Picking Up MILFs in Miami - Day 4 

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Props to you for doing this series! I really appreciate the motivation! 🥂

I hate when women say your too young for me. Im thinking lady your getting no younger you should feel privileged of having a young man approach you 😂😂😂

Best to do it on RU-vid. Organic, simple, no corny shit. I've been using your strategy and killing it lately. Thank you forever, my man. The real Zeus 🍾

As someone FROM Miami and who lives two miles from where this happened, this is very refreshing to see. Hope to run into you Benjamin and hope you’re enjoying the new year so far! 🤘

It only works if you are naturally handsome

Love these videos man. Probably the most authentic approach videos I’ve seen. It’s good to see examples of just having a normal small talk conversation instead of being a sleezy pickup artist.

Probably my favorite episode so far. The conversation 😂😂😂😂, the vibes, OMG. The conversation was so organic and real. It's the conversation between the introduction and the exchange of contacts that really carries the weight for me

I’ve noticed older women do appreciate and are more easily flattered by approaches lol.

U inspire me bro. Yesterday i approached a girl on the street. Got rejected brutally tho. She literally stared into my soul and walked away after i nervously said “i wanted to say hi because i think ur cute” Anyways. Idgaf. At least i tried and it feels better then having the feeling of regret.

When i first subbed animated Zeus i never thought it would morph into cold approaching. This is a real treat.

It's so much easier when you're rich, athletic, tall, handsome, confident, have good social skills etc.

Well, I have to say I’m officially convinced and after these 4 days feel confident I can do this too! Thank you for this awesome challenge!

I love how hes not doing anything special its just interview mode and its going well. We put all this pressure on ourselfs to be perfect in an interaction but you dont have to. Come on guys we can do this!!!! Just say hi ask a few questions say a bit about what your up to and exchange insatas thats it. WE CAN DO THIS GUYS!!! Its the initial fear that you have to break through thats the hard part. Just getting your feet to move toward her and saying that first; excuse me i thought you were cute so i wanted to say hi.

I’ve been following you since your early based Zeus days, you’re an inspiration who’s helped me dramatically. I’d love to work with you in person in NYC if you offer in-person coaching to get me to the next level.

can you keep track of how many of the 30 contacts you meetup with, and how many of those lead to hooking up

Lmao I don’t watch anymore to learn. I just like to watch your stuff and try to learn some things. I like how you showed the first try. You didn’t focus on it or cared much for what happened

your videos are definitely giving me confidence for approaching girls my age. I'm 18 and getting more confident and I may try some approaches while I'm at a concert next friday!

So werid that the rate of which you are walking and the timer makes no f-ing sense.. number closes are simple af bro 😂😂

These vids are so good. Please keep this going.

tbh boys, go for the #, its a hit or miss but its better

Love that you let us see the convo without you cutting it like the other videos ❤❤

My guy, you NEVER ask a woman their age or weight!!! Please do better next time!!

Can you explain the psychology or reason you are shaking her hand for an extended period of time? I notice you've done this in many of your approaches. Thanks, love the series.

When you're his age, it's easy to use women that have hit the wall, and are in their mid to late 30's or early 40's for target practice. They hardly have any more dating options at that age, so anything they can get is better than nothing they already have.

man I wish I didnt live in a super conservative small city

"I had to come say hi cause you're cute"? Bro that's not game. That only worked cause you are a above average looking dude, that's also tall and in decent shape. If you weren't, that handshake would not have went on THAT LONG. That shows that she was IMMEDIATELY into you and NOT because of your line, which was abysmal for an average guy to use. Attractive women hear "omg I just had to tell you how beautiful you are"! Are you kidding me, do you understand how many times they hear that a week? It means NOTHING, Unless she finds you attractive, at which point she will have the biggest smile, blush a little and be like "thank you sooo much, that is very sweet of you". Give these guy's better ways to approach women. Please

Cool real shot. No matter how well you do and show that anything is possible, there will always be some dorks who can only approach a girl on OF 🤣🤣🤣

Day 3: null Day 4: Saw a childhood friend at school, had to rizz her friend, got her contact, planning the logistics for a date next week when she visits again. Love your videos Ben

I didn't think it was that easy wow... I might try this

The energy he came with in the intro was on POINT, she was ready at that moment, look how she held his hand so long and stared into his eyes like that, he actually broke eye contact the first few times after she asked his name. If he kept that same energy he used when he approached and asked her name, he would make any girl fall involve. His youth came out after the name exchange, he couldn't hold the act lol... with time and practice he may become a real Don Juan, he is still young.

ty for listening to the comments of last video & showing the whole conversation. I'll have to pick up the gentleman approach course.

You’re in the wrong country. You should go to Russia or Ukraine. Even Romania

He doenst missss

And showing the whole interaction is awesome

Your mom content doesn't compare to ours

How do you ask her name and then forget?!?!

This guy is 26m lmfao looks late 30s early 40s

Ihman ghadzi changed his buisness model💀

Bro was just standing there and I already saw 5 different supercars in the background 💀💀

Content starts at 2:50. Nice cooperative girl, offered information ("I'm from New York"), answered a lot of direct questions, like "What did you do last night" :)

Bro literally a beautiful girl living in New York doesn’t get approached!!!? Bro if anyone still doesn’t believe you ben I don’t what will make them hahaa

Most Npc cringe shit I’ve aber seen

So Benjamin one question, the camera went down before you were approaching the woman. Was the woman getting ready for rehearsal?? I understand it's staged !

This guy talks forever

Doesn't the women find it weird or creepy that you have tons of women following you on Instagram? I'm concerned of giving it out because I have way too many women following me on my IG account from last year, that didn't fall through after a few dates. Also, I'm surprised that you got away with asking some deep personal questions on the first interaction. Maybe i should try that too and see what happens.

It's easier if you are not ugly

I found your channel in the past few days, and, usually I’d not take interest in pickup channels coz they tend to seem disingenuous or vain or some mix of the two, but you seem to have a very healthy approach to… well… approaching. Your want to motivate other young men to grow their confidence and show them the world- especially as it relates to women- is not out to get them is very refreshing. Keep up the great work man, you’ve found another subscriber in me.

Really did he ask for her age??

Dude… Don’t put your hands and arms behind your back… it’s such a subservient body posture! Keep your arms in front of you and be demonstrative with them!

How tall r u bro

Approach brother is spot on. You’re relaxed and you give very fun vibes; but never ask a woman for her age or her ‘activities’ the night before and such…. It’s just a little imposing…. The social media stuff??? Yeah; I would not do that; I would go straight the date and the contact info.

I enjoyed the clickbait

Dude you got to remember the name you can use that so much in a NLP routine where you tricker her name with a anker so she thinks of you. Nice hand holding but you looked at your hand witch is a big no no. Only let go if she pulls away getting comfort going right away. You get away with stuff because your fit but there is a few places thats just sloppy. Also no qualifications bro? Thats almost amature hour. Think you could benefit from laying more back in your body language like she has to prove something to you. You relay heavy on your looks and its not a bad thing but i would say its bad when it effects your game. I see a few things that would make you way more effect.

I'm in kenya 🇰🇪 (Africa) give me the 10 k if you fail,i will highly appreciate.I'm zeus fan from day one.i could request the 10k to be given random fan in the internet (me).we are the ones giving you accountability.

Benjamin, if you don't get me wrong and keep in mind what I've noticed in your interactions, would be good for you. 1. It seems like you have no clear structure. - I notice this in many cold approach interactions, people mostly would go up to other people, open them and then it's just going with the flow. In your case, your structure feels like, opener+get a bit familiar+number/ig close. 2. Creating attraction. - You're a well-mannered, clean, well-groomed nice-looking man, so you get good reactions from females. - Your enthusiasm and investment in conversations won't necessarily create attraction to females. You need some emotions, some verbal tickles, a little bit of playful vibe. - Small chit-chats should be used as little as possible. If you do, try to deliver things in a way that presents you better, like being a good salesman and selling 'you' effortlessly and efficiently. You need good verbals, good transitions for this. 3. Closing. - It would be best if you date-close them. You probably are going for a challenge type of thing, doing content, but it's always, way better if you go straight for a date, if logistics are in your favor. I'm sure you understand some of this yourself and are working on them. Good luck with your journey!

¿How come this doesn't happen in New York? 3:23. I´m sure she has been approached in NY many times but by a guy she doesn't like.

Hey Ben, question: I noticed that in a lot of your past approaches from a few years ago, you tend to be more animated, "Mr. Personality", more flirtatious etc. Like your opener to that one girl who was reading a book was "are you reading 50 shades of grey". In this series, are you deliberately trying to use your "boring-guy game" that you've mentioned in your emails? Or has your approach towards women evolved and now it's simply a more mature style, less gamey?

You got into a rapport with the New York shit and you were confident. Also answered good on her concern about the age difference. But the golden rule is not to ask a woman about her age directly, like you did.

She was ready to eat you

I have to stop watching this Chad he just makes me more depressed

Bro keep this going…this is so cool. I don’t like pua dudes. Theyare cringe. You are just a guy having a conversation. Refreshing to see honestly

Legit loving this series

Que se vaya a trabajar

i kno this is to show how to do pick up but im not picking up any older woman those r like very low hanging fruit the hottest girls r all under 25 for me at least

I think the biggest issue for me is that in all your approaches your giving out your instagram, which is smart because it’s seemingly “low stakes” compared to giving out a number for the girl, but also works out in your favor since your instagram is probably well crafted to where it will actually get the girl interested. Whenever I have approached girls, since I don’t have instagram/facebook/twitter (just don’t like swiping on social media in general) it has worked less than half of the time because some girls are like “oh I’d give you my Snapchat, not my number I don’t know you well enough yet”. Sometimes it’s worked with a phone number, but I guess I’m not as successful because I’m asking for something seemingly high stakes like a phone number. I guess would you just recommend I actually build a good instagram?

I was in the running track yesterday in i saw this gril looking at me. I regret not approaching her in the first place but i met her again and now i got her insta thanks for the motivation g

Its not the Cougars I am concerned with. Its the Bengal Tigers I am more worried about

big shock to learn that you're 26 man ! I'm 26 and it feels like forever ago that I used to watch based Zeus; Us being the same age seems so strange. And you're 1000% on point when saying guys from our generation no longer approach women, all my friends are either dating a girl they fell on by mistake and are too afraid to leave her even if she's toxic just because of scarcity, or they are lonely and miserable. I get called a total fk boy just for being someone who approaches girls during parties or through apps, and my numbers aren't that astronomical (although it's getting there ngl)

Big difference between Ukrainian & Russian , especially now.

He showed her face at the thumbnail but blurred it during the video. Clickbait

That was not a success. No way he gets that girl to respond after their initial contact.

I really like Ben's vibe but are we really celebrating an instagram close?!?

Love this

Have an ugly or awkward guy approach and see if you get the same result

I would never approach a complete stranger unless she sent choosing signals so strong even a child could see it .

Even I can do it in mumbai india...but sponsor me for dates ..lol

Thank you for hiding the microphone, in airport you almost screw it up.

Why does he go for Instagram instead of numbers W video tho

Works great if your young and handsome not ugly or too old.

Dating apps ain’t it this man knows it

Asking a woman how old she is ?? Does that make any sense ??

Creep

nice i see you did like the comments said and put the whole interaction,nice thumbs up bro

Thank you Benjamin! I used one of your tactics a few days ago at a restaurant, whilst I was having a reunion dinner with my friends. One of my friends was competing with me to approach the waiter, but I did it first, when he was still contemplating and I managed to secure her instagram ID! All my friends were shocked and impressed at the same time! Big up the rizz king Benjamin Seda!

You’re killing it 👏🏼

This was your best one, went well, chemistry sparked, and you didn’t even do anything fancy

I doubt this is real , most people don't go and starting sharing everything and laughing litreally to a complete stranger , specially girls , in india and asia these things will never work , even in west (which is uncultured ) this thing must be not common

looks staged or shes just a way too friendly person

How old are you ? You can’t be younger than 30

Inspirational!!! Im doing the same thing bro

Wasn't that hand shake a lil too long

Awesome Ben and this challenge is only starting, i have try approaches more often by this!!

Make a video of you following up with them as well

Best pookie bear to ever do it in pick up 💃💃🧸

BRO YOU ARE ACTUALLY CHANGING THE WORLD YES

2:58 benjamin seda cold approach line by line

Im gonna do this on February... Seems interesting

The best approach so far. I'm really enjoying that series. It will give me much more inspiration and motivation to approach more girl here in Brazil.

Benjamin you literally out here saving humanity bro❤