Prince Harry should 'mentally sober up', says friend and Royal Marine veteran Ben McBean 

Yes. I'm beyond disgusted

@@glendamc6040 he is shameful

Nope. Harry should finish what his mother started.

His mother would be horrified and probably would have disowned him.

Yes. Especially since he was proven to have lied in the Oprah interview, this is just too incredible. Not to mention hurtful. Seems to say more about him than the people he’s (seemingly) trying to destroy.

Well said. And spot on. What an impressive young man.

And his GOOD friend is wasting his time trying to reach him. The HARRY he once knew is DEAD.

@@aidencox790 he's there somewhere, mental health has a terrible affect on people. He just needs the right environment to thrive not the toxicity that currently surrounds him.

@@aidencox790 Until the runs out of money and/or Meghan leaves him he will go crawling back.

Most of his good Friends have been seen off by his wife...

Omg! What a stand out human being . Harry you have lost your soul.

a REAL soldier.....................nor an over-rated one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..

He has no moral compass,since Meghan, and bragging about ending the lives of 25 Afghanistan s. Shame on him and people who think that it's "cool or brave."

Laughable. He thinks killing is like chess game. Disgusting.

Great respect to this young man. 👏👏A real friend indeed. I hope there is a spark of the old Harry left in the man he became which will listen carefully and give him the push he needs to reach out to former friends and family for help. The people he currently listens to have nothing else in mind then selling him, dead or alive, to the highest bidder.

Agree totally 5:46

He just got paid like everyone else. He doesn't even know Harry well he said. Harry already set the record straight. No more for the Media to talk about. It's all out in the open. Of course abusive people aren't going to like the truth. The Media doesn't want to look like fools. They want that easy paycheck.

@@user-gr8ii8jr9o He doesn’t have to know Harry well to comment on the unspoken protocols combat veterans usually observe. He has every right to comment and be paid for it if asked. Unlike Meghan and Harry, what he had to say was actually substantive, constructive and free of malice.

@@iwillstom Not a good friend, he didn't read the book, he probably would stand up for himself also if he was attacked like Harry has been. And by him speaking of how many people were killed the way he put it may not be how it is in the book. Don't speak on something if you haven't read it. And he's not standing up for his friend either.

@@user-gr8ii8jr9o Have you read it?

🇱🇷❤️🇱🇷

Yes but you see you can't make a lot of money if you shut up right? I guarantee you Meghan is behind all of this. I truly believe Harry would have NEVER come forward with an Oprah interview, never would have come forward with the Netflix series and never would have come forward with the book. Meghan's behind all of it! It's about making the most possible money and she has, IMO, applied conrinuous emotional pressure which is very typical of the narcissistic partner, to pressure Harry to do these things to make as much money as possible before she divorces him. I think that's totally (well mostly, with a hefty dose of revenge aimed at the RF for not giving her what she wanted or for her delusions of biased treatment) what this is about. It's unfortunate that he's conceded but I think Harry has absolutely no skills in the marriage department and his idea of "keeping his wife happy" is to just do what she asks. It's that simple! So even though he's probably squirming inside knowing that it's not the right thing to do, in order to keep her happy or rather APPEASED, he does it and the fallout of course is immense. I think that someone who has been consistently accused of yelling and screaming at palace staff while living there and who has an incredible attrition rate of the people that have worked for her tells me that behind closed doors she is probably insane. In other words, I would not be surprised if on a regular basis she gaslights him, applies pressure through crying fits, or screaming fits. I am certain it is a nightmare at that house for him. And again because of his lack of emotional maturity, his lack of any kind of real mature relationship experience and skills, he literally thinks the only way to handle this insanity is to just do what she asks him to do. This is of course why we saw that incredibly uncomfortable look in the Netflix series when she made fun of curtsying for the queen. BTW I loved how she said "and Americans will understand this", and I thought no, Americans don't understand it because even the most basic intelligent individual would understand to treat a woman of the stature of Queen Elizabeth with decorum and respect. Absolutely nuts that she made it sound like any American would have thought it was abnormal to do a small curtsy. I tell you, this woman is so out to lunch and the more we learn about her the more out to lunch she appears!

@@ariag.8745 👏

Well said

He was in a bubble in the military.. he is also extremely jealous of his brother.. he is blabbing off a bit too much.

Yes, very well spoken

He's just cashing in on Harry's life. He said him self he doesn't even know Harry well. No more to say for the Media, Harry put it out in plain daylight.

He wants the best for Harry and he sees others are using him.

@@ester_22 The best would be to talk to Harry personally not behind his back.

@@user-gr8ii8jr9o while that, I believe, is usually true…everything I’ve seen shows that Harry has no interest in hearing what others have to say unless it’s his equally hostile wife or someone that’s paying him to tell more lies. Speaking to Harry has become impossible for about 99% of the many he used to be close to. It’s a shame.

He’s never gonna see this🤡

To little to late No way back for Harry 🇬🇧

@@lindastorey4441 totally agree no way back

Harry is probably thinking "who is that guy?"

Yes is very Sad 😭😭 for Hem to destroy He's family terrible

What did he brag about? The beginning is cutoff &they never specifically say...

@@lizp5004 It's not appropriate for him talk about such things for profit. His is purely for profit. Despite his vague claims about donating proceeds to charity.

@@lizp5004 killing 25 people in the military

He is even talking about the shape of William’s peni$ ! Like why ? Why he think the world needed to know that ? ..embarrassing! He needs to be Baker Acted at this point

@@lizp5004 He (unbelievably) spoke about how many ppl he supposedly "killed" in Afghanistan & said he didn't think of them as ppl but chess pieces on a board. He's broken EVERY Military Code going - & I suspect that Veterans on both sides of the Pond will disown the ridiculous, spoilt, entitled, spiteful selfish jealous little man child.. H is a prize idiot & if he HADN'T have left the Palace Press Office & had had adequate advice from them ANS friends & Family instead of changing his number & ghosting everybody she told him to - he wouldn't hv made these mistakes. & now - the m*ppet has put a target on himself..😌😌(🙏🇬🇧🌏💜)

i saw that only after your comment...Kudos to the gentleman...is Harry having any friend like him..now

So true Pui but nutmeg won't let him have friends of any type..

McBean actually knows nothing about Harry's life in the royal family, and nothing about the challenges Harry and Meghan faced which led to Harry making the decision to take his family out of the royal firm's and royal rota's abusive toxicity.

real mates won't go on TV to say that, they would have your phone number and have been invited to your house in California.

@@TanyaOwens he’s not allowed contact with his old friends….he’s changed his number several times..his wife has taught him if people can’t do what you want you just dump them.

Megan will never allow them to be friends. Megan needs Harry unstable and vulnerable.

Mentally sober up .. wow!

Oh the shows are going to come out Now about her, the truth About Her bad behavior from those who have known her. She opened her lying door and now the real truth from those who have live it or seen it will come out. Nobody "told" a side yet Except Them! My gosh are they idiots or do they think everyone will be afraid? No, They Royals won't stop them from talking about her behavior, not now! They won't even stop stories of Harry coming out now. I bet there are Several True Story Documentaries in the works right now. And we deserve to hear this other side.

His wife is the main user. Then next one is her mother. They got a hold of a unstable mentally vulnerable prince and skinning him for the cash. It’s like watching a train wreck in real time.

Meghan only cares about what Harry can do to further her goals (making lots of money).

MM won’t let Harry have any friends at all…she’s got him under her spell n using him against his family n he cannot see it… She wants to ruin n bring down the RF because she cannot be a queen anytime soon. She knows Will n Kate are not far off being the king n queen n there’s no way she wants to be under their control….Shut up Harry you have been brainwashed by the wicked witch of the west🤮🤮🤮🤮

She’s a malignant narcissist.

Agree, wish Harry had more people around him like this wise and decent young man. I think the number one person exploiting Harry is his greedy wife who cares only about herself.

So true, she only uses him she doesn’t love him he is her puppet , she will keep him as long as she need him, when she doesn’t need him she will discard him

When he totally goes mental, the douchy diva will kick him to the gutter and jump on the next big fish.

Exactly. There was a very big change in him once he got with her. He’s allowed himself to be taken away from family, all of his friends and his home country. That’s not something a loving wife should ever want to do to her husband.

Stop blaming Megan for Harry's decisions. He's a grown man. No one can MAKE a man do what he doesn't want to do, for one reason or another, unless they're being held by weapon or blackmail or something like that.

@@charaf7662 you obviously don't know much about idealism and what that means and the power of influence!!

Harry's only friend

Harry won't listen to anyone who he cant make money from. The "old" H is DEAD.

He hasnt talked to him in over a decade.....seriously people sympathize over a rich man child, its gross

I doubt that Harry has no friends remaining

@@davidmorgan1963 Never had a truer word been spoken...

But he do not live the life Harry had to media coverage about you and your family every single day from the time you were born. No paps, tabloids, TV shows about his life daily. Life is complex abd complicated no two people experience it the same. Even thise with the same DNA. They have different fingerprints literally and figuratively. Different emotional make up.

The RF is not haunted by the press. Only in Harry’s mind. There are agreements in place with the press. Here in America nobody is interested in them. Only maybe to see them crash.

He was paid like everyone else cashing in on Harry's life.

@@user-gr8ii8jr9o that’s a pointless comment which makes no sense. What about the numerous people who chime in with the opposite viewpoint . Do you say the same about them?

Yes as a friend of Harry's he makes a lot of sense shame he can't talk to him now👌👌

@@tracymcardle1236 Shame he talks behind Harry's back.

Hus wife being the main driver

Harry is an adult in spite of wanting to be taken care of as if he were a child. He's surrounded by people telling him what he wants to hear.

Like the British Media...that's why he left......

@@bushwickbaby yet he's not shut his mouth much since he moved to Cali, has he? Always lecturing us and so forth 🙄

Harry is an enabler. An adult that can make his own decisions . They moved to the US where whiners get paid.

He just another paid Media member. He said himself he doesn't know Harry well. Wanted the money off Harry's life like everyone else.

@@user-gr8ii8jr9o im Brazilian. To be honest, I dont know anything about that. But I do know about loyalty. You make a commitment with your country when you in service, right? or not? Watch a playboy Prince speaking about how many people he killed is so disrespecful...this Guy and others soldiers has all the rights to stand up and speak. Harry crossed a very serious line

@@annacarolinaludendorff6659 And so did this guy.

The Media probably trained him, just to make another buck off Harry's life. This guy would probably want to defend himself if the Media was telling lies about him for years. It's different when your not in someone else's shoes.

Sadly the main person around him doesn't see, or doesn't care. And those making $$ aren't about to shut their cash cow down. It's exploitive.

I think maybe post traumatic stress syndrome is showing its ugly head

He keeps pushing this crap because nobody wants to hear it. So he's just going to beat it into our heads.

@@windycityliz7711 So true and well put.

Harry never served in the Marines he was just handed that title from his Grandad. His Grandad would have been furious and probably booted his Arse for what he is doing to the Monarchy. He has burnt his bridges now. We may get rid of him now.

I'm not sure about the toxic family bit.

@@vickyingramnymann8543 I agree, it is only harry's perspective and given what is out now, William pushed me, my penis was frost bitten, I killed 25 ppl, I lost my virginity in a field, TMI overload harry, we'll have to trust that intelligent ppl can see that harry and meghan are really the toxic but too dull and greedy to be able to see it.

Agree 👏

@@dulcehajjar5826 count me in Agree 💯 percent

it's ok for him, but the damage to the RF is forever.

@@joycegibbs5267 I think the RF have been thru far worse, i think they will come out of this just fine.

Yes... he moves on, but how about everyone else? We move on doing internal work, evolving, letting go of anger of the injustices of life. He threw a bomb into everyone's life, and now just turns around and walk? I think is more complicated than that.

The vultures around him want him to keep talking so they can keep making more cash.

He needs to get rid of roxic people that gaslights him and we know exactly who that is 😈 🐍

Spot on.👍

And also hia afro ponocchio wife..admit them soon

I think so. He needs to take time out and stop to think

Mental health is a very serious issue. Not a laughing matter. His family needs help him, before it is too late. Just sitting down and ignoring him while some evil people are calling him names... It is a family. RF set a good example Be forgiving Love your son. Your brother. It is a terrible thing to reject 🤔

Diane, Totally agree seems that H would stop a minute and realize just how much People see his Behavior,and Know Something Not Right, And Called it on Tee,. THE ONE'S HE'S AROUND, BEING USED AND ABUSED, DISCUSSED AND CANT BE TRUSTED... ALL IN JUST LESS THAN 5 YRS..WOWWE..🥺😶🤔💯😎

Diane E me$$$gain won't allow Harry hazbeen to be around him. She took him away from his RF . This young man will not be able to get to Harry hazbeen me$$$gain is the only one for Harry hazbeen.

Wouldn't want a friend like that, who talks about you not to your face. He doesn't even know Harry well he said, as if Harry hasn't had enough crap from the Media.

So true you are living with a woman and you are now cutting yourself of from everyone. She doesn't care about you she is dragging you down to her level. she has no empathy!! You had money, now she is controlling you!! Save yourself everyone loves you for you not your money!!!

No. He is selling it. They only get it if he’s spilling it out….a bunch sounds like bs really.

@@sabrinalehtisaari7552 Fair is fair here. The OP said other uncaring (read greedy rats?) people are making money from his story which is TRUE. That the weed Harry is SELLING it is also true.

American here. I think Harry’s greedy wife has a lot to do with the family breakdown as she also destroyed her family ties. This young man makes a lot of sense that Harry is being used. The number one user IMO is Meghan exploiting him for her fame, fortune and agenda of revenge. Her past is littered with people she has used and dumped in her climb up the greasy pole.

But the media aren't necessarily making money from the story (although they thought they would), only Harry and Meghan are. And, as you care about the Royal Family, I can tell you, as a Brit that far from damaging the Royal Family, over here in the UK it seems they have turned many who were indifferent, or even a bit anti, the R.F. (and I was one) into supporters. I posted a comment to that effect which has nearly 600 'likes' and circa 50 'Me too' type comments. Sadly, many Americans ARE swallowing Harry and Meghan's poison, and I'm not blaming them for that because unlike us here in the UK, they haven't seen the whole story from the beginning so they aren't getting the full picture.

Harry is stronger he's finally standing up for himself and setting the record straight. The Media should quit harassment and hatred already. The British Media started this rampage, they are the root of all evil. Well even you have the right to say something here, why shouldn't Harry. People have been at it for years already, long before Harry and Meghan ever published anything.

Who do you think has always leaked information out.

You can say that again.

He doesn't even know Harry. Just out for a buck like everyone else is getting their free meal ticket off Harry's life.

@@user-gr8ii8jr9o He himself says he hasn't seen Harry for a while and doesn't really know him, so what's the point of your comment? Harry should know people like this guy and get friends like him. He's talking a lot of sense and clearly has compassion and love for Harry.

@@verabolton Already made my point.

@Tab Ford Yes !!! Harry's a good Man!!! Talk to the face not behind someone's back.

True friends don't talk behind your back.

We agree with you and know most Americans are nice and normal, however it’s the fame grabbers like MM or the Kardashians who believe fame is the holy grail..... I’m not saying it’s all MM’s fault, but I believe she was very clever into manipulating him.... She never wanted to do “Royal Duties”.....

it's black americans who are poisoning harry's mind.

@@lexier3917 And your just showing your prejudice. Go ahead smart one add more proof.

@@evaadams8298 harry is Marine for God's sake and he learned the theory of defense and protection. If you interpret his love for wife as allowing himself to be manipulated and WHAT DO YPU CALL WHAT CAMILA DID TO CHARLES WHILE STILL MARRIED TO DIANA? Isnt it LOVE from charles...let us not be bias in judging

@@kagongful Firstly, he met Camilla before Diana and was totally in love with her but was not allowed to go out with her because the RF didn’t think she was suitable. Also he didn’t really cut it to be a marine (he is a bit dim, and Diana used to joke about that), they had to pull some strings to get him in (it’s not what you know but who you know). Was even the dumbest kid in class at Eaton 🙄... It takes two to Tango so don’t think that it was just Camilla. Diana had her fair share of affairs whilst married as well. Yes Charles started first I’m sure. MM was a yacht girl and you only have to look at old photos of her to know she would do anything for fame. Where are all her “friends” now? How about how she treated her father? Also how come she only had her mum (not even her Mums family), at the wedding and invited people who she didn’t even know? She is a master manipulator and a fame hungry person who CANNOT resist the camera. All it is with Megan & Harry is is whinge whinge whinge. All this BS with slagging off the Royal Family all the time who ARE NOT RACIST, but MM had to find an angle to be the victim, because she is a total NARCISSIST. So bog off and get your facts straight....

Kindness rules. Harry I can now say your brother was trying to save you from all this embarrassment.

"sycophantic leeches taking advantage of his bitterness for profit" -- nope. Netflix and Penguin Random House didn't put a gun to anyone's head.

Harri is guided by Meghan! She is stoking up feelings from all his lifes stories he is telling her and showing him why everything about his life and story were abusive, wrong and an injustice and how he must share it with the World. In that way she is a ghoul. When people get married they share their past pain with their partners; an indication of a wrong partner is one who in counseling you leads you to a negative and toxic place about your past experiences. Meghan is that partner.

This is victim blaming. Good on Harry making a stand, might help other people who are being bullied to come forward.

@@Qu1nny Right? The Royals need to release Meghan and Harrys bullied staff from their NDAs so they too can find ways to heal from the trauma Harry and Meghan subjected them to. See? A broken clock is atimes right! Thanks Rob Kardashian.

@@Qu1nnyyou must be joking? This all started because William was standing up for his employees that were being bullied by Meghan. It was widely reported William called Harry to confront him about Meghan’s awful treatment of their staff. When Harry slammed the phone on him that’s when William went to confront him in person. Meghan and Harry WERE the bullies. Can you imagine if your boss was bullying you and you reported it to HR and they did nothing? Well this is the royal family for goodness sake it’s not an accounting firm lol so William knocked some sense into his BROTHER, he didn’t go beat up a random guy at a pub he just shoved Harry back after being fed up with Harry’s defense of Meghan’s indefensible behavior & after who knows what Harry really said or did. I for one, do not feel bad for a whiny entitled bully getting his karma.

They can't stop the lies, they just keep getting bolder, it will not get better until these two ingrates implode and crumble down in pieces .

And his own children!!! He doesnt care its all about the money

Megan was the catalyst and the instigator .

Meghan is around him. That's who.

Facts: She has no friends. He doesn't. Their children don't.

I have been thinking the same thing. I worry about the kids❤️

Agreed. I would think that a real man fighting for the freedom of his country would not count and boast about the number of lives they have taken as though they are trophies. Instead they would feel regret for having to do so and acknowledge the loss of life.

Henry never saw combat except in his bunker on his XBOX, that don't count H..he also didn't pass the test to fly helicopters and/or other aircraft..what a vivid imagination and a truly distorted recollection of what really happened..sad to know also he could seek therapy for himself after "William broke his necklace", but was ashamed to for his wife when she was "suicidal" while pregnant; could it have been because she wasn't really pregnant..things that make you go Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm 🤔

@Karen Robson exactly. Any human being with humanitarian attributes who practices compassion would not talk about taking another person's life this callously.

@Karen Robson Have you read the book. Because the Media over exaggerated everything. And this guy saw an easy buck. There might be a reason why he said it. I'd have to read it myself.

@@LG-nb5ur I seems to me that Harry wants to look like a "real" man. He's been basically out of control ever since M took over, and ever since they moved he's kinda useless professionally. It's all about her aspirations, not his. So he bounces back to that one time that he felt like he was really some strong kind of figure and respected by people (he finally got good feed back when he went to Afghanistan after all his scandals). Although I think that the ghostwriter probably asked for some figure and included it, not sure that Harry would have written that the same way himself. However he also highlighted in that Netflix thing how HE went to war TWICE (because his uncle and his grandmother have been to war too, not sure about Philip), and all you really take away from that, is how he's practically bragging how he's apparently the best royal out there and the most down to earth, when in reality he's the one being with his head in the clouds constantly.

100% Agree What a nice genuine young man

That's a good point.

That was my reaction. Bravado and asking for threats.

I just said the same thing on another thread.

@@loyaltytoroyalty he just loves to be announced. I❤️the fact that Big Willie was fighting 4the poeple😂😂😂literally