Well I saw all those signs within months of marrying him. One day when he sat so awkwardly in a chair...just staring at me....I said...."Hey you do not have to turn yourself into a pretzel trying to hide your cheating...all you have to do is say you have found someone else......I am fine...you can go....go now". He said in shock..."you mean you are not going to fight for me!.....I said " No.... I will have the same freedom to date and have fun ....no need to cheat!. Narcissists.....they do not feel guilty cheating, but get upset when you won't fight to keep with them. Nuts.
How was he a narcissist? He was just a cheater. You were strong and brave. You did great in that situation. Sou should be having classes for women…and men. Why should you have to fight for a man you already married. He should have been fighting for his marriage. Months after the marriage? He didn’t waste any time. What a shameless person.
Sounds like my ex I found out he was cheating and he lied and said I find every excuse in the book not to get a new job when I was working my ass off for six months because I was unfairly fired from Walmart for my disability and he knew that! My man now knew him and said he’s a little boy not a man like him.
Nobody is worth fighting for. Let the one they are cheating with get your leftovers. There's always a new catch out there, one who is single and one who is classy enough not to cheat.
you don't need signs. Use your intuition or discernment. They are sleeping with their other supply/supplies and their supply has other supplies. They're fooling each other.What goes around comes around.🤔
Often when these men cheat the other woman is dying to have what you already do, a cheater. Let her have him and have the last laugh. Most likely he has failed as a husband anyway!🤷🏾♀️🤔💅🏿
Well, I cant stand when men cheat. My dad was a cheater almost his whole marriage, but my mom stayed with him until she died. I hate it. Told my husband if he ever cheats on me 1 time, Im getting half of everything we have, and Im gone. I will not come back! I detest people who cheat!
@sharoncrawford7192 mine did the SAME bullshit! I had the luxury of having to get my mom out of the house before the news came on and get the newspaper before she sees it because my dad worked for the county and his secretaries would get mad he wouldn't leave my mom and sue him/the county for millions...It eventually killed her, a nice L o n g S l o wwwww death 🥹 I always swore it'd never happen to me but here i am, it happened to me and at my own shock, I didn't leave, it fucked w my head in a way I can't explain but It did explain why my mom stayed (makes you almost stay and wait to hear you're good enough or something, I can't explain it) it emotionally tears you apart tho! Cheaters are liars incapable of change.
I know the feeling well, my poor mum found out my father was cheating it destroyed us a family and everything was ruined! My mum has never married again and with that I don’t trust men fully I believe it’s always best to keep some distance!
@@KimberlySlipskimy father was a cheater also . Got kicked out of the family house almost immediately when my mother found out. Ladies leave if someone cheats on you married or not you don’t have to put up with with that from men. I also detest cheaters
My ex fiancee would tell me “Don’t look at my other texts” when I needed to borrow his phone when I didn’t have one and needed to text my mom and I’d tell him oh your dad texted you! And when he’d say that I’d get suspicious and question him and ask if he was cheating on me. He’d no “No! I hate that shit!” And followed up with his manipulation words “my love” he’d say that every time he made excuses or was lying 🤥 or trying to trick me. But my friend and I were onto him. He said “every time he calls you my love he’s bullshitting you Brandi! He’s manipulating you and lying to you!” We eventually went to a psychic meeting and my friend and asked her about mine and Ray’s future marriage and she said “Girl leave him now! He is lying to you he is cheating on you! He’s the reason you’re tired so much. He is Loki in disguise he likes to trick women. He has three other women on the side one has long brown hair and is a nurse the other two blondes 👱🏼♀️ like you. He’s sucking your energy away as well as theirs he is a leech. Leave him immediately!” I told my friends about it! One of my bridesmaids Alicia who at the time was dating my now ex boyfriend Sam (we dated before but i didn’t know he cheated with her and me at the same time back then and thought he could get away with it again until he got caught 😂) we’d always go on double dates. Two loyal women and two cheating little boy bitches. He confessed that on the day we went to try on wedding dresses with him he waited until I went to the bathroom 🚽 to clear his guilty conscience and confessed to her everything he had done wrong especially the infidelity and he thought 💭 she would not tell me 😂 she did after I mentioned it to her what I heard from Luna Moon and he assumed it was her that told me and blocked her on Facebook when he pretended not to know how to use it when I set him up an account 😂 bet he had a hidden one because he told her he didn’t tell me he was dating other girls from the jump because he didn’t want it on Facebook so he chose to gaslight me and make me think I was the only one for him. 😢😂 that he was gonna marry and the kicker is he falsely told her that I FORCED HIM into proposing when he wasn’t ready for marriage and not once did he make that clear or discuss it with me so how dare he not only CHEAT but LIE as well! No one put a fucking gun to his head and made him propose. I wouldn’t ever had done that I loved him! Anyway I was trying to help him get a job so we can get married and we can support each other. Our wedding date was set to be August 29th 2020! We were actively planning our wedding and he seemed excited about it and turns out that was a lie and a mask he put on to fool me. 🎭 🎥 🎞️ 🎦 🍿 he played me. Until I found out the truth. Even my ex boyfriend Dominic had a dream where he was at a bar and Ray was there hanging out with three other women all of whom Luna Moon described! But he couldn’t get any closer to them and he was repelled but he told me about the dream! Even my friend Lela and her husband Chris ran into us at the Topanga Village on our date and she told me later on messenger that she noticed how shifty and suspicious he was acting and he looked extremely guilty and told me something is obviously going on. And that I should watch out and pay attention to him. I told her about the phone thing what he said and how he put a password on his phone so I couldn’t use it when he stepped away. VERY suspicious 😒 🤨 but I have forgiven him it took 5 years but I’m mad at Sam for the same thing now. Dumped him back in December. Fuck him 🖕🏻! Him nor Ray apologized ever and Ray managed to lie to my friend William about it and tried to convince my mom that he was innocent 😇 when he wasn’t as a last ditch attempt to get my attention when I blocked him after breaking off the engagement canceling the wedding and dumping him immediately. I did the same thing to Sam and anyone who cheated on me but difference between the first 6 that did and them 2 is that they all apologized realized they fucked up and saw my value as a woman and wanted me back. And I said no but we are friends to this day. I am not friends with Ray or Sam. They don’t deserve it. Ray wanted to be friends immediately after I dumped him but the pain was too great to the point I had a major flip out when my friend Jesse was constantly saying I told you so and I was screaming 😱 crying 😭 and having a meltdown to the point the neighbors watched from their windows 🪟! Nosy 🧐 I know but they were making sure all was ok and cops 👮 👮♀️ 👮♂️ 🚓 🚔 didn’t need to be called. They didn’t but it took me five years to move on from and stop being mad 😡 😠 😤 whenever I thought 💭 about it. And ever seeing Rays face again knowing he’s lying to our friend William. It will take time for me to forgive Sam too because it’s only been three months since I found out from Alicia his ex and David her boyfriend that Sam stole her from before the truth about the woman in Idaho and why he wanted a break “So it won’t be cheating “ his words 😡 and I know about the woman at Knotts Berry Farm where he got fired from for arguing with a homeless man at the Starbucks on property 😂 in retrospect it serves him right! He was always claiming Christ saying “This is where God has us right now” when he moved up North and eventually outta state to Idaho Falls. Fake Christian he was. Total narcissist! He gaslighted me real good he had me fooled! But Alicia told me an entire year after she found out he cheated on her with me and I didn’t know about it. No wonder he had a problem with us being friends! “I don’t understand why you’re friends with my ex girlfriend babe?” He’d talk about how shitty she was but when I complained about Ray he didn’t want to hear it. Because he was doing it too! So say less I kicked him to the curb and outta my life too and as a classic narcissistic manipulative prick he lied 🤥 about me on Facebook saying “I’m so glad I don’t have to spend more than half of my hard earned money on someone who finds every excuse in the book 📚 not to work” when his stupid fucking lying 🤥 cheating ass KNEW AND EVERYONE KNEW I worked my ass off to find a new job after my discrimination at Walmart JUST TO SAVE UP AND BE WITH HIS ASS IN IDAHO but lol I found out about him and said bye Sam and no more Idaho 😂 bye Sam and fuck you 🖕🏻very much! Then I posted him in an Idaho Falls dating group so his side piece at Walmart would see if she was there 😂 and my new boyfriend Brandon who knows him added him on Instagram just to rub his mistake of letting me go in his face! Talk about revenge 😂 I’m happy without you Sam!
My husband of 51 years of marriage met a woman on line. They messaged for a year. This woman lives in Barbados. She came to visit him in Texas. He told me he was going on a trip with a friend all the time he was in town with her. After that he made three trips to see her over there. He apologized and wants me to forget everything. I asked for a divorce.
Good afternoon: No intimacy, is the top sign..!! I always was told if a guy backs away from you while your getting ready to kiss him, hugging, doesn't wanna converse with you & etc. He's cheatng on you & I should just leave the entire relationship..!!
Keeps extra cell phone, no sex, and refuse to talk to me after being away all day, then told me i could stay for his kids, but he wants open marriage. Ordering pills for me to take.....i threw those away. And had ball of blond hair in back of his car....I am brunette.
Busted my lying ex with scratches on his back that were not from me. I know she left them for me to see. I walked walked away silently and never looked back. He on the other hand will not stop calling my phone begging to see me. Great video.
You reminded me of the nasty older whore who would leave comdon package for me to see, contacted me on fb to tell me about her, then wanted a restraining order where the judge being a woman told her that I was the wife and what did she expect contacting me. 😅 I'm glad she's older and disgusting now.
He does all this. But I didn't need the video to know. Cheating starts on the heart and is done in many ways, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually
Disappeared for 3 days. Before we spoke every day & he ALWAYS picked up the phone whenever I called. This hurts. He's my husband and I've been learning he' has all the signs of a narcissist! We've been married 7 years this summer. I think I'm headed for a divorce. He doesn't want couples counseling he's never wrong, he been sleeping in the living room bc his shoulder hurts & he needs to be on an incline. I'm not stupid! AND after this is over I WILL LOVE AGAIN AND ILL BE MORE ANALYTICAL. NO MORE NATCS! ✌️☺️ Here's to our future. Plus I'm taking time alone to heal & thrive..
I feel your pain. My husband of 30 years has been having happy endings for 10 years. It hurts , what did I do wrong? I was a good wife, a good mom and a good person. People just love me but he hates me. I don't understand.
I am currently with a narc…but it’s getting dicey. I’ve done at LEAST 5 years of research on the disorder. One thing that’s certain, they ALL follow the same playbook….it will just be slightly modified to their situation. Your comment about sleeping in the other room due to “shoulder pain” triggered me so much. Mine ALSO suffers from horrible shoulder pains. How ironic! Lol Do you ever notice how it’s the most freaking convenient pain ever?? Hell, i don’t even know mine is in any pain at all, until we argue or I’ve called him out on something. Then suddenly, every breath he takes is riddled with pain. Just wanted to point that out. It’s hard as hell. I know it is.
I experienced all these signs from my ex boyfriend he was a serial cheater . 23 years in this relationship was so draining for me and I realized that he was no good but I finally caught him on his phone . I living my life single and free . 🙏
Amen. It happened to me too. Life has been the best for me since we divorced 13 years now. He remarried and is miserable and cheating on her and she knows it. He'll never learn how to be right. That's the way it goes.
Number 14 was so true about my husband. Just my existence annoyed him. He started criticizing everything about me. He started insulting me non stop. After 13 years things that he never mentioned before suddenly disgusted him. It was simply that compared to her, I didn’t measure up. These were things I had no control over, which truly made me hate myself. I looked old (well compared to a 24yr old, of course) my voice was screechy (she talked in that baby voice many young women do. No shade to her or any other young lady. We did silly things like that at that age also) I had no ass (I literally never had one) I would say, “hey babe I’m running to cvs do you need anything ?” He would respond, “get yourself wrinkle cream and an ass and get me earplugs so I don’t have to hear your screechy voice.” I stopped doing anything he criticized. However, it got to the point that everything I did he insulted. I would just sit on a dining room chair not saying a word for hours after dinner. (me being on the same sectional bothered him because when I would move it shook the cushions) I didn’t want to go in my room though because my kids started asking why I kept going to bed right after dinner and was scared I was sick. I honestly wouldn’t wish that life on anyone. Sending love, strength, and prayers to all who need them!
Let me also add, he seems to have new friends or suddenly hanging out with an old friend who, regardless of them spending so much time together. You never happen to see the friend.
@@ihuman7253SORRY TO 👂...Welp you have 2 CHOICES.. 🏃♀️.LEAVE and Start from Scratch..or STAY ANOTHER MISERABLE 20 YEARS ...A lot of Women stay for the kids...if 👈🏼 can bare it..Good luck 🍀
I disagree with the first two. A sex addict will get off of kissing you after kissing another woman’s 🐱. You can taste 🐱 on their breath and wearing different clothes when they get home from work. Also don’t agree with number 4. He will constantly talk about the kids and home life to avoid talking about his day for whatever reason. Also the someone new part- it’s not just one person, it will be multiple girls on the go in different areas along his route to and from work.
Every situation is different. Like I wrote, some men will get in the mood with you, thinking of the other woman. If you tasted that in the man’s mouth, you should have left immediately. That is the height of disrespect.
8 years of buying his clothes he changed, we had sex and slept in the same bed. 9th year i knew he was cheating, and our marrage ended on ore 10th year, all the flages was there some i saw later. Your so right.+
Wow i really learned a lot today my boyfriend does everything you said today sometimes he makes up things and say his meeting up with his friend he comes late
These are all the signs I saw when my ex husband was cheating, I knew it as soon as he kissed me, it was different, he had never kissed me like that before. Sadly he turned everything around and had me believing I was crazy. I didn’t see him driving her car with her in the front seat 😳. He was a smooth talker and very smart and conniving!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hyeeeeee you don't see him driving his car instead she saw her wife driving his car in the back oooooooo hyeeeeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are a wonderful man very very caring to your family congratulations sir
@@annaisis7510 no no no no no not believe any more so you are the one I see with black motto HAAA Kwa please now I understand everything a man who don't know what he wants congratulations good night
This is a great list. My ex husband did alot of these things to me, not all, but I was so naive to realize what was going on. It took me 10 yrs to wake up and realize what was going on. I divorced him and never looked back. Now if I text him it's about the kids visitation schedule with him only. Nothing more
Cheating on any relationship shows poor behaviour . I was married twice and both my ex's were sadly mistaken , I definitely was watching them . I went shopping before we divorced 1 st marriage... Bought a thigh high black skirt and a nice sexy blouse . He noticed for sure ..shocked look . I said to him, You had a Sexy, Beautiful Wife all this time. Now , Thank goodness , Walking out of this life that we had and walking into a much blessed , beautiful life without you !!!
Dam your right, he wants the house to that's why he waiting around for the woman to leave.. 😆. Real low vibrations with a man who is a coward and does things behind your back instead of just being open and honest about it and leaving ..
My husband cheated me while he sleep with me every days . Sex is not a sign that he cheated on you he can sleep with her in the morning and sleep with you in the evening .
I did too. I was like, "why tf you have to keep saying NO! Dude". He didn't even finish one of his clues before the "NO!". That's when I about came out of my skin 😂
I work in maternity ward and we actually have more boys born then girls. Men are either in jail, mental institution or dead due to their reckless behaviour.
My husband is a pro at hiding his emotions and acted so normal. No one could see he was cheating with massage girls having happy endings for almost 10 years. He has failed as a husband, broke the vows of marriage of a Catholic church, he has failed as a dad. His adults sons are not talking to him, exited the watsapp group he created and are very upset that he is such a horrible man. He did the crime and he has abandoned us. Now he wants a divorce. I am kind and have values , unlike him and his brother and mother !?? and i will agree to it. I and my sons are free without him at home. It is a relief that he got caught. No more acting, no more lies and no more contacts with him and his french family. They all think seeing prostitutes to satisfy your needs is ok. Complete fools they are. Maybe my mil cheated too. Never know..we jusr cut all ties with her. Hope she cries her eyes out, this extremely evil woman.
She acts very well too. Always smiling and being nice and helpful. Behind this facade is a toxic person. No wonder both her sons are toxic too. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
emotionally cold men or women that cheat on their long term partner they are not grown up to heal all their generational traumas and deal with that instead they chase & loose their heads in superfluous meaningless relationships and go on themselves to damage people that love them and so it goes on.
That's hilarious. I was reading the comments while listening , and every time he said" NO," I thought I heard wrong! Just realized halfway through and while reading YOUR COMMENT😂. THANKS!!
There was. Time not long ago that I loved him to much while he hurt me over and over and he beat me I couldn't do anything have any friends. But I'm glad he gone I don't want him around and who ever the girls he fucks and plays us against each other well you can just have him . I'm not fighting over someone who could care less about me. Let him quinche got thirst with his lie.s
they cheat on every woman even their side piece excuse my expression they are fuckin narcissistic to the bone . I know I got one ugh he's low down thinks he's Gods gift to the world
They usually want to act right after they can't get it up and broke down. Problem with that is women can still be in the game. So they better hope they have a good one
He pushes your buttons so you’re the villain and dump him so he is a coward and he knows exactly what he is doing and can go back into victim mode and play you as the crazy person. When he was the lying cheat. He wears many masks 🎭. Eventually it will catch up with him. Hopefully he is no longer in your life and he will have to deal with the consequences
All of this is so true, I had a coworker who kept multiple bottles of different cologne in his car. He wasn't so much into his appearance. He used the cologne to cover the scent of his cheating --- with other men.
That is one of the first signs. However, someone can have sex with you while thinking of someone else. It is possible that when he sent her a text, spoke to her etc, he got in the mood and you just happened to have been around.
Lol my ex was up to no good he forgot l read him like a book so even when he try lying never worked and his toxic family and friends would give him up telling one lie to cover the last one l was always good at that 😅😅😅😅he lost a good woman anand a real Queen 👑💖😘 ust for his crazy bunny 🐇🐰 boiler who is empty head nothing like me out of jealousy and envy 💯💞❤️💞 l was a good send she was a evil cow lol 😅😅😅😅good luck now he can watch a real king show him how to love the woman and Queen 💕👑💕👑 he lot a once in a life time a one in a million ❤❤❤❤❤❤
He alway take his phone with him. Well a yr ago he tells me on a Thursday saying his going to an event on a Saturday. And his boos got him the ticket. So later within 2 wk I found out he took 4 lady's to this a event. And that he purchase the ticket for the event 4 mos before the event. So i look into his phone one night when he went to sleep. That when I found out it was a 30 yr old lady a bar tender. Plus she had send photos to him about them fishing.. now no trust I'm having a hard time to let go. I really need help to let go.
All i can say is i loved him i really wanted to focus on him and have something beautiful. I wanted us to live together and have a life together. Sad thing is he was pursuing me for a long time claiming to want a relationship. The thing is he never defined what kind exactly. I foolishly assumed he meant a committed one which is normal of course but little did i know. When i finally accepted I slowly started paying closer attention to him and his actions all the while having already fallen in love without having made the realisation way before. He'd have scratches on his back , i d constantly find woman's hair other than my own hair colour everywhere, ton of condoms under his bed while we weren't using any. Lame lame excuses was his answer. He did these and many many many more. I'm deeply hurt and angry still i can't let go completely and i still struggle seeing it for what it is. I ve taken many steps back to reflect and reestablish my self worth with myself. He still blames me for everything is my fault according to his opinion. I know i deserve better and that's where I'm heading. It's a process.
Well it happens n my life at present finding so many lies of him same s scratches,hair fall etc ...can't explain all te videos frm no 1 to 19 r ter with my hubby.Cheaters r cheaters n te cunning woman try to break my family..🙏
@@Arenjamir-j9q in my opinion you should hold your husband wholly accountable for he is the one you're married to and the one who disgraced himself to himself, his family, you but above all God! He decided by his own mind, on his own will to break his vows and start something with another person. The woman you're referring as cunning, i doubt she put a gun on his head to make him stay/ sleep with or have an errection for her. Mind you I'm not trying to defend or blame anyone I'm on nobody's side. Assuming your husband expects you to have eyes only for him and sleep exclusively with him i don't understand why for him it should be different? Are you not human? Can you not find someone else to seek attention from? Don't you have needs? It's him who doesn't care or respect the family he's built with you and yes it's a damn shame. Hope everything works out for you and your family much love and prayers 🙏🙏🙏
He's got another phone tells me he needs it for his teaching at school,he gets calls from this Kathy woman ,he's stoped kissing me ,no communication ,dresses more nicely, dosent take me out on dates like he used to,everytime he's angry with me and fights but when I leave him he dosent want me to go
After all, they're not sex machines- they're human beings with emotions 🤣 LOL ...begins investing in new underwear (this one is multiple layers of hilarity) . He's a slob, then suddenly, he's not a slob 🤣 Your "healthy"? relationship is his comfort zone and he's realized you love him at his worst... Wow, marriage sounds fantastic, NOT!
Let’s not forget about social media!! A lost girlfriend he still loves from years ago… they will dig up your husband and reconnect! Mine hid that from me for two years they were seeing each other and doing other things too… they will also change the contact information to someone of the same-sex…!! Really sneaky!
My finance kept adding new woman on his Instagram friends list and fb when i asked he said he didn't see msg to all the women he added telling them they meant everything to him. Theses 20 year olds hes 53! Walked away blocked
Yeah my partner is a real cheater..very womanizer.. bringing phone all the time even in toilet..I lost my interest also even for sex not nice anymore coz of I know he's cheating.
Yes , most of the info a here are tell tale changes from when chased you like and romantic attitude that changed drastically there's another person he's involved using you for his personal options too manipulate?
unfortunately everything you said, all of the above is actual fact of my experience with my X fiance seven years. I have had No contact with him the Past four months . But i now know & will be Strong enough ( to if & when he comes back ) All i have to do is say NO !!!
