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@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

This was one of my favorite ones to make... tons more bangers on the way ;) 👫 P.S. Get my 3 step formula to approach & attract women (free video): benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-looksmax

@jcbanegas1356 5 месяцев назад

I thought bro was about to tie the knot with the second girl, conversation for real🤣

@Infrared-nyne 5 месяцев назад

It's insane how wise you are for being 26

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Thx bro 🙏

@ponokunishima1 5 месяцев назад

I would not have guessed you’re 26. You look younger. That’s the thing about Asian and Latino blood, we look younger than we actually are.

@anyo_mations 5 месяцев назад

wHAT?? bRO i THOUGHT hE WAS 35@@ponokunishima1

@millanferende6723 Месяц назад

I can tell this dude definitely had a mature and knowledgeable father in his life.... at least during his formative years. 😛

@Ostnizdasht206 5 месяцев назад

You're right. Looks will get their attention but you still have to back it up or it wont matter.

@AbdulElah77 5 месяцев назад

Damn a girl with no social media! thats so rare

@divebobber 2 месяца назад

And highly refreshing.

@AK-hi4hm 5 месяцев назад

that wheatwaffles screenshot is hilarious, the time spent for a straight dude analyzing another mans facial structure

@akashmukherjee1060 5 месяцев назад

I really appreciate these videos you do. It shows how dry the days can go where you're needing 2 hours to find one cute girl to approach. I went out few times and got disheartened by how few many girls there were to talk to, but now I understand that's the nature of the game.

@indiepopstatic3244 5 месяцев назад

WOW! Dude finally gets a phone number instead of instagram. Am I hallucinating? You got a keeper there if she thinks social media is toxic and doesn't have it. You should be doing cartwheels about that. Both of those girls were awesome. Also there is nothing wrong with the way you look in the first video so this challenge is pretty silly. Agree completely that success is internal and not external.

@grandfathernurgle2840 5 месяцев назад

Yeah, no exaggeration thats like striking gold.

@tyronewilson7890 5 месяцев назад

I agree. He’s naturally more attractive than most guys without even trying.

@ponokunishima1 5 месяцев назад

I like this series, it shows us how we can cold approach with confidence. I really need to get the courage and confidence to approach girls.

@Razsound 5 месяцев назад

2 girls at the beginning were nervous talking to “big daddy” 😂

@Sky-fp8lc 5 месяцев назад

The universe may have totally tripped you over yesterday but these approaches in particular were a testament to turning that setback into success. Nicely done Ben.

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Thank you bro

@sasadvanajscak 5 месяцев назад

Myron doing his photoshooting

@nameless.greyceo 5 месяцев назад

Can't wait to do this, let's team up

@chinmunkdesigns1750 5 месяцев назад

I remember you had a post on Instagram. ‘Don’t just stare at t*** all day. Get up and do something with your life.’ I’m doing something with my life now so that’s why I’m a little slow to comment on every video but I will make sure I watch every single one. BECAUSE U ARE PART OF THE REASON IM GETTING MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER LETS GO ZEUS! 🎉 AHHHHHHHH

@martyb9297 5 месяцев назад

I’ve never heard of any of the words in the title 😂

@yasarizdi4613 5 месяцев назад

It's over for you

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Sorry bro it’s over

@MrBreadman386 5 месяцев назад

Enjoy the rest of your life

@user-ii7qg5eo3f 5 месяцев назад

It’s over

@joshuav1088 5 месяцев назад

Bro the girl with no social media is a 💎 of a girl I would pursue that girl

@user-nc9mi6go6n 5 месяцев назад

Shot for the content bro. Approached two girls today and one said she had a boyfriend and the one gave me her number but it’s starting to seem like it was the wrong number. At least now I’m feeling more confident to approach them

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

Hahaa that’s AWESOME ya Brent maverick has been commenting on your videos aswell hahaa love this!!!

@MattPryze 5 месяцев назад

Love it hahaha. Good memes throughout

@morm2173 5 месяцев назад

Yea I'm a very tall guy and I learned looks and height won't save you if you have bad strategy and don't know how to talk to women

@Alphamale_Formen 5 месяцев назад

This is by far my favorite😅

@tattooartbytony631 5 месяцев назад

Helll yeah I love this !!!

@tevoooo 4 месяца назад

both apporaches were great convos

@user-vh1bf6ez7m 5 месяцев назад

You're inspireing me Benjamin approached 1 today rejected but nicely and i think ill get over my approach anxiety from more attempts and i sort of had a 10 open me i think. I had seen her somewhere different given each other the eyes she was on the phone and looked busy so I didn't approach. But as I went to leave the mall she had gone work at a cologne stand and sort of made a b line for me I can't say I was ready for this but i I played alone to a sales pitch well being playfull with the intention of saying something like i dont want any cologne but ill take abit of you blah blah go into chat.but let nerves get the best of me at the end. I will be better next time.

@darkneji190 5 месяцев назад

lmaoo a wild myron makes an appearance

@drewg7441 5 месяцев назад

where?

@jvenner23 5 месяцев назад

This guy is the real deal! 💯💯

@Jay-fe7dc 5 месяцев назад

Good video! I want to see you go in with a pick up line or some type of humor to break the ice

@brayangonzalez893 5 месяцев назад

Dominican king. Royal blood line. Fearless. We are conquistadores.

@Nick.Brough 5 месяцев назад

Runs the risk of pricing yourself out of the market, location depending & especially if you dress really well.

@dackjaniels443 5 месяцев назад

LMAO the best challenge yet

@oghenetegaumukoro113 5 месяцев назад

Internal really beats external

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

Dude I love this

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Appreciate you always supporting bro. Doesn’t go unnoticed 🙏💪❤️

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

⁠⁠⁠⁠@@realbenjaminsedahahaa of course bro! Your changing the world bro and Thk! 🤙🏽

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda even if it went unnoticed i would still support 🤙🏽

@spugged9800 4 месяца назад

You goated for pulling up on two at once 🤣🤣

@Simerrez 5 месяцев назад

Very good video

@Alphamale_Formen 5 месяцев назад

Bro, please do a challenge on approaching a girl who's with her parents. That should be genius if executed well

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

THE MOG MUSIC LES GO

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

THE MOG MASTER

@jesushurtado2111 5 месяцев назад

When i try to talk to girls they always respond to me: bye bye‼️🗣🗣🗣 (looksmaxxing reference)

@johnnyprays6657 5 месяцев назад

Get mogged💀💀

@nicolasapellido8884 Месяц назад

Good video

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

THE SAINT LAURENT BEWOOOOTS

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

I actually personally have the experience of relying on mogging in that it gets you a lot of choosing signals but if you don’t know how to actually talk to women it only goes so far 💎🌪️🦍

@tomasedwards9398 5 месяцев назад

Please approach girls at the gym

@Movie_.Moments001 5 месяцев назад

Brett should comment on this video

@jokerjack9797 5 месяцев назад

You talk about having dope ig, but don't talk about what to do if your followers count is low, or you don't have friends to take pictures of you. What's the solution for those issues. Now that goes to another topic on how to even make friends that actually last in your life and also how to have a fun life. I feel like if these things are not sorted, no girl would be willing to stay with you in the long term

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

You don’t need lots of followers. I share a private IG account with 300 followers to the girls and get follow backs like 90% of the time

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Get a tripod with a self timer for photos

@dackjaniels443 5 месяцев назад

The amount of followers doesn't matter in general. Although, I would suggest not having less than 100 followers (might seem antisocial/creepy to some) and not follow an excessive amount of accounts (let's say 100 followers, 800 following). Apart from those two things, I think nobody cares. If you find a girl that doesn't want you because of your followers, you just dodged a bullet anyway. As for pictures, mirror pics with a cool outfit are some of the best pics you can take as a guy. AVOID face selfies at all costs, unless you're extremely good looking. Some might disagree with that, but for me they're cringy to post as a guy and so 2010s. Mirror pics are alright. If you're in a cool public place you can always ask for someone to take a few pics of you, might be a cool opening to meet new people, friends, girls etc. Two birds in one stone ;)

@Nick.Brough 5 месяцев назад

Find a local, professional photographer. There are even ones that specialise in dating profile pictures. They will know good locations, poses & outfits for you to make the best impression. You only need to do this once, can use the same pics for a couple of years if your appearance doesn’t change much. Good luck!

@MrBarnardoo98 5 месяцев назад

Benjamin! I’m getting quite good at cold approach. But most of the girls I approach they either unfollow me or I can’t get to see them again. And I am not creepy at all.

@josevasco7795 5 месяцев назад

6:32 deep down we all know she is right

@rachedhaddar9741 Месяц назад

griffting never ends

@nickhero100 5 месяцев назад

Hi banjamin, Is it possible that we can continue the conversation without asking something personal like name or location after giving her a compliment. If is it possible then please do it, so we could learn it from you coach😅

@qwikrthanquick5209 5 месяцев назад

Try doing this, but put fake pimples/acne if you can

@quintonthorpe7190 5 месяцев назад

Buddy ass @11:50 tweaking 👀😭😭😂😂

@olympianlegacy 5 месяцев назад

Man, where the conversation at...

@brockfuller2074 5 месяцев назад

How come you chose Miami instead of Tampa to live?

@OMAR-vk9pi 5 месяцев назад

I just found out you’re Dominican

@blackrafsangaming8555 5 месяцев назад

Anyone from 2023 ?

@unexpected8166 5 месяцев назад

BRO, we ALL are

@jonnsmith556 5 месяцев назад

How?

@reverse_rl7520 5 месяцев назад

Bro really pulled sisters

@rabidrivas 5 месяцев назад

Any tips for privacy concious people that don't want to use Instagram?

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Make your ig profile private

@rabidrivas 5 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda I am concerm with digital privacy, similar to the first girl. It seems that approaching girls and asking for instagram would have a higher success rate that number. And you say your instagram helps a lot afrer a bad interaction. So I would love to see a no instagram challenge. And maybe some tipa to compensate for not having insta

@FilippoCardoni 5 месяцев назад

@@rabidrivas nowadays IG is like a business card, it literally shows who you are, who your friends are, your interests and such... that's why it's easier to get a girl's IG rather then her phone number. But don't be fooled, like when they used to give you a fake number or not answer when you texted, the same thing applies on IG... they give it out easily because they can just ghost you but they gain a new follower. That's why they give it out so eagerly... the worst that can happen to them is having a "creepy" guy that won't stop texting, and then they can just block you if that's the case. So, getting a girl's IG doesn't mean you've successfully picked her up, and neither texting with her. Only if you can get at least 2 dates you can say you've picked her up...

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

NOT THE MOUTH BREATHER

@aryansh06 5 месяцев назад

hey Benjamin, can we approach a girl while shes with her friends?? I mean a group of friends

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

I literally did it in this video

@aryansh06 5 месяцев назад

no , like a group of 5-6 friends @@realbenjaminseda

@andrewq159 5 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda How do you react if her friends are hostile to you, thinking you're not good enough for her? It's not likely to happen to you, but I've been in that situation many times.

@FilippoCardoni 5 месяцев назад

@@andrewq159 The "trick" in approaching a group of girls is that you need to stop targeting only one girl. You have to be friendly with all the group FIRST and only once you've been "accepted" (meaning they don't see you as cringe, creepy or embarassing or whatever, and they lower their defences) by the group then you show interest for that one girl only, and usually if you do it right and they like you, they'll give you an easier time to approach the girl. Obviously if they don't like you it's game over..

@andrewq159 5 месяцев назад

@@FilippoCardoni Some expect me to buy drinks for all of them.

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

MOG

@ponokunishima1 5 месяцев назад

The sisters were probably cuties! The older one seemed like she had to use the restroom, she was doing a little dance.

@alexk1418 5 месяцев назад

Nervousness I think

@StrikerEureka85 5 месяцев назад

i feel like a damn grandpa. what the hell is "mogging" and "mewing"?

@RichDatingDragon 3 месяца назад

👍

@nicolasapellido8884 Месяц назад

Black pill guys say you should looksmax when you are sub 5. For example, if you are obesse you should go to the gym first. If you are a 7 and you have great game, it wont make a big difference, as you confirmed.

@AC-ll9rr 5 месяцев назад

What is looksmaxxing?? What is mogged?

@Ginsama10 5 месяцев назад

Maxing looks

@yasarizdi4613 5 месяцев назад

It's over for you bro

@kubi368 5 месяцев назад

“Mogging” is being superior in physical appearance or overall attractiveness than others. A man can usually “mog” others by being taller or having a stronger jawline, a deeper voice, or a better haircut or outfit.. Just google it bro :D

@drfriedmann 5 месяцев назад

I don't understand. U look good, young. It's easy to talk to girls like this. Because your chances are huge.

@Ginsama10 5 месяцев назад

Yo Brett

@andrewq159 5 месяцев назад

Who?

@Ginsama10 5 месяцев назад

@@andrewq159 Brett Maverick he has looksmaxing channel

@rahulkhatwani7515 5 месяцев назад

Bye bye ‼️‼️🗣🗣🗣

@prgamer241 5 месяцев назад

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@mississippitornado6842 5 месяцев назад

what does icing your face do

@n1kolyy 5 месяцев назад

Reduces inflammation/puffiness

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

BIG DADDY

@Weebgamer236 5 месяцев назад

Bye bye 🗿🗿🗿

@qua6k 5 месяцев назад

BYE-BYE 🧏🏽‍♂️

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

🤫 🤐

@yasarizdi4613 5 месяцев назад

🤫🧏@@realbenjaminseda

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

BYE BYE

@yourdailygymclips 5 месяцев назад

🤫🧏‍♂

@KaiserBP 5 месяцев назад

Monotone voice, boring straight forward conversations. No charisma just cringe "Big Daddy" and still gets the contact. Physical attraction is all that matters when you only get a 2min interaction with a stranger. You disproved your own rule, trash charisma but your looks still got you to the finish line. "Your looks only get your foot in the door, the bedroom door" - Saint Hamudi. Remember this: Shy and handsome when approaching = Clark Kent Confident and handsome when approaching = Superman

@andrewq159 5 месяцев назад

If you have good looks, your conversational skills don't need to be as good as if your looks aren't good.

@johnjohntv1195 5 месяцев назад

Yeah I don’t wanna be a hater but this video teaches nothing because good looking people can coast through life with minimum effort and still get through; average to ugly people need to over-compensate and actually learn conversational skills and game, and frankly, this video did not demonstrate game. I suggest people go watch Todd V if you want to learn REAL game

@dackjaniels443 5 месяцев назад

Benjamin isn't extremely good looking, he just worked (maxxed to stay on the meme) on everything almost all guys can work on: style, haircut, posture, lean with some muscle etc. That being said, obviously a guy who has his shit together (see above) is gonna get more interactions than someone who is overweight or has bad style/haircut or all of the above. No matter how much charisma a guy in the second category has, he'll never get many girls.

@will_203grn3 5 месяцев назад

The pathetic cope is astounding LMAO. He talked to Shorty like a regular human being looks really mattered a little to none. Cope harder. 🤦🏽‍♂️🤣💯

@FilippoCardoni 5 месяцев назад

@@dackjaniels443 He's not bad looking either, and he isn't short. You can ask me, I'm short (5'4) and even tho I workoud like a freak, have a great body for my frame, take care of my (lack of) hair, smell good, I am financially "ok", have my own car, work as a personal trainer and yet you want to know how many girlfriends I had? One, and I've only ever had sexual interactions with 2 girls in my 27 years of life. Tell me how I'm not doing things right but the truth is, some girls actually had the guts to explain it to me... "Frankly you'd be perfect, if only you were tall" I'm not even kidding, I wish I was. Literally the only thing that truly matters is being perceived as attractive... now if you're attractive as hell but a piece of shit obviously it ain't going to last but if you're smart and kind literally all it takes is for you to be good looking (and tall), heck if you're tall you can even be ugly af, I know some of my friends that are all and they literally do nothing. Nothing. And they tell me "I don't know what to suggest, they text me and I just play along".

@tahsinsameen5769 5 месяцев назад

YOUR channel is so dead Benjamin

@peterperras379 5 месяцев назад

1.3 mil subs 20k views. Hmm

@andrewq159 5 месяцев назад

How so?

@tahsinsameen5769 5 месяцев назад

@@andrewq159 they barely get views

@vincemaria3981 5 месяцев назад

He used to do that Zeus shit and he stopped. I think he’s trying to do more shorts and tik tok content bc that’s where the money is. Not sure if it’s working