Picking Up Girls on the Street

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@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Watch the free video showing you my 3 step system for having magnetic interactions: benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-street

@edricleclercq5008 8 месяцев назад

I've been approaching more girls in my college classes after watching these (and getting more numbers) so I guess your videos are doing something right. It's good to see different styles of approaching for different personalities. I'm Just trying to see what works best for me in terms of approach techniques.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Great job!

@positivevoltage9366 8 месяцев назад

Cold approach is 1000% better than DMing women on Instagram for sure. Starting to do it a bit and getting better and better every time.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Love to hear it bro

@tylergrant4196 8 месяцев назад

What if we don't have Instagram? Should we just ask for her number?

@WallaceLH 8 месяцев назад

different strokes for different folks, but the end result is always the same

@IronManLifestyle 8 месяцев назад

Hey Benjamin, great to see you do something like this. Loving the series. I had literally planned a 30 day challenge similar to this for this year. Haha.

@Sports590 8 месяцев назад

I'm your Fan, Kshitij, I watched all our Videos and Learned a lot of Techniques to attract and keep Girls interested in me, Thanks a lot ❤

@Sports590 8 месяцев назад

I would like to see you and Benjamin Collab together and create more incredible content for men

@IronManLifestyle 8 месяцев назад

Soon, maybe 😉

@techboy8330 8 месяцев назад

ayo kshtitiz delhi boy here, even saw in Monet a few months back, i have subscribed to you and benjamin cause I remember people talking about how great Based Zeus is, all the best for the 30 day challenge

@TwoSOS 8 месяцев назад

In the next video can you tell your cameraman to approach a girl. To prove that anybody can do it❤❤

@andreescalona8902 8 месяцев назад

quoting Ratatouille: not everyone can be a great artist, but a great artist can come from anywhere. My man the cameraman might no be that smooth yet to get video-worthy results

@Shadowgrace760 8 месяцев назад

Notice you just see the approach. You never see the ghosting, the rejection after text, or we should just be friends after texts. Also not everyone has a popping instagram, so she’ll probably just take a free follower.

@genj1648 8 месяцев назад

And does that mean that u shouldnt try . Go outside get some girls fam

@Jambuc829 8 месяцев назад

Right I remember doing an experiment to see how many women I could get using a content creators pickup advice I had 12 numbers from girls and left on delivered on every single one of them. A girl can smile laugh with you and never talk to you again.

@Chris-fs2ql 8 месяцев назад

@@genj1648yes, because this don’t work

@Shadowgrace760 8 месяцев назад

@@genj1648 I have. It always ends the same. Only fat desperate girls ever want me and I’m in really good shape and I take care of myself.

@mario125ww 8 месяцев назад

@@Jambuc829 I'm not a huge fan of cold approach because alot of it depends on how charismatic you are rather than your confidence. Because you got to think of it this way, what would make someone give you a chance if they don't know you? It has to be something you said that they couldn't get anywhere else. Most of it is game unfortunately because it's makes people memorable.

@Neeraj-m1w 18 дней назад

Dude just getting a girl’s Insta n lecturing like a pro 🤡

@hritikthakur3345 8 месяцев назад

I love this series bro! ❤ love from India!

@kdc6884 8 месяцев назад

Show us the after approaches.😅 you give off friendzone/ Ig follower vibe in these interactions. Zero attraction.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

My goal with these is to keep it very simple and doable for the average guy who has never even approached a girl - to show him how simple & easy it can be to get into a positive interaction. I have plenty of more “advanced” interactions in my programs and will show more high level interactions in later vids in the challenge.

@miladshakouri7 8 месяцев назад

Im waiting to see u on a date with those girls that you picked up @realbenjaminseda

@zekecowans7792 5 дней назад

Facts ! He's smooth but 'friendly bestie' type of smooth. Getting ig is silly and means nothing. Even getting the number means nothing tbh

@Housestationlive 5 месяцев назад

why don't you go into office and flirt with a secretary. level 2 you know. a girl who run, and not you running. a doctor in its hospital.

@klaousntouro3865 4 месяца назад

that was not all the way jest an instagram is gay

@TheSauceGiverUTC 8 месяцев назад

Next, pick up a girl when she's with her friends I'd like to see that lol

@sycix1 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for the series, it's incredibly helpful. I'll have a successful approach someday too, I'm just terrified for now.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

You can do it!

@WallaceLH 8 месяцев назад

work on your values brother, find who you are and what grounds you. develop that cultural worldview without the skeptical cynicism and don’t listen to social media posts which tell you to be anything but yourself. when you’re ready, approach a person with the intention of learning something new. you’ll get the hang of it very soon!

@sycix1 8 месяцев назад

@@WallaceLH Thank you for the nice comment, the only thing that would bring me forward is me stepping up in front of a girl. I'm happy with the state and direction of my internal values, but have some unfixable flaws on the outside that demolish my confidence. Sometimes you see a girl and have like a 4 second window of opportunity to talk to her, and my mind just fills it up with millions of excuses on why this is a bad idea and I miss the chance.

@MrBlackjack456 8 месяцев назад

What he forgot to show you is what happens after the number/instagram. He is just running an ad of his coaching program. approaching and getting the number is very easy but getting them to follow up is the hard part.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

I’ve posted probably 100+ texting videos on this channel and even more vids when you count ig DMs etc. I literally have a free texting course in my bio. Cope

@mauroagostini4193 8 месяцев назад

You're hero Benji! I'd like you posted videos in which you pick up girls and then you show us all the following phases of Instagram messages til you go out on a first date

@sovikburma 8 месяцев назад

Bro, do this in India

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Why 😭

@Mr_Nobody_18 8 месяцев назад

Lmfao😂

@reverbeed 8 месяцев назад

Do ygs think approaching in trains is good and not creepy? I notice more cute girls there compared to the street 😂

@candogan1766 8 месяцев назад

I am not saying it is fake I respect your effort , but why does these kind of pick up videos seem fake for me?

@paganiyah 8 месяцев назад

Unless it's a super 'yes girl' these numbers will flake easily...

@zekecowans7792 5 дней назад

Exxxatly

@covert-bird 8 месяцев назад

You're doing a great job with the approaches but I think you should work on your small talk. Less info-gathering, more lighthearted banter, teasing, getting her emotions going. Talking about the weather and her home city gets boring fast.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

My goal with these is to keep it very simple and doable for the average guy who has never even approached a girl - to show him how simple & easy it can be to get into a positive interaction. I will certainly be stepping things up in future vids during the challenge

@indominuskangaroo8489 8 месяцев назад

How do you approach a group of at least 5 hot girls? Man, I totally freak out

@Ragazzo556 8 месяцев назад

How you approached that Miami girl was just a perfect example. The way how you said "excuse me, hi, I thought you were cute, I like your dog" delivered in a deep voice with a short laugh at the end was very masculine and on point dude. Short, simple and direct. That's all you basically need to approach any girl. Greetings from Germany!

@DamnedSuckz Месяц назад

bin auch aus DE, sind unsere mädels genau so?;)

@999triple4 22 дня назад

I can’t even approach cause my town is small like 2k people and not really much going on here 😂

@mossmighty6080 8 месяцев назад

It's 2024 you still doing this?

@Stanlaire-d1r 8 месяцев назад

I can say from personal experience that it is all about practice. A couple of months ago I used to do this almost every day, always as a challenge to myself, and I would even get more than 2 phone numbers a day. I got so used to it that I was looking for more complex situations! But then I gave up for various reasons (work, study, ex-girlfriends etc) and now I feel self-conscious again, as if I had never done it! So yes, it's just practice 🔥🔥🔥

@edward3105 18 дней назад

Never approached a girl in my life,social anxiety is way too high.

@WallaceLH 8 месяцев назад

day 25 of making approaches great again - subscribers volunteer as test subjects using the methods learned 😂 looks like you’re having fun out there zeus, loving the series

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Thx bro ❤

@damitzdesign 8 месяцев назад

How do you pick up the girl when you’re the one that has a dog?

@xaimon 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for your videos Benjamin, greetings from Spain. :)

@paganiyah 8 месяцев назад

London daygame style is waaay more engaging than that 🤣🤣🤣

@terrorbilly3722 8 месяцев назад

Hey Benjamin do you have videos that teach about texting? I'm good at person but texting is not my strenght, i'm like 0/10 online

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Free texting course in my bio

@yashar4705 8 месяцев назад

Just wondering, will there be a video about approaching girls in college? To help us students.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

It’s all the same thing. Much easier in college

@yashar4705 8 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda yeah I know I'm over thinking it, I just get stressed and don't know what to say, and how to initiate conversation.

@yashar4705 8 месяцев назад

@@halox1 I will, it's currently exams in my university so there's barely anyone in there, once new semester begins I'll do it, and maybe update this comment

@greencrocidile6246 8 месяцев назад

4:55 right on

@Madness-tv9iq 8 месяцев назад

You are an inspiration bro , love your videos

@akonemanaba4183 8 месяцев назад

Her voice is so angelic

@alfredogrande413 5 месяцев назад

Great video! What's the song used in the background for most of the video?

@theultimateartist4153 8 месяцев назад

Is public pickup a lost artform? Because 99% of men I see are horrible at it or just hiring actors

@Mi7cro 8 месяцев назад

I’m curious what to say if your for example not on IG like myself

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

good stuff Benjamin!

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Thx bro 😎

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

😎@@realbenjaminseda

@Alessio99900 8 месяцев назад

if the girl walks with headphones or talks on the phone how can I get noticed? :)

@chinmunkdesigns1750 8 месяцев назад

Sorry been busy that’s why I watched this one late.

@liamdoes8580 8 месяцев назад

How do i work up the courage to approach? I just cant do it

@AK-hi4hm 8 месяцев назад

can you cover more advanced topics on how to get them to come out/ texting, we need to see what happens after you exchange contact info.

@pashutbari 8 месяцев назад

creepo

@vincemaria3981 8 месяцев назад

You’re not really showing intent very well in these interactions, they’re very friendly. If guys try this and they are not tall and handsome like you they’re gonna get friend zoned js

@vincemaria3981 8 месяцев назад

Unless the girls are ugly I guess

@Midnighht 8 месяцев назад

I already have a gf but still watch these 🤷.

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

Epic

@guevaraa813 8 месяцев назад

Wonder if Ben will do the Yad Stop during this challenge.

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

LES GOOO

@kamalsmusic 8 месяцев назад

Can you approach someone while on public transit of some kind?

@WallaceLH 8 месяцев назад

setting doesn’t matter. what matters are the excuses you make for not doing it. do you want to? it’s a simple yes or no. don’t give yourself more than 3 seconds before taking the first step, otherwise, you’ll tell yourself out of it because you’re ’on public transit’ or ‘on the sidewalk’ or ‘she’s on her phone’ or etc. you get my point?