, he could have done that without giving her the princess bullshit
Why are you pandering to ask people like these? Do you really want to be like that bad? Man, something is really wrong with you. I like Pearl, because of her rebellious, I like pearl, because she's unique after all this garbage today, give to you on the Internet. And she's tell you the truth if you like it a lot.
it was definitely to get her guard down. the indications of his tone of voice and forced laughter say it all to me personally. it worked! he coupled that pandering with challenging statements, so many things she responded with backfired and often contradicted her own words! i think this was a great watch
@@pikachu2511 to be honest though pearl understand what these fake therapist? Trying to do that's why she laughed it off like was funny, and that's why she really didn't walk away like normal girls usually do pearl sit there and listen to him and actually made jokes with them. Pearl panda him. To the point that it wasn't even funny, then people talking about Pearl leaving Pearl is creating a new fucking show.clowns have no idea what you're talking about
This is so refreshing. To see two grown adults have a genuine and free flowing conversation. No judgment, no ridicule, no "trying to win", no drama. People today can't even listen to an opposing concept without getting triggered and LOOSING THEIR MINDS. Productive communication. Today... almost everyone walks into a situation defensively and on a hair-pin trigger just waiting..... waiting, itching, to go off. Tension... everything is tense. It is exhausting to deal with.
I've scrolled through a few comments and haven't seen anybody triggered or "losing their minds." It's just that this is a therapy session, and Pearl tossed the ball out of her park numerous times by talking about other situations that didn't pertain to her.
It’s almost like she wants to infantalize men. Like they need permission to lead and it’s women’s fault if they can’t. Where as David is coming from a place where men should be in touch with their own authority
I dont think she has ever been in a relationship. I am pretty sure she has never dealt with men for real, only in her statistics, she doesnt seem to grasp all the bullshit women get from men in relationships.
She has been in one “long term” relationship, and it wasn’t that long. She got catfished by a homeless guy who is now known on RU-vid as Angry Reactions. He was everything she tells men they should avoid. He had no job and two kids out of wedlock. She actually moved him into her parents mansion and helped him build up his RU-vid presence. Then he dumped her and got a hotter girlfriend he shows off on his channel.
Pearl is very dismissive, seems dishonest and tries to come off as nonchalant when you can tell she‘s not. I dont know why she can‘t properly answer like 80% of his questions it‘s kind of frustrating i can‘t even watch this to the end
You have to remember, pearl has never been in a real relationship, shes never been tempted by someone or a man who was tempted to cheat, shes never been with a guy who cheated on her so of course she has very innacurate views when it comes to relationships and marriages. She has no grounds to preach views on marriage let alone infidelity
You have no idea what your talking about. You don't know anything about Pearl at all, if you can say what you just said. Just like most the comment section here. You just hate Pearl with no real reason, your just following the crowd. smh
@VRIceblast she's literally never had a real relationship, she said she dated one guy for a short time and it ended quickly and wouldn't disclose why. I don't like pearl because she takes radical stances and refuses to apply and discuss those radical ideologies to her own life, she's fine with tearing apart other women and won't discuss the exact same topic in relation to her own personal life. She's a hypocrite.
@@VRIceblastshe has all of these opinions and judgements but none are from experience, they're from research or watching someone else. Like him trying to talk to her about her being married someday and he's trying to tell her that women calling men on their bs is inevitable and she says that's wrong. Whether it's right or wrong it's inevitable and she's never dated to understand how two people who love eachother interact, yet she judges so many marriages and based her whole platform on how marriage should be, meanwhile she's barely dated enough to know how real relationship interactions work or effect the relationship
This was really eye opening. Pearl has some hatred towards her mother. She doesn’t feel like she’s good enough so she takes it out on other women. It’s quite sad. I can’t imagine a mother fat shaming her daughter and it turning out ok. I also think she has ADHD which explains a lot of her behavior. Lots of people with ADHD have low self esteem, and she definitely does. She’s described herself as all over the place, forgetful, spends money on buying things she forgot, lacks self awareness…
I didn’t know therapy was about flattering a person in every way possible and not challenging their thought processes at all lol. Good to know from a therapist’s perspective that’s what you should do 🤦♀️
He is not a licensed therapist. He is a energetics practitioner. I do not know what exactly that entails, but I wouldn’t compare this video to the true therapeutic process especially bc there is a camera and expectation there will be viewers
We have society, the government and the media regurgitating propaganda to give women ever more privileges and bail them out in every bad decision they make but the second someone like Pearl has the courage to speak out against that then it is all "one sided" 🤡 You can see the women that go into her podcast how delusional they are (it's like it is the first time in their lives their ideologies ever got a push back and they are all shocked about it as they are so used of people just bowing down to their demands and supporting everything they say).
She's only listening to one side because that's the side that's consistently ignored. We don't need the woman's side because that's the only side we get consistently.
@@axpsanchez Enlight us how she has "no life experience"? Chick has interviewed thousands of people, both in her podcast and on the streets, gets shit constantly from feminists and simps, got her channel demonetized (yet didn't sell her soul for $$). Pearl has far more life experience than any of you "believe all women" simps will ever do.
This is often a tactic psychotherapists take in order to gain the trust of the patient! To agree and affirm, but then de-root and analyze. For an analogy: if plant is deformed, you don't deny its malformation, you would turn to its root structure or where it's located/constrained by. These conversations would all be arguments if he outright rejected their beliefs.
Yep. Me and my husband love each other more than anything but it can be really hard some days. We argue. We have disagreements. We’ve said things we don’t mean when we’re upset. We get on each other’s nerves. There’s some days that are really hard. But all the good things far surpass that. She’ll see if she ever gives up this career to have a husband and family. By her own statements, she’s running out of time and is old to be married now and will only attract some leftover loser: She thinks it’s all a walk in the park.
I try to be charitable to Pearl, but she just seems like an empty vessel. This was at least the least standoffish I've ever seen her in an interview, which isn't surprising because of David.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh her mom sort of left her and abused her, its like I can sense shame on Pearls face and its bcs she must have been suffered a lot of narc abuse and neglect. Often dominant and wealthy parents lack love so they control children in a psychological games and thats abuse rather then teaching to live. Pearl probably think her mother failed bcs she was not a peace maker in home and loving parent present in their lives. But I also think dad was failing, ofcourse, in last few centuries men are crazy.. I also think Pearl suffered abuse from her mom bcs mom is not religious as Pearl and those children who are more religious than parents suffer a lot of criticism and this I talk from experience, if child is more religious than parents then parents "put down" that child often and you need years to sort of streghten yourself bcs you are an easy target as a child and through development, those children have really hard life. I dont thunk actually that Pearl lacks femininity, I think she is very feminine and atractive, but modern mind see feminine girl as someone who is fake, not authentic, playful in a bad and prideful way, with tons of make up or with dresses and heels, someone who is seductive all the time ect. but thats not feminine, thats just nasty people who want to have fun and success in modern time. I have a lot more to write but I dont want to be boring. Im curious, do you think Pearl defend men bcs she is trying to help them?
@@lukak882 pearl defends men at the expense of women or herself. That is a little strangle. An unbiased person should be able to see both sides. But some of pearls takes are quite extreme. I think it's the same formular. Most male redpill creators come from divorced homes. I'm not familiar with pearls background but I haven't seen creators from these communities who come from healthy religious homes.
I really appreciate your open heart and the way you approach these interactions. I can tell you've done a lot of work to heal things most people haven't achieved yet, or ever will. It's inspiring and I admire you. As a nearly lifelong fan (GG dropped when I was EXACTLY Rory's age) - - - - it's unbelievably refreshing to see this very human side of you. Love this content, David. Keep going.
She's not interested in their side. She believes it's their fault. She wants to hear from the victim which according to her, is always the man. Most of the time, it's both people.
@@Far7rom Right, and she automatically blames them as though she knows what goes on in other people's marriages. She's barely had a boyfriend for more than a few months.
That's because every single other channel (the government, the main stream media, etc) only looks only at the woman side already. It's hard to give a voice to the other side isn't it? Pearl is just about the only female outthere giving a voice to men. If that hurts you, so be it.
That’s why she doesn’t open up to the personal questions…she doesn’t want to be exposed. The more you dig the more you find out she’s not being genuine.
No one cares the motivations. The important thing is she is doing a great good to humanity attacking feminism and the greatest ills of society that it caused, based in facts, logic and stats. So standing for what is Truth, no one really care why she does it.
Pearl really misses the mark. She’s idolizing men like she idolizes her dad. She didn’t like how her mommy treated her daddy who worked so hard and was treated so… She wants the praise from men when she puts down the women. Question is why? And what has that gotten her? It’s not authority that’s missing or necessary. It’s leadership. Women aren’t allowing men to lead and many men are not showing up as leaders. If men want different kind of women they need to stop messing around with the kind of women they don’t like or wouldn’t take home.
Don't every woman do that, there's REM, not there, that's daddy, girl's there has been like that for ages.I honestly think you are pandering, because you don't know how to be like Pearl, everybody has a conscience, and some people get tired of using theirs for the greater good of the relevant type of bullshit, the female mind, because y'all are fucked up
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
@@bloodmoonxx3174 Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
@@Leo6933 problems that haven't been spoken about by mainstream or popular culture. So it's not that easy, especially when you get de-platformed/ demonetized for speaking on them. By the way, what media outlets actually provide practical solutions in the first place? Besides changing the laws, which is the 1st solution that isn't practical because of how politicians pander to the female demo.
@@vincentallen1318 I’m waiting for her say something besides the same 3 talking points she does in every interview for the last 2 years. Sorry, she comes off VERY disingenuous. She LITERALLY grew up privileged with the perfect parents. What’s her motivation for being red-pill??? Doesn’t make any sense and She rode the red-pill wave when it got popular and says random wild stuff every couple months to stay relevant like saying women shouldn’t be allowed to vote 🙄.
@@Leo6933 she said that the red pill was just a point of interest that took a deep dive into. Nothing wrong with that. She also said that someone close to her (a man) was victim to some the modern circumstances concerning male/ female dynamics as a big reason why she speaks on these issues. I don't see how being born into privilege discredits anyone from talking on these issues. Her believing that women shouldn't vote isn't a big deal. Considering how it’s a trend that women openly say that men should die out & have no use online daily.
It sounds so wild how these people speak about women. Like all women MUST be this thing that SHOULD be contained under the right circumstances. It’s cringe but apparently people find it enjoyable so…
Well people speak about men on generalisations too (and worse, governments create whole institutions and draft laws based on those same generalisations). It's only fair we can do the same for women.
@@vincentallen1318 If my women friends started "trashing men" they would find themselves alone without support of men or women. The same goes for men who trash women
@@ElVerdaderoAbejorro The people who created these obstacles to men are the older and more successful men in every generation. Misandry isn't perpetuated by most women, it's men that have ALWAYS tried to fuck other men over.
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
He did the same thing with Tate. This is how you know he’s only trying to put on a show. He agrees with everything they say and never challenged their beliefs, no matter how fucked up and damaging they are. If you want to see a real therapist who is actually phenomenal at connecting and empowering young men (other demographics too) watch Dr. K from Healthy Gamer. He teaches people to take accountability and do some serious self-reflection without the fucked up BS this guy believes in.
Yes im a therapist myself, 13 years in america, and no offense to this guy but his approach to therapy is lacking alot of push, some of us dont want to be your friend, we got paid or hired to help with a problem not to be your buddy, he isnt challenging her thinking, well time to go clap some cheeeeeeks, oh and if u stilll reeeaaading after this then yeeeep, im not a real theraaaapist just wanted to show u how easily u are deceived and u heard that little noise far away? Thats me clapping ya mommiessss cheeks
1:17:29 Hannah, the “something you said,” was repeatedly calling women “whales,” and other nasty things like that. We know who you’re talking about and she spoke publicly. It wasn’t because you were conservative or famous, it was because you were being nasty, and you know it. “Don’t watch it,” doesn’t fly. We don’t bury our heads in the sand when it comes to our friends being nasty people. From what she’s said, she gave you chances to explain yourself or backtrack, and you stood by it. No, we can’t always separate the opinions from the person. I would not be friends with a racist, for example. You weren’t betrayed, no one owes you their friendship. Someone decides you’re not a person they want to be friends with, and that’s it. Friendship isn’t transactional.
Rumor is too that she was jealous of that friend getting married. That friend has already been married for years and Pearl is still single. She even said Pearl desperately wanted a relationship when she knew her and has never been in anything long term.
This lady is a grifter. I seen a documentary on the tubes and her whole family and best friend lay it all out. How she was a normal nobody who had a video with an opinion go viral. She touts her talking points for attention, even if that attention is negative. Views equal money.
@@ceresetilton5371 I don't think you realise you have only mentioned an assumption and opinions of people on her.. people you don't even know... I wonder how you would react to people in your circle bulshitting about you wrongly and people believing that while not even asking you about it... About she getting viral etc well that hold for everyone whos famous nowadays... And she's not claiming to be a saviour or anything... If you disagree with her opinions that you are entitled to, if you disagree with the facts she states, you need to see a doctor.
hi david! i want you to know that i genuinely thank you for this content. it has opened my eyes to a deeper understanding of myself and i have great gratitude that you offer this to the mass! to feel someone -- that is best takeaway i've learned from you so far. dont ever change!
Oh my god yes!!! All my theories of pearl just confirmed! Amazing. Poor lost human…clearly a cry for help just accepting this interview. My initial two theories were that her channel was a social experiment or she had a bad upbringing with a working mother who had little time for her and a father that only gave attention if a tangible accomplishment was made. She hates her parents deep down and holds deep seated resentment. She was probably the kid that did not achieve things like her siblings and got lost in the shuffle, never left the nest type…so started a RU-vid channel and loved the attention and sense of wanting. Her psychology is so blatant throughout all her videos. It’s also kind of a sad realization that this is what is entertaining…people with traumas. I hope you grow pearl and wish you the best, you really need to analyze why you think the way you do and don’t base it off your small increment of time interviewing men and women in the court system. You clearly hate yourself and this is sad. Clearly not a self analyzer. Also, this guy is a really horrible therapist…maybe this was a tactic to get her to open up though. Did he honestly just say women should not vote?
Hey she dropped that her mother have away Pearl's brother for adaption and it is just ignored, not touched even further? What kind of a therapist is that? OMG
It's interesting the way she criticizes her mother for being 'type A' (strict even) because I would say Pearl's politics are exactly that: Type A/strict. The way our traumas manifest in us is wild.
People bashing her for not being in touch with her emotions are part of the reason why people like her have such a hard time connecting with themselves. The moment people show their vulnerabilities and emotionally connect with however they feel, societal backlash onsets, individual withdrawal starts. Chill out
No.,, she just want to get all this red pill men attention and validation… She like put other women down … And she is looking for a high value man … when she look like this .. she is desperate and delusional… 0 respect for a crazy woman like her who love to put other women down to make herself feel better..
She's the only one responsible as an adult for her emotional development. It may not be her fault that she would up this way, but its 100% HER JOB to take accountability for her healing and personal development!
@@SJ-ru4ejright. Almost nobody gives a shit to discuss anything on behalf of men, especially women. It only makes sense that when someone is putting out a counter narrative, particularly contrary to the entirety of the mainstream that so is blatantly bias and gynocentric, that she would take off. Grifter or not, she's a vital asset to people that get shouted down for having any criticism towards the status quo.
Would you start a conversation with "I disagree with everything you believe and I think you're an idiot." to get someone to open up? He's a therapist, this isn't some formal debate. He's trying to break down walls not raise them up.
He said he agrees that women shouldn’t vote. He is not a licensed therapist and no ethical practitioner would say something against basic human rights in the US
You're expressing a perspective that questions the logic and fairness of holding women accountable for issues that arise from societal power dynamics. You can draw a parallel to a king who blames his subjects for his lack of control, suggesting that the responsibility for change lies solely with the subjects, not the king. I think the idea that women should be the ones responsible to change is wrong if men are the ones who are expected to hold the power ( the kings) . It’s such a weird contradiction that she thinks men should have the power but then thinks that it’s women’s responsibility to give it to them. Power is taken , not given. This is kindergarten material
This is hard to watch. I know that she isn’t being honest, but I can hardly look past her absolute deep rooted misogyny so empathize with her. Take everything she says at face value… she manipulates as an adult, too
This was FASCINATING to watch! It also made me think about why my therapist asks me certain questions 😅 I'm so curious about her relationship with her mom & sister(s) vs. with her dad & brother(s)
Okay, I think you probably have more insight into this because you are a therapist :) I am nothing special, I am just a random artist with a cleaning job on the side. I think I saw how he tried to subtly and gently directed Pearl into doing some self reflection, which she didnt pick up or maybe she didnt want to go there on camera, who knows, maybe I am wrong for seeing that though and maybe a different approach would be better for her, who am I to know, I am not :)
The last 20 minutes of this video is so endearing. He’s looking at her so sweetly and you can tell she’s shy when it comes to more intimate personal things but her smile says it all. He’s right, at the end of the day she’s just a girl. I’m glad he makes this point over and over of humanizing her and seeing her as a woman instead of a character or just a tough persona. I think without the camera there you would see a whole different side of Pearl.
I watched all the commercials during this bc it should have more views! I know ppl are def interested in Pearl. I feel like it was suppressed… I have a feeling her crusade against women is in at least some way rooted in the discordant relationship with her mom (and her pro-man stance rooted in the relationship with her “busy” dad - seeking the deeper validation she didn’t get). Also, she has a lot of defenses. Everything that she blows off as no big deal and this idea that she is the cool girl (easy going) is definitely a defense or lack of true awareness. Maybe a desire to be liked and accepted. Definitely notice her avoidance of feelings in her answer to the question about being in tune with how she feels...
My perspective is, Pearl was manifesting discomfort with multiple questions, but David kept trying to dominate her into answering them. He was manipulating her into thinking it was ok to answer. However, she didn't ever submit to him. And she wasn't let him in too deep. Which was fascinating. This proves that she will let HER man be the alfa, but not ANY man will beta her!
The answer to the question "Why?" is easy (as in why do you hate lies?) We need truth to guide our lives. Many people are misguided and misdirected by lies. Even to the point of standing up for evil misdeeds, such as Molochism. Thus, the need to proclaim truth, and reveal false ideologies. To protect others from being mislead.
Pearl, if you were part of the craziness in the world, nobody would a problem with you. I think it’s very interesting that so many people would be so opposed to your thoughts, even though they think and say you’re insane and nothing you say is true. You just gotta ask, why the heck are they so obsessed? If you’re wrong, then it should mean nothing.
She is, though. She's the same type of woman she advocates against. She drives a wedge between the sexes - That's why so many have an issue with her. She has zero solutions.
Mothers spend double the amount of time with their children and moms abuse 54% of the time. That means children are in more danger with the dad. They don’t count the step dad as a parent. They are counted like you would a stranger. She’s so full of it.
Whenever someone brings up abuse by a man, she says the woman should have picked better, rather than condemning the man’s actions. Yet when a man has something done to him by a woman, he’s a victim and wasn’t responsible to have to pick better.
