Your dad hit the nail on the head regarding the ummrah. Ive always said the same too, its ridiculous that anyoje would go ummrah so many times. Why not pay for someone else to go? I know ppl that go ummrah every yr but r stil carrying on with their dodgy ways. Totally defeats the point of going in the 1st place
As you said, a lot of your views towards Pakistani people are close minded and a result of your own negative experience from which you’re generalising.