Donnie Simpson talks further with the legendary Phyllis Hyman (1949-1995) about her career. This was filmed just before the release of her 'Prime of My Life' album. Rest in peace.
This is a very telling and sad interview. She doesn't believe in love and can't find anyone to love her. Tragic. She was loved by millions, but doesn't feel any of it.
The thing is is . I love my wife and she loves me. God loves use all. But too have that someone. I would never cheat on my wife. Ya back to the doesn't believe in love is what helped kill her
@@robertoday7526 Because God has showed His love for us, because while we were yet sinners He sent His ONLY begotten son to die for us. People choose their selfishness and feelings above trust God almighty and what He states in His word is our decision. Dating, fornicating and all of the stuff the world participates in keeps us heart-broken, laden with children outside of marriages and hopping from bed to bed -- all of the things God never told any of us to do. Phyllis was beautiful and talented and extremely intelligent, but even depression are signs of self-love perverted - eyes still on US and not on others who love us and how our death would affect those who love us. Depression is hard, but there is TRUE help with God, not with drugs and these evil psychiatrist and psychologist who in many cases make things worse.
without being mean learn from her mistake and don't feel that way (about her style hair, hats, etc). whoever you are you have unique talents and whatever style you have in appearance keep it unique to you. she should be jealous of you. you are alive with presumably good friends around you to help you in life and for you to help them in life.
@@fabianfatale1201 I'm reading Phyllis' bio Strength of a Woman: the Phyllis Hyman Story. Her mother struggled with depression as well and had it bad to the point where Phyllis' sister had to step in and help raised their younger siblings.
Laughing on the outside, yet falling apart on the inside. She sacrificed a lot to share her gift with the world. May her spirit and soulful voice live on through future generations.
She was loved by millions but never knew it. The sadness in what she says about love. She's calling out for help but no one saw it or acted on it. She was stunning amazing voice but the self confidence was low. She mentioned her mother, not getting signals about relationships. I remember when she passed and how it happened, I cried because I had a huge crush on her. I miss her loved her music that's why I am here.
Seems like all she wanted was someone to love and someone to love her....but where we are most mislead at is thinking that man can give us happiness,we have to find happiness in having a relationship with God. I can hear her emptiness,I empathize with her and mourn her death,RIP Phylis,I hope your void is now filled
Allegedly, Phyllis Hyman was engaged to someone (in/from) Japan) who loved her the way she loved. Eventually, she sabotaged that loving relationship. #selfdoubt? #disbelief? #unworthiness?
WOW SHE A WINNER MY FAVORITE GIRL RIP MS PHYLLIS HYMAN RIP STANDS FOR REPLACEMENT ISN'T POSSIBLE U ALREADY KNOW KISS KISS THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER PHYLLIS! 🌸🌸🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌺🌺💛💙💜💚❤🎃🎃🎃🎃🐶🐶💐💐🐝🐝🐝🐝
To answer everyone who is saying “Why did no one catch on to her depression?”, Phyllis was a very private person. Many people didn’t know and to their defense, you cannot blame them. You have to ask for what you need in order for people to help.
I know. They say hindsight is 20/20. When I was watching this again, I thought to myself how some of the things she was speaking about with regard to relationships, the TV remote being the friend, etc., were signs that she was calling for help. But, of course, we all have to find our own ways to make the best of bad situations. I wish she had been happier. She had a lot of blessings.
Every time I see Phyllis, I get so angry & I cry. She was gorgeous! Just stunning. I'm 25 yrs old & I would kill just to look like her. If only she knew but mental illness is REAL! Depression is REAL! And for some reason in the African American community it's frowned upon. SMH! We've got to do better. ALL of us.
Phyllis Hyman was great in many ways but her height was a major factor for her trying to find love I mean can you imagine dating some one way shorter than you. Intimidation must have been crazy for guys. Because of who she was. I grew up watching her and I was really sad when she passed. Now knowing what I know about the industry makes me really wonder about her death and many others. Rest easy Phyllis Hyman. There will NEVER be another you.
Phyllis was 6'-1" tall. I saw her on the tonight show years ago and I her say that. Funny everyone is close and all around how tall she was, but I have it right. ;-)
why didnt anyone around her pick up the subtle messages in this one video. Shes screaming for help. She suffered from extreme low self esteem. Why did we let such a beautiful person take her life? I am seeing this for the first time and I am really sad from watching this. RIP Phyllis Hyman
+Devon Stokes In the same year (1991) of this interview she an interview with Jet Magazine where she spoke about being extremely lonely and sad and that the doorman to her apartment in New York City was her only visitor/friend. I'm 19 years of age reading this and I knew this woman had serious problems plus she was angry at how her career turned out, she was no longer a STAR, not she was working the so-called chitlin circuit, but Man she was 1 beautiful, tall, sexy sista with an amazing and charisma to boot
So so sad! Such a beautiful woman with a beautiful voice. I have and always will love her music. So talented and gifted. The world has lost one of the most precious and splendid voices of all time. I can see the pain in her eyes and it is such a tragic loss. I can relate to her in many ways since I suffer from depression but I know God will continue to bring me through. Rest in peace Phyllis. I know the angels are cracking up in heaven. In spite of your sadness you had a good sense of humor. You are now in the everlasting arms of God and you will never, ever hurt again. You are and will always be missed. XOXO
Although Phyllis Hyman had left us she will always be remembered as person that lived a vision to sing to the hearts and souls of each us. I adored and still enjoy listening to her songs. Thanks BET for sharing.
This doesn't even seem like an interview. Just two ppl choppin' it up on some real shit. It's always sad when she brings up her love life though. Even though she hides the pain with laughter and a smile, you can still see how hurt she is.
I miss her beautiful self , wished we were friends not saying I could've stopped her but I would've sure payed close attention to this SWEET ANGEL she longer to just BE LOVED SINCERELY! One thing is for certain MS. Hyman will ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED & In our HEART'S! RIP
one of my favorite singers along with Teena Marie, Angela Bofil and Gladys Knight. she sure knew how to dress especially outifts with shoulder pads and hats. her height by the way was listed as 6'2" and she was fine. great singer too, voice was so rich!!! fortunate to have seen her live a couple of times before her passing.
+Reinaldo Green You are so right, Reinaldo. We lost Phyllis, Teena, William Guest, and Now Natalie Cole is sadly gone. There appearances have always been extragavant. And they had a voice that shines, and very Powerful.
Phyllis Hyman's music was brought into my life at the age of 5 & the time was 1988.. When I heard her voice in Spike Lee's "School Daze".. Her song "Be One" brought tears to my eyes & I didn't know what I was feeling at the time, but over the years b4 & after her untimely death I knew that her voice moved me.. R.I.P. Phyllis Hyman :"(
The human tragedy: posing as peaceful and content. We all do it in some way or another but Phyllis was one of those people who, for whatever reason, never left the cover of this guise to possibly know pure joy and tranquility. The Unsung episode on her life stated she was an undiagnosed bipolar and alcoholic. But was that the true root of it?? I just wish all artistic beings could one day be passionate about their craft AND be mentally, emotionally and spiritually sustained by it. Maybe then no more incidents like these will occur. RIP Phyllis.
Happy Birthday to my girl in the sky. I miss you so much.. I cant believe its been 17 years. I didnt think that I would ever get over your death. I remember lying on the floor sobbing and not wanting to go on myself; but time and God heals all wounds. I love you Phyllis. I will see you on the other side.
@celestialpathway That's so true! Wow...I'm only 22 years old and I must say our era of music cannot touch this era. When you talk about artists like Phyllis, El Debarge, Minne Ripperton, Rachelle Ferrell, The Whispers, Earth, Wind & Fire and many others..I often wonder if it will ever come back. Sadly I don't see any light at the end of the tunnel. So I have my collection of this music to preserve and cherish it. I'm glad my parents exposed me to this! It really sets you different from others.
She seems to joke and make fun of herself about her weight, failed relationships & loneliness during the entire interview. I wish someone would've caught her before she fell into that cycle of depression.
i notice they dont do interviews like this anymore. anyways i love this woman. discovered her last year and been hooked ever since. wish i could have met her. r.i.p.
I just find Phyllis an amazing woman, her spirit, her humor, her talent and her honesty, she was a great person with a beautiful personality. I feel if we would have ever met we would have been great girl friends. Maybe in the next lifetime. Miss you Phyllis.
Phyllis didnt keep it a secret that she was depressed. She told many people that she was depressed and that she was going to end her life. She told her family that she wanted to kill herself, Her sisters were tell her to get help. Please know that this is not the first the first time that Phyllis attempted suicide it was the 3rd time. She went to rehabilitation and stayed only a few months and left. It was just a sad situation over. I wish that she would have 1 person around her that KNEW Jesus
Phyllis keep me going because suicide is not the answer said she never got to know how many people really loves her here 2019 October 19th and we still talking about her may she rest in peace
Such a beautiful, talented and sophisticated woman who wanted to be understood and loved. But Phyllis was what people would consider intimidating (she was tall, gorgeous, had her own money and success). She also possessed a strong personality, presence and didn't take any crap. So that unfortunately scared men away. Her mood swings caused by her mental illness made her sabotage relationships. She wanted to be loved and didn't want to settle. I do not think anyone could have said or done anything to prevent her passing as it was ultimately her own decision to leave at her own time. Many of us want to go but lack the strength due to many reasons to do it ourselves so we sit and suffer here on earth waiting, hoping and praying that things get better. I was only 4 years old when she passed but her music stayed on repeat in my household. I also didn't understand why many were so shocked at her cause of death at that time. And with that said, I truly hope her soul has found peace.
I agree with a lot of what you said; however, it's also unfortunate that she couldn't find the strength (or perhaps didn't think she had it) to seek help. We'll never know if that would've made a difference.
I relate to her sensitive nature, thankfully i manage to meditate or else i would have it much harder to deal with everyday reality. A very honest and beautiful spirit
I'm 17 year old girl and I have loved Phyllis since I was 14/15. I have always felt that I have good taste in music :P I feel that we share similar tendencies. She's really something else, something special. I can't put into words.
This was such a sad video. I didn’t get it when she did the interview then. I was only 7 at the time. So I didn’t get how much turmoil she was under. And less than four years after this interview she was gone. 😢
My band opened for her and Melba Moore in the mid 80's. She allowed me talk to her alone in her dressing room for a few minutes while she put on her make-up. She was a tall (6' plus) big-boned woman who exuded intelligence and sensuality. A man would have to be supremely confident to deal with her on a long-term basis. I think she was too much of a challenge for most brothers. Plus, she had a crazy streak (which is difficult to deal with in any woman).
Exactly ... A man would have to be supremely confident and strong as hell to deal with this woman .. She was 6-2 also and they didn't help at all , plus she goes "OFF" in a NY second ..YIKES !
OKandNOWwhat And how! You hit the nail on the head. I met her at the Blue Note and I could feel the power of her physical presence even though she's very personable and humorous. Miss you Phyllis.
Bipolar is not a crazy streak...it's something that is life-altering...and brings you lows that are unimaginable....try to understand her pain, her struggle rather than judge....
@@fannsmusic8112 I think the problem was whether she was aware of any mental illness and if so, was it ever properly treated. Bipolar disorder is no joke. Depending on the severity, she may not have had a strong control of her emotions or ability to express them. It's very sad, because had she received proper care, some aspects of her life may have been different. But definitely not appropriate to call her "crazy."
@@fineandmellow6359 hi...umm....not sure if your message really was for me..by no means was I calling her crazy...im sure she knew something was off..p.s. I spoke from experience as I am bipolar also.
Phyllis was so gorgeous and her voice was pure molten honey. It defies imagination to understand what happened to this phenomenal woman. Just cannot understand...
Oh l love when you guys post these videos. But it's so bitter sweet. It makes me miss her so much. Great interview. Donnie is cute and such a sweetheart.
So important to 💕 people through your actions with how you treat them. It was so obvious the woman was very depressed. Folks, so caught up into she had all this $ the woman died alone, sad, and dealing other things no one could even imagine. Sooo 😭 sad.
Very rich, sexy speaking voice.Interesting breath sounds (haaaaaooowww, haeeeeeeeee). Men had to be blind not to want to be with this lady. Sad that she never experienced love.
I love you ❤️ Phyllis The queen when I tell you the first time I seen her was in School Daze ,and I fell in love with her , ever since. I’m not going to go into why she doesn’t have movies or documentaries or Why she receives no homage. so I will do it Clyve Davis you have so much karma coming any way. her voice was a silk musk on a summer day smooth as cream. her beauty was sublime before Whitney there was Phyllis Hyman. listen to somewhere in my lifetime , living all alone , be one , old friends her delivery and pain in her songs is tangible. this woman is the vocal bible she was touched by god. I do not get chills from the new R&b girls. Phyllis have me chills and still somewhere in my lifetime that long run at the end 😪.I have no words I wish she could have received her flowers so here Phyllis we love you rest up queen. 👑 🌹🌸💐🌺🌷🥀 those who truly know good music will never and will not forget you with that voice how could we she was the voice. Her Florence Ballard snd Angela bofill will always live thru me this industry depleted so many of are artist it’s sad.
