PSYCHOTHERAPY - Melanie Klein

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Melanie Klein was a great psychotherapist who teaches us how to stop either idealising or denigrating others.
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@francoisrenedecotret4950 2 года назад

As a psychologist, I find this Melanie Klein video very well put together. From what I know, it is an excellent presentation of concepts that are difficult to understand and that tend to be neglected by universities nowadays. Bravo!

@Dr.AlessandroDrago 8 лет назад

Melanie Klein is a genius, she gave possibility to understand difference between bipolar/borderline and neurotic state, with her study about children

@Diana-sb4yl Год назад

Personally I would burn dsm5

@paulwolinsky1538 11 месяцев назад

@@Diana-sb4yl I would burn insurance companies and pharmaceuticals.

@sacredsoma 7 лет назад

This animation was superb the choice of images the statues all very fun, thank you

@LeriObba 9 лет назад

The breast giveth, and the breast taketh away.....

@giosueagius7003 5 лет назад

Oh Lord Voldemort ! " Pettigrew shrieks in the corner"

@adrianacasteloh 8 лет назад

You should do a Carl Jung video... And videos of other currents in psychology! They help me study a lot :)

@Librarymania 7 лет назад

Adriana Castelo agreed!! I would love to see The School of Life cover Jung. Also, Carl Rogers / humanism would be brilliant for this channel. Viktor Frankl / logotherapy / existential analysis too. Oh, oh, and Erich Fromme! (Can you tell I was a psych major?)

@arpitsingh2394 7 лет назад

Psychologists Like Maslow, Skinner, Watson & Adler etc. videos may be done about them too. Humanistic Psychology - Self Actualisation, Behaviourism - Classical & Operant Conditioning, Individual Psychology etc. there are other sub-branches of Psychology which may be introduced to us viewers as all of them have something important in understanding the human psyche and our everyday growth in maturity.

@ModulerDrone 8 лет назад

Excellent presentation of how ambivalence can confuse and distress, sometimes leading to depression. Thank you so much for these videos, they're my daily medicine!

@bimetsherojne233 8 лет назад

the voice over is great. you are inspiring me to do psychotherapy, i never thought it will sound appealing to me .thank for inspiring

@xxIluvyouguysxx 4 года назад

I’m in grad school for counseling and your videos are helping me!

@lodzkapatologia 8 лет назад

Please make videos on: - Viktor E. Frankl (logotheraphy) - CBT theraphy Amazing channel, keep up the good work!

@CuttinInIdaho 2 месяца назад

9 years on, and this is one of the better edited videos of all time. so fun and funny to watch

@omg9261 4 года назад

loved these psychotherapy videos, thank you!

@Rajj854 8 лет назад

Your videos are excellent. This must be the best corner of YT

@Leomeenbanad 8 лет назад

This is probably my favourite channel on RU-vid, the use of pictures alongside Alain De Botton's voice is pure harmony! One thing I have noticed is that there is no referencing and citing like in vSauces's videos. Obviously that may interfere with the pace of the production but I suppose general ideas and concepts are usually covered so there may not be a need (just a thought). Also, I would love to see different era's in art covered in one video, like impressionism, cubism etc. And maybe some music related topics? A big thank you to all involved at the School of Life! (:

@therespectedlex9794 Год назад

He forgot to mention that she looked just like Stephen Fry.

@bluebellbeatnik4945 Год назад

@@therespectedlex9794 maybe because he's not a misogynistic pig who expects women to be attractive to men? maybe this channel is too smart for your dumb brain. go watch andrew tate.

@RichardKoenigsberg Год назад

What a great series of videos this is. Making psychoanalytic ideas, which sometimes seem fantastic, into elements of ordinary life.

@lenavoyles526 Год назад

Psychoanalytic ideas seem “fantastic” because they deal with the unconscious mind, which is by its very definition always going to be fantastic from the perspective of the conscious mind. Fantastic > fantasy > autonomous action of the subconscious

@shueibdahir 9 месяцев назад

6:01 it was by this moment when I took a big gulp with an anxious look in my face as I realised that this entire section on adults had been talking about me. One thing I'd like to add to this is that the child starts to develop even more ego defences as they mature physically. Imaginaty friends that want to help you and love you or imagining a future where we are finally loved is part of this same paranoid-schizophrenic position

@aquafeb1 9 лет назад

Thank you for this. Really helpful

@elliesanders1896 7 лет назад

Thanks for a great lesson.

@demianhaki7598 9 лет назад

Great topic! I think the benefit of realizing that people are ambivalent, even though it may ruin our image of some and can be very difficult to cope with, is to also realize that therefore those who some think "evil" are not necessarily as hopelessly lost as one might think.

@lenavoyles526 Год назад

I’m inclined to think that getting a handle on one’s projections is more useful than succumbing to the inability to feel anything “too positive” or “too negative”. It may be that Klein’s ambivalence is just a recipe for nihilism. Makes me think of Alfie Kohn’s reference to Monty Python’s “How to Get Hit on the Head” skit. It seems like this ambivalence is just a coping mechanism for a childhood lacking attunement, where ruptures are seldom repaired in a timely manner.

@rgcthat 9 лет назад

Wow this really opens your eyes love this channel

@IlGattoCheFuma 6 лет назад

I love how Bieber pops up when he says something you hate XDDD

@ronymicaelavelasco4816 3 года назад

this is nice i hope you continue doing it!

@SkiKat-USA 4 года назад

Excellent! Very useful and interesting information. I had heard of her but knew nothing about her.

@javier77ocam 8 лет назад

Excelente trabajo! Muy bien resumido y entendible.

@user-gm2kv3ot7c 2 года назад

I love what Elyn Saks said about how much she benefited from a therapist who practices were based on Klein's methods. I would've preferred someone to challenge me and try to understand me rather than just ignore me and keep me medicated. Makes you feel less human There are still rules in an alternative reality.

@LifeIsInteresting1 7 лет назад

this was awesome!

@PWOAUS 4 года назад

Very helpful to review prior to exams. Thanks! please consider doing other theorists.

@user-km4tc6ln4c 2 года назад

excellent video thanks. interesting and fun!

@figueiredomaira 8 лет назад

Excelent, as always! This one, howeverm is a bit uncomfortable to watch because the blue background keeps blinking. At some point I just had to look away and only hear the rest of the video.

@sjr1179 4 года назад

LMAO i thought it was just me!!! god help anyone with epilepsy

@engelsksommarregn 9 лет назад

Very interesting! I've had these thoughts myself, but very obscure (Leibniz). I'll definitely look into her theory :) Thanks for another very superb video!

@leojablonski2309 2 года назад

Love it. No mumbo jumbo. Do more....many more.

@juliolco7421 9 лет назад

Do one on Lacan psychoanalysis please :) ! And do one on Karl Popper philosophy/epistemology please

@onemanukuleleband3497 8 лет назад

i can completely understand the language but even if i couldnt this mans' voice can therapy me!

@shelleyofthered9062 8 лет назад

bravo, well done video

@philbori6655 9 лет назад

very good channel love your work :)

@princessnikkifernandez3320 3 года назад

EXCELLENT !!

@frensisss Год назад

Thank u, I found this video very helpful

@trenthogan4212 5 лет назад

More psychology and philosophy please!

@Spartavian 4 года назад

Learning, using the Feynman technique to make videos on a vast range of interesting subjects; what a way to make a living. Fulfilling, if nerdy.

@jose_500 8 лет назад

outstanding video

@oasisneko1 7 лет назад

Very interesting video!!

@Dr_anika_psychiatrist 2 года назад

Nicely explained

@shreyamundada4364 5 лет назад

Good research

@khrystinekelsey1223 5 лет назад

I love The School of Life but the images in this one are particularly witty!

@sugandhsai 7 лет назад

Dude you should go to ted talks ....You appear to be one the smartest youtubers i can find on youtube. spread your ideas. My guess is you study all this out of your interest and i feel you would have connected a few dots across some ideas. please share some of your ideas even if they arent well formed it would be interesting to see them in their in their initial points of formation.kind of like the evolution of an idea.

@sugandhsai 7 лет назад

i just commented on one video ....but all of them are amazing .....i am sure you understand i dont agree with all of them(it could be a lack of understanding or perspective on my side.) ...but i do agree that there is a lot of substance in them. hats off.

@dannynoon013910 7 лет назад

man this is gonna make your day - this guy has done a ted talk www.ted.com/talks/alain_de_botton_a_kinder_gentler_philosophy_of_success he is a philosopher called alain de botton, he has also written books and done documentaries for british telivision

@danmisha1 6 лет назад

Allan De Botton, the voice on these vids has sold millions of books... check him out

@merri5437 7 лет назад

As soon as you were explaining the "Paranoid-Schizoid Position" I immediately thought of Dorian Gray. Not sure if I am correct about that though.

@moum23 3 года назад

The narcissist. In terms of Klein's theory, they are unable to move past the paranoid schizoid position and so can never accept reality that is ambivalent. They are perfect and any hint of a flaw causes a meltdown.

@lenavoyles526 Год назад

Actually, it just hit me: Feelings of ambivalence are THE justification for Avoidant Attachment Style. Is Klein ultimately responsible for psychology’s great crime of the 20th century: holding up the MOST unhealthy style of attachment as the very definition of “maturity”? -- “We made a big mistake many years ago. We went along with this cultural idea that strong people were separate people… What we realize now is that’s an actually fragile place to be.” - Dr. Sue Johnson

@judithmalik7957 6 лет назад

excellent overview of Klein's psychotherapeutic beliefs.

@christianlow7676 8 лет назад

Do one on Heinz Kohut / Self Psychology, please ;-)

@Sinclairelim 9 лет назад

Could you pleaaaaase please please make a video on Gregory Bateson?

@ailithic5448 6 лет назад

I always think that a dog is only as smart as the years it has lived and the quality of its time spent doing so :) and apply the thought that if I was the animal I would have only learned in the end to be an animal or dog.

@ThePeaceableKingdom 9 лет назад

What software is used to animate these cartoon like videos? I don't mean what is used to create the images themselves, but what is used to make images and text move as they do across the screen? I find the look both eye-catching and entertaining.

@mohsilah 2 года назад

Tanks brother

@Alexxactly 9 лет назад

never heard of her! liked it :) may i suggest you to make a video about Erich Fromm? i think you put him in a both philosophy and psychology sections

@Juka161 3 года назад

Fromm who?

4 месяца назад

informative!

@clonthepathtoapath2389 6 лет назад

great take on depression at the end of video pre-dispostion for growth (accomodating a non-neat non-moral reality) and not an illness - is that right?

@Mtrospectiv 7 лет назад

The good breast/bad breast part explained Stewie Griffin's behavior in te first few season's of Family guy perfectly.

@mralias47 7 лет назад

you should do political theory of Emma Goldman !!!!

@letheantears2937 7 лет назад

It would make more sense to do one on Kropotkin. Emma Goldman was more of an activist than a theorist.

@dannynoon013910 7 лет назад

well she did write essays and formed a journal called 'mother earth' , i get your point about kropotkin though. de botton dosnt seem to fucks with much anarchism which is a shame because anarchist ideas seem to be so missrepresented in todays society

@lulumartinez4592 9 лет назад

Great, I can´t wait for the one talking about Jaques Lacan

@PeterGregoryKelly 5 лет назад

Her ideas of infant perception thinking people are just objects are now dated that we know babies are born with facial recognition hard wired into their brains and other neurological findings.

@Star-dj1kw 4 месяца назад

❤excellent video

@Drexistential 8 лет назад

CARL JUNG!!! PLEASE DO!

@MrFireboyFTW 9 лет назад

awesome

@noctiel 8 лет назад

I'd like to translate the captions into spanish, can you open the possibility?

@TheSassi14 7 лет назад

I was staring into the distance often as a child.

@TheSassi14 7 лет назад

nothing interesting to look at and when you stare into the distance it is easier to focus on your thoughts.

@yash1551 8 лет назад

I would say School of Life, it would be lovely to have some musicians involve. Bob Marley? John Lenon, or Elvis Presley. They have some how influenced all of us. Or perhaps a bit of Movies evolution, and how that has effected us. A look at some semiotics or communication authors such as Ferdinand de Saussure, Charles Sanders Pierce, or Roland Barthes, are all very interesting people to study. Wouldn't you agree?

@lethalmuffin101 7 лет назад

plz do jung soon! Thanks ur loving viewr LD

@ristaniaherlinda3821 8 лет назад

hi school of life, I'm ur new watcher .. I really love ur video 'bout psychotherapy .. what if you post about some of psychology's ideologies? it's pretty useful and easier to understand for a student of psychology like me 😆😆 hope you read it .. thanks for uploading these video 😊😊

@stabiljka 8 лет назад

+Ristania Herlinda This is not a site for helping lazy students do their homework.

@carloscano8848 3 года назад

I hit this depressive state at about 19

@shadyarmy623 9 месяцев назад

Me at the age of 25 😅

@MrFailep 8 лет назад

More!!!!!!!! plz?

@Joshuani 4 года назад

i think i am stuck in the paranoid/schizoid stage, i'm a 27 year old man. does anybody have any advice? i won't be able to pay for therapy until after the lockdown. thanks in advance!

@Toxeensynth 2 года назад

she was the best

@Nippip1 9 лет назад

Seems like Terry Gilliam had creative control of this video ...

@samjudge1240 9 лет назад

You just have to put justin beever in it with bad turn don't yer? Heheh very humorous and well told.

@nodiggity8746 8 лет назад

Do one of Pirandello, he's an Italian writer

@PamelaMonestel Год назад

❤ después de ayer fue duro pero lo logre 🥰

@Kahal2010 Год назад

Hola a los compañeros del curso corto "Amor y Pleitos en la familia" del CENTRO ELEIA 2022.

@waidanward 9 лет назад

The way I learned this, it was a dynamic theory. All about continued oscillation between the two poles, even as an adult. I think this is a much more powerful take. We all have these tendencies and of course it depends what is stressing / challenging us at the time how likely we are to resort to splitting. Show me a politician who doesn't split when under pressure: that is where enemies come from.

@lenavoyles526 Год назад

Does it come from splitting, or from projection of something repressed? I don’t know if Klein ever addressed whether these children were also being punished by the person who fed them - if not, that’s a major oversight. Punishment = repressed rage = lots of Shadow stuff to project onto others. The fact that splitting does not seem to occur in children raised in tribal societies with much higher levels of attunement and a complete absence of punishment is a pretty big tip off.

@kathrinjohnson2582 4 года назад

I'm gonna need therapy after watching this 😵 I never think of babies the same

@mostafaazizichannel 9 лет назад

Please do more profile videos!!!!

@labyrinth564 9 лет назад

The narrator speaks of a child's wise gaze as a support for Klein's ideas. Is there a source for this?

@Pixelkvist 9 лет назад

WOW! Is she related to Stephen Fry? :P They look so much alike!

@demianhaki7598 9 лет назад

You should check out the twitter feed of "Mrs Stephen Fry" :-D

@ultraboy99x 8 лет назад

Can you do one about boredom? Thanks!

@stabiljka 8 лет назад

+uwais qarani What boredom? Do bored people still exist today?

@BigHenFor 7 лет назад

stabiljka Go work on a production line in a factory for 8 hours or more, doing the same thing everyday, with the same people, and the same management who see you as an extension of the machines, for years on end and then ask.

@DC502_ 2 года назад

How would splitting the mother into good and bad help the infant's anxiety?

@bernie-cs3rp 5 месяцев назад

They chose this image, Melanie Klein lives today, known as Stephen Fry

@RufusDinaricus 9 лет назад

4:05 Who painted this picture?

@mltiago 8 лет назад

Françoise Dolto!!!!!!

@yeghor 9 лет назад

***** Is the paranoid schizoid position somehow related to ego-splitting manifested in those with NPD and BPD as well as those with codependent traits, who idealize and then devalue potential partners?

@marilynaudrey 8 лет назад

+yeghor yes it is related, all these people operate mainly in the panaroid schizoid position

@nicolasceronm.1678 8 лет назад

I feel guilty now.

@missellenmartin4152 3 года назад

That’s ok dude 🧚🏻‍♀️ Own it :) it’s normal human development 💕

@briannajanebryson5675 8 лет назад

What painting is that at 4:05?

@yashjhingan9754 4 года назад

Wow! Maybe this explains why some people are obsessed with Bobs!

@willferrous8677 9 лет назад

Now, if only enough video game writers can watch this video

@Nightkill12345 8 лет назад

Maybe Carl Rogers next?

@mre6201 9 лет назад

is there only going to be psychoanlisis?

@dragoste1970 8 лет назад

Otto Rank would be great, as an opposite to Freud.

@Geoffrey454 7 лет назад

I'm seeing a lot of the theories about personality disorders and their development...

@DistortedV12 8 лет назад

Perhaps some modern psychotherapists? Seligman, Beck, etc.?

@PeterGregoryKelly 5 лет назад

Seligman learned happiness is more like learned delusions and learned gullibility.

@karmastar06 9 лет назад

2:35 off topic but what is the painting?

@YuriBarron 4 года назад

'Ionian Dancing Girl' by John William Godward

@tomie3977 3 года назад

5:08 justin bieber appeared when he said hate 😂

@78rupp 9 лет назад

What happens if you were bottle fed?

@Creepovision 9 лет назад

I'd love to see some research on this. Is there a prevalence of oral fixation, of emotional instability, proneness to depression, disconnection from others, anxiety?

@babyyLove77 9 лет назад

the "breasts" are not meant literally. -.- the "breasts" are just a picture for you to understand that the baby in its early days is reducing the mother to her milk-giving qualities.

@78rupp 9 лет назад

K Ya So will the baby link the mother with the milk-giving qualities if she bottle feeds as the bottle is not physically part of her?