I walked in while my family was watching the show and after he hooked up with the girl I was like oh so he's not ✋💅 and then he said that and I was like even better 😌
Precisely, he's come a long way from the jerk he was at the beginning of the show. Even better, the 80's weren't exactly the most accepting of the LGBTQA Plus community, so it's so moving to watch Steve accept Robin without question. 💞
Adam's coming out scene was probably one of the realest things I've ever felt because it is legitimately so mind-splitting thinking about your sexuality. What if your friends and family hate you? What if you're all alone? Obviously it's not the same for everyone, but the fear of no longer fearing who you are is one of the greatest emotions I've ever had to deal with
@@rhubarbbikini3794 pan to be exact. The rosè was a reference to non-binary and the Merlot that used to be a Chardonnay is a reference to transgender. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@@Lolilillisjdjdhddj I understand that but pan means you don’t care about gender and therefore don’t have a preference based on it and he didn’t say whether gender mattered to him or not so that’s why I assumed bi
Nice of Nextflix to post this considering they cancel all their shows with LGBT mains, and don't give their gay movies (the half of it) the promotion or sequels the het one get
I honestly love how Bojack acted with Todd. He was so supportive and nice to him, and even before he came out, he was really mature about the whole Emily thing and everything, and I honestly love that scene.
I do believe that was the only asexual coming out scene in the video. As an aroace person, that tracks, considering that asexual representation is fairly uncommon. I'm not really complaining though, it's just an observation.🤷♂
same, this is part of what made it so difficult to figure out my sexuality, as i had no idea growing up that there was anything else apart from allosexual
@@user-os2oz5gz1d YES even as someone raised on the internet it took me a while to figure my sexuality out because even in lgbt spaces its scarcely talked about. if I had things like this I'd be a hell of a lot easier
I’ve seen a lot of coming out scenes and I’ve only watched 2 scenes where the character came out as asexual counting the one in the video. There needs to be more asexual representation. It can be confusing to people, even to people that are a part of the LGBTQ+ community so people need to talk about it and show it more. I think I might be asexual but I don’t know. I’m still so confused. I only heard of the word last year when I already knew what gay, transgender, bisexual, nonbinary meant.
@@anaamaro3369 as someone who was raped because I came out as ace, it's definitely not 'just a personality '. Personalities can change, and if your asexuality isn't set in stone, idk you deal with it, but it feels like you're very privileged to say we're not persecuted just because you had a good experience.
0:00-intro 0:27- Adam (sex education) 1:38- Robin (stranger things) 2:57- Rosa (Brooklyn nine nine) 3:41- Jake (tales of the city) 4:41- Casey (atypical) 6:13- Matthew (big mouth) 6:52- Theo (chilling adventures of Sabrina) 7:15- Fabiola (never have I ever) 8:16- Todd (bojack horseman) 9:13- Kurt (glee) 10:19- David (schitts creek) 10:52- Bianca (pose) 11:59- Lito (sence8) Hope this helped ❤️❤️
@@liasilva8916 from the beginning I had been so keen on the idea that there was something much more between them then the detention scene comes and I'm like "holy shit its happening" and it happened and then all this other stuff happened while I still rooted for their relationship and I was so happy in the end. I also find the relationship between lily and ola really sweet. the show is one of my favorites and handles representation so well. I can't wait for the third season :)
@@lilianacordova8291 I KNOW. The very first scene in the show I went “adams gay isn’t he” AND WHEN HE STARTED BULLYING ERIC, AN OPENLY GAY KID, I WAS LIKE “internalized homophobia,” AND THEN THE DETENTION SCENE HAPPENED AND I WAS LIKE “yup, called it.”
Yeah ngl I think that's what made it so great bc no one ever questioned same-sex couples (I do understand why there are coming-out scenes in non-animated shows tho bc reality still makes coming out necessary)
@@mitsunitaiko1742 I don’t think the that everyone is lgbtq, but I do think they all have an evolved mindset, where they don’t question why someone is in whatever type of relationship they are in. to them love is just love. If only humans were like this
@@mitsunitaiko1742 plenty of straight ppl in that show, it's just that nobody is concerned about any if it so they don't use labels. Like, glimmer, mermaid girl, the sailor arsonist, bow, the queen, etc. I mean they could be whatever but the point is nothing is ever explicit said so I think it's like 1 in 3 are queer. Lmao I don’t remember all their names
@@marvelcinematicvoid8958 i actualy was hoping that she and steve would get together but seeing as she came out to him makes me feel like i can come out to my parents as bisexual. at my school there is always so many homophobic people and it makes me afriad to come oout bc i feel like they'll make fun of me for my sexuality. the scene with robin and steve made me realize that the people who love you will support you
I really dislike the "I already knew" + *states the boy wanted a feminine object * trope someone coming out as gay. _First_ it just puts the listener in the spotlight when they should congratulate him for finding the courage to do so. _Second_ asking for a particular type of feminine thing as a young boy doesn't define you as gay?? If the kid just wanted it then I mean say no or yes but don't have gendered views on inanimate objects?
@semi exactly!! Thank you so much for agreeing, I'm tired of parents making our come out their moment of "yeah my gendered vision of you as a kid made me get you didn't like *gender * but this one instead". It's so dumb.
@@misshope8297 Honestly same. My mother felt naive after I came out because all of her friends said they saw coming and she didn’t. Why? Because I don’t play sports? Because I mind how I dress? None of it had anything to do with it. Most of my friends are like me in that regard and are straight. Yet I’m sure if any of them had come out instead of me, they would’ve said the same shit about how “they saw it coming”. It’s just pure confirmation bias. Honestly my mother was the smart one for not thinking those things made me queer, but she ended up feeling like the blind one because of their dumb comments.
today i came out as a lesbian to my mom. she’s raised homophobic. for the part 5 years she’s been working on herself. today as i came out she said she wished she would’ve been educated on sexuality and opened to seeing deferent people sooner so that i wouldn’t feel the need to come out. i love my mom. i’m proud of her progress. im happy for me. BE WHO YOU ARE PEOPLE 🏳️🌈
Schitts creek may seem like a funny show(it is), but it made me cry when someone had a character development and i feel like they made me grow as a person, i just love David; "I do drink red wine, but i also drink white wine" 😩 imma come out like this to my parents
i kinda really love Eleanor's reaction to Fabiola coming out (Never Have I Ever). usually you get the straight girls that are like "omg i want a gay best friend... ew lesbians", but in this case, Eleanor's "i've always wanted a gay friend" literally just means she's wanted an LGBTQIA+ friend. doesn't matter if they're gay, lesbian, bi, pan, etc. she'll be their bestie
@@rhubarbbikini3794 most of these coming out scenes are sad, and as a queer teen the Netflix shows that are about me are not as happy as id like them to be
@@erin8432 Although I agree it’s liberating, at the same time I would think it is tbh, while there are lots of people who had support when coming out, I don’t think I’m wrong when assuming the majority did not have a positive experience due to unaccepting family and friends and coworkers, etc. And I think it’s good to show that, because genuinely, that moment when you come out about yourself and you’re rejected for it, you’re denied and/or worse, it’s a horrible feeling. But, you keep going. And when you start to open up about yourself, you can come to realise who is truly there for you and who needs to be cut out of your life if they can’t accept it, and it allows you to move forward.
Thank you to Rosa on Brooklyn 99. I always loved her and when her character said she was bi, and Danny Trejo says it doesn't exist, I felt that because THAT is what I was always told. Her character meant so much to me.
Can you believe that people still don't believe that Robin is gay because they're so fixated on Steve and Robins love to be intimate. It's so sad. SHE'S A LESBIAN AND IT WAS SO OBVIOUS WHEN SHE TALKED ABOUT TAMMY. I can't believe people still try to turn characters sexuality only because they aren't happy that the boy and girl didn't end up together.
One thing that i've realized is that every time there is an lgbtq+ character, tv-series and movies have the need to have "Powerful Coming Out Scenes" and, well, there's nothing wrong with it. That's the experience of a lot of people of the community, they struggled and then they have "big" moments of coming out, but some people don't have that they just realize that maybe they're not straight and don't have a big moment because being lgbtq+ is not the big deal media portrait it to be. So i would really love for Netflix to have more representativity, we would love to see stories like ours in your series and films, that would really make us feel like we're not the only people whose coming out hasn't been such a big deal. Plus those scenes can be misleading because people who are coming out might think that's the only right way to do it and feel pressured to do so or feel less queer if they don't. But, again, those powerful coming out scenes still represent someone, and that's, obviously a good thing
I really loved crazy ex girlfriend on Netflix bc one of the characters was in a het relationship and wasn’t like queer coded in any way but they came back a few seasons later and just had a girlfriend. It wasn’t addressed at all as something strange or unexpected but rather very casually accepted as something that could happen!! They also had a whole song about realizing you’re bi so they appeal to both ends of the spectrum with the quiet realization and a theatric production!!
whenever my parents are being homophobic or i remember how i came out to them, i always just come around here to cry, and wish i could live among one of these beautifully accepting families of friends.
I love the Atypical scene. That's what I want for me. I don't want to "come out", and that's just how I want my personal experience to be when/if my family does find out. When I do bring a girl over and have her meet them, I don't want it to be dramatic, shocking, and definitely not violent. My sexuality should be seen as normal.
I really miss Santana Lopez's coming out scene in here. It was so powerful and showed the vurnable side of her character for one of the first times. RIP Naya we'll always love you
1:37 So i finished watching stranger things with my sister yesterday. I wanted to tell her that i was bi but i was so scared, but then we watched this scene of robin coming out and she laughed saying "you know it was pretty obvious that she wasn't straight" so it gave me a little bit of confidence... later that day i came out to her and told me it was ok, that she'll always support me ;) i love her
My parents have been very sweet and open about this when I came out. And I really hope that everyone has the same experience. It breaks my heart when people behave the way Rosa's parents did.
Loving this compilation! ❤️ But kinda wish that more of the Schitt’s Creek scene was shown. The whole part about liking the wine and not the label wasn’t included 😬
I would like to point out that this video is kinda strange considering Netflix cancels every single show with an LGBTQ+ main, like remember Everything Sucks’? I love that show and still do
When I watched Stranger Things with my family, my dad skipped over the part where Robin came out. I got all confused when people said she was gay, so I looked it up and found the clip and i was MAD lol. It was a really wholesome scene.
I told my dad, "Oh, so she's into girls!" And he responded with, "I know it's so weird isn't it." It pissed me off too because like you said, it was a really wholesome scene.
I have to look away everytime they kiss cause it fills me with such fluffy feelz every time and I'm like OH GOD, I GOTTA LOOK AWAY BEFORE I DIE OF THESE FUZZY FEELINGS
I should really watch Atypical, I have been in love with Keir Gilchrist since the Altar Boy Gang 17 years ago, and a couple more actors in that series. I never understood why it didn't make it through its first season. This video should be much longer though, many other coming out scenes in movies and TV series, most being powerful too.
