Picking Up a Cute Waitress

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@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

This was a highly requested one ;) - comment below what you wanna see next. If you wanna join me on the daily challenge - watch my free video showing you exactly how to approach & attract any girl, anytime: benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-waitress

@nicolasrestrepo6177 8 месяцев назад

How about approaching women at the beach?

@KHGB 8 месяцев назад

Do one approaching women at the Gym

@jonnsmith556 8 месяцев назад

That wasn't your waitress though it was a bit different

@StefanosChios 21 день назад

Approaching a bar woman would be challenging 👀

@dwwdaddadwad9859 8 месяцев назад

pick up a girl while telling her your passions are programming, computer engineering and gaming

@harshams8624 8 месяцев назад

Bro go to hooters n approach 😂😂

@Boe3 8 месяцев назад

They always have the illest baddies over there 😂

@Housestationlive 5 месяцев назад

you're not even a customer of the restaurant bro. you need to flirt when she comes to your table with a coffee, not waiting for her at the restaurant exit, at a time of a day where there is almost no other customers.

@KHGB 8 месяцев назад

It’s one thing to see a worker on the street and another to approach one who’s waiting your table because you don’t want them to feel uncomfortable they are nice sure but being nice is also part of their job

@Deluver 8 месяцев назад

Benjamin is planning to host a party with 30 guests after his vacation :)

@lennygalindo 8 месяцев назад

after the challenges are done make videos of you following up with all of them, did they lead anywhere?

@andrewq159 8 месяцев назад

Yes, that'd be interesting to know. Most first dates go nowhere.

@raymondqiu8202 8 месяцев назад

nah he wont do that lmaoo. Most go nowhere and he cant sell that so he sticks to these

@tdomingues89 8 месяцев назад

@@raymondqiu8202this vídeo is just bate for the simp s.

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

That's a different skillset. He's simply proving you don't have to be afraid to approach women in public. If you can't get past this stage than getting them out on a date or having a successful date is useless to you.

@andrewq159 8 месяцев назад

@@scottverge938 Yes, but it's also useless if the approaches don't get results.

@888records 8 месяцев назад

Do a waitress that is busy with lots of customers

@yanyant-q1l 8 месяцев назад

try getting the number instead of social media.

@Masculine-dating 8 месяцев назад

Exactly bruz. Number over socials every day of the week , otherwise you slide into her DM’s with every other simp. Thats a solid mistake on his behalf

@SherrickDuncan 8 месяцев назад

Social media literal has a audio and or video call function. Just tell her you will call her there. 😅

@pewtercamaro 8 месяцев назад

Put fake acne all over your face and try it. If it’s all about rizz like you say then it shouldn’t matter right?

@damitzdesign 8 месяцев назад

This is actually kinda helpful for me.... There’s a waitress that a like, but I haven’t really took the next level in asking her out…

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

It's tough, I know he says it's no different than any other woman but it simply is. She's working and half the time being nice because she's working. But I will say that approaching one like he did and not letting her serve you first changes things.

@MrJuan_Vzla 2 месяца назад

Did you asked her?

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

THE VIDEOS LITERALLY KEEP GETTING BETTER BRO LES GO

@tomh1593 8 месяцев назад

There is very cute waitress at a tavern I go to regularly and I haven't had the guts to ask her out. She is way better looking than me etc.

@oghenetegaumukoro113 8 месяцев назад

So? What kinda man do you want to be. I told myself i would only approach beautiful women. Now i know alot. Shes a humsn being that poops amd farts

@Boe3 8 месяцев назад

In the words of Jahron Braithwaite (AKA Partynextdoor) “But I need a bad bitch that's hotter than me You can hardly admit I'm still tryna f**k, with you” it’s all in your head my brother you can do it if you really want her 🤷‍♂️

@SugarRxsh 8 месяцев назад

Instead of picking up on a waitress you should pick me up on a video 👀 ❤

@monkey6493 8 месяцев назад

Who da fook is that guy

@RobertTaylor-gz2fu 8 месяцев назад

Try picking up girls but in the first minute of the conversation tell them you're broke & homeless.

@error-tv2rm 8 месяцев назад

and why would you talk about your personal stuff to someone you've just met ?

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

Maybe get your finances in order before trying to date? But funnily enough I know guys that can pick up women when they're living on a buddy's couch and jobless and carless.

@RobertTaylor-gz2fu 8 месяцев назад

@@error-tv2rm To see if his social skills & looks outweight it. He's doing challenges.

@RobertTaylor-gz2fu 8 месяцев назад

@@scottverge938 Should women also only date if they're well off? Tall, good-looking guys with charisma?

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu guys that are broke and homeless don't tell the women that when they pick up a woman. Who said anything about being well off? Having a job doesn't mean you're well off, but ideally you should be able to pay your rent and bills. Obviously tall good looking guys with chiasma will be more successful with women. Are you going to hold that against women? A petite good looking women with a good personality more successful with men? LOL Work on yourself and you'll have more success with women.

@HoloAdictos 7 месяцев назад

the censore at 4:06? but however sick as usuall Benjamin, keep spiring us to take action, recently i got rejected by a girl but it didn't feel that bad tho, more approaches are yet to come

@mrtrump-pf1nx 8 месяцев назад

Why don't you make a video about how you made all your money

@king_charlie 8 месяцев назад

he made all of his money off of basedzeus

@RobertTaylor-gz2fu 8 месяцев назад

Yes, and how it depends heavily on his looks.

@emilianosigales1443 8 месяцев назад

Bro these videos really make the process look so simple and clear. Thanks for doing them. Watching the daily challenges helps really digest a lot

@ponokunishima1 8 месяцев назад

That girl in the green jacket that you walked by was cute!

@Housestationlive 5 месяцев назад

try in the metro on rush hours with people glued to each others and there is that girl, smiling. you will tell if it's not specific or unique. or in the hostopital when the girl you like just came to see the final days of her mom.

@GérardKounga 8 месяцев назад

Oneday i will be like you man😢😢

@AK-hi4hm 8 месяцев назад

lplease tell us how many of these girls out of the 30 go on a date with you. if they were all flaky contacts that you don't hookup with this is not showing good game

@nemtom20 8 месяцев назад

Bro it's still good game. He shows up, makes them laugh, shows interest and gets the contact. That's all you can do. What more do you expect ? After that it depends on the girl's situation, if she likes him or not, what movie she watched recently - basically a million things that he has NO control over.

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

Actually he could have a high likelyhood of taking them out because his Insta is probably on point.

@AK-hi4hm 8 месяцев назад

@@nemtom20nah because i've been in the game long enough to know that the little small talk in these clips doesn't lead to solid meetups. it seems he's just chasing the close for the sake of the video. getting a random girls ig off a 2 min interaction may be impressive to a noob. once you get over that beginner stage of approach anxiety this isn't difficult.

@MrBreadman386 8 месяцев назад

@@AK-hi4hmI just want to know for my own curiosity: What is your obsession with this man’s penis? You’ve been asking that on almost every video of this series. You need to stop that. There are certain questions you do not ask another man. That’s tprobably why he doesn’t and shouldn’t respond to you. It’s low key fruity.

@nemtom20 8 месяцев назад

@@AK-hi4hm Agree that it's not difficult - but, I think it would be weird to talk more, nobody wants to spend hours, or even 30 minutes with a stranger. So what exactly do you suggest is the right way, instead of a quick, to the point fun conversation ?

@PiotrKundu 2 месяца назад

So if you only approach girls when they are alone, what’s the plan when you meet her friends? You need to be able to carry a conversation with all of them.

@jusnabegum8680 Месяц назад

Bro is the true rizzler

@SherrickDuncan 8 месяцев назад

Pickup a TWIN PEAKS waitress while she waits on you.

@txbob5978 8 месяцев назад

It's easy if you're tall, in shape and good looking in that case I'd make you look like a wall flower!😛

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

RAAAAAAAA

@vittalg5033 8 месяцев назад

Make an Indian guy (fresh off the boat) you know who is also in the same area as your pick up chicks

@subhasishmondal1999 4 месяца назад

How to pickup girls in Instagram?

@user-hk5wb5qg1r 8 месяцев назад

Do one at the gym. The dynamic there is different.

@rudyamezquita2440 8 месяцев назад

idk I mean isn't it their job to talk to me it prolly would b easier i guess

@samvickey644 8 месяцев назад

Bro approach a nerd girls as nerd 😂😂

@theultimateartist4153 8 месяцев назад

My guy, you should of ordered something then tip her and be a bit more smooth with that approach. You did good but you need a bit more creativity in your mentality

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Why would I waste all that time when I can just go up and be direct?

@theultimateartist4153 8 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda I am talking about after you received her number, Impressions matter.

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

never lead with money, that makes it transactional.

@theultimateartist4153 8 месяцев назад

@@scottverge938 Did you read what I said? After he got her number he should of ordered and tip (As to show he cares about her and her time) also, all relationships are transnational. If you lead with money out of desperation then youd be right

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

@@theultimateartist4153 there's zero point in ordering anything and tipping nicely. It's going to come across as too try hard. He doesn't care about her, he doesn't know her yet. Relationships can be transactional but one of the things being transacted being money is a bad thing.

@MS-yi3xk 8 месяцев назад

Pick up girl in a busy Nightclub

@Rashaadthegr8 8 месяцев назад

Boy look like craimer junior.

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

THE VICTORY ROYALE

@jamesjlee0521 8 месяцев назад

Can you try picking up asians. They are generally more closed off

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Some of these girls were Asian already in the series

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

LES GOOO

@genbtc 8 месяцев назад

Social calibration exactly

@derekrodrigues6890 8 месяцев назад

Do gym

@narcisolon 8 месяцев назад

She loves Space, that's really heavy partying.

@aryankumar87771 8 месяцев назад

what is space ?

@narcisolon 8 месяцев назад

@@aryankumar87771 It's a club with a 24-hour liquor license.

@stickyricesan 8 месяцев назад

i was literally thinking this yesterday

@toasteeze 8 месяцев назад

You be picking up a lot of foreign chicks, I wanna see more non foreign pickups. They seem less open and harder to get imo

@obi173 8 месяцев назад

Most of miami is foreign

@drewg7441 8 месяцев назад

That's why a lot of guys are getting their passport and going to different countries. Western women are closed off, feminism has ruined this country.

@damitzdesign 8 месяцев назад

I get what you’re saying as there are a lot, but it’s not really his fault.... When you approach them, you don’t know if they’re foreign until they speak…

@scottverge938 8 месяцев назад

large cities are full of foreign people. Toronto for instance has more people that were born outside of Canada than in.