My dad was in a nursing home. I was his financial P.O.A. All he had to his name was an old car, and his Social Security and very small Pension coming in every monthly. The money's that came in, almost ALL went to the nursing home. I paid all his bills. I kept up with them but noticed every month the nursing home charges kept going up, and up and up. I continued to pay them. When I asked about why the increases?, I was given convoluted, word salad answers. This was frustrating, and intimidating. While I was at my dad's nursing home, I witnessed a myriad of abuses, to my dad and other residents. -I reported these to the Health Dept,, Adult Protection, Elder Justice, the Ombudsman,... All to no avail. NO ONE helped. Infact, my reporting what I saw, only made things worse! I began being stalked, lied about, smear campaigned, publicly humiliated, threatened, and retaliated on (punished). -And NO ONE would help! Things were getting worse there for myself and my dad at an alarming clip....It escalated into...- I was finally issued a No Trespassing from the nursing home. I feel this was punishment, and a way to keep me from further witnessing and reporting on what was going on there with my father and other residents. Perhaps I complained to much, but I couldn't stomach what was going on. -Within a week of my No Trespassing,- they called up my older brother (my only other sibling) and asked him if he'd like to be Health Care Agent for our dad. Mind you, I'd been taking care of OUR father for 5+ years, single handedly, without so much as a "can I help?", "can I do anything for you or dad?"- Not once..... My brother Loves Power and Control, I know this, but I was unaware of the depth that he would be willing to go to get that.... He jumped at the offer given to him by the nursing home staff. He had a new friend, ally. With my absentee brother suddenly given Health Care Agent ...Control over the situation.... I was pretty well rendered a child as far as my rights to my dad's medical information was concerned. But all of this was unbeknownst to me until one dad I called my dad on the phone...as I struggled to get through to him on the phone every day. - I asked dad about his day, any problems or concerns (?). He said he'd talked to my brother earlier that day. I told him "No dad, he calls in the evening..." Dad said "No I talked to him today." I asked what they talked about, and my dad said that "He wanted me to tell someone "yes" on the phone." I asked in horror, " Dad, you didn't sign something???" He said he signed some paper, but didn't know what it was.......- I called my brother, who lives several states away, about this.... He kept saying to me, over and over in an angry voice, "You will not find ANYTHING with my signature on it!!!" I was upset, - SOMETHING just happened, -I just didn't know WHAT it was! -So, I had a neighbor run over to that nursing home and get the copy from my dad's room. She brought it to me. It was a document making my brother (name written in by staff member, ... I can guess who) that made my brother, my dad's legal Health Care Agent. A signature of my dad's name was on it. (I DON'T BELIEVE MY DAD SIGNED THAT!!!). Also, it was notarized by the front desk woman (nice convenient, in-house, side - hustle.). ....No, my brother was right. I NEVER would find his (my brothers) SIGNATURE on anything, THAT WOULDN'T BE NECESSARY, for the damage to be done. This document took away my rights to know what was going on with my dad medically, and I knew my brother really didn't care what happened to our/my dad......- I can't begin to tell you how this hurt. how my influence was being systematically taken away. Shortly there after, I stopped getting notified through billing, the list of the meds my dad was forced to take. Then someone started messing with my dad's head, telling him lies, telling him I was stealing his money. Someone in that place called his bank and did an address change to get all statements mailed to the nursing home. -Mind you, the nursing home has long since deemed my dad incompetent with Alzheimer's, yet he can be found lucid enough to pick up a phone, in his weak state, find a bank phone number, or know how to write it down, or ask them to put the call through, ...talk reasonably and rationally to a banker about change of address with knowledge of all pertinent information (account numbers, his present address, new address, etc.) to that banker.... No, I'm sorry, but im not buying it. I called the bank on this change of address, stating I'm my dad's financial P.O.A., he has Alzheimer's, and yet you have approved a change of address for him??? Yes, they said he has a right to do this. Even with myself as P.O.A., and his diagnosis of Alzheimer's???? Yes, she said. I have no intention of taking what little freedoms my dad has left but.... I have nothing to hide, ....but I feel VERY UNCOMFORTABLE (not safe) with having my dad's banking records floating around that nursing home, in who's hands...I don't know! -I KNOW my dad would not have been able to make heads or tails out of his bank statements at that point, and it would only be confusing and upsetting to him. I had nothing to hide. (My brother found that out too, when he contacted Adult Protection on me.) This kind of information, in the wrong hands..... ..... could be/can be disastrous! Weeks after the bank issued them out to the nursing home, I would get these bank statements sent to me. They would show up in my mailbox, addressed to my dad at the nursing home address, but with a sticker over that address, saying in c/o MY name and my address. Evil. Evil. Evil people. I felt like, I was responsible enough to pay the bills, just not responsible enough to know WHAT I was paying for!!! My dad and I were being plaid, railroaded, strong-armed... I think you know what I mean. After my No Trespassing expired (6 months)... I got a pastor to go in with me to see my dad. He was sitting up, having lunch, in the dining room. I asked to see him in his room (privately). They said go ahead, they'd bring him in. The pastor and I waited there in dads room. They finally brought him in. Within 5 minutes my dad went from eating lunch on his own, into a coma-like state!!! He was slumped in his chair, drooling, eyes glazed over and totally non responsive! I was shocked!!! Within 5-10 minutes TEO police officers were in my dad's room, issuing me my second No Trespassing (this one for a year)! I asked what, why. They said I was "threatening staff, staff didn't feel safe with me in the building, and previous issues (?)." More lies on legal documents to keep me from my dad, and keep me from seeing and reporting on abuses and neglect going on there. I looked back at my dad, - thinking this may be the very last time I ever see him... The police had no time for this and became very aggressive and threatening with myself and the pastor, telling us we need to "vacate the premises -NOW!!!" I could almost feel their hand prints on our backs as they raced us down the halls. The pastor kept saying, "She did nothing wrong, she did nothing wrong..." I turned to him, respectfully saying, "pastor, don't talk to then, they twist things around and..." Then the Pastor said "But I have nothing to hide!" Me: "Neither do I, but look what's happening to ME!!!" The police DIVIDED us. I was kept outside, while they talked to the pastor inside. I so much wanted to be in there and know what more lies were being told about me.... When the pastor came out, all he said to me was.... I'd better get a lawyer. I never herd from that pastor again. The police officer who stood guard on me as I had waited for the pastor to come out of the building told me, if I tried to re-enter the building (to get to the pastor), that he would be happy to enforce the breach of No Trespassing and that could be as much as a 6 year prison term. -To this day, I don't know what they told that pastor.... but I KNOW WHO I AM .... AND WHAT I AM NOT!!!!.... And though my brother said that he made it possible for me to go in to see my dad at the time of his passing,.... I still didn't feel safe to do so. I called him what I now know him to be, a liar. He got mad at me, and told me he had provided safe passage. Only months earlier, he had local police do a Stand down at a meeting location.... My brother has much to gain if he can harm me in the correct manner. I've been set up a couple of times, and more since. With local police corruption, my dad's gun missing from the house, and my brother stating he knows how to shoot a gun at my dad's funeral.... .... Painfully said here, my dad died without me. I Loved him, and tried so hard to keep him out of harm's way but.... I wasn't able hold his hand, and tell him all those things you tell someone you Love as they lye dying. I am doing a lot of talking with God these days. I'm doing the things that Loving people do, after a great Love loss. I'm feeling the pain and truth of his very real absence...... I NEVER would have thought my dad's death would have gone like this... But God knows the truth, and that gives me great comfort in a world that seems to refuse it. I wish you all my very best, and safety to you aswell.🙏✝️📖 P.S. Even RU-vid can't handle the truth. Freedom of speech is just another fake facade that is part of the..... In my dad's word "propaganda." Thanks dad☺️
Yeah judge replaced my brother as truste with the guy that was trying to take the money in first place! Guess what happened? He sold property n the money was all gone! My advice? Here................ Wow!!............... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sluNuVp2_TE.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BYtO7iPlb5c.html Look up Chuck missler
My brother was awarded a small amount of money in a car accident, and my mother had him set up for life, adding her house to him, living on the interest (and very modestly), and California, Sacramento, county Conservatorship (And APS) tore it apart without using protocol (mostly rumor, inner family conflict) was basically justified... Two years later, my sister and I are objecting, citing even our own Constitutional -family rights were not considered (brother was declared a Dependent Adult), was never given his personal rights, we were deceived, a car of his worth 23,000.00 is gone, house sold (we suspect unclean business deal on that), they tried to convict my sister and restrain her (judge ruled against them, but sister was not in court, so she got a restraining order put on her, punishment by default?). We are low income, cannot hire an attorney, go against county employees ourselves, and no Pro Bonos available. Court on 15th and feel no hope as well as I am not well versed in law.. Any advice?
Exactly what I said... County Conservators here in California "fighting" to keep from family (and brother wants family too), so I told them to keep the money and I will take my brother back... If he were poor, unfortunately, those shamelessly taking until he is.He has real needs ahead just to sleep, use restroom, transporting him that his medical won't cover, attorney would only allow me to email her about his hair cut dispute bills (over 1,900.00 for two years and he thought they were 25.00!) Raging on without much help. Law is NOT equal, unfair and even county clerks who process paperwork, will not help with practical knowledge and say they are not allowed! This is horrible. Brother caught in a web! 15 days before court, I objected on bill, violation of Constitutional rights of family and brother's personal rights.. Haven't file anything, don't know forms.. (Really would like Field of Discovery in our case..Any feedback?
hi tank you judge from hearing you i just confirm my suspicions a Male Judge has discriminated sexually against my mother he did not consider her genders way of thinking she never kept a husband because she always felt misunderstood by them the judge decision is against her way of thinking so he's committed negligence by not considering her ,,he can't possible know how a Mother thinks
You can make the hole again... whT a load of shit.. your only looking at the action not the causes to make that action and guess what they are a product of there environmen so its thise around them.. very often the same family members that are putting them in guardian ship that have caused the problem in order to steal there shares.
