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@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Day 10 LFG! The challenges I have for the remaining 20 days will blow your mind 😎 👫 My 3 step formula to approach & attract women benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-mall

@AnthonyManzio 5 месяцев назад

No phone number all trah

@andrewphiri6219 5 месяцев назад

How do you avoid being awkward when she says no giving you her number or Instagram?

@user-ii7qg5eo3f 5 месяцев назад

@@andrewphiri6219 just move on bruh

@stonalisa3729 4 месяца назад

Exit gracefully @@andrewphiri6219

@Suryavarman7 5 месяцев назад

Next challenge: Approach Karen

@Sardoniccurb 5 месяцев назад

This would be hilarious “I approach and talked to a Karen in public”

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

BRO THE VIDEOS JUST KEEP GETTING BETTER

@mingw2304 5 месяцев назад

Love these...keep it up my boy

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

THAT WAS A SOLID APPROACH BRO THOSE TWO ARE AWESOME

@Clear256 5 месяцев назад

That is a fantastic opener

@michaelchristensen8533 2 месяца назад

Benjamin is sympathetic, so its understable that he has succes with the girls

@mhmm29 5 месяцев назад

yo Benj, we wanna see the dms as well. but youre killing this challenge!

@TheSauceGiverUTC 5 месяцев назад

Nice❤ Next, do a challenge where you pickup one at a restaurant

@zeliph 5 месяцев назад

That seemed like the most generic conversation ever and it worked! Gosh, I need to practice more of not getting flustered when I approach ladies in the train on my way to the city.

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

You got this!

@bboy_parody 5 месяцев назад

Mah boi ❤

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

The song goes crazy

@anonymousanonymous-bk7vz 5 месяцев назад

Come to Melbourne Australia!

@Sports590 5 месяцев назад

What to talk about exactly in the Interaction so that she wants more to talk with you? ( Focussing Both on Positive and Negative so that you will be open to new perspectives rather than fixing on your Comforting Topics )

@SamuelConfidentConnections 5 месяцев назад

You are already well on your way in reasoning and thinking. Let's break it down to 3 levels. Level 1: You approach the girl. She doesnt know who you are. In this level you give as much of a sample of who you are in a short time span. Be expressive in your mannerisms and expressions. "I absolutely LOVE New York" instead of "I like New York". Now also think positive and negatives. Think "Germany?? Oh no we have to stop talking then." She: what why? You: My X teacher was German. I still have flashbacks.. When you give her a range of expressions and you also sprinkle in questions about her + you are relaxed and normal she will like you. Level 2 is where you become more chill and get to know her on a more personal level Level 3 is where you ask her really deep questions and start escalating very intimately

@yuvrajsalhan1200 5 месяцев назад

Next challenge - public transport ( bus or metro )

@Shadowgrace760 5 месяцев назад

I’m betting we never see him actually hangout with any of these women lol. To be fair most of them are on vacation and aren’t going to hang out with a dude doing the same thing lol.

@TynoGH 5 месяцев назад

He has a famous IG so his conversion rate is way higher. I think they would

@Shadowgrace760 5 месяцев назад

@@TynoGH Fair enough, but for the average dude it’s not going to work. Some of us don’t want to broadcast our life on social media

@TynoGH 5 месяцев назад

@@Shadowgrace760 thats true, that’s why it’s becoming either it works too well or not at all with the average guy

@Viper01010 5 месяцев назад

0 degrees is colder than 0 degrees ❄

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

Approach in a hot dog costume !!!

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

And the fit goes wild 🤙🏽🦍🌪️

@levilangham 5 месяцев назад

I’ve been living under a rock for a year now. 1 year ago, I threw a rock on the roof.

@dehhota 5 месяцев назад

that you in the thumbnail??

@martyb9297 5 месяцев назад

Would love to see an approach at the grocery story! Feel like there’s always so many attractive girls there. Should be a difficult one.

@tashtant 5 месяцев назад

Say the same thing

@adamhilmiofficial 5 месяцев назад

4:50 how to approach and make small talk and how to engage two girls at the same time

@folnarilp 5 месяцев назад

What about a relationship?

@mixalisoikonomidis2121 5 месяцев назад

Question: When approaching 2 of them and having a convo with both of them, like in this scenario, who do you hand your phone to for the IG part? Is it just one of them (probably the one who was more open and communicative) or both, and if both, how to do is smoothly? Thanks in advance.

@user-ii7qg5eo3f 5 месяцев назад

You give it to the hotter one of course.

@DanHaines-kw3bl 5 месяцев назад

Nah don’t be ratchet bro, I rizzed 3 girls on the beach recently and only one was decent looking, but I exchanged for all of there instas. Don’t wanna make her friends disappointed and the girl you like will respect you more for treating everyone equally.

@KG-te9pp 5 месяцев назад

Bro I dare u to do like these vloggs in Germany

@Worldview9958 5 месяцев назад

next challenge approching girls while they are at work

@KaiserBP 5 месяцев назад

After you remove women who just gave you the number to be nice or women who were just visiting and are leaving the city in 3 days. There's probably only 3 actual dates from 30 approaches. Stats back that even top PUA's convert at a 10% closing rate. This Chad is gonna land a lot of normies in trouble or pepper sprayed 😂

@Sardoniccurb 5 месяцев назад

What makes a Normie and normie tho?

@KaiserBP 5 месяцев назад

@@Sardoniccurb sub 6 in looks and body/height

@Sardoniccurb 5 месяцев назад

@@KaiserBP 1) looks don’t always matter i see guys that are so called “5s” dating “8s” like just look at the streamer Neon. 2) you body you can always change by cardio or something. 3) unless you’re a midget i think you’ll be fine 😂

@user-ii7qg5eo3f 5 месяцев назад

If you consider this guy Chad you re delusional

@KaiserBP 5 месяцев назад

@@user-ii7qg5eo3f famous chadlite is Chad. Stop coping

@morm2173 5 месяцев назад

It depends on the malls and city. In arizona at the mall hot women are rare here

@johnnyprays6657 5 месяцев назад

This is Florida not a problem here

@morm2173 5 месяцев назад

@johnnyprays6657 yea I have to go to bars and clubs even when I don't want to some weeks

@user-ii7qg5eo3f 5 месяцев назад

Getting IG is too easy. Hard to take any of these serious. Girls will always take IG followers lol

@dimunnpabebet7040 5 месяцев назад

Of course, tho dm her will be easier

@stonalisa3729 4 месяца назад

The point is for his profile to show her that he's a high value guy.

@andreschoque2300 5 месяцев назад

There’s so much European women in Miami 🤔 where’s the latinas at? Nice vid bro 👏🏼

@RedPillHubOfficial 5 месяцев назад

2:11 Does anyone know the name of this G-Shock? That’s a nice watch

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

Ya approach in whole foods

@vivekprasad3599 5 месяцев назад

Bro you could have get a 3 some easily

@theobigbusiness 5 месяцев назад

Chad moves

@trenthargrove5048 5 месяцев назад

Go to a grocery store

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Soon!

@colder477 5 месяцев назад

Any suggestions would be fine but I never even get the courage to talk to girls if I'm not wearing a nice outfit. But the ironic part is when I do, I still dont talk to the them:), just the eyes locking is all that happens. Dont know what to do:)

@cookiesarelikecream 5 месяцев назад

Update your wardrobe and don’t go out of the house without a good fit. Now you have no excuse

@chrisma_ 5 месяцев назад

Please try one day to approach a girl while you are sitting in a wheelchair. Would be a interesting one.

@WalterM-hy5fp 15 дней назад

Fellow germans there. Nicer than they usually are here lol

@machoinstinct 5 месяцев назад

Guys let this be an example that even bad game can get an Instagram follow. There is hope. All this man talks about is the weather. He never says anything edgy. The girls don't test him. He doesn't ask the girls about themselves, have no opinions about them. He doesn't issue them any challenges or qualifiers to have them fight for his attention and value it more. He does nothing interesting and is not a pro. It is all about getting in the reps for him. Not about actually having fun. He could have gone with them to the beach, just walked with them and talk some more sh*t while having fun and making himself more memorable? Why not ? They had nothing to do. And you are on a trip too. In your next interaction I'd like you to push the interaction a bit further and not just runaway with their Instagram.

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

My goal in these first few interactions is to make it extremely simple for anyone to go out and execute an approach. 99% of guys can’t even do a simple approach. Have to meet ppl where they’re at. I plan on including more “advanced” interactions after about day 10 or so. Also, 90% of the girls follow back and I’ve had girls from this challenge message me first based on combination of my interactions + IG. My goal is to show that an average normal guy with very “boring” small talk can take himself very far.

@machoinstinct 5 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda you have proven this my man. GOOD WORK. I have watched every interaction so far. Simple things work. You just have to be okay with being there not get in your head and just feel out the convo. Usually when you have a good instagram it will seal the deal for the girls because you get to convey status, pre-selection, competence through your post without overtly stating any of this. The girl gets to find out for herself through scrolling your instagram and go: "W👀W this guy is a catch!

@raymondqiu8202 5 месяцев назад

what do you mean by "he doesnt issue them any challenges or qualifiers to have them fight for his attention" what would be a challenge or qualifier?

@machoinstinct 5 месяцев назад

@@raymondqiu8202Lightly teasing here about her taste in music would serve as a light challenge (test) to see how she would respond. This also provides a different feeling for the girl than just having you be nice and friendly the entire time. A qualifier would be probing the girl for qualities that you look for in a girl. Eg. You would say something like: " you seem adventurous. I like people with a taste for new things and the unknown". Whatever the line is, these things make talking to you more exciting for the girl. This man in the video is kinda boring though. He only speaks about the weather or how long the girls are staying in Miami.

@raymondqiu8202 5 месяцев назад

@@machoinstinct thanks for the tips man. I appreciate it. Another question, how would somebody transition to talking about other topics besides the weather and how long they are staying in miami? What would be good questions to ask? Or something else to say?

@ralphtekede6434 5 месяцев назад

This new based Zues is cool

@MrTyphoonracer 5 месяцев назад

Try aproach girls as a poor, or as a homeless person that would be interesting to see 😉

@Dukethedon2024 5 месяцев назад

Go to beach

@kanishkar69 5 месяцев назад

Everyday you post same content. Try to be different ❤🎉

@cookiesarelikecream 5 месяцев назад

Yeah I agree. His channels not going to grow by doing the same old same old. He has a good # of subscribers but the views are very low.

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

That is the point of 30 day challenge

@user-ii7qg5eo3f 5 месяцев назад

@@cookiesarelikecream the subscribers are from based zeus channel. He changed the channel name

@rudyamezquita2440 5 месяцев назад

got dam bro u mostly r picking up foreign baddies r they like nicer & easier to approach bc it is wat im like starting to notice

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Not particularly. Miami is an extremely international city. In fact most ppl I’ve approached / met have been from New York as many ppl have 2nd homes here or stay here during the winter.

@derekrodrigues6890 5 месяцев назад

Yeah go approach at a normal gym

@arpitwasnik856 5 месяцев назад

Don't approach foreigners i want to see you dealing with modern american womens 🤗😅!! 2. Approach womens in boxing gym ,normal gym or library

@onehandednedned6673 5 месяцев назад

Ever since your face reveal the views dropped and what happened to your girlfriend?

@Coldsoldja 5 месяцев назад

Sadly i live in SA TX. Most the women here are big and round 💀 and a lot of them are uggo too. Lesst there more pretty fit ones here in SA than in corpus Christi... But still lol

@stonalisa3729 4 месяца назад

Go to another city then

@Coldsoldja 4 месяца назад

@@stonalisa3729 Im planning on it. I still get my fair share of the attractive ones. From what little there are. I plan on moving to austin. Or maybe somewhere in Oregon. Lot more up there.