100 percent with Sir. I respect my late mother for making us work in the kitchen. Now I am 53 yrs old and actively participate in the kitchen work with my wife. I don't care who says what behind me.
Still now in 2022 I'm facing same problem... When some guest comes home I'm anxious that i will be judged as a lady ... All the work you told will be done by me only.. Lott of stress and anxiety i will go through once we call some family to our house as a housewife
I'm 27 years old woman. I'm unmarried. Living with my parents. Me and my sister are both earning good money. But both my parents are suffering from illness. So most of our earnings go to their medicine and others. But somehow I feel like my parents don't understand what I am going through. For silly things they tell me cruel things, making me feel I'm not enough. Please make a video on this. I'm suffering internally.
Please try to get medical insurance for family. If you are into a corporate job then please take parental medical insurance as well. It will cover already existing diseases as well.
You forgot one important aspect... Humans tend to remember only the good times...A classic example is childhood..we say it was so much fun... but the reality is the opposite...we forget so many painful aspects of childhood..eg. depending on everyone else for the smallest thing... you want an ice cream.. you will get it after a week.. but you feel like ice cream now... fingers getting jammed in the door.. falling down and getting hurt... studying for hours when you actually feel like playing...
You are right sir. Sabko maze karwane ke liye humne apna kya kya khoya hai, No one can even imagine. Thank you sir only you touched our ( dukti rag ). Chalna firna bhi almost impossible
Ur a genious. U understand the stress of women of both generations so well. Whatever u explained was overcome by my mother and today she is suffering from health issues. Thank u sir. I watch almost all of yr videos and like the content and the way u explain.
Im 33 years old and started watching ur videos..liked your content....Nowdays peopl are watching kaccha badam (including me)bcos not awaire about the content like ur videos......People will watch,what they have been served.........This has to be stopped somewhere...Government should do somthing so the audience will see the productive content
When we say today's girls won't do this or won't cook, one has to understand back in the day women had household work as their main responsibility and today we have to compete with men at workplace, travel as much as them, be equally competent while raising children with very little or no help from husband's cz they haven't been taught to do any household work.. if men also start taking pride in helping their wives in front of their friends and relatives women will also be happy to host people and have a good time cz then she won't be alone in the kitchen while the husband is chiling with friends...
i liked n relate to this video..on sundays i stopped my mother n wife to go to kitchen on sundays..bcz i have also holiday on sunday.. i feel on sundays all ladies should be given relax..
Your examples are very realistic and you explain very well and clearly. Please make some video on 80s kids who is confused generation. After your videos there is so much understanding and compassion is creating towards previous generation what actually they have gone through and why they are behaving in such way. Thank you for making such videos. 🙏
Sir, pls make a video on siblings, where 3 or 4 bro r there n all come from very lower middle class family n one of them worked very hard n his financial condition quite good then in this case all the other brothers asking for money , because I am facing the same situation, built a house for them and bought a scorpio n gave them to work still they ask for money and my husband still give them money. Every time they call and unka rona dhona, kapde nhi h bimar hai paise nhi hai ye I tried many time to make understand my husband k dont give money unhe adat lag gyi h nhi kmane ki to my husband reply k unhe bhuka chor du kya.
Help ek bar yar 2 bar ki jaati h, or bhi ek hi banda sirf deta hi jaaye or saamne wala sirf lena hi janta h to sambhal kar rahiye jab wo apki di hui chijo par apna hakk smjhne lagega or apka ehsan nhi maanega. Mere papa k sath aisa hi kiya unke real brother ne. N my daddy is in stress since many year when we saw their real face and they ditched us.
Sir, your words resonate in my mind for a long time. I sincerely hope that our better halves understand what you are trying to say and empathize with women's plight rather than becoming bitter and depressed.
Sirjee ek correction hai, un dino sirf matayein hi nahi behene bhi full time assistant hua karti thi. Padahai ya phir kitchen, tab ladkiyon ki upbringing bhi different thi. Hamne bhi aas paas mein dekha tha, badi beti hi pura ghar sambhalti thi
Meri mummy ki shaadi 1972 m bahut bdi joint family m hui thi.. 3 dada,3 dadiyan or unke pta nhi kitne bachhe(12+6+5=23)...mummy bichari hath chakki se aataa pisti thi subah 3 bje uthke..Aaj 2022 m mummy ki body m har jagah dard rhta h,bahut bimar rhti h or hmesha us waqt ko kosti rhti h.. Anyways learnt a lot from my mother and now I'm 30,in a govt. Job ,having a baby boy living saparately with my husband..not at all interested in joint families and being all time kaam wali bai..
जीवन की उन बातों को आप सभी के सामने ला रहे हैं जिनको देखने का नजरिया बदलना जरूरी है। ताकि जो छुपे हुए टॉपिक है उनको टच किया जाए। आपकी विडियोज से बहुत कुछ नया सीखने , समझने को मिल रहा है। Thank you 🙏🙏👍🙏
Thank you for making this kind of video kyuki my thinking is like that n phle muje lgta tha ki mai koi alg duniya se hu is liye muje aise vichar aate hai. Now I'm feeling relax that ki duniya me or bhi log hai jo meri tarah sochte hai. Nice video. Keep it up.
पहले टेलीफोन लाइन खराब हो जाती थी तो 2 घंटे लाइन में खड़े होने का पास बनवा के खड़े रहने में कितना आनंद आता था।सिलेंडर बुक करने में भी धक्का मुक्की में अनुपम आनंद आता था
We have amazing mothers , grandmothers who made sure we all were well fed and taken care of. Women always sourced best quality food, grains , home made healthy meals for their family members. I have immense respect for my mom grandma aunts also mom in law. Today we take very good care of their health and give time to them as they age into 60s & 70s. It’s our time to give back to them 🙌🏻
We recently had a collage time catch-up, we all unanimously decided to hold meet-up at a restaurant, where we split the bills. Everything voted out option of meeting at someone’s home because it will be too much work for ladies of house. In new generation the mindset is changing.
Bilkul sahi sir. Jo log apne young times me bahut pissi thi. Vo uss samay mahan bahuo ki padavi se navaji gai aur ab kahti h ki mene to sabke liye itna kiya muje koi nhi karta. Ab ve nai valiyo se same chiz expect karti h. Unhe bhi pisna chahti h🤣🤣
I have been watching your content here. I enjoy it. Since you don’t follow a script, sometimes you mention you will talk about a certain thing but you forget to talk about it. Even with that, I keep coming back to your channel. I like the way you talk - not too serious - light hearted banter - releases stress 🙂
Thank you for giving credit to women who made efforts to provide such beautiful memories to their near and dear ones ……don’t know about others but I did it willingly…I still try to continue the tradition but health doesn’t permit ….Daughter-in-law isn’t that enthusiastic but I keep pataoing her in different ways to atleast follow some traditions during festivals atleast .…I don’t want my grandkid’s to miss out
Waah ji. Kya baat kah di aapne… Dil ke taar jhanjhana gaye. Sab yad aa gaya… Chahe sardi ya garmi ho Saas nahi bahu ji haan, ghar ki beti bahu pisti thi rasoi me…. Piso piso or bas piso… Itna saral itna sateek… Apke efforts ko naman karti hu. 😊😊
Totally agree with you Amit sir. There is no such thing in today's world which ladies cannot do. I am part of the happiness course and eagerly waiting for the next session on this Friday😊. Your way of conducting and expressing things are really impressive and i feel the positive vibes and energy by connecting with you in such live sessions😊🙏
I m 35yrs old & meri mother ne mujhe ghr ka sab kam sikhaya aur ye mera pasion ban gya aur aaj home decor & cleaning sab mai karta hu jis wajah se meri married life 👍🏻chal rahi h
Excellent Explanation of the old era sir. Please make some video on increasing number of Divorce. As in metro cities are marriages are not lasting long.
