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@sasinator6918 8 месяцев назад

Fair play showing of your failures on the internet that's shows how secure in himself Zeus is, elite mindset. Makes me wonder what I'm so nervous about, eye opening for real. Keep making more good content.

@LiquidfirePUA 8 месяцев назад

Bring back cold approaching 😊

@gmsi7d371 Месяц назад

i don't see any BRUTAL rejection as claimed . homeless people in the street who ask for money are rejected the same way thousands of time a day . and they don't give a sh** . this is just life

@acv4519 8 месяцев назад

the worst way i got rejected was when i said hey to a girl and she responded with bye 💀

@AG-bb3yw 7 месяцев назад

Damn bro sorry bout day😂

@BlackMamba-gx4zl 6 месяцев назад

That’s when you turn to their friends and say “how about you? You look better than your friend anyways”

@personalitydev 4 месяца назад

Don't give a f about that.

@alals6794 4 месяца назад

That is nothing.... could have been worst. haha

@jereme48 2 месяца назад

That’s it?

@fiekieX 8 месяцев назад

Got to respect this channel and what he is doing unlike most channels what give advice on dating, man is showing how it's done

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Appreciate u bro 😎

@snakesonn3590 8 месяцев назад

are you normal?

@asmir458 8 месяцев назад

It's not really a rejection if they don't know you at all.

@alejandrop.s.3942 2 месяца назад

Yeah, exactly, it doesnt affect me at all if a girl rejects me when I cold-approach, even if she's rude, but if she rejects/pulls away after having some dates and so on, yeah, that's much worse, since that implies that she saw sth wrong with you even though you were trying your best.

@edwingata4271 8 месяцев назад

one the reasons you should follow this channel , is Benjamin's honesty. Few would actually show their unsuccessful attempts. Bro isn't selling you some magic trick, he's just helping you to better yourself and stop being afraid of failures

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Thx man 🙏

@martinpiekarski1512 8 месяцев назад

Well, I would say that's not enough. I would like to see these big youtube pick-up artists having more struggle with their daily pick-up routines rather than being successful all the time. I know that ommiting that is done for marketing purposes but it just doesn't show the entire picture of things.

@edwingata4271 8 месяцев назад

@martinpiekarski1512 What if that was his reality? No one is equal in the dating world. Just gotta know your strengths and how to adapt

@martinpiekarski1512 8 месяцев назад

@@edwingata4271 Bruh, you gotta seriously learn how things work. Not even the best of the pick-up artists get 100% effectiveness. Not even 90%. If they get around 25-30% it's considered a very strong game. Same thing with sales, there is no salesman that can sell to everyone. It's literally impossible. These guys get tons of failed results, just show these that are successful to make their audiences think they are some gods of pick-up and hence, buy their programs.

@tajwalikhan9995 8 месяцев назад

This is really rare and good to see you showing this part of pick up.... the rejection, as a lot of guys think you have to be attractive af and girls will come running to you, its not entirely true, many women will reject good looking guys (looks are subjective) for a number of reasons i.e. have a bf/too busy/ just not interested etc... Guys you simply have to embrace rejection move on and be strong. Peace out

@personalitydev 4 месяца назад

Yes ❤❤❤

@z174d 8 месяцев назад

This takes balls man, to show the world your rejections, if you can do that, then we can definitely talk to a girl lol

@martinpiekarski1512 8 месяцев назад

It's not really anything special. As a matter of fact, you are more likely to get these kind of responses from large majority of girls, regardless on how confident or talkative you are. It's rather wrong of pick-up artists to show how they are successful all the time.

@Nick.Brough 8 месяцев назад

Statistics show 2/3rds of women under 30 are in a relationship. If you’re not rejected by 2/3rds then that’s great but it does mean some of them have boyfriends & swapped details anyway 😂

@brockfuller2074 8 месяцев назад

THANK YOU for this. It shows rejection is normal cause you’re a good looking guy

@WoockerSocket2 8 месяцев назад

Whether he was good looking or not rejection is still normal anyway. If a supermodel randomly stopped me on the street if i was rushing or i wasnt in the mood to talk i wouldn't engage with her either

@Sikorsky1111 8 месяцев назад

@@WoockerSocket2 I'd be wondering if she's trying to rob/scam me or something!

@brockfuller2074 8 месяцев назад

@@WoockerSocket2 I mean uglier people get rejected way more often than male models but this video shows even if you are good looking a woman could still not be interested

@Shadowgrace760 8 месяцев назад

I prefer these girls being honest at least. I’ll take brutal rejection like this over being ghosted

@DorelDrumuriSiPoduri 8 месяцев назад

I watched most of your regarding this challenge and this gave me the courage necessary to approach a girl at the gym today. It wasn't successful but weirdly enough, I wasn't phased by it and it gave me more determination to approach more girls in different social settings. Videos like this show me that rejection is totally normal and expecting everything to go well the first time is a delusional thought. I encourage you guys to approach whichever girl you may find cute, worst case she says no and you can move to the next one.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Glad to hear brother 🫡💪

@phabeondominguez5971 5 месяцев назад

What was yo approach strategy? I wanna hear it from one of us that's really out here..

@joshforeman1723 7 месяцев назад

Benjamin is Dominican Puerto Rican? I thought he was Indian.

@danielmarquis5258 8 месяцев назад

I feel like women never bad an eyelash if they reject a man in an extreme disrespectful manner. When the situation is turned, they are all bent out of shape. If they only knew what my life was like. They would never last. They would need therapy for "being invisible."

@xMckingwill 8 месяцев назад

Did you not watch the video ? Who hurt you? This video literally PROVES YOU WRONG. None of those women rejected him in a disrespectful way what? News flash some women are assholes. In addition some women have been graped od physically assaulted by men they rejected so men also can get bent outta shape. The ONLY reasom you feel invisible is because you never really approached anyone or you never put yourself in a position to be seen. You cant spend your weekends at home and complain about being invisiable. You cant stand in the corner and complain about being invisible.

@danielmarquis5258 8 месяцев назад

@@xMckingwill How would you know my whereabouts? I go out MORE THAN YOU THINK. Some women would probably commit suicide if they were in my shoes😡

@phabeondominguez5971 5 месяцев назад

Bruh.. STop man, imagine if you was getting cold approached daily by 3-10 random woman urrrrday, all your life.. eventually you would become jaded, or at least very guarded, letting only the top of the TOP ones in.. ya smell me??

@xMckingwill 5 месяцев назад

@@phabeondominguez5971 they cant "smell" ya cuz they are lost in their own self pity, they lost their ability to empathize

@phabeondominguez5971 5 месяцев назад

@@xMckingwill you talkin the females or the sorry Richards in here?

@terrellolivares 8 месяцев назад

Do one at the gym

@Kirbythediver 3 месяца назад

Honestly, when i see a cute girl, ill approach knowing full well im about to eat 💩 but know ill hate the feeling of regret if i don't

@programmingpersistence5716 8 месяцев назад

This is why after i found a good girl that was interested in me..i just married her. its depressing yoyoing around trying to pick up girls. its a numbers game and extremely time consuming.

@agentnukaz1715 8 месяцев назад

Some of these chicks are cold for no reason. Respect to the ones that know how to reject you smoothly. Im my eyes if she has a bf, it doesnt bother me all and most likly true

@bhavikpansara766 8 месяцев назад

This type of video is good to watch. Because men face such type of situation when they approach women in person.

@palindrome06 4 месяца назад

These are not really brutal rejections. I once approached a group of girls and the one I was talking to said I'm short.

@alals6794 4 месяца назад

Could have been worst....how tall are you anyways?

@moe583 2 дня назад

@@alals6794 Bruh

@miyamotovlog 22 часа назад

went to a date and got told short after I got home, but we gon bounce back

@rambo7135 6 месяцев назад

I admire the courage you have but I feel there are things you can do that you could definitely improve on. I mean rejection is inevitable. Not all women are single! You're not going to be every woman's type, and many just can't stop because they are genuinely in a rush. But the way you were approaching in some of these was a bit weak. You need to be stopping girls with more conviction and a lot stronger too. I'm not a follower of the running front stop which many guys do which was created in London but atleast girls will stop when its done well. You could have thrown in a false time constraint after your opener "I was just on my way to meet a friend and you distracted me" or "I was on my way to meet clients" or whatever! Like many guys who opened Direct, you seem to think that giving the compliment is enough and that the women will be attracted! There has to be some flirting and teasing. Attraction comes well before comfort! I think if you had a few challenges or teases, and you stopped some of these girls stronger you could have got longer interactions.

@RobertTaylor-gz2fu 8 месяцев назад

If you didn't have the advantages of height, looks, athleticism, health, personality, social skills etc., the rejections would've been far more frequent & far more severe.

@alihabibi2985 8 месяцев назад

I feel like you forced yourself to be akward for this video idk I hope im wrong. Like ive definitely seen you much better with your intonation and what not. Not to take away from the video, obviously.

@-mark6449 2 месяца назад

Omfg that was soooo cringe 😬😬😬

@Instagramer107 6 месяцев назад

Brother I am from India.how to overcome fear when we go to talk with girls please reply and love you from India ❤

@amadukamara9606 8 месяцев назад

So most guys aren't scared of approaching women ,its the rejection guys are scared of lol cringey stuff especially when you live closer or you see them every day

@taivo5753 3 месяца назад

I always get rejected, even on a basketball court.

@JoseMemesShorts 8 месяцев назад

And please!!! Make more videos like this from the first part of rejection to last part of successful approaching!!!❤ I like this kind of teaching, So we will follow and what we want to do, just encase we encounter rejection like this🤗

@pe4153 4 месяца назад

You get a round of applause from me good sir edit: no cringe at all

@sajithsageer182 8 месяцев назад

This couldn't come at a better time. I got rejected today 😂

@shubhammudaliar4203 8 месяцев назад

Legend! just be thick skin.

@nightswell 8 месяцев назад

Its like they say its a numbers game. Look at rejection as redirection. For all you know all those women that reject you, could have lead to a toxic relationship, so look at those women as doing you a favor.

@LeeEverett1 11 дней назад

You would have far less rejections if your cameraman wasn't literally standing 3 feet away from you in plain sight

@shreddersteve2663 4 месяца назад

Most of them seem quite polite at least. Here in Australia a lot of the women would not be afraid to just tell you to "Get lost" in front of your face :'(

@rish8357 8 месяцев назад

Bro i have so many women following me with their eyes but they don’t come up to me. and im too shy to go up to them too. Really used to the online dating ecosystem

@adrianchico8886 8 месяцев назад

Women are NEVER gonna approach you bro this is just the way it is you have to go up to them or approach them if one turns you down you simply move on to the next one play the number’s game bro you might get lucky or you might not don’t let rejection discourage you from trying if you see a cute girl that you like or you’re attracted to simply walk up to her

@alejandrop.s.3942 2 месяца назад

Those are called choosing signals. It happens to me too, I am also shy but I notice many girls looking at me, but women don't approach, unless they're a bit too loose or your looksmatch is too different (you can be approached by a below-average girl if you're a 7/10). So, you as a man have the duty to approach, but during the interaction you must also expect her to put some effort, otherwise walk away.

@TetrahedreX 2 месяца назад

These girls are actually still pretty nice in their rejections

@jindrichburian3946 День назад

1st one was just a herd reaction. Only one of tgem reacted negatively and all others copied her behavior. That blonde one looked like she didn't meant that.

@LightSourceTemple 4 месяца назад

You call THIS brutal??? THIS is brutal for you? Sheesh 😬 get rejected more dude

@adurpina 2 месяца назад

its Hard to approach if the Girl had a Boy Friend

@Knusperknechtinthehouse Месяц назад

Always the same: "I'm in a rush, can I have your Insta?" No you're not in a rush, so stop lying

@jerem6588 3 дня назад

"This video shows you that no matter who you are you'll have to deal with rejection" That sounds pretty damn narcissistic. Who even are you? What's so special about you?

@jetixyouknow1594 3 дня назад

BasedZues the legend himself not giving a f about rejection. He walk it like he talk it.

@kingdomofentertainment5513 8 месяцев назад

I think most of the dating coaches fail to show this - how even the best fail and this is a numbers game. If you see even the best fails time to time, you don't fear the rejection as the same level as before. Everyone talks about the success, but if you can be immune to failure, you will become reach success at some point. Thanks for the video.

@TheTandeantanzil 8 месяцев назад

rejection , failure is part of the process. bounce higher

@AK-hi4hm 8 месяцев назад

how many of the 27 girls did you meet up with though

@JoseMemesShorts 8 месяцев назад

Please make more videos like this the parts of rejecting you, I'll make it my motivation to have a balls of rejection. So instead of approaching women, I will focus on more rejection means success!!!😗

@personalitydev 4 месяца назад

😲😮 I thought That zeus will never get rejected 😢😊 But now I am confident that I am going to be a Playboy sooner and destroy my past regrets. @ 26 May 2024

@Fiazco 8 месяцев назад

I have a boyfriend: „Wow, that’s cool. I have guyfriends too. Maybe we can set them up“. 😅

@gmsi7d371 Месяц назад

girl : " i have a boyfriend" guy: " it's ok .everybody has problems "

@gladiatorsoul2005 4 месяца назад

Asking girl for her name in first seconds, showing too much interest, asking too much in the beginning, talking quickly, saying that a girl looks stressed... are those all examples of what you shouldn't do? :D I can understand the anxiety of being filmed and being afraid that someone notices it, but you have to manage the anxiety, if you are showing others how to do it, then show correctly.

@PlaybookEmpire 8 месяцев назад

The challenges are getting interesting now.

@alejandrop.s.3942 2 месяца назад

I think in some way you were trying to get rejected on purpose, since you were not as smooth as usual. Besides, I'd say your open lines and attitude was quite lame compared what we have seen you are capable of. I'd like to see a rejection compilation of yours really trying your best.

@jerem6588 3 дня назад

Bro why are you messing with these girls feelings for your views?

@personalitydev 4 месяца назад

But Zeus How can you say " Hi you are cute" to a stranger 😂 I think in American culture it is Ok. But we cannot say this directly in India. What we have to do ?

@Phriffo 6 месяцев назад

This shows that every man gets rejected (from low value to high value man). It's just a part time of the game.

@MikeJensen-w2v 4 месяца назад

he isnt high value

@Phriffo 4 месяца назад

@@MikeJensen-w2v yeah fr, he is totally beta. His physique isn't even good. All he does is to chase and make thirst trap posts.

@Skyhigh275 6 месяцев назад

Observations: Most of the rejections were in the context women were up to something, they are in hurry and you blocked them like a weirdo. 2. Your hair was a mess. 3. You looked tired and your sentences came out like a script. Conclusion: Great lesson.

@scientistjam 4 месяца назад

bro, start begging for some dollar, at least u will make some money to run the house

@Joseph-n4c5l 4 месяца назад

These videos are great and he's right, men, WE have to go for it. Even women don't want to meet someone online. Even they don't take it seriously. They will NEVER know how much balls it takes to approach a stranger that you're attracted to. Not sure that it ever gets easy - practice, practice, practice. Benjamin is right. Today, it is a super power. I would add, go after women you're interested, which seems obvious, versus the "She's attractive I should approach." That's my two cents. Stay strong men.

@stevencrosft7631 Месяц назад

Great effort man, but you got to take your hands out of your pockets!

@ItsDrayTV14689 19 дней назад

most of them weren't brutal

@Wanwose 8 месяцев назад

Man i'd love you doing a review of what do you think that happened wrong in this situations. Anyways, you're doin excellent bro, keep your head up.

@alejandrop.s.3942 2 месяца назад

Anything went wrong, when you cold-approach, especially without waiting for choosing signals, is a total gamble. You don't know if the girl is mean, if she has a bf, if she in a hurry, you're not her type... Success in cold-approach is being in the right place in the right moment, running into a girl who finds you attractive , she's available, in a good mood... that's why its success rate is so low, since it's very difficult to meet all those requirements.

@Biz005 2 месяца назад

These are actually not bad and quite subtle. I’ve experienced far worse rejections but kept going. Great video!

@alals6794 4 месяца назад

Interesting video....I wonder what his success rate is though. We only watched the rejections in this video. Environment is also important for example, but in University, I was approaching girls with a 75% success rate but that demographic favors guys. Out in the city, or mall, it is BRUTAL. haha Similarly, cold approach would be far more successful in other countries than in the USA, for an American.

@alejandrop.s.3942 2 месяца назад

It happens to everybody. I am from Spain and I had a lot of success when I was in Central-Northern Europe, also with girls from those countries when they come to Spain, whereas I don't have much success with Spanish girls.

@jamesocallaghan898 2 месяца назад

These rejections were not really that brutal at all

@Hadi_Houdini 8 месяцев назад

I hate that this series comes to an end😢

@sqribe 4 месяца назад

this is really a master class in what to say after hearing no. There's 150m woman in the usa, don't sweat it, ask the next one. Best dating advice in life can be found in King the Hill, Boomhauer knows what's up.

@RoxFor3v3r 4 месяца назад

What about past age 25?? I’m 29. Any studies on those statistics?? I’ve actually been approaching women the best I can but I’ll admit I haven’t been goin as far as I want.

@jovantaeholloway4943 2 месяца назад

I appreciated seeing the rejection videos since it also helps me learn from maybe what to do differently if I was in your shoes that might have worked.

@ubaidahmed5989 6 месяцев назад

You showed your rejection that is really good,But i rhink u didn’t give full try… but u have to show the rejection…good

@legendbtv 8 месяцев назад

Benjamin VS Armin for the final day!!!! One hour! Most instagrams buys the other dinner

@MelodiesMirage 7 месяцев назад

Hey 👋 Benjamin Same thing happened with me when I approached a girl on the railway station But at that time I felt very bad but now after seeing you I feel it is normal. 😊 Love from India

@YTguySmithy-lk6go 6 месяцев назад

No 2 is the best (or rather the worst!) rejection. The 'just ignore and pretend the guy doesn't exist' rejection. 😄

@WayOfTheWudan 7 месяцев назад

Bro I'm so glad I found this video, I lost a bet and had to try and get a girl's number yesterday, so I went up to her and introduced myself and said I thought she was cute. She looked me dead in the eyes, then turned around and left the bar without saying a word.

@phabeondominguez5971 5 месяцев назад

BRUTAL,.. But after 2-3 of those, after that no rejection will phase you.. so keep at it

@alals6794 4 месяца назад

Never tell her she is cute....engage her in conversation, but don't let her know you like her more than she likes you.

@garfbuckle9081 2 месяца назад

the part where he's holding the whole store is so funny. you should do a video seeing how much you can mess up and still get away with it

@Matthew_Scan 7 месяцев назад

“Hi I saw you I thought you were cute” maybe turn the record over

@martinpiekarski1512 8 месяцев назад

Man, that last one was a success, not rejection. Thar's called cheating, bruh.

@VocalsOfRitam 3 месяца назад

This actually gives me power , rejections are the key to success ❤

@HoloAdictos 7 месяцев назад

the 5:48 girl seems like venezuela, as the way she speaks

@CollinWilmes 8 месяцев назад

Doesn't this end the streak and you have to give $10,000?

@gamegraves 8 месяцев назад

Nah bro, you just kept at it, a didn't take it personally.

@giuliomorassi3063 2 месяца назад

Just be a chad bro

@arnulfbichler5368 8 месяцев назад

Makes me more confident seeing that even gods from mount Olympus can “fail” sometimes

@boeing747lover_08 26 дней назад

Bro, I’m shy.

@Idohimself 7 месяцев назад

Kudos for Zeus for actually showing what real approaches look like.

@ayonnnnnnn 8 месяцев назад

Our trust on Benji increased so much after this video. He made himself so much relatable to us 😁

@Memesifoundonfacebook 7 месяцев назад

Bro bring back the Cartoon Zeus

@castlandt6994 8 месяцев назад

I love your chanel

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Thx 😎

@vinustephan3101 8 месяцев назад

Dudee hugh respect💯🎊

@Matthew_Scan 8 месяцев назад

Thanks for reminding me why not to approach get rejected and embarrass myself

@Clear256 8 месяцев назад

loser's mentality

@o45032 7 месяцев назад

this is cool to see, its obvious everyone is prone to rejection when asking people out but seeing you actually post it is an eye opener for those ppl who think you'll always have it easy if you look good, truth is the risk of being rejected will always exist but that shouldnt deter you

@Nephilim56 8 месяцев назад

Getting rejected would just increase my powers for the next one

@davidmendoza4463 8 месяцев назад

you just read my mind, I was waiting for a video like this.

@z174d 8 месяцев назад

This video reminds everyone that you are human and like all of us

@king_charlie 8 месяцев назад

where's the new vid ?

@siddharth6940 8 месяцев назад

dude, i like your shorts

@DiesNatz 8 месяцев назад

We want Zeus

@emanuelarvelo6247 8 месяцев назад

Legendary ☝️🔥

@julla1416 8 месяцев назад

For an average-looking guy, how many approaches to get one number?

@gmsi7d371 Месяц назад

the pareto principle says that 80 % of your attempts to get something will fail . so you will succeed 1 time out of 5. whether it be getting a number or whatever

@julla1416 Месяц назад

@@gmsi7d371 Thanks!

@Ali3nh3art 8 месяцев назад

🙈

@Auf_dem_Sonnendeck 8 месяцев назад

This is brutal....😬

@phabeondominguez5971 5 месяцев назад

Nah, it's jus reality, and after you do it a few times, it doesn't even phase you or register on you anymore, you jus keep going!!

@Peterstarzynskitech 2 месяца назад

It happens. I did this same thing in NYC. I went 0 for 4. But overall it was just fun and I look at it as a W because it helps get me out of my comfort zone.

@xMckingwill 8 месяцев назад

This video SHATTERS the RP and BP marrative and SHOWS every one will get rejected. And its not the end of the world. 😂😂

@grandfathernurgle2840 8 месяцев назад

How? It only reinforces in my mind. I'm sure some of the women who turned him down it was due to being in a relationship but of course some just single and weren't interested. That being said considering his looks are better than the average joe I can only imagine how much more frequently and harshly an average or below guy would be treated.