Plan a Life You'd Like to Have

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@irate74 Год назад

I remember listening to this time and time again thinking to myself “man I really need to quit drinking it’s been messing up my life in so many ways.” I’m so proud of myself for gathering over 90 days of sobriety. God willing there will be many more months and many years of sobriety ahead thanks Dr. P for the extra nudge and all the encouragement!

@cheershiii965 Год назад

That's amazing. Well done!!!!

@lolgriffin3243 Год назад

Fantastic! Keep going!!

@melissawinstead8848 Год назад

That's awesome! Great job on the hard work! I wish you continued success! Peace and love always until there is no more!😊❤

@TheHumanRanger Год назад

Keep on the path of sobriety brother, I am on day 65 myself. Stay the course!

@FM-by1rl Год назад

Congrats! Keep moving forward - the momentum will grow, and your life will gain even more.

@Steven-wp1hw Год назад

I can't explain how much this mere mortal has helped me in life. I will forever be thankful for his lessons.

@ophelian4646 Год назад

I can say the same. And if you don't have English as your first language - you learn even more. I have to slow down the speed to 75% and some3 stop to translate some words. He's my English teacher too.

@ophelian4646 Год назад

@Phantom Navigator Don't you have anyone you look up to? Or listen to in life?

@leafdog4649 Год назад

@Phantom Navigator Projection. The real cultists are always the haters.

@song8777 Год назад

Same here.

@natertater4974 Год назад

@Phantom Navigator Jordan peterson teaches truth from science and his life experience and wisdom. Call it a religion if you want. It does not take away from the experience of people who have found him to be a great help in their lives. He has touched mine in a way no human will ever.

@inspirationalmadness9986 Год назад

Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears.

@kylox6940 Год назад

I can do all things to Christ who strenghtens me

@thepurpleenigma Год назад

As a business consultant, and coach, one of the very first things I work with my clients on is getting crystal clear as to what it is they they want. Focus is one thing but there’s no chance in hell for you if you don’t have clarity in what it is that you want first - otherwise every single goal you set will be meaningless and you’re going to fail almost every time. The second main point JP notes at the end is the critical nature of the value of time and we underestimate and undervalue this pathetically! When business owners complain they don’t have enough time - their real issue isn’t the numbers in the day (we are all given the same!) - the issue is in their inability to leverage their time well.

@TheHumanRanger Год назад

Man I wish JP was my professor in college, Great explanation!

@peeonu25 Год назад

Id have to record the lecture, write down a list of terminology I can't define... Dude makes us think, makes us grow and I like that.

@TheHumanRanger Год назад

@@peeonu25 I know right, I keep playing on loop to get all the info!

@sash3800 Год назад

He is the one who gets you to where you need to go. I'm really proud of him; it's almost as if he's saving lives, which is incredible.

@masterxyr Год назад

I also have fun doing this hypothetical exercise which is imagining I win the lottery and then what I would do. After all the _nonsense_ is spent, I then look at most of it and ask myself, "and do I really need a lot of money for that? Intriguing answers usually follow.

@toxels Год назад

Exactly! Its a great way to take out any irrelevant blockages out of your thinking to find out what you really want.

@JGComments Год назад

Most people have an ideal LIFESTYLE, but what can be really helpful is planning an ideal SCHEDULE, I.e. time with people, working out, how much time at work, etc.

@user-re4ub1hq3g 6 месяцев назад

Jordan is the only professor any student need or ever needed!

@opalfenwick3953 Год назад

He's so sweet and practical ☺️

@koutoumukei Год назад

I wish I had this class when I was a student back in 1987 in Japan. I never had a clear goal for life. As a result I don't feel satisfied with my career. I never took major risks. I think we should have this kind of class in all universities. On the other hand I think envisioning a goal that justifies all the effort required could be really hard, unless you have some very strong source of motivation.

@allforjesus1971 Год назад

He explains what the source of motivation is.....

Год назад

@@allforjesus1971 Avoiding failure/existential crisis?

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

I know this will sound cliche, but you have power in the present moment. You could do this exercise of let's say, where you want to be in a year, or 3. And work your way towards that. Wishing you hope and determination and light 🙏🙏

@lotannaezeogu Месяц назад

Setting a goal that motivates can be hard but if you really think about what you want in the next 1 - 5 years (not what you can have but what you actually desire), it helps. Like Jim Rhon said "set a goal that'll make you stretch that far, for what it'll make of you to achieve it"

@2Oldcoots Год назад

So many Valuable Insights! Thank You Doctor Peterson!!!

@YashRaj-fm8sz Год назад

These 11 minutes are better than hours of motivational crap

@Conditioning-for-Combat Год назад

I read this title like, Plan A: Life you'd like to have

@acogjefe4769 Год назад

I feel like that’s equally effective. What do you think step B could possibly be?

@kevinmalone9314 Год назад

@@acogjefe4769 its plan b lol

@loneenvoyyale5259 Год назад

@@acogjefe4769 plan b: life you do not want to have

@song8777 Год назад

As long as you stay away from Plan 9 from Outer Space. . . .

@drpriyadarshni13 Год назад

@@acogjefe4769 I think the best plan B would be - Stick to Plan A.

@paypig919 20 дней назад

okay i need more of this.

@unstablefusion3 Год назад

I have to watch these videos when I’m in a slump. Thank you Jordan.

Год назад

This hit hard, it described me perfectly

@footballover01 Год назад

This is perhaps the most comprehensive life advice given by JBP

@mariaeugeniabertero6802 5 месяцев назад

I agree.

@dalen52 Год назад

Plan a life you’d like to have!!! Yes!!

@godessofyouguess Год назад

Thank u JP

@theuniversityoflanguageinn5670 Год назад

Boahhh this dude be speaking so much factss Thank you Dr Jordan Peterson for REAL

@scarletttroquille6360 Год назад

God Bless Dr. Peterson🌹 keep driving Home , Direction, Goals , Needs, and Hard work . Young people Today, need your guidance more than ever. They're homeless, protesting, lazy, etc..

@rimondas6729 Год назад

Homeless for what reason? They are not lazy put yourself in their shoes Almost no job guarantee and diminishing social benifits while sky rocket inflation is taking a toll on everyone

@rishabhsethi5956 3 месяца назад

I'm actually surprised by how accurate this is - i mean, everything he says is correct especially him talking about 'whipping yourself and then procrastinating' and then 'having an existential crisis'

@reidmaley7292 Год назад

It's not you have to but you get to. All perspective

@atz6212 Год назад

Peterson! Peterson! Peterson!

@jonathantobias9702 Год назад

I'm watching this video for the second time and I'm glad I am because I'm at the procrastinating phase after cracking the whip on myself last week. Wherever Mr. Peterson is, may God bless him for me.

@mariagarced1013 Год назад

Thanks so much, Pescador de Hombres. As you have mentioned-PAIN- is a GREAT MOTIVATOR. So is fear. And so is LOVE. It is exhausting, to be waiting for the right time. But I think there is a right time, for EVERYTHING. I have been sad for a long time, but I'm trying to be better, and not feel sorry for myself, although I do. I feel stuck, and I feel that the World has betrayed me, by discriminating against me for not getting vaccinated. I have isolated myself too much, and I feel that people have forgotten about me. It's not completely true, but I feel that way. They accepted the vaccine, and the discrimination that went with it. I must forgive everyone for not fighting back two years ago. And I must forgive myself too, for not moving on. I'll do great things, when I do them. Thanks so much for the help. Te amo!

@peeonu25 Год назад

Amen.

@grizzly7244 Год назад

JPs suit game tho 🔥

@vascoguerreiro341 Месяц назад

very interesting

@Johnny.B995 Год назад

I had a dream last night of Jordan Peterson. I was extremely happy in my dream to meet him. He came into my home, sat on my couch and fell asleep. I know Jp talks about interpreting your dreams. I have no clue why I dreamt that, but it makes me smile.

@manomanhudo9467 Год назад

I think it's a sign of your openness to his being (in terms of his character, his thoughts and ideas and his influence on you). Because you have allowed him into your house (mind/consciousness), and were even happy that he was there. And him sleeping in there might mean that he has fallen into your unconscious. Either that or his being is not active in your mind.

@Johnny.B995 Год назад

@@manomanhudo9467 thank you for interpreting that

@manomanhudo9467 Год назад

@@Johnny.B995 No worries. I love interpreting dreams and I hope this helped

@conradjones635 Год назад

Yea! Already planned. :)

@harkelan Год назад

The little emoji in the corner is really breaking my mind lmao Like what is that thing doing there xd

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

I didn't notice that at first! Sorry, late to this vid, but here it is lol: it's Bite-sized philosophy (yt channel) watermark -- the guy put a lot of effort pulling short memorable clips out of hours-long lectures. I commend that. So the watermark means this uploader ripped off the clip from the other guy.

@joebruno1380 Год назад

Purpose, meaning, service, calling, passion important for a meaningful life. I'm 70 years old now and one thing I learned you can plan, you can try to control every aspect of your life, you may think you are the captain the master of your sout. Time and chance play a part in all things, moreover we don't know when our time is up. As fish are caught in cruel nets or Birds are taken in snares so men are trapped by evil times that fall unexpectedly upon them.

@ImOnLockDown 7 месяцев назад

Well said Joe.

@cyndinn Год назад

JP, the dad I never had, but found online

@ketoonkratom Год назад

Love One Another:)

@maxmilernjdmba.9750 Год назад

You become what you think. So, think carefully))

@mikehawk9099 Год назад

Of course I want to workout and be fit, BUT : I also want to eat that slice of pizza. What "I" doesn't make sense, it's more like what "we" want. And "we" want different things both at the same time. THAT is the issue. Of course I know it would be worthwhile to meditate, eat healthy, exercise, journal, blablabla every day and I do to some degree, yet still indulge in vices because part of me wants to, the part that doesn't want to diet, meditate, exercise, etc.

@TheFallenWarri0r Год назад

Eating pizza and being fit/going to the gym are NOT mutually-exclusive.

@jonatansandberg312 2 месяца назад

I'm fit but I eat pizza and other junk food here and there. What matters is your total diet (protein, fats, calories, etc).

@user-sq8hq9mh9o Месяц назад

‏‪11:03‬‏

@mistyisland343 Год назад

Problem I'm having is that I have really reinforced the idea that there is no life that I would really want. Cut to me following Mr. Petersons advice about responsibility and all that and watching practices implemented nourishing my soul and washing away jadedness. So is my inability to plan for different reasons not important and the practice of planning is valuable in and of itself because you can course correct? Would love to hear your thoughts if someone has thought these issues through.

@mrknarf4438 Год назад

He talks about it in another lecture: of course it's ok to self-correct! It's not only unlikely, it's impossible to know exactly what your goal is before you've started: find something that looks like a goal you want in life, start working towards it, then if you find out it wasn't what you really wanted change, but keep moving! If nothing else you'll find out what you don't want and why, a great way to know thyself! Just don't stand still! A good way to find something you value is pondering about people that you admire or that inspire you: what do they have in common? Which traits makes you value them? Why? Who are you jealous of and why? That can be a great starting point. Good luck in your journey!

@mrknarf4438 Год назад

@@romanmajcher531 sculpting yourself into a version that's more in-life with your ideal is not betrayal; quite the contrary: not realising that potential is betrayal; not doing all the good you could, not being everything you could...

@romandecaesar4782 3 месяца назад

I wish I could have had this kind of help 40 years ago. Perhaps then I could have had the encouragement and support that I needed to navigate all of the betrayal, loss and tragedy exacted upon me by the military and their Marxist officers who took everything I earned, and destroyed my career. Now, it's too late.

@bag2963 Год назад

Is there even another option than a schedule?

@jongreen9171 Год назад

I wish I knew this 20 years ago...

@wesfin 3 месяца назад

5:08, 6:18

@joshuaprivett3552 Год назад

It feels like the highs aren’t high enough, yet the lows are unbearably deep. Negativity is much more salient to our minds then positivity- this seems to me like a cursed existence that is not worth living for ANYONE.

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

Do you still feel this way today?

@joshuaprivett3552 4 месяца назад

@@neestovekin8251 Moreso in the back of my head. The subjective experience that typically summons this form of thinking is a bit dormant at the moment- the beast of nihilism is not so agitated. I hope I've been preparing myself for the next time whatever ails me leads me to this beast. I hope that I'm pulling away from it, but part of me is still fearful of it's return- I suspect that he's just resting for a moment and I'm doing nothing but fooling myself. I'm using metaphorical speech here intentionally- I'm not trying to come across as pompous or mysterious or Nietzschean.

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

@@joshuaprivett3552 I see. if the beast is sleeping, then all you can do is make your habits strong and set your life up as well as you can before it returns. I will be wishing you well! deep and fulfilling joy to come, good trustworthy friends, trust in your own abilities, and ofc (though this overlaps with the others) meaning

@asherpikesgoldenmoralcinem5770 3 месяца назад

@@joshuaprivett3552 life is horrible so let us fight to make it loving, that is all we can do

@Farmingtoon Год назад

4:08 5:09

@user-sq8hq9mh9o Месяц назад

‏‪9:48‬‏

@PebbleOcean 2 месяца назад

He’s like “to think your time isn’t worth anything is a stupid idea” That made me laugh because he’s right, it’s like so literally simple idk why it’s difficult at times

@user-sq8hq9mh9o Месяц назад

‏‪8:28‬‏

@comical4609 Год назад

3:26 is that a GBA emulator icon on the screen?

@JackGiblenSinger Месяц назад

What if you can’t play a day you’d like because if you could plan a day you’d want, it would be nothing? Or just fun like gaming all day and watching tv? Anything work related is automatically a day I don’t want. I know this is bad. I just need help and clarity.

@devanshsaraf4142 Год назад

I'd like to have an unplanned one

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

Lol then you're gonna get trapped in a paradox

@HunterLeaderPro 7 месяцев назад

What if you dont know what you want? What should my schedule look like? I've thought it about it intensley for the last 5 years or so and I have no idea what to do.

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

You should assess your life. I found Peterson's self authoring helpful personally, but there's plenty of other tools too. I like to do a life wheel, or the proust questionnaire every once in a while. Even journaling 30 mins a day, stream of consciousness could help. Anything that helps you with insight & dialogue with yourself Lmk if this helps

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

Like, the stuff he was saying about letting your personality inform your goals. One of your life goals could be "have amazing friends". (it's one of mine, I lean agreeable). That's not very conventional, but it just makes sense, plus it makes me enjoy my life way more & actually helps with a ton of other things. I've put a lot of time & attention & care into my friends -- upkeeping old ones, making new ones, disagreements, disappointment, negotiating boundaries, learning. So your goal can be smth like that, it fills your soul, even if you think "this shouldn't be a goal bc (blablabla)", smth that's hard to argue with.

@jccusell Год назад

The problem isnt the plan, the problem is what life do you want to have?

@rimondas6729 Год назад

I don't maybe a simple one with a 9-5 job and after sometime I want to becoming a monk in Himalayan region ( I live close to Himalayas)

@silver8109 Год назад

In 10 years

@Gaucho215 16 дней назад

This is the Jordan Peterson we need not the political Jordan Peterson.

@ochidonope4302 Год назад

can someone can actually gave me a EASY and USEFUL way to schedule my routine. Like include normal stuff work out, studying.. pls I need help

@anab0lic Год назад

write it all down...

@leafdog4649 Год назад

visualize what you want to do and how to accomplish it, write it down and then structure it in a useful way.

@ochidonope4302 Год назад

@@MrFunMonk I think i undeerstand what u said, I guess i m just lazy cause i know what is meaningfull for me but I still say never mind I play videogames

@ochidonope4302 Год назад

@@MrFunMonk how to develop clarity?

@ionarodriguez7745 Год назад

I suggest you read the book "Winning the Week" by Demir and Casey Bentley. It will give valuable insight regarding how to plan a week AND how to execute your plan. Best book so far.

@matterific 14 дней назад

I'm so bloody grateful that this is not set to "inspirational music"

@Markbenwisch Год назад

I have no time to plan how I'd like to live and follow that plan, cause I have to live my real life. Otherwise, how can I create such wealth to clone unicorns that poop rainbows and burp fairydust what has the limitless capability to heal cancer ?

@mcdonaldgc3020 8 месяцев назад

People out there want a nice car , money, a partner , nothing wrong with that sadly they have no idea what happiness truly is because inside their heart they are blind following that they have to do the things they dont wana do

@natedoherty3462 5 месяцев назад

Because it's close enough. I don't necessarily follow these things. Necessarily. But I do. Because it's close enough. You take a test. 💯 score A+ you've passed. 70 percent is the cut off for fail. If you get a 70 score. You've passed. Passing is still passing. We're looking for practical solutions that are immediate not Buddha solutions. Not dissing Buddha. I've read his teachings. Happiness isn't important. It's not. Being really really miserable and avoiding it. Is wonderfully important.

@msaz3027 Год назад

#MahsaAmini #مهسا_امینی

@Skyscraper21 Год назад

I am 40 and kind of done. But I can still become a politician 😁

@Juanmagarzono Год назад

How are people getting late to that class?

@rayjohnson1686 7 месяцев назад

4:00 Sub-components of human existence.

@joseeduardoteranrendon Год назад

I'm about to be 40 🤯

@Odin33356 Год назад

I did not plan on Jordan Peterson stalking me.

@mevikkkkk Год назад

Jordan Peterson does have a lot of profound thoughts though.

@themaster8432 Год назад

I enjoy Petersen telling teens how stupid they are with their life choices :D If I could go back and slap myself for wasting so many years on WoW, when I could have been making my first video game and released it. Built a business and today been living the dream life. my gawd!

@jlllx Год назад

I can’t have a goal, the posts get moved by those closets to me. Nobody wants me to succeeded, and they’ll sabotage it because of their egos.

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

Sounds like maybe a case of narcissists ( & the spoons parable, hell vs heaven). If so, are you able to go no-contact with them? If not, you could grey rock. And take some time to figure out your own goals.

@cypressbutane4575 Год назад

How does one become the DJ at a strip club.. 1) DJ Skills, start making playlists that girls like to dance to 2) Visit strip clubs a lot - for research

@k1dude 9 месяцев назад

I need a Drink 🥃

@rnt45t1 Год назад

I fear the life I want is far gone for someone like me at this point. I won't have what I want, ever.

Год назад

Who is someone like you?

@MeltingFast Год назад

KFC founder Colonel Sanders didn’t start KFC until he was 65. It’s never too late. Read Atomic Habits and start with building a different identity compared to “someone like me”. James Clear said: “Your behaviors are usually a reflection of your identity. What you do is an indication of the type of person you believe that you are-either consciously or nonconsciously.* Research has shown that once a person believes in a particular aspect of their identity, they are more likely to act in alignment with that belief.” Read the book and it will teach you how to start. Message me and I can help (free). Good luck!

@gin73 Год назад

Does it have to do with your age, if you don't mind me asking?

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

I think it's safe to say the people in this comments section believe in you, right as you are now. You might like to make all sorts of rationale (excuses) for why you're the most special case & so the rules that apply to everyone don't apply to you. But if you look at it like this, stripped of narrative, objectively, doesn't that ring false to you? Doesn't that sound like ego talking? I would dare to say you can work on your life. Wherever you are today. And you have no idea what sorts of miracles may open to you, if & when you open to life like this. Nature rewards courage. I believe in you 🙏 God bless you

@fredapel6039 Год назад

Day 44 of VERY highly recommending that you read Berserk.

@QinShihuang19949 2 месяца назад

Every movie and authours write stuff is a construction of thinking but that is Not objective thought and truth is always cruel. And i think lying an become morally justified for those Who are weak to protect THEMSELVES from tyrranny

@MasterRhoroPontus Год назад

Lmao the watermark in the bottom left. A re-upload of an upload of someone else who uploaded.

@_..____ Год назад

.... yes, and back on the official channel.

@TeodorLojewski Год назад

@@_..____ hilarious

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

Official channel means it should be better at crediting the effort of Bite-Sized philosophy (the watermark) 🤷‍♀️ BSP actually really helped propogate a lot of these clips & ideas, BSP got so many views bc he did a good job picking out material & packaging them. I don't see anything in the video description acknowledging that, which is a little sad

@kemalegenergiz8935 Год назад

Dude says IQ is genetically inherited industrioussness is genetically inherited so success is also genetic.

@TawannaGreene-gy8ht Год назад

Yes, exactly. In the same not having success is also very inheritable. But the thing is they're only predictors of success, it's mostly a numbers game. Having high industrious and IQ does not necessarily mean you will be successful at all, it means youre more likely to

@neestovekin8251 4 месяца назад

Working memory is innate & unchangeable (mostly) too, and it plays a big role in being able to pay attention to what information is important (eg, determining a goal from an ill-defined primordial sludge). But I have seen people work miracles with atomic habits, in just last 5 years, so it's not all hopeless.

@arawiri Год назад

Plan only to give your life away, it's not your life to have

@anthonybell3036 Год назад

I planned a life I'd like to have then terrorists and corrupt medical ruined it now I'm just all brain damaged

@jamesross5120 Год назад

this whole process sounds like suffering

@smokejumper749 8 месяцев назад

And doing nothing sounds like even more suffering to me

@QinShihuang19949 2 месяца назад

I lost my chance to have girlfriend i screamed out my pain felt like victim, blamed ON god. Why Would god leak classified information to me. Why Would they teach me science Education in class like its eatibg Apple of knowledge

@user-wh6fw2id9n Год назад

He just described my life as a 27 year old bum perfectly.

@Solid_Gravy 26 дней назад

That seems like a stupid solution.

@joelfry4982 Год назад

I'm a widely-published poet, and I never plan anything. Planning is a piss-poor strategy for creative people, mostly because we are waiting on inspiration.