Hello Benja, yesterday I approached a girl who works in a store in the city where I am on vacation, two years older than me. I talked to her and we shared our Instagram, today we saw each other and kissed on the beach. Thank you for giving us these tips and probably if I didn't come to this girl yesterday to talk I wouldn't have this story. I repeat, thank you
@@biridun9999 happens alot to a friend of mine. Cold approaching doesnt work if youre not good looking also youre just gonna put her in an uncomfortable position not knowing how to get away from you, sometimes they give you their insta or num to get rid of you fast
Everytime he says the word "20 year old virgin" i laugh so hard😂😂😂😂 And Arman, it's not like an insult though, im 20 as well but you get the gist This was the funniest fr😂😂😂😂
@@Terminator19782I’m an 18 year old virgin about to be 19 and that’ll probably change soon since it was a choice. People have tried to make me insecure or attempt to say it as an insult but I’ve never cared. Just like the fact that I’m short, there are just really fucked up people in the world and you have to ignore it.
I think most of us all has been in your friend's shoes. It feels like I'm watching myself at times being nervous up there. I like your suggestions, Ben. It seems like in order to make up for the lack of confidence/fumbling is by asking observant questions and showing genuine interest. Especially not rushing in and out of a interaction. Personally I feel like I eventually warm up in being comfortable/confident if the interaction feels like it's going well and the woman is giving me a chance to redeem my myself. 😅 That's why I try not to rush it.
just came to tell here that getting a phone number or ig or snapchat doesnt mean shit. the only time the "picking up" is true is when you kiss or end up fucking. literally +90% of cases when someone gives their number, it doesnt get anywhere. so u didnt pick up shit
That's a tough situation. I'd say wait until there's nobody on line. Buy something, or ask for help in the store. Maybe she leaves her post to help you find something and you can have a 2-3 minute pick-up.
New subscriber here. I just found your content. I’m a mid-30s physically disabled man who’s never been on a date or kissed a woman do to confidence and self-esteem issues related to my physical disability. I’m hoping your channel helps me overcome some of these struggles I have. I’ve always just been seen as the nice guy friend. Anyway, please keep up the phenomenal work. It’s needed and appreciated!
I have a physical disability as well, I used my senior year to improve my social skills. I'm now 18, my friend group has expanded dramatically and I've become a man with options. Don't let your physical disability discourage you, you got this.
@@TWKillaBeast Nice!! (Not nice that you have a disability. Nice that you took the time to respond. I really appreciate it!) Thank you for that encouragement. I’m working on the stories I tell myself as we speak, and I’m also getting back in to driving.
@@M-xlz3 hope that goes well for you, always remember you have time, slow progress is better than no progress. I remember letting weeks go by just in my head, I’d see a woman and my mouth wouldn’t move before she passed me, I realized that just acknowledging that I tried was good enough, I took it slow, adjusted my body to face women I found attractive, made eye contact, week by week I’d incorporate a new more actionable approach. (Good morning to strangers, compliments on attire, taking new routes to class, speaking slightly louder than normal etc.) Eventually I just turned off my brain and spoke, great interaction, a beautiful woman, though she had a boyfriend I realized, it felt AMAZING to just give a compliment and speak to women. It took me 12 weeks to speak to a woman I found attractive in my class, I approached, got her contact and rode that feeling for days, it was only uphill from there. Even when you don’t get the result you want, it’s so good for your soul.
He did. Which is no suprise and not a bad thing cause he is a beginner. But what is bad is that you're analysis skills are lacking to realise that. It's all in the little details. (for example his hand in his pocket the whole time)
i technically have a bunch already done - in the 2 girls in 1 day video, that's technically 2 approaches. in the andrew tate video i also did 2 successful approaches. there was a few other vids where i did more than 1 lol so i technically broke the 30 day challenge but keep that a secret 🤫
Honestly, I'd avoid it. But if you really want to, just wait to make eye contact and nod or say hey if you've seen them there before and continue with your workout, don't keep looking. After that do it next time you see them. If it seems like she's reciprocating, say something more in passing e.g. " I almost didn't go today" She might say something in response, even better if it's open like a question, and that's your in to start talking. If she just kinda doesn't say anything or gives a little laugh, go back to the 1st step next time you see her and if it's luke warm just leave it.
There's nothing quite like being in the zone, walking right up to a woman, say hi... and make out with her. Yes, this can happen to you with the right attitude, vibe and confidence.
I'm in the same situation as him i finished highschool at 19 , then the pandemic started, we were isolated for almost 2 years , also got fat soo i had to start dieting and hitting the gym once they were open, and getting my drivers license , also my social skills weren't great but at 22 and still a virgin today i feel more confident. but i feel like the pandemic slowed alot of us down
Hey Benjamin, ive been watching your videos for a while now and I think it's great that you show how you can still meet women in everyday life. The thing is im also a 20 year old virgin and i often feel like approaching a woman like this wouldn't work for me even tho im good looking. I also live in a very introverted country (germany) what makes it even more difficult. Maybe Tinder destroyed my self esteem a bit tho. xD Any advice what i can do?
I'm 27 years old an a ig model wants to go out with me. And she's got a boyfriend, so she's trying to cheat on him but I never had a date in my life also I'm a virgin I'm only good at talking to women when I'm drinking alcohol
So then just do it! know the good thing about this is if she’s dissatisfied with you then no one will find out cause your just a sneaky link! If you have any moral issues she will just do it with someone else anyway and you should take it as a learning process to not trust these 304s
@@silentshadow5236 Actually it is, look at his last encounter at the end of the video called ”Let’s start a relationship” it is her. On the thumbnail as well it is the same girl just go to the video
